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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Tuesday, June seventeenth, and we just had our guy Nick
Roco checking in, not to give us a verdict, but
to kind of just keep us posted on where we're at.
We got one full day of deliberations under our belt
and you know, just a couple hours there on Friday.
We are walking into this second day or day three,
or whoever you want to look at it. But today
could potentially be a full day. Nick Rocco predicting that
(00:39):
if the jury doesn't come back today with a verdict,
he thinks this one will end in a mistrial, A
yet a game.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
Because clearly, if that's the case, they're in an impasse,
which is not a good thing. I think we're over that.
I think we want a decision.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
We want something We've seen long deliberations end up in
not guilty verdicts.
Speaker 6 (00:55):
Yeah, have we I think so? I mean, listen, I
can't think of one, but we have to believe that
that has hapened.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Yeah, it probably has happened. The oj one was like
quick like even though like they knew he cut those
people's heads off. He came close.
Speaker 6 (01:10):
Sorry, yeah, he was acting nuts and then went on
a joy ride. Anyway.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Uh, yesterday, Karen and her team asked Bev for more
boxes on the jurors sheet to kind of make it
easier for them to understand.
Speaker 6 (01:24):
Bev took about seven seconds and then said, no, here's
Karen on that.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
I think what happened last year with the same word
of form explains that the jurory themselves permitted.
Speaker 6 (01:33):
He say, it has said as much, so we just
wanted to avoid that again.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (01:40):
No, Bev's good. She's like, listen, they've they've seen it.
They saw it on Friday, Like they're fine.
Speaker 5 (01:44):
Can I give you two quick facts? In Oakland, California,
it took fifty five days now for Jurdy to come
back with a no guilty. And there's a record of
the Guinness Book World Records has the longest deliberation. Guess
how long I don't know.
Speaker 6 (01:58):
Well, now that you've done this on one hundred and
five days, not even close.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Well end up well, maybe falling to half months of
deliberation in nineteen ninety two close the case took over
eleven years to make it go to trial for a
half months.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
I'm not doing this in the fall, while I'm going
in there after a month being like, I don't care
what you guys, whatever you want. At this point in time,
Karen is being charge of second degree murder manslaughter while
operating a motor vehicle under the influence and leaving the
scene of a fatal collision. Listen, this could go both ways. Like,
if I'm Karen Reid, I want them to take their
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time and get it right. You know, go through, go
through the evidence, do what you gotta do. Uh, but
you also understand why everybody is in a rush. So
we shall see That jury is made up of seven
women and five men, one of which Nick Roko described
as a lunch lady. Yeah, I can't wait to see her.
Oh sorry, I lunch more with.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Like a hairnet.
Speaker 6 (02:56):
That's what I'm getting.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
In a whistle like sit down, Johnny I had over
in New York in the Diddy trial, that jury had
to view freakofs So yes, that's confirmation that there are
actual video evidence of the freak offs. They had to
watch two minutes in total of freak off videos, some
(03:18):
of which lasted eleven and twelve minutes. They happened in
October of twenty twelve, October of twenty fourteen, and December
of twenty fourteen. You know, there are no cameras in there,
so we're kind of getting this information secondhand, So it's
kind of up to the discretion of what people think
they're seeing.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
But we've heard that one elderly.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Jjudger was like flabbergasted, like taken aback, she was disgusted
somebody else's stoneface. One person winced, another giggled. We know
Diddy and Cassie were in the videos that they viewed, so.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Clearly they're excerpts of the tapes like who went a
shows you twoutes? Seriously, let's pick from here to there.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Yeah, what I can't tell you is what I can't
tell you is that they also led into it with
text messages from Diddy to ex girlfriend Cassie about plans
for a holiday freak off. He said, want to celebrate
Christmas and have a freak off tomorrow or Friday? No, No,
because I know what you were doing at those things.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Sir.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I'm good but yeah, it's just it's it's it's crazy.
I think it's even crazier for two reasons. Number one,
there were rumors that these things were called freak offs,
and that was true. That was really true. And then
the second thing is that there was a rumor that
did he kept footage from the freak offs?
Speaker 6 (04:34):
That is also true.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Yeah. I am dying to see this forage because I
have to put a visual picture to the stories that
we've heard and will we ever, I think we have
to at some point show like him in a veil
in the corner, like I need to see that.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
I need to see that too. I need to see
that too. Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
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Speaker 3 (07:32):
Hi, everybody, good morning. We're doing beyond the swipe here,
so we're you know, a little bit of event Sash.
How's it going in the dating world, love relationships?
Speaker 6 (07:43):
Marriage?
Speaker 3 (07:43):
You can call and complain to me about any of
the following, or you could tell me I found love officially.
Speaker 6 (07:50):
I'd love to hear that that never happens for us.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
But six one seven nine three one one nine four five,
Nini and Framingham's gonna kick it off for us.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
Let's vent Nini, what is what's going on with the husband?
Speaker 8 (08:02):
So Okay, I'm trying a trip to go to Florida,
and I'm not trying to be on no like fighting
or you know, bickering and backering back and forth. So
like last night, I had worked and I came home,
I had to bring my brother home. I didn't get
home until a little later, and you know, he made
a big stink about it and was like, well, I'm
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leaving the house and blah blah blah. And then he
left and then came back, didn't say nothing to me,
went to sleep, woke up this morning, he left to
go to work and say anything to me. And I'm like,
what is I'm saying to myself, what is his problem?
Speaker 5 (08:34):
What did I do?
Speaker 9 (08:36):
And so I'm like, I don't know, I don't really
know what to do.
Speaker 8 (08:38):
Do I want to take him with me or do
I not want to take him?
Speaker 10 (08:40):
Listening?
Speaker 3 (08:41):
You know, why was he met, like, did he since
you were gone from the home. Do y'all have kids
or something and he couldn't live?
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Yeah, we have.
Speaker 4 (08:47):
We have kids, okay to two kids.
Speaker 8 (08:50):
My two youngest start with him, and my two oldest
are not by him. But he's been there as a dad.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Okay, So basically, he was probably mad because you got
home late, because he never had any relief from watching
the kids' I'm assuming.
Speaker 8 (09:00):
Excuse me, No, no, no, no, no, I always have
my kids.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
No, I'm I'm asking. I'm trying to figure out why
he was mad.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
You know, we're just talk probably why.
Speaker 7 (09:09):
He was.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Back and forferial little conversation. So because you know he's
mad about something.
Speaker 8 (09:17):
Yeah, he's he's mad about something. I don't know what
it is. Maybe because he likes to be in control
of my life, and that whenever he gets home late
from work, when he wants to be gone for hours
and he gets out of work out five three, don't
come to my house abound like seven thirty eight o'clock.
I'm not supposed to question him, though, but I have
the kids all the time.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
I don't know your relationship, But do you guys fight
a lot?
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Yes, we do.
Speaker 10 (09:37):
Okay, mind you, mind you, mind you.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
He's fifty three. I'm thirty one.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Damn, whoa what's a fifty three year old doing for
the two hours after work?
Speaker 8 (09:46):
Just one? That's what I'm saying. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
And he doesn't like when I He doesn't like when
I questioned him either.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
I mean he if he's gonna question us on what
we're doing, then I guess it's time to question him.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Just saying I've been together eight years.
Speaker 8 (10:04):
Years?
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Yes, and thank you?
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Maybe how old are those two babes that the kids
you have with him?
