Do You Snoop in Someone Else's Phone?

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Happen. Georgia gives Tuesday. It'smoot Kimmy and otis here on George's number
one for New Country ninety four pointnon the Bulls just second here we'll find
out if Otis made it through thatstudio door from the Dominican Republic. I
have a text message from him,so maybe it means he's like crossing the
finish line to get here right now, seven thirty This is one. We've
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that you'd be into that are outthere. So all the information better.
Okay, here we go. Textmessage from otis. Been traveling since one
o'clock. This is at midnight lastnight. Just got in my driveway twelve
thirty six hours, two hour flightdelay coming through Dominican Republic. I'll try
to be to the show by seven, doing just now. I've been over

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under at eight o'clock. Okay,I'm going to say under eight, but
definitely over seven. It's a longtrip. It's the first time they've ever
him and brit have ever flown internationally, so and coming through Atlanta Airport can
be a bit of a problem.He's also going to be driving from You'ford
in traffic, which he generally doesn'thave. Also, Sandy Springs police officers

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lay off them. If you seethat white accurate feeling stressed out to get
here? What do you think overunder I put it at eight o'clock I
think eight o'clock's the over under.Yesterday I had to do the thing that
is my biggest nightmare in the world, and that is go to the mall.
You did went to the mall onCyber Monday, which sounds sacrilegious.

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I know, what are you doing? Well, So we have our pictures
with Santa at Phipps Plaza the PhipsSanna on Wednesday, and we need to
find pants for Roning, and findingbaby pants is so hard. Everyone Runsi's
great jammies, totally find him.But we found this cute sweater with a
little nutcracker on it. But nowwe gotta find matching pants because we can't.

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Just like, I can't have himin like a green nutcracker sweater and
then his Segosaurus pants. I meanyou can. But it looks like he
dressed himself, which is nice too. I always think that's funnyhen I see
little kids and they're wearing just likea Spiderman costume, Like, oh,
you dressed yourself today? Did decideyou're gonna be a superhero today? So

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we struck out, which means wemay have to be going again today.
And you could always just go straightdiaper that's an an option too. You
can do that on Santa Lap.He's a little too old for that though.
He's like he's ten months. He'she's gonna look back embarrassed, like
dad, I can wear clothes.Man. That is not the first time
you're gonna embarrass him. That's agreat point. It'd be the first time

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that he has photographed age. Kimmis, thank you so much. You want
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why news story, Keimmy, whatwould you do if you went on a
first date and somebody brought their parents? Leave immediately? I'm into a guy

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in New York. We're gonna talkabout it next. Otis Questions and your
new Bull Morning Show. I'm havinga great time to listen to y'all.
It's ninety four point nine Bull,ninety four point nine the Ball. Thanks
for hanging out with us with mootCammy and otis a little over from an
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He's to be playing Macing in October. That is a homecoming show you

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don't want to miss. Oh massive, So this story's going viral on TikTok
and it's it's really funny. Imagineyou show up for a first date,
yeah, and the person's parents arethere. I'm sitting at the table.
It happened to a guy named Jay, New York. Here's some audio from
his TikTok. I just went ona first date and honestly, I am

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traumatized. I'm match with Prianca andthey see her profile. Are both of
our families are from parts of India. Her bio said, it's either this
or an arranged marriage with the emoji. So I thought it was funny.
So I see her and she looksgreat. I give her a hug.
I'm like, hey, so gladwe got to do this. She was

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walking in front of me and shesaid, oh, this is where our
table is. So we're walking towardsour table and I'm just following her,
and she then uses her hand ingestures like, oh, this is our
table, and I see two peoplethat are sitting at our table, and
she's like, oh, this ismy mom and my dad. Not prepared

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for that, No, definitely not. Would a warned something completely different.
Also wouldn't have shown up right.Well, it just and he said.
He mentions in the story later thatyou know, both in the in the
their parents' parts of India, inthe culture, arranged marriage is are a
thing. So she didn't want tohave an arranged marriage. She wanted to
arrange it herself, you know,like everyone should be able to do.

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But she wanted her parents to bepart of the process from day one,
which I think you have to disclosethat. I think you do too.
I mean, on Indian Matchmaker,it's definitely just closed. But I'm telling
you I watched the Netflix show.I know how this works. I'm surprised.
He's surprised. Really, do youthink the success rate is better if
your parents are there the first day? Because if the person like is intimidated

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by your parents and just walks rightout, then you know it wasn't gonna
work anyway. True. Then also, sometimes other people are better at picking
out things for us than we arein life. And Jenny to that point,
Brian Mood, I'm getting to thepoint, like you know what,
you let somebody else pick my partner. Jesus take the Wheel literally, that
should be a dating app. That'sso sad. Jesus take the Wheel.

