June 8, 2023 • 7 mins
Steve and Vanessa met on Bumble and he was stoked to find out that she not only lived in Downtown San Jose, but she grew up there too (so did he!). He thought the date went great, but she has really cooled her jets on texting and now he can't get her to commit to date number two. That's where we come in.
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(00:00):
More variety for the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three. It's Marcus andCorey time once again for second Date Update.
It is our world famous dating segment. This is where we help you
figure out why you're not getting asecond date. You went on a first
date, you thought it went great. We are hugely successful. Well let's
not say that, so you knowwhat, I'm always trying to think positive.
(00:22):
Let's say how to Steve. Goodmorning, Steve, good morning,
Hey man, So got your emailregarding Vanessa. Apparently she's too hot to
let go. Your word's not mine, So tell us. Tell us how
you guys met, and then runus through the first date real quick.
Okay, like you said before,she's super hot. I met on plenty
(00:43):
of fish, and I'm not gonnalie. Her hotness was a big draw
for me. She's a smoke show. That's what I was waiting for,
the old smoke show. I mean, I think I'm not gonna lie about
it. But she's also she's acool person, and you know, I
got to know her through like textmessaging, and you know, she's very
sweet, fun to talk too.So I decided to, you know,
(01:03):
maybe we should meet up for coffeebecause we both worked downtown. So we
picked a place on the Embarcadero,you know that way we could sit outside
and you know, talk sure,and it uh yeah, no, it
was going It was going good.They got a little awkward, but that's
because we were just talking about allkinds of different things. But it turns
out we had a lot more incomic on a lot of different topics than
(01:26):
I expect it. And uh,I don't know where. I just haven't
heard from her. She just disappeared. He said, you talked about a
lot of different things and you kindof have the same like same vibe.
Yeah, we had the same opinionon a lot of different things, on
a lot of different topics. Wecovered everything from like religion and politics,
and you probably should talk about exactlyexactly. And I feel like this phone
(01:52):
call is gonna be a lot shorterthan I thought, but continue please.
Oh no, And but we wehad pretty similar viewpoint on a lot of
different things. And I was like, man, this is going way better
than I expect it. So okay, I thought for sure, second date,
and then out of nowhere, itjust have a hearthfulness all right,
at all okay, Well, let'scall her see how much she enjoyed discussing
(02:12):
religion in politics. Here's what we'regonna do, Steve. We're gonna have
you hang out. We're gonna playa song, and then we will call
Vanessa. Okay, okay, allright, it's second Data Updates Star one
on one three. We'll be rightback. More variety from the two thousands,
the nineties, and today. It'sStar one on one three. It's
Marcus and Corey. We're doing secondData Update. You know this. We've
been talking to Steve. Stevie there, I'm still here. Okay, good,
good, good. Just want tomake sure. So you met up
(02:35):
with Vanessa. She's a and Iquote smoke show. You guys both work
in the financial district. So youwent to have coffee on the Embarcadero just
so you could chat. Yeah,I got to sit outside. Okay,
all right, Um. The onlyclue we have is that they discuss some
topics that they would say limits.Don't talk religion politics. What you felt
(03:00):
comfortable, Steve? Yeah, Ididn't co open with it. It just
naturally progressed into that. Sure,sure, all right, Well let's call
her and see how she thought thedate went mute your phone. Here we
go. Hello, I amazed mewith Vanessa. Please, this is It's
(03:25):
a Marcus and Corey from Star oneone three. Hi. Okay, well
hi, Hi, how are you? I'm good? This is random?
What's up? Well, we're gonnaask trivia question. If you get it
right, you win a million dollars. What do you know about second date
(03:46):
update? Anything? I love seconddate Update. I'm so glad I'm on
it. Yeah are yeah? Okay, I figured, Yeah, have you
been on a date recently? Ihave? Yeah, she knows the drill.
You know that Steve's on the phonewith us. Yeah, yeah,
(04:08):
I say hi Steve. Hey,all right, Hey, so Vanessa,
why don't you give us a rundownevery date and maybe explain why you haven't
getting back to Steve. Yeah he'sfeeling a little ghosted right now. Yeah.