Speaker 10 (10:12):
With him?
Speaker 8 (10:13):
My daughter seven and my son is four?
Speaker 10 (10:16):
Minds you?
Speaker 8 (10:17):
So I always wanted to have be with the guys
that I had my daughter with, and he took and
used that to my advantage with one tide my daughter.
Then he tried to deny her. So it's like it's
up been a lot of like non not up and
down and stuff and pushed. I lost my mom and
I lost my dad being with him, you know, I
lost my parents and stuff. And it's like he's not
like you would think he would be a little bit
more sentimental, Nini.
Speaker 6 (10:36):
He does not sound like the man for you.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
I I I don't know, Nanny. I gotta ask, do
you love this man?
Speaker 8 (10:43):
Honestly?
Speaker 10 (10:43):
I have love for him, like I really do.
Speaker 8 (10:45):
Like I I really thought that, you know, we could
be a family. Like everybody goes around and says, oh,
you guys have a beautiful family despite the age difference
and all that.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
You know.
Speaker 8 (10:53):
I don't really care, you know, but it's just like,
I'm not gonna sit there and keep to think that
you're gonna have control over my life and everything that
I do like and stuff like that. And I and
I'm and I can't know anything that's going on in
your life.
Speaker 5 (11:04):
I mean, I think it's clear, Nini. You need to
take a permanent vacation.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (11:08):
Yeah, So I'm just going to be me and my
kids by myself, and if you wants, that's all the
free time he got right there.
Speaker 10 (11:13):
You don't know to worry about me coming home.
Speaker 5 (11:14):
Lady, I don't think you heard me. You need to
take a permanent vacation. You need to leave this guy.
Speaker 6 (11:20):
Yeah, you don't need to be together in Florida.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
There's no need. There's no need, Okay, guys, I really
love him, so just just leave him alone.
Speaker 8 (11:30):
Not honestly not anymore. The love for him, like being
in love with him, is not there anymore. I have
love for him because I did have kids with him,
But you know, it's not like I said, I'm thirty one,
I still got my whole. I don't want to waste
my whole rest of my thirties, my thirties dealing.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
With him, and take it from me, Take it from me.
Staying for the kids is not the wave.
Speaker 10 (11:48):
It's not and I feel bad, but you know it
is what the kids will.
Speaker 8 (11:51):
The kids will, they'll, they'll, they'll mold out of it
against you eventually, I guess.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Yeah, it just the differences with your situation. We're on
your side with or we're on the mother of his
children's side.
Speaker 6 (12:02):
But that's that's neither here nor there, Nini. He was
posted the best to fuck to you, all right, all right, guys,
we love you.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
She kind of like worked that out herself, like she
didn't really necessarily need us. But you know, listen, that's
that is that's just my assumption that she came home
late and he was mad because he had to stay
at home with the kids.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
Like I don't you know, you have to assume too
the vacation must be tomorrow or something soon, because if
she's like, you know, taking.
Speaker 6 (12:26):
Him and Florida's not that great anyway, so might as
well go and be happy?
Speaker 3 (12:30):
Yeah alone six one seven, nine three one one nine
four five six one seven nine three one one nine
four five call us. We're talking dating, love relationships, lack
thereof vin sash about your current relationship, anything you want
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Ashley in the gym in morning show. We're doing beyond
the Swipe. We're talking dating love relationships. It's usually really
us just taking a temperature as to what like the
dating life is like out there?
Speaker 6 (13:03):
Forren's going to give the exclusive, What is it like forun?
What's going on out there?
Speaker 5 (13:09):
I mean it's cool, you just gotta you know, it's
almost like the apps.
Speaker 6 (13:12):
You got any thirst straps at any thirsties out there
for you?
Speaker 9 (13:15):
No?
Speaker 5 (13:15):
I don't. I don't do any third straps.
Speaker 6 (13:17):
I know, but I know you don't. But they might
be coming for yes.
Speaker 5 (13:20):
Oh yes, oh yes, oh yes, and I love them.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
I welcome from Actually that's a four E.
Speaker 4 (13:27):
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Speaker 6 (13:29):
Sam is in Wooster Sam talk to.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Us because you, I mean, it's good, the dating world's
good for you. You got two people coming after you options.
Speaker 10 (13:39):
I would be real. Is the first I've never really
actually dated nobody. But this is the first time I
had two people after me, which is interesting. But anyway,
so the first guy, I met him through Facebook dating
and we went out a couple of times him in there.
I thought the vine was good. I thought we were
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chilling and we were doing our thing.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
You know.
Speaker 10 (14:05):
About a month ago we had went out to Lincoln,
New Hampshire, to the White Mountains to have a good time.
I get to know each other more. It was a
great time. So and then after that a couple like
about in the begin like the end, at the beginning
of we.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
Don't need all the explicit details you could, you know
what I mean, like, don't worry about.
Speaker 10 (14:28):
Just yeah, got so me we had decided, you know,
he this is the thing. He completely ghosted me after
a month. A month went by, he hits me up
Sunday and says, gave me a bowl crap excuse. I
don't know if it's true or not, but he gave
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me an excuse saying that he was in the hospital
because he was in the shower and he busted his ass,
broke his head, and all of a sudden, he hits
me up and gives me the excuse. Okay, that's the
first guy. The second guy, I already had told him like,
I'm sorry, but I'm sorry about all this. I didn't
know what was going on with you. I thought you
compotely ghosted me and whatever, and I moved on. I
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pretty much moved on to somebody else because I didn't
hear him for a whole time month. I thought he
was just being shady. They the one thing to do
with me, So I said, okay, I'm moving on. So
now I have this other guy. You know, we're talking,
I'm getting to know each other, and he seemed like
he's a very nice guy. So now the other the
first guy tells me he wants to get back together,
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and yeah, the shower guy. Shower guy pretty much tells
me he wants to get back together. But I'm like, bro,
you kind of kind of completely ghosted me, you know,
and that was wrong on your part because I'm over
here thinking that we did a good thing, and we
were doing our thing and chilling and whatever. And he's
now he's like, oh, I'm sad, I want to cry
and blah blah blah. I'm like, bro, I don't do
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the tear thing. I'm a cool guy, but I don't
do tears that that's that's not me, you know. So
the other guy I'm talking to we went on a
couple of days and I'm vibing with this guy more
than the other guy.
Speaker 6 (16:14):
He cursed.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
But you know what, I'm gonna bless you guys and
pretend like we dropped the call because I can't.
Speaker 6 (16:20):
I can't, I can't know.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
It's just it was every detail in the story.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Like May twelfth, at two forty two pm, he texts me,
after two months a time, you know that day, the
sun was kind of out, it was a little cool.
I was wearing a blue sweater, no shoes because my
shoes were out in the front room because I had
gone to the grocery store and they got a little
mud on them. And by the way, when I was
at the grocery store, it was market Basket and they
were protesting because they like, I can't, we.
Speaker 6 (16:47):
Don't know if Karen Reid is guilty or Rinza.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
You got time for this, honest, I don't Anonymous is
gonna save us.
Speaker 6 (16:54):
We have time? Yes, Okay, are you puking?
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Like?
Speaker 6 (17:02):
What's going on?
Speaker 3 (17:06):
Hi? Hi, Hynonymous, let's chat about you know, you have
a situation ship issue.
Speaker 9 (17:15):
A huge situation ship issue. I met this sky online.
