May 12, 2023 • 7 mins
Cat was first attracted to how open and honest Travis seemed. She says their first date was flawless, but now for some reason he's ignoring her. Let's get this dude on the phone.
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(00:00):
Or variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
to one three, it's Marcus andCory, and it's back y'all. Second
date update. This is where webecome the love experts and try to get
you a second date with someone youwent on a first date with and maybe
they kind of ghosted or they disappearedand you're not sure why. Let's use
the term experts loosely, love influencers, connoisseurs, supporters. It's even worse.
(00:26):
Say good morning to Kat, Hi, Kat, Hey, good morning.
Hey. Okay, we want totalk about your date with Travis,
because apparently it was fine and Iguess he's gone. So roll us through
how you guys met first, andthen let's talk about how the first date
went. Okay, So I metTravis on Coffee Meat Beingalay, and I
(00:50):
was really attracted to his profile becausehe was so honest and genuine and I'm
looking for something serious and he wastoo. Um we got it and we
got along really really well when wewere chatting back and forth on the app.
And so we met for drinks andwe're both in San Jose, so
(01:11):
we went downtown. Sure, andit was a blast, like we hit
it off, like there was nodull moment, there was no awkward you
know pauses or like what do Iask? Now? We just flowed and
I was so excited to see himagain. And then he ghosted me like
I'm so bummed, Like I don'teven know what went wrong. Everything seemed
(01:33):
fine, so he's gone, ohyou know what I mean. It breaks
my heart whenever we do this andit's you're so excited and then you don't
hear from the other person. Idon't understand. Epidemic. Um, Okay,
so you know the drill. You'vebeen listening to the show long enough.
We're gonna have you on the line. We'll have you mute your phone
and we'll call Travis and we'll seewhat's up, so you'll be able to
(01:56):
hear directly from him. Basically,Okay, okay, I'll mute everybody reset.
We'll do it right after this song. It's a second Date update Star
one on one three or variety fromthe two thousands, the nineties, and
today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing
second Date Update. This is athis is a tale of South Bay Romance.
Yeah, Kat sort of, becauseKat, are you there? You
(02:17):
can own mute really quick. Yeah, she's in position, She's ready.
So you met Travis online and youall got drinks in downtown San Jose.
Okay, and the date was fineby your estimations and stands out. No,
nothing like we had a blast.I mean the conversation was just easy.
(02:37):
Okay. And he has ghosted.Yes, h weird. Okay,
Let's call him and see how hethought the date went. All right,
let's get his perspective. Go backon mute. Here we go. Okay,
(03:00):
Hi, may speak with Travis.Please, Hi, Travis. It's
Marcus and Corey from Star one onethree Mornie Travis, Morning him. We
do a radio show in the BayArea, and we want to know if
you'd be comfortable talking with us.Okay, so okay. So it's Star
(03:23):
Win to Win three and we doa dating segment where we figure out why
someone hasn't responded to a second datelike you go on a first date.
We want to figure out why youare not available for a second date.
Yes, so we wanted to askyou about your date with Cats. Are
you cool talking with us? Yeah? Sure? Okay, this is a
(03:44):
lot I know it's a lot.It's a lot for first thing in the
morning. Um. Yeah, soshe'd really like to go out again.
She's feeling ghosted. We just wantedto get your side of the story before
we start rendering judgments. So howdid you feel about the date? I
mean, Cat was Cat is avery cute cat. Um, very cute
(04:06):
woman. But it was kind ofan awkward situation because she was doing that.
Um, I would say that thatreally awkward. What's normally the guy
thing? I'm grabbing your crotch allday? What you know? You know
what I'm saying. You know,you know that that one complaint women have
about baseball players about like just grabbingyour crotch all the time. Okay,
(04:28):
she did that, and it waslike it was just like this really weird,
awkward thing because it was like aconstant just grabbing at herself and was
like, quart's going on, It'sjust like a nervous tick. And it
was like I didn't really and wasyou know, in the in the times
that we're in, I didn't knowhow to ask or mention it or what
(04:49):
women do. I've so I've seena woman do that when her attire is
uncomfortable okay, um, but I'vealso I mean, is you have to
wonder if there's a medical issue.I've never heard of this. This is
(05:09):
really I'm uncomfortable. And and what'sgoing to make it even more uncomfortable is
when we tell you that Kat's actuallyon the phone. Yeah, Kat,
So what position do you play onthe team? Oh, don't do that?