Yeah. So while at first everythingwas great. Actually we were having
(04:30):
a really good time. We wereeverything, really good conversation. Um,
we were sitting outside, it wasreally nice out. We were getting to
know each other and I actually waslike kind of smitten. And then out
of nowhere, like okay, we'reon a patio. He turns and he
like plugs one side of his noseand just like snot rockets like the like
(04:57):
the other side. Do you knowwhat I'm saying, Hey, Corey calls
it a farmer's blow, but disgust. That's my grandpa calls it that.
My grandpa causes, not rocket youdo. If I have my choice of
vernacular, I'm going it's not rocket. Oh. It was just just plain
day in the day, like peopleare walking by and he just blew out
(05:18):
the contents of his nostril. Ohpatio of this restaurant, and it's like,
I'm sorry, I can never unseethat. There's no going back for
my dad used to do that,used to drive my wife nutt. I
hate it all right, Steve backto you, Yeah, that's that's it.
(05:41):
Like that, I mean, that'sthat I don't running and my nose
is running. There was no therewas no tissue, no napkins thereby,
I mean, what, like whatshould have that up and go to the
bathroom like a normal person? Okay, I feel I mean, you don't
know how to people like that.You just don't do something like that in
the middle like we're eating, we'rehaving drinks, like we're in the middle
of a restaurant, there's multiple peoplearound trying to enjoy themselves. But also
(06:04):
you turn people into a verb.And I appreciate that. I respect that.
Yeah, but I knew exactly whatshe meant. I've never heard that
anyway. Um, okay, socan we even come back from this?
No? No, never really reallywell? Yeah, that one. I
(06:27):
can't unsee that. No, that'sone thing. Like all the conversation we
had, we talked about some prettyheavy stuff and we, you know,
had a pretty good understanding, andthat's it. Like I think you're being
a little uptight about it, honestly, but I'm definitely not up tight,
like you just said, based onour conversation, I'm actually a really mellow
person. What you did was beyondanything I've ever seen in my life.
(06:49):
That was disgusting, and now Ican't unsee it. So no second day,
not from me. No, allright, hang on, what do
we always say? Self awareness iskey? Huge? Huge Second date update
seven oh five weekday mornings replays atnine oh five. And of course it's
got a podcast, you know this. Download the free iHeartRadio app and go
(07:10):
search out Marcus and Corey. Youcan get caught up on all the old
phone calls. Check it out.
More variety for the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three. It's Marcus andCorey time once again for second Date Update.
It is our world famous dating segment. This is where we help you
figure out why you're not getting asecond date. You went on a first
date, you thought it went great. We are hugely successful. Well let's
not say that, so you knowwhat, I'm always trying to think positive.
(00:22):
Let's say how to Steve. Goodmorning, Steve, good morning,
Hey man, So got your emailregarding Vanessa. Apparently she's too hot to
let go. Your word's not mine, So tell us. Tell us how
you guys met, and then runus through the first date real quick.
Okay, like you said before,she's super hot. I met on plenty
(00:43):
of fish, and I'm not gonnalie. Her hotness was a big draw
for me. She's a smoke show. That's what I was waiting for,
the old smoke show. I mean, I think I'm not gonna lie about
it. But she's also she's acool person, and you know, I
got to know her through like textmessaging, and you know, she's very
sweet, fun to talk too.So I decided to, you know,
(01:03):
maybe we should meet up for coffeebecause we both worked downtown. So we
picked a place on the Embarcadero,you know that way we could sit outside
and you know, talk sure,and it uh yeah, no, it
was going It was going good.They got a little awkward, but that's
because we were just talking about allkinds of different things. But it turns
out we had a lot more incomic on a lot of different topics than
(01:26):
I expect it. And uh,I don't know where. I just haven't
heard from her. She just disappeared. He said, you talked about a
lot of different things and you kindof have the same like same vibe.
Yeah, we had the same opinionon a lot of different things, on
a lot of different topics. Wecovered everything from like religion and politics,
and you probably should talk about exactlyexactly. And I feel like this phone
(01:52):
call is gonna be a lot shorterthan I thought, but continue please.