We've been seeing each other since February. We were consistent
for like a solid four month. Well, a couple of
months things started to change. I noticed he we started
seeing another girl. But since then, I have met his family,
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we have planned trips together. He was crying on my
couch this weekend talk about because I was like, dude,
are you willing to lose me for this other girl?
And he was crying on my couch talk about. No,
he's not willing to lose me. But last night he's
still with this other girl. Like, what did the deal?
Speaker 10 (17:54):
How are you?
Speaker 6 (17:55):
How are you finding out that he's still with this
other girl?
Speaker 9 (17:58):
Because he tells me I asked him and where oh,
because this is nothing serious. We went into the pretense
that nothing serious because he just got out of this
really long relationship. He's only ever been with a few
girls in his life. We do have an age gap too.
I'm older. He's younger.
Speaker 6 (18:12):
Okay, let me ask you something. What do you want
from this?
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Like?
Speaker 6 (18:16):
What's your end?
Speaker 9 (18:17):
I I want him? I do want him. Oh, he
has a lot of red flags too, but I think
I do want him at the end of the day.
Speaker 6 (18:29):
Yeah, this is giving reasonable doubt.
Speaker 5 (18:34):
Why are we giving people ultimatums and we know that
they don't want nothing serious?
Speaker 10 (18:38):
Though.
Speaker 9 (18:39):
It's not an ultimatum. I'm not telling him if you
see her, you can't have me. I'm saying. I'm asking him, like,
I just want to know where you are with us,
Like are we just going to keep We have so
much fun together and we're just going to keep having
this fun? And for how long?
Speaker 10 (18:54):
I mean pretty much?
Speaker 4 (18:55):
He told you and he's playing games and he's younger.
Do you have a history of dating guys who are younger? Yes, okay,
I know who this is. You called him last week?
Speaker 9 (19:05):
Right, Nope, I've never called in. I'm not lying. I'm serious,
I'm dead. I've never called it.
Speaker 10 (19:13):
I do have.
Speaker 9 (19:14):
I do like younger guys.
Speaker 10 (19:15):
I got my age, my way.
Speaker 6 (19:18):
What age gap are we talking here?
Speaker 9 (19:21):
I'm forty five. I like to date guys between twenty
seven and thirty five.
Speaker 4 (19:26):
That's not that bad.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
I mean I would I would urge you to get
get to like thirty, Like you know what I'm saying,
Like that's it's getting great.
Speaker 5 (19:33):
With that level. Yeah, but yeah, I'm still kind of
I'm still kind of If he's telling you he don't
want nothing serious, why are we even asking him if
checking the temperature there's no temperature to check.
Speaker 9 (19:44):
I told you that's what acts different.
Speaker 8 (19:47):
He acts that way.
Speaker 9 (19:49):
Why would he introduce me to his family?
Speaker 5 (19:51):
Okay, so you won't so you want more and he doesn't,
and you feel a way about that. Let's just keep
it re right.
Speaker 9 (19:56):
Yes, that is true?
Speaker 1 (19:57):
But does he not?
Speaker 9 (19:58):
Like is he just getting there?
Speaker 7 (20:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (20:01):
Can I can? I just say to me in my head, bitch,
but like, why are you crying?
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Get up? Get up?
Speaker 9 (20:09):
I think.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
That's enough for me to be like, he's playing games
with her because stuff like that clearly works works for her.
He's health, she was there.
Speaker 5 (20:20):
She like, he's honest about about the other girl when
he asks, right, whenever you ask him about anybody else,
he's he's not hiding. He's being honest with you. From
out the gay he told you, I just want to
be in nothing serious. I just want to have fun.
Now you're asking him about if if you with her,
will you know if I leave you, how you're going
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to feel. I don't think that's fair.
Speaker 9 (20:42):
I mean he asked the same thing he asked me
if I'm with other dudes, and he gets mad if
I d then y'all don't know.
Speaker 5 (20:49):
Y'all don't know what an open or a fun time is. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
play y'all lying to each other, to each other like
you're forty five. You don't have time for these little games.
But she does.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
I know.
Speaker 9 (21:01):
I mean I kind of do, but I don't because
I do want something like why can't guys be regular?
Why can't? I don't know, I'm amazing?
Speaker 3 (21:07):
You know why?
Speaker 9 (21:08):
On top of it?
Speaker 5 (21:08):
You know why because when when you asked them to
be with you, they say, I don't want none serious
and he still issue, yeah, both find somebody who's serious
about you.
Speaker 6 (21:18):
Yeah, that's not gonna cry? Why is he cried? And
I can't get over it.
Speaker 9 (21:22):
I cannot get past it, like get calling his eyes
out on my couch about how I'd be a huge
loss in his life and I would be he I
would be I know.
Speaker 6 (21:33):
Yeah, well listen, keep us posted. Well, I feel invested
in this.
Speaker 10 (21:38):
I will.
Speaker 6 (21:41):
Nothing is changing in that. By the way, Zatti cannot
let this go that he.
Speaker 4 (21:45):
Believes exactly her. Do you know which girl I'm talking about?
Last week she called in and she says she dates
these younger guys and she wanted us to grow up
with a person. Yeah, it's definitely her. It's the same pattern,
same tone, same everything. She's not going to change.
Speaker 6 (21:58):
Well, we get is check and do the voice, you know.
But she was pretty adamant right there that she.
Speaker 4 (22:04):
That wasn't her, because we believe everybody who calls in. Fine,
you're being mad at me. I am right.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
I know.
Speaker 4 (22:16):
On the jury.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
In the morning show with d J Foreign it's Sad Morning.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
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or five.
Speaker 6 (22:29):
Hi, everybody, good morning. While we're all on.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
Verdict watch in the meantime, I gotta talk about other things.
I've said this a million times in the show, but
it is true. All of us, the three of us,
are in different eras of our parenting. Okay, I'm in
like baby diapers, wipes, era tolderland Forn just had high
(22:56):
school graduation like grown up plans and Santi, you're in
high school lands.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
I'm in like teenage preteen lands.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
Yeah, to the point where Santy's got to get out
of here right after the show and drive to New
Hampshire because the girls are having people over and some
of those people include boys.
Speaker 4 (23:15):
Today is the last day of school for them, so yeah,
they're having like this little party. But again this one's
a boy girl things. So I have to be home
to supervised because again I remember what I used to
do around this stage that that you know what I mean,
and we don't want stuff like that happening. Not saying
that they're going to, but I just need a responsible
adult to be there.
Speaker 5 (23:31):
I don't think I don't think people are worried about
you around the adaughters.
Speaker 6 (23:35):
No, he's very well. No no, no, no, no boy
like student boy.
Speaker 5 (23:40):
Over the head. It's all good. I said, I don't
think people worried about you. Nod as a kid. I'm
worried about the suns getting here.
Speaker 3 (23:50):
We think he's going for protection, but you know why,
I'm trying not to get against They're young, so it's
just like.
Speaker 6 (23:58):
But yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, we need security.
Speaker 4 (24:06):
We definitely do.
Speaker 6 (24:07):
What will you do? I'm assuming they're going to be
at the pool.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
I'm not going to go down there and hang out
with them. No, I'm just going to be around in
case something happens or not something happens, they need something
to order food, we do. We have one from like
not right down there, but up that can kind of.
No one's allowed in the crib, No they are. I
just need to be home and stuff and then I
need to get food and stuff like that, just to
have an adult there.
