April 24, 2023 • 11 mins
First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".
One of our listeners getting ghosted after a date he went on and he thinks that it might be because of the tip he left! Not that it was too little, but apparently he tipped too much! Is that actually the reason he is getting ghosted? Find out in this new First Date Follow Up!
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One of our listeners getting ghosted after a date he went on and he thinks that it might be because of the tip he left! Not that it was too little, but apparently he tipped too much! Is that actually the reason he is getting ghosted? Find out in this new First Date Follow Up!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
The Jubile Show on demand.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
First day follow Who is on the phone today for
a first date follow up? He's getting ghosted by a
woman named Jess, and we're gonna see if we can
have him out. What's up, drewe How are you?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Hey, guys, thanks for taking my car. I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Yeah, no problem, man.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah. So I went on this first date with this girl, Jess.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
You know, I met her recently and we went out,
and you know, she told me her she was into basketball.
You know, I'm into basketball, so you know I wasn't
going to take her to the court on the first day.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
That's much.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Well, what I did is I took her to an
arcade that had like, you know, they had the basketball
hoops there that you can just like shoots that we
played that, we played a bunch of other games, you know,
air hockey stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Ended up making it out by the motorcycle game. You know,
it's pretty cool.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Oh sweet, what happened?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Well, you know, everything was good.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
We you know, end of the night with a few
beers and you know, some advertisers, some wings and stuff
like that, and I, you know, ind of the night,
I took her home. I walked her door door door.
We kissed a little bit more, and I thought I
had I thought we had a great night. She said
she had a great night.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
I do.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
We had a great night, and so I was expecting
a second date to come around. But now, yeah, she's
not returning my calls or my text messages or anything that.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
It's been over a week, and I figured, you know,
did I do something wrong?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Like I thought we were having a great jove and
now I'm feeling I'm getting ghosted here?
Speaker 5 (01:29):
Is there anything that could have happened during the date,
Like are you super competitive?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
I mean I was like, you know, just joking around
and you know, like screaming air ball every time you
throw it.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
But that is I mean at one point, you know,
when I was paying the bill, she I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Know, called me out for leaving a big tip.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
I don't I used to, you know, serving Barton when
I was in college. So you know, when people take
good care of me, I take good care of them.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
She dropped something like I tipped like thirty percent and
she's like, oh, you're just throwing away my I mean
though that line was kind of weird.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
To me, kind of off.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
But I don't know if maybe she's a little conservative
with her spendings.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
But I don't know. I take care of my own.
Speaker 5 (02:09):
That wasn't a red flag to you. Yeah wow.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I mean I didn't really see it that way, you know,
at the moment.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
I mean I just thought, you know, okay, she was
a little more conservative, But I didn't think anymore than
that before.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
People not get a call not get a call back
when they've been a terrible tip yeah, not for being
a good tipperson.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
It's like it's one thing that's stingy and another thing
to be over generous. And I feel like I'm lighting
somewhere in the middle.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
You know.
Speaker 5 (02:36):
I hate to even jump to this conclusion, but the
only other thing that ever crosses my mind when you
hear about people that did make out on a date
and not get a call back, it's like, was it
something there with the chemistry? Like are you just not
a good kisser? I know I've said that before, but
I've never.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Gotten any complaints on my kissing style. I don't know.
Maybe I had bad brass or something. I don't know.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I have no idea, So did she talk to you
at all after your day?
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Now?
Speaker 4 (03:01):
That's the thing, is that, like I haven't been in
touch with her since that one date, and which is,
like I said, so random and weird to me because
I thought we had something.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
I thought there was a spark. I thought maybe I
thought there was chemistry.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
How long has it been since you talked to her?
Speaker 4 (03:14):
It's been like a it's like a week and a half,
I guess. I mean, if something did come up in
her life, I mean I kind of feel like she'd
have time to deal with it by now and at
least return text or something.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
You know, how many times have you reached out to her?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
I will text her in the morning, you know, just
you know, a little good morning text. No response when
I know she's at work and I'm like, hope we
have having a good day at work. No response, and
then I'll call her, you know at night. She if
everything's signed, goes straight to avoid Drew.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
You're using like you're not using past tense words. Are
you still texting her that right now? Like a week
and a half later.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I mean I've lightened up, but still okay, good?
Speaker 5 (03:54):
I mean been texting her every morning and calling her
every night.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
No, no, I'm trying to be like creeper like that,
but you know it's kind of like, hey, thinking about you,
kind of shooting it out there, balls in your court, you.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Know, right right?
