May 25, 2023 • 7 mins
Ramen is David's favorite food, so he was juiced to share it together with Kelsea. He wants to see her again, but she's ignoring him. Let's call her and see what's up.
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(00:00):
More variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three, it's Marcus andCorey. You know what time it is,
it's second date update time. Thisis where we figure out why you
are not getting ahold of a personthat you went on eight first date with
and you want a second date.Yep. So let's say good morning to
David. Hello, David, Hi, good morning, hey man. So
(00:21):
tell us about Kelsey. I knowyou emailed in, but like, how
did you guys meet? And thenwhat was the vibe? And then like
like what did you do for thefirst date? Okay, Well I met
Kelsey on Plenty of Fish. It'sa dating app. Sure, if you're
familiar, Yeah, I met herthere. I liked her profile from the
get go. She was looking forsomething. I liked that she was up
(00:42):
front, she was looking for somethingmore serious. She wasn't looking just to
hook up. A lot of peoplego on that site just to hook up.
Sure, so I was pretty excitedwhen I found her profile. She
had great pictures on there, andwhen she had a great personality. So
we started talking and messaging back andforth for a few weeks and we hit
it off. So we decided tomeet up, and she actually suggested Ramen,
(01:03):
which I got super excited about becauseit's literally my favorite food. Yeah,
four times a week. Yeah.So when she said that, I
was like, oh, well,this is gonna be perfect. She's the
one already, you know. Soum. So we go on the date
and everything was fine. I thoughtwe had a great time. She was
laughing, we were conversating. Theyweren't like too many awkward pauses or anything
like that. Okay, and thenyou know, after the date, I
(01:29):
dropped her off. Everything felt great, and then after the date, she
kind of just ghosted me. AndI didn't understand why because everything was great.
I don't know, she's really disappeared. Yeah, she's gone, and
I can't figure out why, becauseI literally retraced all my steps from that
night. Complete gentlemen paid for themeal. I don't know. I was
(01:52):
engaged in what she had to sayand nothing, nothing at all. You're
very serious. Sounds like you've ananimalizing every move. That what we do
the old reverse engineer. I think, well, it's more like I feel
like that way with women than men. But no, no, no,
when we dude, David, backme up. When we meet a girl
(02:12):
we're really into, Like you're tryingso hard not to screw that up at
least I am. I don't know, yeh, Like that's when you're the
most interested, like you know,you're not trying to mess up a good
I always I always used to tellSandy that, like, if a dude
wants to hang out with you,he will find a way. Well,
that was also on Sex in theCity. They're like, if they want
to hang out with you, theywill, they will find a way,
(02:35):
and if they don't, then they'renot interested. All right, let's find
a way for David. We'd havemore bolts of ramen, which sounds delicious
right now, by the way.Yeah, um, okay, so we're
gonna call her. You know thedeal. We'll have you on mute.
We'll see what she says. Okay, okay, all right, budd hang
on for a song. We'll makethe call. Next Second Date update Star
one on one three more variety fromthe two thousands, the nineties, and
(02:57):
today. It's Star one on onethree. It's Marcus and Corey. We
are in the middle of Second DateUpdate. We've been chatting with David,
who's been holding David be there,Yes, Okay, it is time to
mute. We're gonna call Kelsey,who you met online and who is ghosted
after your first date. We're gonnafigure out why because we like her.
Let's see what's up ahead and goback on mute. But here we go.
(03:23):
Hello, Hi, may speak withKelsey? Please? Yes? Who
is it? Hi? Kelsey?It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three. Hey, Hi,this is a radio station and we do
a morning show in the Bay Area. Yes, you know, let's to
our show, do you? Iguess? Obviously not. It's cool,
(03:45):
that's cool, you should though.He's here to recruit listeners. Were tons
of fun. We are fun.Okay, great? Great? Um,
not why we're calling. So wedo a dating segment called second Date Update,
and we wanted to ask you ifyou're cool to talk about it on
the air about a date that youjust went on with a guy named David.
He would love to see you again. He's feeling ghosted. We want
(04:09):
to get your vibe, so whatcan you tell us? Sure? So
I met him on an app.I was excited to meet him in person,
and like you know, it seemedlike they had a lot in common.
And so the problem arose when wewere like halfway through the date.
So he noticed a woman sitting nearus, and he started like going off
(04:33):
on how fat she was and like, yeah, no, it wasn't good,
and he said she should be Yeah, he was like she should be
embarrassed to be eating in public,and he would not stop talking about this
poor woman, and like, Idon't know, I just felt like he
was really insensitive and I just can'tsee myself being with someone that's you know,
(04:54):
mean and petty like that. Okay, yeah, I mean that's kind
of jarring on your first date.So um, yeah, Kelsey, Actually,
we've got We've got David on thephone. He's listening. We're trying
to be fair, we're trying toturn this into a teachable moment. Sorry,
So oh yes, David either,Yeah, I'm here, time out.
