February 10, 2025 • 10 mins
An woman text her Ex goodbye during her honeymoon. Was she wrong or right?
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
In the morning show with DJ Foreign It's Sad Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five. Shout out to Josephine in Malden. She's going
to the Governor's ball and maybe just on our dime,
we'll find out. On Friday. DJ Pop Dog has your
next shot in that's coming up tomorrow in the three
pm hour. We're gonna rotate with Pup, so we'll have
it back in our show on Wednesday Rotation. Oh, follow
(00:28):
along people US today, Pup tomorrow, US Wednesday, Pup. You know, Okay,
Foreign had sent me this. I think Foreign sent me
this on Friday, but we just didn't have enough time
to get to it. And I was, I was, this
is kind of crazy to me that this woman didn't
think that.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
This was a big deal.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's upsetting.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
This is a yeah, but in the comment section she
was getting defended. Really, who are these people.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
She does? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
It said my husband is making us fly home from
our honeymoon after one day because he found out I
sent my ex a simple goodbye text on the morning
of our wedding. It was a goodbye text for goodness sake,
not an I will always love you text, not a
drop everything and meet me at the altar.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Text.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I needed to say goodbye to have closure on the
unmarried part of my life. Please tell me, my sensitive
nostalgic girlies understand.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
No, that closure should have come the moment you met
your husband and broke up all the acts about That's
when that was there, not on your wedding day or
before that. That's an issue that gives me the feeling
like she still has feelings for him. And then now
it's like that.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
All you had, you had a chance until we went
on a honey yes once I said I do not,
I'm closing the door on you completely.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
This is what I find a text like that.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
I'm like, that actually might make me physically ill, like
I might vomit, because absolutely that means that that man
was on her mind on her wedding day, like no matter, well,
I don't care what the text I said, you were
thinking about him enough to reach out and say goodbye.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I would go as far as to say that's worse
than a cheat, like if my wife cheated had one
night flame, this would hurt me like a lot more.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Well.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
It also it opens up such a can of worms
because you're like, Okay, if you had to say goodbye
to him, do y'all speak every day?
Speaker 3 (02:19):
What's your relationship?
Speaker 4 (02:20):
There's got to be a relationship, right because if you're like, yo, goodbye,
meaning like leave me alone from this point on, that's
how I take it. If you're telling to me like that,
like I had to good closure because now well married
one on honeymoon, that means you needed to let him
know I'm done, I'm off the market for real, for real.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
It was nice knowing you have a good night.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Now, No, bro, Wh're not playing that game.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
It seems like the closure is on her end of things.
That's what I'm saying. I had to say goodbye to
her single part of what I'm like, Ye, like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
That's kind of how I read it too. I had
to say goodbye to that part of my life. This
one is the by the way, I so stand with him.
And first off, you're gonna send that text and then
not de lead it?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Are you?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
That's stupid? Are you? That's yes? You are you are?
Speaker 2 (03:03):
But now they're on their honeymoon and he sees that
text and she's mad that he wants to fly home.
What you hey, you better hope it's just that he
wants to fly home and not that he wants to
leave you. Because I don't I can't possibly see anybody
calling in to defend this said.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
The comments were defending.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Yes, there were girls being like to that, to that
point of like, well she you know, she just needed
to say goodbye, close that chapter of her life.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
The single, unmarried, well love and I bet you those.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Are a bunch of females, right. I would love for
them to reverse the roles and have their husbands or
their boyfriends do the same thing.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Now I'm telling you how'll be like what, No, this
is crazy if.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
You're sending that text and that makes me feel like
he's the one that got away, He's the one that
you're still thinking about.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
If you saw that text right before you were about
to walk down the aisle, would you cancel the wedding?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I don't know if that was I got yes, Like
when I say, why did you?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Hell yeah, I got to close that part of my
life done done.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
The one thing I'm struggling with is that there's a
wedding and there's embarrassment, theody to leave, and then they
can ask. So I don't know if I just eat
it and deal with it afterwards. That's what I'm feeling,
and then get it at all. Yes, yeah, because at
least you don't have to tell everybody and then go
through that. Fine, but that's better than them there before.
(04:21):
And then then start asking like why.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
This reminds me of I've I've randomly thought of myself
in this hypothetical situation where a guy proposes to me
that I don't want to get married to.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
If people are watching, I'm saying, yes, you have to.
I'm saying yes on the spot, and then we're getting
in the car and I'm going I don't want this, yeah,
or we need to talk.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
I'm not like the embarrassment that Yeah, yeah, you know,
And then as soon as we're getting car, it's it's
it's a hard no for me, sir, But I yeah,
there's situations like that that public of it.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
I'm saying, I might, I might walk on down and
then we'll figure it out.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah, the honeymoon's canceled, and then I don't know, if
I divorced, we're gonna have some serious talks. Yeah. Closure.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Can anybody defend?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Can anybody defend or has anybody been through or heard
or anything. A text message to your ex right before
you walk down the aisle saying goodbye. I mean six
one seven nine three one one nine four five. She
really thought she had something with that too, six one
seven nine three one one nine four five. Sending your
(05:27):
ex a text to say goodbye on your wedding day.
