February 4, 2025 • 12 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
======
This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…
➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts
======
The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places:
- Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com
- Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow
- X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow
- Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show
- YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh
======
Meet The Jubal Show Cast:
======
- Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/
- Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/
- Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/
- Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/
- Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/
Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribe
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocuslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Lisia is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James.
So in a second we're going to call him and
see if I'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and
maybe get her another date. But first, Lesia, how long
has it been since you heard from James.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yeah, it's been about a week.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
And then how many times have you reached out to
him in that time?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah, like kind of a bunch. I was, uh, you know,
I was texting a bunch. You know, we had a
great connection and you know, you know, I was we
were trying to get together and you know, I texted
a few times, and you know, we had a plan.
He canceled. We felt like he needed the weekend to recover.
I offered to make him soup, which he declined, and I,
(00:48):
you know, and then after that, I texted him a
couple of times. You know, he's feeling and like nothing.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
So, did your date happen or this was after the date?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Well, well we had a first date, okay, okay, but
then after that nothing happened.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Okay, Well, tell us about the date.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Well, we met Unhinge first of all, and like we
talked a little bit, and we wanted to go out
because we both like really like food and travel and stuff.
And he's in a band and I used to sing
in a band, so we had like a lot of
great connections. And so we met for cocktails and we
like bounced around and got tacos and ended up at
this like karaoke place, which was really fun. After karaoke,
(01:28):
we went back to his place and we were hanging
out and like cuddling and stuff. But we did look up,
but there was like a lot of like affection myself.
And in the morning we kissed and like we pramned
on seeing each other again like the next weekend. So
that was the date.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Is there anything that happened on the date that could
have been awkward or something that would cause him to
not want to talk to you again?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
So I talked this over like a bit, and I
think there might have been which I like won't apologize for,
and like I've been feeling bad about it. So like
when we were like hanging out and cuddling, he like
pulls down his phone to play me like a rough
edit of his band's new song, and I was excited
to hear it. I was glad he wanted to share
(02:12):
it with me, And you know, because I was on
the music background, I didn't feel like I knew to
hold back what I thought, you know, So I mean
I told him, I was like, I think this is
like a great idea for a song. I said, like
some of the lyrics were a little cheesy, and you know,
his voice was a little tipsy and certain points, and
like one of the lyrics in particular was like about
(02:33):
her love being like a sugar rush eating a box
of Krispy cream or something. Okay, I like laughed at that,
and then I kept like asking him if I made
him feel like he was eating a box of Kristy cream.
And I thought it was being funny, like I was joking,
and like I think I may have crushed him. I
don't know, maybe I took it too far. So I
feel like he's apologized.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah, but I mean it sounds like you were being
more playful.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
No, I was just saying, like that's how I felt,
like that's what the intention was.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Jubill, you are doing music now too, so like think
about this scenario. Wouldn't it be just kind of cute, like,
you're not are you going to be offended?
Speaker 4 (03:11):
No, I wouldn't be.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I'm also a super harsh critic on myself, so I'd
be like, you're right, the whole.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Thing is craft. I'll throw it out. You're all over that,
I quit it all.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
So I would just totally be like, yeah, thanks for
the honest feedback I saw.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
That would also be a major turnoff and problem. Also, Okay,
so maybe maybe he was a little but hurt.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Maybe I mean it might be so I feel like,
I don't know. I feel like we need to get
him on the phone, Like you need to get a
third party and to get him on the phone's phone
because he's just ghosting me so like and I just
want to apologize.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
We'll play a song and we'll come back and then
we'll call him and see if it tell us why
he's ghosting you and maybe get to another date with
krispy Kreme Boy. Okay, should we not call him chrispy
Creme boy? He disappear, all right, Well, p leas'll come
back and get your first A follow up next. Right
(04:18):
in the middle of our first date follow up if
you're just joining us, Alesha is on the phone and
she's getting ghosted by a guy named James. So we're
about to call him and see if you'll tell us
why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Lisha,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 6 (04:32):
Yeah, so, I when I had a date with this
guy James, it like went really well.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
We had cocktails and tacos, and we had karaoke and
all this stuff, and you know, we bonded because he's
in a band and I used to sing in a band,
and you know, we have a lot of common interests.
And I feel like and he hasn't tested me back
in a week, so and I feel like something might
have gone wrong the night we were on the date.
I feel like I might have kind of heard his
(04:59):
feelings making one of one of his lyrics which involves
Krispy Kreme, which I kept springing up. No, I don't know.
