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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Riley is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Michael.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
But first, Riley, how long has it been since you
talked to Michael.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
It's been about a week.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Have you reached out to him at all?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Yeah? Yeah, I've tried calling and texting, but you don't
want to do it too much, you know, right, But
and that's that I should get a response.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
So would he'd just be having a busy week.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
I can't help but ask that whenever it's like a week.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
No, Because before we were supposed to go out, you know,
we talked quite a bit, and.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Then after we were scheduled to go out, it was
like he was m I A.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
Yeah, you can tell the difference for sure. Yeah, why
don't you tell us about how you met him and
like how the date went?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Okay, Well, we met on bumble and I noticed that
he lived close to a pub. You know that I
usually go to.
Speaker 6 (01:03):
It's right near my work.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
And so we messaged and we planned on you know, uh,
you know, we talked a little bit. It seemed really good.
I like jazz. I grew up you know, my dad
loved jazz, so I grew up that way. So he
had this whole evening planned. We were going to go
to a jazz club. And that morning I got.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Sick, like food poison me I breakfast.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Yeah, it was really bad.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
So I text him and just said, hey, you know,
I'm sick, can't make it, and you know I wasn't
going to go into detail, you don't want to know details.
And ever since then, I mean, no response at all,
and this whole week, you know, I kind of hey,
how are you can we you know, schedule another date
and nothing.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
So well, how did he react when you said you
were sick?
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Though?
Speaker 3 (01:52):
He just didn't respond to you?
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Or was he like, oh respond, No, it didn't respond
at all, which was really weird because before that, you know,
he was so sweet. We did talk a lot, you know,
got to know each other through text, you know how
that goes back and forth. And I mean he's super hot.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I'm not too shabby, I would say, but yeah, it
was just really nice and great conversation and he seemed
super sweet.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
And then I mean, I wasn't going to go. Obviously
you're not going to force yourself to go. I'm just
saying that it was very bad.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
And you know, I figured at least he would.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Say, oh, I'm sorry, how about we reschedule or text
me when you feel better? But absolutely nothing, like, no
no response, no thumbs up. I mean I would have
even taken an emoji. But you know, because at least
they acknowledge that, you know, whether good or bad. Sometimes
you just want to say, just answer, yeah, just answer,
(02:50):
no matter what you say, just answer and nothing.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Is there anything that you can think of? There would
be a reason for him the ghost you, I mean,
other than being sick.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
You know.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I wonder if he like had other girls on the roster.
Oh so whenever she said that she was sick, he
like picked out another one. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
I just wonder because I mean, when you were playing
the apps, you know, like not everybody is just focused
on one person.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Now what you're think of when someone's sick, Nina, I
don't know, Oh, he says roster.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
Yeah, well you're talking to the girl that accused somebody
of faking his illness not to see me. So, yeah,
I don't know, I might jump to those conclusions.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
I'm not.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
I don't know that that's for sure what happened. But
it's kind of bizarre just not to respond at all.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Cently men on Bumble, that might be actually really getting
something good reason.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
All play song come back, and then call him and
sefa tell us why he's ghosting you, and maybe get
you another date. Okay, ok, all right, well play song
come back and get your first aid, follow up.
Speaker 6 (03:49):
Next.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
Fight.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
In the middle of your first date follow up, if
you're just joining us, Riley is on the phone. She's
getting ghosted by a guy named Michael, and she has
no idea why. So in a second we're gonna call
him and see if I tell us why he's a ghostinger
and maybe get her another date. But first, Riley, why
don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Well, basically, we met on Bumble. It was gone great,
lots of conversation. We were supposed to meet for a date,
and I got sick that morning and like really bad
food poisoning and so I texted him, told him I
was sick and been ghosted ever since.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
That's so weird. Well we'll see what the deal is.
But yeah, all right, Well are you ready for us
to call him?
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (04:37):
Yeah, okay, okay, Hello.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Him asking to Michael please, Well, yeah's to see Hey man,
how are you?
Speaker 5 (05:01):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Michael, I'm Nina also
on the Jubil Show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
How are you guys?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Good? Sounds like you listen to the show.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Yeah, here and there?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Okay, sweet, Here and there is a great way to listen. Well,
we're calling you today. Yeah that's true. Have you heard
of a first day follow up before?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Okay, cool. Well what did you say if I told
you that you're you're currently the star of one?
Speaker 1 (05:33):
How is that possible?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
I'm gonna dating a while.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
I just like it.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
There is somebody that emailed us and told us that
you're ghosting them, and they want to know why.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Oh.
Speaker 7 (05:47):
I mean I wouldn't necessarily call it ghosting, but.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
That's what this is about.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Well, yeah, do you know who it is?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Riley?
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
It is Riley.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
She emailed us, said that she really liked you, and
you guys are all set to go out, and then
she got sick and then you ghosted her.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Again.
Speaker 7 (06:07):
I wouldn't necessarily characterize it as ghosting, but I mean
we talked for a while and we you know, put
together at date, and you know, for whatever reason, she
either chose to not want to go, or she met
somebody else, or she had a better offer or I
who knows it, but she decided not to go.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
And you know, I'm not going to dwell on it.