Hi everybody, good morning. Imagine you're on your honeymoon. You
go through your significant other's phone, which, by the way,
red flag by the way, ah, and you find a
text from your new wife to her ex boyfriend saying goodbye.
(05:49):
Now she's trying to defend it. She said, it wasn't
and I'll always love you. It wasn't a drop everything,
meet me at the altar. It was just goodbye because
I had to say closure on the unmarried part.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Of my life. That's just heartbreaking.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
That's like sad vomit.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
Yeah, like.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
You see that before you walk down the aisle, there
is like form was like I'm calling it off. There
are some people who would really call off their wedding.
Alas in Boston. Al, remember we can't curse, we're live
on the rag.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Oh, I'll hung up.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
So what happened my god? Al said that he uh,
he received that text before from one of his exes.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
They had broken up, They had a toxic relationship, they
hadn't talked for a while, and from what he remembers,
he was still trying to get with it every once
in a while. And then when she finally moved on
and you know, found somebody else, she hit him with
the you know goodbye, like we gotta we gotta end
this right here. But he says that was grinding. It's
absolutely grinding for anybody to do that.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
It's diabolical, Like it's again, it just makes me feel
like I'm not the only thing on your mind that day, which.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
Is so weird.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Nobody can occupy you.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Yeah, not on our wedding day. Devin is in Maldon.
Dev You obviously think the timing is horrible, but you
somehow feel like the text, like you can digest the text?
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Yes, can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Yeah? Okay? Perfect?
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Yeah, See I have an ex relationship like that and
we're friends and I would never think of him on
my wedding day, and believe me, I did not.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
But I get her feelings on at some point thinking
about it and saying goodbye to her single life just
not on your wedding day, girl, And again, like you said,
if you did delete the text, like what are you
doing so I can feel I can.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Feel all of your I get all of your opinions.
But when I giggled when you said, I feel like
girls are the only ones defending her. So I want
to half.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Defend her, if that makes sense.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
But I get the emotions and I get still thinking
about the X on occasion, but not on your wedding day.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Interesting, all right, Davi, as.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Soon as you put that ring on your finger, you're.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Yeah, You're done.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
This whole sentiment of like saying goodbye to your single self,
I don't know, Like what does that mean?
Speaker 3 (08:04):
I Once I start.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Getting in a relationship with somebody and it's serious and
I'm thinking future and stuff.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
I'm not worried about this. I was trying to get
actually away from being single.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Just give me the feel, all right. This makes me
feel like she is settling for her husband and the
one that she wanted to be with is the one
that she was texting. And I feel like a lot
of people are in this situation. I've told you this before.
I have a friend that's married and in her mind,
she was still going to be where their acts at
some point, and that, to me gives me the same feeling. Here. Wait,
what so a friend of mine is married, she's been
(08:36):
married for like a while, they have kids and everything.
She was still under the belief that at some point
she was going to get divorced and be with her acts,
because that's who she really wanted to be with her
entire life. And she confided this, Yeah, it's our old
friend from our old town. So they were telling us this,
and she was she she actually told my wife this.
My wife told me this, but I'm friends with all
of them. But yeah, it's like, it's really.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Stack like that. She's so sad for that husband.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
Let's get a bad rap out in these streets. But
women are die byicle and you can tell when she
talks about the ex. She talks to them with a
certain tone and spark in her voice. Oh my god,
it's so different. But her husband hates them but not
the same tone, which means the ex like probably doesn't
want her and she wants him, And so she went
and settled for something else. In the meantime, I'm a
(09:23):
whole here and waste your time until my guy comes
back and tells me he wants me.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
They still communicate, they.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Do.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
The ex knows what he's doing.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Yeah, yeah, So I think people out there settling and
just not being with the ones that meant.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
To be with.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Worst, there could be a whole nother scenario in which
you keep the exes close to you, because if they're
close to you, then you can kind of keep like
a watchful eye on them. Like, for instance, going to
a dentist that your ex that is one of your This.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Was a specific It's not ironic. It's not me stalking ironic.
