April 19, 2023 • 12 mins
First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".
One of our listeners isn't getting a call back from a date he went on, and it's not that she just isn't calling him back but she actually slipped out in the middle of it! What happened? Was it something he did? Was it something he said? Find out in this new First Date Follow Up!
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One of our listeners isn't getting a call back from a date he went on, and it's not that she just isn't calling him back but she actually slipped out in the middle of it! What happened? Was it something he did? Was it something he said? Find out in this new First Date Follow Up!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
The Gibile Show on Demand. First Day follow up.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Jamien is on the phone today for a first date
follow up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Serena.
So we're going to see if we can find out
why and maybe get him another date if he still
wants one. After he finds out why, Damien was man,
thank you for your email. Before we get into your date,
how long has it been since you talked to Serena.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
It's been about two weeks.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Above two weeks.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
That's kind of a sweet spot, you know, you start
to really panic at the two week point.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
I didn't want to like rush or anything, but I am.
I am.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Once. When I heard y'all we're looking for, you know,
things like this, I was like, I want to try
and reach out.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Okay, we'll tell us a little bit about Serena and
why you think you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
Like honestly, I think I'm a pretty self aware guy,
and I am puzzled as to what's going on because
we went. I took her on a date to a
wine bar. And first of all, actually she is a
friend of a co worker of mine, and so it
took her to a wine bar and it was pretty casual.
I thought we had great conversation, and let me just say,
(01:06):
she is absolutely stunning.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
She's beautiful.
Speaker 5 (01:10):
But more importantly, I just thought that she was really
intriguing and she was a little shy. I could tell
she was a little nervous, But overall, I thought the
date went really well and I was surprised when she
just left in.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
The middle of it.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
She just left in the middle of your date.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Yees, like she went to the bathroom and was just gone.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
I'd say probably like we were three quarters the way
through the state, and I thought everything was going like wonderful,
and then all of a sudden, she's just gone.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
Did it seem like something had happened?
Speaker 5 (01:41):
I did notice that, like something came up, and she
was like it looked like maybe like halfway through she
got a text or something, and something looked a little frantic.
So maybe something came up and now she's like, maybe
too shay to reach out or something. But yeah, I
mean like she she was kind of texting a bunch
and then we talked a little bit more.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
She went to the restroom and then she was gone.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Hmmm.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
I mean, either you really sucked in her mind, or
you know, something did did happen?
Speaker 5 (02:06):
I will be the first to admit, you know, like
my bad, but I really don't think.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
That's the case.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
If you're running out on somebody, how do you redeem
yourself after that?
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I just hope something like came up.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
I asked my friend about it too, and he said
he hasn't heard from them, and so I'm not really
sure what's going on.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Huh, Yeah, it must have been something then with the
with the phone or the text message.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Yeah, did it seem like she was distracted? I mean,
was you know, was she getting a lot Like did
it look like an emergency happened? Is what I mean?
Did it look like there was something she was paying
attention to so much on her phone where all of
a sudden she just had to go if.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It was an emergency. She played it off pretty well.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
But I will say, like the first like you know,
hour or so, like we were talking and she wasn't
really on her phone at all, and then she started
like getting on her phone a bunch and so like
that was like noticeable, but it didn't. I don't know,
it didn't seem like it was necessarily anything too crazy
to the point where like, you know, she went to
(03:04):
the bathroom and then I was there for another forty
five minutes before I was like, I think she's.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Gone, oh wow, one of the Okay, that's where that's
got to be awkward.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Yeah, I'm sorry to me. And that's worse than ghosting.
You got like, what is it called leaving of a
date ditched?
Speaker 5 (03:19):
Yeah, I would have felt like at least a heads
up or something, but I don't know.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
Yeah, that would be a common courtesy.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
So since that happened, how many times have you tried
to reach out to her?
Speaker 1 (03:29):
You know?
Speaker 5 (03:29):
I texted her a couple of times really, just like
early on, like maybe a week ago, but I haven't
wanted to like blow her up or anything like that,
so I just kind of let it be.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
And I've still been thinking about it. So that's why
I reached out to y'all.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I think I'd be more worried at this point than
anything else, because that's just too strange.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Yeah, I mean I am kind of worried.
