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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jimma is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Antonio. Man,
I know that sucks. Antonio is one of those names.
Hello Streetard, you are so very lovely and I love
you so much? Was it Antonio? Benders Gema buy any chance?
No before we find out about this Antonio and here
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date with him? How long has it been since you
heard from Antonio?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
It's been almost two weeks. So have you tried to
reach out to him in that two weeks?
Speaker 4 (00:39):
I didn't, you know, when we were on our date.
At the end of the date, I told him to
call me and he just never did. And you know,
I like some of his social media posts, but I
haven't texted him or you know, called.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Him or anything. Thought he was gonna call me, right,
So it's like the old nudge.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I just left your photo, bro, It's like a very
passive address on LAS.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Yeah, you know, I'm just trying to get his attention.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Well, tell us about the date. What'd you guys do?
And why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
We went out for a top golf and cocktails, and
you know, we kind of sucked at the top golf.
Speaker 5 (01:23):
We weren't that great at it.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Yeah, and we had.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
A couple of cocktails.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
We were both very flirtatious with each other, and we
laughed a lot, and he was complimenting me a lot,
and he made me feel really beautiful and attractive, and yeah,
I was really into him, really attracted to him too.
It seemed like we were both really into each other.
We made out for a while in the parking lot.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
It was really nice, and.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
Yeah, we both said that we we like couldn't wait
to do it again and to see each other again soon.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
What is it with Antonio? You know, it's like such
a romantic name too, you know, buy me a Moore?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Hello Life Forever.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
So hey, Gemma, the date was great. So what do
you think went wrong? Was there anything that happened during
the date that may have been a flag to him?
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I can't really think of anything that really went wrong
during the date. I don't know. The only thing that
I could really think of is that maybe I actually
played it too cool, that maybe it wasn't clear to
him that I was as into him as I actually was,
(02:43):
and you know, maybe I didn't flour enough with him. Yeah,
that's really the only thing I could think of.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Yeah, that's happened to me before, where somebody's played it
too cool because and I'm just like, wow, I don't know,
like I'm not going to chase like that.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
So do you know they're playing it too cool or
do you think they're just into you? Say you're not
going to change.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
I figured that they were just not into me, so
I'm like, okay, cool, I'll just move it along. Unlike
some people, some guys that I've seen, I won't send
fifteen messages in a row with no response, you know.
I do three, and then I'm like, okay, cool, I'm
not going to do it again, you know, right right?
But yeah, so maybe you played it too cool and
he just didn't think you were interested. But you did
say you can't wait to see him again and make
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out with him at the end of me he did, right, Yeah,
I did. Have you thought about just reaching out to him?
Speaker 4 (03:29):
I have, But I have a thing where I do
prefer for the guy.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
To reach out first. I get that.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
It's like a thing for me, you know, like I
like to be pursued.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
All right, that's kind of the clue that they're into you,
because like, if you're getting ghosted, mmm, okay, well we'll
see if we can help you out. We'll play a
song come Back and then call him and see if
we can figure out why you're getting ghosted and maybe
get you another date. Okay, okay, thanks, all right, well play.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Song come back to your first Night follow Up.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
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Speaker 2 (04:07):
If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow
up with Gemma is on the phone and she's getting
ghosted by a guy named Antonio. Hello, sweetheart, and we're
about to call him and find out why she's getting
ghosted and see if we can maybe get her another date. First,
before we call him, Gemma, please refresh everybody's memory on
your date with Antonio.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
You are so very lovely. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
So, Antonio and I went out for top golf and
cocktails and it went really well. I mean the top golf.
We thought that that, but besides that, the date went
really well. There was so much for chemistry and we
made out at the end of the day in the
parking lot, and we both said that we couldn't wait
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to see each other again soon.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
And it's been almost.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Two weeks and I haven't heard from him since, even
though I did.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Tell him to call me.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Mm hmmm, he hasn't.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
So yeah, I've been wondering what's been going on with that.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Okay, we'll call him right now and see if we
can figure it out. And once you hear the reason
that you're getting ghost and see if you want another date.
Are you ready?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I mean I know, I am. I get to knock
down Tonio.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Can't wait?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
All right, here we go. I'm on a dollar phone number.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Hi, MA, speak to Antonio Antonio. My name is Jubil. I.
It's the radio show and it's called the Jubile Show. Hi, Antonio,
I'm Naw's on this Jubil Show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Have you ever heard of the Jubil Show before or
heard the show at all?
