Ink Day (Full Show)

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake up, wake yo, wake up.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Wake it up, wake it up.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
Hi everybody, Good morning, what's going on with you too?

Speaker 1 (00:17):
Good morning?

Speaker 2 (00:19):
How are you?

Speaker 1 (00:19):
I'm good, I'm good health everybody. I mean, it depends
in perspective. So some people I am, some people I'm not.

Speaker 3 (00:31):
He is excited tattoo day. Tattoo day gets hype on
tattoo day.

Speaker 1 (00:36):
I don't realize how much I love tattoos until like
the day where I have to get them. I'm like,
let's just get a ton.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
The tattoo itch reminds me of us trying to explain
to foreign coffee, because if you haven't got a tattoo,
you don't understand what it is to get the itch
and the itches. I need another tattoo. I might not
know what I want when I'm going to get it.
What it is. Our tattoo artist literally just is texting

(01:06):
me right now. I wonder if she's up listening or
she just saw my Okay, So there's this thing for
and where you can go months, you can go years,
and then all of a sudden it gets into your brain.
I need other tattoo, stand for a new one. Then
the itch begins and it doesn't It's like this constant
little thing that will not go away until you get something.

(01:29):
It could be super small, it doesn't matter what it is,
but you get the itch to get something else.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
I'm at the point where I don't even think about
it like anymore in depth of like where I want
to get it, what it is that I want to get.
It's very it's very surface because I have so many. Yeah,
now I'm just like, let's just keep adding.

Speaker 4 (01:45):
You're just adding for no reason.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yeah, basically basically.

Speaker 4 (01:49):
Yeah, the coffee thing for me is different because I
don't like coffee. I would love to get tats. But
my again, my fear is that I'm going to develop you.

Speaker 3 (01:57):
You're not gonna kaloid. You just aren't getting the work.
You have to just get the right artists, is what
I want to say.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
And then coffee is in a choir taste.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
But I understand the fear because that would be you
do want to do that?

Speaker 4 (02:08):
Fifty fifty something? With that, I always bring him up
as an example. Yeah, and like, yeah, he got tattoos
on his knuckles and like his joint.

Speaker 3 (02:15):
Well he's stupid.

Speaker 4 (02:15):
That's amazing place like twenty years ago, right, but he
since taking them off, but he always suffered with that,
you know what I mean. There's just some people who
are prone to it. So yeah, I talked to one
artist and what stuff forgot his name. I bumped into
him at the airport and he was like, yo, I
heard you about what you were saying about getting key lords.
It's just that you gotta you gotta keep going over
and over and over the tat just to prevent that

(02:36):
from happening. I'm like, so, yeah, I gotta be an
extra pay for this. Yeah, but I would love I
would love to have tatts. I just I don't you know,
I s.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
I think you can. I think you can. And but yeah,
I just mean to say, there's only tattoo people that
have tattoos would understand the edge, and only people who
drink coffee would understand that that first feeling of your
first step in the morning, which I can't I'm stared
at mine and I can't wait.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
And by the way, like tattoos my home aren't accepted,
they're frowned upon.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
I wonder by your wife. Yes, I wonder how your
kids will be with tattoos. Does anybody ever say that
like they want them?

Speaker 1 (03:10):
They mentioned them I think one of my daughters says
she wants them at some point, so I wouldn't be
surprised at some point in her life she has like
a sleeve or something like that.

Speaker 4 (03:17):
But if they become an agent, they're just doing random
tats on their body to fill away.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
I mean, I feel away because I waited to get
my first one till I was twenty six, just to
be sure, just to be sure. And that's the only
thing I tell them, like, don't get it at eighteen,
because I've heard so many stories of people are like
eighteen saying they hate the ones. They have me wait until.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
The second because because Terry wouldn't let me so.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
But at the same time, I really can't say much
because I'm absolutely covered. So yeah, and if I had
the patience, I would do my entire back, but I
can't wait two years due to do my back.

Speaker 3 (03:51):
Please you have the thighs now? Yeah, today, you're getting
on your today today? Dare I say you're getting your
most visible tattoos, the smallest ones, but be the most visible.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
Absolutely, Like, if you go back and look at the
videos we post online, you barely see my tattoos. There's
maybe a handful of videos where I'm in short sleeves,
but like I have full sleeves and most people don't
ever know.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
You couldn't tell. Yeah, I got the itch when we
discussed that we were gonna go, We're going to skin
and bone tattoo. My girl Brie is gonna tattous. Fun
fact for you, Bree's dad it is a very very
very very famous trainer with a best friend that you
guys may or may not know. Our tattoo artist's best

(04:36):
dad's best friend is this guy named Tom Brady that
he throws a football and he's yeah, his name is
Alex Carrero. But anyways, Bree's amazing. She does like the
most amazing fine line tattoos. And that's the crazy thing
about tattoo. I had the itch. I didn't even know
what I was going to get, but I have. I'm
getting it now. It's a nod to the fireman. It's
not his name or anything, but I'm not I'm not

(04:58):
even gonna say you'll see it at some point, but
people are gonna be like, you better not get his name.
I'm not getting his name.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
You're getting an Irish flash.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
Oh, I should get his last name tatted on me,
so then I don't never have to get it.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
You should last name, so then he'll never.

Speaker 3 (05:12):
Be like, why aren't you changing it?

Speaker 2 (05:14):
Well, I don't have to.

Speaker 3 (05:15):
I tattooed but not. There is no no, no fireman.
I'm not getting fireman tatted on me or his last name.
But shut out to the joys.

Speaker 5 (05:23):
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you need to know.

Speaker 6 (05:29):
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Speaker 3 (05:35):
You haven't anymore vive Wednesday, March twenty sixth, and you know,
picture me. I'm a single galley. I'm in the streets.
I'm not married, I'm divorced. Okay, I'm out there and
some guy comes up to me and he starts talking,
and he's like ripping butts in my face and blowing smoke.
I'm not giving that man a second, Like, get away
from with your smoke mouth. Okay, get away from me,

(05:58):
you stink. I don't like your smoke mouth. But then
it's ben affleck. Yeah, smoke in my face. Blow your smoke.
I'll give me the smoke mouth.

Speaker 2 (06:10):
You know, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (06:12):
I am one, but a bunch of other women I
know posted some of the videos from his GQ interview
that everybody's talking about, and he's ripping butts in the photos,
like these professional photos, And I'm like, how how can
a man accepting cancer look so sexy? I don't understand it.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
The act of smoking a cigarette can be viewed apart
upon as being sexy and cool. Major Now the health
negative parts about it kind of took away from that.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
But like, like they straight up told my grandfather, if
you smoke one more Marlborough, you will have a hole
in your throat. Man just kept going, didn't care.

Speaker 1 (06:48):
They put the whole cut it, like the Marlboro man
when he was on the like the horse hand with
the cowboy hat. Yeah, like he looked cool.

Speaker 3 (06:54):
He was dope. Yeah, yeah, I don't know what it is.
Ben just got that thing going with the SIGs. The
man always like he's stressed and has the weight of
the world on him, and I just want to be like, yo, shit, relaxed.
It's okay. They're trying to say that we got by
the way. I'm sorry to discuss this fore because it's
about the break up. But they're trying to say that
we got answers from Ben about why him and j

(07:16):
Lo broke up. I'll read you what he said. I
don't hear an answer here. There's no scandal, there's no
soap opera, no intrigue. The truth is when you talk
to somebody, hey, what happened, Well, there's no this is
what happened. It's just a story about people trying to
figure out their lives and relationships in ways that we
all sort of normally do. And as you get older,

(07:37):
the truth from this is the truth truest for me,
I assume it's true for most people. There is no
so and so did this or this was the big event,
you know. He kind of said, yeah, they probably needed
some couples therapy, but he felt embarrassed and vulnerable about that,
which is why he kept the details of their split private.
He also went on to say and made it very

(07:59):
clear that yes, she handles the spotlight better than him,
she likes it more. That's more her thing. He's far
more private. But that did not cause the divorce because
remember everyone was like, well, we all know why, but
he's saying that's not it. Because remember in the documentary,
there's a clip of Ben everybody was like, Ben looks

(08:20):
miserable in her dock, which he did. But I think
Ben looks miserable just when he wakes up his face.
But there's a clip in it where they kind of
go back and forth about a song and he goes,
we have one of the greatest love stories of all
time because it's not told, you're about to tell it.
And he didn't like it. He didn't like that she
was going to write this album about him and talk

(08:41):
about his love letters and all that stuff, because that's
not his way.

Speaker 1 (08:45):
I do feel like if they were the average couple
like in Medford, they would still be together because like
trying to like co parent, be partners, be a couple,
like underneath the Hollywood pressure just wasn't good for them.

Speaker 4 (08:57):
He wants Jennifer, She wants to be Jal at the time,
you know what I mean. And he's like, I just
need Jennifer him. Man, I'm cooling. I don't I don't
need to be outside like trying to look glamorous.

Speaker 3 (09:06):
Man just wears the same bru shirt.

Speaker 4 (09:08):
He doesn't care. He's not about aesthetics, he's not about
trying to look good for the camera. I just want
to live my life, you though, might just want to
be a diva all the time and I can't keep
up with that.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
And then the photographers to follow them around.

Speaker 3 (09:21):
And it's funny you bring that up for him because
they asked him about like the viral memes of when
he's like ripping butts and going to get his donkeys
and looking on that, and he's like, people don't understand, Like,
I just want my coffee. I'm just going to try
to get my coffee. They take pictures, they do this thing.
I just just want my coffee. I love him so much.
I actually feel like Loki the Fireman is a little

(09:43):
like Ben Affleck. So maybe that's where my attraction lies.
Ac Like, yeah, just doesn't care.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
To make films and he doesn't want the fame part.

Speaker 4 (09:53):
He doesn't. He spoke about that numerous times. He's like, Yo,
this famous thing I don't like. I don't like it.
I like doing what I do, I just don't like
the fame that comes with it.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
And I if you know, if I was a single
lady and that I will give him that.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
Yeah that's what he wants. Would you give him that?
On the couch and that scene from that movie that
you love. What's gone girl, that couching.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
That he was actually a chair bring up, that's what Batman.
I'm getting excited. I just want you to know this
because I know how much you love the superhero films.
He basically said that him playing Batman was the worst
experience of his life. Really hated every second of it,
like the movie, you know what. He said. He was like,

(10:35):
not necessarily that he hated the role of it, but
he just he went. He did what he had to do.
He left the set. He wasn't happy. He said. He
pretty much kind of portrayed like an older, miserable Bruce Wayne.
And he said he didn't enjoy like working. He didn't
enjoy being on set. He just did what he had
to do and he left. And he said, that'shy He
loves his production company so much because he's creating these

(10:57):
films and he's hiring the right actors and there's like
an experience on set where people want to be there
and they're happy. He didn't feel that with that. And
by the way, he said, it was his own fault,
not everybody else.

