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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Especially and the jam In Morning show with DJ Foreign
It's Sauti.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
When you need to know, we got you Three things
you need to know on Boston's number one for hip
hop and the best throwbacks you Haven't any more five Wednesday,
June twenty fifth, and Karen Reid and Diddy might be
hanging out way sooner than you think. People, freak god,
I never know. Diddy's defense rested yesterday after a measly
(00:26):
thirty minutes three zero, just half of an hour, that's all.
They felt like they needed, no not a single witness
on that stand. They simply just submitted evidence because they
felt like the prosecution did not do their job of
proving beyond a reasonable doubt that Diddy should be charged
with these racketeering and sex trafficking charges. What is the
remainder of the week gonna look like off Today Tomorrow
(00:49):
they will have the closing arguments, and that means that
there is a very very high possibility this jury could
get the case by Monday, meaning Diddy might be out
and about celebrating in Miami for the.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Fourth Maybe they were effective in that short amount of time,
but as Diddy, I would have liked a lot more
at least a day or two to prove my case.
But again, like who the hell knows, and maybe by
the fourth he's freaking off.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Thirty minutes, I mean, thirty minutes is legitimately nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
It's like half a lot.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
At Yeah, you might wait for a sandwich for that long.
Like it's it's just truly nothing. So you really wonder
is that a tactic or did they genuinely just believe
like they didn't have much to say because the prosecution
did not do their job.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
I don't know, I'm on that side.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
I think it's it's more of a confidence thing than
as opposed to we don't have anything to say because
we can't say anything. I think they like, oh, this
is this is useless.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
What are here trying to prove? There's nothing?
Speaker 4 (01:41):
And you know what they did out the gate, they
just said, yes, it was an abusive relationship, which it
was so, and they kind of kept making that clear
throughout the case. Okay, cool, Yeah, y'all don't like the freaks,
but y'all were asking for the free calls, so you
never know.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
You know, there wasn't a big bombshell thing because I
feel like we've all wasn't All the stuff that came out.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Was at her like I never heard that bro like
to liok like that was wild. Yeah, that was different.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I forgot about that now I want to vomit. That's crazy.
I yeah that there was a couple things that did
he was into sexually that took me back, like I
had to. It was startled me.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
But they all kind of go down the path of
his like sick kinks and like the freak off stuff.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Then we can say what it is like. There were
always rumors that did he was into men? I think
that we kind of got the confirmation on that.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Yeah, get painted.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
The similarities between you and him. Yeah, maybe that was
far either way? Did he could be looking at life
and we might know if he's gonna get its. Middle
to end of next week, we shall see. Uh. Cardi
b doing just fine. She's on vacation with our guy,
our receiver, step On Diggs. He rented out a castle
(02:54):
for her in France. This man is savage. I think
that isn't a castle. Hey, look at this like that, Kimiie,
we staying in some place like this? This is insane.
She seems really happy, man, I mean the castle has
a moat dining hall and indoor pool, seamed bathrooms and
like Santi said, a lot of concrete.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Yeah, just getting moss cold, like all the time.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
It's cool you get to sleep in a castle with
your man.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I mean, if you're in France and you're renting that,
why not rent a chateau which is cozy or not
her castle?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Either way, it was because she made a she you know,
she said, every time I'm in Europe, I'm always busy,
I'm working, I'm doing things. I would love to go
see a castle. And he was like, oh no, let
me get you a castle. That's I like that energy.
By the way, if you're a Pats fan, you're thinking,
I don't want him in any castle. I want him
in a gym. He brought his trainer. They were working
out for hours and hours and hours. Cardi B's like,
this man takes zero days off.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Yeah, which you have to appreciate it as a Pats fan.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, we need that all right. Lastly, Travis Scott teaming
up with Oakleigh, so the fashion Eyewear has officially named
them their him their very first chief visionary. This was needed. Yeah, Oakleys,
we're kind of taking a turn into like we're not
wearing Oakley's anymore.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Well, you know what they are. They're really good for sports.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yes, then that's it, And that's it, Trav said. I'm
inspired by what people think can't be done. I'm about
pushing culture and reworking ideas to see how far they
can go. Oakley's design game is next level, and I
had to be a part of that. We're building something
that blends legacy with the future. This is just the beginning.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Their contract is expected to last several years, and it's
unknown what his official duties will be in the New World.
But my guess is to make them cool again.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Yeah, that's it. Like the ski goggles are also pretty amazing.
They're like range box.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
That's where I feel like I see people skiing with
Oakley's and I can't. But I think about the It
gives like seven to eleven, Dad, Well can't. You're running?
You got your sunglasses, so you just grabbing them and going.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I wear them for baseball and I wear them when
I'm out on the road just just taking a run.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
But besides that, the on the road just taking a run,
Oakley's nice five is okay. There's three things need to
know for Wednesday, June twenty fifth. These are floor seats.