Speaker 5 (03:49):
I mean, like, I guess I'm worried about her, but
you know, I'm always like, is there something wrong with me?
Speaker 7 (03:56):
Yea too great?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
All right, Well, we'll try to figure out for you.
To play a song, come back, and then call her
and see if we can figure it out and get
you another date if you still want one.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Okay, sound good?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
All right, well plays, I'll come back and get your
first day follow up next. Right in the middle of
your first day follow up and if you're just joining us,
Damien is on the phone. And Damien is getting more
than ghosted by Serena. He actually got ditched in the
middle of his date by Serena, and he doesn't know why. Damien.
Before we call her to see if we can figure
it out, just refresh everybody's memory. Run down real quick.
(04:25):
How your date went.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
Yeah, my friend set me up with the date we
went to awarded.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I guess she got a text message or something.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
And started maybe freaking out a little bit, and a
little after that, went to the restroom and never came
back and trying to hit her up.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
And that's when I reached out, Fiel.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
That was it? Like, no response? Want I know what
it was me too? All right, we're about to call her, Damien.
You're ready, Yeah, I'm ready? All right, Here we go. Hello, Hi, man,
(05:03):
speak to Serena. Hey, Serena, how are you? This is
Jewbil from the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Hi, Serena, my name's Nina. I'm here too, Nina Serena.
See we could be friends. Hi, I'm nik Joya.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
So there's three people on the phone.
Speaker 7 (05:19):
With your Oh wow, okay, Hie.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Are you familiar with the show at all?
Speaker 7 (05:24):
A little bit? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Have you ever heard the segment that we do called
a first date follow up before?
Speaker 7 (05:29):
Oh? Gosha.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Oh so we got an email about you from somebody
that you're ghosting.
Speaker 6 (05:42):
Have you ran out on the date recently?
Speaker 7 (05:45):
Oh my god, a little more than ghosts?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Okay, yeah, horrifying.
Speaker 7 (05:52):
This is like the worst case start.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Damien emailed us and he is wondering what he did,
like why you just ran out on your date with him?
Speaker 7 (06:01):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Oh no, okay, hmm okay, let's breathe really quick together.
Speaker 7 (06:12):
Okay, I'm so embarrassed. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 8 (06:15):
Okay, No, it had nothing to do with Jamien. I
mean he's there. I mean he's not there, but he
can hear me. I guess you had nothing to do with.
Speaker 7 (06:25):
Him first week.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
So you have heard a few of.
Speaker 7 (06:27):
These, Yeah, no, I have had.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
I can tell because you know that he's on the
other line listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Let's not put the pressure on yet. I feel like,
let's let him listen.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I agree, before we put him on point Nina.
Speaker 8 (06:41):
Yeah, no, you had nothing to do with him. It's
just really embarrassing. I was really excited about this day.
My friend works with Damien, so I really wanted to
look nice and I don't really have a lot of
you know, like nice stress up stuff.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
So I borrowed some clothes from her.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
And it was like a really low cut body suit. Yeah,
it was as cute until it wasn't.
Speaker 8 (07:14):
At one point I reached like to get some water,
and it like fell open and I had like I
had a wardrobe malfunction.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
A little slippy slip, like a nip slip.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 8 (07:33):
He saw it, Like I know, he looked straight at me,
and I was just it was way more than I'm
not like that.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
I didn't.
Speaker 8 (07:41):
I don't dress up like that at all, and I
sure don't, you know strip. I was mortified, so I
started texting my roommate about I mean, I can't believe
that you made me wear this, and now I'm you know,
I just I looked like a stripper, and so I
(08:04):
just excused myself to the bathroom and then I couldn't.
Speaker 7 (08:08):
I just couldn't come back to the table. I was
just so embarrassed that I.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Knew he'd seen me, you know, and you're sure he
saw you.