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It does sound like you're just prayingfor you know, like many times on
this show, we are not smartenough to come up to create the app.
So someone create Jesus makes the Wheeldating app. We'll split it with
you. We'll work on the market. I'll be your first sign. Well
carry Underwood now before eat cheats.Well, it's Mood, Kimmy and Otis,

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I'm Brian Moot. Make sure youhit that free iHeartRadio. I you
can hold the talkback microphone down,little mic down in the corner. It's
like your little safe space to tellus anything that's on your mind, anything
in the world. It's a littlevoicemail here in the studio. We got
this one from Sheila in Douglasville,and we know we have a lot of
teachers rolling with us this morning.Yes early and hearts goes out to you,

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big hug, because really, broughthis like dead zone between Thanksgiving and
Christmas. I remember when I wasa teacher so brutal. Kids are so
fired up every day for Christmas partiesand Christmas things. They're over it.
They're totally over It's like you're justwrangling wild animals. So we feel you're
pain This is from Sheila and Douglasville. I taught school for years, twenty

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something years now, and I feltold when one of my former students became
the school nurse at the school justdown this straight from me, and that
made me feel even older than myown daughter giving her own classrooms whence my
student became the nurse. So makesyou feel pretty old, but it still
really does. One of the studentsthat I taught. I was a kindergarten

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teacher in Seattle. I saw anews story and he was playing on a
varsity football team and like set somerecord for passing yards. And I was
like, oh my gosh, he'ssixteen now, it was ten years ago.
It was the same thing when yougo to Thanksgiving and you see a
cousin you haven't seen it a longtime. I was like, you're not
a baby anymore. In my mind, you're a baby. You're like a
grown man. Now. That's weird, super weird hit that iheard. Talk

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back. Anything else on your mind, you can always put it there.
Little boy smail here in the studio. Yeah, you can't fix stupid.
Proven it with mood Kimmy and Otison ninety four point nine The ball Man.
Oh man, if you manage employees, I'm sure you see a wealth
of stupidity every day. Oh yeah, imagine our boss is say that.
The car dealership in Texas, wedon't think about that. Yeah, we

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just set that aside, denial.It's a good place to be. So
a car dealership in text it's likeone of those high end it's called G
Motors and they just have nothing.But like you know what, one hundred
thousand dollars cars and really nice carsin their showroom. Well, one of
their employees, twenty eight year oldJoseph Johnson, he needed somewhere to leave

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his dogs overnight. He was goingout on a date and they were going
to a concert, and he neededsomewhere to leave his dogs. He couldn't
leave his two dogs. He hadtwo German shepherds, and oh man,
he thought to himself, well,I'll just leave him at the showroom with
some water and some food, andI'll be back for him at some point

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in time. And his date wentlong, and so he didn't end up
going back until the next morning.Oh my gosh, he got there at
six in the morning. The dogshad done three hundred and fifty thousand dollars
of damage to the cars in theshowroom. We're talking like Maseratis, like
Mercedes, m classes Bentley's. Andthe reason is because a lot of them

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had the doors open, right,so they jumped in, they said,
jumped in, Oh, just chompedinto all the leathern t here three hundred
and fifty thousand dollars. He's onlybeen working at the dealership for three months
as a junior level salesman. Whywould you think that's a good place for
your dog because you're a dumb dudewho has a date and you just don't
know what to do with your twodogs. I guess you know why your

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dogs to like get in your way. Looks like he didn't live in the
city of Dallas. He lived wayoutside Dallas, and he wanted to make
sure the dogs were were closer.If you win, he picked him up,
So he just basically dropped him offfor a little playdate in the dog
show in the showroom for the carsand supervised with the doors open, leather
every You might want to shut theBentley door, maybe thought, maybe thought,

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look, this would be great.My German shepherds can sleep in this
really fancy like they just want tolay down, and they're good in my
car, right, they're good inmy my Honda Civic. Why would I
They're gonna chew up this Bentley threehundred fifty thousand dollars with a damage,
so clearly he is a good date. Uh. I don't think any first
date or whatever date it is,is good enough to when your boss walks

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in and there's almost you know,quarter over quarter million dollars in damage,
So he's gonna pay for that.Yeah, can't fix too, but that's
coming out of the paychecks. He'sworking there for life now, yeah forever.
Coming up next on Ask the Show, have you ever gone through someone's
phone? Four oh four seven fourone ninety four nine, we have Jackie
and Dallas. Got that same situationhappening now. My boyfriend, we've been
together about six months. You justemailed me like frantically, I think my