I feel like I might have sent him and I
need to apologize. And also he's ghosting me.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
So that's where we are, all right, Are you ready
for us to call him?
Speaker 7 (05:15):
Sure?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Okay? Here we go. Hello him as speaking to James. Please, yeah,
speaking James. How are you?
Speaker 8 (05:32):
Man?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
My name is Jubell. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Hi, James, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 7 (05:38):
How are you? Oh? Cool, wonderful. I'm doing good man,
I'm geting any culs on radio? But what's up?
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Yeah, okay, thank you? Yeah. Have you ever heard a
first date follow up before?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (05:52):
Yeah, yeah I have? Is this one of these things?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
First day follow up?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
You know that's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody,
they can email us and then ask goes to call
you and ask why you're ghosting them. Somebody emailed us
about you, James, Oh boy?
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Any idea? Who would be?
Speaker 7 (06:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (06:08):
Maybe someone I met someone online, like a little more
than a week ago.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Is that someone's name? Lisha?
Speaker 7 (06:16):
Yeah? Yeah, Lisha?
Speaker 4 (06:17):
Oh yeah yeah. Well.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Lisia emailed us and told us about your day. She
said she really liked you, but she's confused. Can you
tell us why you're ghosting her?
Speaker 8 (06:27):
I really liked her, but man, she's too much. She
texted me on Saturday to ask about Well, first of all,
I got sick, right, so, like I got sick a
little bit afterwards, but not the runa nothing, But like,
you know, she texted me on Saturday to ask me
about soup, and then again to tell me good night
(06:48):
and then text me a list of vitamins I should be.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
Taking because you were sick.
Speaker 8 (06:54):
Yeah, you know, it was like it was like a
trip or a DoorDash GNC, you know, the whole bag full.
And then like not soon after asking if I missed her,
this this whole thing about like if I wanted Krispy Kremes, Like,
ask me if I wanted Krispy Krean. It's a it's
a joke about some stupid lyric I made, and and
(07:16):
and I mean just more text on and on and on.
I'm not even giving you all.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
That was one day that happened all on the same day.
Speaker 8 (07:23):
Yeah, and this is someone I had just talked to
online that came over, we cuddled, I mean, the sweet
it was great, you know, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
But after all this just piling on and just happening
so soon I just.
Speaker 8 (07:37):
Stopped responding because like I needed to rest, and I
wake up. It's like, I mean I lose like twelve
text messages from her. I don't respond, but I get
even more the next day. Eventually, I just I just
block her because I feel like that kind of energy
(07:58):
I felt it gives me a lot of anxiety.
Speaker 7 (08:01):
It's like, and I'm gonna go with the flow kind
of guy.
Speaker 8 (08:04):
And when I just kissed Raw Raw, it's like, first off,
it doesn't know me feel better, but then it's like,
this is someone I just met.
Speaker 7 (08:11):
Sweet girl.
Speaker 8 (08:12):
I mean, she came over, it was great, the date
was amazing, Karaoke was fun, and yeah, like we talked,
thought it was going to turn into something. But then
the text, just the messaging, it was just nah, nah,
it was just a note going.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I mean, it sounds like she was just concerned because
you were sick.
Speaker 5 (08:31):
Now, granted, twelve and maybe twenty four text messages might
be a lot in two days, but the initial reach
out probably was kind of nice.
Speaker 6 (08:40):
Though.
Speaker 8 (08:40):
No, I mean, I get it, she's very sweet, but
it's just someone I just started talking to online and
it just started giving me the vibe that this is
the kind of person that's going to.
Speaker 7 (08:51):
Give me a whole lot of anxiety. I don't. I
just wanted peace.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Okay, Well, speaking of peace, James, I will let you
know that Lisha's actually on the phone listening and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (09:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Hi, Oh huh, Alicia do a problem getting close to people,
Like do you know how to ask when anyone cares
about you? Like I was just trying to show you
that I cared And I'm like actually a good caretaker
in like times like this.
Speaker 8 (09:18):
I get it, But it's just we just had one
date after a little bit of online conversation, and I
just feel, Look, you're sweet, wonderful, but I just feel
that we're nowhere close to the come over and make
me soup stage of this relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Oh okay, Well, you said on your hind that you
wanted to be intentional about the time we spend together
and to prioritize the growth, and I feel like I
was doing that. So I don't know what there is about.
Speaker 8 (09:49):
This that you don't you wouldn't like, can we go
further than or can we have a relationship first? Can
we like have some other there's there's steps to this before.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Or okay, wait wait, I'm not ready to be in
a relationship with you.
