May 31, 2024 • 20 mins
It's Friday!! Christie & Karena talk about the Home Alone house that is up for sale so they hear from the listeners about houses they would pick to buy. Plus, it's Friday, so it is time for 'The Great Debate.' Is the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" true? Karena thought about this debate after seeing a documentary on Netflix! Listen to your Morning Drive with Christie Live weekdays from 6-10 AM on 80s + 103.7 on the FREE iHeart Radio app!
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Pistol Morning Drive with Christie Live ondemand Think on eighties plus at one of
three point seven getting the weekend startingMy name is Christy. Producer Carina,
thank you so much for being hereas well. There are certain lines in
movie history that are so famous,like this one, Kevin, you remember
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that Gabe yes Home Alone exactly?Do you remember the house from Home Alone?
Is the question where he was puttingup all the booby traps. If
you remember this movie, that housewas epic. Heck yeah, And now
you can own it if you happento have five point twenty five million dollars
in the bank. That is alot of money for that house in Chicago.
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But it was a huge house.But that's still a lot of money.
And then you have to think aboutpeople come into your house every day
on your sidewalk taking pictures, kindof like the full house house here in
San Francisco. People want to seeit. This is the Home Alone house,
this is the Gooni's house. Yeah, filling the blank house. But
if I had the money to spend, I don't think that's the house I
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would go for. Of course,not because you'll be in the Golden Girls
House. I'm just ginny. No, I'm just giddy. I would actually
want a bigger house. You know. Do you remember Cameron's house in Ferris
Bueller's Day Off with the wall towall, ceiling to floor glass where his
dad kept that car. Yeah,it was kind of like a tree house.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, that'stime I would spend my money on.
It would be like iron Man's houseor something really futuristic. I wouldn't
want like a oh this is avery kind house, Like I'm give me
something futuristic with glass windows and apull on a cliff. That's actually kind
of interesting. If you could pickany movie or television house to spend the
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money on, because a lot ofthese have been going up for sale lately,
the Brady Bunch House not too manyyears ago. Which house would you
pick? One eight six, sixnine hundred one O three seven Tap the
red microphone on our iHeartRadio app.You can send a talk back that way
and jump in and join the fun. I would pick the Fresh Prince of
bel Airhouse. Okay, right there, Okay, I'm here for that.
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That's money. Yeah, that honey, that was a good one. That
was a good one. Which onewould you pick? Love to hear from
you next on eighties plus at oneO three point seven. Christy Live six
for two on eighties plus at oneO three point seven, last day of
May. And if you're traveling inthe South Bay, just to heads up,
there's a major accident northbound one ohone that near San Antonio Road and
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only one lane is open, soif you can try and avoid it this
morning. Hey, Chris, howyou doing? Not too bad for a
Friday? Not too bad at all. I love that. So we're talking
television and movie houses. If youcould pick one to buy or live in,
which one would it be? Oh? We got remember different? Oh
yeah that was a great house.Yeah it was cool area too, right
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there on Park Avenue in New York. Well it's all yours, okay,
Chris. Oh yeah, thank youso much. Chris. That's a good
one. You're welcome. Have agreat weekend. Good morning, Susan.
If you could live in any movieor television house, which one would it
be for you? I want tosay for the house, and I don't
know if it's technically a house.Okay, this is gonna throw you for
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a looper. But Willy Wonkas isa chocolate factory, Okay, that is
epic. That would be amazing.And yes, he lived there, so
technically Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory is ahouse, yes, and he wanted to
Charlie to have it, so Imean okay. And he's got like boats
and trains and everything else. Andalso it's a chocolate things, so I
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mean, how could you go wlong? You know Willy Wanka's Chocolate Factory.
You got the oupah Lumpa's helping youout so you'll never be lonely. Okay,
that's a good one, Thank you, Susan. What about you?
If you could live or buy anymovie or television house, which one would
you pick? One eight, ninehundred and one three seven. You can
also tap the red microphone if you'relistening on our iHeartRadio app, send a
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talkback and join the fun. Loveto hear from you this morning, Christie
Lie it's eighty plus. That wenta three point seven. What's up,
Kevin? If you could pick anymovie or TV house to live in,
what would it be? I wouldlove to live at the house that the
Brady Bunks lived in. That wouldbe great. But get ready for tourists
every day on your sidewalk taking pictures. But that sunken living room was amazing.
