May 23, 2023 • 9 mins
Gary was attracted to Sandra'a hustle. She's a salon owner, and Gary thought that was awesome! He thought the date was awesome too. So why oh why has Sandra ghosted?
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(00:00):
Well variety for the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one,
one three, It's Marcus and Coreyand it's back y'all once again.
Second date Update and effect. We'retrying to help you get a second date
going a first date. Maybe youmet online. You think the first date
went amazing, but now you're nothearing from the other person, and we
want to get to the bottom ofit. Say good morning to Gary,
Gary, Gary, hello for helpingme out here on this. Go ahead
(00:23):
and do the line from the movieGeary, I thought you were cooling your
hair. I'm sure he's never heardthat one weird science. Yeah, it's
a classic. So tell us aboutSandra. Tell us first, let's start
with how you met, and thenwe'll roll into how the first date went.
Yeah, so we linked up onHinge. Very attracted to her right
(00:46):
away, I mean just off ofher like pictures, I guess, And
she has this like short hair,kind of a pixie cut thing, which
is like I don't know why that, like I just dig it does it
for me. And after we talkedbit I learned that she's like a business
owner and she has her own salonand she's like totally did it all on
her own, you know, nono outside help, just like ground up
(01:08):
success. And I thought that wasreally interesting, kind of a two for
you know, like hot and accomplished. Sure, and I so after a
week of us kind of going backand forth, I asked her out and
we met up in Redwood City fordinner, and conversation was like great,
like you know, two hours wentby in five minutes. It felt like
(01:30):
we were laughing and had a lotin common, and I was excited to
get to know her and just youfigure out how she did this. She's
like super successful. And so thedate kind of ended with like a hug
and a little like sidepacked nothing toocrazy, but she did say something like,
yeah, we should definitely do thisagain. And now, you know,
I feel like I know it's adate went well or not, like
(01:53):
or I wouldn't be on here withyou guys, like I have a decent
engage. But she's like, I'mgetting completely ignored, no text even,
and I regret this a calder andleft a voicemail and it did like it
did like a ring and a half, you know where, just like boat.
So I know I got screened.Okay, something's up, all right?
What we do? Yeah, sohere's how this is gonna work.
(02:15):
We're gonna have you on the line. We're gonna call her just to get
her take on the date, andmaybe that'll give us a clue. Maybe
she's just been busy. I don'tknow. Let's see if we can get
your second date. Can you hangon the line? You bet? All
right, dude. We're gonna playa song and then we will call Sandra.
Okay, it's a second Dight updateStar one on one three more variety
from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star one on one
(02:37):
three. It's Marcus and Corey.We're doing second date Update. We can
chatting with Gary about his day withSandra, which he'd liked your haircut for
you know first and for the oldpixie cut. I'm thinking about doing that.
So yeah, Gary, we havea pull up right now on our
Instagram. Whether or not Corey she'dget a pixie cut. Don't get any
(02:57):
ideas she's taken. However, maybewe could use your vote. Let's call
Sandra and see how she thought thedate went. Okay, but can you
can you mute your phone? Great? All right, let's do this Hello,
Hi, may speak with Sandra please? Yeah, this is she uses
(03:21):
Hi Sandra, It's Marcus and Coreyfrom Star Win Win three. Um,
Hi did I win something? Hi? Right? A toaster? Oh?
I did? Come on now justlisten. Hey, we want to ask
you. Hey, do you listento the show? Yeah, of course
(03:42):
I do. Okay, you guysare awesome, fantastic nice. I know
because I was like, I don'tknow if they ever given away a toaster,
but I'll take it, okay.So I don't know if you know
realize what time it is, butit's second Date update time, and we
had somebody call about you. II think I know what this is about.
(04:04):
I think, yes, I know. I love Second Date Update.
I never thought that I would beon second Date update. Here we are
nevertheless, have you been on adate recently? Uh? Yeah? Are
you talking about Gary? We arehere, Gary, Gary. She has
(04:25):
the drill, so you might aswell get off mute. Okay, here
I am excellent, excellent, herewe are all are so Sandra. Um,
Gary would like to take you outagain, and he's feeling ghosted and
we just wanted to see where youwere at. Well, I mean,
(04:45):
listen, the date was great,and yeah, I meant what I said
when I said we should see eachother again. But the problem started.
