February 17, 2025 • 10 mins
Andrea gave The Jubal Show a call and asked if we could help her find out why Christopher is ghosting her. But, when he realizes it's The Jubal Show calling, it goes a little but sideways.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Andrea is on the phone today for a first date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named
Christopher Andrew. Thank you for your email. Before we get
into your date and stuff, how long has it been
since you talked to Christopher?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's been a couple of weeks.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
A couple of weeks. And how many times you try
to reach out to him in the couple weeks.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
I've only texted him two times, but like I feel
like that's enough that somebody should write back.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Oh yeah, yeah, Exa definitely. Do you think there's a
reason for that. Did anything happen?
Speaker 5 (00:37):
Uh? Well, let me tell you about the date first,
because like I thought, everything went really well, like the
dinner was amazing.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
But then we also we did sleep together, so I
don't know, maybe it was like fast for him. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
I don't know. I don't Does that still apply?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Juwbel Do you think that that's still a thing if
somebody hooks up too fast and it's like, oh, okay.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
By has always been a plus for me. It's never
been a problem for me, Like even if you're thinking
about future dating, it's never been a thing, you know,
because I was like, hey, I would do the same thing.
So I don't judge, like I just based it on
a person, right, But for some people it is okay.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
So then how did you get to that point? Why
don't we go back to the very beginning and see
where it goes?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Okay, Well, I mean he has a really good job,
which is like, you know, it's a really good fine
on a date, like Tony's reliable and they've made it
to having a good job, had ambition, you know. Yeah,
and also he was like really hot okay, and we
(01:44):
hit it off like we were like cracking jokes talking,
you know. I just you know, that's why I said
to them, I was like, great, this is great, just.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Trying to keep him around for a while. Maybe he
sniffed you out, girl, he wasn't ready. Did he stay
over or did you guys do your thing? And then
he went home right away.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
He stayed over, but he had to leave really early
in the morning, so he like left, we didn't really
hang out in the morning.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
That's better anyway, And how was the good vibe?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
It was sweet? He just like gave me a kiss,
and it's like it's sort he had to go.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
I mean that has been all that he wanted.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Yeah, maybe, I mean he's a guy. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Yeah, but I think sometimes you get more of a
vibe because you obviously want to talk to him again. Though, So,
like what about him made you feel aside from his job,
you know, aside from the fact that he's hot, was
there anything else that was like that drew you to him.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Well, he's just really easy to get along with, and
it just felt like everything was happening really organically, and like,
I don't know, there's a lot of chemistry and it
was exciting.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
It like it felt like, you know, like a heightened experience.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, okay, And the only thing you can think of
is maybe you hooked up with him too quick.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Yeah. Either, I guess like you're saying, maybe that's all
he wanted. I don't know. But then like why not
go like go to a bar, you know what I mean?
Why go on a date before us?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Like, I don't know, Well, Andrea, do you have a
good job.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
I have a pretty good job. Yeah, because you know, I.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Don't know if he's the one with a really good job,
and if maybe he didn't feel like it was an
equal situation, then maybe I just want it to be
something other than then that's all he wanted.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Because it's just so predictable people.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
If you're going to look up with somebody, then at
least call him back period, Right.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
I mean I think so, you know, and I've found.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
To communicate that if that's all you're looking for, just
say it, because I've done that before when I've been
dating and I've been like, I'm not interested in anything
but tonight, And usually it's better because they're like, cool,
thanks for clarifying, let's get crazy. Yeah you know.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeah, I mean I wish you would have said that
if that were the case. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
See, we can figure it out for you. We'll play
a song come back, and then call him and see
if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe
get you another another date. Okay, Okay, come back. Get
your first Day follow Up, Next.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Right in the middle of your First Date follow Up,
and Andrea is on the phone and she's getting ghosted
by a dude named Christopher. She has no idea why.
She thinks maybe it's because she hooked up with him
too quickly, because they went on one date and then
they hooked up as for the rest of the date.
Andrea refresh everybody's memory before we call him. On your
date with Christopher.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Yeah, he just we got along really well. You know,
we have got me at dinner. He has a great job.