Speaker 1 (11:07):
I think it works with the role because Bruce Wayne's
a broken man because he lost his parents, so I
think he came across well.

Speaker 4 (11:12):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
He also made a comment that his son said he
didn't want to see it and he didn't like that.

Speaker 1 (11:17):
It wasn't great though. It wasn't Ben was good, but
the movie wasn't great.

Speaker 4 (11:21):
But if you low key look, Ben looked like he
was struggling a little bit with the physical side of things,
like him being the action here. Did you really watch
it like he's But then again, it plays well to
the character because he's a little slower as older. He's
kind of like I don't.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
Want to do.

Speaker 4 (11:38):
I didn't think so he was just a defender.

Speaker 1 (11:40):
No, but he there was a scene where he woke
up with a girl though, but he was He wakes up,
has the thing of wine and goes off and does
whatever he has.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (11:50):
Vision, if I asked the two of you right now,
who you believe is the most hated female rapper, Like,
give me one name, most hated CARDI by this at
this very moment, I'm going meg this down.

Speaker 4 (12:11):
Absolutely.

Speaker 3 (12:11):
I'm not saying Sexy Red. I feel like, on the
opposite end, Sexy Red could do the craziest and people
like I think about Sexy Red's pregnancy photo shoot, which
was the most wild thing I had ever seen in
my literal life. And I didn't see many people hating
on her, but if you ask her, she feels like
she is the most hated.

Speaker 7 (12:32):
I feel like I ain't gonna say he I said this, though,
I feel like I'm the most hated female repper, Like
they hate on me the most.

Speaker 4 (12:37):
I get a lot of love.

Speaker 3 (12:39):
But I know when hating you'd be like, listen, they
wanted Meghan dead, like Meghan.

Speaker 4 (12:46):
And that's the point that she might be troll the most. Yes,
they might troll her the most because she's so loved,
but Meghan people actually like hate that.

Speaker 3 (12:54):
No, No, Meghan went through some really dark stuff because
of how hate and still to this day that she is.
It's it's crazy because the woman got shot in the
foot by somebody and now she it's been taken out
of her. I'll never understand it. But yeah, I'm putting
Megan head of CARDI. Yeah, Nicky's up there too.

Speaker 4 (13:14):
I think people like but Megan. Meghan has seen some
kind of hate that we've never seen before, especially and
you know why it's so it's so stark, is because
she was the victim and still got hated on. She
was a victim and still got hated on.

Speaker 3 (13:27):
I've never heard you say that.

Speaker 4 (13:28):
I like how you said that she got shot by
somebody around oh Man.

Speaker 3 (13:42):
Lastly, Nelly and a Shati and their marriage and the baby.
You might be thinking timeline wise, how did that all
work out? And Nelly details in the recent podcast called
he was on a bootleg keV podcast, he basically says
when they found out she was pregnant, he was like,
h honey, you are not about to be a baby mama.

Speaker 7 (14:02):
Once we found out that she was pregnant, it was
just like, I didn't want this to be I.

Speaker 4 (14:06):
Don't want to say like child exactly.

Speaker 7 (14:09):
He hadn't talked about any of that yet, you know,
but I was like, Yo, you know what, let's just
knock this out because we're going to be doing so
much and everything's moving so fast.

Speaker 4 (14:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (14:18):
I didn't want her to be, you know, a baby
mama because we already knew where we were in life,
and if we're back like this, this must be what
this is supposed to be.

Speaker 3 (14:29):
I like how he talks about getting married, So let's
just knock this out because we're going to be on
this path together. They had their first son together. I
think it's like his fifth kid. They're first together July eighteenth.
Kareem is the baby's name, and they call him KK.

Speaker 5 (14:46):
Right.

Speaker 4 (14:46):
I want to know fact. Do you know that he
proposed to chaunting naked on his thing?

Speaker 3 (14:54):
Why did he do that?

Speaker 4 (14:55):
I think they just finished making sweet love. She was
in his boxes and T shirt and he was naked,
and he felt that it was the right time to
do it.

Speaker 1 (15:03):
That's not the right time that.

Speaker 4 (15:04):
We I mean they just finished making sweet love.

Speaker 3 (15:08):
He was, he was solidifying it right there. Yeah, just
like highly doubt we would have found any blue hills
in the room. But you never know.

Speaker 1 (15:19):
You never know.

Speaker 3 (15:20):
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twenty six, don't forget. You can also listen live via
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Speaker 5 (15:37):
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Speaker 3 (15:46):
Hi, everybody, good morning. Foreign very nonchalantly mentioned this to
you and I yesterday I saw and so now I
got to dig and get a little bit more in focus.
It's pretty cool. You're going to speak at a high
school today.

Speaker 4 (15:58):
Yeah, career day today for my son's high school. I
think this is the third year I might be doing this. Yeah,
I think the third or fourth year. But yeah, this
morning I'm gonna go talk at West Hide High School
and go just you know, talk aut.

Speaker 3 (16:12):
Do you talk about this one?

Speaker 4 (16:13):
Or DJ Djane radio podcasting, which I feel is all
kind of in the same. It's anything to do with
a mic or entertainment, you know what I mean, And
then kind of dib and dabble a little bit into
music industry, the music business because you know, these kids
are fast, especially these young kids. Everybody wants to start
a podcast, you know what I mean, the relationship between
a podcast and radio things like that.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
What is your advice to somebody who wants to start
a podcasting? What do you tell these kids?

Speaker 4 (16:36):
Do it?

Speaker 8 (16:37):
Do it?

Speaker 4 (16:37):
If you it doesn't matter what you're talking about, grab
a mic and just talk because there's there's a market.
There's billions of people in the world, and there's a
market for anything that you want to talk about. There's
people who eat live snails online and car and they
get millions of dollars, you know what I mean. Yeah,
but if you if you got something, be yourself and
just talk about it and you will get traction. Consistency

(17:00):
be yourself is so important. Yeah, if you try to
be fake, it's not going to come across right, Yeah,
which try to be something that you're not.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
There's a lot of that, yeah, I mean even in
our business now, we come across a lot of people
who aren't themselves. And I struggle that in the past.
But the minute I found myself and it sounds stupid,
but like I feel like that's when I started to
be good.

Speaker 4 (17:18):
And I'll be the thing for me. A big omission
for me was doing career day, especially on the radio side,
is because kids don't listen to radio.

Speaker 3 (17:24):
Yeah, you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (17:25):
So I'm trying to show them, like, now it's cool
to listen to radio. You know, a lot of it.

Speaker 3 (17:29):
Because essentially we're like a live podcast, which is crazy.
If you really think you really think about it. Yes,
because these people that do these podcasts, they're so edited
and they are made to sound completely perfect and all
the things like we don't Unfortunately, we don't have that
opportunity because ours is just live.

Speaker 4 (17:46):
Yeah. Yeah, so you know, trying to encourage them to
listen to radio a little bit more, you know what
I mean. And like I said, podcasting is a big thing.
If you want to start it, don't don't be out
here just doing extra nothing just to be viral, because
eventually it runs out.

Speaker 5 (17:59):
You know.

Speaker 3 (18:01):
Yeah, are you in an actual classroom or is it
like a picture of a gymnasium and you're at a
table and people could come.

Speaker 4 (18:08):
Up and talk to you, or you're now they actually
have men classrooms. But this year I think I'm in
the gym because they're expecting a lot more kids to
show up, like an assembly.

Speaker 5 (18:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (18:15):
Every time I go, you know, whenever they hit there's
a DJ in the building, the kids are excited, like.

Speaker 3 (18:19):
They you hop on the ones and two.

Speaker 4 (18:21):
Yeah, I have people wrap I've had kids over there
wrapping up like you want to DJ, Come DJ, you
want to you want to kick spencer? You know, someone
walk up to the hospit bars. I here's the mic. Yeah,
just keep it clean.

Speaker 3 (18:31):
What do you feel like when you do that? Since
this is the third year, is like a couple of
common questions you get who are.

Speaker 4 (18:37):
The biggest celebrities you've ever met? That's I think there's
no other question other than that, I mean other than
you know, they don't ask about schedule. I'm trying to remember.
They might ask about just you know, how it is
to be on air. But the biggest question who have
you met?

Speaker 5 (18:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (18:50):
Yeah, yeah, you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (18:52):
Have you met? And they start naming like big have
you met jay Z? I mean met Drake? I'm liken.
Unfortunately do they talk through the hallways and like those
guys are too big to touch with you. Yeah, but
they love it. They love it. You know, it's entertaining.
They get to cut loose. I feel like everybody else
who goes there is all kind of like, you know, presentation,
and you know this is all you build a roof

(19:13):
right now, I'm just kind of like the guy who
gives you a little lucy loot, you know what I mean. Yeah,
you get to listen to sexy Red real for real
without the teachers complaining right, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (19:21):
Seriously, No, it is interesting when you go because I
would go to Northeastern sometimes too. They would have me
come to the media classes and talk about just like
our day to day, but then for me they would
ask a lot about even being on the real world
and being on these reality shows to now this and
the evolution and what social media. My mother, it's funny

(19:43):
because her and I were just talking about this yesterday.
She says that it's funny to see the evolution of
me being on the radio. She's like, because when it started,
every time you got recognized, it was oh, I saw
you on the real world. She's like, you never hear
that anymore. She's like, because of social media, people come
up to you and they're like, oh, I hear the show.
I follow you on Instagram. We weren't I think we

(20:04):
were in target and somebody came up and stead they
listened to the show. But it is funny to see
that because when when I was first in radio, nobody, Yeah,
no one knew you because social media wasn't big like that.

Speaker 1 (20:14):
When I first started. I've seen the evolution star from
when they were Big three, there were movies, it was
radio and TV. Now it's evolved into so many things.
I think the iPhone changed everything like that. So now
when you're doing like just just the just the media parts,
it's radio, it's podcasting, it's all stuff. But it's social
media too, so it's added another element. But now when
people hear something, they want to see it too at

(20:35):
the same time, So if they hear us on the radio,
they want to see what we look like. Now there's
that gratification. But back in the day, you just pictured
what you thought they did.

