You Can't Consummate In Jail

Ashlee talks about how she blacked out on Friday even though she said she wouldn't and Ruben talks about getting married in jail.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh wake, it's what people? How we doing?

Speaker 2 (00:04):
What is going on? It's Monday. I feel like we
were just saying goodbye on Friday. I feel like that
was a literal second ago.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
Do you think you feel like the weekend goes by
super fast because you essentially skip a day because of drinking,
like you don't remember an entire day.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
I totally that's hey could be. I will admit that.
I know I said on Friday. We don't have to
look it up.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
I know.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
I said, no, I'm just going out. I'm having a
couple because really that was the game plan because the
fireman worked at twenty four on Saturday, so he was
going to be gone and I was going to be,
you know, solo parenting. So I said to myself on Friday,
we're not what we're not going to do is get aggressive.
But yeah, I ended up getting aggressive. So that was
what you know, it was a birthday celebration. Yeah, I

(00:48):
didn't really to go out on my birthday. It was
a Tuesday.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
I think what people don't understand too, And I've seen
this happen where you're out and about and you're like
so in the moment and so happy with everybody. Like
around you just keep drinking, and like I understand that
part of it.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
That's really is what it is.

Speaker 3 (01:03):
I don't side on the fact of like you're an alcoholic,
you need the alcohol in your body. You get caught
up in the moment and you're like happy.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
You know what else is?

Speaker 2 (01:11):
You have to drink with me to see it? I
drink fast. Yeah, I get so excited. Like she put
the espress. My first drink I got was an espresso martini.
She put it down in front of me. She came
back like three minutes later to hand us a drink
menu and I was like, you can just get me
another one because I was I mean, I it's three SIPs.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
But I think you'll be proud of me.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
We went to this place called Salt Society and Situate
and it's a sushi spot, but they have other things
and I really got into sushi, Like I liked it.
I tried different things. I went, we went o G
I had like a spicy tune a roll, but I
tried every every single piece of sushi that was order
I ordered, and I liked it.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
That's awesome. I think it's going to change the game
for you because, like sushi is a go to. It's
always good. And then I also love going a different
place is because you can try like different ones.

Speaker 2 (02:01):
Different roles. Yeah, I did use a fork though, Like
I'm not playing these games.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
All right, that's a starter at some point.

Speaker 1 (02:08):
Why why does it matter?

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Because I can't explain to you why. But it tastes
better when you do it with with just the chop sticks,
I promise you.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
I guess I can kind of like I think ice
cream tastes better with the plastic spoon.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
Okay, the only thing I compare it to is like
having sex with over the.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
No why really.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
That's it's just always better.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
The fork will go. But yeah, I did eat it
with a fork because it was my first time. I'm
not like getting involved with the chop six things. I
don't know how to hold them and I don't want
to deal with that. But I actually I've had sushi
here and there, but I feel like I really committed
and I was happy.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
You just had the rolls, right, you didn't have the
actual like fish on top of the rice. No, yes,
oh you had the actual fish on the rice.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
One of them had the actual fish on top of
the rice.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
I feel like, that's not what you're talking about.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
So that's a MOCKI roll. The sushi traditional is there's
a piece of rice with fish on top of it,
so it looks like almost like the roll. No, the
rice is not the rice, it's underneath a piece of fish.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
There was a We also ordered the that it was
called like the lobster crunch, but it's temporous so it's
cooked so good sauce on that, so I.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Sauce is so good, it really is.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
My skin probably just puffed up.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
You can get the low sodium one, but it's still
I don't know what the difference is.

Speaker 1 (03:29):
Yeah, and also don't eat lots.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
I was like, wow, just you walk out of this.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
But it was really good. The drinks there were good.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
And then we just did a little like up and
down walk of situate and hit a couple of bars there.
But yeah, it caught up to me quick because well
then what happens is and this is for drinkers, you'll
understand my my.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
Plate with this plate.

Speaker 2 (03:55):
Is that I will have espresso martinis and then I
don't know where to go after because you can't have
have twelve of those you'd be up all night.

Speaker 1 (04:02):
So I have two of those, and then I had
to switch.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
So I had bourbon at the one restaurant, and then
we went to like a Irish bar, and so then
I thought to myself, I'll have to show respect here,
I'll get Jamison, and so then I switched to Jamison.
Then I'm drinking Jamison the rest of the night. And
then I did end with one beer because I was like, oh.

Speaker 3 (04:20):
One more and you don't drink wine.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
Wine is actually really don't drink beer like that either,
But if that was what everybody was getting, I was like,
let me not.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
That's why I side with the wine because it's lighter
and it doesn't hit me as hard. But after the
third glass, I get loopy and I started telling like
stupid jokes.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
I remember the one night when you when we were
drinking and you were like, I'm going to keep up
with you. But he's so right, you guys. It's this
is the way my family is. We get so happy
and so excited to be around everybody, and then the
drinks start flowing and it's just we drink fast.

Speaker 3 (04:52):
There's a video someplace on my Instagram. We went out
for like a work event and it was dinner and
you were just slinging back the martinis. I don't know
what what you were drinking, but I think I counted
in that video there were ten and that dinner last
at about an hour and a half. You were just
like and you were having fun.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
That she's aggressive and it's just to just yeah, this
is a lot happening.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
I also want to say that I continued over the
weekend to be like the world's worst mom. The video
kept going and going, and the comments were nuts. One
of my newfound favorites was, wow, this is a house
of serial killers. All my friends were like, what they
don't get is that you actually that's a compliment to you.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Yeah, so sweet.

Speaker 2 (05:35):
But per your prediction, three million and counting, still going
this morning, amazing, still going on that I did nothing
and I'm raising literal jailbirds.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
So very happy. Good morningbody, especially morning.

Speaker 4 (05:47):
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Speaker 2 (05:55):
She Haven't any More five Monday, November seventeenth, and dare
I say it was the sleepover heard round the world. Okay,
here we have a woman who doesn't even see her
own children, whose ex just wrote a book about how
much she needs help, like help, And the Kardashians are like,

(06:19):
you know what, let's invite Britney Spears over for a
sleep over.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
What are we twelve?

Speaker 3 (06:25):
That's like not a safe thing to do right now,
because when she comes over and dies.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
Listen.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
The Kardashians were teasing it via their Instagram stories and
I was like, what am I seeing?

Speaker 1 (06:35):
What is this?

Speaker 2 (06:36):
And so many of you sent me it being like Ashley,
I know you're gonna talk about this, but oh my god,
Britney Spears is having a sleepover with Kim and Chloe.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
Oh, we're just cheering in our geriatric bed. Yeah, this
is this dead vibrates.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
What the what they're all laying in bed. Kim like,
pretend this is Brittany's cheek. Brittany said, such a warm, beautiful,
kind family. Thank you for allowing me to play with
your kids and have dinner. It was an honor to
spend time with you guys. Happy holidays.

Speaker 3 (07:12):
Do you know that moment when you invite somebody to
a house and like, the whole night goes by. Then
afterwards you're like, oh my god, and you start telling
like all the stories of the stuff that they.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
Can't wait for, that like one on one moment.

Speaker 3 (07:21):
Yeah, oh my mom, that's the conversation that I want
to be a part of, right, and I want to
hear all the stuff that Brittany.

