April 5, 2023 • 12 mins
First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".
One of our listeners is on the phone because he is not getting a call back in this First Date Follow Up after he took his date to France! Well somewhat. Listen to see what we mean by that and if we are able to get him another date in this First Date Follow Up!
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One of our listeners is on the phone because he is not getting a call back in this First Date Follow Up after he took his date to France! Well somewhat. Listen to see what we mean by that and if we are able to get him another date in this First Date Follow Up!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Then Jebel Show on Demand. First Day follow up. Jason
is on the phone today for a first date follow up.
He's not getting a call back from Michelle. Jason, thanks
for agreeing to do the first date follow up before
we ask you about your day and stuff. How long
has it been since you heard from Michelle? It has
been about two weeks. And how many times have you
(00:23):
tried to get a hold of her in that two weeks?
Maybe three times a week? So you must really like
her or really be interested in her. I do, and
I am, yeah, Yeah, she was cool. We have the
best date, man, I just really dug her. I thought
we had a great time not of smiles and laughs
and a little kissing, and you know, it was it
(00:43):
was great. I don't know, I understand what happened. Tell
us about the day though, Like okay, Well, first of all,
we met on Hint, which is like so far, I
think that's the best one of these things. We both
realized we really love food and we love traveling, and
so I thought it might come to kind of fun
to do a French cooking class because that's kind of
(01:03):
like that before, right right, right? Isn't that great? Yeah?
I thought that was a really cool idea, and it
was kind of, you know, a little romantic for the
first day. It's just fun, really fun because we were,
as I said, food and food and travel, and I
thought that encompassed both. So we just had the best time. Man.
She I mean, she's always dreamed to go in to Paris,
and you know, I didn't get fined up to self
(01:25):
take her there, but you know, maybe things work out.
I would love to take her there. You know, we're
getting off all night long. We were feeding each other,
you know, practising off French. We we we you know,
there was a lot of flirting, I thought, and you
know we even like snuff a few kisses in there
during the class. Um. You know, she did keep getting
stuff on the side of her mouth and I kept
(01:46):
wiping it off. So I don't know that father was
a little too pressy. I mean maybe that was a
little too much. I don't know. I walked her home,
h and we kissed a bit, as I mentioned, and
you know, I could kind of tell, although I don't
want to jump to twommate which kind of wanted me
to come come out to her place. But yeah, I
really I really like her man, and I just didn't
(02:07):
want her to think I was some dog and just
I wanted to be a gentleman. And maybe we you know,
wait a date or two before we went that far.
But you know, maybe I'm maybe I was an idiot.
I don't know. Maybe I was a little too pushy
with the like in the face thing. That's the only
thing I can think of my father thing else is
really cool. The wiping the face thing sounds like with
(02:27):
what was going on, it was okay, right, Well, you know,
I'm just searching for something that went wrong because you know,
she's not going back to me, and that's like the
only thing I could pick up. Otherwise, I was. It
was a perfect date and I was a perfect gentleman.
Was was it the kissing? I mean you said there
was a lot of kissings, So if you're not you know,
was it French? Well it was well to stay in
(02:50):
the theme of the evening, there was a little French kissing, kissing.
I don't want to I'm a next one kissing. What
are you talking about? I was just I don't know,
I don't know. I mean maybe I don't know. I mean,
you know, if he teaches, maybe that was it. That
was the last thing she said to him. It was
just like that was so really fun and she like
she said, of a law, we kind of did some fake,
(03:10):
fake French talking expery end. I mean, I said, let's
do the skin and she was like, yeah, that that'd
be great. Not not I didn't mean the French cooking class,
but just you know, she seemed like wanted to get
together again, and I said, I let her. You know,
I'll definitely be in touch. I really enjoyed, enjoyed our
time together. So and then so I followed up on
that and crickets on the other end. So you said
(03:30):
you were French kissing. We're all French kissing during the class,
like while the classes come. I'm sorry, I have no no, no, yeah,
I know that'd be a little that'd be a little much,
I think, even for you know, yeah, no, it was
towards at the end of the evening it became a
little you know, but you know, the other one just
kind of picks on the she maybe a little quick
(03:51):
ones on the lips, but nothing. It sounds like you
maybe doing all that. Maybe she really lost her phone
or I thought, oh maybe maybe maybe let's holp us
what happened. I don't know, maybe all right, we don't
know what you know what, to be honest, is one
of the best dates I've had in a long long time. Yeah,
she's one of the coolest scales. I've hung out with
him a long time. I really digg her. So, well,
(04:14):
let's give you another date? Then, what do you think
that'd be great? Thanks? He let's do it? All right? Oh,
we'll play us come back and then call her and
see if we can figure out why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you another date. All right, if you're
(04:35):
just joining us for today's first day follow up, Jason
is on the phone. And Jason went out with a
girl named Michelle, and now he's getting ghosted for a
couple of weeks and he doesn't know why. Jason, before
we make our phone call to her to try to
find out why you're getting ghosted, why don't you give
everybody a real quick refresher on your date. Well, we
went to a French cooking class, had a great time,
made some delicious food. Just a little bit, oh, just
(04:58):
had a wonderful time. Um, and I've walked her home
just a little bit there, and uh, I didn't go
up because I just thought it'd be I'd be a gentleman.
