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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First day of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocateslaw dot com. Jesse is on the
phone today for her first day follow up and he's
getting ghosted by a girl named Danica. So in a
few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell
us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
But first, Jesse, how long has it been since you
heard from her.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I've been about a week now.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Okay, what was your last interaction with her?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
We went on a date to a baseball game.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
And at the end we hugged for a pretty long
period of time and did the French.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Thing cheek and she said that she was gonna call
me a little bit later that night. And when I
messaged her the.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Next day because I just assumed, you know, she got
came with.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Her friends, had a good time and she was okay,
I just didn't even hear back and tried again and
a bit confused because I really dig spending time with her,
and I'm a.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Bit shy and I didn't feel that way around her.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Specifically, So that's always nice.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Well, why don't you tell us about the date then?
How did you guys meet and what happened.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
So originally we met on the app, I think to
find the right.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Person, and what app was it? It was tender okay, So.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
We had like a good banter for a couple of weeks.
We both really liked.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Baseball, so we thought, hey, how about a low pressure day,
we'll catch a game. We get there hot dogs beer.
We ran into some of our co workers, which is
a little bit of a bummer, but I didn't say
anything because you know, this is our first time hanging out.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
We don't really know each other that well.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
We spent a decent amount of time with them at
the game down by the bar. I was really just
interested in getting to know her, not really her friends,
just because you know, it's the first thing. And I
don't want to, you know, be your friend. I want
to be something a little bit more than that. I
kind of ended up getting sky and I watched a
bit more of this game on the screen than interacting
(02:03):
with her friends. And I hope that she didn't take
it that like I don't like her friends or I
feel entitled to her time. It's just I get nervous
in my group settings like that where everybody knows each
other and.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I'm a guy that's on a day with your friends.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
So that's the only thing that I'm thinking that might
have gone wrong.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Because we went back to her.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
She we had a good time, and then she invited
me to go hang out with her front again, but
I said, I'd rather.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
You spend some more time with her.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
So we had an extra drink and.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Then she said, Hey, I really should get going to
my friends because it's good for work. And I find
that remarkably attractive in a woman that cares about her
goal and what she's working on, because that just makes
a great partner in life.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
I was all for that.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
I even stuck around that area for a bit longer,
hoping I see her after she got a chance to
meet able to work colleagues.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Yeah, so that's when she was supposed to call you again.
Was after that.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Yeah, so she was gonna call me after she hung
out with her friends if I was still in the area.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Yet I felt a pretty good connection, so I wanted
to stick around the area. I just didn't want to
become a friend in that circle of friends.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
I mean, it's a lot of pressure on the first
time meeting anybody to have friends around. Yeah, you know
you're being judge, So why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I think it might have just been the fact that
I was a bit shy around her friends, and that
might have came off as I.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Didn't like them. It's obviously not an attractive thing to
say when you're trying to get out with someone. Hey,
I get a bit shy, and sometimes it'specially as.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
I mean, I can see not wanting to share that
right away. All right, well, we'll see if we can
figure it out for you. We'll play a song come Back,
and then call her and see what she'll tell us
why she's ghosting you, and then get you another day
if you're still wanting okay, all right, all right, we'll
play a song come Back, get your first ay follow
up next. Right in the middle of your first day
(03:59):
follow up if you're just joining us, Jesse is on
the phone and he's getting ghosted by Danica. So in
a second we're going to call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date. But before we do that, Jesse, why
don't you refresh everybody's memory on your day with Danaka.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
I met Danica tender and we at Vanda meeting up
at a baseball game.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
We hung out with.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Her and some of her friends for a little.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Bit, and then we had some great quality time by herself.
I was supposed to hear from her later that day,
but it's been about a week and I still haven't.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Heard from her.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
All right, you ready to call her?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
I'm hoping you guys can help me out because she's
really someone sus me too.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
All right, here we go. Are you ready? I'm going
to call her right now? Hello, Hi, may speak to Danica.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Please.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Yes, this is hi Danica.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:02):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jubil Show. Whole show is here, Danica. Hi,
my name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
Oh hi, how are you?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Not much? Just chilling second? And do you listen to
the show ever?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I have?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
Actually?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yeah, Well, thank you very much for that. I appreciate it.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
Wow, what can I do for you? Guys?
Speaker 1 (05:25):
We actually have a question for you because I don't
know if you've heard a first date follow up before?
Have you?
Speaker 5 (05:31):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I have?