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Yup, either that one or eightis enough? Back from the eighties.
Ah, those eighty six coom houses, don't they bring back such great
memories. Thanks for the call,Kevin, have a great weekid, Christie
lie zero commercials for eighty minutes.Right now on eighties plus, you've been
talking about if you could own orlive in any movie or TV house,
what would it be? Dwayne Robin'snest from Magnum p I where he lived
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on the island in White Each.Oh, man, that was such a
good house. I think I readthat they sport down. Yeah they did
years ago. Yeah, good guys, I forgot about that one. Yeah,
that was definitely an amazing house.And then his car too, man
Tom Selleck in the eighties. Yeah, that was it right, that was
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that was the icon. Ill evenI'll even take the tudobe. They're all
yours, Dwayne. Thanks for checkingin. Have a great weekend, Christie
Live, any movie, any TVshow? Which house would you pick to
live in? It's eighties plus atone O three point seven commercial free music
for eighty minutes. House I wouldlike to own the most luxurious Bruce,
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Wayne manor, complete with a batcimof course, have a good one.
Bye, Christie Live, thanks forlistening to eighties plus A one a three
point seven? Still not playing commercialsfor eighty minutes. Talking about if you
could live in any movie or TVhouse, which one would you pick?
Everett? I would want the ConjuringHouse. Did you say the Conjuring Oh?
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Hell no, seriously, Oh yeah, I would love to have that
out that or even the Ambityville Housewould be another one I'd like to Oh
no, not is just like goodpeace and nothing about that house is giving
me Pete, it is all yours. Thanks for the call, Everett.
You both ever wont to pul dayyou too, Christie Lie eighties plus A
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what a three point seven? Oh? This George Michael song is so good.
Thanks for listening. Still not playingcommercials for eighty minutes. Gotta talk
back. Hi, Christy, It'sNick from Morgan Hill. I'm surprised nobody
is mentioned wanting to live in TonyStark's house. I mean you wouldn't want
an et the garage and an eticman cakes. All right, thank you,
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bye, thank you so much.I'd find me up okay, Nick,
I would take that house too,or at least be your next door
neighbor. Christie Lie eight thirty threeon eighties Plus at what a three point
seven about to kick off the GreatDebate? But we got time for one
more movie called Ronda. If youcould live in any movie or TV house,
what would it be? Can Ilive in any movie house with Jody
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Foster Baby? Okay, yes,we will definitely hook that up for you,
Ronda. I can't even do itthe way she was doing it.
Hey, it's time for the GreatDebate. Oh man. Okay, Every
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Monday, Wednesday and Friday, wetalk about some things in the Great Debate.
I always love to hear your thoughts. And if you have not seen
the newest Netflix documentary, it ison Ashley Madison. Have you heard of
this website? It is basically asite where people who are married or in
relationships hook up and cheat on theirsignificant others. That's what the site was
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designed to do. That's what it'sall about. Maybe you've used it.
We're not judging. We're just sayingpeople are telling their truths in this new
Netflix documentary and producer Karina you've seenit and you said one guy was what?
Yeah, one guy was cheating onhis wife for a while and then
when he got caught because hackers exposeda lot of the cheaters on Ashley Madison,
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and then he never cheated again.So we were talking about if you
are a cheater, does that meanyou are always a cheater. This is
a conversation that you probably had withyour friends, a debate people have had
in relationships for the test of time. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
It's kind of like, can peoplereally reform personally? I think you
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have to give people an opportunity tochange, and they always take that opportunity,
But you got to give them anopportunity to change. Producer it clearly
does not agree. No, I'vebeen cheated on a few times. I
believe that once you cheat, iteventually comes back and you'll do it again.
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You've never cheated on anyone? Tellthe truth to shame the devil.