Speaker 1 (07:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (07:28):
And it's so crazy because right before the sleepover teas happened,
I watched an interview with kay Fed and he was
it like made me just so sad him talking about
the boys and how he's just so petrified that one
day they're going to get the call that their mother
is no longer with us.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
Meanwhile, Kim's like, do you want to come sleepover my bed? Vibrates.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
I mean, in Kim's defense, she has knowledge of how
to deal with people like this because she lived with
one of them for how long?

Speaker 5 (07:58):
What?

Speaker 3 (07:58):
So you know what?

Speaker 2 (08:01):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (08:03):
Okay, I see where you're going with this. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:06):
To that point, BRIT's normal, We're all right, let's talk
Cardi b I'm gonna do these as two separate stories.
Son I think Cardi should have her own moment and
stuff on Diggs, but they both have things going on
and obviously both involved. We know Cardi recently had her

(08:27):
baby with Stefan Diggs. It's a boy. She said it
that Cybex event. She's not willing to announce the name yet,
but the name is coming. We cannot wave because wait,
because we have culture, we have wave, we have blossom.

Speaker 1 (08:39):
What's it going to make?

Speaker 3 (08:40):
What's the big deal with releasing the names. I've never
like understood that, Like why not you say what the
kid's name is?

Speaker 2 (08:46):
So I waited because I wanted the photo with the
name announcement, So that honestly was my first thought process.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
I don't know what else. The celebrity world is different
than ours.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
I just knew I was gonna do newborn photos because
I didn't do them with Laylass.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
So that's why I waited to an on Staisy's name.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
But sometimes the celebrities will wait months and I'm like,
I don't know, Yeah, you're wait, we don't really know
the baby bear.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
Yeah, it's weird.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
But anyways, this story is so crazy to me because
it just really does give such sadness.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
Offset is so not over Cardi.

Speaker 2 (09:18):
And you know, we made the joke last week when
we announced that Cardia had her baby, like someone check
on set, like he's clearly not okay, and he's clearly
not okay. He posted and then deleted on Instagram, basically
saying like that's my baby lol. He wrote my kid lol,
And this one sent Cardi to the moon rightfully. So

(09:42):
she just had a baby with another man. She has
been trying to detach herself from you. She is moving on,
and you're gonna do this what to like, drum up
some news and try to act like there's even a
small singular chance that this child is yours.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
It's sad. I feel bad for her.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
I wish she didn't give him as much attention back
as he gives her. But she initially tweeted and said,
you guys think it's funny that it's all fun and games,
it's not.

Speaker 1 (10:10):
And then it's gonna be.

Speaker 2 (10:11):
Too late, essentially said she's scared for her life at
some points with him, I'll be.

Speaker 6 (10:17):
Trying to keep the peace, but I'm really tired of
getting harassed. And when I don't, and when I get
harassed privately and I ignore, that's when I start getting
harassed publicly. And I have every single receipt. If you
want to keep sending blogs to harassment, it's gonna be
like I can't take it.

Speaker 1 (10:38):
Anymore. I can't take it anymore.

Speaker 6 (10:39):
Sometimes I sleep and I wonder, like, Yo, this is
not normal. You see you see crime documentaries you see
on social media about women getting killed every other day
and on a shove like it's like, I'm a real
tough bitch. Like I'm a tough bitch, but you can
never There's a difference between being tough, and there's the

(11:01):
difference between somebody having an unhealthy obsession with you that
you have to start to You gotta be concerned, and
I'm really and I've been, and I'm really starting to
be concerned.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
I also feel like.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
He's testing her mental and she's very fragile right now.
Every female is right when they have a baby. I mean,
that's why postpartum exists. It is you're going through so
many different things physically as well as mentally. And the
fact that he would even like play games with that
is just I hate it so much. The reason he
also posted that is because under Georgia law, I guess

(11:41):
there's there's some loophole that if in fact you're not
fully divorced and the baby is born in the state,
that offset is allowed to ask for a paternity test
and then CARDI can eventually deny that request, but him
posting and then deleting my kid lol, even if or
a stuff on digs like, that's just not right.

Speaker 1 (12:02):
It is crazy.

Speaker 3 (12:04):
I think it's one of the pettiest things I've ever
heard somebody do.

Speaker 1 (12:06):
Yeah, and I think she said it there.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
He's harassing me non publicly, so I'm assuming he's probably
texting her and doing things like that and she's not
responding to it.

Speaker 1 (12:16):
So now he's like, well, let me take a public
if you're not gonna resk.

Speaker 3 (12:18):
I mean, you would think he would just want to
cut this drama out of his life so he could
move on there, but he doesn't want, like anybody to no.

Speaker 2 (12:25):
And again, now you have her feeling a type of way.
This man is claiming the baby might be his. The
real father of the baby is also like an athlete.
You know this is there's so many moving parts to
this story. Steph is hot, like you know he's you
know he is. He's also separate story dealing with something else.

(12:49):
He's decided to go after a dude on social media
who accused him. You remember this story of drugging him,
sexually assaulting him, and later conspiring to kill him, which,
by the way, Stephan Diggs is saying is pure fiction
in the lawsuit, which was filed on October first.

Speaker 1 (13:04):
I believe.

Speaker 2 (13:07):
Yeah, Stefan Diggs basically said, this guy's would be social
media influencer. He concocted this story and when he did it,
he tagged the Patriots, he tagged NFL, he tagged Uggs,
which Stefon Diggs had, you know.

Speaker 1 (13:18):
Recently signed a deal with.

Speaker 2 (13:20):
And Stephan Diggs said it hurt him and it hurt
his reputation. So now he is seeking damages plus attorney fees.
No specification on exactly how much money he's asking for,
but you better believe it's a pretty penny.

Speaker 3 (13:36):
I mean, at least they'll be in the pain in
the Super Bowl.

Speaker 2 (13:40):
Yeah, right, Like, I mean, listen, it's very clear that
the Patriots didn't buy a singular word of it. I'm
assuming he maybe he lost some advertisers, which is why
he's you know, saying it hurt his reputation.

Speaker 3 (13:51):
It's just the news that you don't want to hear
surrounding your name. It's like the worst thing.

Speaker 2 (13:54):
Well, yeah, because this one's crazy, because this is like, hey,
not only is he like am accusing him of being assaulted,
but he's also saying he is homosexual.

Speaker 1 (14:02):
So we have like a lose combo here.

Speaker 3 (14:05):
It's like one of those things, right, even when you
know it's fake, you still take a step back and
you go through the thought process of the entire thing,
and having your name associated is not good.

Speaker 2 (14:13):
No, And that's how I feel every time I watch
an AI video. I watch it and I'm like, this
is real. Yeah, to take a step back? Is this
E's a crazy getting out of hand?

Speaker 1 (14:23):
All right, guys?

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Speaker 1 (15:03):
Yeah, super appreciative.

Speaker 2 (15:05):
Okay, So when this got announced, we reported on it
because I was like, whoa, I don't watch the Real Housewives,
but the fact that it's going to be up the
street in Rhode Island, I was like, I will not
miss I will not miss this. I have to because
who know, we don't know the players. At that time,
we didn't know who the housewives were going to be.
But I'm like, I'm sure we might know of someone.

