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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Dashi and the jam In Morning Show with DJ fourn
It's saw a ticket Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Kaibabesh Friday. We made it first week back from vacation.
Always a tough one.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Move slowly, Kelly and Marlborough is going to the Boston
Calling Music Festival.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
DJ pup Dog has a chance.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
At three and then that will put a nice little
boat on the Boston Calling Music FESTIL for now, we
might have tickets closer to but we will do something
with Gryffindor and Dinner next week.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
That is your little clue, all right.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Sometimes during the check in we get calls from people
and we're like, m, we might have to put a
little bit of more time into that.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
I don't want to feel like I'm rushing you off
the phone stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I had seen your call in the call screener and
I said, oh, no, no, no, I have never spoken
to a person who dated a billionaire with a b buillionaire,
so I need I needed some more time. Are you
currently in the relationship or are you guys?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Have you separated ways?
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Oh well, it depends you're asking, so we we we
are together we're on the outs though, because I'm not
very compliant. I'm from Massachusetts, so I do have a
couple of things to say in my opinion, does matter
to me?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Okay, he where does he live?
Speaker 1 (01:26):
He lives in Texas.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
He lives in Texas, and he's a billionaire with a bee.
I know you probably don't want to say exactly what
he does, but can you give us a hint?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Oil?
Speaker 3 (01:39):
I watched land Man True.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Everything that's in that is true?
Speaker 4 (01:44):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Okay, so before we get into your relationship, what is
it like dating a billionaire? And what are some things
that only one can get from dating a billionaire?
Speaker 1 (01:56):
A six stomach all the time? Oh, money doesn't buy happiness.
We'll just say that.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
He's very frugal though, so you would never know he
had money. He drives a Chevy Silverado. Uh, he doesn't
look like he has money. He has a lot of
has a lot of houses, like a million dollar homes,
things like that, But you wouldn't know he was a millionaire,
a billionaire. I met him twelve years ago. He was
(02:25):
my customer. I cold called him. He owned a telecom company.
I didn't know like his family was into cattle, ranching
and oil, so we became friends. He was always super
super cheap, So there's a reason that they have money.
They don't spend any money like we do. We're so
(02:45):
oh yeah, like ash he would divorce you so.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Quickly, so I was literally about to say him and
I I know, I couldn't even imagine it.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Buy. Yeah, he busted my ball about two hundred dollars,
like come on, I'll go get my own job and
pay my bills.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Come on, body, Oh my god, So are you so
you guys are in this like long distance relationship?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Clearly?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Yeah, but I spent the last year going back and
forth between Boston and Texas and Boston and a house
in Florida that he bought so we could go there
and be together.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Does he does he pay for your living situation here?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Everything?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Okay? And you obviously live in the city, And is
that because you work here?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Yes? Ok My kids go to private school here, so
I need to stay here at least one more year.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Does he put the bill on the private school?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Okay. When I asked you what it's like dating a billionaire,
you said you always have a six stomach.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Why because prior to us being in a relationship. He
appeared to be like one of my best male friends.
I went to school for psychology. Mental health is important
to me. We discussed so I already knew like the
red flags and his self. He grew up with no
love in his relationship in his home, so I get it.
(04:08):
I thought, great, he found me weak at a time,
so I gave him a chance. I started dating him.
All against my friends were like, no, this is a
bad idea. You already know how it's going to turn out.
We got into the relationship and he's emotionally inept, like
cannot talk about anything to do with like feelings. If
(04:32):
you say anything, he thinks are attacking him. Like he's
such an avoidant. It's just like I knew better because
I saw the red flags, but because I've known him
for twelve years, I made excuses and I didn't go
with my god. So it's my own fault.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Honestly, do the kids have a relationship with them?
Speaker 1 (04:50):
No, My eighteen year old actually doesn't like him. He
thinks he as a god complex and he's like, with
thirteen billion dollars, you could solve like world hunger and
buy countries. Mom, like Monseano's paying your bills and you
hate them like you're going against all of your morals.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Like please, did we all celebrate the holidays together?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
No, because he doesn't celebrate holidays. Actually, even though yeah, yeah,
it's so.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
He doesn't sound.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
He hasn't been described to me in any way, shape
or form as fun.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
What does he Well does he give you other than money?