People to go see Tyler the Creator at the Garden
on July eighth. Six one seven, nine, three one one
nine twenty five.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
It's Ashley ended jam in Morning Show with DJ Forourn
and Saunty and.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
It's time for another DM dilemma. Hi, everybody. We call
it DM dilemma because you know, it's just like its name. Basically,
I always tell people if you're going through something but
you feel like your family, your friends, your girlfriends, your boyfriends,
everyone's just too close to the situation, we can help you.
You know, we don't. We don't know everybody, We don't
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know all parts of the of the tales. You can
kind of tell us and then we'll open up the
phone lines and other people can help you as well.
Six one seven nine three one one four five. If
you're somebody that wants to submit a DM dilemma to us,
you can send it to my personal ig at Ashley
Feldman A S H L E E F E L
D M A N. And again, I just think you know,
(06:01):
it's tough sometimes to go to your family and friends
because they're too close to it, right, they know all
the people. They may have already had this preconceived notion
about how they feel about ABCD, so to kind of
give it to us. We're coming into this wide open. Okay.
This one is from an anonymous She says, if you
guys have any advice, I'd really appreciate it. My ex
boyfriend and I recently split because he cheated on me
(06:23):
for a second time while out of town for a
work trip, only one year after the first time he cheated.
He says he's going to get therapy to fix his
issues and remain sober. He is struggling with a weed addiction,
and he will say celibate, so he says, to give
us another chance in the future. We've agreed to go
(06:44):
no contact for at least eight months. So do you
guys actually think he's truly capable of being celibate and
staying away from other women and being a good, committed partner.
We're still both in love with one another, but I'm
so heartbroken right now. I'm twenty one turning twenty two
this year and he's twenty three turning twenty four. He
(07:04):
claims he has really bad impulse issues and craves easily
or caves easily to peer pressure to overindulge in substances,
leading to this second incident.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
He needs the girl up. And I think what bothers
me about this the most that he's using two things
as a crush, the kind of mask what he's really
gonna do, because he's saying is take to to weed,
which fine, okay, fine.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Is this a real thing?
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I don't know if it's a real thing. Okay fine.
The other thing, he's gonna go to therapy. He's not.
He's just saying that to get back with her. He's
gonna get back with you and cheat on you.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
Again, and he might do therapy for a couple of
weeks and then just but yeah, to what Santi said,
we ain't making you cheat, bro, it's you that's making
you cheat if he's giving you every because once the
weed's out of it, it's going to be something else,
and then he's gonna be something else, and then it's
gonna be something else, like nah, he's and he's still young.
Why are we committing at twenty two?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Am I the only one too that thinks like eight
months is a very long like most people might take
a break for like, yeah, a month, two months, eight
whole that's a whole year.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Yeah, and in that eight months, what do you think
he's going to be doing. He's gonna be out there
with other girls.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Well if he's telling her too, he has impulse issues
and he over indulges himself, like I I don't necessarily
you know, might be a not popular opinion. Think once
a cheater, always a cheat. Somebody might have done it
once and like, learn a lesson. I can see that,
But this man's done it now twice. To you, I
think he did it once and you were like, I'm
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taking you back and we're going to figure this out,
and then he did it again to you, don't set
yourself up for a third time.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Well, I think the tough thing is is that she's
twenty one and doesn't understand that something bad will come along.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
I know, and she'll be treated.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Yeah, twenty one, you.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Think it's the best thing in the world.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
All they might bounce back later on in life.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
I feel like, seriously committing to somebody at that age
is not the best I did because you haven't lived life.
You're straight out of high school not too many years back,
you know what I mean. You haven't really like lived
like this is the time for you to explore, have fun,
just like he's already talking about, I'm impulsive, which just
means he's going to be impulsive for a long time.
God's mature less, I'm not slower than women at twenty one.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Either of my daughters come home from college and tell
me that they're getting married. No, you're not. We're going
to do our best to stop that, because you're you're
not even yourself. I don't know who you are, but
I guess the real question is that she wants to
know is do we think he's truly capable of being
a committed partner or should I walk away for good?
We're both still in love with each.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Other, walk away for good? It depends on his maturity.
It depends on his maturity. But he's young. To me,
he sounds young, he sounds immature, he sounds young minded. Yeah,
which just means that he ain't gonna really do what
he's supposed to be doing. And again, it's up to
you whether you want to say if you know that,
or you want to stick around. Cool, But he's a
young twenty son, Neil, he's homeowns all over the place.
Then he's adding substances into the mix, which, yes, my
(09:46):
make and make bad decisions. But how long are you
going to take that excuse for that? You know, I
drink and slipped into some you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Yeah, yeah, sulls us. But let's see what everybody else thinks.
Let's run up the phone line six one seven nine
three one five six one seven nine three one one
four five will go through and quick? Should she stay
or should she go? It's DM dilemma only on JAM
ninety four five. Good morning, I love the song. Come on,
(10:15):
you know you're dancing? You know?