(05:17):
Can I just say something? Yeah? Sure. We were eating dinner.
You know, we ordered you know, enough food for the both of
us, appetizers and the ramen andyou know adammm and the little dessert after.
Okay, she was by herself,and it was you see like overweight
people all the time, but thiswoman was like morbidly obese, overweight,
(05:41):
and for me. It just struckme, you know, a little differently
than just seeing someone kind of overweightedin public, because she was like wearing
like skimpy clothes showing a lot ofherself. Um, and I don't know,
I just felt like Kelsey would beon the same page. So much
food, I don't know, Ijust felt like, keep that out of
(06:02):
your business. Yeah, I know. But the reason I commented on is
because she was like right next tous, since she was like, I
don't know, making all this noiseand she was eating like like I know,
she's allowed to eat. But Ijust felt that Kelsey would be on
the same page as me because youknow, on her profile she was so
pictious of her at the gym andhiking and we discussed how like, you
(06:26):
know, healthy living it was soimportant to us. So I just felt
like I would comment and that shewould agree with me that you know,
this woman needs help and that youknow she she shouldn't be out eating that
like like no, no prepping orsomething at home, a right to do
whatever she wants, and my beinginto health and fitness has no like connection
(06:48):
to that. And also it doesn'tmean it's a path to judge other people
and be rude. No, allof that. No, hey, hey,
hang on you guys, hang on. You didn't even ask if there
was going to be a no.No, Kelsey, I'm not even we're
not even doing it. Point No. That guy's okay, No, you
(07:12):
see what I mean. Yeah,that's insane. We're gonna let you go.
Thank you for being awesome, Thanksfor being on the show. Listen
she didn't listen before, well know, but she one one three on your
FMDEL. Also available on the iHeartRadio app. Okay, thanks, okay,
you're the best. Hang on aminute, hang on, okay,
Wow. People never cease to amazeme. Oh insensitive they can be.
(07:35):
Yeah, that was Outside Voice.Second Date Update seven h five weekday mornings,
where replays at nine oh five.You can always get to the podcast
on the iHeart Radio app. Golook for Marcus and Cory, Second Date
Update and Binge Listen
More variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three, it's Marcus andCorey. You know what time it is,
it's second date update time. Thisis where we figure out why you
are not getting ahold of a personthat you went on eight first date with
and you want a second date.Yep. So let's say good morning to
David. Hello, David, Hi, good morning, hey man. So
(00:21):
tell us about Kelsey. I knowyou emailed in, but like, how
did you guys meet? And thenwhat was the vibe? And then like
like what did you do for thefirst date? Okay, Well I met
Kelsey on Plenty of Fish. It'sa dating app. Sure, if you're
familiar, Yeah, I met herthere. I liked her profile from the
get go. She was looking forsomething. I liked that she was up
(00:42):
front, she was looking for somethingmore serious. She wasn't looking just to
hook up. A lot of peoplego on that site just to hook up.
Sure, so I was pretty excitedwhen I found her profile. She
had great pictures on there, andwhen she had a great personality. So
we started talking and messaging back andforth for a few weeks and we hit
it off. So we decided tomeet up, and she actually suggested Ramen,
(01:03):
which I got super excited about becauseit's literally my favorite food. Yeah,
four times a week. Yeah.So when she said that, I
was like, oh, well,this is gonna be perfect. She's the
one already, you know. Soum. So we go on the date
and everything was fine. I thoughtwe had a great time. She was
laughing, we were conversating. Theyweren't like too many awkward pauses or anything
like that. Okay, and thenyou know, after the date, I
(01:29):
dropped her off. Everything felt great, and then after the date, she
kind of just ghosted me. AndI didn't understand why because everything was great.
I don't know, she's really disappeared. Yeah, she's gone, and
I can't figure out why, becauseI literally retraced all my steps from that
night. Complete gentlemen paid for themeal. I don't know. I was
(01:52):
engaged in what she had to sayand nothing, nothing at all. You're
very serious. Sounds like you've ananimalizing every move. That what we do
the old reverse engineer. I think, well, it's more like I feel
like that way with women than men. But no, no, no,
when we dude, David, backme up. When we meet a girl
(02:12):
we're really into, Like you're tryingso hard not to screw that up at
least I am. I don't know, yeh, Like that's when you're the
most interested, like you know,you're not trying to mess up a good
I always I always used to tellSandy that, like, if a dude
wants to hang out with you,he will find a way. Well,
that was also on Sex in theCity. They're like, if they want
to hang out with you, theywill, they will find a way,
(02:35):
and if they don't, then they'renot interested. All right, let's find
a way for David. We'd havemore bolts of ramen, which sounds delicious
right now, by the way.Yeah, um, okay, so we're
gonna call her. You know thedeal. We'll have you on mute.