Speaker 3 (15:28):
I used to watch it back in the day. I
stopped and I wasn't planning on watching this one until
I yeah heard I.

Speaker 2 (15:34):
Feel as if it's been a mistake that I haven't
watched it. I've had people message me being like, you
would love it. I know I would, because you know
I have a connection to reality TV. I enjoy watching it.
I just never for some reason, this was never on
my list. It will be now. So Real Housewives of
Rhode Island is set to launch in twenty twenty six.

(15:56):
At some time when I first heard that, I was like, damn,
that's far away, but it's not. It could be December one.
I'm sorry, January one. We don't know, but they launched
a trailer. Bravo launched the trailer for it, and I
nearly collapsed. So we have had many people in and
out of this building in our time.

Speaker 1 (16:16):
We've had experience like you've been here.

Speaker 2 (16:18):
You were here for even before me all that time.
And one thing about Maddie. When Maddie was here, he
had multiple different producers on his show that we've had
relationships with.

Speaker 3 (16:30):
All of them, that's right. I feel like at one
point he had three at it, like, which is a
lot to have.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
Yes, one of which who always stuck out was Rich
to MARII Rich was Rich just was first off, extremely handsome, respectfully,
but he always just had more of a personality, I
thought than for what his role was on Kiss Went Await,
if that.

Speaker 3 (16:53):
Makes sense, because I think his role at the time
was just to get sound clips for Maddie to play
in the moment, yes, but not talk at all.

Speaker 2 (16:58):
Right, And here you have this man who's handsome, he's charismatic,
he's a huge personality, and he's living this big life
outside of these four walls and would have stuff to
add in. But Matt's mad and he did it the
way he did it. When Rich ended up leaving. He
really really started to launch his career. If you don't
know the name Rich Tamari, he yes, former producer of

(17:21):
Kiss Went to Wait. But Rich is also like a
Frank Sinatra style singer. And when he read the Bravo
article about him and his wife, who surprised is one
of the real housewives, they describe.

Speaker 1 (17:33):
Him as a Frank Sinatra style singer.

Speaker 3 (17:37):
That's lives. That's what all the people say.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
Hi, Rich, you're righting high in April.

Speaker 3 (17:48):
Shot down in May, but on gonna change that tune
when I'm back on Tom back on June.

Speaker 1 (18:02):
When Rich smiles, he looks like a young Jack Nicholson.

Speaker 3 (18:06):
He really does.

Speaker 1 (18:07):
He has that massive grin.

Speaker 3 (18:09):
And if you haven't seen it perform before, have you ever?
He's really good.

Speaker 2 (18:12):
He's really good. And he and and he he he
really plays to like the the moody, darker lit rooms
with the cocktail tables and we're in a sparkly gown
and he's in a tux and.

Speaker 1 (18:25):
That's a lot.

Speaker 3 (18:26):
And he like he'll walk from table to table and
like serenade. He's really good.

Speaker 5 (18:34):
So this trailer drops and Rich is in the trailer.
So Rich is married to Rosie, who, by the way,
also used to intern here at one time.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
But Rosie's known for being on the news. She was
on NBC ten. Her and I have followed each other
on social media for for forever. She is going to
be a.

Speaker 2 (18:55):
Housewife, so he will in turn be on the show.

Speaker 1 (18:58):
Here's their little clip from the trailer. Rosie sprave. She's
not afraid to call people out.

Speaker 3 (19:04):
She's moving into an apartment and the old guy that
she cheated on with the new guy is paying for it.

Speaker 1 (19:10):
But I'm the problem. Oh, it's gonna be good.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
Personality wise, Rosie is really funny and I think when
you look at her, you don't expect her to have
this wit, but she actually does and it's entertaining.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
And I just what I always remember about Rosie is like,
she'll tell you about yourself, and she will stand up
for herself. You know, she doesn't have a problem saying things.

Speaker 3 (19:29):
I've seen her tell some people that like their look
was probably not on point, but she did it in
a very rosy way that was like, oh my god.

Speaker 1 (19:36):
So listen.

Speaker 2 (19:36):
By the way, they got married, I didn't even know
they were dating. It was like a shock announcement. Like, oh,
and by the way, hard launch were married.

Speaker 3 (19:44):
One of the things about working here for a long
time you tend to hear secrets, so you tend to
hear stuff and you just know things. I know stuff
about both of them, so if you're a tabloid, hit
me up then we can talk.

Speaker 2 (19:56):
So I immediately text Rich last night after or I
saw the trailer. I genuinely couldn't believe it, and I
was like, Rich, it's Ashley. I'm unwell, this is so iconic.
He said, Hi, Ashley, just wait, It's gonna be an
epic season. And I go, I'm scrolling through Instagram. I
see Rosie's posts. I almost collapse. I haven't seen a
single season, but it's the show that everybody's obsessed with.

(20:18):
So we reported on it and I talked about Rhode
Island and I was like, I wonder I literally remember
being like a wonderful know anybody, it's so great, we
won't miss this one. And then I said, you guys
have to come on the show, like you you must.
We're gonna watch this season, so we have to talk
about it, and he goes, they want us to be
you know, very there. The Bravo is being specific about

(20:39):
what press they do. He said, so probably I would
get approved to come on. He's like, I'm not sure
about Rosie once it starts, but being a real housewive
is like, that's a big yeah.

Speaker 1 (20:47):
I mean, that's it. They're celebrities. Now.

Speaker 3 (20:49):
How much would it take for you to go on
that TV show? I know obviously the fireman probably would not,
but if they approached you and your family, what would
it take to get you on it?

Speaker 2 (20:57):
Well, it would one hundred percent like lead to divorce,
so they would get some content out of that because
that man would leave me. And I don't even I
couldn't even entertain that question because he would say no.

Speaker 3 (21:08):
But I feel like you would be good on a
show like this because I guess like you get it,
and I think like there's an element of this when
the camera's on you have to like give something.

Speaker 2 (21:15):
And I I mean, I know Rich a little bit
better than I know Rosie, but Rich has always got it. Yeah,
Rich understands, and I just think it's going to be
so good.

Speaker 3 (21:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (21:25):
Never in my life that I think we'd be talking
about the Real Housewives on Jammin', especially because I don't
watch it.

Speaker 1 (21:31):
And we we usually talk about the shows that we watch.
I consider me a watcher.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
I'm super excited if you have any inside info. Six
one seven nine three one one nine four five. But
that's it.

Speaker 1 (21:44):
We will be watching our guy rich on Real Housewives of.

Speaker 4 (21:47):
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Speaker 2 (21:59):
Five all right, babes, Monday, November seventeenth, and let's start
out with our girl Carti. I'm just I'm just concerned
and I'm worried about her because she is fresh off
having a baby, like.

Speaker 1 (22:15):
Fresh.

Speaker 2 (22:15):
I mean if she had the baby on the third
or fourth, which is what TMZ reported, I mean today's seventeenth, Okay,
Like I truly believe that event that she went out
to the other night where we saw her for the
first time postgiving birth. I bet you she was in
a diaper, Like that's how fresh she is from. I mean,

(22:35):
I wore one for two months after give him birth.
Like this is a real thing. And beyond the physicality
of giving birth, there's a lot of a uh, there's
a huge mental part of this, you know, like, here's
this new little baby, and for her, she has to
balance everything. She has to also get ready for tour,

(22:56):
and she has three other kids, and she has a
man in an NFL and there's just so many moving
parts if you're Cardi. This brand new album. So when
this story got big over the weekend, I was like,
it's just sad to me that this is also something
that she has to deal with, especially right after having
given birth. Carti is being honest about the fact that

(23:17):
she says she's literally scared for her life. And when
she says that she's referring to her ex husband to offset, well,
let's say.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
It's strange he's not X.