Speaker 8 (10:05):
Oh look, that's that's that's not what I said. Okay,
that's that's not what I said. It's I feel there's
a little miscommunication here.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Well yeah, I mean I'm not well, you just mentioned
wanting to have a relationship first, Like you talk about
me texting a lot, and you're already talking about a relationship.
So I don't know what the problem is with my
texting when you're like, I want a relationship right now?
Speaker 8 (10:30):
What. No, I'm not I'm not saying right now. It's
just that I just don't want to jump into things
that just lead to anxiety. And just like already we're
checking each other's mental health. Like I'm just trying to
just go go with the vibe that we had that
was that was real good. It just felt like this
was this was just in a different place, and I
(10:51):
was just like, I don't.
Speaker 7 (10:52):
Want to grow with this.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
You are living way too fast, James.
Speaker 8 (11:00):
Look, I just I just I'm I'm all for like
all those texts in the soup, but I just feel
that there's there's just a sequence to it that just.
Speaker 7 (11:09):
You know, rocks my boat a certain way.
Speaker 8 (11:12):
And and like I'm sorry for for miscommunicating or or like,
you know, just going outside the vibe that we had
and I just feel I just feel like we want
the wrong direction with that.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Well, James, would you like another date with Lisa?
Speaker 6 (11:25):
We'll pay for it, James, I just so you know,
I will go on another date with you, but I
just want to let you know, like I'm not gonna
get together with you right.
Speaker 7 (11:34):
Now, just so you know.
Speaker 6 (11:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (11:38):
So, uh, like I said, I'm not interested in rushing
in and getting together right now. I I'm sorry about
the miscommunication, but I'm willing to give this another go,
just as long as you don't mention the Krispy Kremes.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Okay, but we're not going to be like dating yet,
Like this is just a date date, not like a
dating date.
Speaker 7 (12:00):
Look, don't worry, I'm not trying to wipe you up
just yet.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Wait a minute, you want to wife me up like that?
Hold on, why are we jumping to marriage?
Speaker 2 (12:10):
I don't think James wants to marry you yet. I
think you guys should just go out one more day
and see how it goes.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Okay, Okay, yeah, all right, you will first date, follow
up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocuslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Lisia is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James.
So in a second we're going to call him and
see if I'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and
maybe get her another date. But first, Lesia, how long
has it been since you heard from James.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yeah, it's been about a week.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
And then how many times have you reached out to
him in that time?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah, like kind of a bunch. I was, uh, you know,
I was texting a bunch. You know, we had a
great connection and you know, you know, I was we
were trying to get together and you know, I texted
a few times, and you know, we had a plan.
He canceled. We felt like he needed the weekend to recover.
I offered to make him soup, which he declined, and I,
(00:48):
you know, and then after that, I texted him a
couple of times. You know, he's feeling and like nothing.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
So, did your date happen or this was after the date?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Well, well we had a first date, okay, okay, but
then after that nothing happened.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Okay, Well, tell us about the date.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Well, we met Unhinge first of all, and like we
talked a little bit, and we wanted to go out
because we both like really like food and travel and stuff.
And he's in a band and I used to sing
in a band, so we had like a lot of
great connections. And so we met for cocktails and we
like bounced around and got tacos and ended up at
this like karaoke place, which was really fun. After karaoke,
(01:28):
we went back to his place and we were hanging
out and like cuddling and stuff. But we did look up,
but there was like a lot of like affection myself.
And in the morning we kissed and like we pramned
on seeing each other again like the next weekend. So
that was the date.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Is there anything that happened on the date that could
have been awkward or something that would cause him to
not want to talk to you again?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
So I talked this over like a bit, and I
think there might have been which I like won't apologize for,
and like I've been feeling bad about it. So like
when we were like hanging out and cuddling, he like
pulls down his phone to play me like a rough
edit of his band's new song, and I was excited
to hear it. I was glad he wanted to share
(02:12):
it with me, And you know, because I was on
the music background, I didn't feel like I knew to
hold back what I thought, you know, So I mean
I told him, I was like, I think this is
like a great idea for a song. I said, like
some of the lyrics were a little cheesy, and you know,
his voice was a little tipsy and certain points, and
like one of the lyrics in particular was like about
(02:33):
her love being like a sugar rush eating a box
of Krispy cream or something. Okay, I like laughed at that,
and then I kept like asking him if I made
him feel like he was eating a box of Kristy cream.
