Kyle and Mary Took In Some Culture

Kyle and Mary went to the deYoung Museum for a first date. Wow... fancy. So why then, is Mary ignoring him now that he's asking to see her again.

Episode Transcript

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It's more variety from the two thousandsthan nineties. And today Star one to
three, it's Marcus and Corey.We're back with second date update. That's
what's up. Yeah, we're tryingto figure out how to get you a
second date when you have a goodfirst one. Well, you think,
and then you don't hear from anybody. So Kyle's on the phone, Kyle,
good morning, morning guys. Howare you hello? So it says

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here that you met May on Matchper your email that you're tired of the
younger apps, so elaborate on that. Yeah, it's just that thing.
You know, I'm in my latethirties, I'm done with the games.
I made it very clear on myapp. On my like, you know,
the profile thinks, sorry I'm besttech guy, that I'm not a
hook up guy, you know whatI mean. I met this girl May.

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We were chatting. It was reallyfun back and four. We both
enjoyed movies and you know, culturestuff. So I invited her to the
d young because you know, I'mthis sounds weird to admit, but I'm
ann Ansel Adams fam. And wehad lunch after. Yeah, like we
even held hands at lunch and Ihaven't heard from her, and I'm just
I'm just super bummed, you knowwhat I mean. I thought it was

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a gentleman. I don't remember puttingup any red flags, and you know,
here I am. I'm getting ghosted, all right? So what do
we do with this? We callher and figure out what happened. This
sounds, I mean, sounds likea good first date. I'll tell you
what, Kyle, can you hangon the line for a song? I
can? Okay, So we're gonnaend up calling May here in about three

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or four minutes, and we'll haveyou mute your phone and we'll have you
just kind of listening and we'll seewhat she has to say about the date.
Okay, So Hank tight, We'llbe right back. It's a Second
Date Update Star one on one threevariety from the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's Star one on onethree. It's Marcus and Corey.
We're doing second Date Update. We'vebeen talking to Kyle, who met May
on match. He was tired ofall the meaningless hookups. I don't know

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if that's what he said. Here'slooking for something more real. Kyle.
You're still there. I am stillhere. Okay, LORI was correct.
Okay, we're looking for something moremeaningful. I was not tired of all
the hook ups. Thank you Coreyfor defending me. Yes, of course.
Let's call May and see how thefirst date went from her perspective,
this little museum date that you guysdid. Hang on the line. Mute

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your phone. She will be ableto hear you. Here we go,
Hello, I may speak with May. Please. This is she I May.
It's Marcus and Corey from Star oneone three. Good morning, hid
dying? Um? Will you amorning show? Do you do? It's

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a second date update? Oh wow, she does listen? Oh man,
what if it is? Maybe youwant to play? Oh my gosh?
Um? Uh yeah, okay,do you have some time to talk about
a recent date? And would youmind being on the radio with us?
That's fine? Yeah okay, yeah, So since you know about second date

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update, we might as well bringKyle on right now? Yeah? Okay,
Kyle must Kyle? Are you there? Hi? Everyone? Hillo?
Nice again? There he is?So Ye May tell us about the date.
Yeah. So dates started out great. Really liked Kyle. We I

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really enjoyed. We went to thisansel Abdom's exhibit and I I thought he
was really intelligent. I appreciated alot of his takes on on art.
The museum was super fun. Um, but lunch is where things went way
off really okay, yeah, yeah, so super uncomfortable. But um,

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We've been sitting at the table forabout fifteen minutes and Kyle like locks eyes
on me, reaches over from myhand and says, very dramatically, you
know, I would never hurt you. I'm in this for the long haul,
and I see a real future forus. WHOA just like that?

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I just like that. And Iwas so uncomfortable that that was just way
too soon. This is the firstdate. Like, it was just way
too soon, and it just kindof kept going for there for me,
just kind of yeah, like hejust kept talking about what the future looked
like and how he was really readyfor kids and started talking about private versus

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public schools, and I just know, I didn't even know what to say.
It was really uncomfortable, and Ijust kind of didn't wait to get
out of there. Kyle, Kyle, this is aggressive, Kyle. I
just thought a woman would like tohear that a man is, you know,
straightforward and upfront with his goals.For life on the relationship. Okay,

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right, I'm you know, Iappreciate trying to be straightforward and upfront,
but not on a first date likethat. Conversation should have happened like
a month later, a month later. Just yeah, I just didn't.
I didn't even really know you,and you're coming at me and you're talking

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very seriously about all of this andlike our kids and things like that.
I think you're a nice kid,right I yeah, I think you're a
really nice guy, Kyle. Ireally do. But this was a little
fast and too serious for me.All right, just for the sake of
argument, Kyle, what if Kyleback pedaled? Yeah, just throw the

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brakes on. May we do asecond date? I don't think so?
All right? Fair enough? Hangon, there are this files under things
to keep to yourself. By theway, just maybe for like the first
couple months of dating. Look,we've all been there, and we've all
said to ourselves, this is theone, but you gotta be gonna lock

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that down, parcel it out.Has anyone said this is the one on
the first dates? Hey? Howare you? I knew my wife for
a week before we moved in together. There is anyway Second Date Update.
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