I'm a Truck Driver

Welcome back! In this episode KT and Kayla discuss Kayla getting more in touch with her feminine energy and expertimenting with her look. Other topics include KT disliking Love is Blind, the Wendy Williams documentary and the woman who left her boyfriend to go dance on stage with Omah Lay. Enjoy!

Episode Transcript

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The Petty Is Podcast. Welcome backto another episode of Petty Ish. I'm
Kayla, I'm Katy. What didyou do Petty this week? Katie?
We get right into it. Hi. Oh yeah, Hi, I thought

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I thought, I just do it, let's just do it. Well,
ill you look? You know youlook beautiful too. Actually, I just
I know what you did Petty thisweek? What blasted me? I did
for almost years, dude, andthen taking me from wax to a host
and I was burning up your wholecomplex, Petty ass? Wait, why
did I forget about that whole thing? I haven't thought I I'm so traumatized.

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Oh my gosh. Did y'all seeour Instagram? Oh my god.
So, Kayla, you know,got a new wig and I thought i'd
wear her today because if you do, watch the video and follow us on
Instagram at the Pettyish Podcast. Mywig was like this close to the fire
when I was blowing it out,like I could have lost my baby.
So what happened was like she cameover before we went over to castaway to

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you know, so I could layher wig because she's never done it before.
I've never always buy wigs with thebanks because don't know how to lay
alas. So that's and she teachesme. Yeah, girl, let me
put y'all on game. Go tothe TikTok shop. Yes, and buy
you a glueless wig. Period.They're so easy. All you have to
do is just slap it on andthen just put a little bit of like
spray, right, and then that'sit foundation and you're good. Yeah.

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So we got her wig, andI don't know what happened. I think
you had like the box and thewig box a little bit too close to
the candle. Yeah, and Ihad like the bonnet and the plastic wasn't
in the box. It was kindof like hanging off the edge of the
box and the box was kind ofin the angle as we were making videos
for content, so I slid itout of the picture, not realizing that

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I slid it right next to thecandle. And it was one of those
low candles where the flame is high. Girl, that thing flames everywhere everywhere.
There was a melted plastic all overKayla's bathroom sink, in her sink,
and I am so sorry again Idid not clean that up because we
relate for our reservation. I'm sayingno, but like I froze, You

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did I froze? Was that scaryfor you to realize? Like how you
react in a situation? Yeah,Like my mind couldn't process what to do
with that moment. And then inthe video, you can you hear me
say, well, don't put itin water, because I always thought that
you can't put water on a waxfire or candle fire. And that's true.

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If the wax itself was on fire, you should not put that in
water because it could have caused anexplosion. So you aren't wrong. But
because it was on the box andthe bonnet was okay, but it all
happened so fast, and Kayla kindof just was like and then you just
start blowing. And then I'm likein my mind, I'm like thinking,
okay, maybe put it in thein the bathtub. And then I was

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like, get a towel because youcan't use water. Like I had a
bunch of things going on in mymind at once, to the point where
if by that time it was overand to be fair, like the bathroom's
face was only but so big,I'm already handling it like what could you
have done? Pushed me out theway and grab like there was not like
too many cooks in the kitchen likethe person. People were like, Kayla,
why did you just freeze it?Just stay? Somebody was like,

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why were you just hiding by?Like I wasn't trying to hide first of
all, if you were in mybathroom, you know, like this,
like she said the sink is yea, but like it's not. But I
was trying to think of a masterplan behind her. That's what I was
trying to do. Okay, Soyou weren't sacrificing me just so, just
so we know, you weren't likepitting me in the way, like saving
yourself just to confirm okay, Butthe weg was looking good. I love

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her. So I'm obsessed. Mybirthday is in about I don't know,
eleven days or something like that,twelve days, two weeks someone of that,
and I need to want to orderanother one. I want to have
a new hairstyle, like every weekend. I am obsessed with these, especially
since my locks maybe going through abit of an awkward phase and they have
to get their repair done and Igotta calm out like twelve to fifteen of
them and get them repaired. Soin the meantime, I'm going through my

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little awkward thing. Best believe youcan catch me cute. Okay. I
love how you said that you wantto start embracing a different side of you,
a difference so that you haven't touchedbefore. Yeah. I definitely want
to treat myself more as a canvasand just know that I really am esthetically
pleasing and I don't have to likeI can still be natural and have fun.