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phone's in your car. It ishere in my car, and my question
is like should I go through?We're gonna talk to her at six fifty
five see what she decides, andalso have you done that and did it
go good or bad? Four ohfour seven four one ninety four nine Mode
Kimmy and ODIs, thank you somuch. You all make my day every
morn is ninety four point nine,The Bull ninety four point nine in the

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ball We are commercial for you hereon Moot Kimmy and Otis, thanks for
hanging out with us on a Tuesdaymorning. I'm Brian Mood. Question for
you on Asked the Show about toget to this right now, do you
have you have you ever gone throughsomeone's phone, that's Pandora's box. You
had a bad feeling about it,Well, I always have bad feelings,
okay, if but then you actedon it and you look through the phone.
Did it go good or did itgo bad? Four O four seven

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four one ninety four nine. Goodmorning Jackie in Dallas. You got a
situation just like this on your hands. My boyfriend, we've been together about
six months. You just emailed melike, frantically, I think my phone's
in your car. I left myphone. Can I come get it?
If you have it? And Ido, it is here in my car,
and my question is like should Igo through it? No? Like

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the way he's emailing me, Imean he's willing to be late to work,
he's going out of his way tocome all the way over here to
come get his phone. And honestly, he can be a little shady sometimes.
So I don't know, Like myspidy senses are kind of singling,
and I don't know. I feellike maybe I should be taking a look.
No. No, I'm a hardproponent of you don't ask questions you

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don't want the answers to. Youdon't go snooping for something you're gonna get
your feelings hurt about something in there. If you don't trust him and you
think he's shady, you need tohandle that a different way. And honestly,
all of us would be freaking outif we don't have their phone because
it's like an extension of ourselves.You just feel kind of naked. So
I don't think that part is weird. But sometimes it's the extension of the
self that you know you have thatthey don't know, right, Like,

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Look, I'm gov two minds onthis because I always believe like women's intuition
is like pretty dead on usually ifyou're on that one. The issue here
is I've had my phone look throughbefore and if you find nothing, like
here would be my stipulation. Ifyou find nothing, you have to admit
to it and then say, congratulations, you're not shady. I was wrong,
my senses were wrong. Yeah.But doesn't that just make it so

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much worse though, because then you'renot gonna trust her anymore. I mean,
that's just life. How many peopletrust each other after a couple years
in a relationship. I don't know. I have no idea. That sounds
like a weird voluntary thing. Iwouldn't own up to it when you're wrong,
you have to know. It justsounds like a power plays a pipe
dream for me. Yeah, Ithink it was. Have you admit that
you were wrong? No? Look, I will say this though, I

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think if you've never looked at someone'sphone, I think once you go down
that road, to me, itseems like murder or something like the first
one's the hardest, and then afterthat's it's silly. The jilt's over.
After that. Yeah, I don'tthink you want to go down that road.
I wouldn't. Why don't you messwith him and be like, man,
you really wanted your phone back?And just see kind of how much
he squirms or if he does anyOkay, I could try that first.
All right, try that and nomatter what, Jackie, if you do

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go through his phone, you needto call shiite dog my guys, I
am not condoning this. Jackie.Some advice four O four seven Have you
ever gone through a phone? Didit go well? Did it go poorly?
Four oh four seven? Four nine? Funny Our songs just line up
perfectly. It's hard to love LeeRice Here on the Ball ninety four point
nine The Bowl. We are commercialfreight. Thanks for hanging out with us

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on Tuesday morning. It's Mood Kimmyand Otis. I'm Brian Mood. We
got a question for it and askedthe show this morning, do you go
through someone's phone or have you?And did it go well or did it
go poorly? It seems like aterrible idea because here's the thing. Maybe
they're not cheating, but it doesn'tmean they don't have private conversations where we
all get annoyed with each other.It's gonna hurt your feelings. They're not
gonna forget that they said that.Yeah, when I said that about you,

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it was totally out of context,right, you were being the worst
that day. You don't remember,but I do. Four oh four seven
four one ninety nine. Tell ushow it went or hit us not?
iHeart talkback this one from Connie inSnoya on the talk back. I mean,
I think it's a good idea.Here's the reason. I'm forty one
years old. I'm old school.So back in the day, we didn't
have phones, we didn't have socialmedia. And if you have the good

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feelings that they're cheating and then youactually see it, you're gonna know.
But today's definition of cheating. Youknow, a guy liking a girl's picture
versus you know, a girl likinga guy's picture. I mean their definition
is crazy to me. Anyway,I have daughters that their millennial phase.
It's like, what do you meanhe's cheating? Well, he's liking this
girl's picture. I'm like, sowhat if you're going to break up over