Actually the next day, I wasactually at Target and I saw Gary and
I was about to go like runningup and be like, oh my god,
what what are the odds? Kindof like of all the gin joints
in all the world. Sure,right, And then when I was walking
(05:08):
in to say hi, I sawhim with this other woman and a child,
and I'm like, wtf, Okayis that his wife? And he
has a kid, and you know, none of this was discussed and I'm
sorry, but it's like a Crimsonred flag. So I just decided to
quit, you know, before Igot ahead of myself. Sure of you
(05:30):
know, geary, Geary, thoughts, are you what's going on there?
You got a secret family? Yeah? Okay, so yeah, what's the
what am I am in the middleof. I'm in in a like I'm
separated that that was my wife andwe have we have yeah, we have
a five year old together, sowe do get together to take the five
(05:53):
year old around because it's an amicablebreakup. And I probably should have brought
that up, but it wasn't.It just didn't come up, and It's
not like I was going to keepit from her forever or something like that,
but um yeah, and I thoughtit might have been kind of a
buzz kill for date one. Itwouldn't have gone past date two. Yeah,
but it was just like, Idon't know, everything was going great,
(06:15):
and then I didn't. She didn'ttalk about any of her past relationships.
I didn't talk about mine. Iknow mine's a little more loaded,
but um yeah, okay, Iwouldn't. I mean me personally, I
would not want to get involved withsomebody until they were out of that relationship.
Funny you should say that because I'vebeen there. He started dating,
Well, you're still married, Imean technically, okay, are you judging
(06:41):
me right? No? I'm not, well, Sandra, how do you
feel about that explanation? I mean, I just wish he could have been
a little more transparent. I mean, it's a little weird, and I
think that's important information you have totell somebody up front. But I mean,
I think that can be such ago to line for guys like oh,
yeah, we're separate, you knowwhatever, But like, are you
(07:01):
really that would be my question ifyou're like running errands together. I get
it. I mean that's co parentingon some level, right, is it
true? True? Um, okay, it's all a look Sandra, it's
all about your comfortability, your comfortlevel. So where are we at?
You want to do a second date? Um? I mean I really like
(07:26):
him, but I just need toknow that he's one hundred percent presence and
you know that he doesn't probably haveother skeletons in the closet. So I
mean, maybe, like if youwrap up that current situation and give it
a little bit of time, youknow, then give me a call.
(07:46):
How about that. I think atthis point that's my only choice. So
I will, I will get theank will be dry on that whole thing.
I need to mention, Um,I share a dog with her,
and she's going to end up withit. So I didn't there's a there's
a dog. You might see mewalking a dog some somewhere, and so
that should be the only thing leftthat I didn't say. It's a lab.
(08:09):
See disclosure, disclosure is important.Yeah, I will wrap it up.
I will, I will get that. Yeah, I like you,
I like you. It might belike five months because this is, you
know, a reparation thing. Let'splay it by air people. Everybody hang
on one second, okay, okay, was that a win or that was
a hold on? Okay? Allright, gonna we're gonna put a pin
(08:31):
in this. I'm gonna I'm gonnathink positively. Oh that's cute, all
right. Second Date Update seven hfive Weekday Mornings, replace it nine oh
five. It is Tuesday Morning.Is Marcus and Corey. Oh don't forget.
It's got the podcast too. Youcan binge listen all the past phone
calls on the iHeartRadio app. Golook for Marcus and Corey. Second Date
(08:52):
update coming up. Now that myfamily has left town, we can talk
about them. Oh good, Okay, So my cousins and uncles are awesome,
but they are also they can beclowns. All I'm gonna say is,
on three separate occasions during the familyvisit, I had to say the
words don't do that. We're inpublic and I have to live here.