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I do appreciate my natural beauty,and that's the scary line that I
don't want to. I don't wantto cross. I don't want to become
too dependent upon this, you know, the lashes and the fake hair,
because I do want to know thatI am beautiful with my locks and my
no makeup as well. And Idon't want to, you know, not
like that girl anymore, because Ireally do appreciate this new jawn that just
into my life. I love thatwe're kind of like switching places in a

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way, because I think for me, I'm more embracing my natural hair because
when you ever before, when youfirst met me, you never caught me
without braids, me without like awig slapped on my head. And it's
because I always felt like I neededsomething. And now that I'm in this
new season, I'm trying to embracemy natural hair. I'm trying to take

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care of it more. I've beenreally like studying and researching on how to
grow my hair and make it lookgood. And you know, no makeup.
I just do the lashes and loopgloss and keep it going. So
I love how we're like kind ofswitching. But I love that you're,
you know, embracing your more becauseI love Kayla's always like, what did
you call yourself a truck driver?Oh? Yeah, yead no, still

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like to this day, like Ieven watched it. I picked up the
wine glass and I get ridy videolike both my big ass hands. I'm
a truck driving man. On theinside. My friend Dana is teaching me
how and my friend kle he girl, you guys are teaching me how to
be just more in touch with myfeminine side. And like because I really
am very in touch with my masculineside. Like I'm not aware of how
I look when I'm eating. Idon't care if I'm hungry. I'm about

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to rip this food. And I'mnot one of those girls like oh,
I'll just take it back, likeif I'm hungry and I'm in front of
you like I'm going to eat,and I just I burb I just in
fact, I remember I was talkingto one of our p ones for Petty
Ish Huh, and he was saying, like, you know, boo to
the people that say it's a girl'spodcast and a man bashing podcast, because
Kayla, you're a man and youhave man perspectives. And I said,

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whoa, let me talk about Butthere's nothing wrong with like a balance though.
You know, you can have thatmasculine side, that powerful side,
I will call it a powerful side, and then also be in touch with
your girly side as well. AndI love seeing like you blossom like she's
she's wearing all she's picking out allthese cute dresses, like she had a
whole She brought like her whole wardrobeto my house the other day. She's

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like, should wear this dress thatsays that saus And like seeing you look
good and then also feel good aboutyourself, like damn, like I look
good like it was yeah for sure, think you think you thank you?
And I do feel like the reasonI come off like or or and quick
to tap into my masculine tough sideis because you know, I always had
to be to the next tent.You gotta be able to be comfortable,

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safe in order to be soft.And there's not many times I don't feel
like I need to defend myself orI need to be like what the you
know? M m? And sometimesit's you rather not get your wigs snatched
off in public, I'd rather doright. I think it's so funny.
I was actually just having the conversationwith a friend about being in touch with
your feminine side and being with somebodywho encourages you to bring that out.

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And I know for me, inthe past, I have never felt safe
enough to want to. I'll takethe bet because I do try to be
sexy for my man and stuff.But to a certain extent, do you
feel like you never been with somebodywho was comfortable enough, you were comfortable
enough with to be your full sexyself. Oh back in the past,

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yes, to this day. Now, I've met I've met people that I
am one thousand percent comfortable with allof me and being around all of them.
So it's really the difference is thedifference, Souf, because I had
definitely been This is an embarrassings toeven come on, Yernady started. Yearnady
started, why did I do thisto myself? I'm gonna like when I'm