Speaker 5 (10:19):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Everybody, good morning. We're doing a little DM dilemma here.
She's staying anonymous, but essentially her boyfriend has cheated on her,
not once, but twice, and they have decided to go
eight months no contact, and she wants to know straight up,
do we believe that he can do it? Can he
go eight months with you know outputting? I'm getting a
little graphic, but can he just keep it in his pants?
(10:41):
Can he just can he just not be acting crazy?
Mind you, she's twenty one and he is twenty three,
about to be twenty four. Does she stay or does
she go? Madison is in Braintree, what do we think?
Speaker 6 (10:56):
I think that she should go. This girl is my
age and I've been through a similar thing, and we're
at our age. We're too young with our for me
at least with like insecurities and overthinking everything like that.
We're not mature enough to like have to deal with
that and then just say eight months with that, I
(11:17):
think she should just leave because there's two times already.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Just leave.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Listen, I'm with you and this whole. I don't know
where the number eighteen from eight months is damn near
a year? Like why why are we waiting that long?
That's crazy? Like I have changed. Good Bye, Madison, thank
you for the call. Matt is in Native. Let's get
a guy's opinion on this. Matt, stay or.
Speaker 5 (11:39):
Go right off the jump? Knowing the age, I feel
like they shouldn't go for it again. I think they should.
I think you should walk away and they both should
be exploring. He clearly needs to figure out who he
is and kind of like what he wants. In my opinion,
I can I could relate to you on a partner
(12:01):
in the past, not proud of it at all. I've
learned and helped me grow and all that, But I
think this man is just searching for validation that he's
not getting from this girl for whatever reason, and probably
because he has poor communication skills. Like most men, I've learned.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Through my say it again louder.
Speaker 5 (12:20):
Yeah, I mean I've went through it, so I've gone
through the therapy, and you know there's you can't blame
it on a substance. You just can't, Yeah, because you
chose to do the substance and you knew that substance
would put you in a predicament. So like, he's young,
so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt, but
(12:42):
he's got a lot to learn, and she's got you know,
she's got the right to walk away, and you want
to open the door.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
Yeah, I mean, like, who knows a lot of things
could happen in eight months. But I'm kind of with you, Matt.
I think if we're talking about two people that are
in their late thirties early forties, I mean, I think
it's a different conversation. But they don't know who they
are yet, right, they're babies, they're making mistakes and they're
learning lessons. Now is the time to do that. I
thank you for the call that by the way. By
(13:09):
the way, I feel like we just have a little
therapy sash right there. This is very honest, man, Matt.
Do you have Are you taken now?
Speaker 6 (13:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (13:19):
Actually the girl that I cheated on were actually.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Married, so wow.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Talk about a tour, Matt. Yeah, okay, lessons learn the.
Speaker 5 (13:31):
Official ceremonies in August, but we're we're married on the
books as of the year in August.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
Oh my god. You know what I just said. You know,
I don't necessarily stand by once a cheater, always a cheater.
You made a mistake, you learned from it, you did
the work, and now you get yourself a wife.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
I'm thirty one too, and we were together, you know,
for ten years, so there was you know, I'm not
walking away from something that we built. It was it
was a foolish a foolish move. Yeah, and I learned
a ton so I just began to be older to
kind of go through it.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
Yeah, I agree, Matt. Thank you so much for the call,
and listen, we don't have a ton of time, but
the rest of the calls are saying the same things.
You know, no one deserves chances if they've already crossed boundaries.
She needs to go. And this is a big one
that I like shot to Nia and in Dorchester. She said,
when a man tells you who he is, leave him.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Like he smoke so much weed that he cheats. That
just sounds crazy.
Speaker 6 (14:20):
It really does blame.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
But that guy matt Man has done the work and
that's a good example of that.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
That's what I mean. If if if it comes out
that he in this eight months puts that much work
into it and he wants to make it, maybe give
him another chance. But I think in this eight months
she needs to just concentrate on herself, you know, and
let him go. Wow, we sound so much sure, we're
not kind at times sometimes maybe fourign when it was
a Black.
Speaker 5 (14:46):
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Speaker 1 (14:50):
Got major problems on the Masspike eastbound, bumper to bump
a traffic from framing him all the way through to
Fenway Park. I'm assuming it's going to take you at
least ninety minutes getting through this disaster. In ninety three
southbound again parking lot from one twenty eight down to.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
The Zacam Anonymous was listening that entire time. She just
hit me and she said, I appreciate the advice. I'm
really going to try to take this time to concentrate
on myself. But right now it just feels like the
world is ending. And you know, and I understand that
feeling so much. I think we've discussed this, but one
thing that a lot of people have in common is
having gone through a breakup. There's no worse feeling. I mean,
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you really do feel like your life is over. You
can't see anything past what your life was with that person.
And I you know, because I've been through it, and
because I've I've been in the thick of it. I've
been cheated on, it's been embarrassing and all of the things.
