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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:06):
Alissa is on the phone today for a first date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Bryce.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see ifiel tell us why is ghosting her and maybe
get her another date. But first, Alyssa, how long has
it been since you heard from Bryce?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Oh? My gosh, you guys, it's been I want to say,
two weeks, Okay, Like that's legitimate. I gave it a
week and I was like, Okay, maybe he's just like
super busy or got like late COVID, you know, I mean.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Sorry, Yeah, it's possible, Okay, So I.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Gave him a benefit of it doubt, but like now
it's been too long, you know, And.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
I just I really really liked this.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Guy a lot, and I thought we had a really
you know, strong connection. But like then just to hear
absolutely nothing, I'm just kind of like, okay, like I
need to find out what happened, you.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Know, Yeah, did you try to reach out to him
to like instigate the conversation or.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Well, it's just like I don't think anything went wrong,
you know, I like maybe something on the d might
have scared him off, Like I just I'm not sure
because like he was so adamant about reaching out to
me and like you know, wanting to stay close and connected,
(01:21):
and then for him to just drop off a cliff
like that, I'm like, Okay, something's going on, you know,
like now I'm.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
Playing detective, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
And we actually we first met and like clicked over
Instagram because we both have Frenchies.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Very specific type of dog lover.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
It's a lifestyle choice, you know, so we're part of
a small community of French ye.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
Lovers and you know, we just like.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Bonded over our adorable dog children. And you know, after
a couple of weeks like chatting back and forth, I
invited him to with me to an Italian cooking class.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Oh that's fun, that's really fun.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
So it was like super romantic.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I'm supposed to go as a friend who bailed, and
I was like, oh my god, this is perfect, Like
it's not gonna be awkward.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
We have an activity, you know, like we're not just
going to be like sitting across from each other. Like
what if you know, how like if.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
You meet someone online or like you're just texting, it
could be weird when you finally meet in person, you know,
but right.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
So you don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
But when I met him, I was like, oh my god,
I'm like totally floored.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Like he's so cute, he's so fun and like we.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Were flirting, like getting really like you know, touchy feely
and the pastas like we're it was a good excuse
to like accidentally touch each other. It was like major
wrong con vibes, Like I was living my best kid
husband life. You know, this is amazing, right, and he's
like so funny, so charming, and he impressed the whole class.
(02:59):
Like it was just anyway. Like I said, I really
liked him. That's why I'm now very confused. And you know,
it was just like a perfect date. So that's why
I just can't. I'm like going back in my mind
trying to think of anything that I said or that
he said that was like I don't know something I
missed you can think of. I mean I don't honestly,
(03:24):
like we were like making out by the end of the.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
Class, like outside, you know, I just like got real.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Spicy, like super fun, and I honestly if anything. I mean,
it was like too perfect, So I don't know, like
can it be too perfect? And then that's the problem,
Like so I don't know, like maybe he's also or
there's just something he didn't tell me, you know, and
(03:52):
maybe he's afraid to tell me. So I just am
trying to figure out. And it's weird because like now
I'm checking his Instagram. I feel like that's like a
mini like low key stocker, which I'm totally not normally
at all, Like I don't even date that much.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
So it's kind of weird.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
You don't even have to explain yourself. Yeah, I would
do the same thing because I'm like, are you alive?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Two weeks? It's a perfect date? Did you die?
Speaker 4 (04:19):
What if he's in the hospital, Like what if I
should be concerned? You know, right, like should you be worried?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
At this point, we'll play us come back and then
call him and see if you'll tell us why he's
ghosting you.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Okay, okay, thank you?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
All right, well, plus i'll come back get your first
day follow up next. Right in the middle of your
first date follow up and if you're just joining us,
Alyssa is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
a dude named Bryce. So we're about to call him
and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her
and maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Alyssa,
why don't you catch us up on your situation real quick?
Speaker 4 (04:50):
Okay? So perfect d met on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Initially when we met in person, it was like over
the top, like chemistry, super nai thanks, making up by
the end of the day, and then just like nothing
for two weeks. So I'm like almost concerned at this
point because there was no institution of anything that went wrong,
(05:15):
you know, and it was almost too perfect. So I'm like,
what is going on?
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Are you ready for us to call him? Yeah? Okay,
here we go, Hello him, I speak to Bryce please.
Oh yeah, this is Bryce Bryce.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
How you doing man? My name is Jubel and I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called the Jewbill Show.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah, Bryce Whole Shows.
Speaker 6 (05:44):
Here.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
My name is Nina, hi, and I'm Victoria. How are
you okay? Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 6 (05:52):
I'm sorry, no, I haven't.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Okay, Well, okay, to apologize for just trying to do
better in the future, Well we do it. Segment on
our show called the First Aid follow Up. What that
is is if you go out on a date with
someone and you end up ghosting them, that person can
email us to get you on the phone and ask
why you're ghosting. Oh okay, so you're ghosting somebody and
(06:15):
they emailed us. Do you have any idea who that
would be?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
Yeah? I do.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Okay, what do you think it is?