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Well before I did think it was emotional support. So
I now that you say it like that, yeah, money, No,
he did. I thought brought me happiness. In the beginning,
probably the first six months, he was very emotionally supportive.
I think he was probably baiting me along the way.
(05:55):
I quit my job, I did all the things that
he was like, if you do this, I'll.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Give you this.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Did you are Do you still have a job or no?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
I do now. But back in November we got into
a fight because we got into a fight because he
tried to tell me I didn't know what it was
like to be poor. I'm like a single mom whose
kids go to private school. I do know what it's
like to be poor because I was working two jobs
my whole life to pay for that.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
It's also just like a weird thing to say, are you.
Is he much older than you.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
He's eight years older than me, but he was raised different, right,
like his family, they grew up like on a cattle ranch,
like working in the oil field. So even though they
are billionaires, they literally get up and work every day,
which is cool.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
I'm John Dunne, John dun Yeah, but I feel like
you called us to tell us about this because you
maybe need to hear something or you wanted to get
it off your chest so we could tell you that
it genuinely seems like the only reason you're sticking around
is because of his money. Because girl, I mean again,
(07:06):
nothing that you've said has made me be like, oh wow,
I mean this, Like I asked you what it's like
dating a billionaire and you said you're sick to your
stomach every day.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
That's like that.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
My counching bag. Yeah, Like I didn't realize that until
like the past week or two. To be honest, that
I'm just trying to hold on because I'm like, I
love him, and some of my friends are like, why
he's so mean? Even this morning he's like sending me
verbally like abusive, like like it's just such a tension
(07:38):
seeking behavior and I just like.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
This, does he shallow you with the gifts?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Yeah? No, not really, Like but here's the thing. Though
I'm a single mom, I've never had like a real
solid man in my life. Like I'm super independent because
of my past drama, I dealt with it. What he
did do was if and oh, Mike, garage door is broken,
he would be like, oh, I'll help you. He's very
(08:06):
hands on, right, so he's like a handyman. So he
always had the answer, even from Afar. All right, So
even though we didn't live together, he fixed everything.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
Right.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
If I said I needed something, it showed up on
via Amazon, I'm like, wow, that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
He might also argue for and like he pays for
her to live and he also pays for her kids
to go to school. So maybe to him, that's the
way somebody's showing you, Yeah, he's worth.
Speaker 5 (08:32):
Is definitely the reason why he is the way that
he is.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Well, why can't you call him right now and say
you're verbally abusive to me?
Speaker 1 (08:41):
He will say I'm wrong, okay, but he will say
it is all me. If I changed, yeah, he would,
we would be perfect. And I'm like, I literally couldn't
stfu more. If I tried, I couldn't.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
What if you called him right now and said, I
don't want to abuse you anymore? Would you fight it?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
No?
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Because he literally is paying my bills for at least
another six months. So he's like, Okay, that's fine. I'll
just like that's the.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
Problem, and that's why you're not that's what game is
on our leaf, talk about it, and that's why you're sting. Right,
it seems very.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Well, I don't. He has to pay my rent though.
Either way, he's going to pay my rent, right, his
name is on my leaf.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Yeah, but he could evict you, right because he's.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
He wouldn't. He's not manipulating. He's not like he's not
teddy or vacetious like that, like.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Yeah, which is good. I'm just saying, you live here
till July. Okay.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
If he's stopped paying all of your bills and for
the kids schooling and all that stuff, would you still
be with us?
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Man? Yes, that's the problem. It's something's wrong with my brain.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
I think you know that if you're into psychology as well,
so yes, I know.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
I don't know how this happened, Like it's a real
stark awakening. I hope to so many women who think
you can't be manipulated or tricked by whatever just happened,
and you can, Like if I just listen to my
gut instinct many months ago, a year ago, I would Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
But it's and that's all well and good that you
see that. We can't live in the past now, right,
we have to figure out what's the next step. And
you're not happy? So are you just going to stay
in this for the rest of your life? Like?
Speaker 3 (10:22):
What do you getting at?
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I'm literally nothing, that's the problem. I will tell you.
Ever since I decided like I don't want this anymore,
my entire nervous system feels better. So I know it's
the better choice. I just don't know how to like
make him stop, Like do I just do I block him?