The answer really sucks, but it's time. And I told
her every day will get easier, but right now she's
(15:48):
just in the thick of it and it's hard to
see that. But the age old answer to how to
get over a breakup is time.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
At twenty, my ex broke up with me. Was the
end of my world. I was called the police, I
called the police, I called my mom, I I did everything,
but it turned out to be the best thing in
my life, like, honestly, the best thing ever.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
Breakups are horrible, Like there's just no way.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
Around that, and not twenty you feel like the world.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Has it's over, it's done. And I said that like.
Speaker 4 (16:14):
By the time you get to this our age and
you're like, dude, like, why was I tripping over twenty Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
I look back at that. I want to slap myself.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
She didn't even clean. Sorry I talk about.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
She didn't cluing the coup? What down there?
Speaker 1 (16:31):
This report? It's say in the jam In Morning Show
with DJ four and it's Sauty Good morning.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Bastin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four five.
All Right, everybody, Hi, hello, good morning. You know, I
just think this is something that we should address because
it's only happening to one person on the show. It's
not happening to you. It's not happening to me. Let
me ask you this. Have you, Santi ever been banned
(16:59):
from Facebook? Have you, Santi ever been banned from Instagram?
Speaker 1 (17:03):
I never asked me, Actually, have you ever been banned
from Facebook?
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Never?
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Actually, have you ever been banned from Instagram?
Speaker 2 (17:09):
I have never. Now it's really fun. Have you been
banned from Facebook?
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Yes? I have, Yes, I have.
Speaker 4 (17:20):
You to look in the I've attended bulk jails the
Facebook jail. I got put in there because I said
a word like dumb. Maybe I said that was a
dumb move.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
It was a reference to those two girls. I remember
there was a picture of two I don't even remember what.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Was the time he got bad. Okay, the first time
he went to Facebook jail, he said something stupid like
I think it was about something like.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
I don't even know it, whatever it was, but in
the equivalent of like, oh, that's a dumb joke or
something like that. But because I used the word dumb,
they took that as offensive language and threw me in
in Facebook jails crazy, which is wild to me because
they take everything out of context. Now, I wake up
this morning and I noticed my time feeded like is
acting weird. I'm like, do I need to update the app?
My app is updated? And then I eventually went into
(18:03):
my DMS and it says you cannot send dms for
three days.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
I said, what so Instagram is giving people detention?
Speaker 4 (18:10):
Now I don't facts. They then say, see why I
tap I follow it? It goes you violated something in
the messenger or something. They tell me, I can't monetize
right now, I can't post nothing right now for three days,
I go look at the It's a story, bro, it's
not a post. This is what's driving me insane. It's
not a post. Yeah, it's not a post. It's a
story that I posted in twenty eleven or something like
(18:34):
that or twenty twenty one. And they're like, oh this, Violet.
I'm like, the story last twenty four hours. And you
know what it was?
Speaker 3 (18:41):
What it was a picture of a kid pulling his
pants down on.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
A on what it was a kid pulling case he's
eyes standing on a mattress and it's a young kid,
small kid, pulling down his pants. And the caption says,
I lied, I don't got Netflix. It's hilarious to me. Yeah, yeah,
I don't know. It's ahilarious to me. It's hilarious.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
I'll post that up.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
And all of a sudden they say that not sexual
pornography and child all of this.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
I'm like, what the hell is going on?
Speaker 6 (19:08):
I want to laugh?
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Yeo laugh, it's hilarious.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
We got on a mattress and it says I.
Speaker 4 (19:13):
Don't The kid is pulling down his pants and the
cat says, I lied, I don't have Netflix.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
You don't get it?
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Yeah, I told you to come over.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Let's chaill with Netflix. And how old is he?
Speaker 3 (19:25):
He's a baby?
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Yep, you know who I stand with Instagram, Instagram daddy and.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
The Morning Show with d J four and it's sautific.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Morning Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety
four or five. How right, everybody that's gonna do it
for us? I want to give a shout out, which
I don't usually do, to Eliza Krasinski. I love Channel seven,
very nice lady.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
And to Joe and Joe they seem very happy.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
Santi.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
Yeah, shout out to star Quality eighty two.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
Mikey.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
He's on his way to Canneedy. I assume birthday, Happy birthday,
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
Either he was just a random canopy trip. It's a
birthday Candevy trip bro.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
This is the only place DJ FORRN is allowed to
give shout outs. He's blocked on all other networks.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
So go ahead, yeh, shout out say anybody, of course.
Speaker 4 (20:15):
Actually to ease in the am at DJ forn again
assemble moment for the DJ community and.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
For Gemini for five as a whole.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
We got to say rest in peace to our brother
DJ Fingers who passed away yesterday again. Condolencence to all
his friends family. This one I see everybody posting. It's
it's heartbreaking to see, but rest in paradise.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
Bro.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Thoughts and prayers continue to be with the family. Rip
to DJ fingers, we will talk to you tomorrow
Especially and the jam In Morning show with DJ Foreign
It's Sauti.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
When you need to know, we got you Three things
you need to know on Boston's number one for hip
hop and the best throwbacks you Haven't any more five Wednesday,
June twenty fifth, and Karen Reid and Diddy might be
hanging out way sooner than you think. People, freak god,
I never know. Diddy's defense rested yesterday after a measly
(00:26):
thirty minutes three zero, just half of an hour, that's all.