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listening back to this and we're like, why would I do this? No,
I can't, I can't do it. But I remember one time,
I'll speak vaguely Cala. We arean open books she had. Someone said,

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Caleb Pick. She goes, Idon't know if you want to on
the podcast. I'm sorry, I'mso sorry, but that's right what you
did. Uh. No, Iremember like when I was in one of
the one of my relationships, youknow, somebody suggested something in a joking
manner, like when I come home, do this in a joking manner,

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and I did it like an angel. No, no, no, no,
I had to do it like schoolgirl. I added it with like
food. I think it was likemini muffins, like place them. Huh.
I don't want to talk about it. You really can't. I've noticed
that. I've noticed that, sohow to do like many muffins like?
And they were supposed to be likeplaced somewhere in a very attractive manner.

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And he said it jokingly and Itook him seriously. And then when he
came home and saw the mini muffins, he laughed at me, and it
was just awful, Like it wasso awful, so like like you just
placed them in different parts on yourbody and he'll come home and eat them
off you. What's that? Whyis that funny? Because he laughed at
me when he came home, Whydid he think it was? And that

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it wasn't. He wasn't serious,and it wasn't a safe space to be
that, you know, for him. So I was made to feel that
way. And then especially after hesuggested so, yeah, I guess it
wasn't as embarrassing on hindsight, butthe laughing at me, I felt the
feeling of humiliation once again because itwasn't and I looked darned if I did
say so myself. Yeah, itwas just anyway, the petty thing I

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did this week. Last week Ihad requested off no I was. I
was in Palm Springs and I hadan interview signed I set up for one
of my shows. We were doingsmall business shout out every week, so
we have a different small business linedup. We had a business lined up.
I confirmed the guests whatever they wantedto promote phone numbers, pictures,
everything set to go, would becalling you at this time. It'll last

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this long, excellent, great,I'll be doing my other show. Feeling
producer handle it. I didn't findout, so I came back to work,
like, Hey, how to go? How was the interview? Guests
didn't answer the phone? We calledher a million times over and over again.
Dn'tance phone? Wow, that's crazy. So I reached out to the
guests, like, Hey, whathappened? Why didn't answer your phone?
First I reached out to the wrongguests because it wasn't the guest that didn't

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reach out, But that person didreach out and her interview is great.
But the guest that didn't reach out, I'm like, I'm like, why
didn't you answer the phone? Shewas like, oh, I'm so sorry.
I was on vacation and I wasin this spotty area and by the
time I did get to the rightarea, it was too late and my
time sly had passed. I loveto reschedule and promote my business and da
da da No, no, absolutelynot absolutely your business can absolutely no.

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This is not a market two threeokay, this is I'm so sorry if
I if I made your show soundbad. Yeah you did, and I
wasn't there to fix it. No, if this was this was you know,
Scottsdale, or if this was youknow, Princeton, New Jersey or
something like that, maybe, butthis is market number two. And you
don't how many emails I had linedup that wanted to be on that night
for that out. Can't kidding me? Absolutely, like five other people.

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That's like, I would love tobe on this date for this business.
I chose you and you didn't,and you want to reschedule. You know
how many people would love just tobe on any one of the stations in
this building. Yeah, you hadthe opportunity and you blew it. And
to be honest, like I dowork for the number one talk station in
the country and the most listened tostation on the iHeart Radio because it's you
know, people have to listen tothe latest information, so like it's a

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really high volume station. That wouldhave been great for your business. In
fact, we had another business onthis Saturday and they were by the time
they got from the studio to thelobby, they had like one hundred people
on their website. They're showing meas like it and it's still going up.
So just just was really ungrateful missedopportunity. So my petty ass left
her own right. I don't thinkthat he was even petty. I think
that was just necessary. Like Ifeel like any business woman, any businessman,