Speaker 7 (08:17):
I know he saw me. Like he smiled, you know,
he smiled.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
At me, and I was like, I mean, she was
playing it off.
Speaker 7 (08:24):
But I was just, oh, it was horrible.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
It's definitely an embarrassing moment. Just to make you feel
better really quickly, just to know that you're not alone.
I have actually split my pants on a date, wide
open in the back, and I was wearing a thong
and it was completely visible, to the point that he
had to go to his car to get me a
hoodie to tie around my waist. And I was wearing
a nice outfit to make sure people didn't see my butt.
Speaker 6 (08:49):
So you're not alone. This kind of stuff. It happens.
Speaker 7 (08:56):
This is your first date.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Even if it was your first date, though I find
it hard pressed to believe that most people would judge
somebody for that on a first date, right, it just happens.
It's an accident.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Well, what if it happened to you jub Well, let's
pretend that you were single and you went on a
date with somebody and all of a sudden they had
a little oopsie.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Right, are you cool with that? Yeah? Yeah, and not
even not in a pervy way. Sure, right, But I
would try to make difficult. I would actually look at
it as an opportunity to, like, watch, I'm going to
show her understanding I am, and then maybe I'll get
to see him for real later. You know, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
I asked my question because you know you will be like,
it's okay, pants downstaurant.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
Well, maybe we should talk to Damien. Yeah, see if
he even saw it.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Serena, you already know he's on the other line listening,
so we'll just bring him on. Damien.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
Hey, Sorria, Uh yeah, I just want to go ahead
and like clear the area.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
I had no idea that this happened, Like, honest to god,
I had no idea.
Speaker 7 (09:53):
I'm serious.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
I know you said that I like smiled and played
it off, but like, I don't know if like I
just wasn't looking like I feel like that's something I
would have noticed.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
But I swear to god, I had no idea that.
Speaker 6 (10:05):
That app Oh, my gosh, does that make you feel better?
Speaker 7 (10:09):
Serena, Yeah, yeah, I mean it does.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
I'm so sorry that I left.
Speaker 7 (10:17):
I just I was mortified.
Speaker 8 (10:19):
I just I just wanted the words of like, swallow
me up.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
I was so horrified by it.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
And I also just want to say that I thought
that you looked like fantastic and that jumped so it
was you look incredible that night.
Speaker 7 (10:33):
Well thank you.
Speaker 8 (10:34):
I'll never be wearing it again, but thank you.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
Like, I really had no idea, and I thought I like,
I sat there puzzled, like when I finally realized you
weren't coming back, I was like, man, what did I do?
Speaker 8 (10:46):
That?
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Like really screwed up this date? Because I thought it
was I thought it was going really well. I thought
we really connected.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
No, it really was, and it's just me.
Speaker 7 (10:53):
It was just me. I was just I couldn't. I
felt like I couldn't come back from that. And I'm
really sorry. I should have I should have said something.
Speaker 8 (10:59):
But I honestly felt like I couldn't even I couldn't
even go back to the table after that.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
It's okay, I get.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
I'm sure that's yeah, that would.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
Be really really tough to like try and cover up
with if you thought that's what was going on, and
I yeah, I get it.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
You see, That's what I've noticed about especially when things
like that happen, people are self conscious about it because
they know what happened.
Speaker 7 (11:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Most of the time, people aren't even checking for it
and they didn't see it at all.
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Yeah, I didn't know what to say.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Hey, Serena, would you like another date with Damien now
that you know he didn't see it and it wasn't
awkward for him because he didn't even see it at all.
And he's also really liked you and it's been wondering
why you ran out.
Speaker 7 (11:40):
That would be great, absolutely sweet, Damien.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
Yeah, that's always great.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
Yeah, let's let's we can go maybe, like we'll go
walk in the park if we can wear big sweatshirts
or something so we don't have to worry about it.
Speaker 7 (11:51):
You know, that'd be awesome. Thank you, Thank you so much.
Speaker 6 (11:58):
You're so cute, Serena.
Speaker 7 (12:00):
Oh, thanks you, guys.
Speaker 4 (12:01):
I really appreciate it.