Speaker 3 (20:43):
Yeah, you got to experience it all. I feel like
you got a few years of radio being like the
end all be all, Like, well, that's when we talked
to Billy Costa and I hear some of his stories.
My mind is yeah, because you know, at a certain
time radio was I mean Ben Affleck was sleeping on
Billy's kids.

Speaker 4 (21:01):
Oh yeah, that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (21:02):
There was a time when I was traveling from work
maybe ten times a year. That means going to the
to like War Show premiere is being put up in
these amazing hotels, great experiences. That has changed, But I
will say right now, I think it's the best time
for any I think like back then there were so
many gay gate keepers keeping like talented people away. Now
with the world of social media and podcasting, we're seeing

(21:24):
people's talents and seeing people who you never thought could
do what we do do these.

Speaker 4 (21:27):
Things and that's amazing and there's a ton of Yeah,
and that's kind of what I'm going to speak about today.
It's like, you know, before it was one, this one,
that one.

Speaker 5 (21:36):
You know.

Speaker 4 (21:36):
Now it's like they could be one hundred of y'all
and y'all could be talking about the same thing. It's
just about how do you deliver this? What do you
talk about? And you can become I mean, Coxonot is
not the biggest YouTube in the world. We hear about
him all the time, but he's not the biggest. I
mean he is the biggest, but there's a ton, like
thousands of other kids who are getting hundreds and thousands
of views and doing mad good And it's like, Yo,

(21:58):
if you've got a microphone and you got some the same,
just say it. You never know it could take you. Yeah,
because that's how those kids started. And look at Kai
Kai's in commercials. Bro, Like sometimes I look at this
kid and I'm like, Yo, this guy's in actual commercials.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
He's a legit, celebrity.

Speaker 4 (22:12):
Legit, celebrity, millionaire. And it shouldn't be driven by money,
should be driven by passion. Yeah, and it comes back
to the point of just being there.

Speaker 3 (22:19):
But it also comes with a lot. And we've talked
about this, you know, because I I truly think our
job has also never been harder with the temperature of
the world. Yeah, I mean, the three of us, we
say how we feel and we're opinionated, and there's there's
other shows in this those are the shows that would

(22:40):
never do that, absolutely would never do it because they
know what the backlash it's going to be. I knew,
I know what we use the Karen Reid stuff for example.
I knew we were going to take heat for that.
But it's just I'm not I'm just not going to
ever be the one that's not going to say how
I feel about the certain things. But that again, that
comes with things.

Speaker 1 (23:00):
Yes it does. But I mean it's it's funny. I
think you gotta be better at saying a few to
those people. I mean it's just just in general, but
when you live by that here, you're you're like, can't come.

Speaker 3 (23:10):
Yeah, And again, those are my favorite people to listen
to to watch creators of their content, like the people
that are like, you know what, this is how I
feel about the COVID vaccine. This is I'm going to
take heap for this, but this is my real, authentic
truth to it, and that appeals to me.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
Yeah, same, same, Yeah, how do you feel?

Speaker 3 (23:29):
Who are you? Who are you listening to? That was saying,
get shot up everywhere with the vaccine? Who is your
favorite content?

Speaker 1 (23:37):
My boys.

Speaker 3 (23:42):
Favorite?

Speaker 1 (23:43):
Trust a science?

Speaker 5 (23:45):
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Speaker 3 (24:00):
Just had my first sip of what everyone that sees
my coffee calls my bean juice. I jerk my coffee black,
and I get tormented line about this, like I because
I've sent photos or I've posted photos of you like
giving me the coffee or putting it down. And when
people see that it's just a cold brew black, they
think I'm disgusting. They call it bean juice.

Speaker 1 (24:20):
Coffee black is an acquired taste, but it's also the
best way to take it because you like, I see
these people coming out of dumps with like a milkshake.
I don't understand.

Speaker 5 (24:28):
I know.

Speaker 3 (24:30):
I'm like, that's not coffee, that's milk with a dash
of coffee. I don't But I do this because I
like to have, you know, my sweet treat after dinner.
So I don't want my sweet treat at this time.
I want my sweet treat yesterday, which, by the way,
got my blizzy. I said, I got my buzzy, but

(24:52):
I said, not a gun. I got the Dairy Queen
brownie and fudge blizzard yesterday for celeb Tory purposes. I'd
probably got it without the six year celebration, but I was, HI,
know this. I want you. Read an article in Men's
Men's Fitness like forever ago, and they said, if you
are going to have ice cream, the best place to

(25:13):
do that is DQ because they make it with milkut cream.
There's something about the DQ ice cream. It's just so smooth.
It's so smoot.

Speaker 4 (25:21):
Slaps.

Speaker 1 (25:21):
Don't know if I've ever had the ice cream phone there.

Speaker 3 (25:24):
And no, I'm not a big soft serve person.

Speaker 4 (25:25):
Yeah, you taste the difference the.

Speaker 3 (25:29):
Soft serve swirl at dairy Queen.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
Oh wow, like bury me in it.

Speaker 5 (25:35):
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Speaker 3 (25:49):
All right, we gotta say an ice, big warm Welcome
to Foxborrow per espm's Adam Schefter. It's official Wednesday, March
twenty six. We are going to be signing a veteran
wide receiver, Stefon Diggs to a three year, sixty nine
million dollar contract with twenty six mil guaranteed.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
That's good. I mean, this will definitely help out the
quarterback situation. Drake now have somebody to pass to. And
I can also love the fact the Patriots are spend
some cash.

Speaker 3 (26:21):
They need to win.

Speaker 4 (26:22):
Yeah, they really.

Speaker 3 (26:22):
Need to win a little fun fact. He is coming
off of an ACL injury and you know he's had
a few stops along the way. Veteran receiver for sure,
but he always played well against the Patriots. It'll be
nice to have him on our side for once.

Speaker 1 (26:36):
And football season, when did that start like midsummer. So
we're still some ways of waste, so play more time
do we have that we are, but it will.

Speaker 3 (26:42):
Be here before we know it. So yeah, we gotta,
we gotta, we gotta get right. And I'm with you.
I like that the Pats are spending some money because
I don't. I don't want it to be a situation
like the Browns feel every weekend where you and your
head are like you just know they're gonna lose. I
don't want I don't want to I don't want to
live another season like that.

Speaker 5 (26:57):
Now.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
I'm not sure if you saw the video that came
out last week of Drake May playing basketball in high school.
He was really good athlete.

Speaker 3 (27:04):
It's looking good. I like it, all right, this one's
for you foreign. He was just telling us about a
limited series by the name of Adolescence on Netflix, massive hit.
I'm talking about it right now because it's broken a
couple of records on Netflix in just the first two weeks.
It is now the most watched limited series and most

(27:28):
watched UK title ever in its first two weeks. And
if you didn't know, guess who's involved.

Speaker 1 (27:36):
Brad Pitt. Brad Pitt, Plan b company.

Speaker 3 (27:41):
Aha, there you go. He served as the executive producer
in the series and his production company Plan Be Entertainment superheaded.
The spearheaded I'm super.

Speaker 1 (27:48):
Superhad superhead like the girl who you used to like
hang out with all the rappers.

Speaker 3 (27:53):
That was a tough mess up right there, spearheaded the problem.
I don't want to say this, say it because I
don't know if it's going to ruin it for other
people like it did for me. But the father you
finished the series right for it?

Speaker 9 (28:06):
No?

Speaker 4 (28:06):
No, no, I haven't finished it yet.

Speaker 3 (28:08):
So the dad, the actor was sitting with down with
like Jimmy Kimmeler or something, and he starts out the
interview and asked about the show, and he's like, this
isn't going to ruin it for anybody. But and he
says something that I'm like, well, or are we supposed
to note? But he said it in his interview, So
should I say it? He's out there everywhere.

Speaker 4 (28:26):
But you haven't heard it.

Speaker 1 (28:28):
Do you feel like it's going to ruin it? Is
it something like the kid doesn't do it or something
like that.

Speaker 3 (28:33):
It's a kid does it?

Speaker 4 (28:35):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (28:36):
But he said that that's a known thing for it.

Speaker 4 (28:39):
I didn't know. I'm in the series where it's still
kind of like he said, you don't really know what's
going on. He's been accused, but you don't know what.

Speaker 3 (28:47):
He says, straight up, this show is about a kid
that kills someone else, and we did it this way.
He's like, I'm not ruining it for anybody. We did
it this way because it's based on factual events. It
had happened in two different places close to the same time.
So we wanted to talk about the relationship between parents
and schooling and how important it is. I've read parents

(29:08):
saying as a parent, not to watch it.

Speaker 4 (29:11):
It's hard because again it's a thirteen year old or
was he one of the two, But it's right out
the gate. They are raiding at home. They're pulling this
kid out of bed. He's peenis pants because he's so
he's so scared. They go like strip search him in
front of the father and the father is like, bro,
he's thirteen, Like what are y'all doing? Like y'all understand

(29:32):
I'm a father and I'm trying to protect my son.
So it's a tug of war where the father is
trying to be as protective as a can of a
young kid. But at the same time the police are like,
we got to do our job. Yeah, and he's been
accused of murder.

Speaker 3 (29:44):
It says a crime drama where a family's world is
turned upside down when a thirteen year old is arrested
for the murder of a teenage girl that he goes
to school with. In its second week, forty two million views,
bringing its total to sixty six point three million views
since it's launched.

Speaker 1 (29:58):
I don't feel like he was supposed to say that.
I feel like that was a reveal.

Speaker 3 (30:01):
That so then it made me feel like it's in
the trailer because he's like, this is a known thing.

Speaker 1 (30:05):
It's a known thing, probably him because he acted in
the whole script.

Speaker 4 (30:09):
And and and I mean it's in your face that
he's been arrested for murder.

Speaker 1 (30:13):
Now.

Speaker 4 (30:13):
The problem is the first few episodes you're kind of wondering, like,
is this kind of like mistaken identity? How exactly what
what exactly happened? We know there's some kind of serious crime,
but what exact because they were like checking this acting. No,
it's it's how they lay out things. We got to
check his general those and the father.

Speaker 3 (30:32):
Is like, what, No, what I'm saying the episode, You're right,
are they showing us flashbacks of his relationship with the
Girly Kills?

Speaker 4 (30:36):
No? Not yet.

Speaker 3 (30:38):
You also include us in that this is this young
kid's first time.

Speaker 4 (30:42):
Acting, first time acting, first time on a set, first
time doing any of this. She's like, they went to
school and now you know what I mean. No, this
is the first time for everything for this kid, and
he is all point so believable.