Oh no, And but we wehad pretty similar viewpoint on a lot of
different things. And I was like, man, this is going way better
than I expect it. So okay, I thought for sure, second date,
and then out of nowhere, itjust have a hearthfulness all right,
at all okay, Well, let'scall her see how much she enjoyed discussing
(02:12):
religion in politics. Here's what we'regonna do, Steve. We're gonna have
you hang out. We're gonna playa song, and then we will call
Vanessa. Okay, okay, allright, it's second Data Updates Star one
on one three. We'll be rightback. More variety from the two thousands,
the nineties, and today. It'sStar one on one three. It's
Marcus and Corey. We're doing secondData Update. You know this. We've
been talking to Steve. Stevie there, I'm still here. Okay, good,
good, good. Just want tomake sure. So you met up
(02:35):
with Vanessa. She's a and Iquote smoke show. You guys both work
in the financial district. So youwent to have coffee on the Embarcadero just
so you could chat. Yeah,I got to sit outside. Okay,
all right, Um. The onlyclue we have is that they discuss some
topics that they would say limits.Don't talk religion politics. What you felt
(03:00):
comfortable, Steve? Yeah, Ididn't co open with it. It just
naturally progressed into that. Sure,sure, all right, Well let's call
her and see how she thought thedate went mute your phone. Here we
go. Hello, I amazed mewith Vanessa. Please, this is It's
(03:25):
a Marcus and Corey from Star oneone three. Hi. Okay, well
hi, Hi, how are you? I'm good? This is random?
What's up? Well, we're gonnaask trivia question. If you get it
right, you win a million dollars. What do you know about second date
(03:46):
update? Anything? I love seconddate Update. I'm so glad I'm on
it. Yeah are yeah? Okay, I figured, Yeah, have you
been on a date recently? Ihave? Yeah, she knows the drill.
You know that Steve's on the phonewith us. Yeah, yeah,
(04:08):
I say hi Steve. Hey,all right, Hey, so Vanessa,
why don't you give us a rundownevery date and maybe explain why you haven't
getting back to Steve. Yeah he'sfeeling a little ghosted right now. Yeah.
Yeah. So while at first everythingwas great. Actually we were having
(04:30):
a really good time. We wereeverything, really good conversation. Um,
we were sitting outside, it wasreally nice out. We were getting to
know each other and I actually waslike kind of smitten. And then out
of nowhere, like okay, we'reon a patio. He turns and he
like plugs one side of his noseand just like snot rockets like the like
(04:57):
the other side. Do you knowwhat I'm saying, Hey, Corey calls
it a farmer's blow, but disgust. That's my grandpa calls it that.
My grandpa causes, not rocket youdo. If I have my choice of
vernacular, I'm going it's not rocket. Oh. It was just just plain
day in the day, like peopleare walking by and he just blew out
(05:18):
the contents of his nostril. Ohpatio of this restaurant, and it's like,
I'm sorry, I can never unseethat. There's no going back for
my dad used to do that,used to drive my wife nutt. I
hate it all right, Steve backto you, Yeah, that's that's it.
(05:41):
Like that, I mean, that'sthat I don't running and my nose
is running. There was no therewas no tissue, no napkins thereby,
I mean, what, like whatshould have that up and go to the
bathroom like a normal person? Okay, I feel I mean, you don't
know how to people like that.You just don't do something like that in
the middle like we're eating, we'rehaving drinks, like we're in the middle
of a restaurant, there's multiple peoplearound trying to enjoy themselves. But also
(06:04):
you turn people into a verb.And I appreciate that. I respect that.
Yeah, but I knew exactly whatshe meant. I've never heard that
anyway. Um, okay, socan we even come back from this?
No? No, never really reallywell? Yeah, that one. I
(06:27):
can't unsee that. No, that'sone thing. Like all the conversation we
had, we talked about some prettyheavy stuff and we, you know,
had a pretty good understanding, andthat's it. Like I think you're being
a little uptight about it, honestly, but I'm definitely not up tight,
like you just said, based onour conversation, I'm actually a really mellow
person. What you did was beyondanything I've ever seen in my life.
(06:49):
That was disgusting, and now Ican't unsee it. So no second day,
not from me. No, allright, hang on, what do
we always say? Self awareness iskey? Huge? Huge Second date update
seven oh five weekday mornings replays atnine oh five. And of course it's
got a podcast, you know this. Download the free iHeartRadio app and go
(07:10):
search out Marcus and Corey. Youcan get caught up on all the old
phone calls. Check it out.
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