No, I've actually never cheated onanyone. No. I feel like,
honestly I have maybe cheated. Inthe PA. I think, well,
this is a little bit overlap.I want to call it cheated. Here
we go. I would call ita little overlap. No, okay,
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but I would not do it again, I would not. I would just
leave. I would break up withsomeone. I would tell the truth and
I would leave. I wouldn't playwith somebody's emotions. People get serious,
you know, DOT would not.I would not do that. It's you
know, I'm too grown for thatout here. So but what do you
think? That is the question forthis morning's Great hold On Wait for It,
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Great hold On, Wait for ItDebate six nine hundred one three seven.
You can always tap the red microphoneon our iHeartRadio app at jump in.
Once a cheater, always a cheater? Or can people actually change their
dirty lion cheating scumbag ways? Wow? Take it back to the Great Debate
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eighties plus at one three point seven. Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Or can people actually change their lioncheating ways? That is the question
this morning for the Great Debate.Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, we
always talk about some things, Darwin, thank you for checking in. What
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do you think? Look when someonecheats? I'm leary, but there's a
guy that I really liked. He'she's a super good guy. I worked
with him and he threw it allaway. He cheated on his wife with
someone at work. And she gotpregnant. Oh he lost everything and he
lost he lost his job, buthe changed. He actually married the girl
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that was pregnant, and he's astand up guy now. He totally apologized
for all the things that he did, but he owned all of it.
And I think that once you startto own it and you realize, hey,
you know there's a different way tobe, everyone should get another chance.
That's all I'm saying. People canchange. That doesn't mean you have
to get back with them if theycheat on you, but just give people
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the opportunity to actually learn from theirmistakes and make a change. Make that
change, as Michael says, ThanksDarwin, Thanks Christy, good morning.
Rita wants a cheater, always acheater? Is that true? Or can
people change? You know, thismight be an unpopular opinion, but I
think if someone's like young and dumb, or honestly they just like haven't met
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the one, I think people couldchange under the right circumstances. If it's
just because they weren't with the rightperson, or they were young and dumb,
and we've all been young and dumbbefore. Keep it real, Yeah,
people do change, especially past yourtwenties and your thirties and your forties,
you were always changing or or honestly, if they're just like not with
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the right person, they might cheatbecause they're just not into it, you
know, and it's like, whatcan you do? Well, you can
leave. You don't have to hurtsomebody else's feelings. But that's a lesson
that you learn as you live morelife. Thank you so much for the
call, Rita. We will noteyour vote. Where do you stand on
this morning's great debate? Once acheater, always a cheater? Or do
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people change? One eight sixty sixnine hundred one three seven, Or you
can tap the red microphone on ouriHeartRadio app and send a talk back to
jump in. Got one here?Hell no, people don't change. If
you cheat once, you'll do itagain. I'm speaking from experience, and
if it's in you to be dishonestin relationships, that's just who you are.
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Okay, all right? Sound likeyou are speaking from experience with some
extra right there voice. Thank youfor the talk back. Where do you
stand? One eight sixty six,nine hundred and one oh three seven or
do what he did? Tap thered microphone on our iHeartRadio app and jump
in and join the Great Debate Herefrom you next, Christie Lie. Once
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a cheater, always a cheater?Or can people change? That is this
morning's Great debate. Hi, Christine, this is Barbara, And people do
change. My ex husband and Iwere married for sixteen months and then he
cheated on me. We split,then we grew up, we met again,
and this year we'll be celebrating thirtyseven years of marriage in November.
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So people change, Okay, thenthirty seven years day, Barbara, he
got it right. She was like, you gotta get it together. I'm
gonna give you one more chance,one more chance. And he's like,
yes, ma'am. Thank you forthe talk back and for listening to eighties
plus Back to the Great Debate eightiesplus at one oh three point seven.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater. We've heard that old adage from now
back when all the time do youbelieve it's true? That is the question
this morning for the Great Debate,Lauren, Once a cheater, always a
cheater? True or not? Yeah? People don't change usually unless they go
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through some major therapy or something likethat. They're not going to change.