Like do I? Well, first off, to make them stoly texting.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
You have to first you have to break up with them.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I mean that's the first thing you have to tell him, like,
I'm not happy, I don't want to do this anymore.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
And and and they're going And that's the thing. We
go back and forth every day. Right, He's like, I
know I don't want to deal with your kids. I'm like, right,
you know, I had kids for twelve beers. But nice
job deflecting. Ah, you're emotionally an apse, sir, Like, that's
the problem, and I'm calling you out on it and
it's making you angrier at me.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
Not a must then want to get on air. But
she says you should know better because he's displaying seven
out of the nine narcissistic I know I do know better,
And she's like, this woman knows who she's dealing with.
You're just choosing to stay for the money.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Well, listen, and now you're getting emotional.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
But again, I think that that that we can let's
try to take this as a positive in a sense
of you're starting to learn some things about yourself and
about this relationship. And you, you know, you if you're
if one of your kids came home and explain this
entire situation and they were going through it, you'd be like,
what are you doing?
Speaker 3 (11:45):
You have to leave?
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Yeah, I wouldn't even Yeah, you're.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
Right, and you can do it.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
You can definitely do it. And you know what if
if he says, hey, maybe he'll shock you. Maybe he'll
say listen, I have felt this too. Yeah, we don't know,
but I'm just saying. The bottom line is you can't
you if.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
It's worse three times three girlfriends like, no, it's always them.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
It's never him, So you got to get out of
this stuff.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Like listen, like I this man has he's he's it's
he's changing you and it's not for the better. And
he didn't even get you a burken like it's you
gotta go, we have to but he did get mess.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Oh it's nice. Well good, they're yours now, they're yours. Now.
You can keep those as a memento.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
But if it made you feel better and just in
your mind to think I'm done with this relationship, imagine
how good it's going to feel when you're really done.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
With the relationship.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Yeah, you're right. Wow, I was like actually blinded to
buy money. That was weird.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Do you think don't think you're the first one.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
I'm sure a lot of people would be blinded by
money and dating a billionaire.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
And we'll stay because of that.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
But if you can, if you could afford to pay
your own bills and get out of it for you,
for your own mental health, then I mean, you're.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Clearly not in love with this man anymore. That's for sure.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
Yeah, you're right. I think I'm just telling myself that
I am in love with him.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
I'm sure, I'm sure.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Okay, you know what's going on, all right.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Well, listen, keep us posted, stay strong. You got this right.
The first step is telling him I don't think we
can do this anymore. You know, got to start there.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
Oh, he did just dift me my Mercedes though, so
that's the plus.
Speaker 5 (13:24):
Like, you're part of the problem too, though, we'll talk.
Let's keep that bucket. Yeah, you're kind of part of
the problem because it's like you know who you're dealing with,
but you're hanging on because of bread. Like, don't let
him pay for your schooling no more, your kid's schooling.
Don't let him pay your bills no more. Don't let
him buy you a Mercedes.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
And see kid, by the way, from what it seems,
your kids will be so happy.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Yeah, he did stop paying my bills in November, though,
in my defense, he just took my product card away
and shut off everything.
Speaker 5 (13:54):
And then, how do you stop paying them back? How
do you stop paying them back?
Speaker 1 (13:57):
He hasn't. I just got a job and paid it myself. Okay,
So he pays my rent though, like he pays my
rent and I sent him his gas card back, Like
I don't want anything from you, including your attitude.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
Yeah, you can't pick and choose, but you don't have
to take the car. You don't have to. This is
how he hooks you in every single time. And I'm
sure you'll call him today, break up with them. Then
tomorrow there'll be something else there and you'll come back.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
No I won't.
Speaker 5 (14:25):
I hope not.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
No, No, I'm not going to.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
I hope you don't either.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I don't believe you. But he deserves to be alone. Okay, well,
he deserves to be alone with his.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
There's gonna be a lot of people who want an
update on this story stuff, so so stay.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
In contact with us. Give me one month, keep it
all right. Well, we'll talk to you in thirty days.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
All right, thank you, good luck.
Speaker 5 (14:46):
B No, bro, I'm not signing.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
She actually stressed me out. He's not going.
Speaker 4 (14:54):
He's flying here with a PG.
Speaker 5 (14:55):
She's gonna think, I love you.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
Get on the PJ, go to Texas there.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
And then come back and then and then and then
dookie on him on the airways.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Are you talking about that? And everything we said? Well,
he did get me this he did.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Get it?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Please a Mercedes in a Channel bag. She's staying
Dashi and the jam In Morning Show with DJ fourn
It's saw a ticket Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Kaibabesh Friday. We made it first week back from vacation.