Speaker 5 (24:27):
So what kind of freedom do you give them in
the crib?
Speaker 4 (24:30):
They can't be in their rooms together and stuff like that,
but they can be around the house. And now the
common areas, yes, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 6 (24:36):
The basement area is kind of where they all hang out.
Speaker 4 (24:38):
That's a common area, so they can be down there
like all two open door. It's a glass door, so
the door can be closed. But they also know that
my office is down there too, so I can't any
second downstairs.
Speaker 8 (24:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
That's the one thing as a parent with kids this age,
when you're like my older my oldest is fifteen. He's
been dating too. So when you see them like dating
in that atmosphere, it's just such an awkward thing at first,
and then I'm not.
Speaker 6 (25:02):
Ready for that. I mean, I'm far away from that,
but I'm not ready.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
For that, I think, and no, no, for might feel different,
but at the same time, like you know it's coming,
So I think you got to kind of relate to
them and understand you were once there too, and.
Speaker 5 (25:14):
It's not our ever when we grew up with with
you know, maybe just sneaking a magazine or some kind
of video, like these kids are exposed to a lot
of sexuality from early, like it's just in their phase
twenty four seven, So you'd be surprised how much they
do know that they didn't even learn in school, you
know what I mean. Said, it's like it's it's by
the time your kids are teens, Ashley, Yeah, they'll be
(25:36):
they would have known about not yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (25:38):
And to his point, I didn't realize until I made
certain jokes and they knew exactly exactly joking about and
me thinking that it goes over the head when I
was saying it like little things to my wife in
reference and something that's super obscure. But they were on
and I'm like, wow, the music they do.
Speaker 5 (25:52):
Tik talk on Instagram it is just nothing but sexuality
being pushed towards them. So they to them, it's like,
what's this? What are you talking to me about?
Speaker 4 (25:59):
Yeah, like it was already new. It was a few
years ago when my daughter explaining to me what I yeah,
it was, you know, and you guys had said it here,
but like they knew. I was like, how old.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
They're not as innocent as we think. They're not as innocent.
Speaker 4 (26:10):
Are right now?
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (26:13):
So far? Yeah, so far.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
But I think if you had open conversation with them
about all these things, I think it makes a little
bit better. But this still comes with challenges.
Speaker 3 (26:21):
But you know what actually mine art because I don't
know who she heard say it or or whatever way
it was said in front of her.
Speaker 6 (26:30):
But the other day she was being fresh.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
So I sat her down and I was like, you're
being fresh, and if you keep it up, you know,
you don't have to go to time out. But I'm
obviously going to give you the chance to not be
because there's a little bit of a tone here with you.
She gets up out of the seat, looks at me
dead in my eyes, and goes, whatever.
Speaker 6 (26:49):
Uh huh, oh she right to teo. She went, I
said whatever, you're a little all the way to time out.
Speaker 3 (26:57):
But she said it in the right context and with
the like attitude like whatever, I mean.
Speaker 5 (27:03):
It's and then you wonder what did she see that?
But again you probably said it at one point she
absorbed it like kids kids.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
I mean, I've had people in and out of my
house all week and long. I mean she picks up
everything other people. Now I don't, I don't say whatever
like that.
Speaker 4 (27:19):
Yeah, but you say little things like that where you're
just like, okay.
Speaker 6 (27:26):
O, listen, I know that.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
It's Yeah, like I said, we're all in different times,
but it's I mean, when I was young, we were
Terry's rule was we were never allowed in the bedrooms
with the doors shut.
Speaker 6 (27:38):
But I'm not trying. Like that didn't stop me.
Speaker 4 (27:40):
Yeah, like, I think you find ways around it. I
just remind them that I've done everything, so I know
what's happening, like all the time.
Speaker 5 (27:47):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. One time I had a show him
after high school, I had a showed him my crib.
We weren't doing nothing. We were just chilling because's why
I had my TV and all that. My pops came home.
I swear he saw her. But he didn't say nothing.
And then at one point he walked by. He opened
though he asked me a question. He's like, get this
girl out of your room, straight in front of her.
She got scaring. My dad was like back then, military type, mad, tough,
(28:09):
and he's like get out of the room, like what
are you doing?
Speaker 3 (28:11):
And then she had to I mean that will be
my rule too. He can't be in the room bedrooms,
no bedrooms, no door shut. But I just know there's
other ways.
Speaker 4 (28:20):
Yeah, Or you can say three feet on the floor
at all times too. Three when you're in somebody's bedroom,
three feet on the floor all the Time's the three feet.
Speaker 6 (28:29):
No, just so you know that, Like here's the other
person's no.
Speaker 8 (28:35):
No.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
Just ensures that.
Speaker 11 (28:37):
They aren't doing a leg anything. I mean, that's way
the one leg could be up in the Yeah, so
what are you talking about? Three more challenging. He's used
to the fluff I forgot somebody.
Speaker 6 (28:52):
He was like, I can not wait to use that
on Chamman for nobody to get it.
Speaker 10 (29:00):
Please.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
And the jam In Morning Show with DJ Forearn It's
SAT Morning.
Speaker 2 (29:04):
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Speaker 3 (29:09):
All right, everybody that's gonna do it for us. We're
all on verdict. Watch I say, same rule applies. If
I get the text from Nick, I'll send you guys
the groupie. If not, you see something, If you see something,
say something.
Speaker 4 (29:22):
Oh sue that today is the day, right, we have.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
Been telling them less than they got to be less
than ten minutes away from her. It means it's gonna
be quick.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
Yeah, Today's day again.
Speaker 3 (29:33):
Nick Rocco's prediction. If it's not today, he thinks this
will end in a mistrial again. But he thinks if
it is today, it'll be a not guilty verdict. We
shall see sound shout outs.
Speaker 4 (29:43):
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PT Dude, shout out to you, DJ Forn.
Speaker 5 (29:49):
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Speaker 3 (29:57):
You know what the craziest shock of the day is
no one snitched on us to kiss that. You know
why they all agree with us? Yeah, that is when
you know they must all agree with us because they're
not going down there and snitching.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
Or they're just afraid of his roid rage, so we
don't know.
Speaker 6 (30:13):
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Speaker 3 (00:15):
Tuesday, June seventeenth, and we just had our guy Nick
Roco checking in, not to give us a verdict, but
to kind of just keep us posted on where we're at.
We got one full day of deliberations under our belt
and you know, just a couple hours there on Friday.
We are walking into this second day or day three,
or whoever you want to look at it. But today
could potentially be a full day. Nick Rocco predicting that
(00:39):
if the jury doesn't come back today with a verdict,
he thinks this one will end in a mistrial, A
yet a game.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
Because clearly, if that's the case, they're in an impasse,
which is not a good thing. I think we're over that.
I think we want a decision.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
We want something We've seen long deliberations end up in
not guilty verdicts.
Speaker 6 (00:55):
Yeah, have we I think so? I mean, listen, I
can't think of one, but we have to believe that
that has hapened.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Yeah, it probably has happened. The oj one was like
quick like even though like they knew he cut those
people's heads off. He came close.
Speaker 6 (01:10):
Sorry, yeah, he was acting nuts and then went on
a joy ride. Anyway.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Uh, yesterday, Karen and her team asked Bev for more
boxes on the jurors sheet to kind of make it
easier for them to understand.
Speaker 6 (01:24):
Bev took about seven seconds and then said, no, here's
Karen on that.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
I think what happened last year with the same word
of form explains that the jurory themselves permitted.