I liked him. You know, it's been two weeks. I
texted him twice. I haven't heard anything. I'm hoping it's
just something happy with his service or something. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
It could be it's a tech issue. Maybe. All right,
Well we'll see if we can figure out. We're gonna
get him on the phone right now and ask him
why is ghosting you, and then see if you still
want another date after you hear the reason. Here we go. Hello,
(05:21):
I may I speak to Christopher? Please?
Speaker 6 (05:23):
Uh yeah? Speaking?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Hey man? How are you? My name is Jewbel. I
host a radio show called the Jewbel Show. Hi, Christopher,
I'm on the Jubil Show too. My name is Nina.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I'm Victoria. How's it going.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Hey, yeah, no, I listened to The Jubil Show all
the time. Yeah, what's up?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Oh you do? Well? Then if you listen all the time,
have you heard you? Have you heard a first date
follow up before?
Speaker 6 (05:44):
That's that's the second where you guys like call up
to see like somebody's cheating on like their their girlfriend
or their boyfriend or something like that.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
No, that's to catch a cheater. We do that, though,
we do do that.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
This one is the one where if you gohost somebody
after going on a date, they can email us to
get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay,
and that's what this is.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
So wait, this isn't the cheating thing.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
No, this is not. This is a first tape follow up.
So you went on a date with someone and you're
ghosting them and they want to know why. Oh hell, hello,
did he hang up? Yeah? He just hung up?
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Why are you ghost all of that? Now?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Maybe this phone got disconnect? Maybe this soone got disconnected? Yeah,
maybe is there a solar flare?
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Oh my god, yeah, that's really weird. It sounded like
he was about to say something and then he hung up.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Yeah. Maybe well maybe it did drop. Then maybe he
didn't hang up. I'm gonna drive and call him back.
Speaker 6 (06:44):
Okay, okay, uh, hey guys, I really can't talk.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
What I want to know if you hung up on us?
Yes he did, because he's gone again. What man, he's
a professional ghoster. Okay, we call him again. Yeah, I'm
gonna try it back again.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Hey, listen, listen, guys, I'm married. I can't do this.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
What and he's gone again? What? Okay?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (07:37):
What I guess we know why he wanted to know
if it was to catch a cheater segment, and also
why he's ghosting you. We just got a twofer married.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
He took off his ring. Oh my god, it's is crazy.
What are you serious right now?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
He didn't have a ring on or anything when you
guys met.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
No, No, definitely not like I always checked people's hands
like I'm always checking like garthy and really like I
never want I'm really against cheetah and like I've been
cheated on before, you know, like I would never do that.
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Where did you meet him? Was it on an app?
Or was it in person?
Speaker 3 (08:12):
It was on an app?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Whoa Okay? Yeah wow wow now you know your answer?
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Yeah, I mean, yeah, I guess I do. He should
have made up an excuse.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
For real, I just came out with it red there.
I would have said something else, like yeah, exactly, all
of a sudden, Hey, you know what, Hold on one second, Andrea,
I just want to see something. Hey, Christopher, would you
(08:54):
like to go on another day with Andrea? We'll pay
for it, Christopher, he's gone again. Sorry, Andrew, Andrew, I'm
so sorry. That is so frustrating.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
I think that there needs to be a rule, and
we could start a petition for all dating apps to
have a place where you have to answer yes or
no are you married?
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (09:14):
So then people have to say I mean, I'm sure
people will lie, but at least maybe it'll catch some
people that have a little bit of a conscience.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
It's a good idea because some people wouldn't mind, right,
They're like, cool, if you want to cheat, right, right,
some people would mind exactly. I guess that's why they
have Ashley Madison. Well that's what you Yeah, that's the
cheating website. Did you just say who? I'm sorry? Well, Andrea,
not your fault. You know, you didn't know he lied
to you. But hopefully at least you had a good
time that one night. That sucks. I'm sorry, yeah, I
(09:42):
don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
I mean I think I should try to find a
way to tell his wife about this. What do you think?
Speaker 4 (09:48):
I don't know, like almost at this point, I mean
you feel like, yes, but he's on apps. It's gonna
happen again. Do you really want drama in your life
right now?
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Because I mean, yeah, girl code don't lie if it
comes out. But just do you want to invite that.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
There's a lot of time and energy to spend on
something too, to track down his wife and then tell
her and then have to get involved in their drama.