Always a tough one.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Move slowly, Kelly and Marlborough is going to the Boston
Calling Music Festival.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
DJ pup Dog has a chance.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
At three and then that will put a nice little
boat on the Boston Calling Music FESTIL for now, we
might have tickets closer to but we will do something
with Gryffindor and Dinner next week.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
That is your little clue, all right.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Sometimes during the check in we get calls from people
and we're like, m, we might have to put a
little bit of more time into that.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
I don't want to feel like I'm rushing you off
the phone stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I had seen your call in the call screener and
I said, oh, no, no, no, I have never spoken
to a person who dated a billionaire with a b buillionaire,
so I need I needed some more time. Are you
currently in the relationship or are you guys?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Have you separated ways?
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Oh well, it depends you're asking, so we we we
are together we're on the outs though, because I'm not
very compliant. I'm from Massachusetts, so I do have a
couple of things to say in my opinion, does matter
to me?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Okay, he where does he live?
Speaker 1 (01:26):
He lives in Texas.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
He lives in Texas, and he's a billionaire with a bee.
I know you probably don't want to say exactly what
he does, but can you give us a hint?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Oil?
Speaker 3 (01:39):
I watched land Man True.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Everything that's in that is true?
Speaker 4 (01:44):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Okay, so before we get into your relationship, what is
it like dating a billionaire? And what are some things
that only one can get from dating a billionaire?
Speaker 1 (01:56):
A six stomach all the time? Oh, money doesn't buy happiness.
We'll just say that.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
He's very frugal though, so you would never know he
had money. He drives a Chevy Silverado. Uh, he doesn't
look like he has money. He has a lot of
has a lot of houses, like a million dollar homes,
things like that, But you wouldn't know he was a millionaire,
a billionaire. I met him twelve years ago. He was
(02:25):
my customer. I cold called him. He owned a telecom company.
I didn't know like his family was into cattle, ranching
and oil, so we became friends. He was always super
super cheap, So there's a reason that they have money.
They don't spend any money like we do. We're so
(02:45):
oh yeah, like ash he would divorce you so.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Quickly, so I was literally about to say him and
I I know, I couldn't even imagine it.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Buy. Yeah, he busted my ball about two hundred dollars,
like come on, I'll go get my own job and
pay my bills.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Come on, body, Oh my god, So are you so
you guys are in this like long distance relationship?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Clearly?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Yeah, but I spent the last year going back and
forth between Boston and Texas and Boston and a house
in Florida that he bought so we could go there
and be together.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Does he does he pay for your living situation here?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Everything?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Okay? And you obviously live in the city, And is
that because you work here?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Yes? Ok My kids go to private school here, so
I need to stay here at least one more year.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Does he put the bill on the private school?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Okay. When I asked you what it's like dating a billionaire,
you said you always have a six stomach.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Why because prior to us being in a relationship. He
appeared to be like one of my best male friends.
I went to school for psychology. Mental health is important
to me. We discussed so I already knew like the
red flags and his self. He grew up with no
love in his relationship in his home, so I get it.
(04:08):
I thought, great, he found me weak at a time,
so I gave him a chance. I started dating him.
All against my friends were like, no, this is a
bad idea. You already know how it's going to turn out.
We got into the relationship and he's emotionally inept, like
cannot talk about anything to do with like feelings. If
(04:32):
you say anything, he thinks are attacking him. Like he's
such an avoidant. It's just like I knew better because
I saw the red flags, but because I've known him
for twelve years, I made excuses and I didn't go
with my god. So it's my own fault.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Honestly, do the kids have a relationship with them?
Speaker 1 (04:50):
No, My eighteen year old actually doesn't like him. He
thinks he as a god complex and he's like, with
thirteen billion dollars, you could solve like world hunger and
buy countries. Mom, like Monseano's paying your bills and you
hate them like you're going against all of your morals.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Like please, did we all celebrate the holidays together?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
No, because he doesn't celebrate holidays. Actually, even though yeah, yeah,
it's so.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
He doesn't sound.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
He hasn't been described to me in any way, shape
or form as fun.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
What does he Well does he give you other than money?