Speaker 6 (01:33):
He say, it has said as much, so we just
wanted to avoid that again.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (01:40):
No, Bev's good. She's like, listen, they've they've seen it.
They saw it on Friday, Like they're fine.
Speaker 5 (01:44):
Can I give you two quick facts? In Oakland, California,
it took fifty five days now for Jurdy to come
back with a no guilty. And there's a record of
the Guinness Book World Records has the longest deliberation. Guess
how long I don't know.
Speaker 6 (01:58):
Well, now that you've done this on one hundred and
five days, not even close.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Well end up well, maybe falling to half months of
deliberation in nineteen ninety two close the case took over
eleven years to make it go to trial for a
half months.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
I'm not doing this in the fall, while I'm going
in there after a month being like, I don't care
what you guys, whatever you want. At this point in time,
Karen is being charge of second degree murder manslaughter while
operating a motor vehicle under the influence and leaving the
scene of a fatal collision. Listen, this could go both ways. Like,
if I'm Karen Reid, I want them to take their
(02:35):
time and get it right. You know, go through, go
through the evidence, do what you gotta do. Uh, but
you also understand why everybody is in a rush. So
we shall see That jury is made up of seven
women and five men, one of which Nick Roko described
as a lunch lady. Yeah, I can't wait to see her.
Oh sorry, I lunch more with.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Like a hairnet.
Speaker 6 (02:56):
That's what I'm getting.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
In a whistle like sit down, Johnny I had over
in New York in the Diddy trial, that jury had
to view freakofs So yes, that's confirmation that there are
actual video evidence of the freak offs. They had to
watch two minutes in total of freak off videos, some
(03:18):
of which lasted eleven and twelve minutes. They happened in
October of twenty twelve, October of twenty fourteen, and December
of twenty fourteen. You know, there are no cameras in there,
so we're kind of getting this information secondhand, So it's
kind of up to the discretion of what people think
they're seeing.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
But we've heard that one elderly.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Jjudger was like flabbergasted, like taken aback, she was disgusted
somebody else's stoneface. One person winced, another giggled. We know
Diddy and Cassie were in the videos that they viewed, so.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Clearly they're excerpts of the tapes like who went a
shows you twoutes? Seriously, let's pick from here to there.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Yeah, what I can't tell you is what I can't
tell you is that they also led into it with
text messages from Diddy to ex girlfriend Cassie about plans
for a holiday freak off. He said, want to celebrate
Christmas and have a freak off tomorrow or Friday? No, No,
because I know what you were doing at those things.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Sir.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I'm good but yeah, it's just it's it's it's crazy.
I think it's even crazier for two reasons. Number one,
there were rumors that these things were called freak offs,
and that was true. That was really true. And then
the second thing is that there was a rumor that
did he kept footage from the freak offs?
Speaker 6 (04:34):
That is also true.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Yeah. I am dying to see this forage because I
have to put a visual picture to the stories that
we've heard and will we ever, I think we have
to at some point show like him in a veil
in the corner, like I need to see that.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
I need to see that too. I need to see
that too. Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
All right, and lastly, this one's for you son. It's
sweet and it's handsome. It's a nice combination. David Beckham
getting into a new food venture coming out with Kids Dummies.
Speaker 7 (05:05):
Got into bee keeping back in twenty twenty during Lockdown.
My sons and I have actually built the first hive,
and I've just loved learning about beekeeping and producing my
own honey. I've learned how honey has so many benefits
for health, and it's become a natural energy source in
my own diet. Producing my own honey also inspired me
(05:27):
to think, how can we create something that's good for
kids and families with honey at the heart of the recipe.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I really hope that people love be Up.
Speaker 7 (05:36):
Just like I do.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Bee Up is going to sell ten different packs of
fruit snacks, including very very tropical mix and sour watermelon,
and they're going to be available at Target in the US.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
We're trying them. We tried Ploy's popcorn. This is going
to be our thing.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Now.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
The other thing you talked about his honey there. I
would give anything the taste of honey, all right.
Speaker 6 (06:00):
And you know he's not you know, you know he's
not talking about he's not gonna make it clear. He's
not talking about the gummies you to get your.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Heads out of the gunner. I'm talking about the.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Get your head out of Joe's hideaway, buddy, get three
things needing over. Tuesday, June seventeenth, Lil Wayne and coming
to hang out at the Xfinity Center hopefully with you
six one seven nine three one one nine four five
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Speaker 6 (06:28):
Two chie My girl Laura in New Hampshire is gonna
go Lil Wayne.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
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and eight twenty. DJ pop Dog has your hug up
sometime in the mystery land of the three p m Hour.
All right, next is beyond the swipe personally my favor
because I love getting a temperature as to what the
dating world is out there, is doing out there week
by week. It's never good, be honest with you, it's
(06:54):
not looking good out there. Six one seven, nine three one.
That is six one, seven nine three one one nine
four five. We're talking dating, love relationships, the lack thereof
You could call and be like Ash, it is scary
in the dating streets. Whatever you want that involves those things,
we'll do it right here. Six one seven nine three
(07:15):
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Speaker 1 (07:24):
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Number one for hip hop jam In ninety four five.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Hi, everybody, good morning. We're doing beyond the swipe here,
so we're you know, a little bit of event Sash.
How's it going in the dating world, love relationships?
Speaker 6 (07:43):
Marriage?
Speaker 3 (07:43):
You can call and complain to me about any of
the following, or you could tell me I found love officially.
Speaker 6 (07:50):
I'd love to hear that that never happens for us.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
But six one seven nine three one one nine four five,
Nini and Framingham's gonna kick it off for us.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
Let's vent Nini, what is what's going on with the husband?
Speaker 8 (08:02):
So Okay, I'm trying a trip to go to Florida,
and I'm not trying to be on no like fighting
or you know, bickering and backering back and forth. So
like last night, I had worked and I came home,
I had to bring my brother home. I didn't get
home until a little later, and you know, he made
a big stink about it and was like, well, I'm
(08:22):
leaving the house and blah blah blah. And then he
left and then came back, didn't say nothing to me,
went to sleep, woke up this morning, he left to
go to work and say anything to me. And I'm like,
what is I'm saying to myself, what is his problem?
Speaker 5 (08:34):
What did I do?
Speaker 9 (08:36):
And so I'm like, I don't know, I don't really
know what to do.
Speaker 8 (08:38):
Do I want to take him with me or do
I not want to take him?
Speaker 10 (08:40):
Listening?
Speaker 3 (08:41):
You know, why was he met, like, did he since
you were gone from the home. Do y'all have kids
or something and he couldn't live?
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Yeah, we have.
Speaker 4 (08:47):
We have kids, okay to two kids.
Speaker 8 (08:50):
My two youngest start with him, and my two oldest
are not by him. But he's been there as a dad.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Okay, So basically, he was probably mad because you got
home late, because he never had any relief from watching
the kids' I'm assuming.
Speaker 8 (09:00):
Excuse me, No, no, no, no, no, I always have
my kids.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
No, I'm I'm asking. I'm trying to figure out why
he was mad.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
You know, we're just talk probably why.
Speaker 7 (09:09):
He was.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Back and forferial little conversation. So because you know he's
mad about something.