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Okay, okay, all right, a good one. Well, we'll try
to figure it out for you, man. We'll play a
song come back, and then call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and get you
another date if you still want one with your first
day follow up.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Okay, okay, thank you guys.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
All right, plaus I'll come back get your first day
follow up next. In the middle of your first day
follow up if you're just joining us, Drew is on
the phone, and Drew might not be getting a call
back because he's a good tipper. I don't think that's
the reason, Drew. But we're about to call the woman
that Drew went on a date with named Jess and
see why she's ghosting him and see if we can
get him another date. In just a second, but first, Drew,
(04:44):
refresh everybody's memory about your date with Jess.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Well, I took her out to a little arcade. We
take a little hoops there.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
We had a great time, had some beers and food,
did a little makeout.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Says, we had a great time, and now I'm being.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Ghosted about to call it right now? Anything else you
want to say before we do that?
Speaker 5 (05:06):
Drew?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I hope she that's a good answer.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I hope so too. Here you Drew, all right, I'm
going to I'm going to call her right out here
we go. Hello, him, I speak to Jess. Please, This
is she, Jess, how are you? This is my name
(05:33):
is Jebel from a radio show called The Jewel Show.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
Hi, Jess, I know your show.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Hi guys O Hell, oh my god, I.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Love this enthusiasm. Jess. My name is Nina. I'm the
new one. Jess. Thank you for listening to the show.
Appreciate that.
Speaker 6 (05:50):
Yeah, I'm so nervous. Why are you calling me?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I mean, you know the options. It could be a
first a follow up. Are you in a relationship and
cheating on someone? I think or think that they might
be cheating on you?
Speaker 6 (06:03):
No, but they did go on a date.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
So it is a first d A follow up. Yes,
you went on a date with somebody recently, and now
you're ghosting them.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I've got see him. His name is Drew.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Yeah, yeah, his name is Drew. We talked to Drew.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
Yeah, he's a nice guy. He's a really nice guy.
We went on a date. I had a really good time.
I truly did, I really did. And he's a really
nice guy.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
But you know, I, you know I could date.
Speaker 6 (06:31):
Him, but right now I'm at the point where, you know,
I only want to date someone who's going to be
the husband. And as nice as he was and as
much fun as I had, I don't see him as
the husband. And I don't want to, you know, be
dating if it's not going to be the.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Long term one.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
But so what about him makes you feel like he's
not the one?
Speaker 5 (06:52):
Because if he's so great you went on one date,
you obviously were attracted to him enough.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
We heard you guys made out and stuff.
Speaker 6 (06:58):
Yeah, but you know you have you have friends that
you love to death and they're wonderful, but you would
never marry them, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Sure, so he's one of those. He'd be a good
kitscher and all.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
But it didn't take me. I don't know, it didn't
hit me spiritually the place that I needed to.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
So kissed you like a date and not a husband.
I'm sorry.
Speaker 6 (07:20):
Well, you know, a lot of people are good kids.
I mean, let's don get me wrong. He's a really
nice guy, but he's.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Not the one for me.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
I could introduce him to somebody because he's a really
nice guy, he's not the one for me.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
So, Jess, are you going on a lot of these
first dates and just you know, having a great time
and figuring out that they're not the one?
Speaker 3 (07:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:38):
Yeah, I mean is he as a formula?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
You know, yes, yes it is.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
I mean, you know, I could waste his time.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
His money. I mean, oh, he's a great different too.
You know, he's a nice guy and everything. Well, actually
that's another thing.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
I mean he like totally overkits, you know, like thirty percent,
And I'm looking for somebody who knows how to manage
their money. You know, a husband that's not going to
like be spending all the money up you know when
he's away.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
For me, I mean, that's that's a red flag.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
So you want a husband who's gonna tip like a
standard eighteen to twenty percent, no.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
You know, according to what's you know, but I mean
thirty per I mean it wasn't like I mean, vis
wasn't that amazing Jesus, She's.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Like, tip, well just not too well. Yeah, well, just
thank you for your honesty, thank you for listening.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, well, thank you for calling me your show, Jess.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Are you forgetting something about the first ad?
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Follow up though?
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Oh god, no, I don't want another day. I remember
that that part.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
I remember that part's coming up, that part. There's another part.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Though, Oh god, you want the phone.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
Yes, Drew's on the phone.
Speaker 6 (08:47):
Oh no, I forgot that part of it.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Oh my goodness. Oh no.
Speaker 7 (08:52):
When I'm listening, when I listen to the show, I'm
always like, oh, I hope you don't hear it.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Oh god, I forgot. Well it was nice, Drew.