Speaker 2 (23:27):
Yeah, they're working on it, but remember everything she offers him.
He says, no, he will not let go of Cardi.
It's it's giving obsessed. It's giving swim fan. But she
tweeted out and she said, y'all be thinking it's so funny,
and it's not. It's all fun in games until it's
too late. Even went on to say, she is literally
scared for her life.

Speaker 6 (23:45):
I'm be trying to keep the peace, but I'm really
tired of getting harassed and when I don't, and when
I get harrassed privately and I ignore, that's when I
start getting harassed publicly. And I have every single receipt.
If you want to keep sending blogs to harassment, it's
gonna be like I can't.

Speaker 1 (24:06):
Take it anymore. I can't take it anymore.

Speaker 6 (24:08):
Sometimes I sleep and I wonder, like, Yo, this is
not normal. You see you see crime documentaries, you see
on social media about women getting killed every other day,
and on a shoe, I guess, like, I'm a real
tough bitch, Like I'm a tough bitch, but you can
never there's a difference between being tough, and there's a

(24:30):
difference between somebody having an unhealthy obsession with you that
you have to start to You gotta be concerned, and
I'm really and i've been, and I'm really starting to
be concerned.

Speaker 1 (24:43):
I don't like feeling that or hearing that at all.

Speaker 3 (24:47):
That's time you have to assume that what she must
be getting, that she's not publicized and must be so
bad to the point where she's scared.

Speaker 1 (24:53):
Guys, here's what's crazy. You say, you're all the way
looped in.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
This all happened because offset instagrammed in his story and
then took down an all black screen that on it
said my kid, Lol, yeah you're so sad, so sad.

Speaker 1 (25:14):
Yeah, and it's you know what.

Speaker 2 (25:15):
I had just complimented him a couple of weeks ago
because I was like, he's chilling, he's in the cut,
he's not really saying anything, he's not popping off on
social media like he was doing. I said, I think
he's finally getting it. I think he's understanding that she's
moving on. Hopefully he is too.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
No.

Speaker 2 (25:31):
I mean she literally just said there he's hitting me
up privately. I'm not responding, so he's like, I'll take
it public, my kid, lol.

Speaker 1 (25:38):
Is diabolical, like joking with another.

Speaker 2 (25:42):
Whole man who just had a baby with someone, pretending like,
oh yeah, that baby could be mine, diabolical.

Speaker 3 (25:46):
Listen if he has people in this camp who are
clearly communicating this to him, he's not listening because he's
coming off looking like it's not even like I don't know, Trivia,
it's just like you're looking. It's mean, little simpish.

Speaker 1 (25:58):
Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 2 (25:59):
I don't love it it. The real father also, I'll
quickly kind of loop these both ins. But the real
father of the child. Stefan Diggs is over here just
trying to win football games, get to the super Bowl,
but he's also dealing with some drama too.

Speaker 1 (26:15):
He just filed a lawsuits.

Speaker 2 (26:17):
Against a I guess you could say a social media influencer,
Christopher Blake Griffith, basically saying, you are lying when you
tell people that I drugged you, I assaulted you, and
later conspired to kill you. Stephan Diggs filed this on
October first. He is seeking damages attorney fees. We don't
know a specific number, but you can bet that he's

(26:39):
looking for a lot of money because Stefon Diggs is saying, listen,
straight up, this affected me. This affected my reputation because
when Christopher Blake Griffith posted the story, he tagged the NFL,
he tagged the Patriots, he tagged Uggs, who he had
just signed a brand deal with, so clearly had hurt
him to the point where he's like, you're going to
pay me for these lies.

Speaker 3 (26:59):
Imagine where over the Patriots And it's like somebody who's
like bottom of the barrel gets like a notification on
the Instagram, like, hey, so I just got this notification
on our Instagram. It says all this stuff and you
have to report it like up the chain. Oh right, it's.

Speaker 1 (27:12):
Just a lot not good. And then he's also dealing
with offset. Yes, many things.

Speaker 2 (27:18):
It's a sleepoverheard around the world. Everybody's talking about it.
You know, I'm talking about it. It's the Kardashians inviting
Britney Spears into their home and then even more than that,
into their bed for a little sleepover. I mean, I
wasn't even thinking it, but some when you brought it
to my attention last hour, I'm like, what's going on
with this?

Speaker 1 (27:38):
Crazy?

Speaker 2 (27:39):
But if you're Kim, this is nothing. This is light work.
This is just we're chilling.

Speaker 1 (27:44):
Chloe and Kim teased it on their ig story.

Speaker 2 (27:47):
So many of you guys send it to me, like
are you seeing this Britney Spears sleeping over the Kardashian's house.

Speaker 1 (27:54):
Oh, we're just chilling in our geriatric bed. Yeah, this is.

Speaker 8 (27:59):
This dead vibrate what the what?

Speaker 1 (28:04):
No? No.

Speaker 2 (28:05):
Britt also posted she said, such a warm, beautiful, kind family.
Thank you for allowing me to play with your kids
and have dinner. It was an honor to spend time
with you guys. Happy holidays.

Speaker 3 (28:15):
Like, all right.

Speaker 2 (28:16):
The show right right, and you wonder did she do
accent that she always does with them, and they were
like at some point, there's crazy, it's it's you just
gotta believe they saw some things, all right. And lastly,
we all know that there's Thanksgiving NFL games, right, well,

(28:38):
we're finally getting the news on who's going to be
performing at what game. I think this is kind of cool.
The Lions teamed up with Eminem. Now M's not performing,
but he's basically going to be like the team consults
and he's going to help them figure out who they're
going to have perform. He's gonna help with production and
really just kind of produce the entire show during Thanksgiving

(28:59):
like next week soon.

Speaker 1 (29:01):
Yes, yes, and that's announced this well, who's.

Speaker 2 (29:04):
Performing, I mean they've already knew, but anyways, the deal
that Eminem is signing is different from like these other
people that are just performing. EM's gonna help all the
Lions all the way through twenty twenty seven, so through
Thanksgiving next year. But I can tell you that Jack
White is going to headline for the Lions. The NFL

(29:24):
also announced that Lil John is going to be performing
in Baltimore and Lay Up Posty will perform in the guests.

Speaker 3 (29:32):
I got to tell you the Thanksgiving Day games a
halftime shows that they have where it's like really like
they they're poorly done. They don't look good at all.

Speaker 2 (29:39):
Well, maybe that's why they hired Eminem. They're like, we're
not going to be embarrassing what with this bootleg?

Speaker 3 (29:43):
They look bootleg? Now, Eminem, I hope it's not for
next week because you don't have enough time to come
up with something next year, probably, but you can't come
up in a week week they do.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
I get what you're saying, but who knows.

Speaker 2 (29:55):
Maybe this partnership has been in the works for months
and they've already been working on it.