So I don't know if that, like, maybe maybe she
felt rejected from there. I just thought of that anywhere
making out a punch, right, Yeah, I'm afraid maybe I'm
a terrible kisser. I don't know. I'm gonna call her
(05:19):
right now, okay, and then we'll see if we can
find out why she's ghosting and then maybe get you
another day. Here we go, Hello, him, I speak to Michelle.
Please speaking Hello Michelle. How are you. This is Jewil
(05:40):
from the radio show The Jewel Show. Yeah, Hi, Michelle.
My name's Nina. I'm here too. Hi. I'm Victoria. I'm
also here. Hi. What's up? You ever listened to this
show at all? Yeah? I do? Actually? Oh sweet? Oh,
thank you, thank you very much. So why are you calling, Michelle?
We're calling because I'm guessing you might have heard of
a segment the first day fallow up in. Yes, yes, okay,
(06:04):
So we got an email about you from somebody that
you went on a date with, and now you're ghosting them.
Oh my gosh, who was it? You don't know who? Yeah,
you want to throw out a guess, Well, I mean
I did just go out with this guy named Jason.
I hope it's not him. Sometimes hope doesn't come through
(06:25):
for you, does it? Oh my god, it's yes. Jason
emailed us, told us about your date, said he really
liked you and is wondering why you're not calling him back.
Oh oh, oh my god. Well, the reason why I'm
not calling him back is because, um, you know, like
the date was great and all. We had a really
(06:45):
good time. The French food was amazing, and you know,
it was good chemistry, everything was good. But I ended
up like going to work the next day and I
told one of my co workers that I'm really close
with about my date, and I was showing your pictures
and stuff because it was taking pictures of the food,
took some pictures with him, and she was like, oh,
(07:08):
I went on a date with him last week. Oh
oh yeah, I didn't see that. So what happened. Does
he still talk to your co worker? I don't know.
Like after she told me, I kind of felt uncomfortable
about talking about it with her, so I kind of
just like I was like, Okay, let's just not talk
(07:30):
about this. I don't know, I feel weird about going
on another date with him because he bought out with
my good friend and my coworker and we see each
other every day, I just feel beard. And I also
feel weird about talking about it with her because you know,
she really liked him too, so I don't want to
turn into like a competition thing. I totally get girl code.
(07:52):
I mean, you know, friends before all of that stuff,
But in a case like this, I feel like if
they only went on I mean, I don't even know
if they're dating still. If that's the case, we would
need to know. But if not, and you do like
each other, why would you not at least go for it.
I'm sure your friend would understand that. Yeah, I know,
but I just feel kind of weird, Like I kind
(08:13):
of feel like it's like I was like a like
a second choice. So was he continuing to date your
friend or well, they went on a date like a
week before our date, okay, and that was their first date,
that was their second date, Okay, Okay. It's just weird
because we see each other every day, we work together,
(08:36):
it seems a little too close to home. Um sure,
so yeah, okay, I feel like I need to hear
from him though. Yeah, we should hear from him. Oh shoot, yes,
he's on the other line. He's been listening this whole time. Michelle. Sorry,
(08:56):
first of all, sorry for doing this if it's too weird. Thing,
but it's just really bombed. You won't get them back
to me, and I was desperate, I guess, so I
called the sent the email and so but leave listen.
I hear what you're saying. And actually we didn't go
on two dates. I don't know what she's telling you.
(09:17):
I mean the first date, if you want to call
it that, we just had a cock coffee and it
was very very you know, very short moment. Then we
decided to go out. But and that was it. I mean,
she's nice and everything, but I'm not in there like
I mean, I just I just loved hanging out with you.
So you guys are not seeing each other at all.