They felt like they needed, no not a single witness
on that stand. They simply just submitted evidence because they
felt like the prosecution did not do their job of
proving beyond a reasonable doubt that Diddy should be charged
with these racketeering and sex trafficking charges. What is the
remainder of the week gonna look like off Today Tomorrow
(00:49):
they will have the closing arguments, and that means that
there is a very very high possibility this jury could
get the case by Monday, meaning Diddy might be out
and about celebrating in Miami for the.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Fourth Maybe they were effective in that short amount of time,
but as Diddy, I would have liked a lot more
at least a day or two to prove my case.
But again, like who the hell knows, and maybe by
the fourth he's freaking off.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Thirty minutes, I mean, thirty minutes is legitimately nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
It's like half a lot.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
At Yeah, you might wait for a sandwich for that long.
Like it's it's just truly nothing. So you really wonder
is that a tactic or did they genuinely just believe
like they didn't have much to say because the prosecution
did not do their job.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
I don't know, I'm on that side.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
I think it's it's more of a confidence thing than
as opposed to we don't have anything to say because
we can't say anything. I think they like, oh, this
is this is useless.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
What are here trying to prove? There's nothing?
Speaker 4 (01:41):
And you know what they did out the gate, they
just said, yes, it was an abusive relationship, which it
was so, and they kind of kept making that clear
throughout the case. Okay, cool, Yeah, y'all don't like the freaks,
but y'all were asking for the free calls, so you
never know.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
You know, there wasn't a big bombshell thing because I
feel like we've all wasn't All the stuff that came out.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Was at her like I never heard that bro like
to liok like that was wild. Yeah, that was different.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I forgot about that now I want to vomit. That's crazy.
I yeah that there was a couple things that did
he was into sexually that took me back, like I
had to. It was startled me.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
But they all kind of go down the path of
his like sick kinks and like the freak off stuff.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Then we can say what it is like. There were
always rumors that did he was into men? I think
that we kind of got the confirmation on that.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Yeah, get painted.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
The similarities between you and him. Yeah, maybe that was
far either way? Did he could be looking at life
and we might know if he's gonna get its. Middle
to end of next week, we shall see. Uh. Cardi
b doing just fine. She's on vacation with our guy,
our receiver, step On Diggs. He rented out a castle
(02:54):
for her in France. This man is savage. I think
that isn't a castle. Hey, look at this like that, Kimiie,
we staying in some place like this? This is insane.
She seems really happy, man, I mean the castle has
a moat dining hall and indoor pool, seamed bathrooms and
like Santi said, a lot of concrete.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Yeah, just getting moss cold, like all the time.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
It's cool you get to sleep in a castle with
your man.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I mean, if you're in France and you're renting that,
why not rent a chateau which is cozy or not
her castle?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Either way, it was because she made a she you know,
she said, every time I'm in Europe, I'm always busy,
I'm working, I'm doing things. I would love to go
see a castle. And he was like, oh no, let
me get you a castle. That's I like that energy.
By the way, if you're a Pats fan, you're thinking,
I don't want him in any castle. I want him
in a gym. He brought his trainer. They were working
out for hours and hours and hours. Cardi B's like,
this man takes zero days off.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Yeah, which you have to appreciate it as a Pats fan.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, we need that all right. Lastly, Travis Scott teaming
up with Oakleigh, so the fashion Eyewear has officially named
them their him their very first chief visionary. This was needed. Yeah, Oakleys,
we're kind of taking a turn into like we're not
wearing Oakley's anymore.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Well, you know what they are. They're really good for sports.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yes, then that's it, And that's it, Trav said. I'm
inspired by what people think can't be done. I'm about
pushing culture and reworking ideas to see how far they
can go. Oakley's design game is next level, and I
had to be a part of that. We're building something
that blends legacy with the future. This is just the beginning.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Their contract is expected to last several years, and it's
unknown what his official duties will be in the New World.
But my guess is to make them cool again.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Yeah, that's it. Like the ski goggles are also pretty amazing.
They're like range box.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
That's where I feel like I see people skiing with
Oakley's and I can't. But I think about the It
gives like seven to eleven, Dad, Well can't. You're running?
You got your sunglasses, so you just grabbing them and going.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I wear them for baseball and I wear them when
I'm out on the road just just taking a run.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
But besides that, the on the road just taking a run,
Oakley's nice five is okay. There's three things need to
know for Wednesday, June twenty fifth. These are floor seats.