But when you only met him one time. But if
she pops up, you tell her everything you know.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
Andrea Andrewa there, she just want to go find the wife.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
So Jubile's first day follow up powered by the Advocates
Injury Attorney Online at Advocateslaw dot com
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Andrea is on the phone today for a first date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named
Christopher Andrew. Thank you for your email. Before we get
into your date and stuff, how long has it been
since you talked to Christopher?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's been a couple of weeks.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
A couple of weeks. And how many times you try
to reach out to him in the couple weeks.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
I've only texted him two times, but like I feel
like that's enough that somebody should write back.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Oh yeah, yeah, Exa definitely. Do you think there's a
reason for that. Did anything happen?
Speaker 5 (00:37):
Uh? Well, let me tell you about the date first,
because like I thought, everything went really well, like the
dinner was amazing.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
But then we also we did sleep together, so I
don't know, maybe it was like fast for him. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
I don't know. I don't Does that still apply?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Juwbel Do you think that that's still a thing if
somebody hooks up too fast and it's like, oh, okay.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
By has always been a plus for me. It's never
been a problem for me, Like even if you're thinking
about future dating, it's never been a thing, you know,
because I was like, hey, I would do the same thing.
So I don't judge, like I just based it on
a person, right, But for some people it is okay.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
So then how did you get to that point? Why
don't we go back to the very beginning and see
where it goes?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Okay, Well, I mean he has a really good job,
which is like, you know, it's a really good fine
on a date, like Tony's reliable and they've made it
to having a good job, had ambition, you know. Yeah,
and also he was like really hot okay, and we
(01:44):
hit it off like we were like cracking jokes talking,
you know. I just you know, that's why I said
to them, I was like, great, this is great, just.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Trying to keep him around for a while. Maybe he
sniffed you out, girl, he wasn't ready. Did he stay
over or did you guys do your thing? And then
he went home right away.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
He stayed over, but he had to leave really early
in the morning, so he like left, we didn't really
hang out in the morning.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
That's better anyway, And how was the good vibe?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
It was sweet? He just like gave me a kiss,
and it's like it's sort he had to go.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
I mean that has been all that he wanted.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Yeah, maybe, I mean he's a guy. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Yeah, but I think sometimes you get more of a
vibe because you obviously want to talk to him again. Though, So,
like what about him made you feel aside from his job,
you know, aside from the fact that he's hot, was
there anything else that was like that drew you to him.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Well, he's just really easy to get along with, and
it just felt like everything was happening really organically, and like,
I don't know, there's a lot of chemistry and it
was exciting.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
It like it felt like, you know, like a heightened experience.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, okay, And the only thing you can think of
is maybe you hooked up with him too quick.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Yeah. Either, I guess like you're saying, maybe that's all
he wanted. I don't know. But then like why not
go like go to a bar, you know what I mean?
Why go on a date before us?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Like, I don't know, Well, Andrea, do you have a
good job.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
I have a pretty good job. Yeah, because you know, I.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Don't know if he's the one with a really good job,
and if maybe he didn't feel like it was an
equal situation, then maybe I just want it to be
something other than then that's all he wanted.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Because it's just so predictable people.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
If you're going to look up with somebody, then at
least call him back period, Right.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
I mean I think so, you know, and I've found.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
To communicate that if that's all you're looking for, just
say it, because I've done that before when I've been
dating and I've been like, I'm not interested in anything
but tonight, And usually it's better because they're like, cool,
thanks for clarifying, let's get crazy. Yeah you know.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeah, I mean I wish you would have said that
if that were the case. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
See, we can figure it out for you. We'll play
a song come back, and then call him and see
if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe
get you another another date. Okay, Okay, come back. Get
your first Day follow Up, Next.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Right in the middle of your First Date follow Up,
and Andrea is on the phone and she's getting ghosted
by a dude named Christopher. She has no idea why.
She thinks maybe it's because she hooked up with him
too quickly, because they went on one date and then
they hooked up as for the rest of the date.
Andrea refresh everybody's memory before we call him. On your
date with Christopher.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Yeah, he just we got along really well. You know,
we have got me at dinner. He has a great job.
I liked him. You know, it's been two weeks. I
texted him twice. I haven't heard anything. I'm hoping it's
just something happy with his service or something. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
It could be it's a tech issue. Maybe. All right,
Well we'll see if we can figure out. We're gonna
get him on the phone right now and ask him
why is ghosting you, and then see if you still
want another date after you hear the reason. Here we go. Hello,
(05:21):
I may I speak to Christopher? Please?