Speaker 7 (12:04):
I feel so much better. I'm so sorry, Damon, I'm
really not like that. I'm not I'm not just.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
I'm looking forward to another thing.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
I mean too, Thank you so much, giving me another chance.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
The Jubile Show on demand
The Gibile Show on Demand. First Day follow up.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Jamien is on the phone today for a first date
follow up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Serena.
So we're going to see if we can find out
why and maybe get him another date if he still
wants one. After he finds out why, Damien was man,
thank you for your email. Before we get into your date,
how long has it been since you talked to Serena.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
It's been about two weeks.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Above two weeks.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
That's kind of a sweet spot, you know, you start
to really panic at the two week point.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
I didn't want to like rush or anything, but I am.
I am.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Once. When I heard y'all we're looking for, you know,
things like this, I was like, I want to try
and reach out.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Okay, we'll tell us a little bit about Serena and
why you think you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
Like honestly, I think I'm a pretty self aware guy,
and I am puzzled as to what's going on because
we went. I took her on a date to a
wine bar. And first of all, actually she is a
friend of a co worker of mine, and so it
took her to a wine bar and it was pretty casual.
I thought we had great conversation, and let me just say,
(01:06):
she is absolutely stunning.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
She's beautiful.
Speaker 5 (01:10):
But more importantly, I just thought that she was really
intriguing and she was a little shy. I could tell
she was a little nervous, But overall, I thought the
date went really well and I was surprised when she
just left in.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
The middle of it.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
She just left in the middle of your date.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Yees, like she went to the bathroom and was just gone.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
I'd say probably like we were three quarters the way
through the state, and I thought everything was going like wonderful,
and then all of a sudden, she's just gone.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
Did it seem like something had happened?
Speaker 5 (01:41):
I did notice that, like something came up, and she
was like it looked like maybe like halfway through she
got a text or something, and something looked a little frantic.
So maybe something came up and now she's like, maybe
too shay to reach out or something. But yeah, I
mean like she she was kind of texting a bunch
and then we talked a little bit more.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
She went to the restroom and then she was gone.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Hmmm.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
I mean, either you really sucked in her mind, or
you know, something did did happen?
Speaker 5 (02:06):
I will be the first to admit, you know, like
my bad, but I really don't think.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
That's the case.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
If you're running out on somebody, how do you redeem
yourself after that?
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I just hope something like came up.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
I asked my friend about it too, and he said
he hasn't heard from them, and so I'm not really
sure what's going on.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Huh, Yeah, it must have been something then with the
with the phone or the text message.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Yeah, did it seem like she was distracted? I mean,
was you know, was she getting a lot Like did
it look like an emergency happened? Is what I mean?
Did it look like there was something she was paying
attention to so much on her phone where all of
a sudden she just had to go if.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It was an emergency. She played it off pretty well.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
But I will say, like the first like you know,
hour or so, like we were talking and she wasn't
really on her phone at all, and then she started
like getting on her phone a bunch and so like
that was like noticeable, but it didn't. I don't know,
it didn't seem like it was necessarily anything too crazy
to the point where like, you know, she went to
(03:04):
the bathroom and then I was there for another forty
five minutes before I was like, I think she's.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Gone, oh wow, one of the Okay, that's where that's
got to be awkward.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Yeah, I'm sorry to me. And that's worse than ghosting.
You got like, what is it called leaving of a
date ditched?
Speaker 5 (03:19):
Yeah, I would have felt like at least a heads
up or something, but I don't know.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
Yeah, that would be a common courtesy.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
So since that happened, how many times have you tried
to reach out to her?
Speaker 1 (03:29):
You know?
Speaker 5 (03:29):
I texted her a couple of times really, just like
early on, like maybe a week ago, but I haven't
wanted to like blow her up or anything like that,
so I just kind of let it be.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
And I've still been thinking about it. So that's why
I reached out to y'all.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I think I'd be more worried at this point than
anything else, because that's just too strange.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Yeah, I mean I am kind of worried.