Speaker 3 (30:55):
I've seen a couple of little clips, one of which
where he's talking to his therapist and I'm like, damn,
like he's got a career ahead of him. I'm gonna
watch it for sure. But there you go. He does
do it all right? It lastly, sorry son. Megan Markle
is gearing up. You know what. We're taking back before
and said earlier not everybody should get a podcast. I
don't care what. Megan mark She ruined a whole happy family,

(31:19):
ruined some bloodlines. That's right. She's gearing up for her
new podcast, Confessions of a Female Founder.

Speaker 10 (31:27):
I'm Megan and this is Confessions of a Female Founder,
a show where I chat with female entrepreneurs and friends
about the sleepless nights the lessons learned and the laser
focus that got them to where they are today. And
through it all, I'm building a business in my own
and getting all sorts of practical advice along the way

(31:47):
that I'm very.

Speaker 3 (31:47):
Excited to share with you.

Speaker 10 (31:49):
So join me for Confessions of the Female Founder from
Lemonada Media, which by the way, is also female founded,
launching April eighth, wherever you get your podcasts.

Speaker 3 (32:00):
Let's do this, ladies. This is not sharking. I think
that this is dolphin tank. Yes, these are very friendly,
these are very friendly waters. It's all gonna be good.

Speaker 1 (32:10):
She gives me the feeling like she's always performing. She's
never genuine.

Speaker 3 (32:14):
She took the crown away from her husband, that's number one,
and she totally alienated him from his family. And everything
she does upsets me. And I hate to say this
because it's not right. It's wrong. I know I am
in the wrong when I say this, but even something
as small as in a recent interview, she was like,
I don't call him Harry, I call him h Shut up, bitch.

(32:35):
It just upsets me, you know, and people, Ashley, you
don't use your husband's name. You call him the fireman.
You know I'm part of the problem, the problem, I
get it, but there is just something unlikable about.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
Her and everything she does does like, doesn't turn out good. People.
Stop watching people, stop investing in her. She gives you
like a weird feeling. She made the man like stop
being a prince? That's crazy. Has she been good at
business before?

Speaker 4 (33:00):
Something like? I was wondering why you go on the
business route?

Speaker 1 (33:03):
She was an actor, Yeah, she was fine.

Speaker 4 (33:06):
We don't know her for for doing big business, right.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
We know her for stealing a prince from his family
very well.

Speaker 3 (33:13):
Business mind you had she done that. I'm going to
do an eight episode like part series about why we
decided it was best for us to step away. I'm
watching that. Yeah, I don't care about the dolphins. I do.
I mean, I know I can't. I still cut my
after the soda comes out things. I'm trying to save
the turtles, but as a stupid.

Speaker 1 (33:30):
I care about the dolphins. When they're doing flips in
the tank, You're.

Speaker 3 (33:34):
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Speaker 1 (33:54):
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Speaker 6 (34:00):
Hip hop dam in ninety four or five.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
Hi everybody, good morning. We're doing the check in. What
the hell is up with you? How are you doing?
You tell me about your life, your world, you know,
common or anything we've talked about thus far. Anything you want,
It's up to you. Six one seven, nine three one
five and A six one seven nine three one one
nine four five. Alexandra is in Rainom and going to

(34:25):
scare the hell out of me because nobody loves eating
raw cookie though more than I. Sometimes I'll keep that
toll house tub of cookie dough in my fridge and
pretend like I'm going to make something with it.

Speaker 2 (34:39):
I'm not.

Speaker 3 (34:40):
I just want to take a bite of the cookie dough,
you know, for a sweet treat. What what happened to
you eating cookie dough?

Speaker 8 (34:48):
So I had left gymnastics with my daughter and I
ran in CBS and I saw some cookie dough. I'm like, hmm,
that sounds good. And I took a little bite with
my finger and my tongue started getting tingly. So I
turn it around and there's only six ingredients and one
of them is cashews.

Speaker 2 (35:07):
I'm like great.

Speaker 8 (35:08):
So I have my four year old in the car,
I'm buckler. I go in CBS. I don't have my ID.
I needed Bena dry as soon as possible. The guy goes, oh,
I'm going to need to see your idea. I'm like, no,
you're not, because I need this and I'm taking this
right now. I'll give you the money I need to go.
So I debated pulling in the Bridgewater pre station, but
I did end up at the hospital about forty five

(35:29):
minutes later, and it was a it was a whole scene.
It was probably one of the scariest times of my life,
that's for sure.

Speaker 3 (35:34):
He was a four year old doing probably losing their mind.

Speaker 8 (35:38):
Oh yeah. She kept talking to me. She's like, Momma,
are you okay?

Speaker 4 (35:41):
MoMA?

Speaker 8 (35:41):
You need a son, I said, Ariel, it's an emergency.
I can't talk to you right now, but it's going
to be okay, you know.

Speaker 3 (35:47):
So you're you're extremely allergic to cashews cashew nuts.

Speaker 8 (35:51):
Yes, yep, wow, And you have no idea. Now I realize, yes,
I had no idea. Now I'm checking everything.

Speaker 3 (36:00):
You have a reaction like that, what happens? And I said,
your tongue was like itching. Do you completely swell up?

Speaker 8 (36:05):
So at first I thought I was okay. I even
went home. I took a shower. Usually I'm all right,
I just can take a venta drill and go on
with the day. But this time my chest was super heavy.
It felt like I had two golf balls in my throat,
and I started to get really nervous. I'm like, oh, yeah,
I get to go to the hospital right now.

Speaker 3 (36:22):
Damn, I feel like with a severe allergy, Like now
you need to truck the label.

Speaker 4 (36:29):
Fact.

Speaker 8 (36:30):
I know, I know right from that one. I'm checking everything.
I'm not playing around.

Speaker 3 (36:35):
Well, let me tell you something. That cookie do calls
to me too, honey. It calls to me, So I
get it. I get it. Certainly not worth a hospital visit,
but I'm glad you're okay. Thank you, thank you, You're welcome.
Thanks for the call. Bro.

Speaker 4 (36:48):
The guy who delivered my furniture last week had the
same reaction to my cat soon as he walked in,
so it wasn't even like let's talk for one minute.
As soon as he walked in, He's like, you got
a cat, don't you. I was like, yep. All of
a sudden, his face is turning red, throw his closing up.
Still deliver the furniture, though, I gotta give him credit.
And then outside, bro, he was heaving because he was

(37:10):
trying to like like vomit, to try to trying to live,
trying to open the show back up.

Speaker 3 (37:15):
Yo.

Speaker 4 (37:15):
He's like yo, everything was closing up on him, and
I'm like, yo, you're gonna be good? Like, am I
going to be on the news because a dude died
delivering my furniture? That is, if you got serious reactions.

Speaker 3 (37:26):
I was gonna say. Some people have like it's it's
my uncle got attracked by bees once and had like
a legit Thomas like Thomas J. Dude, Well now I
want to quit because now I'm thinking about Thomas J.
For a mood ring, like she made him feel like
he had to go back in there for a mood ring.

(37:48):
Gone dun all right six one seven nine three one
four five six one seven nine three one one four five.
We're talking about your life, your world. Anything you want,
call us and check in. Rip to Thomas J. Sorry
for ruining your deck. Hi everybody. Good morning Sashly and

(38:09):
the jam In Morning Show. We are doing the check
in right now. We're talking about, honestly, whatever the hell
you want, whatever's going on with you. Six one seven
nine three one one nine four five. Kim is in
lesser Kim. We were chatting about cookie dough, and you know,
they actually make cookie dough that you can eat raw
now in the grocery stores. But I'm still going straight up,

(38:30):
I might die total.

Speaker 8 (38:32):
I have seen it and I've tried it. It's not
as good, of course.

Speaker 2 (38:35):
It's not like colors.

Speaker 3 (38:38):
I I literally will go and buy that, I'm not
kidding that tub and just put it in the fridge
every once in a while. It's a little sweet treat.
Uh you were you heard that and it was reminded
you of when you were a kids kid?

Speaker 11 (38:52):
What would you do anytime?

Speaker 2 (38:54):
That?

Speaker 11 (38:54):
My mom thought, but you know, the big stick of.

Speaker 9 (38:57):
The cookie doll when we were kids, it's not a tub.

Speaker 11 (38:59):
It was a stick and I would hide in the
dryer and I would eat the whole thing.

Speaker 3 (39:04):
Oh and they lie because you're not dead. My mom
would say, you're gonna die. You're gonna get e coli,
You're gonna die. You can be eating on that raw
cookie dough. You're still kicking here. I am here, I
am all right, Caim, Thanks for the call. That honestly
scares me, though, I don't want to think about the
kids in the dryer.

Speaker 1 (39:24):
Yeah, like that's really bad if somebody starts that.

Speaker 3 (39:26):
Healthy cook Notice how Santi can't join in on the
convo about like little sweet trees and stuff because she
doesn't have anything. Like he's just staring at me, like, oh,
people eat that. That's crazy. Yeah. So this So there's
this thing called cookie dough and it's raw and you
can then put it in the oven and it bakes cookies.

Speaker 1 (39:45):
I've seen it and I've heard people talk about it,
but I've never partaken delicious.

Speaker 3 (39:49):
Mike is a Nashville Mike. Good morning, Hey, good morning.

Speaker 9 (39:53):
How are you?

Speaker 3 (39:54):
What's going on? I wanted to well, first of all,
happy birthday to the show.

Speaker 2 (40:01):
Thank you.

Speaker 3 (40:03):
Yeah yeah, And I'm one of the original listeners.

Speaker 1 (40:07):
From twenty twenty.

Speaker 3 (40:08):
So I was going to work in the pandemic being
the engineer that I do, and.

Speaker 12 (40:16):
You know there's nobody on the road and it's just like.

Speaker 1 (40:19):
Hot mile in front of me, hot mile back to
me going up ninetyteen north and you know, just got
me through to the pandemic.

Speaker 3 (40:26):
So I appreciate you, and you know you made it
through with these Julians, Santi and foreign so prop see
you guys, and just wanted.

Speaker 8 (40:37):
To say thank you.

Speaker 3 (40:38):
Oh that's really nice, Mike, thank you so much for
the call. I appreciate it. When we really take a
step back and we all know get I get. I
started to get upset about this. But when we take
a step back and really look at what twenty twenty was,
it's crazy. Like it is crazy times in which we

(40:58):
lived flaffable now because I don't think that if it
came back, they could they would do it would be
able to happen again. I think people would literally, Like.