(09:38):
Oh no, no, I mean that was the last time
I saw her. And you're right. We did go bowling
and I was really bad. It wasn't It was kind
of embarrassing. But yeah, no, that was it. I haven't
seen her again. I haven't right, she hasn't had the
chance to go to me because I haven't written. I
texted her back and written back called back yet, Michelle,
I feel like this should make you feel better that
(10:01):
you know, it's not like he's out here playing the
field and juggling two people. I think the decision really
comes down to you, though, It's like, what's your relationship
like with this coworker friend? Like, do you want to
rock the boat if she's really going to make a
big deal about it. I just feel like, as adults
at this point in our lives, we have to understand that,
you know, some things don't work out, but if it
works out for somebody you care about, you should support that.
(10:22):
Sound like your second choice if there was no coworker,
nothing else was going on, would you go on a
second date with Jason? Well, yeah, of course. I mean
the date was very like that was pretty much the
only thing holding me back from going on a second
date with him. So, well, how did you handle it
when one of the girls found out you went out
with her friends before it happens? Yeah, it has happened. Well,
(10:47):
there's been times where that's been a problem because I
was like still dating one of them was technically would
be called I guess cheating, but anyway, they didn't like that.
The other time, I just kind of laughed at it, right,
I was just like, ah, yeah, that's weird. But did
any of them end up going out with you anyway?
Is the question? No? Okay, like for a short time.
(11:10):
I'm sorry, really bad example. Yeah, I don't have really
good exams. The times of that happened. There was one
time where she did go off with me for a
little while after and she still friends with a friend. Yeah,
they stayed friends, okay, and they would joke about stuff.
It means they have a very very very very small
(11:31):
and Michelle yours never really went that far for either
of you. So it's not like there's too much that
she knows that you won't. Yeah, you guys aren't like
full Sledge ESCA right, thank you? Michelle. Would you like
to go with Jason again on another date? We'll pay
for it? Oh yeah, another day? Oh sweet? Can we go?
(11:53):
Can we go to Paris on the next date? Oh no,
we will not pay for the right. I'm sorry us.
If we do, you'll be on Spirit Airlines and nobody
wants to fly to prison Spirit air That's great, Michelle,
I'm happy to hear that. I'm looking forward to it. Oh,
I'm so glad. Okay, well, we're looking forward to it too.
(12:16):
We'll see you guys on the date. Oh wait, we're
not coming with you. No, can we come with you guys? No? No,
The Jebel Show on demand
Then Jebel Show on Demand. First Day follow up. Jason
is on the phone today for a first date follow up.
He's not getting a call back from Michelle. Jason, thanks
for agreeing to do the first date follow up before
we ask you about your day and stuff. How long
has it been since you heard from Michelle? It has
been about two weeks. And how many times have you
(00:23):
tried to get a hold of her in that two weeks?
Maybe three times a week? So you must really like
her or really be interested in her. I do, and
I am, yeah, Yeah, she was cool. We have the
best date, man, I just really dug her. I thought
we had a great time not of smiles and laughs
and a little kissing, and you know, it was it
(00:43):
was great. I don't know, I understand what happened. Tell
us about the day though, Like okay, Well, first of all,
we met on Hint, which is like so far, I
think that's the best one of these things. We both
realized we really love food and we love traveling, and
so I thought it might come to kind of fun
to do a French cooking class because that's kind of
(01:03):
like that before, right right, right? Isn't that great? Yeah?
I thought that was a really cool idea, and it
was kind of, you know, a little romantic for the
first day. It's just fun, really fun because we were,
as I said, food and food and travel, and I
thought that encompassed both. So we just had the best time. Man.
She I mean, she's always dreamed to go in to Paris,
and you know, I didn't get fined up to self
(01:25):
take her there, but you know, maybe things work out.
I would love to take her there. You know, we're
getting off all night long. We were feeding each other,
you know, practising off French. We we we you know,
there was a lot of flirting, I thought, and you
know we even like snuff a few kisses in there
during the class. Um. You know, she did keep getting
stuff on the side of her mouth and I kept
(01:46):
wiping it off. So I don't know that father was
a little too pressy. I mean maybe that was a
little too much. I don't know. I walked her home,
h and we kissed a bit, as I mentioned, and
you know, I could kind of tell, although I don't
want to jump to twommate which kind of wanted me
to come come out to her place. But yeah, I
really I really like her man, and I just didn't
(02:07):
want her to think I was some dog and just
I wanted to be a gentleman. And maybe we you know,
wait a date or two before we went that far.
But you know, maybe I'm maybe I was an idiot.