Speaker 7 (09:00):
I'll find a wonderful person just right, somebody else you deserve,
somebody else. I'm not the one for you. You could
tell from the phone call.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I'm not the one.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Yeah, I'm trying to pick that up now.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
Very perceptive.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
How do you feel about just not feeling like you're
a husband?
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Like I could be hobby material, totally.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Material, like not for me, but you could had.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
A good time. Was it because I gave too much
money to the server?
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Or I mean, oh lord, that was that was something?
But you know, come on guys thirty. I mean we
have you know, I'm.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Totally husband material, though, I mean, you just got to
get to know me.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
You know, I'm a nurture, I'm caring, I'm funny. I'm
a good cook. I'll let you beat me at basketball.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
How are you a diy project?
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Drew. Everything I own is from my tea, so I'm
pretty good.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
You guys think that was too quick to rash. I
think maybe I should give him a break.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
Well.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
I think we were kind of leaning in that direction.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Jazz.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Yeah, I mean, I think it'd be very hard to
tell if somebody is potential long term boyfriend material or
a husband material after one date. I'm more interested that
it was Ika that got you to kind of turn around.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
You're like, oh hello, I mean that's why we had
a good first impression.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
But if I had to throw it a second impression
and there, I'd be more than happy too.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
I mean, you guys are dates. Hikia is a move.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (10:29):
Maybe we could go to Ikea together and I'll see.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I personally as a dude. I feel like Drew hearing
that from you and still trying to convince you to
go out with him his husband material because I know
for me, especially when I was when I was single
and I didn't want to get married at all. I'm
married now, but that took a long time to get there.
And if I was out with someone and I heard
them say that, or I went out with someone I
heard them say that, I'd be like, well, cool, I'm
(10:53):
not your material. Definitely not because I didn't want to
get married, you know.
Speaker 7 (10:57):
Okay, Julie, as a dude, I heard your response, But
can I have the charge response?
Speaker 2 (11:02):
I don't think a second date would be a bad thing.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Okay, well what if?
Speaker 7 (11:09):
What if I'm willing to do one more we give
it one more try? Should we give it one more try?
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Jess? Would you like to go out on another date
with Drew? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Okay, that settles it. Let's go true all.
Speaker 5 (11:22):
Right, sweet, But this time, Jess, you can't go sim
You just have to straight up say, I still don't
think you're my husband.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
We can go, We'll have a great time, but I
won't marry you. I still don't think you're my husband.
Speaker 4 (11:37):
By little, little, by, little baby chefs, baby chefs, stay tuned.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Everybody check in.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
With us and let us know. Jess, congratulations, Drew, you
got another date man.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
Thank you guys. That works out well.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Then you will show on demand
The Jubile Show on demand.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
First day follow Who is on the phone today for
a first date follow up? He's getting ghosted by a
woman named Jess, and we're gonna see if we can
have him out. What's up, drewe How are you?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Hey, guys, thanks for taking my car. I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Yeah, no problem, man.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah. So I went on this first date with this girl, Jess.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
You know, I met her recently and we went out,
and you know, she told me her she was into basketball.
You know, I'm into basketball, so you know I wasn't
going to take her to the court on the first day.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
That's much.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Well, what I did is I took her to an
arcade that had like, you know, they had the basketball
hoops there that you can just like shoots that we
played that, we played a bunch of other games, you know,
air hockey stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Ended up making it out by the motorcycle game. You know,
it's pretty cool.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Oh sweet, what happened?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Well, you know, everything was good.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
We you know, end of the night with a few
beers and you know, some advertisers, some wings and stuff
like that, and I, you know, ind of the night,
I took her home. I walked her door door door.
We kissed a little bit more, and I thought I
had I thought we had a great night. She said
she had a great night.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
I do.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
We had a great night, and so I was expecting
a second date to come around. But now, yeah, she's
not returning my calls or my text messages or anything that.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
It's been over a week, and I figured, you know,
did I do something wrong?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Like I thought we were having a great jove and
now I'm feeling I'm getting ghosted here?
Speaker 5 (01:29):
Is there anything that could have happened during the date,
Like are you super competitive?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
I mean I was like, you know, just joking around
and you know, like screaming air ball every time you
throw it.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
But that is I mean at one point, you know,
when I was paying the bill, she I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Know, called me out for leaving a big tip.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
I don't I used to, you know, serving Barton when
I was in college. So you know, when people take
good care of me, I take good care of them.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
She dropped something like I tipped like thirty percent and
she's like, oh, you're just throwing away my I mean
though that line was kind of weird.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
To me, kind of off.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
But I don't know if maybe she's a little conservative
with her spendings.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
But I don't know. I take care of my own.