Speaker 4 (41:06):
I was just having this conversation with somebody and their
big church going They were like, yo, church was closed, bro,
Like you couldn't go anywhere, like and we were we
both went how did they get away with that?

Speaker 3 (41:17):
How did they get away with shutting down God?

Speaker 4 (41:20):
Like everything? Like just every you couldn't go nowhere, that
was wild.

Speaker 3 (41:25):
No, No, you could go, but you had to wear
a mask to your seat. And then once your Coca
Cola came out, you took your mask off, you could
eat and drink, and then when you got up to
the bathroom to put it back on after we had
all just taken them off to eat together.

Speaker 1 (41:40):
But in the beginning those were even like that was
like open shut down, the Zoom party, all those things.

Speaker 4 (41:49):
Six feet apart, they say, some stars that have those
sounds on the floors, all.

Speaker 3 (41:53):
The arrows, And then I get so upset when I
think about it. But again, I I stand on that.
I really think that if they were like, we're shutting
the world down again for two weeks, people will be like, no,
you're not.

Speaker 1 (42:05):
Yeah, especially if it was something like COVID, Yeah, busy Bola,
maybe the world's shut down.

Speaker 3 (42:11):
Again, exactly. I think for that Yeah, And I think
if you know, and I'm not talking about like senior
citizen homes and that's I think that's different. But I don't.
I don't think it would have the same effect at all.

Speaker 1 (42:24):
I mean, you guys made me get the vaccine and
all that stuff.

Speaker 4 (42:27):
Like Jesus, yeah, right.

Speaker 2 (42:30):
What I'm saying, this is what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (42:32):
Don't even give me. Once twenty twenty gets mentioned, I
immediately get pissed off. It's not Nick is in Boston.
Hei Nick, good morning. Oh damn, we just dropped him.
But Nick was saying that he he watched the documentary
on Karen Reid The Body in the Snow on HBO
and it changed his mind. I'll have to ask for
hi when he gets out the phone, which which way

(42:52):
he's leaning out. But yeah, that's what I'm gonna say.

Speaker 1 (42:54):
You started started it last night, and let me tell you,
like you, you understand like both sides of it, right.
But I don't think this documentary paints her in a
good way in the sense of like it almost makes
her not likable. And this is from the documentary's view
point of it all. But again I'm only the episode
from her, yeah view, which is an interesting I am
learning other things about all sorts of stuff. I'm learning

(43:14):
more about John o'keef and his family, and then in
the whole dynamic of the whole thing, I will say
their relationship was not good and I forgot about that.

Speaker 3 (43:21):
There is a scene where she talks about how like
after she found out John was dead and she was
on like a psychhold, and they went back to John's
house to like see the niece and nephew and John's
family was there, and she said she immediately got a
vibe of like I shouldn't be here, and she left
and it was like in that moment that things changed

(43:43):
where they were like, well, wait a second, maybe you
did hit him. Yeah, a lot of people are saying
that a lot of people feel like the doc is
not helping her in a sense that it's making her unlikable. Again,
he dropped that nick guy, But what was he saying?
Is he on a difference?

Speaker 4 (43:55):
Just asking he was just asking to change that opinion
on how we felt about it to say the first time,
I think they drop well three episodes or two episodes
at first, and I was like, yo, she's smiling too much,
way too much. Like she seemed happy, you know what
I mean? For someone again, I would assume that I'm
going under a lot of stress, but she's been around
for yes. Then at the end the Verdict show, which

(44:17):
is the last episode when they come back with the
Verdict and things are going on and she breaks down.
Even her lawyer says, Yo, this is the first time
I'm seeing you like break down like this. Like I've
never seen you break down like this before, because you've
all been so like stand you know, you're standing up tall,
and this is the first time I've seen you really
really break down.

Speaker 3 (44:33):
To me.

Speaker 4 (44:34):
To kind of Santi's point, if you're watching this, you're
on the fence, so maybe you're leaning towards she did it.
It's not a good look to see so many teeth.

Speaker 3 (44:40):
Bront By the way, Alan Jackson at one point tells
her that that you know, everything she does matters in
the courtroom and how she appears and her demeanor and
things like that, like her showing me what's inside her closet.

Speaker 4 (44:58):
How is that necessary?

Speaker 3 (44:59):
What is It's weird this It's been very interesting also
to watch it with the fireman who knows nothing. He
doesn't try to research it, he doesn't care. He only
knows if I come home and I'm like, oh, somebody
called me and you know what today, because I he
thinks that he thinks that she, uh, she did, Yeah,
he leans that way after watches, but he also is

(45:20):
on the other side of like, but man, they made
so many mistakes.

Speaker 4 (45:23):
Ye, So a conversation with the director of the show,
and she said that that one of the big important
things was to keep o Kee's name, you know, bring
it back up, because she felt like it got lost.
But she said, we try to be as neutral as possible,
to try to show both sides as much as we could,
and of course highlight the fact that you know, the
officer died, and yeah, people are not talking about that

(45:44):
as much, but yeah, I don't know if you were
leaning on it, you you would look at it and
be like, I don't like the way she's so happy,
Like you shouldn't be, which is sad.

Speaker 3 (45:52):
I want to talk to Nick. It's coming back on Friday,
and I want to ask Nick a little bit more
about the tail light, because I think in the dock
they really highlighted that. So so the can Police when
they went to thirty four Fairview and they did their
initial investigation, use a leaf blower to move the snow
a little bit, didn't see any fragments of the tail light.
Then they were like, okay, this is a homicide. We
have to send in the big dogs. They send in

(46:13):
the big dogs. They find a ton of tail light pieces, fragments.
They also find his other shoe. Mind you, the shoe
thing was crazy because the fireman was like, you know,
we respond to a lot of car accidents where people
and he goes they always get knocked out of their shoes,
So that was interesting to me. By the way, then,
remember Karen says that her tail light was cracked because

(46:36):
when she pulled out of John's driveway, she hit the
other car, and we have that on ring camera footage.
But when police went to check that other car, they
found that a singular piece of her tail light.

Speaker 2 (46:50):
Nothing.

Speaker 3 (46:50):
So if she cracked her tail light that bad when
she was pulling out of the driveway, there should be something.

Speaker 4 (46:56):
I think that was that she cracked it when she
backed into the car. This is the defense that she
cracked the once she backed into the car and then
it kind of like fell apart going back. And yes, exactly, I.

Speaker 3 (47:08):
Want to ask Nick about that because that's interesting because
you would think that I get what you're saying, but
you would think there would be something, even a spec of.

Speaker 4 (47:14):
But I've seen that. I've seen that way you can
back into a car and it just it just cracks,
It just cracks. And yes, that piece can be in
there just loose, just moving around. You hit a bump,
you do something, it falls out the car. Now you
got a hole, you know what I mean. But for
the most part it can still look intact. You just
see the little craft seen them multiple times.

Speaker 3 (47:29):
So it's not but no marking on the other car
at all.

Speaker 4 (47:32):
See because again it's plastic, so it's not like glass.
Glass would shatter and you'd see a piece of it.
Plastic can crack and still stay there, you know what
I mean, just kind of lucy or moved around and
then eventually fall out.

Speaker 2 (47:43):
Of the tail light.

Speaker 3 (47:43):
Stuff is interesting because especially.

Speaker 4 (47:46):
With that they say it was in the close. I
never remember that in the in the in the courts,
I do.

Speaker 3 (47:50):
I actually remember that, only fragments of it. And but
but again it's so strange to me that the Canton
police found nothing and then when these guys went back
they found it. It's just again that that's why it's
so if you can see both.

Speaker 4 (48:01):
Sides to this.

Speaker 1 (48:02):
Also, you forget the Canda police loved to drink and
drive too. That was something that made very very fair
in the dock love it.

Speaker 3 (48:08):
They must think they drive better.

Speaker 1 (48:10):
I don't know it was crazy. She was driving with
Asda in the car too.

Speaker 3 (48:13):
How about in the dock she details how many drinks
she had that night. I was like, she was like, yeah,
so I got this shot. I poured this shot into
that glass and then that was already a double. So
then that was you are and then five crazy.

Speaker 1 (48:28):
That's a situation where I think this was bad for
her to go on there. Now you lost control of
the whole story, in the emotion behind. Now you're giving
people an opinion on either side, and I don't think
it's where it's where it's working on well for her.

Speaker 4 (48:39):
I'm watching this thing like every day. Yesterday that they
the government is really trying to include the dock pieces
of the dock. They shouted that. The judge said, no,
I can't give you that, but they were really like, yo,
she's self incriminating herself and we want to use that
as I understand that. And the judge was like, nah,
I can't.

Speaker 3 (48:55):
Do that because she does say in it. You know,
at first I got home and I was like, did
I do this?

Speaker 1 (49:01):
Did I do this?

Speaker 3 (49:02):
That's another huge part. All the you know, the fire guys,
the the amts, they're all like she's out here screaming,
I hit him, I hit him, I hit him. But
then not a singular one of you write that in
the report that she said that, it's like, it's it's
so crazy again. She was in court yesterday. I know
one thing that stood out to me is the judge Canoni.

Speaker 1 (49:23):
Sorry, Bev, Judge Bev Canoni.

Speaker 3 (49:25):
Yeah, yeah, Bev. She was like, it is going to
be close to impossible for us to get this new jury.
I don't know how we're going to do it, because again,
whether you know the details the inner workings of this case,
you've at least heard of it, you've probably made some
sort of decision in your head either way. So for them,
you know, for them to try to find a jury
of our peers that know nothing is going to be

(49:50):
damn near impossible. But we did text with Nick Nick
that he'll come on on Friday.

Speaker 13 (49:54):
We'll do it at seven twenty is talk about you
know what happened in court on Tuesday, talk about Jackie
Dougal coming on last week, and talk about just the
doc as a whole and what he thinks and how
that all has played out for Karen over the last
couple of weeks.

Speaker 3 (50:11):
Because obviously we know they've been in touch. If we
missed anything, you can always follow us on the Gram
at Ashley and Nam two eas on the Ashley or
my personal is at Ashley Feldman to Ease on the Ashley.

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Speaker 3 (50:37):
Wednesday, March twenty six. And I guess you could say
Ben got a little candid yeah for GQ.

Speaker 1 (50:42):
More than he has in the past relationship.