Speaker 5 (03:49):
I mean, like, I guess I'm worried about her, but
you know, I'm always like, is there something wrong with me?
Speaker 7 (03:56):
Yea too great?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
All right, Well, we'll try to figure out for you.
To play a song, come back, and then call her
and see if we can figure it out and get
you another date if you still want one.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Okay, sound good?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
All right, well plays, I'll come back and get your
first day follow up next. Right in the middle of
your first day follow up and if you're just joining us,
Damien is on the phone. And Damien is getting more
than ghosted by Serena. He actually got ditched in the
middle of his date by Serena, and he doesn't know why. Damien.
Before we call her to see if we can figure
it out, just refresh everybody's memory. Run down real quick.
(04:25):
How your date went.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
Yeah, my friend set me up with the date we
went to awarded.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I guess she got a text message or something.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
And started maybe freaking out a little bit, and a
little after that, went to the restroom and never came
back and trying to hit her up.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
And that's when I reached out, Fiel.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
That was it? Like, no response? Want I know what
it was me too? All right, we're about to call her, Damien.
You're ready, Yeah, I'm ready? All right, Here we go. Hello, Hi, man,
(05:03):
speak to Serena. Hey, Serena, how are you? This is
Jewbil from the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Hi, Serena, my name's Nina. I'm here too, Nina Serena.
See we could be friends. Hi, I'm nik Joya.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
So there's three people on the phone.
Speaker 7 (05:19):
With your Oh wow, okay, Hie.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Are you familiar with the show at all?
Speaker 7 (05:24):
A little bit? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Have you ever heard the segment that we do called
a first date follow up before?
Speaker 7 (05:29):
Oh? Gosha.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Oh so we got an email about you from somebody
that you're ghosting.
Speaker 6 (05:42):
Have you ran out on the date recently?
Speaker 7 (05:45):
Oh my god, a little more than ghosts?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Okay, yeah, horrifying.
Speaker 7 (05:52):
This is like the worst case start.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Damien emailed us and he is wondering what he did,
like why you just ran out on your date with him?
Speaker 7 (06:01):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Oh no, okay, hmm okay, let's breathe really quick together.
Speaker 7 (06:12):
Okay, I'm so embarrassed. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 8 (06:15):
Okay, No, it had nothing to do with Jamien. I
mean he's there. I mean he's not there, but he
can hear me. I guess you had nothing to do with.
Speaker 7 (06:25):
Him first week.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
So you have heard a few of.
Speaker 7 (06:27):
These, Yeah, no, I have had.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
I can tell because you know that he's on the
other line listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Let's not put the pressure on yet. I feel like,
let's let him listen.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I agree, before we put him on point Nina.
Speaker 8 (06:41):
Yeah, no, you had nothing to do with him. It's
just really embarrassing. I was really excited about this day.
My friend works with Damien, so I really wanted to
look nice and I don't really have a lot of
you know, like nice stress up stuff.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
So I borrowed some clothes from her.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
And it was like a really low cut body suit. Yeah,
it was as cute until it wasn't.
Speaker 8 (07:14):
At one point I reached like to get some water,
and it like fell open and I had like I
had a wardrobe malfunction.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
A little slippy slip, like a nip slip.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 8 (07:33):
He saw it, Like I know, he looked straight at me,
and I was just it was way more than I'm
not like that.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
I didn't.
Speaker 8 (07:41):
I don't dress up like that at all, and I
sure don't, you know strip. I was mortified, so I
started texting my roommate about I mean, I can't believe
that you made me wear this, and now I'm you know,
I just I looked like a stripper, and so I
(08:04):
just excused myself to the bathroom and then I couldn't.
Speaker 7 (08:08):
I just couldn't come back to the table. I was
just so embarrassed that I.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Knew he'd seen me, you know, and you're sure he
saw you.
Speaker 7 (08:17):
I know he saw me. Like he smiled, you know,
he smiled.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
At me, and I was like, I mean, she was
playing it off.
Speaker 7 (08:24):
But I was just, oh, it was horrible.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
It's definitely an embarrassing moment. Just to make you feel
better really quickly, just to know that you're not alone.
