January 22, 2025 • 10 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Ben is on the phone today for your first Date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Riley.
So in a second we're going to call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
maybe gi him another date. But first, Ben, how long
has it been since you talked to Riley?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's like a a week and a half now.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
We've been trying to reach out to her.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
You know, I'm sure not to be crazy, but you know,
two messages.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Okay, I mean, you know, you just want to know
how blatantly ghosted you are.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Oh, I feel very ghost It's so long.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
I know that sucks. I'm sorry. Okay, let's talk about
your date. How did you meet her?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
What?
Speaker 4 (00:39):
How did you leave it?
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Personally? I think the date, you know, there was a
little bit of awkwardness, but it was like a good date.
We're in the same field, so we've known each other forever,
like or not forever, but are professional lives. We've known
each other, okay, okay, we've been talking just like like
friends or co work or co whatever. And then one day,
(01:03):
like there was just like a thing where we I
noticed then I just was like, what's trying to do
with date? And so this was the first one of those.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Okay, well that's kind of an ideal situation.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
I wouldn't be calling it. I thought this was like
a bad date. I thought the date was great.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
What did y'all do?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
She met up at my place, but then we walked
in the there's a really great restaurant near my near
at me and then so we walked there at dinner.
Dinner was great, came back movie.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Was there any part of this that started to get
a little awkward or off?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
The one thing that was awkward was on the TV
with some dirty video content.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
When TV, that's the last thing you were watching.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
In my difference, it was the night before. It wasn't
like that's what I was doing right before the date
got I brushed my teeth, I took a shower, I
went it was.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Were you away? Okay?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
You turned on the TV and she saw what you
had been watching that you probably don't want people saying
what you were watching.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
It definitely not off first day. The thing is, though,
we laughed off, so.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
She noticed, are you sure? She noticed. Oh yeah, I
didn't know how it was.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Yeah, yeah, you can't see what you saw.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
She laughed it off. But did it seem like it
bothered her?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
No, that's not That's what I was saying. It was
like a hiccup, but I didn't feel like a hiccup. Okay,
like it didn't like she was that's how cool she is,
Like she didn't make it a thig.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Well she's maybe being polite because also it kind of
feels like are you trying to drop her hands? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Like is this what it looks? Fun?
Speaker 5 (02:50):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I just know that it's weird that we haven't talked
in so many days.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
Well, how did you leave it?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
That is the the second hang up that ice feel.
I just didn't feel that week like the let's go
in for the kiss moment, and so I just we
didn't do that, and so it just was like, let's
leave it, but like not leave it as a not
a date.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
So yeah, but and she has been ignoring all of
your phone calls and text and stuff.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Yeah yeah, two messages, but you know, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Okay, we'll try to figure out we'll plays on comeback
and then call her and see if this else why
she's ghosting you, and maybe get to another day to right, Yeah,
all right, we'll plas on comeback, get your first day
follow up next.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Right in the middle of.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Today's first day follow up if you're just joining us,
Ben is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Riley.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
another date. But first, Ben, why don't you recap your
situation for us.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
We've been friends for a long time. We finally made
a decision to go on a date. We went on
a pretty good date. There. There were a couple hiccups,
no kiss at the end. There was some studeo playing
when when we when she got back to my place.
Yeah accidentally, Uh it was it was something playing the
(04:32):
night before, but it could have been the thing. I
don't think it is.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
All right, well, we'll give her a call and see
if we can figure it out for were you ready?
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Yep? Yep?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Okay, Hello, Hi.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Maschek to Riley please, Yeah, this is she? Hey, right,
how are you? My name is Jebel. I'm calling from
a radio show. It's called the Jewbel Show. Yeah, the
show's here, Riley, I'm Mina.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (05:09):
Hi, I'm a little Kurfuse why are you guys calling me?
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 6 (05:16):
I mean it's been a while, but I don't know
why you guys are calling me.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Well, we do a segment on the show called the
First Date follow Up. That's where if you go on
a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them,
we call you and ask why. And we got an
email about you from somebody.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Oh really, are.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
You gusting somebody just a little bit?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Is his name Ben?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
A little bit?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah, been emailed us and told us a little bit
about your date. He also said he likes you a
lot and he's confused why he's getting ghosted.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 6 (05:56):
I don't know, very should It's okay, you can tell Yeah, okay,
Well I am pretty sure.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
He was high lowing that up?
Speaker 4 (06:08):
Why do you think so?
Speaker 6 (06:10):
So we stopped by at his apartment and it really
stink of weed, It really did.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Okay, and he just looked so just couldn't connected.
Speaker 6 (06:25):
It was just like he was out and outer space
and like couldn't talk to him. Like the whole entire date.
It was just like couldn't get like full sentences from him.