Speaker 6 (05:23):
Uh yeah? Speaking?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Hey man? How are you? My name is Jewbel. I
host a radio show called the Jewbel Show. Hi, Christopher,
I'm on the Jubil Show too. My name is Nina.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I'm Victoria. How's it going.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Hey, yeah, no, I listened to The Jubil Show all
the time. Yeah, what's up?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Oh you do? Well? Then if you listen all the time,
have you heard you? Have you heard a first date
follow up before?
Speaker 6 (05:44):
That's that's the second where you guys like call up
to see like somebody's cheating on like their their girlfriend
or their boyfriend or something like that.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
No, that's to catch a cheater. We do that, though,
we do do that.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
This one is the one where if you gohost somebody
after going on a date, they can email us to
get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay,
and that's what this is.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
So wait, this isn't the cheating thing.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
No, this is not. This is a first tape follow up.
So you went on a date with someone and you're
ghosting them and they want to know why. Oh hell, hello,
did he hang up? Yeah? He just hung up?
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Why are you ghost all of that? Now?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Maybe this phone got disconnect? Maybe this soone got disconnected? Yeah,
maybe is there a solar flare?
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Oh my god, yeah, that's really weird. It sounded like
he was about to say something and then he hung up.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Yeah. Maybe well maybe it did drop. Then maybe he
didn't hang up. I'm gonna drive and call him back.
Speaker 6 (06:44):
Okay, okay, uh, hey guys, I really can't talk.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
What I want to know if you hung up on us?
Yes he did, because he's gone again. What man, he's
a professional ghoster. Okay, we call him again. Yeah, I'm
gonna try it back again.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Hey, listen, listen, guys, I'm married. I can't do this.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
What and he's gone again? What? Okay?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (07:37):
What I guess we know why he wanted to know
if it was to catch a cheater segment, and also
why he's ghosting you. We just got a twofer married.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
He took off his ring. Oh my god, it's is crazy.
What are you serious right now?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
He didn't have a ring on or anything when you
guys met.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
No, No, definitely not like I always checked people's hands
like I'm always checking like garthy and really like I
never want I'm really against cheetah and like I've been
cheated on before, you know, like I would never do that.
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Where did you meet him? Was it on an app?
Or was it in person?
Speaker 3 (08:12):
It was on an app?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Whoa Okay? Yeah wow wow now you know your answer?
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Yeah, I mean, yeah, I guess I do. He should
have made up an excuse.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
For real, I just came out with it red there.
I would have said something else, like yeah, exactly, all
of a sudden, Hey, you know what, Hold on one second, Andrea,
I just want to see something. Hey, Christopher, would you
(08:54):
like to go on another day with Andrea? We'll pay
for it, Christopher, he's gone again. Sorry, Andrew, Andrew, I'm
so sorry. That is so frustrating.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
I think that there needs to be a rule, and
we could start a petition for all dating apps to
have a place where you have to answer yes or
no are you married?
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (09:14):
So then people have to say I mean, I'm sure
people will lie, but at least maybe it'll catch some
people that have a little bit of a conscience.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
It's a good idea because some people wouldn't mind, right,
They're like, cool, if you want to cheat, right, right,
some people would mind exactly. I guess that's why they
have Ashley Madison. Well that's what you Yeah, that's the
cheating website. Did you just say who? I'm sorry? Well, Andrea,
not your fault. You know, you didn't know he lied
to you. But hopefully at least you had a good
time that one night. That sucks. I'm sorry, yeah, I
(09:42):
don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
I mean I think I should try to find a
way to tell his wife about this. What do you think?
Speaker 4 (09:48):
I don't know, like almost at this point, I mean
you feel like, yes, but he's on apps. It's gonna
happen again. Do you really want drama in your life
right now?
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Because I mean, yeah, girl code don't lie if it
comes out. But just do you want to invite that.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
There's a lot of time and energy to spend on
something too, to track down his wife and then tell
her and then have to get involved in their drama.
But when you only met him one time. But if
she pops up, you tell her everything you know.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
Andrea Andrewa there, she just want to go find the wife.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
So Jubile's first day follow up powered by the Advocates
Injury Attorney Online at Advocateslaw dot com
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