Yikes, that's scary. I'll tellyou what happened. Coming up next,
(09:15):
it's Star one on one three,here's Dean Lewis. It's called how Do
I Say Goodbye
Well variety for the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one,
one three, It's Marcus and Coreyand it's back y'all once again.
Second date Update and effect. We'retrying to help you get a second date
going a first date. Maybe youmet online. You think the first date
went amazing, but now you're nothearing from the other person, and we
want to get to the bottom ofit. Say good morning to Gary,
Gary, Gary, hello for helpingme out here on this. Go ahead
(00:23):
and do the line from the movieGeary, I thought you were cooling your
hair. I'm sure he's never heardthat one weird science. Yeah, it's
a classic. So tell us aboutSandra. Tell us first, let's start
with how you met, and thenwe'll roll into how the first date went.
Yeah, so we linked up onHinge. Very attracted to her right
(00:46):
away, I mean just off ofher like pictures, I guess, And
she has this like short hair,kind of a pixie cut thing, which
is like I don't know why that, like I just dig it does it
for me. And after we talkedbit I learned that she's like a business
owner and she has her own salonand she's like totally did it all on
her own, you know, nono outside help, just like ground up
(01:08):
success. And I thought that wasreally interesting, kind of a two for
you know, like hot and accomplished. Sure, and I so after a
week of us kind of going backand forth, I asked her out and
we met up in Redwood City fordinner, and conversation was like great,
like you know, two hours wentby in five minutes. It felt like
(01:30):
we were laughing and had a lotin common, and I was excited to
get to know her and just youfigure out how she did this. She's
like super successful. And so thedate kind of ended with like a hug
and a little like sidepacked nothing toocrazy, but she did say something like,
yeah, we should definitely do thisagain. And now, you know,
I feel like I know it's adate went well or not, like
(01:53):
or I wouldn't be on here withyou guys, like I have a decent
engage. But she's like, I'mgetting completely ignored, no text even,
and I regret this a calder andleft a voicemail and it did like it
did like a ring and a half, you know where, just like boat.
So I know I got screened.Okay, something's up, all right?
What we do? Yeah, sohere's how this is gonna work.
(02:15):
We're gonna have you on the line. We're gonna call her just to get
her take on the date, andmaybe that'll give us a clue. Maybe
she's just been busy. I don'tknow. Let's see if we can get
your second date. Can you hangon the line? You bet? All
right, dude. We're gonna playa song and then we will call Sandra.
Okay, it's a second Dight updateStar one on one three more variety
from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star one on one
(02:37):
three. It's Marcus and Corey.We're doing second date Update. We can
chatting with Gary about his day withSandra, which he'd liked your haircut for
you know first and for the oldpixie cut. I'm thinking about doing that.
So yeah, Gary, we havea pull up right now on our
Instagram. Whether or not Corey she'dget a pixie cut. Don't get any
(02:57):
ideas she's taken. However, maybewe could use your vote. Let's call
Sandra and see how she thought thedate went. Okay, but can you
can you mute your phone? Great? All right, let's do this Hello,
Hi, may speak with Sandra please? Yeah, this is she uses
(03:21):
Hi Sandra, It's Marcus and Coreyfrom Star Win Win three. Um,
Hi did I win something? Hi? Right? A toaster? Oh?
I did? Come on now justlisten. Hey, we want to ask
you. Hey, do you listento the show? Yeah, of course
(03:42):
I do. Okay, you guysare awesome, fantastic nice. I know
because I was like, I don'tknow if they ever given away a toaster,
but I'll take it, okay.So I don't know if you know
realize what time it is, butit's second Date update time, and we
had somebody call about you. II think I know what this is about.
(04:04):
I think, yes, I know. I love Second Date Update.
I never thought that I would beon second Date update. Here we are
nevertheless, have you been on adate recently? Uh? Yeah? Are
you talking about Gary? We arehere, Gary, Gary. She has
(04:25):
the drill, so you might aswell get off mute. Okay, here
I am excellent, excellent, herewe are all are so Sandra. Um,
Gary would like to take you outagain, and he's feeling ghosted and
we just wanted to see where youwere at. Well, I mean,
(04:45):
listen, the date was great,and yeah, I meant what I said
when I said we should see eachother again. But the problem started.