Speaker 8 (09:17):
Yeah, he's he's mad about something. I don't know what
it is. Maybe because he likes to be in control
of my life, and that whenever he gets home late
from work, when he wants to be gone for hours
and he gets out of work out five three, don't
come to my house abound like seven thirty eight o'clock.
I'm not supposed to question him, though, but I have
the kids all the time.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
I don't know your relationship, But do you guys fight
a lot?
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Yes, we do.
Speaker 10 (09:37):
Okay, mind you, mind you, mind you.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
He's fifty three. I'm thirty one.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Damn, whoa what's a fifty three year old doing for
the two hours after work?
Speaker 8 (09:46):
Just one? That's what I'm saying. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
And he doesn't like when I He doesn't like when
I questioned him either.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
I mean he if he's gonna question us on what
we're doing, then I guess it's time to question him.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Just saying I've been together eight years.
Speaker 8 (10:04):
Years?
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Yes, and thank you?
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Maybe how old are those two babes that the kids
you have with him?
Speaker 10 (10:12):
With him?
Speaker 8 (10:13):
My daughter seven and my son is four?
Speaker 10 (10:16):
Minds you?
Speaker 8 (10:17):
So I always wanted to have be with the guys
that I had my daughter with, and he took and
used that to my advantage with one tide my daughter.
Then he tried to deny her. So it's like it's
up been a lot of like non not up and
down and stuff and pushed. I lost my mom and
I lost my dad being with him, you know, I
lost my parents and stuff. And it's like he's not
like you would think he would be a little bit
more sentimental, Nini.
Speaker 6 (10:36):
He does not sound like the man for you.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
I I I don't know, Nanny. I gotta ask, do
you love this man?
Speaker 8 (10:43):
Honestly?
Speaker 10 (10:43):
I have love for him, like I really do.
Speaker 8 (10:45):
Like I I really thought that, you know, we could
be a family. Like everybody goes around and says, oh,
you guys have a beautiful family despite the age difference
and all that.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
You know.
Speaker 8 (10:53):
I don't really care, you know, but it's just like,
I'm not gonna sit there and keep to think that
you're gonna have control over my life and everything that
I do like and stuff like that. And I and
I'm and I can't know anything that's going on in
your life.
Speaker 5 (11:04):
I mean, I think it's clear, Nini. You need to
take a permanent vacation.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (11:08):
Yeah, So I'm just going to be me and my
kids by myself, and if you wants, that's all the
free time he got right there.
Speaker 10 (11:13):
You don't know to worry about me coming home.
Speaker 5 (11:14):
Lady, I don't think you heard me. You need to
take a permanent vacation. You need to leave this guy.
Speaker 6 (11:20):
Yeah, you don't need to be together in Florida.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
There's no need. There's no need, Okay, guys, I really
love him, so just just leave him alone.
Speaker 8 (11:30):
Not honestly not anymore. The love for him, like being
in love with him, is not there anymore. I have
love for him because I did have kids with him,
But you know, it's not like I said, I'm thirty one,
I still got my whole. I don't want to waste
my whole rest of my thirties, my thirties dealing.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
With him, and take it from me, Take it from me.
Staying for the kids is not the wave.
Speaker 10 (11:48):
It's not and I feel bad, but you know it
is what the kids will.
Speaker 8 (11:51):
The kids will, they'll, they'll, they'll mold out of it
against you eventually, I guess.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Yeah, it just the differences with your situation. We're on
your side with or we're on the mother of his
children's side.
Speaker 6 (12:02):
But that's that's neither here nor there, Nini. He was
posted the best to fuck to you, all right, all right, guys,
we love you.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
She kind of like worked that out herself, like she
didn't really necessarily need us. But you know, listen, that's
that is that's just my assumption that she came home
late and he was mad because he had to stay
at home with the kids.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
Like I don't you know, you have to assume too
the vacation must be tomorrow or something soon, because if
she's like, you know, taking.
Speaker 6 (12:26):
Him and Florida's not that great anyway, so might as
well go and be happy?
Speaker 3 (12:30):
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four five six one seven nine three one one nine
four five call us. We're talking dating, love relationships, lack
thereof vin sash about your current relationship, anything you want
involving those things. Six one seven nine three one one
nine four five. It's beyond Hi, everybody, good morning, It's
(12:51):
Ashley in the gym in morning show. We're doing beyond
the Swipe. We're talking dating love relationships. It's usually really
us just taking a temperature as to what like the
dating life is like out there?
Speaker 6 (13:03):
Forren's going to give the exclusive, What is it like forun?
What's going on out there?
Speaker 5 (13:09):
I mean it's cool, you just gotta you know, it's
almost like the apps.
Speaker 6 (13:12):
You got any thirst straps at any thirsties out there
for you?
Speaker 9 (13:15):
No?
Speaker 5 (13:15):
I don't. I don't do any third straps.
Speaker 6 (13:17):
I know, but I know you don't. But they might
be coming for yes.
Speaker 5 (13:20):
Oh yes, oh yes, oh yes, and I love them.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
I welcome from Actually that's a four E.
Speaker 4 (13:27):
I g M.
Speaker 6 (13:29):
Sam is in Wooster Sam talk to.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Us because you, I mean, it's good, the dating world's
good for you. You got two people coming after you options.
Speaker 10 (13:39):
I would be real. Is the first I've never really
actually dated nobody. But this is the first time I
had two people after me, which is interesting. But anyway,
so the first guy, I met him through Facebook dating
and we went out a couple of times him in there.
I thought the vine was good. I thought we were
(14:02):
chilling and we were doing our thing.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
You know.
Speaker 10 (14:05):
About a month ago we had went out to Lincoln,
New Hampshire, to the White Mountains to have a good time.
I get to know each other more. It was a
great time. So and then after that a couple like
about in the begin like the end, at the beginning
of we.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
Don't need all the explicit details you could, you know
what I mean, like, don't worry about.
Speaker 10 (14:28):
Just yeah, got so me we had decided, you know,
he this is the thing. He completely ghosted me after
a month. A month went by, he hits me up
Sunday and says, gave me a bowl crap excuse. I
don't know if it's true or not, but he gave
(14:49):
me an excuse saying that he was in the hospital
because he was in the shower and he busted his ass,
broke his head, and all of a sudden, he hits
me up and gives me the excuse. Okay, that's the
first guy. The second guy, I already had told him like,
I'm sorry, but I'm sorry about all this. I didn't
know what was going on with you. I thought you
compotely ghosted me and whatever, and I moved on. I
(15:12):
pretty much moved on to somebody else because I didn't
hear him for a whole time month. I thought he
was just being shady. They the one thing to do
with me, So I said, okay, I'm moving on. So
now I have this other guy. You know, we're talking,
I'm getting to know each other, and he seemed like
he's a very nice guy. So now the other the
first guy tells me he wants to get back together,
(15:33):
and yeah, the shower guy. Shower guy pretty much tells
me he wants to get back together. But I'm like, bro,
you kind of kind of completely ghosted me, you know,
and that was wrong on your part because I'm over
here thinking that we did a good thing, and we
were doing our thing and chilling and whatever. And he's
now he's like, oh, I'm sad, I want to cry
and blah blah blah. I'm like, bro, I don't do
(15:54):
the tear thing. I'm a cool guy, but I don't
do tears that that's that's not me, you know. So
the other guy I'm talking to we went on a
couple of days and I'm vibing with this guy more
than the other guy.
Speaker 6 (16:14):
He cursed.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
But you know what, I'm gonna bless you guys and
pretend like we dropped the call because I can't.