And I thought it was being funny, like I was joking,
and like I think I may have crushed him. I
don't know, maybe I took it too far. So I
feel like he's apologized.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah, but I mean it sounds like you were being
more playful.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
No, I was just saying, like that's how I felt,
like that's what the intention was.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Jubill, you are doing music now too, so like think
about this scenario. Wouldn't it be just kind of cute, like,
you're not are you going to be offended?
Speaker 4 (03:11):
No, I wouldn't be.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I'm also a super harsh critic on myself, so I'd
be like, you're right, the whole.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Thing is craft. I'll throw it out. You're all over that,
I quit it all.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
So I would just totally be like, yeah, thanks for
the honest feedback I saw.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
That would also be a major turnoff and problem. Also, Okay,
so maybe maybe he was a little but hurt.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Maybe I mean it might be so I feel like,
I don't know. I feel like we need to get
him on the phone, Like you need to get a
third party and to get him on the phone's phone
because he's just ghosting me so like and I just
want to apologize.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
We'll play a song and we'll come back and then
we'll call him and see if it tell us why
he's ghosting you and maybe get to another date with
krispy Kreme Boy. Okay, should we not call him chrispy
Creme boy? He disappear, all right, Well, p leas'll come
back and get your first A follow up next. Right
(04:18):
in the middle of our first date follow up if
you're just joining us, Alesha is on the phone and
she's getting ghosted by a guy named James. So we're
about to call him and see if you'll tell us
why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Lisha,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 6 (04:32):
Yeah, so, I when I had a date with this
guy James, it like went really well.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
We had cocktails and tacos, and we had karaoke and
all this stuff, and you know, we bonded because he's
in a band and I used to sing in a band,
and you know, we have a lot of common interests.
And I feel like and he hasn't tested me back
in a week, so and I feel like something might
have gone wrong the night we were on the date.
I feel like I might have kind of heard his
(04:59):
feelings making one of one of his lyrics which involves
Krispy Kreme, which I kept springing up. No, I don't know.
I feel like I might have sent him and I
need to apologize. And also he's ghosting me.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
So that's where we are, all right, Are you ready
for us to call him?
Speaker 7 (05:15):
Sure?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Okay? Here we go. Hello him as speaking to James. Please, yeah,
speaking James. How are you?
Speaker 8 (05:32):
Man?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
My name is Jubell. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Hi, James, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 7 (05:38):
How are you? Oh? Cool, wonderful. I'm doing good man,
I'm geting any culs on radio? But what's up?
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Yeah, okay, thank you? Yeah. Have you ever heard a
first date follow up before?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (05:52):
Yeah, yeah I have? Is this one of these things?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
First day follow up?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
You know that's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody,
they can email us and then ask goes to call
you and ask why you're ghosting them. Somebody emailed us
about you, James, Oh boy?
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Any idea? Who would be?
Speaker 7 (06:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (06:08):
Maybe someone I met someone online, like a little more
than a week ago.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Is that someone's name? Lisha?
Speaker 7 (06:16):
Yeah? Yeah, Lisha?
Speaker 4 (06:17):
Oh yeah yeah. Well.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Lisia emailed us and told us about your day. She
said she really liked you, but she's confused. Can you
tell us why you're ghosting her?
Speaker 8 (06:27):
I really liked her, but man, she's too much. She
texted me on Saturday to ask about Well, first of all,
I got sick, right, so, like I got sick a
little bit afterwards, but not the runa nothing, But like,
you know, she texted me on Saturday to ask me
about soup, and then again to tell me good night
(06:48):
and then text me a list of vitamins I should be.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
Taking because you were sick.
Speaker 8 (06:54):
Yeah, you know, it was like it was like a
trip or a DoorDash GNC, you know, the whole bag full.
And then like not soon after asking if I missed her,
this this whole thing about like if I wanted Krispy Kremes, Like,
ask me if I wanted Krispy Krean. It's a it's
a joke about some stupid lyric I made, and and
(07:16):
and I mean just more text on and on and on.
I'm not even giving you all.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
That was one day that happened all on the same day.
Speaker 8 (07:23):
Yeah, and this is someone I had just talked to
online that came over, we cuddled, I mean, the sweet
it was great, you know, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
But after all this just piling on and just happening
so soon I just.
Speaker 8 (07:37):
Stopped responding because like I needed to rest, and I
wake up. It's like, I mean I lose like twelve
text messages from her. I don't respond, but I get
even more the next day. Eventually, I just I just
block her because I feel like that kind of energy
(07:58):
I felt it gives me a lot of anxiety.