It's my wife.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Don't know what. My wife goes to a dentist that
she used to date, and like, that's a guy who's
in her mouth, like the guy she used to date.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Jesus, when you say it like that, I don't want
to and you might want to cut that off.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
They got the dentist, she's this guy on your wife's
ex is in her mouth on the dentists.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Don't say it like that. You can say it a
different way. Her teeth are clean, you guys,
In the morning show with DJ Foreign It's Sad Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five. Shout out to Josephine in Malden. She's going
to the Governor's ball and maybe just on our dime,
we'll find out. On Friday. DJ Pop Dog has your
next shot in that's coming up tomorrow in the three
pm hour. We're gonna rotate with Pup, so we'll have
it back in our show on Wednesday Rotation. Oh, follow
(00:28):
along people US today, Pup tomorrow, US Wednesday, Pup. You know, Okay,
Foreign had sent me this. I think Foreign sent me
this on Friday, but we just didn't have enough time
to get to it. And I was, I was, this
is kind of crazy to me that this woman didn't
think that.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
This was a big deal.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's upsetting.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
This is a yeah, but in the comment section she
was getting defended. Really, who are these people.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
She does? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
It said my husband is making us fly home from
our honeymoon after one day because he found out I
sent my ex a simple goodbye text on the morning
of our wedding. It was a goodbye text for goodness sake,
not an I will always love you text, not a
drop everything and meet me at the altar.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Text.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I needed to say goodbye to have closure on the
unmarried part of my life. Please tell me, my sensitive
nostalgic girlies understand.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
No, that closure should have come the moment you met
your husband and broke up all the acts about That's
when that was there, not on your wedding day or
before that. That's an issue that gives me the feeling
like she still has feelings for him. And then now
it's like that.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
All you had, you had a chance until we went
on a honey yes once I said I do not,
I'm closing the door on you completely.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
This is what I find a text like that.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
I'm like, that actually might make me physically ill, like
I might vomit, because absolutely that means that that man
was on her mind on her wedding day, like no matter, well,
I don't care what the text I said, you were
thinking about him enough to reach out and say goodbye.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I would go as far as to say that's worse
than a cheat, like if my wife cheated had one
night flame, this would hurt me like a lot more.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Well.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
It also it opens up such a can of worms
because you're like, Okay, if you had to say goodbye
to him, do y'all speak every day?
Speaker 3 (02:19):
What's your relationship?
Speaker 4 (02:20):
There's got to be a relationship, right because if you're like, yo, goodbye,
meaning like leave me alone from this point on, that's
how I take it. If you're telling to me like that,
like I had to good closure because now well married
one on honeymoon, that means you needed to let him
know I'm done, I'm off the market for real, for real.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
It was nice knowing you have a good night.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Now, No, bro, Wh're not playing that game.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
It seems like the closure is on her end of things.
That's what I'm saying. I had to say goodbye to
her single part of what I'm like, Ye, like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
That's kind of how I read it too. I had
to say goodbye to that part of my life. This
one is the by the way, I so stand with him.
And first off, you're gonna send that text and then
not de lead it?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Are you?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
That's stupid? Are you? That's yes? You are you are?
Speaker 2 (03:03):
But now they're on their honeymoon and he sees that
text and she's mad that he wants to fly home.
What you hey, you better hope it's just that he
wants to fly home and not that he wants to
leave you. Because I don't I can't possibly see anybody
calling in to defend this said.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
The comments were defending.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Yes, there were girls being like to that, to that
point of like, well she you know, she just needed
to say goodbye, close that chapter of her life.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
The single, unmarried, well love and I bet you those.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Are a bunch of females, right. I would love for
them to reverse the roles and have their husbands or
their boyfriends do the same thing.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Now I'm telling you how'll be like what, No, this
is crazy if.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
You're sending that text and that makes me feel like
he's the one that got away, He's the one that
you're still thinking about.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
If you saw that text right before you were about
to walk down the aisle, would you cancel the wedding?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I don't know if that was I got yes, Like
when I say, why did you?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Hell yeah, I got to close that part of my
life done done.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
The one thing I'm struggling with is that there's a
wedding and there's embarrassment, theody to leave, and then they
can ask. So I don't know if I just eat
it and deal with it afterwards. That's what I'm feeling,
and then get it at all. Yes, yeah, because at
least you don't have to tell everybody and then go
through that. Fine, but that's better than them there before.
(04:21):
And then then start asking like why.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
This reminds me of I've I've randomly thought of myself
in this hypothetical situation where a guy proposes to me
that I don't want to get married to.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
If people are watching, I'm saying, yes, you have to.
I'm saying yes on the spot, and then we're getting
in the car and I'm going I don't want this, yeah,
or we need to talk.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
I'm not like the embarrassment that Yeah, yeah, you know,
And then as soon as we're getting car, it's it's
it's a hard no for me, sir, But I yeah,
there's situations like that that public of it.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
I'm saying, I might, I might walk on down and
then we'll figure it out.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah, the honeymoon's canceled, and then I don't know, if
I divorced, we're gonna have some serious talks. Yeah. Closure.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Can anybody defend?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Can anybody defend or has anybody been through or heard
or anything. A text message to your ex right before
you walk down the aisle saying goodbye. I mean six
one seven nine three one one nine four five. She
really thought she had something with that too, six one
seven nine three one one nine four five. Sending your
(05:27):
ex a text to say goodbye on your wedding day.