Speaker 6 (16:20):
I can't, I can't know.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
It's just it was every detail in the story.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Like May twelfth, at two forty two pm, he texts me,
after two months a time, you know that day, the
sun was kind of out, it was a little cool.
I was wearing a blue sweater, no shoes because my
shoes were out in the front room because I had
gone to the grocery store and they got a little
mud on them. And by the way, when I was
at the grocery store, it was market Basket and they
were protesting because they like, I can't, we.
Speaker 6 (16:47):
Don't know if Karen Reid is guilty or Rinza.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
You got time for this, honest, I don't Anonymous is
gonna save us.
Speaker 6 (16:54):
We have time? Yes, Okay, are you puking?
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Like?
Speaker 6 (17:02):
What's going on?
Speaker 3 (17:06):
Hi? Hi, Hynonymous, let's chat about you know, you have
a situation ship issue.
Speaker 9 (17:15):
A huge situation ship issue. I met this sky online.
We've been seeing each other since February. We were consistent
for like a solid four month. Well, a couple of
months things started to change. I noticed he we started
seeing another girl. But since then, I have met his family,
(17:36):
we have planned trips together. He was crying on my
couch this weekend talk about because I was like, dude,
are you willing to lose me for this other girl?
And he was crying on my couch talk about. No,
he's not willing to lose me. But last night he's
still with this other girl. Like, what did the deal?
Speaker 10 (17:54):
How are you?
Speaker 6 (17:55):
How are you finding out that he's still with this
other girl?
Speaker 9 (17:58):
Because he tells me I asked him and where oh,
because this is nothing serious. We went into the pretense
that nothing serious because he just got out of this
really long relationship. He's only ever been with a few
girls in his life. We do have an age gap too.
I'm older. He's younger.
Speaker 6 (18:12):
Okay, let me ask you something. What do you want
from this?
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Like?
Speaker 6 (18:16):
What's your end?
Speaker 9 (18:17):
I I want him? I do want him. Oh, he
has a lot of red flags too, but I think
I do want him at the end of the day.
Speaker 6 (18:29):
Yeah, this is giving reasonable doubt.
Speaker 5 (18:34):
Why are we giving people ultimatums and we know that
they don't want nothing serious?
Speaker 10 (18:38):
Though.
Speaker 9 (18:39):
It's not an ultimatum. I'm not telling him if you
see her, you can't have me. I'm saying. I'm asking him, like,
I just want to know where you are with us,
Like are we just going to keep We have so
much fun together and we're just going to keep having
this fun? And for how long?
Speaker 10 (18:54):
I mean pretty much?
Speaker 4 (18:55):
He told you and he's playing games and he's younger.
Do you have a history of dating guys who are younger? Yes, okay,
I know who this is. You called him last week?
Speaker 9 (19:05):
Right, Nope, I've never called in. I'm not lying. I'm serious,
I'm dead. I've never called it.
Speaker 10 (19:13):
I do have.
Speaker 9 (19:14):
I do like younger guys.
Speaker 10 (19:15):
I got my age, my way.
Speaker 6 (19:18):
What age gap are we talking here?
Speaker 9 (19:21):
I'm forty five. I like to date guys between twenty
seven and thirty five.
Speaker 4 (19:26):
That's not that bad.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
I mean I would I would urge you to get
get to like thirty, Like you know what I'm saying,
Like that's it's getting great.
Speaker 5 (19:33):
With that level. Yeah, but yeah, I'm still kind of
I'm still kind of If he's telling you he don't
want nothing serious, why are we even asking him if
checking the temperature there's no temperature to check.
Speaker 9 (19:44):
I told you that's what acts different.
Speaker 8 (19:47):
He acts that way.
Speaker 9 (19:49):
Why would he introduce me to his family?
Speaker 5 (19:51):
Okay, so you won't so you want more and he doesn't,
and you feel a way about that. Let's just keep
it re right.
Speaker 9 (19:56):
Yes, that is true?
Speaker 1 (19:57):
But does he not?
Speaker 9 (19:58):
Like is he just getting there?
Speaker 7 (20:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (20:01):
Can I can? I just say to me in my head, bitch,
but like, why are you crying?
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Get up? Get up?
Speaker 9 (20:09):
I think.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
That's enough for me to be like, he's playing games
with her because stuff like that clearly works works for her.
He's health, she was there.
Speaker 5 (20:20):
She like, he's honest about about the other girl when
he asks, right, whenever you ask him about anybody else,
he's he's not hiding. He's being honest with you. From
out the gay he told you, I just want to
be in nothing serious. I just want to have fun.
Now you're asking him about if if you with her,
will you know if I leave you, how you're going
(20:40):
to feel. I don't think that's fair.
Speaker 9 (20:42):
I mean he asked the same thing he asked me
if I'm with other dudes, and he gets mad if
I d then y'all don't know.
Speaker 5 (20:49):
Y'all don't know what an open or a fun time is. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
play y'all lying to each other, to each other like
you're forty five. You don't have time for these little games.
But she does.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
I know.
Speaker 9 (21:01):
I mean I kind of do, but I don't because
I do want something like why can't guys be regular?
Why can't? I don't know, I'm amazing?
Speaker 3 (21:07):
You know why?
Speaker 9 (21:08):
On top of it?
Speaker 5 (21:08):
You know why because when when you asked them to
be with you, they say, I don't want none serious
and he still issue, yeah, both find somebody who's serious
about you.
Speaker 6 (21:18):
Yeah, that's not gonna cry? Why is he cried? And
I can't get over it.
Speaker 9 (21:22):
I cannot get past it, like get calling his eyes
out on my couch about how I'd be a huge
loss in his life and I would be he I
would be I know.
Speaker 6 (21:33):
Yeah, well listen, keep us posted. Well, I feel invested
in this.
Speaker 10 (21:38):
I will.
Speaker 6 (21:41):
Nothing is changing in that. By the way, Zatti cannot
let this go that he.
Speaker 4 (21:45):
Believes exactly her. Do you know which girl I'm talking about?
Last week she called in and she says she dates
these younger guys and she wanted us to grow up
with a person. Yeah, it's definitely her. It's the same pattern,
same tone, same everything. She's not going to change.
Speaker 6 (21:58):
Well, we get is check and do the voice, you know.
But she was pretty adamant right there that she.
Speaker 4 (22:04):
That wasn't her, because we believe everybody who calls in. Fine,
you're being mad at me. I am right.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
I know.
Speaker 4 (22:16):
On the jury.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
In the morning show with d J Foreign it's Sad Morning.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
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or five.
Speaker 6 (22:29):
Hi, everybody, good morning. While we're all on.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
Verdict watch in the meantime, I gotta talk about other things.
I've said this a million times in the show, but
it is true. All of us, the three of us,
are in different eras of our parenting. Okay, I'm in
like baby diapers, wipes, era tolderland Forn just had high
(22:56):
school graduation like grown up plans and Santi, you're in
high school lands.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
I'm in like teenage preteen lands.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
Yeah, to the point where Santy's got to get out
of here right after the show and drive to New
Hampshire because the girls are having people over and some
of those people include boys.
Speaker 4 (23:15):
Today is the last day of school for them, so yeah,
they're having like this little party. But again this one's
a boy girl things. So I have to be home
to supervised because again I remember what I used to
do around this stage that that you know what I mean,
and we don't want stuff like that happening. Not saying
that they're going to, but I just need a responsible
adult to be there.