And you know, since we've known you to it for
a long time, it's wholly opposite of who I really know.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
I mean, maybe he was kind of nervous.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
You know, some people like to take a shot before
they go on a date and then maybe like that's
not his jam, but like you just you know, like
smoked a little bowl real quick.
Speaker 6 (06:56):
I really, but I just don't know Ben was a loser.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Oh so you don't like that if he was stoned.
Speaker 6 (07:07):
Yeah, when it comes to Ben, like he just he's
just not the same person. You know, he usually has
like belongs and sage on our gate. It was just
like yeah, yeah, uh, it's all right.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
You felt like you were talking to a wall, Yes,
a big stone wall.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Okay, all right, well, thank you for telling us. Appreciate it.
And now I'll let you know that Ben is actually
on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Oh you have a weed? You don't you have a
problem with weed?
Speaker 4 (07:39):
How was your takeaway?
Speaker 3 (07:41):
I I do Oh yeah, I'm uh yeah, I'm baffled.
But like what we're dope, It's like people.
Speaker 6 (07:57):
Don't weed, so you're high.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Yeah, I'm high right now, I'm high afterward. Yeah, Like what, Yeah,
I'm an adult. This is just what I do through
to day. It's not everyone new I'm higher. It's not
a problem, but I am high most of the time.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
You totally different from work and on our day.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
So yeah, that's because there's work weed and then there's
after work weed, and I it's so weird. I don't
even think I didn't even do much anymore. Like no one,
like no one ever. This is the first person I
ever checked me on like, oh, yeah, you're high.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
Oh yeah, I don't know. I'm trying to follow you
right now.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Ben, I'm I only have a little bit flustered. This
is not I cannot believe this is the problem. I
thought this was like not just when we were in
it to each other.
Speaker 6 (09:01):
You're just at the person I thought she walled. Well,
we'll talk into a wall on our date.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yeah, yeah, okay, that's that's okay, that's that's chilling me.
I guess you know. I don't want this to be weird.
Can we like still be friends? Like a are you
like done? Well?
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Let me ask Riley, would you like to go on
another date with Ben. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (09:26):
I mean, I definitely don't want to go on a
second date with Ben, but I'm cool with us being friends.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Okay, We're gonna be friends. Like you want to come
over and smoke lead and play some video games. This
is what I do with all my other friends. No,
I owned you that, but we can still be friends.
All right.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Well, Ben, I'm sorry. No second date and no video games.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Yeah, all right, Well this embarrassing. I'm gonna have to
go smoke some disapployment weed.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Okay. Jubile's first date follow up
First Date to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Ben is on the phone today for your first Date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Riley.
So in a second we're going to call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
maybe gi him another date. But first, Ben, how long
has it been since you talked to Riley?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's like a a week and a half now.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
We've been trying to reach out to her.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
You know, I'm sure not to be crazy, but you know,
two messages.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Okay, I mean, you know, you just want to know
how blatantly ghosted you are.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Oh, I feel very ghost It's so long.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
I know that sucks. I'm sorry. Okay, let's talk about
your date. How did you meet her?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
What?
Speaker 4 (00:39):
How did you leave it?
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Personally? I think the date, you know, there was a
little bit of awkwardness, but it was like a good date.
We're in the same field, so we've known each other forever,
like or not forever, but are professional lives. We've known
each other, okay, okay, we've been talking just like like
friends or co work or co whatever. And then one day,
(01:03):
like there was just like a thing where we I
noticed then I just was like, what's trying to do
with date? And so this was the first one of those.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Okay, well that's kind of an ideal situation.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
I wouldn't be calling it. I thought this was like
a bad date. I thought the date was great.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
What did y'all do?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
She met up at my place, but then we walked
in the there's a really great restaurant near my near
at me and then so we walked there at dinner.
Dinner was great, came back movie.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Was there any part of this that started to get
a little awkward or off?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
The one thing that was awkward was on the TV
with some dirty video content.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
When TV, that's the last thing you were watching.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
In my difference, it was the night before. It wasn't
like that's what I was doing right before the date
got I brushed my teeth, I took a shower, I
went it was.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Were you away? Okay?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
You turned on the TV and she saw what you
had been watching that you probably don't want people saying
what you were watching.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
It definitely not off first day. The thing is, though,
we laughed off, so.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
She noticed, are you sure? She noticed. Oh yeah, I
didn't know how it was.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Yeah, yeah, you can't see what you saw.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
She laughed it off. But did it seem like it
bothered her?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
No, that's not That's what I was saying. It was
like a hiccup, but I didn't feel like a hiccup. Okay,
like it didn't like she was that's how cool she is,
Like she didn't make it a thig.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Well she's maybe being polite because also it kind of
feels like are you trying to drop her hands? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Like is this what it looks? Fun?
Speaker 5 (02:50):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I just know that it's weird that we haven't talked
in so many days.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
Well, how did you leave it?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
That is the the second hang up that ice feel.