People to go see Tyler the Creator at the Garden
on July eighth. Six one seven, nine, three one one
nine twenty five.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
It's Ashley ended jam in Morning Show with DJ Forourn
and Saunty and.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
It's time for another DM dilemma. Hi, everybody. We call
it DM dilemma because you know, it's just like its name. Basically,
I always tell people if you're going through something but
you feel like your family, your friends, your girlfriends, your boyfriends,
everyone's just too close to the situation, we can help you.
You know, we don't. We don't know everybody, We don't
(05:40):
know all parts of the of the tales. You can
kind of tell us and then we'll open up the
phone lines and other people can help you as well.
Six one seven nine three one one four five. If
you're somebody that wants to submit a DM dilemma to us,
you can send it to my personal ig at Ashley
Feldman A S H L E E F E L
D M A N. And again, I just think you know,
(06:01):
it's tough sometimes to go to your family and friends
because they're too close to it, right, they know all
the people. They may have already had this preconceived notion
about how they feel about ABCD, so to kind of
give it to us. We're coming into this wide open. Okay.
This one is from an anonymous She says, if you
guys have any advice, I'd really appreciate it. My ex
boyfriend and I recently split because he cheated on me
(06:23):
for a second time while out of town for a
work trip, only one year after the first time he cheated.
He says he's going to get therapy to fix his
issues and remain sober. He is struggling with a weed addiction,
and he will say celibate, so he says, to give
us another chance in the future. We've agreed to go
(06:44):
no contact for at least eight months. So do you
guys actually think he's truly capable of being celibate and
staying away from other women and being a good, committed partner.
We're still both in love with one another, but I'm
so heartbroken right now. I'm twenty one turning twenty two
this year and he's twenty three turning twenty four. He
(07:04):
claims he has really bad impulse issues and craves easily
or caves easily to peer pressure to overindulge in substances,
leading to this second incident.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
He needs the girl up. And I think what bothers
me about this the most that he's using two things
as a crush, the kind of mask what he's really
gonna do, because he's saying is take to to weed,
which fine, okay, fine.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Is this a real thing?
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I don't know if it's a real thing. Okay fine.
The other thing, he's gonna go to therapy. He's not.
He's just saying that to get back with her. He's
gonna get back with you and cheat on you.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
Again, and he might do therapy for a couple of
weeks and then just but yeah, to what Santi said,
we ain't making you cheat, bro, it's you that's making
you cheat if he's giving you every because once the
weed's out of it, it's going to be something else,
and then he's gonna be something else, and then it's
gonna be something else, like nah, he's and he's still young.
Why are we committing at twenty two?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Am I the only one too that thinks like eight
months is a very long like most people might take
a break for like, yeah, a month, two months, eight
whole that's a whole year.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Yeah, and in that eight months, what do you think
he's going to be doing. He's gonna be out there
with other girls.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Well if he's telling her too, he has impulse issues
and he over indulges himself, like I I don't necessarily
you know, might be a not popular opinion. Think once
a cheater, always a cheat. Somebody might have done it
once and like, learn a lesson. I can see that,
But this man's done it now twice. To you, I
think he did it once and you were like, I'm
(08:24):
taking you back and we're going to figure this out,
and then he did it again to you, don't set
yourself up for a third time.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Well, I think the tough thing is is that she's
twenty one and doesn't understand that something bad will come along.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
I know, and she'll be treated.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Yeah, twenty one, you.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Think it's the best thing in the world.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
All they might bounce back later on in life.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
I feel like, seriously committing to somebody at that age
is not the best I did because you haven't lived life.
You're straight out of high school not too many years back,
you know what I mean. You haven't really like lived
like this is the time for you to explore, have fun,
just like he's already talking about, I'm impulsive, which just
means he's going to be impulsive for a long time.
God's mature less, I'm not slower than women at twenty one.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Either of my daughters come home from college and tell
me that they're getting married. No, you're not. We're going
to do our best to stop that, because you're you're
not even yourself. I don't know who you are, but
I guess the real question is that she wants to
know is do we think he's truly capable of being
a committed partner or should I walk away for good?
We're both still in love with each.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Other, walk away for good? It depends on his maturity.
It depends on his maturity. But he's young. To me,
he sounds young, he sounds immature, he sounds young minded. Yeah,
which just means that he ain't gonna really do what
he's supposed to be doing. And again, it's up to
you whether you want to say if you know that,
or you want to stick around. Cool, But he's a
young twenty son, Neil, he's homeowns all over the place.
Then he's adding substances into the mix, which, yes, my
(09:46):
make and make bad decisions. But how long are you
going to take that excuse for that? You know, I
drink and slipped into some you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Yeah, yeah, sulls us. But let's see what everybody else thinks.
Let's run up the phone line six one seven nine
three one five six one seven nine three one one
four five will go through and quick? Should she stay
or should she go? It's DM dilemma only on JAM
ninety four five. Good morning, I love the song. Come on,
(10:15):
you know you're dancing? You know?