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Well before I did think it was emotional support. So
I now that you say it like that, yeah, money, No,
he did. I thought brought me happiness. In the beginning,
probably the first six months, he was very emotionally supportive.
I think he was probably baiting me along the way.
(05:55):
I quit my job, I did all the things that
he was like, if you do this, I'll.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Give you this.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Did you are Do you still have a job or no?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
I do now. But back in November we got into
a fight because we got into a fight because he
tried to tell me I didn't know what it was
like to be poor. I'm like a single mom whose
kids go to private school. I do know what it's
like to be poor because I was working two jobs
my whole life to pay for that.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
It's also just like a weird thing to say, are you.
Is he much older than you.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
He's eight years older than me, but he was raised different, right,
like his family, they grew up like on a cattle ranch,
like working in the oil field. So even though they
are billionaires, they literally get up and work every day,
which is cool.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
I'm John Dunne, John dun Yeah, but I feel like
you called us to tell us about this because you
maybe need to hear something or you wanted to get
it off your chest so we could tell you that
it genuinely seems like the only reason you're sticking around
is because of his money. Because girl, I mean again,
(07:06):
nothing that you've said has made me be like, oh wow,
I mean this, Like I asked you what it's like
dating a billionaire and you said you're sick to your
stomach every day.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
That's like that.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
My counching bag. Yeah, Like I didn't realize that until
like the past week or two. To be honest, that
I'm just trying to hold on because I'm like, I
love him, and some of my friends are like, why
he's so mean? Even this morning he's like sending me
verbally like abusive, like like it's just such a tension
(07:38):
seeking behavior and I just like.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
This, does he shallow you with the gifts?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Yeah? No, not really, Like but here's the thing. Though
I'm a single mom, I've never had like a real
solid man in my life. Like I'm super independent because
of my past drama, I dealt with it. What he
did do was if and oh, Mike, garage door is broken,
he would be like, oh, I'll help you. He's very
(08:06):
hands on, right, so he's like a handyman. So he
always had the answer, even from Afar. All right, So
even though we didn't live together, he fixed everything.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
Right.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
If I said I needed something, it showed up on
via Amazon, I'm like, wow, that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
He might also argue for and like he pays for
her to live and he also pays for her kids
to go to school. So maybe to him, that's the
way somebody's showing you, Yeah, he's worth.
Speaker 5 (08:32):
Is definitely the reason why he is the way that
he is.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Well, why can't you call him right now and say
you're verbally abusive to me?
Speaker 1 (08:41):
He will say I'm wrong, okay, but he will say
it is all me. If I changed, yeah, he would,
we would be perfect. And I'm like, I literally couldn't
stfu more. If I tried, I couldn't.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
What if you called him right now and said, I
don't want to abuse you anymore? Would you fight it?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
No?
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Because he literally is paying my bills for at least
another six months. So he's like, Okay, that's fine. I'll
just like that's the.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
Problem, and that's why you're not that's what game is
on our leaf, talk about it, and that's why you're sting. Right,
it seems very.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Well, I don't. He has to pay my rent though.
Either way, he's going to pay my rent, right, his
name is on my leaf.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Yeah, but he could evict you, right because he's.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
He wouldn't. He's not manipulating. He's not like he's not
teddy or vacetious like that, like.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Yeah, which is good. I'm just saying, you live here
till July. Okay.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
If he's stopped paying all of your bills and for
the kids schooling and all that stuff, would you still
be with us?
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Man? Yes, that's the problem. It's something's wrong with my brain.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
I think you know that if you're into psychology as well,
so yes, I know.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
I don't know how this happened, Like it's a real
stark awakening. I hope to so many women who think
you can't be manipulated or tricked by whatever just happened,
and you can, Like if I just listen to my
gut instinct many months ago, a year ago, I would Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
But it's and that's all well and good that you
see that. We can't live in the past now, right,
we have to figure out what's the next step. And
you're not happy? So are you just going to stay
in this for the rest of your life? Like?
Speaker 3 (10:22):
What do you getting at?
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I'm literally nothing, that's the problem. I will tell you.
Ever since I decided like I don't want this anymore,
my entire nervous system feels better. So I know it's
the better choice. I just don't know how to like
make him stop, Like do I just do I block him?