Speaker 3 (29:59):
Like no, I hope, but we'll be able to tell.
But I'm telling you they look so boot like it's sad.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
I hope that's not the case this year. But I
mean they're they're easy games to watch. We're all just
sitting there eating anyway. Oh, it's so weird to hear
you keep saying that Thanksgiving is next week.

Speaker 1 (30:14):
Yeah, what are your turkeys? People? Turkeys are dead next week.

Speaker 2 (30:18):
There's three things you need to know for Monday November
and the seventeenth. We love a good talkback guys, especially
if you can't call the show if you're already at work.

Speaker 1 (30:26):
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Speaker 2 (30:28):
Hit that red microphone, say what Upanashy morning show?

Speaker 7 (30:32):
Good morning, Boston's number one for hip hop jamming ninety
four or five.

Speaker 1 (30:39):
Hi, everybody, good morning? Oh big stretcher, stretch.

Speaker 2 (30:43):
Stretching the weekend just it did, comes and it goes,
and it's always quick. And I know I miss things.
I miss you over the weekend, So tell me everything.
What did I miss? How are you doing? We're talking
about whatever you want? Six one seven, nine, three, one
one four or five ashes in Malden. She wants to
shout out everybody who came to her friends giving.

Speaker 1 (31:06):
There was a lot of those this weekend.

Speaker 6 (31:09):
Yes, good morning morning.

Speaker 1 (31:12):
So how was it? Did everybody show up? Do we
have a lot of good sides? Did you guys do
a big turkey? I did a big turkey all the side.

Speaker 3 (31:20):
Me and my best friend Flashist hosted.

Speaker 9 (31:23):
We well, I just moved in with her my daughter
in August, so it was like housewarm of slash friends
giving you.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
We call out our safe space.

Speaker 3 (31:32):
So it was really good and I just wanted to
shout out everyone that came.

Speaker 1 (31:35):
How many people come to the safe Space? Maybe like
ten to twelve?

Speaker 2 (31:41):
Oh, okay, that's nice. A fun fact for you, Ash.
I've never been to a friends giving in my life,
never once.

Speaker 1 (31:49):
I've also never been even invited to one.

Speaker 2 (31:51):
I see them and I know they exist, like my
brother went to one this past weekend, but I've never
been to one.

Speaker 10 (31:58):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (31:59):
I know I got in Mexico.

Speaker 1 (32:01):
Could you because I'd like to come to the Safe Space,
so that would be cool. I'd appreciate it.

Speaker 9 (32:05):
I'm always in your DMS laughing at the kids, so.

Speaker 2 (32:08):
Yeah, laughing al Tae, thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (32:13):
I'm glad you had a great friends giving. Have you
ever been to one?

Speaker 5 (32:15):
Well?

Speaker 3 (32:15):
Yeah, but they're stupid. It's a party with turkey when
I right.

Speaker 1 (32:19):
Well, I'm sorry, what other parties you've turkey at? It's specific.

Speaker 2 (32:24):
Cindy is in Boston, Cindy is sin I'm gonna be
honest with you nineteen, but Santi says, you sound.

Speaker 1 (32:30):
Out a day over eleven. Let's let's test this out.
Say Hi, I'm Cindy from Boston.

Speaker 10 (32:36):
Hi, I'm Sinny from Boston.

Speaker 3 (32:38):
Okay, yeah, she aged it up a bit. Now she's thirteen, Cindy.

Speaker 2 (32:43):
So we're going through it a little bit with our boyfriend.
But you are nineteen. How old is your boyfriend?

Speaker 10 (32:48):
He's twenty one?

Speaker 1 (32:48):
Okay, nineteen and a twenty one year old boyfriend. What happened?
What's going on?

Speaker 10 (32:53):
So I went on a vacation with my friend this
week and I went to New York and she didn't
want me to go because over the summer he wanted
to go to Puerto Rico. And I was like, no,
you're not going to Puerto Rico because you're gonna go
to clubs and parties and that's crazy. And so then
I went to New York, but I didn't do any
of that stuff, Like I went to like Canal Street,
like you know what I mean, Times Square, regular things.

(33:14):
And now he's not texting me, and he's like, Okay,
now I'm going to go on a vacation too, and
you can't tell me what to do.

Speaker 1 (33:20):
I'm you know who side I'm on. Unfortunately, his.

Speaker 2 (33:24):
First off, you can't tell a twenty one year old
man he can't go on a trip. And then you
go on a trip yourself. Like, that's like, we have
to take a step back. I realize what you're.

Speaker 1 (33:33):
Saying, that you didn't do all those things.

Speaker 2 (33:35):
But you have to trust him, Okay, you have to
trust him enough to go on those trips and say
he does go to a club, trust him enough to
dance around and go home and not go home with
another female.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (33:46):
Yep, but he would never.

Speaker 10 (33:49):
Let me go to a club. But so he can go,
but I can't go.

Speaker 2 (33:52):
Well, first off, can I tell you? Can I tell
you the real truth? This is not this is not
a healthy relationship. Thank you. You guys are young, but
this tip for tat I'm not going.

Speaker 1 (34:03):
You're not going. You can't go. I can't go. That's
not healthy. That's you guys are young again.

Speaker 2 (34:08):
But this is a really tough foundation for any sort
of relationship and it's not going to last.

Speaker 10 (34:16):
So what should I do? Well, I'm sure my text
or anything I.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
Know, and I'm sure that's probably that's probably killing you.

Speaker 2 (34:28):
And I'm sorry for that because I know that hurts
because he's probably your you know, that's your best friend,
that's your boyfriend, that's all of these things. But so
you got to understand what I'm trying to say. Listen,
I'm thirty nine years old. I'm an old lady, and
I've been through many relationships in my time. If you
are feeling like this is the way all relationships are

(34:51):
supposed to be. Where he tells you what to do
and you tell him what to do, and nobody has
any fun and they don't do anything other than.

Speaker 1 (34:56):
With each other.

Speaker 2 (34:57):
Like, that's not the basis, that's not the ground for
a healthy, strong relationship.

Speaker 1 (35:02):
Unfortunately.

Speaker 2 (35:04):
Yeah, I don't want to tell you, like, don't be
with him, you know, but I do think you guys,
my first advice would be to have a sit down
conversation or you guys kind of iron out these these things.

Speaker 1 (35:17):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (35:17):
Why do you guys have no trust in each other?
Why doesn't he want you to go into clubs? Why
can't he go out to clubs? And not specifically clubs,
I mean even trips, like where where did this come from?

Speaker 1 (35:27):
Was there cheating?

Speaker 10 (35:29):
So he's always been like very like we before we
started dating, he would always be like like we'd be
like in the like whatever talking stage, and he would
be like going out to clubs and stuff. And he'd
be like, okay, well technically can go, but because I'm single.
But he would act like we were dating and saying
he was going to ask me out, but he's sat
clubs and texting other girls, and then he started he

(35:49):
asked me out, so that we started dating, and like,
obviously he was being loyal. But it's like he always
thinks that I want to be like doing something else,
even though he's the one that always wants to where clubs,
goes out and all the stuff, and I don't do that. Yeah,
so it's like he does it, but he thinks I
want to do it.