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any PEP PEP program director, wouldhave kind of done the same thing,
like I'm not going to give youa second chance after you blew it,
like I gave not not in La, not a thing baby, any
things our listeners have done. Igot my friend a gift card to her
favorite restaurant for a birthday. Iput that there was one hundred dollars in
the card, when in reality,I only put one dollar on the card.
That's what she gets for missing mybirthday party. You are not a

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friend. You are not a friend'sfunny. Oh no, no, no,
no, no, I don't likethat. I would do that to
Sammy my brother. Well that's that'sthe life Olive garden or like a Texas
roadhouse. And he thinks that hegot his ship paid for it. No,
that's funny to a sibling, Butno, girl, bye. I
told my coworkers that have children thewrong date for a party because I knew

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they would. Oh, I meansometimes kids are a lot. Kids are
a lot, and I don't kidsshould not be at parties because sho not
be Our weddings do not invite.No, if you are under fifteen,
you're not coming to my wedding.No. I think I would just be
like, it's an adults only function. Not lie about the date you asked.
That's so mean, that's mean.But how was your week outside of

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the whatever else we talked about earlier? I can't remember the fire. The
fire sat fun castiway was cute.What do we do? Yeah? Was
so cute. Yeah, we hada good time. I mean, like,
if you've never been a castaway inbourbonk go, it is beautiful.
It's on the top of the mountains, like it overlooks all of Bourbank.
It's even more beautiful. Like atnight. They have on rate on the

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weekends they play like really vibe.Yeah, they had where are that in?
Wag surf Wags? Yeah? Crazy, it was. It was a
lot of fun. We had areally nice server who you know. We
pretended it was Elia's birthday, sister'sbirthday. Did we got We got and

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two free champagne glasses. We did, we did. We definitely got all
that and I love I Love princesstreatment and they had lice, little strawberry
at the type of the champagne glass. Yes, So one of the waiters
came up to our table was like, this table is VI P. Make
sure you treat them as VI P. And it's like, are you gonna
VI I P our bill? Right? All right? Right? Got it?

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Yeah, that was fun. Itwas nice to get all cute and
dressed up. That was the firsttime that I've been out out feeling well,
feeling well enough to actually get outthere and like have a margarita.
So yeah, then other than that, I started Love is Blind? Are
you hooked? That's right? I'mI don't see why it's such a big

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thing, Like everyone's oh my god, watch Love is Blind. Like,
I feel like the whole concept isso dumb. Oh that's because you got
to see when it actually works out. These couples are ass but because time,
No, you don't meet in apod three times and get engaged.
Excuse me. The episode from thePeople, the couple from season one is

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still married till this day. Thereare plenty of couples that are still married
till this day. So Love isBlind isn't off els season one. They've
been together for like seven years.Now I meet that number up. I
just don't. I really just don'tsee it. And how are you saying
I love How are you saying Ilove you to someone? I understand like
falling in love based off of personality, but you never I only talk to
them a handful of times. Youdon't love this person, you don't.

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I'm sorry. I think it's allfor I truly am watching this and I
was like, this is all forTV. You're supposed to say I love
you. You're supposed to, youknow, propose. They're doing it up
for the cameras because this is whatthey're supposed to do. But I don't
really believe that Love is Blind.Sorry, I don't ew ew. First
of all, you don't. Youdon't start off on this season where there's

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no real love story. It's allbullshit. They found people that just got
engaged just you know, wait,you know what I'm saying, Like behind
the scenes, I am a memberof Love is Blind addicts on Facebook,
and what I've learned is a lotof the people, Yeah, I'm proud,
a lot of the people they werejust like married or engaged in like
applying for the show while they werein a relationship. Their ex fiances are

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coming out, their ex girlfriends arecoming out, like the guy Jeremy,
don't ruin it for me. Sospoiler all right, Well if you can
join Love Is Blind Addicts and he'sa black guy. No, Jeremy's the
white guy that what episodes out,So you're behind one episodes. I'm about
to start set. Jeremy's the guywith that married the blonde the blonde girl
who said being bag Ad that wasweird. That was first of all,