Speaker 7 (08:01):
It's like, and I'm gonna go with the flow kind
of guy.
Speaker 8 (08:04):
And when I just kissed Raw Raw, it's like, first off,
it doesn't know me feel better, but then it's like,
this is someone I just met.
Speaker 7 (08:11):
Sweet girl.
Speaker 8 (08:12):
I mean, she came over, it was great, the date
was amazing, Karaoke was fun, and yeah, like we talked,
thought it was going to turn into something. But then
the text, just the messaging, it was just nah, nah,
it was just a note going.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I mean, it sounds like she was just concerned because
you were sick.
Speaker 5 (08:31):
Now, granted, twelve and maybe twenty four text messages might
be a lot in two days, but the initial reach
out probably was kind of nice.
Speaker 6 (08:40):
Though.
Speaker 8 (08:40):
No, I mean, I get it, she's very sweet, but
it's just someone I just started talking to online and
it just started giving me the vibe that this is
the kind of person that's going to.
Speaker 7 (08:51):
Give me a whole lot of anxiety. I don't. I
just wanted peace.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Okay, Well, speaking of peace, James, I will let you
know that Lisha's actually on the phone listening and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (09:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Hi, Oh huh, Alicia do a problem getting close to people,
Like do you know how to ask when anyone cares
about you? Like I was just trying to show you
that I cared And I'm like actually a good caretaker
in like times like this.
Speaker 8 (09:18):
I get it, But it's just we just had one
date after a little bit of online conversation, and I
just feel, Look, you're sweet, wonderful, but I just feel
that we're nowhere close to the come over and make
me soup stage of this relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Oh okay, Well, you said on your hind that you
wanted to be intentional about the time we spend together
and to prioritize the growth, and I feel like I
was doing that. So I don't know what there is about.
Speaker 8 (09:49):
This that you don't you wouldn't like, can we go
further than or can we have a relationship first? Can
we like have some other there's there's steps to this before.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Or okay, wait wait, I'm not ready to be in
a relationship with you.
Speaker 8 (10:05):
Oh look, that's that's that's not what I said. Okay,
that's that's not what I said. It's I feel there's
a little miscommunication here.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Well yeah, I mean I'm not well, you just mentioned
wanting to have a relationship first, Like you talk about
me texting a lot, and you're already talking about a relationship.
So I don't know what the problem is with my
texting when you're like, I want a relationship right now?
Speaker 8 (10:30):
What. No, I'm not I'm not saying right now. It's
just that I just don't want to jump into things
that just lead to anxiety. And just like already we're
checking each other's mental health. Like I'm just trying to
just go go with the vibe that we had that
was that was real good. It just felt like this
was this was just in a different place, and I
(10:51):
was just like, I don't.
Speaker 7 (10:52):
Want to grow with this.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
You are living way too fast, James.
Speaker 8 (11:00):
Look, I just I just I'm I'm all for like
all those texts in the soup, but I just feel
that there's there's just a sequence to it that just.
Speaker 7 (11:09):
You know, rocks my boat a certain way.
Speaker 8 (11:12):
And and like I'm sorry for for miscommunicating or or like,
you know, just going outside the vibe that we had
and I just feel I just feel like we want
the wrong direction with that.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Well, James, would you like another date with Lisa?
Speaker 6 (11:25):
We'll pay for it, James, I just so you know,
I will go on another date with you, but I
just want to let you know, like I'm not gonna
get together with you right.
Speaker 7 (11:34):
Now, just so you know.
Speaker 6 (11:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (11:38):
So, uh, like I said, I'm not interested in rushing
in and getting together right now. I I'm sorry about
the miscommunication, but I'm willing to give this another go,
just as long as you don't mention the Krispy Kremes.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Okay, but we're not going to be like dating yet,
Like this is just a date date, not like a
dating date.
Speaker 7 (12:00):
Look, don't worry, I'm not trying to wipe you up
just yet.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Wait a minute, you want to wife me up like that?
Hold on, why are we jumping to marriage?
Speaker 2 (12:10):
I don't think James wants to marry you yet. I
think you guys should just go out one more day
and see how it goes.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Okay, Okay, yeah, all right, you will first date, follow
up
Host
Jubal Fresh
Popular Podcasts
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!
The Bobby Bones Show
Listen to 'The Bobby Bones Show' by downloading the daily full replay.
The Joe Rogan Experience
The official podcast of comedian Joe Rogan.