Speaker 1 (36:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (36:08):
I IM having an internal battle here because the girl
and me wants to tell you this is not the
man for you. This is what he's manipulating you, right,
He's telling you, like, Okay, we're together now, so I'm
not talking to their girls.

Speaker 1 (36:24):
I'm not texing to their girls. You can't go to
the club.

Speaker 2 (36:26):
I can go to the club whilst probably doing that
stuff or doing something else shady on the side.

Speaker 1 (36:31):
That's what I want to tell you to do.

Speaker 2 (36:32):
That's a girl, I mean, but I also know that
that's probably you're nineteen years old. This will feel like
the end of the world for you if you guys
break up.

Speaker 10 (36:41):
Yeah, And he also says like he doesn't go to
the club, but he was like, oh, but I can
go to clubs because I'm not going to approach girls.
But guys are going to approach you. So you can't
go because the guys are going to approach you.

Speaker 2 (36:52):
So he's keeping you on lock and key while he's
able to do what he wants. I hate that, I
said in the beginning, because I didn't really get a
background that I I stand with him. I just what
I don't stand for is anybody telling you what you
ken and can't do. There's there can be a discussion, Hey,
you went to New York, you went to the club
that hurt my feelings, and then you guys can have
a discussion as to why you can go to the club,

(37:15):
hang out with your girlfriends, and go home. But these
are all conversations that I feel like come with age
and maturity. And I just don't think you guys are
there yet. You know, you're nineteen, he's twenty one.

Speaker 1 (37:28):
I just I don't know. I think you should be single.

Speaker 2 (37:30):
I think you should live it up and be nineteen
and go to New York City and not worry about
having to come home to a boyfriend who's going to
ignore you because you went to see a Christmas tree
you know.

Speaker 10 (37:40):
Yeah yeah, and like I told him like, oh, like, oh,
I know, you said you don't agree with like saying
no to like the club. Like I told him that, like,
oh yeah, you could go to Perso, but don't go
to the club. And he was like, okay, no, So
then he just canceled the whole trip. And then now
that I'm going to go to New York, but then
I wasn't going to do that. He still wasn't okay
with it because he didn't get to go you know
what I mean.

Speaker 1 (38:00):
You told him he.

Speaker 2 (38:00):
Can go to Puerto Rico and not go to clubs
because he told he's been telling you you can't go
to clubs, right, It was kind of like a.

Speaker 10 (38:05):
Yeah, and then he was like and then he was like,
but what else would I do there? Like that was
his plan?

Speaker 1 (38:11):
Yeah, I mean he's twenty one years old. Yeah, I
don't know, yeah, but he's twenty one, he's a twenty
one years old. That is what he wants to do.

Speaker 2 (38:18):
And and you're nineteen and you you go to New
York and you know, you get to go around and
do what you want to.

Speaker 1 (38:24):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (38:24):
I feel bad because part of me feels like you're
like my daughter that I'm talking to, and I know
that when in fact, you guys do break up, it's
gonna be really really hard for you.

Speaker 1 (38:33):
But I also I mean this as respectfully and.

Speaker 2 (38:36):
With all the love in the possible world, like this
isn't gonna be the guy that you're gonna end up with.

Speaker 1 (38:40):
You're not gonna marry this guy.

Speaker 3 (38:41):
You're not.

Speaker 1 (38:43):
You don't think so, because no, because you're gonna find
a guy who who trusts.

Speaker 2 (38:48):
You and you trust him, and you guys go on
trips and everything's fine because you love each other and
you check in and you have trust.

Speaker 1 (38:56):
You're gonna find that. But you have you have so
much life to live. Who wants to be stuck with
a guy.

Speaker 2 (39:02):
Who tells you what you can and can't do and
you telling him that that's not fun?

Speaker 10 (39:08):
Yeah, No, it's like it's like dreaming because it's like, oh,
like I sent him a text, he's not going to
respond and he turned off his location and everything when
I was there.

Speaker 2 (39:16):
Yeah, dude, like honey, this is this is I think
you need to take a step back, really reevaluate and
and just realize what you I mean.

Speaker 1 (39:23):
I'm sure your friends are telling you what I'm telling you,
right they can't.

Speaker 10 (39:27):
Yeah, yeah they are. Yeah, yeah, they're saying the same thing.

Speaker 1 (39:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (39:32):
Trust me, trust me when I tell you he isn't
the one. And when when eventually, in years and years
to come, you do find the one, you're gonna be like,
look back at your old self, what was I thinking?
But but again all a right of passage, passage. I
have had so many relationship I looked back in and
being like, I want to slap myself, my old self in.

Speaker 1 (39:48):
That you're gonna get there.

Speaker 2 (39:50):
But I genuinely feel like he isn't the one for you,
regardless about how hard the breakup will be.

Speaker 1 (39:56):
This is, this is. This is not good. This is
not a good relationship. Okay, stay strong than you. Yeah,
and you call us back if you need us.

Speaker 10 (40:05):
Yeah, I'll call back, like if I have any updates
or anything.

Speaker 1 (40:08):
All right, Ben, God speed, Okay, thank you, We love you,
We love you.

Speaker 2 (40:13):
I just I feel that I don't I don't want
to break I don't want to be the one to
be like do it break up?

Speaker 1 (40:17):
But come, what are we doing?

Speaker 5 (40:18):
No?

Speaker 3 (40:18):
But I will say at that age, I wish I
had someone like you to tell me that I was
in a bad relationship because I was. I went the
same experience like that, like you go out and then
there was tip for tad and it was jealousy and
all and all this stuff and it wasn't healthy.

Speaker 2 (40:30):
Yeah, you got a nineteen year old and a twenty
one year old too, Like I said, I mean, breakups
are hard even when you're no matter what age you are, right,
but at nineteen you feel like you're going to literally die.

Speaker 3 (40:40):
Yeah. I was nineteen when you broke up with me,
and I was like.

Speaker 2 (40:45):
Right six one seven nine three one one nine four
five six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
We're talking about whatever you want for checking morning. Hi, everybody,
good morning. It's Ashley and the jam In Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
We're checking in on you. What's up? What's going on?

Speaker 2 (41:00):
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five
If you wanna be a part of it. Jamie also
looking for some advice in his relationship.

Speaker 1 (41:10):
Hi, jam good morning, good morning. You know what's wild?

Speaker 2 (41:14):
Here's why I feel like you've completely called the right place.
Your first thing that you'll told Santy is that you're
a gambler, and uh, I come. I come from a
family of them, like literally, you know, my dad is
a Cleveland Browns fan, also a degenerate, and he bets
the Browns every single weekend. So essentially he takes money,

(41:36):
he puts it right on in the toilet, and he
flushes it down every weekend. They got problems, they have demons,
So let's let let let us help you. You're a gambler,
and uh, your girlfriend is not, and she's really good
at saving money. Yes, and this is now creating some conflict.

Speaker 9 (41:58):
Yeah, so it's it's not I wouldn't say it's like
big conflict. It's just like disagreement we have. So I
like to gamble all sorts of ways. I like to
go to the casino. I like to sports bet. Recently,
I've been sports betting a lot. I try not to
do too much like big of bets. I try to
bet like twenty dollars, thirty dollars, stuff like that. You know,

(42:23):
I pay all the rent, you know, I do my part,
so I think I should be able to gamble my
extra money, you know what I'm saying, But she believes
that I should be saving my extra money for eventually
like a house. And also I agree, I understand, but
I feel like, just right now, I just have the

(42:44):
money to spend, you know what I'm saying, Just twenty
dollars year, thirty dollars there, Yeah, I see.