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everybody is over sexualizing Ad and Idon't like that. I agree one thousand
percent. And it's very young.Oh God, even when even when she
took her bathiness, when she wasin her bathinessuit, I turned into a
man. I was like, wow, please God, bring that over here.
Lord bless me. Let me am. I going to have my adult

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grown body soon and I'm pushing thirty. Well, she said she works for
it, and I don't know whatkind of work she does, but please
let me know you think no,no, I think she she. I
just want that ass like for myself. I mean, I would love to
snack hers in real life, Butyou want to give a little bit.
I love to be bagging like you'repart of the problem too. I wouldn't
say it on TV though, juston the podcast, but I but that's

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what I didn't like. I didn'tlike how they were all over sexualizing her
and everybody like yeah, yeah,yeah, but it's good. I really,
I really think it's good TV.I mean, I think the ultimatum
better. Have you seen that onewhere you give somebody a ultimatum to marry
you? That's a better concept thanlove is a blind I thought. I'm
just saying I enjoyed watching that morethan I am watching Like, like I

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thought I would be so hooked thatI would watch all the episodes that are
out right now sitting. It literallytook me like three days. I was
like, let me go back toGriselda, like, ah, this is
at It was just like dragging.I'm just I'm disappointed. I can't,
I mean whatever. And then theyalso they outed the interracial couple, apparently
his cousin out of him and steadhe's it's so good. What yeah,

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this is all the but this isall tea that's back. You gotta just
be paying attention to stop. Wait, I thought the whole all the episodes
are out now. No, butthat's what's going to know. This is
behind the scenes stuff, but itwill come out on the reunion. Just
got to see. I don't knowall the tea behind the scenes. I'm
just watching what's on TV and it'snot I'll send you the Facebook group if
you want to know. Okay,all right, let me finish watching tomorrow.

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But so yeah, sorry, loveis blind. But also, I
uh, I want to tell everybodywhat I'm doing. This new segment that
I'm doing for Kiss FM and anotherone. So this is the air for
the presidential election. You know,it's election year. March fifth, which
is exactly a week from today,is the primary elections, specifically for the

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state of California and everywhere. ButI encourage everybody to vote. I've always
been that type and I don't meanto get all preachy and political, but
this is very important and I've beendoing so much research of the past week
just because I'm doing this for Kiss. But I have always been that type
of person where primary is what no, no, thank you, Like I'm
not reading get a book in themail that tells you that outlines all the

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propositions I'm not reading that like I'mgonna vote for the president and that's it,
and that's how I've always been.But what I think I needed is
for somebody to explain it in simplerterms for me, Somebody my age,
somebody that can make it funny andinteresting and want me to listen to it
because I'm not sitting there and I'mnot reading a whole proposition book. So

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that's kind of what I'm doing withkiss FM. I am making literally like
sixty second videos and I'm explaining everythingfor you so that you don't have to
think, and then you can justdo additional research, but then you can
go out and vote, because thesekind of things absolutely matter. And it's
really funny because it's like we allscream about the left and the right and

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making change, but the real changehappens in the primaries, right, not
even the main election in November.And so when election goes either one way
or another way and everyone's upset,it's mainly it's probably because of what you
didn't do back in March, causingpeople to lose the majority. That way,
your vote even matters, even lass. My best friend Kayla Kressler is

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so into politics she always has been, so she's been breaking it down to
and layman's terms for me since thebeginning of time. So I've always known
how important it was to vote duringthe primaries and how impactful that was,
you know, every law that's classed, like the fact that Roe v.
Wade being overturned was because we didn'tvote in a primary and we lost.
Like it's all our faults, ohabsolutely, because we don't vote. Yeah,

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and it's just like people our age, We just don't care to do
the extra work. That's it,and we would rather watch a TikTok video
of somebody explaining it in simple terms. So again, that's what I'm doing,
and I'm doing this I know,and mind you, I'm not a
politics girl, but like this hasmade me very interested because I've been assigned
this task and I try to doit in simplest terms. I try to