It's a character flaw. That's whatI think. I don't think that there's
a way to come back from that, just a flaw that you obviously don't
see something wrong with it, andso you continue to do it until you
get crought again. That's it.We got on this discussion because there's this
Ashley Madison documentary and if you don'tknow about Ashley Madison, it was that
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website. I don't know if it'sstill around where people who are in relationships
basically cheat on their significant others.Angel, what do you think once a
cheater, always a cheater, orcan people change? I believe in second
chenses, but there's always that nagging, dailying behind, you know, like
there's always that nacking doubt that whatif he does it again or what if
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she does it again? But Ibelieve in second chenses always. Okay,
thank you so much, appreciate yourvote. We will note that. Thank
you very much. Angel got atalk back from our iHeartRadio app here.
You can always jump in, justhit that red microphone. Yes, people
do change. I have a similarstory. My husband made a bad choice
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and he regrettited it and he neverlooked back and I didn't hold it against
him, and twenty four years later, we are still happily married. So
yes, people do change. Havea great day you too. Thank you.
I appreciate you sharing your story andyour talk bad twenty four years later.
Wow, that is a long time. These women are like, get
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it right, brokay, get itright, Tim, Good morning. Once
a cheater, always a cheating Idon't think so. But I do think
this though. I think that onceit is established or it has been done,
then I think that it's always goingto be on your mind. So
even if you never cheat again,it's always going to be on your mind,
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like, oh man, I couldjust do this, I could just
do that. And some people afterthey do it, you know, as
soon as they get angry, that'sthe thing that they go to. So
you cannot do it or you couldbecome one. Okay that is true.
So that was kind of towing theline there. Yeah, but giving people
the opportunity to change. You gottime for one more call here? Thank
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you Carl for checking in from Brisbane. What do you think this for this
morning's great debate? Hold on,wait for it? Always they do it?
While what's a cheater? Always acheater? Work? If people change?
I don't think people should cheat.I mean, if that's what you
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want to do. You should behonest about it. And if that's the
kind of relationship that you're going tohave with someone, that that's absolutely cool,
but just don't lie about it.But then number two is I watched
that documentary as well, and thatpoor guy because yeah, granted he was
the dog about it. At theend of that program, he was so
defeated and so deflated, and I'msorry. That girl was evil. She
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was like, she's got him underher thumb for the rest of his life.
And that's not right either. Okay, well, I didn't see the
Ashley Madison documentary on Netflix. Youwatched it, Karina, what was Yeah,
So, the one of the mainguys that's a big part of this
documentary. He was talking about howhe cheated on his wife and then you
know, like more things came outabout his cheating. But you know,
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you do feel kind of bad forhim because his wife was like, I
couldn't believe this. I couldn't believethat, and then you know, I'll
feel bad, yeah, kind ofholding that against him, and you know,
don't do dirt, don't get dirty. So check it out for this
Morning's a great debate in the matterof one's a cheetah, always a cheetah.
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Where do people stand? Everyone hassaid give them a second chances and
no, once a cheater, youare not always a cheater. People can
change, yeah, change, oryou can like what did you call it
earlier? You can overlap with people. Christy, is that what it's called?
Overlap? Or bringing up old stuff? Are you bringing up old stuff?
Okay? Or be nice like meand never cheating your life? The
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reason get thirty seconds this one eightiesplus at one oh three point seven.
Time to play Give me five?Christie, Dean and Sonoma getting ready to
take over for give me five.Coach. Jim is the Gimme five champ,
but you could steal his crown rightnow if you can give me five
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things in ten seconds. I gota game box or an AC DC box
set for you. If you're arocker. Clock starts when I say,
go, Dean, give me fivegirl names that start with the letter L
as in Larry Go, Louise,Ellen, Lola, Fana, Billians who
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Congratulations, you did it? Wow? Finally, finally, Dean, you
are the giv Me five champ,starting off a brand new month as the
champion and the winner step up tothe mic. Who are What would you
like to shout out this Friday?Oh, I gotta give it to my
friends sci Fit in Pataloma. Nice. What is sci fit It's final port
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injury and Functional Integrated Therapy ala neuroexercise specialist. That sounds like amazing work.