Speaker 2 (42:50):
I can see both sides to this, especially if bills
aren't getting missed, because like we're like, what I the
gambling in my life, like bills were missed, bookies were
knocking on doors, like we've had it all types of ways.

Speaker 1 (43:05):
Here's what I think is a good suggestion.

Speaker 2 (43:07):
Because and I actually can speak to this because my
brother and his girlfriend just went through this. My brother
also loves to gamble. His girlfriend also doesn't believe in
it and feels.

Speaker 1 (43:18):
Like he should be saving his money. So they came
up with an amount.

Speaker 2 (43:22):
She was like, this is kind of what I see fit,
This is what I kind of think is reasonable. And
he actually adheres to that and sticks to it, and
it kind of was like the best of both worlds.
She felt like, Okay, whatever the number is, insert my
brother bets a lot more than twenty dollars. Jamie that's
really not that crazy in the gambling world. My brother's
minimum bet would probably be one hundred bucks on the

(43:44):
lower end, so they came up with an amount. He's
a huge Ohio State Buckeyes fan. He loves the UFC.
She kind of knows he's going to bet on those
type of events, but she feels comfortable with the amount.
He still kind of gets to gamble, and it felt
like it was a joint decision. So maybe kind of
approach it that way. Start with that conversation so she
feels like she's a part of it.

Speaker 3 (44:08):
I'm sorry, what was that question.

Speaker 1 (44:10):
No, it wasn't a question.

Speaker 2 (44:11):
It's just like, maybe start there, have that conversation, ask
her what the number is that she would feel comfortable with.

Speaker 11 (44:18):
Yeah, So we actually were having a conversation earlier today
and I was telling her like, maybe like one hundred
bucks a week, you know, twenty five twenty dollars a day, maybe,
you know, just something like, I mean, I have a
full time job at work. I make good money, so
it's like one hundred dollars a week is not really
hurting the pockets.

Speaker 9 (44:36):
But she sees it like one hundred dollars we could
have saved.

Speaker 2 (44:39):
Yeah, and listen, she's right unless you hit and then
you know what about that when you hit? Ben?

Speaker 9 (44:44):
I mean, I just I mean, just this past Friday,
I turned fifty dollars into thirty six hundred dollars, So
I mean it's like, how can you complain?

Speaker 2 (44:51):
So when you take that thirty six hundred though, are
you rolling it back in?

Speaker 1 (44:55):
Is the question? Or are you taking?

Speaker 9 (44:56):
Like no, I'm I'm taking the thirty six hundred, I'm
paying my for the month and then whatever's there left over.
I mean, you know, it's just at that point to me,
it's just free point money.

Speaker 2 (45:06):
Yeah, I mean, it's just it could it could be
so much worse. And I'm not like she'd I get
what she's saying too.

Speaker 1 (45:15):
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (45:16):
Listen, how much does the relationship mean to you? Because
if it means the world to you and you would
be horrified, would you be horrified to lose her?

Speaker 1 (45:23):
Could you picture your life without her?

Speaker 9 (45:24):
Honestly, this is probably the best woman I've had in
my life since I was a young child.

Speaker 2 (45:29):
So I mean, yeah, Okay, then we gotta we gotta
figure it out.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
We gotta figure it out.

Speaker 2 (45:33):
Sit down with her, ask her, like, keep having those conversations,
ask her what you know A good amount for her
is But if you're turning fifty dollars into thirty six
hundred and you're banking some of that money, she's gonna
have to She's gotta, she's gotta, you know, maybe allow
a little bit of it, but no, listen, one hundred
dollars a week. I'm I'm impressed with those numbers. But again,

(45:55):
I come from a gambling family. Like I said, a minimum,
I like to.

Speaker 9 (45:59):
Gamble, but I mean also I like money more than anything.
So it's like, I mean, I want to try to
risk to get money, but I also don't want to
hurt my pockets. If I don't hate you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (46:08):
Maybe maybe every other week as opposed to every week.

Speaker 1 (46:12):
Then you can then you could look then you can.

Speaker 2 (46:13):
Look forward to Yeah, yeah, you guys, hey, converse figure
it out. This is horrible advice, but you're not even
that bad. I thought it was gonna be way worse.
Like I wish I could talk to her. I would
tell her, honey, this is not unless it gets crazy
and it becomes a problem.

Speaker 1 (46:29):
This isn't this isn't that bad. Yeah, all right, Jamie, Well,
god speed, good luck all.

Speaker 8 (46:36):
I appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (46:38):
I just one hundred a week is not bad.

Speaker 3 (46:41):
It's not bad, but I wonder if it's more than
that too. And then also is there a pattern that
she's realizing that this could kind of well.

Speaker 2 (46:46):
Maybe she's worried a hundred is going to turn to
one thousand and all the think I get it, I
get it.

Speaker 1 (46:50):
But like again, in my household, the minimum bet.

Speaker 3 (46:53):
Is a hundred, Like a hundred? Yeah, like what has changed?

Speaker 2 (46:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (46:57):
Like my brother has lost full rent checks? You full
rind checks. You want to go to mo real quick?
We have time? Mo is in Lowell him good morning.

Speaker 8 (47:06):
Hi Jet, I mean Ashley. The hell is Yess my
coworker that looks like you?

Speaker 1 (47:16):
Well, all a sudden, Jess, my love.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
So listen, you want to give us the girlfriend perspective
you know on this? Do you so you're with somebody
that gambles? I'm assuming yes, okay, and how do you
feel about the gambling?

Speaker 8 (47:29):
So I was just telling Santi, we're like twenty year olds.
So my perspective is I'm at a point where I'm
always imagining our future, and his girlfriend's probably like in
the same phase, and he's just being kind of selfish
because the money he's using isn't really cushion money. It's

(47:50):
like money they can be prioritizing for their future goals together.

Speaker 1 (47:55):
I see that twenty is also very young.

Speaker 2 (47:58):
Call me crazy, though, if he's paying the bills, like
if he's paying the rent check and he's making sure
everything's taken care of and he has the money to
gamble on the side, like I don't know, I mean.

Speaker 1 (48:11):
That's hot, right, that's a little bit.

Speaker 2 (48:12):
If they're splitting the bills, yes, it's a different story. Yeah,
if he's splitting the bills, I'm even more so, like, no,
you need to listen to her.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
This is unfair. What if you cannot give your point.
But he pays the rent, he pays the.

Speaker 3 (48:25):
Bills, so he should have some play money there, so
that to that point absolutely, yes, right.

Speaker 8 (48:29):
Yeah, well yeah, there's definitely like a point of compromise
that I've like like allowed myself to work with him on.
But to be honest, like I don't believe that they
progress and make improvements, Like you're only gonna get more addicted,
Like you're only gonna become more fixed, stated to it.

(48:51):
You can prioritize bills and stuff now, but like when
you're really down on like in the barrel, you won't
be able to make that call because you're the one
that's making like the edition's decision to use the money.