I don't know. Maybe I was a little too pushy
with the like in the face thing. That's the only
thing I can think of my father thing else is
really cool. The wiping the face thing sounds like with
(02:27):
what was going on, it was okay, right, Well, you know,
I'm just searching for something that went wrong because you know,
she's not going back to me, and that's like the
only thing I could pick up. Otherwise, I was. It
was a perfect date and I was a perfect gentleman.
Was was it the kissing? I mean you said there
was a lot of kissings, So if you're not you know,
was it French? Well it was well to stay in
(02:50):
the theme of the evening, there was a little French kissing, kissing.
I don't want to I'm a next one kissing. What
are you talking about? I was just I don't know,
I don't know. I mean maybe I don't know. I mean,
you know, if he teaches, maybe that was it. That
was the last thing she said to him. It was
just like that was so really fun and she like
she said, of a law, we kind of did some fake,
(03:10):
fake French talking expery end. I mean, I said, let's
do the skin and she was like, yeah, that that'd
be great. Not not I didn't mean the French cooking class,
but just you know, she seemed like wanted to get
together again, and I said, I let her. You know,
I'll definitely be in touch. I really enjoyed, enjoyed our
time together. So and then so I followed up on
that and crickets on the other end. So you said
(03:30):
you were French kissing. We're all French kissing during the class,
like while the classes come. I'm sorry, I have no no, no, yeah,
I know that'd be a little that'd be a little much,
I think, even for you know, yeah, no, it was
towards at the end of the evening it became a
little you know, but you know, the other one just
kind of picks on the she maybe a little quick
(03:51):
ones on the lips, but nothing. It sounds like you
maybe doing all that. Maybe she really lost her phone
or I thought, oh maybe maybe maybe let's holp us
what happened. I don't know, maybe all right, we don't
know what you know what, to be honest, is one
of the best dates I've had in a long long time. Yeah,
she's one of the coolest scales. I've hung out with
him a long time. I really digg her. So, well,
(04:14):
let's give you another date? Then, what do you think
that'd be great? Thanks? He let's do it? All right? Oh,
we'll play us come back and then call her and
see if we can figure out why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you another date. All right, if you're
(04:35):
just joining us for today's first day follow up, Jason
is on the phone. And Jason went out with a
girl named Michelle, and now he's getting ghosted for a
couple of weeks and he doesn't know why. Jason, before
we make our phone call to her to try to
find out why you're getting ghosted, why don't you give
everybody a real quick refresher on your date. Well, we
went to a French cooking class, had a great time,
made some delicious food. Just a little bit, oh, just
(04:58):
had a wonderful time. Um, and I've walked her home
just a little bit there, and uh, I didn't go
up because I just thought it'd be I'd be a gentleman.
So I don't know if that, like, maybe maybe she
felt rejected from there. I just thought of that anywhere
making out a punch, right, Yeah, I'm afraid maybe I'm
a terrible kisser. I don't know. I'm gonna call her
(05:19):
right now, okay, and then we'll see if we can
find out why she's ghosting and then maybe get you
another day. Here we go, Hello, him, I speak to Michelle.
Please speaking Hello Michelle. How are you. This is Jewil
(05:40):
from the radio show The Jewel Show. Yeah, Hi, Michelle.
My name's Nina. I'm here too. Hi. I'm Victoria. I'm
also here. Hi. What's up? You ever listened to this
show at all? Yeah? I do? Actually? Oh sweet? Oh,
thank you, thank you very much. So why are you calling, Michelle?
We're calling because I'm guessing you might have heard of
a segment the first day fallow up in. Yes, yes, okay,
(06:04):
So we got an email about you from somebody that
you went on a date with, and now you're ghosting them.
Oh my gosh, who was it? You don't know who? Yeah,
you want to throw out a guess, Well, I mean
I did just go out with this guy named Jason.
I hope it's not him. Sometimes hope doesn't come through
(06:25):
for you, does it? Oh my god, it's yes. Jason
emailed us, told us about your date, said he really
liked you and is wondering why you're not calling him back.
Oh oh, oh my god. Well, the reason why I'm
not calling him back is because, um, you know, like
the date was great and all. We had a really
(06:45):
good time. The French food was amazing, and you know,
it was good chemistry, everything was good. But I ended
up like going to work the next day and I
told one of my co workers that I'm really close
with about my date, and I was showing your pictures
and stuff because it was taking pictures of the food,
took some pictures with him, and she was like, oh,
(07:08):
I went on a date with him last week. Oh
oh yeah, I didn't see that. So what happened. Does
he still talk to your co worker? I don't know.