Speaker 3 (50:44):
Even the fact that he's speaking on it even a
tad is a little more than we usually get from him.
I think mainly too, because he said, listen, I was
embarrassed since a divorce. It's a breakup. It's embarrassing. He
really wants to talk about that, he said. There's no scandal,
no soap opera, no intrigue. When people ask me what happened,
I'm like, this is what happened. There's no story. It's
just two people trying to figure out their lives and

(51:06):
relationships in ways that we all sort of normally do
as you get older. This is true for me. I
assume it's true for most people. There is no so
and so did this or this was a big event. Now,
he did go on to say, and I think this
is important. Jen's better with the spotlight than I am.
She likes it more I don't. I'm private. But that
is not the reason that we broke up, because remember

(51:27):
their whole relationship. The big joke was Ben looked miserable.
Ben looked miserable at award shows. Ben looked miserable. When
they were getting in the car. Ben looked miserable, when
they were eating dinner. Everywhere we saw Ben out in
public with her, he looked miserable. And is it that
he doesn't want to give the paparazzis the picture. Is
he actually miserable? We'll never know, but he is making
it very clear. Just because she loves the spotlight and

(51:48):
he doesn't, that's not the reason they broke up.

Speaker 1 (51:50):
Okay, Ben, it's not the reason why. But I guarantee,
if you take it away, it would have made the
relationship a lot better and you probably could have fixed
what was broken.

Speaker 4 (51:57):
Played a small part for sure. Yeah, I mean, how
does not like your two polo opposites, and it's not
like in private, it's in public. You like the private,
the private life. She likes to be outside all the time.

Speaker 3 (52:09):
And I actually forgot well, she had that documentary that
came out, and you know a lot of people were
putting were saying that that really put a wedge between
the two of them because it was a doc and
he didn't want to be a part of it. But
then he was, and that comes up in the interview
and he talks about it, and there was a clip
in it and I remember this specifically where she was
writing a song for him on her new album, because
remember it was called like do your Bed. He's like,

(52:31):
we have this relationship, this amazing relationship that's super private,
and that's the way I want it to be. And
now it's the best kept secret that you were telling.
And I don't think he really liked that, but he
was probably like, Okay, that's what you want to do.
That's fine.

Speaker 1 (52:46):
I mean, the bigger problem is that she didn't understand
that and like kind of respect that part of him.

Speaker 3 (52:50):
There's a part of it. Remember, she's in a room
with all of the people that she works with on
the dock and she's reading them his love letters. If
I'm bad, I'm like too much? Are you serious? Like
what are you doing?

Speaker 5 (53:02):
So?

Speaker 3 (53:03):
Yeah, I mean listen. Then we also add in this
whole other layer of does he still have feelings for
Jennifer Garner? I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (53:12):
They are cool, they are and anybody she has a boyfriend. Yeah,
I don't think. I don't think they come off and
being still lovely dove you. I think they co parent
well and they're good, they're happy friendly.

Speaker 3 (53:24):
But if you were paintballing with your ex who is
santi nice friend, and we saw a photo of you
with your arms like hugged up around her, you don't
think we're going to say like what, like would you
do that?

Speaker 4 (53:35):
Tool you a messy so obviously would you do that?
I could text them and you y'all could be bugging,
but it's different. But yeah, I wouldn't be. I wouldn't
be tripping.

Speaker 3 (53:43):
That wouldn't be weird to you to go up and
hug her from behind.

Speaker 4 (53:46):
We could stand, we could stand next to each other
and be hugged up and there's no problem because we're cool.
It's called the friendship, Okay, bro, we share two children
that raised for twenty some audience.

Speaker 3 (53:59):
I don't want something getting the wrong idea that he
can be hugg hugged up on me from behind and
this is what friends.

Speaker 4 (54:06):
But y'all don't got no connection like that, you know
what I mean. But but you do actually, because y'all
came up through the trenches together, ye wouldn't be no kids.

Speaker 1 (54:13):
But we do have a connection.

Speaker 3 (54:14):
Trenches. You're gonna hug me from behind me like the trenches, trench.

Speaker 4 (54:20):
Just let the trenches happen, all right.

Speaker 1 (54:24):
We got good news in.

Speaker 3 (54:25):
Fox where people are very excited. The pass are signing
a veteran wide receivers to Faun Diggs to a three year,
sixty nine million dollar contract with twenty six milk guaranteed.
People are pumped, especially for Drake May. He deserves this.

Speaker 1 (54:39):
It's pretty clear you need to spend money in order
to win more than four games.

Speaker 4 (54:43):
It's that simple, guys.

Speaker 3 (54:45):
Yeah, he had a few stops Minnesota, Buffalo, Houston. Obviously
there's some question marks around him because he's coming off
an ACL injury, but he's a VET and he always
played well against the Patriots. I'll be happy to have
him on our side.

Speaker 1 (54:58):
Anything's better than four guys.

Speaker 3 (54:59):
That's a fact already. Lastly, Nelly detailing why him and
Ashanti decided to tie the knot if I'm a shanty,
I don't really necessarily love the web. Nellie's very matter
of fact about it. I think I would want a
little bit more lovey dovey when explaining. But here's Nelly
on the bootleg keV podcast just being like, well, you
got pregnant, and we were like, we gotta get this

(55:20):
done now.

Speaker 7 (55:21):
Once we found out that she was pregnant, it was
just like, I didn't want this to be. I don't
want to say, like child out of web.

Speaker 4 (55:27):
Lie.

Speaker 7 (55:28):
We hadn't talked about any of that yet, you know,
but I was like, Yo, you know what, let's just
knock this out because we're going to be doing so
much and everything's moving so fast.

Speaker 4 (55:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (55:37):
I didn't want her to be, you know, a baby mama,
because we already knew where we were in life and
if we're back like this, this must be what this
supposed to be.

Speaker 3 (55:48):
Didn't want her to be a baby mama, so we
said I'm gonna put a ring on it, which, by
the way, Foreren told us he did naked after they had.

Speaker 4 (55:54):
Yes, they had sexuals, and then he proposed naked. She
was wearing his boxes and a T shirt. Another fun fact, right,
relationship people who get back together, they usually start mingling
here and there. They might message text. I think even
with Jal and Bend, they kind of like were talking
a little bit. Then they were they Nelly was on
stage at a Versus, remember versus back in the Yay.
They were on stage at a Versus and that's and

(56:16):
Ashanti said, this is the first time we had seen
each other in years. She was like, I didn't hate him,
but I hated him, like they were not cool exes
and she's they saw each other across the stage. He
came across the stage said hello, and they felt a
spark again. She was like, wow, this doesn't feel that bad.
She expected it to be a little animosity, you know,
and she was like, wow, this doesn't feel bad.

Speaker 3 (56:37):
And from there, God, the verses. That was a COVID
thing too, wasn't it.

Speaker 4 (56:42):
Yes, Wow, it wasn't. It wasn't.

Speaker 9 (56:45):
It wasn't.

Speaker 4 (56:45):
No, you know, oh let me let me hog let.

Speaker 3 (56:47):
You It was just were emailing. I think while she
was on location for a movie she was.

Speaker 4 (56:53):
They slowly got back back, saw each other across the stage.
He kissed on the cheek.

Speaker 3 (56:58):
She felt the vibe and from now we have little
baby Cake with.

Speaker 1 (57:02):
Another on the way. At some point too, she went
more the club he does.

Speaker 3 (57:07):
Lauren wanted to give her some, but she moved. Had
his best to game club. You need to know for Wednesday,
March twenty six, let's do a round two of that giveaway.
Speaking of Nelly, maybe he'll bring her Shanty and the babes.
He's gonna be hanging out with jaw Rule, Eve Chingy
and Jermaine Duprie at the Extinity Center. That show is
August the third, six one seven, nine, three one one

(57:28):
nine four five Collars twenty five. We are hooking you up.
Good luck and as always, maybe odds be ever in
your favor.

Speaker 5 (57:35):
It's Ashley ended jam in Morning Show with d J
Foreign and Santy and.

Speaker 6 (57:39):
It's time for another DM Dilemma.

Speaker 1 (57:48):
I was do you want to host?

Speaker 3 (57:50):
I was doing some serious, serious scrolling on the GRAM
speaking of the Gram. Hi, good morning, and a quick
shout out before I get to this too, Lauren Clinton,
I got a DM dilemma today. We do DM dilemma.
But no, I mean, listen when we get them. There
was a time period where a boss was like, you
gotta do a DM dilemma every day. So I can't

(58:11):
do DM dilemma every day, can't make them up. If
I get them, I get them. If I don't, I don't.
But yeah, if you're going through something and you feel
like your friends or your family might be too close
to it, and you want us to potentially talk about it,
open up the phone lines and see how people feel
about it, maybe give you some advice. You can always
DM me on my personal account at Ashley Feldman to
ease on the Ashley since I'm here. We also have

(58:33):
a show account, Ashley and the Am, and I've had
people write me on that account and I might not
see it. If that's the case, please don't think I'm
ignoring you. You can try my personal account too, because
feel like I'm better there at Ashley Feldman as h
L E E F like Frank E L D M
a m DM dilemma from anonymous. I've promised her multiple

(58:54):
times so I'll make sure she stays anonymous. Hey, ash
I'm reaching out to you as I need some advice
on my in laws relax on.

Speaker 1 (59:01):
Read anything yet I'm itching.

Speaker 3 (59:04):
I need Fourn to get off the phone because I
don't want to have to read this twice. I'm here, okay,
perfect DM dilemma. My husband and I have been together
for ten years now and we just had a baby
a year ago. Ever since we started dating, we've always
had opinions. They as in the in laws. I'm sorry.
I have always had opinions about my body, criticizing it
because I'm a plus sized woman. Usually it's been them

(59:26):
saying it to my husband when I'm not there. There's
been years where they've kept silent, but recently it's been
amped up when they are now where they are now
willing to tell me to my face, I need to
lose weight. They tend to do it to my husband.
They tend to do it to me when my husband
isn't in the same room, and it's very uncomfortable for me.
I brought it up to my husband and he says
that he has spoken to them about this, but they
proceed to keep bringing it up. The last time they

(59:48):
did it, they even tried telling me, your husband has
come to us and is super concerned about your weight.
It's not that he's not attracted to you, but he's
more so worried for you. I have asked my husband again,
because we're so close and honest with each other. He says, no,
I've never said that. It's gone as far as they
would say. I won't fit on an airplane anymore on
the family vacation. Crazy thing to say to somebody like

(01:00:09):
that's wild. I've never been treated like this for my body,
and it is really affecting my mental health and my confidence. Recently,
she told my husband not to feed our baby a
cookie after her lunch, as she quote didn't need it
and said that she'd be fine having fruit instead after
having chicken, rice, broccoli, and cucumbers for lunch. I hate
how they do this, and my husband's not a confidence

(01:00:30):
per confident person, and he lacks confidence and has since
we met. I'm just not sure what to do here anymore.