Speaker 7 (06:28):
I'm over it. You know, there's other people out there,
and you know, I really don't need.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
This right now. I don't play games.
Speaker 5 (06:35):
So you receive a text that says, I'm sorry, I
can't make it. I'm sick, And do you feel like
you can't deal with that?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Well, it's the first date, sure, so yeah, but you.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Know, I mean I was legitimately sick, right Michael.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
That is Riley. She's actually on the phone listening.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Yeah, Oh, Riley, I.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Mean, Hi, Hi, So you were sick.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
I I I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
I don't play games.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
It was I.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
That's why I text you. I'm like, I'm sick. I'm
not going to tell you what was going on physically.
That's it's not cool, that's not I mean no, so
I just figured you would be Okay, that sucks. How
about we reschedule and go out again because we were
hitting it off. I mean okay, So you assume that
I was thinking something else, that's.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
You, not me.
Speaker 8 (07:33):
Maybe I would have wanted to know something, so yeah,
I mean listen, so I would totally you know, I
mean that's your assuming, that's you.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
So I would have been open to it, but maybe
I would have wanted to.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Know, you know, the details.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
Do you ever think that, well, I don't think that
you want to know that I was going to the
bathroom like every so often. That's not something.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
That you.
Speaker 8 (07:59):
That's tm.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
I No, I didn't need to hear that part, but
it would.
Speaker 8 (08:03):
Have been you know, hey, you know, it wouldn't be
good like just a one line text. You know, it
didn't you know, it just didn't feel right, And I
don't know, I'd still be open to it. You know,
if you're not going to be sick this time.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Okay, cool, then Michael's you'd like to go on another
date with Riley? Will pay for it?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Yeah, most definitely cool Riley, Congratulations, you got another date?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
All right?
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Sweet congratulations, thank you so much. I guess I know
you respond to text messages and you don't have that problem.
Speaker 6 (08:34):
Jeuble's first Day follow up.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
It's The Jewbile Show's Free Trip to Jamaica.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
Dreaming of a Caribbean escape, The Jubil Show wants to
share the beauty of Jamaica and send you and a
guest on an all inclusive trip to Paradise with Pio
hotels and resorts with.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Five stunning properties to choose from. There's something for everyone.
Blue Mountain views to the turquoise Caribbean. Cea Bio Hotels
and Resource has your ideal destination for your Jamaican getaway.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
Enter for your very own four days, three night, all
inclusive State of Jamaica with eight hundred dollars voucher towards airfare.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Go to the Jubilshow dot com and enter the word
sun good luck.
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Riley is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Michael.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
But first, Riley, how long has it been since you
talked to Michael.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
It's been about a week.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Have you reached out to him at all?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Yeah? Yeah, I've tried calling and texting, but you don't
want to do it too much, you know, right, But
and that's that I should get a response.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
So would he'd just be having a busy week.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
I can't help but ask that whenever it's like a week.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
No, Because before we were supposed to go out, you know,
we talked quite a bit, and.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Then after we were scheduled to go out, it was
like he was m I A.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
Yeah, you can tell the difference for sure. Yeah, why
don't you tell us about how you met him and
like how the date went?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Okay, Well, we met on bumble and I noticed that
he lived close to a pub. You know that I
usually go to.
Speaker 6 (01:03):
It's right near my work.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
And so we messaged and we planned on you know, uh,
you know, we talked a little bit. It seemed really good.
I like jazz. I grew up you know, my dad
loved jazz, so I grew up that way. So he
had this whole evening planned. We were going to go
to a jazz club. And that morning I got.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Sick, like food poison me I breakfast.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Yeah, it was really bad.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
So I text him and just said, hey, you know,
I'm sick, can't make it, and you know I wasn't
going to go into detail, you don't want to know details.
And ever since then, I mean, no response at all,
and this whole week, you know, I kind of hey,
how are you can we you know, schedule another date
and nothing.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
So well, how did he react when you said you
were sick?
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Though?
Speaker 3 (01:52):
He just didn't respond to you?
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Or was he like, oh respond, No, it didn't respond
at all, which was really weird because before that, you know,
he was so sweet. We did talk a lot, you know,
got to know each other through text, you know how
that goes back and forth. And I mean he's super hot.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I'm not too shabby, I would say, but yeah, it
was just really nice and great conversation and he seemed
super sweet.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
And then I mean, I wasn't going to go. Obviously
you're not going to force yourself to go. I'm just
saying that it was very bad.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
And you know, I figured at least he would.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Say, oh, I'm sorry, how about we reschedule or text
me when you feel better? But absolutely nothing, like, no
no response, no thumbs up. I mean I would have
even taken an emoji. But you know, because at least
they acknowledge that, you know, whether good or bad. Sometimes
you just want to say, just answer, yeah, just answer,
(02:50):
no matter what you say, just answer and nothing.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Is there anything that you can think of? There would
be a reason for him the ghost you, I mean,
other than being sick.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
You know.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I wonder if he like had other girls on the roster.