Speaker 5 (10:19):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Everybody, good morning. We're doing a little DM dilemma here.
She's staying anonymous, but essentially her boyfriend has cheated on her,
not once, but twice, and they have decided to go
eight months no contact, and she wants to know straight up,
do we believe that he can do it? Can he
go eight months with you know outputting? I'm getting a
little graphic, but can he just keep it in his pants?
(10:41):
Can he just can he just not be acting crazy?
Mind you, she's twenty one and he is twenty three,
about to be twenty four. Does she stay or does
she go? Madison is in Braintree, what do we think?
Speaker 6 (10:56):
I think that she should go. This girl is my
age and I've been through a similar thing, and we're
at our age. We're too young with our for me
at least with like insecurities and overthinking everything like that.
We're not mature enough to like have to deal with
that and then just say eight months with that, I
(11:17):
think she should just leave because there's two times already.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Just leave.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Listen, I'm with you and this whole. I don't know
where the number eighteen from eight months is damn near
a year? Like why why are we waiting that long?
That's crazy? Like I have changed. Good Bye, Madison, thank
you for the call. Matt is in Native. Let's get
a guy's opinion on this. Matt, stay or.
Speaker 5 (11:39):
Go right off the jump? Knowing the age, I feel
like they shouldn't go for it again. I think they should.
I think you should walk away and they both should
be exploring. He clearly needs to figure out who he
is and kind of like what he wants. In my opinion,
I can I could relate to you on a partner
(12:01):
in the past, not proud of it at all. I've
learned and helped me grow and all that, But I
think this man is just searching for validation that he's
not getting from this girl for whatever reason, and probably
because he has poor communication skills. Like most men, I've learned.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Through my say it again louder.
Speaker 5 (12:20):
Yeah, I mean I've went through it, so I've gone
through the therapy, and you know there's you can't blame
it on a substance. You just can't, Yeah, because you
chose to do the substance and you knew that substance
would put you in a predicament. So like, he's young,
so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt, but
(12:42):
he's got a lot to learn, and she's got you know,
she's got the right to walk away, and you want
to open the door.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
Yeah, I mean, like, who knows a lot of things
could happen in eight months. But I'm kind of with you, Matt.
I think if we're talking about two people that are
in their late thirties early forties, I mean, I think
it's a different conversation. But they don't know who they
are yet, right, they're babies, they're making mistakes and they're
learning lessons. Now is the time to do that. I
thank you for the call that by the way. By
(13:09):
the way, I feel like we just have a little
therapy sash right there. This is very honest, man, Matt.
Do you have Are you taken now?
Speaker 6 (13:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (13:19):
Actually the girl that I cheated on were actually.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Married, so wow.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Talk about a tour, Matt. Yeah, okay, lessons learn the.
Speaker 5 (13:31):
Official ceremonies in August, but we're we're married on the
books as of the year in August.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
Oh my god. You know what I just said. You know,
I don't necessarily stand by once a cheater, always a cheater.
You made a mistake, you learned from it, you did
the work, and now you get yourself a wife.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
I'm thirty one too, and we were together, you know,
for ten years, so there was you know, I'm not
walking away from something that we built. It was it
was a foolish a foolish move. Yeah, and I learned
a ton so I just began to be older to
kind of go through it.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
Yeah, I agree, Matt. Thank you so much for the call,
and listen, we don't have a ton of time, but
the rest of the calls are saying the same things.
You know, no one deserves chances if they've already crossed boundaries.
She needs to go. And this is a big one
that I like shot to Nia and in Dorchester. She said,
when a man tells you who he is, leave him.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Like he smoke so much weed that he cheats. That
just sounds crazy.
Speaker 6 (14:20):
It really does blame.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
But that guy matt Man has done the work and
that's a good example of that.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
That's what I mean. If if if it comes out
that he in this eight months puts that much work
into it and he wants to make it, maybe give
him another chance. But I think in this eight months
she needs to just concentrate on herself, you know, and
let him go. Wow, we sound so much sure, we're
not kind at times sometimes maybe fourign when it was
a Black.
Speaker 5 (14:46):
Grand National Shaman ninety four five traffic, you.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
Got major problems on the Masspike eastbound, bumper to bump
a traffic from framing him all the way through to
Fenway Park. I'm assuming it's going to take you at
least ninety minutes getting through this disaster. In ninety three
southbound again parking lot from one twenty eight down to.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
The Zacam Anonymous was listening that entire time. She just
hit me and she said, I appreciate the advice. I'm
really going to try to take this time to concentrate
on myself. But right now it just feels like the
world is ending. And you know, and I understand that
feeling so much. I think we've discussed this, but one
thing that a lot of people have in common is
having gone through a breakup. There's no worse feeling. I mean,
(15:27):
you really do feel like your life is over. You
can't see anything past what your life was with that person.
And I you know, because I've been through it, and
because I've I've been in the thick of it. I've
been cheated on, it's been embarrassing and all of the things.