Actually the next day, I wasactually at Target and I saw Gary and
I was about to go like runningup and be like, oh my god,
what what are the odds? Kindof like of all the gin joints
in all the world. Sure,right, And then when I was walking
(05:08):
in to say hi, I sawhim with this other woman and a child,
and I'm like, wtf, Okayis that his wife? And he
has a kid, and you know, none of this was discussed and I'm
sorry, but it's like a Crimsonred flag. So I just decided to
quit, you know, before Igot ahead of myself. Sure of you
(05:30):
know, geary, Geary, thoughts, are you what's going on there?
You got a secret family? Yeah? Okay, so yeah, what's the
what am I am in the middleof. I'm in in a like I'm
separated that that was my wife andwe have we have yeah, we have
a five year old together, sowe do get together to take the five
(05:53):
year old around because it's an amicablebreakup. And I probably should have brought
that up, but it wasn't.It just didn't come up, and It's
not like I was going to keepit from her forever or something like that,
but um yeah, and I thoughtit might have been kind of a
buzz kill for date one. Itwouldn't have gone past date two. Yeah,
but it was just like, Idon't know, everything was going great,
(06:15):
and then I didn't. She didn'ttalk about any of her past relationships.
I didn't talk about mine. Iknow mine's a little more loaded,
but um yeah, okay, Iwouldn't. I mean me personally, I
would not want to get involved withsomebody until they were out of that relationship.
Funny you should say that because I'vebeen there. He started dating,
Well, you're still married, Imean technically, okay, are you judging
(06:41):
me right? No? I'm not, well, Sandra, how do you
feel about that explanation? I mean, I just wish he could have been
a little more transparent. I mean, it's a little weird, and I
think that's important information you have totell somebody up front. But I mean,
I think that can be such ago to line for guys like oh,
yeah, we're separate, you knowwhatever, But like, are you
(07:01):
really that would be my question ifyou're like running errands together. I get
it. I mean that's co parentingon some level, right, is it
true? True? Um, okay, it's all a look Sandra, it's
all about your comfortability, your comfortlevel. So where are we at?
You want to do a second date? Um? I mean I really like
(07:26):
him, but I just need toknow that he's one hundred percent presence and
you know that he doesn't probably haveother skeletons in the closet. So I
mean, maybe, like if youwrap up that current situation and give it
a little bit of time, youknow, then give me a call.
(07:46):
How about that. I think atthis point that's my only choice. So
I will, I will get theank will be dry on that whole thing.
I need to mention, Um,I share a dog with her,
and she's going to end up withit. So I didn't there's a there's
a dog. You might see mewalking a dog some somewhere, and so
that should be the only thing leftthat I didn't say. It's a lab.
(08:09):
See disclosure, disclosure is important.Yeah, I will wrap it up.
I will, I will get that. Yeah, I like you,
I like you. It might belike five months because this is, you
know, a reparation thing. Let'splay it by air people. Everybody hang
on one second, okay, okay, was that a win or that was
a hold on? Okay? Allright, gonna we're gonna put a pin
(08:31):
in this. I'm gonna I'm gonnathink positively. Oh that's cute, all
right. Second Date Update seven hfive Weekday Mornings, replace it nine oh
five. It is Tuesday Morning.Is Marcus and Corey. Oh don't forget.
It's got the podcast too. Youcan binge listen all the past phone
calls on the iHeartRadio app. Golook for Marcus and Corey. Second Date
(08:52):
update coming up. Now that myfamily has left town, we can talk
about them. Oh good, Okay, So my cousins and uncles are awesome,
but they are also they can beclowns. All I'm gonna say is,
on three separate occasions during the familyvisit, I had to say the
words don't do that. We're inpublic and I have to live here.
Yikes, that's scary. I'll tellyou what happened. Coming up next,
(09:15):
it's Star one on one three,here's Dean Lewis. It's called how Do
I Say Goodbye
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