A big giant jerk. Yeah,I'm sorry, I just would be
hugely embarrassed. All right, Okay, I'm sorry, Yeah, be nice.
(05:32):
I'm so embarrassed. I'm sorry.He knew that I was doing it,
So what were you doing? Well? I borrowed my roommates pants and
they were just too tight and Ididn't realize how uncomfortable they were until I
got to the bar and there wasnothing I could do, and I was
(05:54):
just adjustment. It was a wardrobemalfunction. I saw. I don't do
this all the time. I'm somortified. I feel terrible. All right,
Well, yeah, like I said, it was one of those things,
I you know, it felt weirdlike asking about it and pointed out
and I didn't know what it was, kind of freaked out by accident.
(06:15):
And yeah, well I'm gonna saythat you guys sound super cute here on
the phone together, and it's justlike a misunderstanding. Can we okay,
Travis? Can we try for asecond date here? Now that we have
some you know, there's some selfawareness here, I mean you loved it
otherwise, right? Oh yeah,definitely okay. I will wear my own
(06:39):
clothes. See we're going in theright direction. Travis. Can you ask
a lady out for a second date? Or what? Yeah? Would you
like to go out on a seconddate? Guess what? Yeah? This
is cute? I love it?Okay, great, so happy to buy
(07:02):
our own pants? Dance party?Did we just get a win on a
Friday? Holler? Yay? Hey, I like it. Listen Second date
Update. If you are new tothe show, she started listening. We
do have a podcast if you wantto binge listen to all of the calls.
It's on the iHeartRadio app. Gosearch out Marcus and Corey. Second
(07:23):
Date Update. It is Friday,Yeah it is. And have you seen
the video of Ben Affleck slamming thecar door on j Loo after holding it
open for her? So it's onour Facebook page. You can check it
out. And I just you know, it's one of those passive aggressive moves.
Slamming the door is the ultimate,So we're asking the question, what
(07:44):
is your passive aggressive move when you'reupset? Corey and I have realized we
both have one. Let's tell y'allabout it. Coming up in about four
minutes, it's Star one on onethree versus Lady Gaga with Bloody Mary.
Good morning,
Or variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
to one three, it's Marcus andCory, and it's back y'all. Second
date update. This is where webecome the love experts and try to get
you a second date with someone youwent on a first date with and maybe
they kind of ghosted or they disappearedand you're not sure why. Let's use
the term experts loosely, love influencers, connoisseurs, supporters. It's even worse.
(00:26):
Say good morning to Kat, Hi, Kat, Hey, good morning.
Hey. Okay, we want totalk about your date with Travis,
because apparently it was fine and Iguess he's gone. So roll us through
how you guys met first, andthen let's talk about how the first date
went. Okay, So I metTravis on Coffee Meat Beingalay, and I
(00:50):
was really attracted to his profile becausehe was so honest and genuine and I'm
looking for something serious and he wastoo. Um we got it and we
got along really really well when wewere chatting back and forth on the app.
And so we met for drinks andwe're both in San Jose, so
(01:11):
we went downtown. Sure, andit was a blast, like we hit
it off, like there was nodull moment, there was no awkward you
know pauses or like what do Iask? Now? We just flowed and
I was so excited to see himagain. And then he ghosted me like
I'm so bummed, Like I don'teven know what went wrong. Everything seemed
(01:33):
fine, so he's gone, ohyou know what I mean. It breaks
my heart whenever we do this andit's you're so excited and then you don't
hear from the other person. Idon't understand. Epidemic. Um, Okay,
so you know the drill. You'vebeen listening to the show long enough.
We're gonna have you on the line. We'll have you mute your phone
and we'll call Travis and we'll seewhat's up, so you'll be able to
(01:56):
hear directly from him. Basically,Okay, okay, I'll mute everybody reset.
We'll do it right after this song. It's a second Date update Star
one on one three or variety fromthe two thousands, the nineties, and
today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing
second Date Update. This is athis is a tale of South Bay Romance.
Yeah, Kat sort of, becauseKat, are you there? You
(02:17):
can own mute really quick. Yeah, she's in position, She's ready.
So you met Travis online and youall got drinks in downtown San Jose.