Well, keep it up sci Fitin Petaluma, And thank you so
much for calling to play this morning. Have a wonderful weekend. Hang on,
I got a game box for youfilled with four hundred classic video games
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or that ACDC box set. Youcan let Karina know whichever one you want
and we'll get you hooked up.Coming up at nine point forty Hopping aboard
the Crazy Train. Got your dailycrazy news story straight ahead on eighties plas
you're listening Good Morning Drive with ChristyLive on demand
Pistol Morning Drive with Christie Live ondemand Think on eighties plus at one of
three point seven getting the weekend startingMy name is Christy. Producer Carina,
thank you so much for being hereas well. There are certain lines in
movie history that are so famous,like this one, Kevin, you remember
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that Gabe yes Home Alone exactly?Do you remember the house from Home Alone?
Is the question where he was puttingup all the booby traps. If
you remember this movie, that housewas epic. Heck yeah, And now
you can own it if you happento have five point twenty five million dollars
in the bank. That is alot of money for that house in Chicago.
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But it was a huge house.But that's still a lot of money.
And then you have to think aboutpeople come into your house every day
on your sidewalk taking pictures, kindof like the full house house here in
San Francisco. People want to seeit. This is the Home Alone house,
this is the Gooni's house. Yeah, filling the blank house. But
if I had the money to spend, I don't think that's the house I
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would go for. Of course,not because you'll be in the Golden Girls
House. I'm just ginny. No, I'm just giddy. I would actually
want a bigger house. You know. Do you remember Cameron's house in Ferris
Bueller's Day Off with the wall towall, ceiling to floor glass where his
dad kept that car. Yeah,it was kind of like a tree house.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, that'stime I would spend my money on.
It would be like iron Man's houseor something really futuristic. I wouldn't
want like a oh this is avery kind house, Like I'm give me
something futuristic with glass windows and apull on a cliff. That's actually kind
of interesting. If you could pickany movie or television house to spend the
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money on, because a lot ofthese have been going up for sale lately,
the Brady Bunch House not too manyyears ago. Which house would you
pick? One eight six, sixnine hundred one O three seven Tap the
red microphone on our iHeartRadio app.You can send a talk back that way
and jump in and join the fun. I would pick the Fresh Prince of
bel Airhouse. Okay, right there, Okay, I'm here for that.
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That's money. Yeah, that honey, that was a good one. That
was a good one. Which onewould you pick? Love to hear from
you next on eighties plus at oneO three point seven. Christy Live six
for two on eighties plus at oneO three point seven, last day of
May. And if you're traveling inthe South Bay, just to heads up,
there's a major accident northbound one ohone that near San Antonio Road and
(02:34):
only one lane is open, soif you can try and avoid it this
morning. Hey, Chris, howyou doing? Not too bad for a
Friday? Not too bad at all. I love that. So we're talking
television and movie houses. If youcould pick one to buy or live in,
which one would it be? Oh? We got remember different? Oh
yeah that was a great house.Yeah it was cool area too, right
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there on Park Avenue in New York. Well it's all yours, okay,
Chris. Oh yeah, thank youso much. Chris. That's a good
one. You're welcome. Have agreat weekend. Good morning, Susan.
If you could live in any movieor television house, which one would it
be for you? I want tosay for the house, and I don't
know if it's technically a house.Okay, this is gonna throw you for
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a looper. But Willy Wonkas isa chocolate factory, Okay, that is
epic. That would be amazing.And yes, he lived there, so
technically Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory is ahouse, yes, and he wanted to
Charlie to have it, so Imean okay. And he's got like boats
and trains and everything else. Andalso it's a chocolate things, so I
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mean, how could you go wlong? You know Willy Wanka's Chocolate Factory.
You got the oupah Lumpa's helping youout so you'll never be lonely. Okay,
that's a good one, Thank you, Susan. What about you?
If you could live or buy anymovie or television house, which one would
you pick? One eight, ninehundred and one three seven. You can
also tap the red microphone if you'relistening on our iHeartRadio app, send a
(04:06):
talkback and join the fun. Loveto hear from you this morning, Christie
Lie it's eighty plus. That wenta three point seven. What's up,
Kevin? If you could pick anymovie or TV house to live in,
what would it be? I wouldlove to live at the house that the
Brady Bunks lived in. That wouldbe great. But get ready for tourists
every day on your sidewalk taking pictures. But that sunken living room was amazing.
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Yup, either that one or eightis enough? Back from the eighties.