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Actually?
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Okay, so that's the segment where if you go on
a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them.
They can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting.
Speaker 5 (05:43):
Got it? Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Right?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Hey, so we got an email about you from somebody.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Huh, Okay, do.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
You know who you're ghosting?
Speaker 5 (05:56):
I mean, no one intentionally.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Really have you gone on a lot of dates Stanica?
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Uh, I mean I've gone on a few here in
the past couple of months. But who is this regarding it?
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Says it's been a week since your date and you
haven't talked to him at all.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
Got it?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (06:19):
We're talking about Jesse.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Yes, we are, okay, are you okay?
Speaker 5 (06:27):
I feel like I didn't want to follow up with
him because Jesse actually got one of my coworker's.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Numbers, what and like while on your date.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
Yeah, and my coworker told me that they had exchange
numbers or something when she and she told me that
when I met back up with her.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
So were you there? Did you go somewhere like to
the bathroom or something? And then he got her number?
Speaker 5 (06:58):
I guess I like, you know, went to the bathroom. Yeah,
I went to the bathroom. I got a coke, you know,
And I mean I had no idea obviously that it
happened until afterwards, and I just found it like really
funny because I mean, he is so sweet, he's so great,
and I really loved the date actually, but he didn't
(07:20):
strike me as like boy foot.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Oh that's so disappointing.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Yeah, I know, I was. I was sad about it
and disappointed. I liked him.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Did he talk to your coworker, like, is he trying
to get a date with her? I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
I kind of I kind of like just let it
lie like since then. So that's all I know is
that like a number was exchange. I guess I could
ask her. I just kind of wanted to move on
from it.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
You know, you could ask well him because he's actually
on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (07:57):
Oh I.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Hey, Danica, Oh my god, so you heard all that.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
This is what happened. Your co worker when I was just.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
Watching the game, came up to me and put her
number on an askin and put it in my pocket.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
I threw it away before we even.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Got back to our seats because I had no intention
on calling her or even getting to know her, because
that's just disrespectful and that's not how I was raised.
I was into you, And the reason I didn't bring
it up is I don't really know your relationship with her.
It just seem like a caddy thing for me to
say or something that it especially like I'm so cool
(08:42):
that your friend tried to hit on me and I
didn't do it, And I didn't want to virtue segnal
because I just think that's like an unattractive quality, which
is why I didn't bring it up. It just wasn't
part of my even thought process because that's just not
the type of person I am.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
Huh, Okay, So we let me get this straight. You're
saying that she gave her number to you in the
first place, did you like do anything at all, like
to give her the idea that there was a chance.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
No, I was just like even casually friendly.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
I'm a I don't know if you picked up on this,
but I'm a bit shy around doing people.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
And yeah, I know it is.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
A general smile and like a friendly greeting is about
the exchange of our conversation.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
I was gonna say, you don't you didn't sound like
when we were talking to you earlier, like somebody who
would be hitting on everybody date. I feel like I
have a lot of questions for your coworker.
Speaker 5 (09:44):
But wow, yeah, wow, that's not the story that I
got at all. That's really crazy.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
I'm actually like, I'm sorry that like happened to you
and not like put us in such a weird situation.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
How close of a friend is your coworker, Danica.
Speaker 5 (10:05):
I mean, you know, we're not like best friends, but
I mean, you know, I know that she does have
a flirty personality and everything, So I just figured that
she's getting hit on all the time. So I didn't
think that like she was hitting on someone else's like date.
That's just so weird.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
It is very Yeah, I mean you want to talk
about girl code.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
But yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Audestly, she put a number on a paper, put it
in my pocket, and it scared me a little bit.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
I jumped, you know.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Get out of my pocket.
Speaker 5 (10:40):
Yeah, my god, I chucked if I.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Still had my wallet.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
I was nervous.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Would you like to go on to another date with Jesse?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
Oh, I somehow find you very like endearing. I believe
you you sound genuine and yeah, I'll give it another shot.
And I'm definitely going to confront my coworkers, but thank
you for.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Telling me what happened, Danica. If you need backup, Victoria
and I are here.
Speaker 4 (11:09):
Thanks y'all, well and Danica.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
I'm excited to see you, Sarona because I really did
have a great time with you, and that this time,
let's avoid both of our co workers and get to
know more about each other.
Speaker 5 (11:22):
Yeah, no co workers this time, promise.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Yayayh my god.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
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