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them liking a picture? That's justdumb. I mean, marriage is not
about I'm married, So if myhusband had Facebook, I just laugh out
of me. I don't understand theliking the picture thing either. Insecurity,
I think, okay, that's whatyou like. Oh but see, I
think a lot of times we runwild in in our own insecurities where we
see anything, which is why Ithink you said this already. It could

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open up a bunch of wounds foryou where now you think they're doing all
the stuff that they're not doing becauseyou miss reading things. Yep. But
then again, some people look atthe phone and they find out someone's cheating,
which is not great. I youknow what, I don't know four
four seven four one ninety four nine. Have you looked through someone's phone?
What happened? Were you right?Brandon Dustin Lance Stars like Confetti. I
guarantee that song will be stuck inyour head today. It's a good one.

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You'll be sitting in lives. Sowe go. Duh, you just
starting this mood caming out as we'reon commercial breat Thanks for spending your Tuesday
with us. I'm Brian. Wegot a question going on, asked the
show this morning. Have you evergone through someone's phone? You know you
shouldn't know, but you had afeeling and did it go well? Like?
Were you right? Or did youregret it? Is that really going
well? Although why that's still bad? It depends on your objectives. I

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guess four four or it does not. iHeart Talk back in the free iHeartRadio
app, Mark and Peach Street Corners. You almost had to show someone on
a date your phone just to proveyou were messing around. What happened?
Yeah, yeah, let me tellyou. So, I was on this
first beat, right and uh andand my phone just starts to beeping,
not crazy, like it just keepsgoing off because see I'm in this uh

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this fantasy football league and uh andI didn't I didn't have to turn off
the notifications at the time. Andso man it's like there's all this activity
and it's just catch and people messagingme and stuff, and it just keeps
going beat, beat, you know, the entire first date, and this
girl is just like, who thehell is pecked in you? And I
was like, I'm sorry, it'sit's not that it's my fantasy football league.

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But it was so disruptive that,yeah, we didn't get a second
date. Unfortunately. It sounds likesuch a load. Yeah, I swear
to god, it's fantasy football andso annoying. I don't want to be
with somebody who's so into it theirphone's gonna be blowing up all day long.
But you can't return a text messagetoo. I mean, why don't
you women support us our fantasies.It's our fantasy. Is there a problem

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because your fantasies don't involve us?That's what it could be the assistant coach
right there, fantasy solving problems.All you gonna do is I'm just saying,
join the fantasy football team. No, that's not what I meant.
If you ever want to ruin fantasyfootball, join the same league and then
beat your significant other badly. Thinkwe're a better team. I like this
plan. It's really good just towatch their hapan. The excitement fade for

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Fantasy Football ninety four point on theBowl we are commercial freak. Got Al
Dean tickets where he's playing making inOctober coming up for you at seven point
thirty. And I asked the showthis morning, we've been asking the question,
have you ever gone through someone's phone? You had an instinct good or
bad? And how to to go? Lindsey and Dallas, what would you
do? Would you go through thephone? I would so do it?
No, I mean absolutely, Andhere's why. So I was Janus Ty

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for you know, quite a while. It was a little over a year,
and I just he senses man likeI just I had a really bad
feeling and you know, and Icould never like touch him doing anything shitty.
It was just a feeling and Ihad to explain it. Yeah,
and it's just like her. Heleft his phone in my car and I

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went through it and I found ithe was cheating, not physically, but
like talking to the people right,setting something up behind your back. And
also I found out about his DRUGUratter find out about sooner or rather than
later. Yeah, I think theinteresting part is It's not so much that
he left the phone in the car, it's that the behavior, the behavior

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to get the phone back seems sofrantic, like give it back to me,
like it doesn't want you to lookat what's going on in there.
I think if someone leaves their phoneand like, yeah, I just hold
on to it for the day,I'll get it later, it's a totally
different feeling, right that gives youthe feeling. I mean maybe, but
like, do you have any selfiesin your phone that you're like, oh
my god, that was absolutely terrible. Let's not show that to anybody.

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Anytime I open the phone and I'mnot expecting it accident. Anytime I'm in
a picture that Kimmy takes, sheabsolutely does not care about how I look
in it, and we all looklike trash. Kimmy, you are guilty
of that. Every time I've beendoing better, I thought for you.
You look great in those pictures.Ninety four point nine The Bowl got Aldieen

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here at seven thirty on Moot Kimmyand Otis, I'm Brian, Moot your
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