Ah, those eighty six coom houses, don't they bring back such great
memories. Thanks for the call,Kevin, have a great weekid, Christie
lie zero commercials for eighty minutes.Right now on eighties plus, you've been
talking about if you could own orlive in any movie or TV house,
what would it be? Dwayne Robin'snest from Magnum p I where he lived
(04:55):
on the island in White Each.Oh, man, that was such a
good house. I think I readthat they sport down. Yeah they did
years ago. Yeah, good guys, I forgot about that one. Yeah,
that was definitely an amazing house.And then his car too, man
Tom Selleck in the eighties. Yeah, that was it right, that was
(05:16):
that was the icon. Ill evenI'll even take the tudobe. They're all
yours, Dwayne. Thanks for checkingin. Have a great weekend, Christie
Live, any movie, any TVshow? Which house would you pick to
live in? It's eighties plus atone O three point seven commercial free music
for eighty minutes. House I wouldlike to own the most luxurious Bruce,
(05:38):
Wayne manor, complete with a batcimof course, have a good one.
Bye, Christie Live, thanks forlistening to eighties plus A one a three
point seven? Still not playing commercialsfor eighty minutes. Talking about if you
could live in any movie or TVhouse, which one would you pick?
Everett? I would want the ConjuringHouse. Did you say the Conjuring Oh?
(05:58):
Hell no, seriously, Oh yeah, I would love to have that
out that or even the Ambityville Housewould be another one I'd like to Oh
no, not is just like goodpeace and nothing about that house is giving
me Pete, it is all yours. Thanks for the call, Everett.
You both ever wont to pul dayyou too, Christie Lie eighties plus A
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what a three point seven? Oh? This George Michael song is so good.
Thanks for listening. Still not playingcommercials for eighty minutes. Gotta talk
back. Hi, Christy, It'sNick from Morgan Hill. I'm surprised nobody
is mentioned wanting to live in TonyStark's house. I mean you wouldn't want
an et the garage and an eticman cakes. All right, thank you,
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bye, thank you so much.I'd find me up okay, Nick,
I would take that house too,or at least be your next door
neighbor. Christie Lie eight thirty threeon eighties Plus at what a three point
seven about to kick off the GreatDebate? But we got time for one
more movie called Ronda. If youcould live in any movie or TV house,
what would it be? Can Ilive in any movie house with Jody
(07:08):
Foster Baby? Okay, yes,we will definitely hook that up for you,
Ronda. I can't even do itthe way she was doing it.
Hey, it's time for the GreatDebate. Oh man. Okay, Every
(07:41):
Monday, Wednesday and Friday, wetalk about some things in the Great Debate.
I always love to hear your thoughts. And if you have not seen
the newest Netflix documentary, it ison Ashley Madison. Have you heard of
this website? It is basically asite where people who are married or in
relationships hook up and cheat on theirsignificant others. That's what the site was
(08:05):
designed to do. That's what it'sall about. Maybe you've used it.
We're not judging. We're just sayingpeople are telling their truths in this new
Netflix documentary and producer Karina you've seenit and you said one guy was what?
Yeah, one guy was cheating onhis wife for a while and then
when he got caught because hackers exposeda lot of the cheaters on Ashley Madison,
(08:26):
and then he never cheated again.So we were talking about if you
are a cheater, does that meanyou are always a cheater. This is
a conversation that you probably had withyour friends, a debate people have had
in relationships for the test of time. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
It's kind of like, can peoplereally reform personally? I think you
(08:46):
have to give people an opportunity tochange, and they always take that opportunity,
But you got to give them anopportunity to change. Producer it clearly
does not agree. No, I'vebeen cheated on a few times. I
believe that once you cheat, iteventually comes back and you'll do it again.
(09:09):
You've never cheated on anyone? Tellthe truth to shame the devil.
No, I've actually never cheated onanyone. No. I feel like,
honestly I have maybe cheated. Inthe PA. I think, well,
this is a little bit overlap.I want to call it cheated. Here
we go. I would call ita little overlap. No, okay,
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but I would not do it again, I would not. I would just
leave. I would break up withsomeone. I would tell the truth and
I would leave. I wouldn't playwith somebody's emotions. People get serious,
you know, DOT would not.I would not do that. It's you
know, I'm too grown for thatout here. So but what do you
think? That is the question forthis morning's Great hold On Wait for It,
(09:52):
Great hold On, Wait for ItDebate six nine hundred one three seven.
