JulIe and Matt Had a Connection Over Cocktails

Julie and Matt went drinking, and she thought it was a real connection. Problem is, Matt has dipped out on her now that she wants to see him again. 

Episode Transcript

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More variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's a star
one on one three, It's timeto get into it. This is second
date update. If you're not familiar, Corey to tell you more. You
meet somebody, you hit it off, right, go on a date,
you think a second one's in thebag, and then nothing. A lot
of people getting ghosted. We wantto figure out why and want to see

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if we can fix it. Datingis savage? Am I right? Julia?
There? Yeah, dating is verysavage. What can you tell us
about Matt? How did you guys? How did you guys meet? And
then I understand he's disappeared, Sotell us what happened on the first date?

(00:42):
Yeah? So basically, we likemet on Hinge and decided we go
to this cute like bar that's knownfor their cocktails because I honestly love a
good mohido and that's one of theirspecialties. So I was like, that's
perfect, and like Nott was supercute. He seemed, you know,
a little shy, but he endedup talking more after like a couple of
drinks. Is you know? Ithink most of us do? Sure?

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And we found out like we sharedsome similarities, like we both love the
Giants, so that was like areally easy thing to connect on. He
was, you know, kind offunny, like he managed to make me
laugh a few times, which,honestly, like not always the easiest.
I like that. I like youdescribe him as kind of funny, like
not hilarious, Like he's not astand up comment. It's manageable. It's

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manageable. It's like, Marcus,what how proud you are of yourself right
now? Anyway? Sorry back toyou, Julie. Yeah, like he
just I thought, you know,we had a good time. And I've
been texting him and like I cansee he has his re receipts on,

(01:53):
so like, I know he's seenmy text but he hasn't texted me back,
and I'm just not really sure why. I immediately change that on my
phone settings. That is so hthat red receipt boy. Nope, nothing
will destroy yourself esteem quicker than ared receipt and no response. Anyway,
Julie, we're here to help.We're gonna call Matt. Thank you.

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Sure, we're gonna have you onthe line. I mean, you know,
how this goes, we'll have youmute and we'll see what's up.
Let's see if we can get someperspective from how he thought the date was.
Can you hang on the line fora song? Though definitely okay?
Maybe it got some weird infection andlike the hands. Corey has the best
theories. He can't text back becauseevery time no hands, no no hands

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means no fingers, right, yeap? That is you need to get off
the date line, dude. Allright? Anyway, Julie has a new
idea how to take you Right now, Julie just relaxed, taking deep breath.
We'll call him after this. It'sit's second Date Update, Star one
one three more variety from the twothousands, the nineties, and today it's
Star one on one three. It'sMarcus and Corey. We're doing second Date

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Update. We've been chatting with Julieabout her date with Matt. It sounds
like everything went smoothly and you guyshooked up in the city for cocktails.
Nothing stands out like nothing happened,like you disagreed about something or nothing weird
happened, Julie. No, nothingokay, and he has disappeared. And
to add insult to injury, hisred receipts are on he's ignoring, So

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let's call him. Go ahead andmute and we'll have you on the line.
So here we go. Hello,Hi, may speak with Matt?
Please? Yeah speaking? Who's thishim? Matt? It's Marcus and Corey
from Star one one three Morning Matt? Uh? Hi? What? Sorry?

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Uh? We magazine. No,it'd be cooler, wouldn't it.
We work for iHeartRadio for Star oneone three in San Francisco, and we
do a warning show on the radio. I don't suppose you ever listen?
Uh not really? No, okay, what's up? Hey? So we're
doing a dating segment. We wouldlove to chat with you if you've got

(04:11):
a couple of minutes on the air. If that's okay, I'd love to
ask you about a date you've beenon recently. That's all right? Oh
okay? What a Specifically, Iwanted to get your thoughts on your last
date with with Julie because she wouldlove to go out with you again and
she's feeling like you're like ghosting ignoringher, and we just wanted to get

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the real deal. Uh okay,yeah, sure, I mean the date
was strange, like uh I justokay. So yeah, like we met
online on hinge and like she wasfunny online and like that's why I,

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you know, wanted to go outwith her, but you know, in
person, and as soon as weordered drinks, she was like, you're
getting mad, Like are you serious? And like she just starts laughing at
me, and like, I mean, look, I ordered a drink that's
called Malibu Sunset. It's you know, rum pineapple orange juice. It's like
very brightly colored, comes with anumbrella in it. And you know,

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I told her, I like myfruity drinks and that's not my favorites,
so of course that's what I order. I'm going to be myself on a
date, so why wouldn't you?And she would not stop cracking jokes about
it. She was just making funof me over and over and over again,
like after everything I said, shewould like slipping. Yeah, and

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of course, like with a MalbouSunset, I was like, what are
you talking about? She was shewas trying to make fun of me,
I think, but in honestly justa relentless, not funny way. I
understand. Yeah, all right,Here's the thing about about this segment is

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Julia is actually listening right now becausebecause she wants to know why you didn't
get back to her, right,Julie, Are you there, sorry,
Julie, Yeah, hello, Yeah, how can you not make fun of
that? Though? Like he's gota bunch of tattoos and he's drinking a

(06:24):
gurly beech drink. Like, I'msorry, but I can't resist that,
and I can't resist his liking whatI like, and I just happen to
not be you know, I don'tknow a beer whiskey dude, or you
know, I don't I'm not intoshots or anything like that. I like
Cosmo's, my ties stuff like that, And like, honestly, I don't

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think I've ever encountered anyone who likedidn't mind that I was into these kinds
of drinks. So also, it'svery manly of you to drink that and
not care. I also feel likeit doesn't actually bother me. I was
just trying to make a joke becauseI thought it was funny, like the
whole juxtaposition happening there, big word, Yeah, jesus, Well, I

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mean one joke is not what happened. That was like the entire night,
so so mad? Is there anyhope for a second date here? I
mean, oh, absolutely not,not for me. Fair enough, Hang
on, I mean, let's thinkI drink what he wants to drink.
Like this is such a weird thingto focus on. I don't drink beer.
Does that make me a bad person? I don't drink beer anyway.

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