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make it funny and interesting so thatsomebody will want to go out and actually
vote in the primary. So again, it is well, when this comes
out, it'll be six days fromnow. Seriously, I encourage you to
read up on the propositions for yourstate because it really really matters, specifically
for California. They are trying toyou know, build these mental health facilities

(21:45):
for and they provide psychiatric beds andcares for care for people who are on
the streets. And they're also tryingto provide temporary housing for people, especially
veterans and stuff. So there's prosand there's cons. But yeah, so
make sure you follow me on socialsand also follow KISSFM if you want to
learn more about that. But Iyeah, it's like a whole other side
of me that I never thought Iwould tap into, like Kayla politics,

(22:07):
like really getting into it. No, but like I love it. I
love it. It's important and it'sneeded. So thank you for all the
work you're doing. Thank you foryour service, Kayla. Thank you,
You're welcome. I had a fabulousweek, Syling. I feel as though
I have been big outside and alsojust putting a lot of just effort into

(22:29):
going out and being the woman thatI have always wanted to be. Just
go out as her and use andso it shall be. So I've been
going to I went to the Ritzand me and my friends just went to
the bar and just sat there andjust ordered My new favorite drink is called
a French seventy five shout out tomy friend Dana. She also did my

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lashes. I'm very grateful for her. But wait, pause, are those
the same lashes? Yeah? Kalas, Yeah, they last about two
weeks, oh two weeks. Andshe said, if I take care of
them the right way. Yeah,okay. So the ones that I have
on now, I lose a coupleI have they're clusters. Okay, So
I have those two and I gotmy offrom TikTok and I usually like change
them every five days. Yeah,she puts them underneath, Like are they

(23:11):
underneath underneath? Do you find youreyes are mad watery because your eye can't
access your real lashes? Or isit in my head? I think it?
I mean that like to absorb someof the tears in my eye wake
up mad tear, But also likeit's it depends on the brand of the
bond that you're using, because Ihave tried two different brands at one at
this point, and one brand doesn'tsit well with my eyes and they kind

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of twitch and they kind of likejust does feel uncomfortable. And I finally
found a brand that I really reallylike, but I switched one out every
five days. But it's so nicejust being able to sleep in these lashes
and wake up and like that's yourlook. I love it. I love
it. I love it. Iwant to be more, you know,
I don't want to how to doit myself because they never really dislike and
I don't know how much control Ihave with my own lot. I it's
so easy you because you're that You'rethat kind of No I'm telling you,

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I'm a truck driver. You needto understand that about me, like Alli,
but on a tract A love that. But I did get to the
writs and I had an amazing timethere, and I just also am tapping
into my pretty single girl in laprivileges. It's very nice to be able

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to just go out and a lotof the times you get taken care of,
even if you don't have intentions toyou. Can you please tell the
story because that is absolutely crazy.I mean, honestly, it's really just
about and it's not intentional, likeI go out and I plan wholeheartedly to
pay for my bill. I reallydo. I just barely have to.

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So you go out and you sitat the bar and you order and somebody
comes in. But it also dependson the places that you go that's not
going to happen. I forget Brewer'sbrothers down the street. No, ma'am,
no, no, no, youhave to go to the Rits.
You go to St. K,you go to the poem, you you
get dressed up. You said atthe bar, you're with you know,
your your girls, and you're justchit chat, regular conversation. And then

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you know, eventually when you're sittingat the bar with people, you start
talking to strangers. In those typesof locations, you're just talking to the
strangers that have arrived on a privatejet that this five hundred dollar bill is
nothing to them. So here likeI'll just write it off. So it's
just it's la baby love. BecauseI've never really I'm just tapping into it.