Speaker 6 (06:24):
I think it's probably Alissa.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
You are probably correct.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Alyssa emailed us and told us about your date and
she's confused, So would you mind telling us?
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Why are you a ghostinger?
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (06:38):
No, it was Listen, it was a great day.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
I didn't expect it to be that great actually, and
she was kind of amazing.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
And we we did.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
We really hit it off. I knew we got along.
We connected on you know a lot of important things
like that are in a lot. I mean, obviously our dogs.
I'm sure she probably told you about that, being you know,
being a French to frenchship dog owner. You know, this
is kind of a whole thing. And no, it was great.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
It was a lot.
Speaker 6 (07:08):
It was kind of one of I just had this
moment afterwards of like thinking like, oh, this isn't going
to I don't know how casual this is really going
to be felt like this is just going to jump
a lot of steps, you know, and and I don't
I just I don't know if I'm I don't know
if I'm ready for that. I just moved here not
that long ago, and I started with a new company,
(07:28):
and so a lot of my time is focused on that.
You know. When we went out, I kind of was
one of my first three nights for a long time.
And I just I don't know if I really have the.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Space of my life right now for like a.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
Serious relationship, which I think is probably where this is
going to go. And I don't want to, you know,
string it out longer and you know us get a
lot more emotions involved, and then you know just have
to you know, break it off or disappoint her, you know,
because then I'm like I'm not available, or you know,
all kinds of things.
Speaker 5 (07:57):
But does it feel like you just skipped a lot
of steps, like thinking about the future before you even
go on.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
A second date.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
I mean I understood, like I guess I kind of
get fear, Like I think there's always fear involved when
you date somebody new. But how do you know that
you're going to disappoint her, you know what I mean,
unless you're planning on it.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Okay, No, I'm not.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
I'm not planning on it, but I just she just
seems she's just really great, you know, and I that's
great all that, and I just I just I don't
I don't want to, you know, and I just came
into town.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
I don't want to.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
I guess I don't want to get a bad reputation already,
you know, and have an enemy, you know.
Speaker 5 (08:33):
Well because you think you're to date other girls or
it's just like you don't have time for her.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
I'm just worried.
Speaker 6 (08:39):
Yeah, I'm worried that, you know. I'm just I'm going
to end up not actually having time for her, and
she just, you know, I'm going to make it seem
like we can get invested and then it's, you know,
it's not really you know, I don't really have that availability.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Yeah, I don't. I don't really know what to say.
I'm just worried that you're going to fall in love
too quickly. I mean, I think that it's pretty cool
when you meet somebody special.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
I mean yeah, but.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
It's like, you know, I just got here. And it's
like is this really happening?
Speaker 6 (09:03):
Like it's it's scary and maybe I am overthaking.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
You know.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
I kind of almost want to ask, like, are you
sure you don't want to be single for a little bit?
Like it's kind of sounds like.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
You move to a new city you just want to
play the field, hang out.
Speaker 6 (09:17):
I mean there's a bit of that, but I'm also
like at an age where it's like, you know, I
would like instability, I would like somebody to kind of
share my life with. But yeah, no, I did just
get here, so it's like am I already making that step,
you know, with somebody when I just got here?
Speaker 3 (09:32):
So well, thank you for being honest with us. I
appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
And now I'll let you know that Alissa's actually been
listening to this conversation.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
She's on the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
Oh my gosh, Hi Hi. Sorry, not trying to like
make it weird, maybe too late, but thanks for answering
that question.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Like I I'm definitely curious, you know happened.
Speaker 4 (10:01):
Because I thought I was like, Okay, this is like
too perfect.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
You know, and it's definitely not me. Sorry, no offense,
Like I was just like okay, like just because we
had so much fun and there was so much chemistry
and like, you know, I had no idea that you
were going through so much on your own.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
But we can't take things slow.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
It doesn't have to be like you know, this runaway
train that like We'm not like rushing to the altar
like tomorrow.
Speaker 4 (10:33):
I mean I would.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Vegas like I'm down, but I also, you know, don't
necessarily want to get married by Elvis.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
So but we can like chill, you know, like I'm
totally down to hang out more and you know, like
just kind of get to.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Know each other better while you're still kind of learning
gropes of you know, like a new place. And it
can be a lot all at lunch. But it's more
fun if you're hanging out with someone that.
Speaker 6 (11:06):
You like, right, I mean, if if you're if you
can understand and like want to take it slow, because
I mean that date was we got pretty fast, but.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
I mean, yeah, we could just.
Speaker 4 (11:21):
Take it slow.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
I think for you, I can give a try, right,
will you go on another date with the LISTA?
Speaker 3 (11:28):
We'll pay for it? Oh well yeah, absolutely, Wow, we're the.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
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