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
So it seems clear that the centerpiece of this whole
thing is the husband. I think her and a husband
need to get on the same page because clearly they
are not, and I don't think he's being honest with
her on what he's talking to his family about. That's
step one, Then step two, which is going to be
the biggest one. You and your husband need to send
major boundaries with the in laws because they do not
see boundaries at all, and this is going to be

(01:00:58):
something that's going to take a lot of work. But
they're so intrusive and crossing the line.

Speaker 4 (01:01:03):
Yeah, I would, I would, I would. I would check
the husband and the family together, especially if the family
is coming to say that your husband feels this way,
bring them in the room together and be like, yo,
so who's feeling what about what? Number one? That's number one.
Number two, you're not dating the in laws, you're dating
the husband. Do you feel like your husband is attracted
to you? I think women can tell if a husband

(01:01:23):
or their partner is not attracted to him. Is your
partner attracted to you? If you feel like he might be,
they might be truth and that he has an issue
with the weight, then that's a conversation you got to
have with the husband. But if he doesn't, who cares
what the family in law says. Live your life, girl,
and just leave them alone. If you've got to just
stay away from him.

Speaker 3 (01:01:42):
To tell her that she's not going to fit on
an airplane is crazy work. That's we're trying to hurt
you more so than anything, because there's a there's a
way to say, like, hey, we're concerned about your health.
This is like a dual part here for me because
number one, you know, I think we all do like
when if we hang out with my husband's family or

(01:02:04):
his mother, say, for example, when she leaves, we might
be like, oh, did you notice that your mom did ABC?
And like you have those conversations. Now if his mother
was over, she leaves and he goes, oh, my mom
said you looked a little thick in that outfit? Their
what yet, Like I couldn't even picture it because it
would it would just never happen. I do kind of

(01:02:28):
think that they if they're so willing to talk to
her about it to her face, I do think they
have brought it to his attendant, and I do think
that there has been some sort of conversation behind her back.
I'm sure he just doesn't want to hurt her any further,
so he's trying to protect her in that sense. But
there's no way if they're so brazen and bold to
bring it up to her face that they haven't set
it to him behind closed doors.

Speaker 1 (01:02:48):
Now to that point, I don't think he's sticking up
for his wife. I don't think he's making it clear
that this could be a situation that they need to
talk about and that the inline needs to stay out
of the Endloe dynamic is so challenging because again a
lot of people in that situation don't see boundaries, and
they think just because they're son is involved with somebody,
they can say anything or get get involved in it,
and they can't. It is taking years for us, for

(01:03:11):
me and my wife to get to a point where
there are boundaries.

Speaker 3 (01:03:13):
It's tough for a lot of people to digest that, Like, hey,
we are our own family now, like our own family
des That's.

Speaker 4 (01:03:21):
What I'm saying. Yes, you're not dating the parents. Yes
you want to have a relationship with him, you want
to be it. But if y'all don't get along, they're
not in your house paying your bills. They don't cook
for you, they don't take care of you, they're not
there doing the arguments of the good times. Like forget
about everybody else's opinion. If your husband loves you the
way you are, keep doing your thing. If you feel

(01:03:42):
like your husband isn't, then they might be a conversation
that he's too scared to have a conversation with you about,
which is a hard conversation to have.

Speaker 1 (01:03:48):
By the way, I think it's scared to have a
lot of conversations, maybe with her, but more so his
own parents.

Speaker 4 (01:03:53):
That part too.

Speaker 3 (01:03:54):
The bottom line is for me, he needs to step
it up and he needs to sit down his muff
her and he needs to say, listen you, anything you
have to say in regards to her weight, you need
to keep it to yourself. That's my job. She is
my wife, period. He said, yeah, totally, then he should wife,

(01:04:15):
which is not an easy conversation to have, but it
shouldn't be coming from his mommy. It should be coming
from him mom. He needs a step back now, Mommy
nana needs to choose.

Speaker 1 (01:04:25):
I dealt with a mommy like that that we had
to have multiple conversations about, Hey, you need to take
a couple of steps back because this has nothing to
do with you.

Speaker 3 (01:04:31):
And I also feel awful for her because she you know,
she's she wants her daughter, her kid to spend time
with the grandmom, but she probably is like nervous to
go be in front of her about what they're going
to say. Yeah, because how much worse can it get?

Speaker 4 (01:04:44):
And you could tell the mom the grandma is going
to probably feed on nothing but grass all day.

Speaker 3 (01:04:49):
Like you shouldn't be in cooky.

Speaker 4 (01:04:50):
You're gonna get like your mom, which is crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:04:53):
Complisations, No, it is all right. Six one seven nine
three one one nine four five six one seven nine
three one one nine four five. I think a lot
of people have dealt with this in their marriage, whatever
relationship they're in. How does one handle the in laws
dam dilemma?

Speaker 1 (01:05:10):
Morning?

Speaker 3 (01:05:11):
Hi, everybody, Good morning. It's Sashley and the jam In
Morning Show. We're doing a DM dilemma right now from
anonymous who's basically saying that her mother in law has
made many comments in regards to her weight, one of
which was, you're too big to get on an airplane
with us if we go on a family vacation. Diabolical.
She's at the point now where she's like, I feel
uncomfortable even being around them. You know, as soon as

(01:05:34):
my husband gets up and leaves the room, they make
comments about my weight. Six one seven nine three one
one nine four five. Obviously they have a one year
old and she wants the baby to be around them,
but it's just getting really, really hard. Do you want
to talk to you son?

Speaker 11 (01:05:47):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (01:05:47):
Anonymosus of Worcester, Good morning.

Speaker 11 (01:05:51):
Hi, good morning. How are you good?

Speaker 3 (01:05:53):
So you're dealing with a tough mother in law.

Speaker 11 (01:05:56):
Yes, my girlfriend's mom's kind of putting much the same
thing for her. Mom's been evil her whole life though,
so I mean, some things you can't really change. But basically, uh,
my girlfriend, she was plus sized too, and she would
grow up growing up. She's telling her, you know you're
too fat, I'm not gonna invite you to my wedding.

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This and that, blah blah blah. Just toxic. And basically
I try to keep her from her family at all costs,
just because the mental strain that it puts on her
and everything is just it's not anything you should be around.
And if the if the parents can't not act like that,
then they should just withdraw, like just not not go around.

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And the last thing she wants is for her kids
to hear her mom calling her fat and saying these
things and then have her kids turn around and saying
the same things about her, Like that's just it's not
good at all.

Speaker 3 (01:06:53):
Yeah, it's certainly not right. That's basically anonymous. It was
basically yeah, well, thank you for I think situation is
tough for because of the baby, right, because the grandparents
want to be around the baby. And Chante is in Boston.
Good morning, Hello, Hello, Hi, good morning.

Speaker 8 (01:07:17):
Good morning, Ashley, Hi babe.

Speaker 4 (01:07:20):
So how you do it?

Speaker 2 (01:07:21):
Good?

Speaker 3 (01:07:21):
So you actually dealt with this type of thing firsthand.

Speaker 9 (01:07:25):
Yeah, So I've been with my child's father for ten years,
and at the beginning, when I got with him, I
think what it was mostly was the fact that sometimes
parents are used to dealing with a certain type of female.
A lot of the females of what she dealt with,
they weren't very like strong, confident women or women who
really spoke up for their self. So I guess when

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I came in the picture, they kind of thought it
was going to be the same situation. But I kind
of knifed in the butt right before it happened. Because
I feel like it's very much so a pattern thing.
Once you allow someone to disrespect you, they're consensus they've
done it continuously, keep doing it and doing it. And
I don't need to disrespect anybody's parents because you don't
have to be disrespectful to get your point across. You

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can very much so explain to somebody and be very
verbal about how you feel about something. But I don't
think it's okay to just accept it or for your
partner to accept it, especially if they love you. That's
not okay. So luckily with my partner, he stood up
for me and I haven't had that problem set.

Speaker 3 (01:08:25):
I love that, and that's what I'm really hoping for
for her, and thank you so much for that. I
just think he has to First off, she has to
communicate to him how it's bothering her, and then I
think he has to step up.

Speaker 1 (01:08:37):
And I get it.

Speaker 3 (01:08:38):
That's not an easy conversation to have. She just wrote
me and she said, he just honestly never talks to
his family. They literally maybe speak once a week on
the phone when she's there. She said, what kind of
boundaries should we be setting. It's really hard because the
baby is involved.

Speaker 1 (01:08:54):
I'll give you two. The first one is they need
to call before they come to the house at any time,
just to make sure that there's a process and to
make sure and you have to tell them this. They
are not a co parent in the whole situation. There
are two parents and now again put them right outside
the circle so they start to like know their role
and know their boundaries. And once again, when those boundaries
get broken, because they definitely will just rebuild them, keep

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correct and.

Speaker 4 (01:09:16):
Stand and stand tall on them. Don't don't let don't
let any one time that that boundary slide, because when
you do it one time, it's going to keep sliding
and keep sliding and keep sliding.

Speaker 3 (01:09:26):
I don't know what it is with you guys, but
you they you have trouble speaking up.

Speaker 2 (01:09:31):
Not me.

Speaker 1 (01:09:33):
I will cut my parents off right right now for
my wife.

Speaker 3 (01:09:37):
God, guys have trouble talking to their mothers.

Speaker 1 (01:09:42):
Let me tell you though, it takes time. And again
it took me a lot of years to get to
this point though. Yeah, I think it does take time.
But you're definitely right, because there's some guys who are
like in their thirties, forties or whatever, and they still
like when they're around their parents, they feel like they twelve.

Speaker 4 (01:09:55):
Yeah, you know what I mean. And that's an intimidation thing.
That's a I don't know what the word, the proper
word is.

Speaker 2 (01:10:00):
I don't know what it is.

Speaker 4 (01:10:01):
Because some parents have that kind of control over their kids.

Speaker 3 (01:10:04):
I don't know what like, I'm trying to think of
a good example. But I could say to the fireman,
I'm uncomfortable being around your mom, like I need you
to talk to her about A, B and C. He'd say, no,
we just won't be around her. Then here's instead of
having a conversation with her, he would have avoid it.
I'm serious, like he'd been like, nope, I just we
won't see her.