Speaker 5 (05:44):
Vaguely? I heard? All right?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Cool, Well, somebody who does listen to our show emailed
us about you, and that's why we're calling you. Oh interesting,
super interesting. Do you want to know why? Of course
they emailed because we do a segment called the first
date follow up. That's where if you go out on
a date with someone and then you ghost them, that
person can email us to get you on the phone
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and find out why you're ghosting them. So we got
an email about you from a woman named Jemma that
you went to Top Golf with.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
I know Jemma. I didn't ghost there.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
You texted her back since the date? No, So so
what are you doing?
Speaker 5 (06:24):
Bro? Is there is there a time limit to ghosting?
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Well, when we talked to Jemma, she said your date
was like two weeks ago and you haven't reached out
to her, So that seems kind of long.
Speaker 6 (06:37):
I've actually been very busy, even like I'm usually not
even that busy, but recently I've been very busy.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
So have you thought about your makeout with Jemma since
that night?
Speaker 5 (06:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Okay, it sounds like there's a reason and you don't
want to tell us, Antonio. Every single answer sounds like
you just don't want to tell us.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
There's nothing to not tell.
Speaker 6 (06:59):
I mean, I'm if she was very interested in hearing
from me, she could have reached out.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
So do you feel like Jemma's not into you?
Speaker 5 (07:11):
I think she I think she was, did.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
You plan to reach out at all?
Speaker 6 (07:17):
I mean, when I was going to be less busy.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Yes, it sounds like you're making it up.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
He's busy right now.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
I'm busy. Right now.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
I can't even text her because I'm on a radio
call with three fun people.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
We asked her if she had reached out to you.
She said no. She said she liked a couple of
your social media posts to kind of like wave her
hand at you.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
But she also said, though, to call me, and you're
like totally.
Speaker 6 (07:40):
I think she said, call me if you want to
hang out again. And it's not that I wasn't going to.
I was just very busy. I want to hang out.
But okay, fine, I.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Do like her, but I just don't want to be
mean about something.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I knew there was something help, but like, what is
it everybody who agrees to do this that they might
hear something they're not gonna like.
Speaker 6 (08:02):
Okay, I'm not like a superficial person.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
But she has this really long nose here, and like.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I said, I'm cracking up. I'm sorry finished.
Speaker 6 (08:18):
It's kind of distracting when I'm or, you know, when
I was with.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
Her, and I don't want to have to tell her
to trim it. But it's so distracting, so awkward.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
But you'd like to see her, you'd like to see
her again. You also don't want to tell her that
she should trim a nose here.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Yeah, like, how do you say that? It's just one
long notes there.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
I don't know how you like, Like, I don't know
how you even.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
Broached the subject.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Well, what if she plucked the nose here? You'd go
out with her again?
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (08:48):
Yeah, I'd love to, but I don't know how. Again,
I just don't know how. It's so distracting.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Yeah, it's tough to have that conversation. But you did
actually kind of tell her because she's on the phone
listening and wanted to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
Oh no, oh yeah I heard all of that.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
You know.
Speaker 5 (09:09):
Your feelings.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
Honestly, it's pretty embarrassing. I didn't realize that I had
a nose hair like that. That was really bothersome. But
you know, you really should have just told me about it,
because I don't think anyone wants to know its hair
sticking out like that. It's like how you should always
tell someone that they have stuck in between their teeth
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or you know, if a girl has with stick on
her cheep, you should always tell somebody. So yeah, I
mean it's not such a big deal.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
I can easily trim that. I'm sorry I didn't tell you.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
I I liked you a lot, and I didn't want
to undercut the experience by bringing something up that's awkward.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
That'd be tough on a first date. Honestly, I think
you're great, but there's just this thing that's poking right
out of your nose? Can I pluck it?
Speaker 3 (10:05):
But then what are you gonna do? How are you
gonna pluck it? You're gonna run back in the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
And I have a pair of tweezers with me at
all times in case I need to pluck a nose hair,
do you Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Well maybe I should borrow it.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
I'm so glad you have a great atage.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Yeah, at least you have a good sense of humor
about it. Antonio, would you like to go out with
Jim again on another date? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
Sure. I love that a lot.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Jemmy, are you gonna be able to trim your nose
hair before you see Antonio again?
Speaker 5 (10:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (10:34):
I'm gonna be plucking my nose hair every day.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Well, congratulations, you got another date.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
Nice.
Speaker 4 (10:42):
Yeah, that's really great. I'm super excited to see here
don Antonio.
Speaker 5 (10:48):
Me too. Maybe we can maybe we can go Tweezer shopping. Wow.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Well, the story you'll tell your kids one day.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
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