Okay, and the date was fineby your estimations and stands out. No,
nothing like we had a blast.I mean the conversation was just easy.
(02:37):
Okay. And he has ghosted.Yes, h weird. Okay,
Let's call him and see how hethought the date went. All right,
let's get his perspective. Go backon mute. Here we go. Okay,
(03:00):
Hi, may speak with Travis.Please, Hi, Travis. It's
Marcus and Corey from Star one onethree Mornie Travis, Morning him. We
do a radio show in the BayArea, and we want to know if
you'd be comfortable talking with us.Okay, so okay. So it's Star
(03:23):
Win to Win three and we doa dating segment where we figure out why
someone hasn't responded to a second datelike you go on a first date.
We want to figure out why youare not available for a second date.
Yes, so we wanted to askyou about your date with Cats. Are
you cool talking with us? Yeah? Sure? Okay, this is a
(03:44):
lot I know it's a lot.It's a lot for first thing in the
morning. Um. Yeah, soshe'd really like to go out again.
She's feeling ghosted. We just wantedto get your side of the story before
we start rendering judgments. So howdid you feel about the date? I
mean, Cat was Cat is avery cute cat. Um, very cute
(04:06):
woman. But it was kind ofan awkward situation because she was doing that.
Um, I would say that thatreally awkward. What's normally the guy
thing? I'm grabbing your crotch allday? What you know? You know
what I'm saying. You know,you know that that one complaint women have
about baseball players about like just grabbingyour crotch all the time. Okay,
(04:28):
she did that, and it waslike it was just like this really weird,
awkward thing because it was like aconstant just grabbing at herself and was
like, quart's going on, It'sjust like a nervous tick. And it
was like I didn't really and wasyou know, in the in the times
that we're in, I didn't knowhow to ask or mention it or what
(04:49):
women do. I've so I've seena woman do that when her attire is
uncomfortable okay, um, but I'vealso I mean, is you have to
wonder if there's a medical issue.I've never heard of this. This is
(05:09):
really I'm uncomfortable. And and what'sgoing to make it even more uncomfortable is
when we tell you that Kat's actuallyon the phone. Yeah, Kat,
So what position do you play onthe team? Oh, don't do that?
A big giant jerk. Yeah,I'm sorry, I just would be
hugely embarrassed. All right, Okay, I'm sorry, Yeah, be nice.
(05:32):
I'm so embarrassed. I'm sorry.He knew that I was doing it,
So what were you doing? Well? I borrowed my roommates pants and
they were just too tight and Ididn't realize how uncomfortable they were until I
got to the bar and there wasnothing I could do, and I was
(05:54):
just adjustment. It was a wardrobemalfunction. I saw. I don't do
this all the time. I'm somortified. I feel terrible. All right,
Well, yeah, like I said, it was one of those things,
I you know, it felt weirdlike asking about it and pointed out
and I didn't know what it was, kind of freaked out by accident.
(06:15):
And yeah, well I'm gonna saythat you guys sound super cute here on
the phone together, and it's justlike a misunderstanding. Can we okay,
Travis? Can we try for asecond date here? Now that we have
some you know, there's some selfawareness here, I mean you loved it
otherwise, right? Oh yeah,definitely okay. I will wear my own
(06:39):
clothes. See we're going in theright direction. Travis. Can you ask
a lady out for a second date? Or what? Yeah? Would you
like to go out on a seconddate? Guess what? Yeah? This
is cute? I love it?Okay, great, so happy to buy
(07:02):
our own pants? Dance party?Did we just get a win on a
Friday? Holler? Yay? Hey, I like it. Listen Second date
Update. If you are new tothe show, she started listening. We
do have a podcast if you wantto binge listen to all of the calls.
It's on the iHeartRadio app. Gosearch out Marcus and Corey. Second
(07:23):
Date Update. It is Friday,Yeah it is. And have you seen
the video of Ben Affleck slamming thecar door on j Loo after holding it
open for her? So it's onour Facebook page. You can check it
out. And I just you know, it's one of those passive aggressive moves.
Slamming the door is the ultimate,So we're asking the question, what
(07:44):
is your passive aggressive move when you'reupset? Corey and I have realized we
both have one. Let's tell y'allabout it. Coming up in about four
minutes, it's Star one on onethree versus Lady Gaga with Bloody Mary.
Good morning,
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