Speaker 1 (01:10:22):
I don't know if the entitle term, but it's called
breaking the chain of command. So growing up for most
of our lives, where you saw our parents hung us
what to do. We get to a certain point where
on the kind of same level, but it's hard for
us to understand that we're at the same So you
have to constantly try to get to that point. But
once you do it, it's great.

Speaker 4 (01:10:37):
And it's hard for the parents to understand that too,
exactly because you're so used to telling this, Hey, I
do this, and they do do that, and they do it.
So you think when they've grown ass right and have
a family, do this and they do it. No, I'm
not telling my wife to stop eating whatever she wants
to eat. Again, my whole point for all this thing
is if your husband loves you the way you all
keep doing your thing, if you have an inkling that

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he doesn't, maybe there's a and.

Speaker 3 (01:11:00):
Fore, she wrote me and said, he has absolutely no
issues in the attraction.

Speaker 4 (01:11:05):
Don't care about what they're saying you either you either
just let it roll off your shoulder, or if it
affects you that much, stay away from them.

Speaker 3 (01:11:11):
Yeah, but it's going to put a rift in their
marriage if he doesn't stand up for her, because she's
gonna be like, why won't you, Why won't you stand
up for you?

Speaker 4 (01:11:18):
But I mean, I don't know how old he is,
but you know at thirty something years you want the
god to stand up to his parents now, Yes, which
is going to cause a problem for him and the parents.
I'll be with the fireman like, okay, cool, I'm accept
my parents for who they are. They're not changing. They're
gonna be judgmental, they're going to be ignorant. I'm not
going to try to change that to appease my You
know what I mean, I'm gonna tell my wife, I

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stand with you. We don't got to go around there
and we don't have to be in that comfortib I.

Speaker 3 (01:11:44):
Think his sentiment. What he's saying is I know what
you're saying. I just think you're part of the minority
with that. I think the majority of guys would be like,
I'm not talking to my mom.

Speaker 1 (01:11:54):
Listen, here's what I'll tell you. I think this takes
time to deal with. I've been married for twenty years.
It's an evolution thing. Yeah, it's easy to say no whatever,
but this is something that's very fixable.

Speaker 3 (01:12:03):
Yeah, by the way, I'm more like you, like, I'll
go to war with my mom.

Speaker 4 (01:12:08):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (01:12:08):
If he ever said to me, hey, your mom does
this and it's making me uncomfortable. He's getting a little
shit chat. But he's not that way.

Speaker 4 (01:12:15):
But look at the relationship you have, that relationship with
your mom where y'all can go back and forth. This
guy doesn't sound like that. Well, he can't stand up
to his parents. So for someone like that, it's like,
my parents are fifty sixty, seventy years old. I'm not
going to try to change them. They are who they are.
Let's just go around them anymore and let's just be

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happy in our own because again, what they do don't
affect us, but it does here in this instance, because
of allowing them to.

Speaker 3 (01:12:43):
Also, there's the baby.

Speaker 1 (01:12:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (01:12:45):
Yeah, if he.

Speaker 4 (01:12:46):
Doesn't want my kid around them, I'll be honest. Yeah,
if he'll be chastising my kid. Oh, you're gaining some weight.
You don't look good today, grandson, you gain some weight, Like,
I don't want that negativity on my grandkid.

Speaker 1 (01:12:57):
No, he doesn't fix us. This is going to end
in divorce.

Speaker 11 (01:13:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:13:03):
I think he's got to figure something whatever, whatever it is, like,
he needs to because you need you need the home
to be happy. What's funny is she used the example
of you know, he tried to give the cookie and
Nana was like, no, I'm on the opposite that bit.
Showed up last night with two ice creams for my child.
I said, what are you doing? What are you doing? Daddy?

Speaker 5 (01:13:24):
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Speaker 6 (01:13:28):
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Speaker 3 (01:13:33):
It saddens me how much saddest faction I know Santi
felt when this this little clip started going viral.

Speaker 1 (01:13:41):
Feels good.

Speaker 3 (01:13:42):
Santi, as well as other people on the Internet, cannot
get over how Benny Blanco bagged Selena Gomez like Santi
just cannot let it go.

Speaker 1 (01:13:53):
I thought about this. Here's the reason why, because I
feel like they are on two opposites. One is close
to zero and the other one is close to ten.
That up in between. Yeah, it's a big gap.

Speaker 3 (01:14:03):
That's tough to say. Money.

Speaker 4 (01:14:04):
Money will make you look handsome, yes, money will make
you look attracted effect.

Speaker 1 (01:14:09):
Right or wrong. That's why the Internet is so like
kind of shocked about this whole thing because like on
opposite ends up there.

Speaker 3 (01:14:16):
Listen when it was there was like rumors about it,
and when it was confirmed that her and Benny Blanco
were dating, I was taken aback because her roster goes crazy.
I mean, we got Justin Bieber, we got abled the weekend.

Speaker 1 (01:14:34):
Yeah. Now this is just based on pure looks because
from what I can understand, he seems like a great
ground guy.

Speaker 3 (01:14:40):
I remember, I remember, No, I remember when they went
on a date once for for something, and she said
she went to Taco Bell and he rented out a
movie theater and like made tacos for her while the movie.
There's something crazy like he adores her. She She also
has said in interviews that she has never felt safe,
She's never had someone call and to be like, hey,

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how are you just want to say I love you?
Just like checking in, you know, just seeing what I'm doing.
She never had that, which is crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:15:07):
Yeah, because he knows.

Speaker 5 (01:15:10):
It?

Speaker 3 (01:15:10):
Is it?

Speaker 4 (01:15:10):
Or was she dating people who was so like you
know up there that they cared about themselves more than
they did her?

Speaker 3 (01:15:15):
Well, the two I named, there's a chance, I don't know,
we don't we don't know Abel like that or justin
There is a clip that's going viral. Who is the
comedian that he's talking to? The redheaded do his last
name was Santina, right, I know?

Speaker 4 (01:15:29):
I think so.

Speaker 3 (01:15:30):
He's a character. He's funny, he's really good. Here's a
little clip for one of them discussing when the when
the comedian found out that Benny had begged Selena, how.

Speaker 14 (01:15:40):
Did you get a woman like Selena Gomez to date you?

Speaker 1 (01:15:43):
For real?

Speaker 3 (01:15:43):
And I mean that with every sense of my being.

Speaker 14 (01:15:45):
I lost a lot of respect for her when I
found out you were dating, because I've known you for years. Yeah,
and I don't know her at all. I think from
afar she's a lovely person. She's incredible, and then she is,
she's incredible, a great actor, a great performer, a great artist, beautiful, sweet,
seems so humble. And then I found out one day
I was in the shower and my wife said, hey,
Benny is dating Selena Gomez. Yeah, And I turned the shower,

(01:16:09):
took cold all the way and I sat there for
about thirty minutes, just cold shower.

Speaker 4 (01:16:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (01:16:13):
I under I disappointed. I under I understand. I asked
myself the same question every day. If I walk by
the mirror, I'm like, oh my what, Yeah, it's it's insane.
I'm actually so ugly and my features are like so grotesque.
Yeah that I like popped out the other side, and
now I'm just like a hot I disagree. I think

(01:16:34):
I'm hot. Do you think you're hot?

Speaker 14 (01:16:35):
And I'm definitely better looking at you for sure?

Speaker 5 (01:16:37):
No?

Speaker 14 (01:16:38):
Yeah, just you're on an objective scale, you're so rad.
If you put me and you in the street up
against each other just as random men, they'd be like,
this guy is off. You think I'm six one. I'm
a four sized guy. Okay, okay, you look like that
guy from Ice Age.

Speaker 5 (01:16:50):
I do.

Speaker 1 (01:16:51):
I look exactly.

Speaker 4 (01:16:52):
Everyone on the internet. I always said, he doesn't think
he's ugly. I know he doesn't he does not what
he carries himself with wait till much confidence and he's
not confidence. And know that you can be confidence with money,
but you're still going to be a cornball. You could
see it, you know what I mean, just the way
you're like, you'll be a try hard.

Speaker 3 (01:17:12):
You could say that's one thing he's not.

Speaker 4 (01:17:14):
That's what I'm saying, Thank you, so relaxed. He doesn't
think he's ugly.

Speaker 1 (01:17:19):
He has eyes though.

Speaker 3 (01:17:22):
Reflec like that. Maybe he back far like he was
so ugly to him feel.

Speaker 1 (01:17:29):
His conversation sounds weird. We've all seen people like, oh, wow,
you know what I mean, that's just the.

Speaker 4 (01:17:34):
Way we think we're being real. Well real, there's some
people who you know what I mean, God might might
have just took you out.

Speaker 1 (01:17:39):
The other mother natures were just like joking, I'm going
to make a day people are going.

Speaker 4 (01:17:44):
To Benny does not think he's ugly. His confidence, yes,
I agree on that, the swaggon of confidence that it's not.
It doesn't come from being rich. These people who are
ugly and rich and they know they're ugly, and the
only way they get women, all guys, is because they
got money.

Speaker 3 (01:17:59):
He has a little bit of the ben factor, like
he does not care.

Speaker 1 (01:18:02):
About he doesn't.

Speaker 4 (01:18:04):
That's how you know he's got confidence.

Speaker 3 (01:18:05):
He got invited to like Millie Bobby Brown's wedding, had
no idea who Millie Bobby Brown even was.

Speaker 4 (01:18:10):
And to be honest, these women who attracted multi confidence
than they are jokes, which again we a society might
look at him and be like, damn, how did you
do that? But he probably has an a plus plus
plus plus personality.

Speaker 1 (01:18:23):
And I guess that's my point, Like he seems like
an amazing guy and she's very happy. But like just
on paper, when we're doing just the numbers on the
physical part of things, I can that's the part where
it's like, oh wow, how did that happen?

Speaker 3 (01:18:34):
Yeah, and listen, he knows the job. I mean, was
it Nicki Glazer who did it at one of the
award shows? Like everybody everybody's making the law.

Speaker 4 (01:18:42):
Which is which is fiddy because again taking the bullets
out the gun, Yeah, let's joke about it.

Speaker 3 (01:18:47):
Do you think, like what does Selena think about it?

Speaker 4 (01:18:50):
Do you think she Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:18:53):
I think she knows. She has to know.

Speaker 4 (01:18:54):
Guys, she wakes up to him every day. You know
what I mean the three months it might have been hard, but.

Speaker 3 (01:19:01):
Now it's r huge news. Though he did get rid
of his unibrow.

Speaker 1 (01:19:06):
He did, but that's like throwing a deck chair off
the Titanic light work. You got to make a different.

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