The answer really sucks, but it's time. And I told
her every day will get easier, but right now she's
(15:48):
just in the thick of it and it's hard to
see that. But the age old answer to how to
get over a breakup is time.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
At twenty, my ex broke up with me. Was the
end of my world. I was called the police, I
called the police, I called my mom, I I did everything,
but it turned out to be the best thing in
my life, like, honestly, the best thing ever.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
Breakups are horrible, Like there's just no way.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
Around that, and not twenty you feel like the world.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Has it's over, it's done. And I said that like.
Speaker 4 (16:14):
By the time you get to this our age and
you're like, dude, like, why was I tripping over twenty Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
I look back at that. I want to slap myself.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
She didn't even clean. Sorry I talk about.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
She didn't cluing the coup? What down there?
Speaker 1 (16:31):
This report? It's say in the jam In Morning Show
with DJ four and it's Sauty Good morning.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Bastin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four five.
All Right, everybody, Hi, hello, good morning. You know, I
just think this is something that we should address because
it's only happening to one person on the show. It's
not happening to you. It's not happening to me. Let
me ask you this. Have you, Santi ever been banned
(16:59):
from Facebook? Have you, Santi ever been banned from Instagram?
Speaker 1 (17:03):
I never asked me, Actually, have you ever been banned
from Facebook?
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Never?
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Actually, have you ever been banned from Instagram?
Speaker 2 (17:09):
I have never. Now it's really fun. Have you been
banned from Facebook?
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Yes? I have, Yes, I have.
Speaker 4 (17:20):
You to look in the I've attended bulk jails the
Facebook jail. I got put in there because I said
a word like dumb. Maybe I said that was a
dumb move.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
It was a reference to those two girls. I remember
there was a picture of two I don't even remember what.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Was the time he got bad. Okay, the first time
he went to Facebook jail, he said something stupid like
I think it was about something like.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
I don't even know it, whatever it was, but in
the equivalent of like, oh, that's a dumb joke or
something like that. But because I used the word dumb,
they took that as offensive language and threw me in
in Facebook jails crazy, which is wild to me because
they take everything out of context. Now, I wake up
this morning and I noticed my time feeded like is
acting weird. I'm like, do I need to update the app?
My app is updated? And then I eventually went into
(18:03):
my DMS and it says you cannot send dms for
three days.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
I said, what so Instagram is giving people detention?
Speaker 4 (18:10):
Now I don't facts. They then say, see why I
tap I follow it? It goes you violated something in
the messenger or something. They tell me, I can't monetize
right now, I can't post nothing right now for three days,
I go look at the It's a story, bro, it's
not a post. This is what's driving me insane. It's
not a post. Yeah, it's not a post. It's a
story that I posted in twenty eleven or something like
(18:34):
that or twenty twenty one. And they're like, oh this, Violet.
I'm like, the story last twenty four hours. And you
know what it was?
Speaker 3 (18:41):
What it was a picture of a kid pulling his
pants down on.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
A on what it was a kid pulling case he's
eyes standing on a mattress and it's a young kid,
small kid, pulling down his pants. And the caption says,
I lied, I don't got Netflix. It's hilarious to me. Yeah, yeah,
I don't know. It's ahilarious to me. It's hilarious.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
I'll post that up.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
And all of a sudden they say that not sexual
pornography and child all of this.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
I'm like, what the hell is going on?
Speaker 6 (19:08):
I want to laugh?
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Yeo laugh, it's hilarious.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
We got on a mattress and it says I.
Speaker 4 (19:13):
Don't The kid is pulling down his pants and the
cat says, I lied, I don't have Netflix.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
You don't get it?
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Yeah, I told you to come over.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Let's chaill with Netflix. And how old is he?
Speaker 3 (19:25):
He's a baby?
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Yep, you know who I stand with Instagram, Instagram daddy and.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
The Morning Show with d J four and it's sautific.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Morning Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety
four or five. How right, everybody that's gonna do it
for us? I want to give a shout out, which
I don't usually do, to Eliza Krasinski. I love Channel seven,
very nice lady.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
And to Joe and Joe they seem very happy.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
Santi.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
Yeah, shout out to star Quality eighty two.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
Mikey.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
He's on his way to Canneedy. I assume birthday, Happy birthday,
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
Either he was just a random canopy trip. It's a
birthday Candevy trip bro.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
This is the only place DJ FORRN is allowed to
give shout outs. He's blocked on all other networks.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
So go ahead, yeh, shout out say anybody, of course.
Speaker 4 (20:15):
Actually to ease in the am at DJ forn again
assemble moment for the DJ community and.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
For Gemini for five as a whole.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
We got to say rest in peace to our brother
DJ Fingers who passed away yesterday again. Condolencence to all
his friends family. This one I see everybody posting. It's
it's heartbreaking to see, but rest in paradise.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
Bro.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Thoughts and prayers continue to be with the family. Rip
to DJ fingers, we will talk to you tomorrow
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