You can always tap the red microphoneon our iHeartRadio app at jump in.
Once a cheater, always a cheater? Or can people actually change their
dirty lion cheating scumbag ways? Wow? Take it back to the Great Debate
(10:18):
eighties plus at one three point seven. Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Or can people actually change their lioncheating ways? That is the question
this morning for the Great Debate.Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, we
always talk about some things, Darwin, thank you for checking in. What
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do you think? Look when someonecheats? I'm leary, but there's a
guy that I really liked. He'she's a super good guy. I worked
with him and he threw it allaway. He cheated on his wife with
someone at work. And she gotpregnant. Oh he lost everything and he
lost he lost his job, buthe changed. He actually married the girl
(11:03):
that was pregnant, and he's astand up guy now. He totally apologized
for all the things that he did, but he owned all of it.
And I think that once you startto own it and you realize, hey,
you know there's a different way tobe, everyone should get another chance.
That's all I'm saying. People canchange. That doesn't mean you have
to get back with them if theycheat on you, but just give people
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the opportunity to actually learn from theirmistakes and make a change. Make that
change, as Michael says, ThanksDarwin, Thanks Christy, good morning.
Rita wants a cheater, always acheater? Is that true? Or can
people change? You know, thismight be an unpopular opinion, but I
think if someone's like young and dumb, or honestly they just like haven't met
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the one, I think people couldchange under the right circumstances. If it's
just because they weren't with the rightperson, or they were young and dumb,
and we've all been young and dumbbefore. Keep it real, Yeah,
people do change, especially past yourtwenties and your thirties and your forties,
you were always changing or or honestly, if they're just like not with
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the right person, they might cheatbecause they're just not into it, you
know, and it's like, whatcan you do? Well, you can
leave. You don't have to hurtsomebody else's feelings. But that's a lesson
that you learn as you live morelife. Thank you so much for the
call, Rita. We will noteyour vote. Where do you stand on
this morning's great debate? Once acheater, always a cheater? Or do
(12:33):
people change? One eight sixty sixnine hundred one three seven, Or you
can tap the red microphone on ouriHeartRadio app and send a talk back to
jump in. Got one here?Hell no, people don't change. If
you cheat once, you'll do itagain. I'm speaking from experience, and
if it's in you to be dishonestin relationships, that's just who you are.
(12:54):
Okay, all right? Sound likeyou are speaking from experience with some
extra right there voice. Thank youfor the talk back. Where do you
stand? One eight sixty six,nine hundred and one oh three seven or
do what he did? Tap thered microphone on our iHeartRadio app and jump
in and join the Great Debate Herefrom you next, Christie Lie. Once
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a cheater, always a cheater?Or can people change? That is this
morning's Great debate. Hi, Christine, this is Barbara, And people do
change. My ex husband and Iwere married for sixteen months and then he
cheated on me. We split,then we grew up, we met again,
and this year we'll be celebrating thirtyseven years of marriage in November.
(13:39):
So people change, Okay, thenthirty seven years day, Barbara, he
got it right. She was like, you gotta get it together. I'm
gonna give you one more chance,one more chance. And he's like,
yes, ma'am. Thank you forthe talk back and for listening to eighties
plus Back to the Great Debate eightiesplus at one oh three point seven.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater. We've heard that old adage from now
back when all the time do youbelieve it's true? That is the question
this morning for the Great Debate,Lauren, Once a cheater, always a
cheater? True or not? Yeah? People don't change usually unless they go
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through some major therapy or something likethat. They're not going to change.
It's a character flaw. That's whatI think. I don't think that there's
a way to come back from that, just a flaw that you obviously don't
see something wrong with it, andso you continue to do it until you
get crought again. That's it.We got on this discussion because there's this
Ashley Madison documentary and if you don'tknow about Ashley Madison, it was that
(14:46):
website. I don't know if it'sstill around where people who are in relationships
basically cheat on their significant others.Angel, what do you think once a
cheater, always a cheater, orcan people change? I believe in second
chenses, but there's always that nagging, dailying behind, you know, like
there's always that nacking doubt that whatif he does it again or what if
(15:09):
she does it again? But Ibelieve in second chenses always. Okay,
thank you so much, appreciate yourvote. We will note that. Thank
you very much. Angel got atalk back from our iHeartRadio app here.