I have actually split my pants on a date, wide
open in the back, and I was wearing a thong
and it was completely visible, to the point that he
had to go to his car to get me a
hoodie to tie around my waist. And I was wearing
a nice outfit to make sure people didn't see my butt.
Speaker 6 (08:49):
So you're not alone. This kind of stuff. It happens.
Speaker 7 (08:56):
This is your first date.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Even if it was your first date, though I find
it hard pressed to believe that most people would judge
somebody for that on a first date, right, it just happens.
It's an accident.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Well, what if it happened to you jub Well, let's
pretend that you were single and you went on a
date with somebody and all of a sudden they had
a little oopsie.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Right, are you cool with that? Yeah? Yeah, and not
even not in a pervy way. Sure, right, But I
would try to make difficult. I would actually look at
it as an opportunity to, like, watch, I'm going to
show her understanding I am, and then maybe I'll get
to see him for real later. You know, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
I asked my question because you know you will be like,
it's okay, pants downstaurant.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
Well, maybe we should talk to Damien. Yeah, see if
he even saw it.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Serena, you already know he's on the other line listening,
so we'll just bring him on. Damien.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
Hey, Sorria, Uh yeah, I just want to go ahead
and like clear the area.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
I had no idea that this happened, Like, honest to god,
I had no idea.
Speaker 7 (09:53):
I'm serious.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
I know you said that I like smiled and played
it off, but like, I don't know if like I
just wasn't looking like I feel like that's something I
would have noticed.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
But I swear to god, I had no idea that.
Speaker 6 (10:05):
That app Oh, my gosh, does that make you feel better?
Speaker 7 (10:09):
Serena, Yeah, yeah, I mean it does.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
I'm so sorry that I left.
Speaker 7 (10:17):
I just I was mortified.
Speaker 8 (10:19):
I just I just wanted the words of like, swallow
me up.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
I was so horrified by it.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
And I also just want to say that I thought
that you looked like fantastic and that jumped so it
was you look incredible that night.
Speaker 7 (10:33):
Well thank you.
Speaker 8 (10:34):
I'll never be wearing it again, but thank you.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
Like, I really had no idea, and I thought I like,
I sat there puzzled, like when I finally realized you
weren't coming back, I was like, man, what did I do?
Speaker 8 (10:46):
That?
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Like really screwed up this date? Because I thought it
was I thought it was going really well. I thought
we really connected.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
No, it really was, and it's just me.
Speaker 7 (10:53):
It was just me. I was just I couldn't. I
felt like I couldn't come back from that. And I'm
really sorry. I should have I should have said something.
Speaker 8 (10:59):
But I honestly felt like I couldn't even I couldn't
even go back to the table after that.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
It's okay, I get.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
I'm sure that's yeah, that would.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
Be really really tough to like try and cover up
with if you thought that's what was going on, and
I yeah, I get it.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
You see, That's what I've noticed about especially when things
like that happen, people are self conscious about it because
they know what happened.
Speaker 7 (11:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Most of the time, people aren't even checking for it
and they didn't see it at all.
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Yeah, I didn't know what to say.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Hey, Serena, would you like another date with Damien now
that you know he didn't see it and it wasn't
awkward for him because he didn't even see it at all.
And he's also really liked you and it's been wondering
why you ran out.
Speaker 7 (11:40):
That would be great, absolutely sweet, Damien.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
Yeah, that's always great.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
Yeah, let's let's we can go maybe, like we'll go
walk in the park if we can wear big sweatshirts
or something so we don't have to worry about it.
Speaker 7 (11:51):
You know, that'd be awesome. Thank you, Thank you so much.
Speaker 6 (11:58):
You're so cute, Serena.
Speaker 7 (12:00):
Oh, thanks you, guys.
Speaker 4 (12:01):
I really appreciate it.
Speaker 7 (12:04):
I feel so much better. I'm so sorry, Damon, I'm
really not like that. I'm not I'm not just.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
I'm looking forward to another thing.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
I mean too, Thank you so much, giving me another chance.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
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