Speaker 5 (02:09):
That wasn't a red flag to you. Yeah wow.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I mean I didn't really see it that way, you know,
at the moment.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
I mean I just thought, you know, okay, she was
a little more conservative, But I didn't think anymore than
that before.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
People not get a call not get a call back
when they've been a terrible tip yeah, not for being
a good tipperson.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
It's like it's one thing that's stingy and another thing
to be over generous. And I feel like I'm lighting
somewhere in the middle.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
You know.
Speaker 5 (02:36):
I hate to even jump to this conclusion, but the
only other thing that ever crosses my mind when you
hear about people that did make out on a date
and not get a call back, it's like, was it
something there with the chemistry? Like are you just not
a good kisser? I know I've said that before, but
I've never.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Gotten any complaints on my kissing style. I don't know.
Maybe I had bad brass or something. I don't know.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I have no idea, So did she talk to you
at all after your day?
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Now?
Speaker 4 (03:01):
That's the thing, is that, like I haven't been in
touch with her since that one date, and which is,
like I said, so random and weird to me because
I thought we had something.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
I thought there was a spark. I thought maybe I
thought there was chemistry.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
How long has it been since you talked to her?
Speaker 4 (03:14):
It's been like a it's like a week and a half,
I guess. I mean, if something did come up in
her life, I mean I kind of feel like she'd
have time to deal with it by now and at
least return text or something.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
You know, how many times have you reached out to her?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
I will text her in the morning, you know, just
you know, a little good morning text. No response when
I know she's at work and I'm like, hope we
have having a good day at work. No response, and
then I'll call her, you know at night. She if
everything's signed, goes straight to avoid Drew.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
You're using like you're not using past tense words. Are
you still texting her that right now? Like a week
and a half later.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I mean I've lightened up, but still okay, good?
Speaker 5 (03:54):
I mean been texting her every morning and calling her
every night.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
No, no, I'm trying to be like creeper like that,
but you know it's kind of like, hey, thinking about you,
kind of shooting it out there, balls in your court, you.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Know, right right?
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Okay, okay, all right, a good one. Well, we'll try
to figure it out for you, man. We'll play a
song come back, and then call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and get you
another date if you still want one with your first
day follow up.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Okay, okay, thank you guys.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
All right, plaus I'll come back get your first day
follow up next. In the middle of your first day
follow up if you're just joining us, Drew is on
the phone, and Drew might not be getting a call
back because he's a good tipper. I don't think that's
the reason, Drew. But we're about to call the woman
that Drew went on a date with named Jess and
see why she's ghosting him and see if we can
get him another date. In just a second, but first, Drew,
(04:44):
refresh everybody's memory about your date with Jess.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Well, I took her out to a little arcade. We
take a little hoops there.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
We had a great time, had some beers and food,
did a little makeout.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Says, we had a great time, and now I'm being.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Ghosted about to call it right now? Anything else you
want to say before we do that?
Speaker 5 (05:06):
Drew?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I hope she that's a good answer.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I hope so too. Here you Drew, all right, I'm
going to I'm going to call her right out here
we go. Hello, him, I speak to Jess. Please, This
is she, Jess, how are you? This is my name
(05:33):
is Jebel from a radio show called The Jewel Show.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
Hi, Jess, I know your show.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Hi guys O Hell, oh my god, I.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Love this enthusiasm. Jess. My name is Nina. I'm the
new one. Jess. Thank you for listening to the show.
Appreciate that.
Speaker 6 (05:50):
Yeah, I'm so nervous. Why are you calling me?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I mean, you know the options. It could be a
first a follow up. Are you in a relationship and
cheating on someone? I think or think that they might
be cheating on you?
Speaker 6 (06:03):
No, but they did go on a date.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
So it is a first d A follow up. Yes,
you went on a date with somebody recently, and now
you're ghosting them.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I've got see him. His name is Drew.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Yeah, yeah, his name is Drew. We talked to Drew.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
Yeah, he's a nice guy. He's a really nice guy.
We went on a date. I had a really good time.
I truly did, I really did. And he's a really
nice guy.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
But you know, I, you know I could date.
Speaker 6 (06:31):
Him, but right now I'm at the point where, you know,
I only want to date someone who's going to be
the husband. And as nice as he was and as
much fun as I had, I don't see him as
the husband. And I don't want to, you know, be
dating if it's not going to be the.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Long term one.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
But so what about him makes you feel like he's
not the one?
Speaker 5 (06:52):
Because if he's so great you went on one date,
you obviously were attracted to him enough.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
We heard you guys made out and stuff.