Speaker 5 (23:31):
I don't think I don't think people are worried about
you around the adaughters.
Speaker 6 (23:35):
No, he's very well. No no, no, no, no boy
like student boy.
Speaker 5 (23:40):
Over the head. It's all good. I said, I don't
think people worried about you. Nod as a kid. I'm
worried about the suns getting here.
Speaker 3 (23:50):
We think he's going for protection, but you know why,
I'm trying not to get against They're young, so it's
just like.
Speaker 6 (23:58):
But yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, we need security.
Speaker 4 (24:06):
We definitely do.
Speaker 6 (24:07):
What will you do? I'm assuming they're going to be
at the pool.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
I'm not going to go down there and hang out
with them. No, I'm just going to be around in
case something happens or not something happens, they need something
to order food, we do. We have one from like
not right down there, but up that can kind of.
No one's allowed in the crib, No they are. I
just need to be home and stuff and then I
need to get food and stuff like that, just to
have an adult there.
Speaker 5 (24:27):
So what kind of freedom do you give them in
the crib?
Speaker 4 (24:30):
They can't be in their rooms together and stuff like that,
but they can be around the house. And now the
common areas, yes, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 6 (24:36):
The basement area is kind of where they all hang out.
Speaker 4 (24:38):
That's a common area, so they can be down there
like all two open door. It's a glass door, so
the door can be closed. But they also know that
my office is down there too, so I can't any
second downstairs.
Speaker 8 (24:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
That's the one thing as a parent with kids this age,
when you're like my older my oldest is fifteen. He's
been dating too. So when you see them like dating
in that atmosphere, it's just such an awkward thing at first,
and then I'm not.
Speaker 6 (25:02):
Ready for that. I mean, I'm far away from that,
but I'm not ready.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
For that, I think, and no, no, for might feel different,
but at the same time, like you know it's coming,
So I think you got to kind of relate to
them and understand you were once there too, and.
Speaker 5 (25:14):
It's not our ever when we grew up with with
you know, maybe just sneaking a magazine or some kind
of video, like these kids are exposed to a lot
of sexuality from early, like it's just in their phase
twenty four seven, So you'd be surprised how much they
do know that they didn't even learn in school, you
know what I mean. Said, it's like it's it's by
the time your kids are teens, Ashley, Yeah, they'll be
(25:36):
they would have known about not yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (25:38):
And to his point, I didn't realize until I made
certain jokes and they knew exactly exactly joking about and
me thinking that it goes over the head when I
was saying it like little things to my wife in
reference and something that's super obscure. But they were on
and I'm like, wow, the music they do.
Speaker 5 (25:52):
Tik talk on Instagram it is just nothing but sexuality
being pushed towards them. So they to them, it's like,
what's this? What are you talking to me about?
Speaker 4 (25:59):
Yeah, like it was already new. It was a few
years ago when my daughter explaining to me what I yeah,
it was, you know, and you guys had said it here,
but like they knew. I was like, how old.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
They're not as innocent as we think. They're not as innocent.
Speaker 4 (26:10):
Are right now?
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (26:13):
So far? Yeah, so far.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
But I think if you had open conversation with them
about all these things, I think it makes a little
bit better. But this still comes with challenges.
Speaker 3 (26:21):
But you know what actually mine art because I don't
know who she heard say it or or whatever way
it was said in front of her.
Speaker 6 (26:30):
But the other day she was being fresh.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
So I sat her down and I was like, you're
being fresh, and if you keep it up, you know,
you don't have to go to time out. But I'm
obviously going to give you the chance to not be
because there's a little bit of a tone here with you.
She gets up out of the seat, looks at me
dead in my eyes, and goes, whatever.
Speaker 6 (26:49):
Uh huh, oh she right to teo. She went, I
said whatever, you're a little all the way to time out.
Speaker 3 (26:57):
But she said it in the right context and with
the like attitude like whatever, I mean.
Speaker 5 (27:03):
It's and then you wonder what did she see that?
But again you probably said it at one point she
absorbed it like kids kids.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
I mean, I've had people in and out of my
house all week and long. I mean she picks up
everything other people. Now I don't, I don't say whatever
like that.
Speaker 4 (27:19):
Yeah, but you say little things like that where you're
just like, okay.
Speaker 6 (27:26):
O, listen, I know that.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
It's Yeah, like I said, we're all in different times,
but it's I mean, when I was young, we were
Terry's rule was we were never allowed in the bedrooms
with the doors shut.
Speaker 6 (27:38):
But I'm not trying. Like that didn't stop me.
Speaker 4 (27:40):
Yeah, like, I think you find ways around it. I
just remind them that I've done everything, so I know
what's happening, like all the time.
Speaker 5 (27:47):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. One time I had a show him
after high school, I had a showed him my crib.
We weren't doing nothing. We were just chilling because's why
I had my TV and all that. My pops came home.
I swear he saw her. But he didn't say nothing.
And then at one point he walked by. He opened
though he asked me a question. He's like, get this
girl out of your room, straight in front of her.
She got scaring. My dad was like back then, military type, mad, tough,
(28:09):
and he's like get out of the room, like what
are you doing?
Speaker 3 (28:11):
And then she had to I mean that will be
my rule too. He can't be in the room bedrooms,
no bedrooms, no door shut. But I just know there's
other ways.
Speaker 4 (28:20):
Yeah, Or you can say three feet on the floor
at all times too. Three when you're in somebody's bedroom,
three feet on the floor all the Time's the three feet.
Speaker 6 (28:29):
No, just so you know that, Like here's the other
person's no.
Speaker 8 (28:35):
No.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
Just ensures that.
Speaker 11 (28:37):
They aren't doing a leg anything. I mean, that's way
the one leg could be up in the Yeah, so
what are you talking about? Three more challenging. He's used
to the fluff I forgot somebody.
Speaker 6 (28:52):
He was like, I can not wait to use that
on Chamman for nobody to get it.
Speaker 10 (29:00):
Please.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
And the jam In Morning Show with DJ Forearn It's
SAT Morning.
Speaker 2 (29:04):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (29:09):
All right, everybody that's gonna do it for us. We're
all on verdict. Watch I say, same rule applies. If
I get the text from Nick, I'll send you guys
the groupie. If not, you see something, If you see something,
say something.
Speaker 4 (29:22):
Oh sue that today is the day, right, we have.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
Been telling them less than they got to be less
than ten minutes away from her. It means it's gonna
be quick.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
Yeah, Today's day again.
Speaker 3 (29:33):
Nick Rocco's prediction. If it's not today, he thinks this
will end in a mistrial again. But he thinks if
it is today, it'll be a not guilty verdict. We
shall see sound shout outs.
Speaker 4 (29:43):
Yeah, shout out to Darryl Flynn, Kristen Macello in Bald
PT Dude, shout out to you, DJ Forn.
Speaker 5 (29:49):
Simply Ashley too. He's in the AAA. Make sure yeah
tap in and follow us on the Gram and also
follow me at DJ falln Back to Night, Late Night
Drip and in the mix.
Speaker 3 (29:57):
You know what the craziest shock of the day is
no one snitched on us to kiss that. You know
why they all agree with us? Yeah, that is when
you know they must all agree with us because they're
not going down there and snitching.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
Or they're just afraid of his roid rage, so we
don't know.
Speaker 6 (30:13):
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