Oh so whenever she said that she was sick, he
like picked out another one. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
I just wonder because I mean, when you were playing
the apps, you know, like not everybody is just focused
on one person.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Now what you're think of when someone's sick, Nina, I
don't know, Oh, he says roster.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
Yeah, well you're talking to the girl that accused somebody
of faking his illness not to see me. So, yeah,
I don't know, I might jump to those conclusions.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
I'm not.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
I don't know that that's for sure what happened. But
it's kind of bizarre just not to respond at all.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Cently men on Bumble, that might be actually really getting
something good reason.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
All play song come back, and then call him and
sefa tell us why he's ghosting you, and maybe get
you another date. Okay, ok, all right, well play song
come back and get your first aid, follow up.
Speaker 6 (03:49):
Next.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
Fight.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
In the middle of your first date follow up, if
you're just joining us, Riley is on the phone. She's
getting ghosted by a guy named Michael, and she has
no idea why. So in a second we're gonna call
him and see if I tell us why he's a ghostinger
and maybe get her another date. But first, Riley, why
don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Well, basically, we met on Bumble. It was gone great,
lots of conversation. We were supposed to meet for a date,
and I got sick that morning and like really bad
food poisoning and so I texted him, told him I
was sick and been ghosted ever since.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
That's so weird. Well we'll see what the deal is.
But yeah, all right, Well are you ready for us
to call him?
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (04:37):
Yeah, okay, okay, Hello.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Him asking to Michael please, Well, yeah's to see Hey man,
how are you?
Speaker 5 (05:01):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Michael, I'm Nina also
on the Jubil Show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
How are you guys?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Good? Sounds like you listen to the show.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Yeah, here and there?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Okay, sweet, Here and there is a great way to listen. Well,
we're calling you today. Yeah that's true. Have you heard
of a first day follow up before?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Okay, cool. Well what did you say if I told
you that you're you're currently the star of one?
Speaker 1 (05:33):
How is that possible?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
I'm gonna dating a while.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
I just like it.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
There is somebody that emailed us and told us that
you're ghosting them, and they want to know why.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Oh.
Speaker 7 (05:47):
I mean I wouldn't necessarily call it ghosting, but.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
That's what this is about.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Well, yeah, do you know who it is?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Riley?
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
It is Riley.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
She emailed us, said that she really liked you, and
you guys are all set to go out, and then
she got sick and then you ghosted her.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Again.
Speaker 7 (06:07):
I wouldn't necessarily characterize it as ghosting, but I mean
we talked for a while and we you know, put
together at date, and you know, for whatever reason, she
either chose to not want to go, or she met
somebody else, or she had a better offer or I
who knows it, but she decided not to go.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
And you know, I'm not going to dwell on it.
Speaker 7 (06:28):
I'm over it. You know, there's other people out there,
and you know, I really don't need.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
This right now. I don't play games.
Speaker 5 (06:35):
So you receive a text that says, I'm sorry, I
can't make it. I'm sick, And do you feel like
you can't deal with that?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Well, it's the first date, sure, so yeah, but you.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Know, I mean I was legitimately sick, right Michael.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
That is Riley. She's actually on the phone listening.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Yeah, Oh, Riley, I.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Mean, Hi, Hi, So you were sick.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
I I I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
I don't play games.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
It was I.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
That's why I text you. I'm like, I'm sick. I'm
not going to tell you what was going on physically.
That's it's not cool, that's not I mean no, so
I just figured you would be Okay, that sucks. How
about we reschedule and go out again because we were
hitting it off. I mean okay, So you assume that
I was thinking something else, that's.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
You, not me.
Speaker 8 (07:33):
Maybe I would have wanted to know something, so yeah,
I mean listen, so I would totally you know, I
mean that's your assuming, that's you.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
So I would have been open to it, but maybe
I would have wanted to.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Know, you know, the details.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
Do you ever think that, well, I don't think that
you want to know that I was going to the
bathroom like every so often. That's not something.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
That you.
Speaker 8 (07:59):
That's tm.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
I No, I didn't need to hear that part, but
it would.
Speaker 8 (08:03):
Have been you know, hey, you know, it wouldn't be
good like just a one line text. You know, it
didn't you know, it just didn't feel right, And I
don't know, I'd still be open to it. You know,
if you're not going to be sick this time.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Okay, cool, then Michael's you'd like to go on another
date with Riley? Will pay for it?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Yeah, most definitely cool Riley, Congratulations, you got another date?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
All right?
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Sweet congratulations, thank you so much. I guess I know
you respond to text messages and you don't have that problem.
Speaker 6 (08:34):
Jeuble's first Day follow up.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
It's The Jewbile Show's Free Trip to Jamaica.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
Dreaming of a Caribbean escape, The Jubil Show wants to
share the beauty of Jamaica and send you and a
guest on an all inclusive trip to Paradise with Pio
hotels and resorts with.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Five stunning properties to choose from. There's something for everyone.
Blue Mountain views to the turquoise Caribbean. Cea Bio Hotels
and Resource has your ideal destination for your Jamaican getaway.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
Enter for your very own four days, three night, all
inclusive State of Jamaica with eight hundred dollars voucher towards airfare.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Go to the Jubilshow dot com and enter the word
sun good luck.
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