Speaker 6 (06:58):
Yeah, but you know you have you have friends that
you love to death and they're wonderful, but you would
never marry them, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Sure, so he's one of those. He'd be a good
kitscher and all.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
But it didn't take me. I don't know, it didn't
hit me spiritually the place that I needed to.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
So kissed you like a date and not a husband.
I'm sorry.
Speaker 6 (07:20):
Well, you know, a lot of people are good kids.
I mean, let's don get me wrong. He's a really
nice guy, but he's.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Not the one for me.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
I could introduce him to somebody because he's a really
nice guy, he's not the one for me.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
So, Jess, are you going on a lot of these
first dates and just you know, having a great time
and figuring out that they're not the one?
Speaker 3 (07:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:38):
Yeah, I mean is he as a formula?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
You know, yes, yes it is.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
I mean, you know, I could waste his time.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
His money. I mean, oh, he's a great different too.
You know, he's a nice guy and everything. Well, actually
that's another thing.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
I mean he like totally overkits, you know, like thirty percent,
And I'm looking for somebody who knows how to manage
their money. You know, a husband that's not going to
like be spending all the money up you know when
he's away.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
For me, I mean, that's that's a red flag.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
So you want a husband who's gonna tip like a
standard eighteen to twenty percent, no.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
You know, according to what's you know, but I mean
thirty per I mean it wasn't like I mean, vis
wasn't that amazing Jesus, She's.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Like, tip, well just not too well. Yeah, well, just
thank you for your honesty, thank you for listening.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, well, thank you for calling me your show, Jess.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Are you forgetting something about the first ad?
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Follow up though?
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Oh god, no, I don't want another day. I remember
that that part.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
I remember that part's coming up, that part. There's another part.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Though, Oh god, you want the phone.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
Yes, Drew's on the phone.
Speaker 6 (08:47):
Oh no, I forgot that part of it.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Oh my goodness. Oh no.
Speaker 7 (08:52):
When I'm listening, when I listen to the show, I'm
always like, oh, I hope you don't hear it.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Oh god, I forgot. Well it was nice, Drew.
Speaker 7 (09:00):
I'll find a wonderful person just right, somebody else you deserve,
somebody else. I'm not the one for you. You could
tell from the phone call.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I'm not the one.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Yeah, I'm trying to pick that up now.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
Very perceptive.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
How do you feel about just not feeling like you're
a husband?
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Like I could be hobby material, totally.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Material, like not for me, but you could had.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
A good time. Was it because I gave too much
money to the server?
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Or I mean, oh lord, that was that was something?
But you know, come on guys thirty. I mean we
have you know, I'm.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Totally husband material, though, I mean, you just got to
get to know me.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
You know, I'm a nurture, I'm caring, I'm funny. I'm
a good cook. I'll let you beat me at basketball.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
How are you a diy project?
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Drew. Everything I own is from my tea, so I'm
pretty good.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
You guys think that was too quick to rash. I
think maybe I should give him a break.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
Well.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
I think we were kind of leaning in that direction.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Jazz.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Yeah, I mean, I think it'd be very hard to
tell if somebody is potential long term boyfriend material or
a husband material after one date. I'm more interested that
it was Ika that got you to kind of turn around.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
You're like, oh hello, I mean that's why we had
a good first impression.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
But if I had to throw it a second impression
and there, I'd be more than happy too.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
I mean, you guys are dates. Hikia is a move.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (10:29):
Maybe we could go to Ikea together and I'll see.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I personally as a dude. I feel like Drew hearing
that from you and still trying to convince you to
go out with him his husband material because I know
for me, especially when I was when I was single
and I didn't want to get married at all. I'm
married now, but that took a long time to get there.
And if I was out with someone and I heard
them say that, or I went out with someone I
heard them say that, I'd be like, well, cool, I'm
(10:53):
not your material. Definitely not because I didn't want to
get married, you know.
Speaker 7 (10:57):
Okay, Julie, as a dude, I heard your response, But
can I have the charge response?
Speaker 2 (11:02):
I don't think a second date would be a bad thing.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Okay, well what if?
Speaker 7 (11:09):
What if I'm willing to do one more we give
it one more try? Should we give it one more try?
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Jess? Would you like to go out on another date
with Drew? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Okay, that settles it. Let's go true all.
Speaker 5 (11:22):
Right, sweet, But this time, Jess, you can't go sim
You just have to straight up say, I still don't
think you're my husband.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
We can go, We'll have a great time, but I
won't marry you. I still don't think you're my husband.
Speaker 4 (11:37):
By little, little, by, little baby chefs, baby chefs, stay tuned.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Everybody check in.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
With us and let us know. Jess, congratulations, Drew, you
got another date man.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
Thank you guys. That works out well.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Then you will show on demand