(25:29):
I'm tapping into it. I've neveraccessed my feminine side in the perks
of that. So learning to dothat and accessing that is amazing. And
then I also just got invited tohide Away. I actually went to Hideaway
on Rodeo Drive. It's one ofmy favorite restaurants. I have really good
food that we have to go.But it was a book release or a
book signing, and I met theauthor and he was just telling his story.

(25:49):
He wrote the book. It's calledThe Blonde and the Chicken Pop Pie,
and it was about his life asa restaurant tour and just how many
times he's felled and you know howclose he was, and how he had
these ideas that people rejected, andhow you know, he just was thirty
nine years old, divorced and couldn'tafford anything but really stay persistent. And

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now he's again has he said hehad Tom Hanks just all these obviously name
dropping Untila, but so superstar studiedrestaurant that you own now that they love
to frequent because the food is sogood. And he just worked his way
up. And I was able tojust manifest and pretend that I was at
my own book release and what myparty will look like. And that's just
kind of mindset I come to thesedays. So when I go out to
these of these places and these events, I'm just manifesting that this is my

(26:33):
lifestyle, and these are the placesthat I frequent, and these are my
people because this is my my bankaccount. So it has been a week
of manifestations, and I'm very reallyexcited about just the life I've been living.
I just feel like the future looksright, yeah, right now.
Yes, I'm excited for both ofus. Like I'm right there with you,
girl, by at the ritz withyou. I want to get my

(26:53):
stuff paid for it all that period. Next time, let's go. We're
done, we're down, we're outside, we're outside with it. But girl,
so we talked about and I've beendoing more research. So Alesion allegedly
has AIDS. I heard that too, and I think that's maybe I should

(27:15):
cause him lesion because it aids lesion, like I I don't know. I
don't think because she actually called saidthat to his face, like called him
legion from the beginning. So Ithink it's because of because I'm sure she
would have left if she knew hedid. And either way, I think
that's isn't that what the stuff onhis face is? Lesions? Potentially?

(27:40):
Yeah, I don't know. Theonly the only experience I have alesions is
Philadelphia with Tom Hanks when he hadAIDS and he got he was a lawyer,
was a movie but he showed hislegions. They looked a little bit
more wet. I think. Idon't know. All I know is that
from recent Tisa's story, she wastalking about how he was sick, and
he was claiming and always in bedand not being able to move to the

(28:03):
point where he was in so muchpain that he would have to go to
work. And he was claiming thatit was from a football injury to his
knee. And he don't take youout like that where you lose hella weight,
you can't eat, you're peeing ina bottle. So I think the
internet has come to the conclusion,or as drong conclusions, that he has
AIDS. Also, I think Isaw a screenshot, but I don't know
if it's real or not. Youdon't know where it was Legion apparently texting

(28:26):
somebody confirming that he had HIV.But then again, you don't know if
that's actually real. I don't reallybelieve that one. But I also did
hear that certain STDs do attack yourjoints, and I hear that AIDS is
the number one contendo for so thejoints and the knee is fucked up because
allegedly the AIDS was attacked. Andalso remember in the story, she kept

(28:48):
emphasizing like I'm good, I'm healthy, I'm good. Huh who is that
agent? Ty Hollywood? Hey,oh, welcome, Hi I'm Kayla.
Hi am Kayla. Next to meetyou. You don't know Kayla, you
don't know. Both her names wereKayla, Yes, yeah, yeah?

(29:11):
Did we get that reaction? Welcome? We got Hollywood and wait, grab
a mic, grab the mike,yourophone get I love surprise guys. So
let's see how make sure I canhear get him your mic? What's the
fattiest thing you did? Pettiest thingI did? Uh? This week?

(29:33):
It could be anytime in life.Oh, you could have been a teenager?
What you do? You know?No? You know like you eat
this week? So I had somebody, Oh you ready ask somebody stigned up
for Rover, which is that appwhere you watch people dogs. Okay,
got it big? Like it's likeI'm getting paid like fifteen to watch it.