Speaker 2 (49:05):
All right, mo, I get what you're saying, and thank
you for the calls. There's multiple things here. I mean
number one, A lot of times when you deal with
somebody who's again I'm speaking of experience, who gambles it
usually yeah, it might not get better, but I've seen
it get better. Also, like my brother is when it
comes to his gambling, so much better than you used
to because he got a female in his life that
was like you got to figure it out. Dare I

(49:28):
say and put this back on Jamie's girlfriend. You don't
pay rent. The man pays rent. What if you guys
did have to split the rent, why don't you take
that money that you would have been paying for rent
that half and put that away start building a seed.
I mean, listen, I'm just saying it is different to
me in that conversation because he pays the bills. If

(49:50):
they were splitting everything, then I would start to get nervous. Well,
what if one month you don't have your half?

Speaker 1 (49:54):
What are we going to do?

Speaker 3 (49:55):
And then go back to it? One hundred dollars is
not that much.

Speaker 1 (49:59):
And he said he he loves her.

Speaker 2 (50:00):
You were answering the phone, but it's like I love
her because I said, how much does she mean to
because she might walk? And he's like, no shit, So
they'll they'll work it out. Maybe the only game was
twice a month as opposed to every week.

Speaker 1 (50:10):
But she needs a show because also gambling is a fun,
it's exciting. One hundred dollars a week is now the best,
especially if the man is paying the bills.

Speaker 2 (50:22):
But I get it to each their own. I'm not
in that relationship. I love you guys, though. The check
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Speaker 1 (50:39):
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Speaker 2 (50:42):
I'm invested at six one seven nine three one one
nine four five. That is six one seven nine three
one one nine four five. Reuben also celebrated his birthday
last week. Reuben happy belated. When was yours mine?

Speaker 9 (50:57):
The fourteen?

Speaker 2 (50:58):
The fourteenth Scorpios, Yeah, I'm jealous.

Speaker 1 (51:02):
Mine was Tuesday the eleventh, which.

Speaker 9 (51:05):
Yeah, I wanted to call earlier to stay.

Speaker 2 (51:07):
Happy birthday to you guys.

Speaker 10 (51:09):
You know I'll be watching you, guys.

Speaker 9 (51:11):
I've been listening to you guys all the time.

Speaker 5 (51:12):
You guys.

Speaker 9 (51:13):
You know, you guys made me like you guys, make
me happy?

Speaker 2 (51:16):
You know? Oh well that listen. That's literally what we're
trying to do. We could be going through it outside
of here, but our job is coming here. Make you happy,
make you laugh, make you you know, just stop thinking
about all the craziness in your own life.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
How was your actual birthday? Did we do something on Friday?

Speaker 2 (51:33):
Yeah? My girl took me out to Eve.

Speaker 6 (51:35):
She did a couple of days.

Speaker 5 (51:36):
You bought me stuff. This is my first birthday.

Speaker 9 (51:37):
Well I hadn't had to buy myself something, you know.

Speaker 1 (51:40):
Wow, this is nice. How long you have you and
her been dating?

Speaker 9 (51:45):
We've been together for about seven years?

Speaker 1 (51:48):
Damn? Are we is this boyfriend and girlfriend? Or is
this at like.

Speaker 3 (51:53):
She's like more?

Speaker 10 (51:53):
She's like more wife.

Speaker 9 (51:54):
We got married in jail.

Speaker 10 (51:56):
Hey, sorry to say that, you know, you.

Speaker 1 (51:58):
Know, oh hey, don't apologize for that.

Speaker 2 (52:00):
So you got married in jail, as in, you were together,
you went to jail, and then you got How does
that work?

Speaker 5 (52:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (52:08):
I think you gotta do a whole process and all
that extra stuff. You gotta go to the awarden and
all that.

Speaker 3 (52:13):
It was not really a warding. It's just the share
of that jail.

Speaker 9 (52:16):
Okay, guys, back the way I listened to you guys
like every day.

Speaker 1 (52:19):
You know, Wow, this is fascinating to me. Ruben.

Speaker 2 (52:22):
So did she was she allowed to physically come in
for you guys to get married in there?

Speaker 11 (52:26):
Or like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah you got to
you get to get physically.

Speaker 1 (52:31):
Oh did she were white?

Speaker 3 (52:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (52:34):
You were white?

Speaker 1 (52:35):
Wow, this is crazy? So what you're yeah cursed? Yeah.

Speaker 2 (52:39):
He can't remember the wedding date, so he was like
what none, he just dropped about Ruben.

Speaker 1 (52:44):
So this this year is.

Speaker 3 (52:46):
Twenty twenty two.

Speaker 8 (52:47):
We got it in twenty twenty two.

Speaker 1 (52:49):
This is twenty twenty five.

Speaker 2 (52:50):
Were so in twenty twenty two you had a wedding
behind bars? And how is everything now? I mean, clearly
she's a dab she held you down. Yeah, we good?

Speaker 3 (53:01):
I got it.

Speaker 2 (53:02):
When I got out, we ended up having two kids.

Speaker 3 (53:04):
I got a boy and a girl.

Speaker 2 (53:06):
My daughter she's like she's about to be two in
April and she's.

Speaker 3 (53:11):
Just like the bed.

Speaker 2 (53:12):
And then I got a little junior. He's the best.

Speaker 1 (53:15):
This is great. How long were you in for.

Speaker 5 (53:18):
Man?

Speaker 10 (53:19):
There were four years?

Speaker 3 (53:20):
Four year bid trafficking?

Speaker 1 (53:22):
Yeah, nothing crazy.

Speaker 3 (53:23):
Crime wasn't crazy when you got married? Did you have
to wait until you got out to like consummate?

Speaker 8 (53:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (53:30):
What's that mean?

Speaker 2 (53:33):
Well, they were dating prior to so they probably made
sweet love.

Speaker 1 (53:36):
Before he went to end the Distant and then you
were in.

Speaker 2 (53:39):
Santy's basically asking could you like do anything physical?

Speaker 10 (53:44):
No? No, no, not Inmagicusett. They don't have that in
magitud Yeah.

Speaker 1 (53:47):
No, they're only doing that at Fort Dix. You know
what I mean?

Speaker 2 (53:51):
All right, Ruben, Well, wow, this was so interesting. I actually,
you know, in the movies they can get married and jail.
I don't know if that was like a real life thing,
but that is that's wild. That's crazy that you did that.

Speaker 10 (54:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (54:03):
I just wanted to call and check in with you guys.

Speaker 3 (54:05):
I hope you guys have a great day.

Speaker 1 (54:07):
You're wow you as well. Ruben, thank you so much.
You're taught us something today. We appreciate that.

Speaker 3 (54:11):
Oh my god, fascinating, fascinating, interesting, and like you gotta
find the right person to want to like get married
in prison and wait for you when you're done. Like
that's pretty impressive, that's beyond.

Speaker 2 (54:24):
And I love how he threw that in there, as
if we wouldn't care it just like a little something.

Speaker 1 (54:28):
Well yeah, no, we we actually got.

Speaker 2 (54:30):
Married in jail. Who what, you guys just have never
ceased to a Maybe that's why the check in is,
hands down, without a doubt, my favorite favorite part of
the day because we're always learning something and so is he.

Speaker 1 (54:44):
He's looking up consummate as we speak.