You can always jump in, justhit that red microphone. Yes, people
do change. I have a similarstory. My husband made a bad choice
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and he regrettited it and he neverlooked back and I didn't hold it against
him, and twenty four years later, we are still happily married. So
yes, people do change. Havea great day you too. Thank you.
I appreciate you sharing your story andyour talk bad twenty four years later.
Wow, that is a long time. These women are like, get
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it right, brokay, get itright, Tim, Good morning. Once
a cheater, always a cheating Idon't think so. But I do think
this though. I think that onceit is established or it has been done,
then I think that it's always goingto be on your mind. So
even if you never cheat again,it's always going to be on your mind,
(16:15):
like, oh man, I couldjust do this, I could just
do that. And some people afterthey do it, you know, as
soon as they get angry, that'sthe thing that they go to. So
you cannot do it or you couldbecome one. Okay that is true.
So that was kind of towing theline there. Yeah, but giving people
the opportunity to change. You gottime for one more call here? Thank
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you Carl for checking in from Brisbane. What do you think this for this
morning's great debate? Hold on,wait for it? Always they do it?
While what's a cheater? Always acheater? Work? If people change?
I don't think people should cheat.I mean, if that's what you
(16:56):
want to do. You should behonest about it. And if that's the
kind of relationship that you're going tohave with someone, that that's absolutely cool,
but just don't lie about it.But then number two is I watched
that documentary as well, and thatpoor guy because yeah, granted he was
the dog about it. At theend of that program, he was so
defeated and so deflated, and I'msorry. That girl was evil. She
(17:19):
was like, she's got him underher thumb for the rest of his life.
And that's not right either. Okay, well, I didn't see the
Ashley Madison documentary on Netflix. Youwatched it, Karina, what was Yeah,
So, the one of the mainguys that's a big part of this
documentary. He was talking about howhe cheated on his wife and then you
know, like more things came outabout his cheating. But you know,
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you do feel kind of bad forhim because his wife was like, I
couldn't believe this. I couldn't believethat, and then you know, I'll
feel bad, yeah, kind ofholding that against him, and you know,
don't do dirt, don't get dirty. So check it out for this
Morning's a great debate in the matterof one's a cheetah, always a cheetah.
(18:02):
Where do people stand? Everyone hassaid give them a second chances and
no, once a cheater, youare not always a cheater. People can
change, yeah, change, oryou can like what did you call it
earlier? You can overlap with people. Christy, is that what it's called?
Overlap? Or bringing up old stuff? Are you bringing up old stuff?
Okay? Or be nice like meand never cheating your life? The
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reason get thirty seconds this one eightiesplus at one oh three point seven.
Time to play Give me five?Christie, Dean and Sonoma getting ready to
take over for give me five.Coach. Jim is the Gimme five champ,
but you could steal his crown rightnow if you can give me five
(18:48):
things in ten seconds. I gota game box or an AC DC box
set for you. If you're arocker. Clock starts when I say,
go, Dean, give me fivegirl names that start with the letter L
as in Larry Go, Louise,Ellen, Lola, Fana, Billians who
(19:18):
Congratulations, you did it? Wow? Finally, finally, Dean, you
are the giv Me five champ,starting off a brand new month as the
champion and the winner step up tothe mic. Who are What would you
like to shout out this Friday?Oh, I gotta give it to my
friends sci Fit in Pataloma. Nice. What is sci fit It's final port
(19:41):
injury and Functional Integrated Therapy ala neuroexercise specialist. That sounds like amazing work.
Well, keep it up sci Fitin Petaluma, And thank you so
much for calling to play this morning. Have a wonderful weekend. Hang on,
I got a game box for youfilled with four hundred classic video games
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or that ACDC box set. Youcan let Karina know whichever one you want
and we'll get you hooked up.Coming up at nine point forty Hopping aboard
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