Like after she told me, I kind of felt uncomfortable
about talking about it with her, so I kind of
just like I was like, Okay, let's just not talk
(07:30):
about this. I don't know, I feel weird about going
on another date with him because he bought out with
my good friend and my coworker and we see each
other every day, I just feel beard. And I also
feel weird about talking about it with her because you know,
she really liked him too, so I don't want to
turn into like a competition thing. I totally get girl code.
(07:52):
I mean, you know, friends before all of that stuff,
But in a case like this, I feel like if
they only went on I mean, I don't even know
if they're dating still. If that's the case, we would
need to know. But if not, and you do like
each other, why would you not at least go for it.
I'm sure your friend would understand that. Yeah, I know,
but I just feel kind of weird, Like I kind
(08:13):
of feel like it's like I was like a like
a second choice. So was he continuing to date your
friend or well, they went on a date like a
week before our date, okay, and that was their first date,
that was their second date, Okay, Okay. It's just weird
because we see each other every day, we work together,
(08:36):
it seems a little too close to home. Um sure,
so yeah, okay, I feel like I need to hear
from him though. Yeah, we should hear from him. Oh shoot, yes,
he's on the other line. He's been listening this whole time. Michelle. Sorry,
(08:56):
first of all, sorry for doing this if it's too weird. Thing,
but it's just really bombed. You won't get them back
to me, and I was desperate, I guess, so I
called the sent the email and so but leave listen.
I hear what you're saying. And actually we didn't go
on two dates. I don't know what she's telling you.
(09:17):
I mean the first date, if you want to call
it that, we just had a cock coffee and it
was very very you know, very short moment. Then we
decided to go out. But and that was it. I mean,
she's nice and everything, but I'm not in there like
I mean, I just I just loved hanging out with you.
So you guys are not seeing each other at all.
(09:38):
Oh no, no, I mean that was the last time
I saw her. And you're right. We did go bowling
and I was really bad. It wasn't It was kind
of embarrassing. But yeah, no, that was it. I haven't
seen her again. I haven't right, she hasn't had the
chance to go to me because I haven't written. I
texted her back and written back called back yet, Michelle,
I feel like this should make you feel better that
(10:01):
you know, it's not like he's out here playing the
field and juggling two people. I think the decision really
comes down to you, though, It's like, what's your relationship
like with this coworker friend? Like, do you want to
rock the boat if she's really going to make a
big deal about it. I just feel like, as adults
at this point in our lives, we have to understand that,
you know, some things don't work out, but if it
works out for somebody you care about, you should support that.
(10:22):
Sound like your second choice if there was no coworker,
nothing else was going on, would you go on a
second date with Jason? Well, yeah, of course. I mean
the date was very like that was pretty much the
only thing holding me back from going on a second
date with him. So, well, how did you handle it
when one of the girls found out you went out
with her friends before it happens? Yeah, it has happened. Well,
(10:47):
there's been times where that's been a problem because I
was like still dating one of them was technically would
be called I guess cheating, but anyway, they didn't like that.
The other time, I just kind of laughed at it, right,
I was just like, ah, yeah, that's weird. But did
any of them end up going out with you anyway?
Is the question? No? Okay, like for a short time.
(11:10):
I'm sorry, really bad example. Yeah, I don't have really
good exams. The times of that happened. There was one
time where she did go off with me for a
little while after and she still friends with a friend. Yeah,
they stayed friends, okay, and they would joke about stuff.
It means they have a very very very very small
(11:31):
and Michelle yours never really went that far for either
of you. So it's not like there's too much that
she knows that you won't. Yeah, you guys aren't like
full Sledge ESCA right, thank you? Michelle. Would you like
to go with Jason again on another date? We'll pay
for it? Oh yeah, another day? Oh sweet? Can we go?
(11:53):
Can we go to Paris on the next date? Oh no,
we will not pay for the right. I'm sorry us.
If we do, you'll be on Spirit Airlines and nobody
wants to fly to prison Spirit air That's great, Michelle,
I'm happy to hear that. I'm looking forward to it. Oh,
I'm so glad. Okay, well, we're looking forward to it too.
(12:16):
We'll see you guys on the date. Oh wait, we're
not coming with you. No, can we come with you guys? No? No,
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An unlicensed lizard psychologist travels the universe talking to strangers about absolutely nothing. TO CALL THE GECKO: follow me on https://www.twitch.tv/lyleforever to get a notification for when I am taking calls. I am usually live Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays but lately a lot of other times too. I am a gecko.