Like do I? Well, first off, to make them stoly texting.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
You have to first you have to break up with them.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I mean that's the first thing you have to tell him, like,
I'm not happy, I don't want to do this anymore.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
And and and they're going And that's the thing. We
go back and forth every day. Right, He's like, I
know I don't want to deal with your kids. I'm like, right,
you know, I had kids for twelve beers. But nice
job deflecting. Ah, you're emotionally an apse, sir, Like, that's
the problem, and I'm calling you out on it and
it's making you angrier at me.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
Not a must then want to get on air. But
she says you should know better because he's displaying seven
out of the nine narcissistic I know I do know better,
And she's like, this woman knows who she's dealing with.
You're just choosing to stay for the money.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Well, listen, and now you're getting emotional.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
But again, I think that that that we can let's
try to take this as a positive in a sense
of you're starting to learn some things about yourself and
about this relationship. And you, you know, you if you're
if one of your kids came home and explain this
entire situation and they were going through it, you'd be like,
what are you doing?
Speaker 3 (11:45):
You have to leave?
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Yeah, I wouldn't even Yeah, you're.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
Right, and you can do it.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
You can definitely do it. And you know what if
if he says, hey, maybe he'll shock you. Maybe he'll
say listen, I have felt this too. Yeah, we don't know,
but I'm just saying. The bottom line is you can't
you if.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
It's worse three times three girlfriends like, no, it's always them.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
It's never him, So you got to get out of
this stuff.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Like listen, like I this man has he's he's it's
he's changing you and it's not for the better. And
he didn't even get you a burken like it's you
gotta go, we have to but he did get mess.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Oh it's nice. Well good, they're yours now, they're yours. Now.
You can keep those as a memento.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
But if it made you feel better and just in
your mind to think I'm done with this relationship, imagine
how good it's going to feel when you're really done.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
With the relationship.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Yeah, you're right. Wow, I was like actually blinded to
buy money. That was weird.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Do you think don't think you're the first one.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
I'm sure a lot of people would be blinded by
money and dating a billionaire.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
And we'll stay because of that.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
But if you can, if you could afford to pay
your own bills and get out of it for you,
for your own mental health, then I mean, you're.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Clearly not in love with this man anymore. That's for sure.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
Yeah, you're right. I think I'm just telling myself that
I am in love with him.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
I'm sure, I'm sure.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Okay, you know what's going on, all right.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Well, listen, keep us posted, stay strong. You got this right.
The first step is telling him I don't think we
can do this anymore. You know, got to start there.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
Oh, he did just dift me my Mercedes though, so
that's the plus.
Speaker 5 (13:24):
Like, you're part of the problem too, though, we'll talk.
Let's keep that bucket. Yeah, you're kind of part of
the problem because it's like you know who you're dealing with,
but you're hanging on because of bread. Like, don't let
him pay for your schooling no more, your kid's schooling.
Don't let him pay your bills no more. Don't let
him buy you a Mercedes.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
And see kid, by the way, from what it seems,
your kids will be so happy.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Yeah, he did stop paying my bills in November, though,
in my defense, he just took my product card away
and shut off everything.
Speaker 5 (13:54):
And then, how do you stop paying them back? How
do you stop paying them back?
Speaker 1 (13:57):
He hasn't. I just got a job and paid it myself. Okay,
So he pays my rent though, like he pays my
rent and I sent him his gas card back, Like
I don't want anything from you, including your attitude.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
Yeah, you can't pick and choose, but you don't have
to take the car. You don't have to. This is
how he hooks you in every single time. And I'm
sure you'll call him today, break up with them. Then
tomorrow there'll be something else there and you'll come back.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
No I won't.
Speaker 5 (14:25):
I hope not.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
No, No, I'm not going to.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
I hope you don't either.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I don't believe you. But he deserves to be alone. Okay, well,
he deserves to be alone with his.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
There's gonna be a lot of people who want an
update on this story stuff, so so stay.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
In contact with us. Give me one month, keep it
all right. Well, we'll talk to you in thirty days.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
All right, thank you, good luck.
Speaker 5 (14:46):
B No, bro, I'm not signing.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
She actually stressed me out. He's not going.
Speaker 4 (14:54):
He's flying here with a PG.
Speaker 5 (14:55):
She's gonna think, I love you.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
Get on the PJ, go to Texas there.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
And then come back and then and then and then
dookie on him on the airways.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Are you talking about that? And everything we said? Well,
he did get me this he did.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Get it?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Please a Mercedes in a Channel bag. She's staying
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