Hi everybody, good morning. Imagine you're on your honeymoon. You
go through your significant other's phone, which, by the way,
red flag by the way, ah, and you find a
text from your new wife to her ex boyfriend saying goodbye.
(05:49):
Now she's trying to defend it. She said, it wasn't
and I'll always love you. It wasn't a drop everything,
meet me at the altar. It was just goodbye because
I had to say closure on the unmarried part.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Of my life. That's just heartbreaking.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
That's like sad vomit.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
Yeah, like.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
You see that before you walk down the aisle, there
is like form was like I'm calling it off. There
are some people who would really call off their wedding.
Alas in Boston. Al, remember we can't curse, we're live
on the rag.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Oh, I'll hung up.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
So what happened my god? Al said that he uh,
he received that text before from one of his exes.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
They had broken up, They had a toxic relationship, they
hadn't talked for a while, and from what he remembers,
he was still trying to get with it every once
in a while. And then when she finally moved on
and you know, found somebody else, she hit him with
the you know goodbye, like we gotta we gotta end
this right here. But he says that was grinding. It's
absolutely grinding for anybody to do that.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
It's diabolical, Like it's again, it just makes me feel
like I'm not the only thing on your mind that day, which.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
Is so weird.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Nobody can occupy you.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Yeah, not on our wedding day. Devin is in Maldon.
Dev You obviously think the timing is horrible, but you
somehow feel like the text, like you can digest the text?
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Yes, can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Yeah? Okay? Perfect?
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Yeah, See I have an ex relationship like that and
we're friends and I would never think of him on
my wedding day, and believe me, I did not.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
But I get her feelings on at some point thinking
about it and saying goodbye to her single life just
not on your wedding day, girl, And again, like you said,
if you did delete the text, like what are you
doing so I can feel I can.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Feel all of your I get all of your opinions.
But when I giggled when you said, I feel like
girls are the only ones defending her. So I want
to half.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Defend her, if that makes sense.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
But I get the emotions and I get still thinking
about the X on occasion, but not on your wedding day.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Interesting, all right, Davi, as.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Soon as you put that ring on your finger, you're.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Yeah, You're done.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
This whole sentiment of like saying goodbye to your single self,
I don't know, Like what does that mean?
Speaker 3 (08:04):
I Once I start.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Getting in a relationship with somebody and it's serious and
I'm thinking future and stuff.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
I'm not worried about this. I was trying to get
actually away from being single.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Just give me the feel, all right. This makes me
feel like she is settling for her husband and the
one that she wanted to be with is the one
that she was texting. And I feel like a lot
of people are in this situation. I've told you this before.
I have a friend that's married and in her mind,
she was still going to be where their acts at
some point, and that, to me gives me the same feeling. Here. Wait,
what so a friend of mine is married, she's been
(08:36):
married for like a while, they have kids and everything.
She was still under the belief that at some point
she was going to get divorced and be with her acts,
because that's who she really wanted to be with her
entire life. And she confided this, Yeah, it's our old
friend from our old town. So they were telling us this,
and she was she she actually told my wife this.
My wife told me this, but I'm friends with all
of them. But yeah, it's like, it's really.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Stack like that. She's so sad for that husband.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
Let's get a bad rap out in these streets. But
women are die byicle and you can tell when she
talks about the ex. She talks to them with a
certain tone and spark in her voice. Oh my god,
it's so different. But her husband hates them but not
the same tone, which means the ex like probably doesn't
want her and she wants him, And so she went
and settled for something else. In the meantime, I'm a
(09:23):
whole here and waste your time until my guy comes
back and tells me he wants me.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
They still communicate, they.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Do.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
The ex knows what he's doing.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Yeah, yeah, So I think people out there settling and
just not being with the ones that meant.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
To be with.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Worst, there could be a whole nother scenario in which
you keep the exes close to you, because if they're
close to you, then you can kind of keep like
a watchful eye on them. Like, for instance, going to
a dentist that your ex that is one of your This.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Was a specific It's not ironic. It's not me stalking ironic.
It's my wife.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Don't know what. My wife goes to a dentist that
she used to date, and like, that's a guy who's
in her mouth, like the guy she used to date.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Jesus, when you say it like that, I don't want
to and you might want to cut that off.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
They got the dentist, she's this guy on your wife's
ex is in her mouth on the dentists.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Don't say it like that. You can say it a
different way. Her teeth are clean, you guys,
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The World's Most Dangerous Morning Show, The Breakfast Club, With DJ Envy And Charlamagne Tha God!