We'll see what she says. Okay, okay, all right, budd hang
on for a song. We'll makethe call. Next Second Date update Star
one on one three more variety fromthe two thousands, the nineties, and
(02:57):
today. It's Star one on onethree. It's Marcus and Corey. We
are in the middle of Second DateUpdate. We've been chatting with David,
who's been holding David be there,Yes, Okay, it is time to
mute. We're gonna call Kelsey,who you met online and who is ghosted
after your first date. We're gonnafigure out why because we like her.
Let's see what's up ahead and goback on mute. But here we go.
(03:23):
Hello, Hi, may speak withKelsey? Please? Yes? Who
is it? Hi? Kelsey?It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three. Hey, Hi,this is a radio station and we do
a morning show in the Bay Area. Yes, you know, let's to
our show, do you? Iguess? Obviously not. It's cool,
(03:45):
that's cool, you should though.He's here to recruit listeners. Were tons
of fun. We are fun.Okay, great? Great? Um,
not why we're calling. So wedo a dating segment called second Date Update,
and we wanted to ask you ifyou're cool to talk about it on
the air about a date that youjust went on with a guy named David.
He would love to see you again. He's feeling ghosted. We want
(04:09):
to get your vibe, so whatcan you tell us? Sure? So
I met him on an app.I was excited to meet him in person,
and like you know, it seemedlike they had a lot in common.
And so the problem arose when wewere like halfway through the date.
So he noticed a woman sitting nearus, and he started like going off
(04:33):
on how fat she was and like, yeah, no, it wasn't good,
and he said she should be Yeah, he was like she should be
embarrassed to be eating in public,and he would not stop talking about this
poor woman, and like, Idon't know, I just felt like he
was really insensitive and I just can'tsee myself being with someone that's you know,
(04:54):
mean and petty like that. Okay, yeah, I mean that's kind
of jarring on your first date.So um, yeah, Kelsey, Actually,
we've got We've got David on thephone. He's listening. We're trying
to be fair, we're trying toturn this into a teachable moment. Sorry,
So oh yes, David either,Yeah, I'm here, time out.
(05:17):
Can I just say something? Yeah? Sure. We were eating dinner.
You know, we ordered you know, enough food for the both of
us, appetizers and the ramen andyou know adammm and the little dessert after.
Okay, she was by herself,and it was you see like overweight
people all the time, but thiswoman was like morbidly obese, overweight,
(05:41):
and for me. It just struckme, you know, a little differently
than just seeing someone kind of overweightedin public, because she was like wearing
like skimpy clothes showing a lot ofherself. Um, and I don't know,
I just felt like Kelsey would beon the same page. So much
food, I don't know, Ijust felt like, keep that out of
(06:02):
your business. Yeah, I know. But the reason I commented on is
because she was like right next tous, since she was like, I
don't know, making all this noiseand she was eating like like I know,
she's allowed to eat. But Ijust felt that Kelsey would be on
the same page as me because youknow, on her profile she was so
pictious of her at the gym andhiking and we discussed how like, you
(06:26):
know, healthy living it was soimportant to us. So I just felt
like I would comment and that shewould agree with me that you know,
this woman needs help and that youknow she she shouldn't be out eating that
like like no, no prepping orsomething at home, a right to do
whatever she wants, and my beinginto health and fitness has no like connection
(06:48):
to that. And also it doesn'tmean it's a path to judge other people
and be rude. No, allof that. No, hey, hey,
hang on you guys, hang on. You didn't even ask if there
was going to be a no.No, Kelsey, I'm not even we're
not even doing it. Point No. That guy's okay, No, you
(07:12):
see what I mean. Yeah,that's insane. We're gonna let you go.
Thank you for being awesome, Thanksfor being on the show. Listen
she didn't listen before, well know, but she one one three on your
FMDEL. Also available on the iHeartRadio app. Okay, thanks, okay,
you're the best. Hang on aminute, hang on, okay,
Wow. People never cease to amazeme. Oh insensitive they can be.
(07:35):
Yeah, that was Outside Voice.Second Date Update seven h five weekday mornings,
where replays at nine oh five.You can always get to the podcast
on the iHeart Radio app. Golook for Marcus and Cory, Second Date
Update and Binge Listen
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