I just didn't feel that week like the let's go
in for the kiss moment, and so I just we
didn't do that, and so it just was like, let's
leave it, but like not leave it as a not
a date.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
So yeah, but and she has been ignoring all of
your phone calls and text and stuff.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Yeah yeah, two messages, but you know, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Okay, we'll try to figure out we'll plays on comeback
and then call her and see if this else why
she's ghosting you, and maybe get to another day to right, Yeah,
all right, we'll plas on comeback, get your first day
follow up next.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Right in the middle of.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Today's first day follow up if you're just joining us,
Ben is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Riley.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
another date. But first, Ben, why don't you recap your
situation for us.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
We've been friends for a long time. We finally made
a decision to go on a date. We went on
a pretty good date. There. There were a couple hiccups,
no kiss at the end. There was some studeo playing
when when we when she got back to my place.
Yeah accidentally, Uh it was it was something playing the
(04:32):
night before, but it could have been the thing. I
don't think it is.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
All right, well, we'll give her a call and see
if we can figure it out for were you ready?
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Yep? Yep?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Okay, Hello, Hi.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Maschek to Riley please, Yeah, this is she? Hey, right,
how are you? My name is Jebel. I'm calling from
a radio show. It's called the Jewbel Show. Yeah, the
show's here, Riley, I'm Mina.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (05:09):
Hi, I'm a little Kurfuse why are you guys calling me?
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 6 (05:16):
I mean it's been a while, but I don't know
why you guys are calling me.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Well, we do a segment on the show called the
First Date follow Up. That's where if you go on
a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them,
we call you and ask why. And we got an
email about you from somebody.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Oh really, are.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
You gusting somebody just a little bit?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Is his name Ben?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
A little bit?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah, been emailed us and told us a little bit
about your date. He also said he likes you a
lot and he's confused why he's getting ghosted.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 6 (05:56):
I don't know, very should It's okay, you can tell Yeah, okay,
Well I am pretty sure.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
He was high lowing that up?
Speaker 4 (06:08):
Why do you think so?
Speaker 6 (06:10):
So we stopped by at his apartment and it really
stink of weed, It really did.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Okay, and he just looked so just couldn't connected.
Speaker 6 (06:25):
It was just like he was out and outer space
and like couldn't talk to him. Like the whole entire date.
It was just like couldn't get like full sentences from him.
And you know, since we've known you to it for
a long time, it's wholly opposite of who I really know.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
I mean, maybe he was kind of nervous.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
You know, some people like to take a shot before
they go on a date and then maybe like that's
not his jam, but like you just you know, like
smoked a little bowl real quick.
Speaker 6 (06:56):
I really, but I just don't know Ben was a loser.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Oh so you don't like that if he was stoned.
Speaker 6 (07:07):
Yeah, when it comes to Ben, like he just he's
just not the same person. You know, he usually has
like belongs and sage on our gate. It was just
like yeah, yeah, uh, it's all right.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
You felt like you were talking to a wall, Yes,
a big stone wall.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Okay, all right, well, thank you for telling us. Appreciate it.
And now I'll let you know that Ben is actually
on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Oh you have a weed? You don't you have a
problem with weed?
Speaker 4 (07:39):
How was your takeaway?
Speaker 3 (07:41):
I I do Oh yeah, I'm uh yeah, I'm baffled.
But like what we're dope, It's like people.
Speaker 6 (07:57):
Don't weed, so you're high.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Yeah, I'm high right now, I'm high afterward. Yeah, Like what, Yeah,
I'm an adult. This is just what I do through
to day. It's not everyone new I'm higher. It's not
a problem, but I am high most of the time.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
You totally different from work and on our day.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
So yeah, that's because there's work weed and then there's
after work weed, and I it's so weird. I don't
even think I didn't even do much anymore. Like no one,
like no one ever. This is the first person I
ever checked me on like, oh, yeah, you're high.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
Oh yeah, I don't know. I'm trying to follow you
right now.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Ben, I'm I only have a little bit flustered. This
is not I cannot believe this is the problem. I
thought this was like not just when we were in
it to each other.
Speaker 6 (09:01):
You're just at the person I thought she walled. Well,
we'll talk into a wall on our date.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yeah, yeah, okay, that's that's okay, that's that's chilling me.
I guess you know. I don't want this to be weird.
Can we like still be friends? Like a are you
like done? Well?
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Let me ask Riley, would you like to go on
another date with Ben. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (09:26):
I mean, I definitely don't want to go on a
second date with Ben, but I'm cool with us being friends.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Okay, We're gonna be friends. Like you want to come
over and smoke lead and play some video games. This
is what I do with all my other friends. No,
I owned you that, but we can still be friends.
All right.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Well, Ben, I'm sorry. No second date and no video games.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Yeah, all right, Well this embarrassing. I'm gonna have to
go smoke some disapployment weed.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Okay. Jubile's first date follow up
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