(29:56):
I'm getting paid like fifteen hundred dollarsright now to watch a dog.
And they I told the girl shehad to go. So now I just
got so now I got the dogin the money. Wait, you got
the dog and the money. Idon't know if that's petty or if that's
thievery. You get the dog back? It's app is app that you got
so you walked her dog? No, she put me on the app.
She put me onto the app becauseshe got kicked off the app. Oh

(30:19):
so this was her client? Thiswas No, it was my client because
I had to sign up for it. Yes, I'm confused. I'm confused.
So you got fifteen hundred dollars todo? What? Oh so you
didn't have to walk the dog?No, I walk the dog. I'll
show you you got so you dida job. Well, so you gotta
watch it off for like a coupleof days. I don't know if that's
petty. You did a job.I'm not done yet, but yeah,

(30:42):
wait, I don't get it though. What's petty about that? Because she's
she's trying to come back and getyou were saying, because she's like,
oh I put you on it.Okay, but you know she ain't fit
in. So wait what I gottaget what she need money for? Because
she told you about Rover. Yeah, she need to find her fee exactly.
Oh a referral feed. Oh okay, all right, I'm not mad

(31:04):
at that. I don't think Igive her money either, like for what?
So? So you see how ain'tlying dead? Still have this dog?
For twenty days? I one dayseven? Oh? Is it a
good boy? Is it a goodgirl? It's all right. That's that's
good money, good easy money too, Red, No, it's not easy.
Yeah. See, I've never reallyseen him with the dog either,

(31:25):
And I facetimed him and a anda dog that about to said, where'd
you get a dog? Dog jumpedout of my window? Then show the
walls I have to Yeah, whoa, but you got fifty hundred dollars,
you keep it in a cage?No, I beat your ass. You
keep my dog in a cage.I pay you fifty undred dollars and buck
around the dog? Do six thousanddollars worth of damage. Paddy, that's

(31:45):
Patty, that's Patty all right.So what did you do? Itchy?
Itchy? Well, first of all, I did they call you? It
is itchy? Look, I gota cool little name. I saw that.
I saw your little Chaine. Sowhy they call you itchy? There's
a lot of many different reasons.I'm a I'm a Simpson fan, so
like is She and Scratchy? Growingup, I'm part of a DJ group
called is She and Scratchy. It'sbeen a nickname since I was a kid,

(32:06):
and uh, it just kind ofstuck with me. Were I build
music vessels. That's my nine tofive and we just just skylining downtown.
This is not what I sound like. So I can't believe you guys brought
me on a podcast. No,this is not my voice. This is
It's been out for four days,so it's getting better. It was like,
yes, if you have me.When it was like that, no,

(32:27):
I gotta the voice that I hear. I feel like you could be
like something like that. Yeah,one of the characters like Burns, Yeah,
something like that. Anyway. Allright, so this one's for all
the parents out there. Uh.I got a step son, and we
all know how step parent relationships be. You know, as far as discipline,

(32:51):
respectfully, you got to you canonly do certain things because you got
to leave that up to the biologicalparents. So my step son the only
thing I do, and a lotof parents out there we have of our
my dad voice. That's kind ofhow I disciplined my kids. That know,
when I raised my voice, it'sit's go time. But lately,
uh, my fourteen year old stepson, he's he's kind of getting a
little sensitive to that. So headdressed that situation. I was like,

(33:14):
all right, well, when Isay something. Just listen. So the
other day he uh, I hadasked him to do something. You know,
our kids are, they're not payingattention in our world. I'm like,
and I'm telling his name is Evan. I'm like Evan, I'm telling
him to do something. He's juston his phone. He's like, yep,
yep, yep. I had awater bottle in my hand. I
ain't gonna lie. I took thelid off and just splash his ass.

(33:35):
He don't want me to yell athim no more and throwing water offfs.
Yeah, but throwing water on akid, it's not child abuse. It's
not lea bro how to get hisattention. I'm trying. I'm trying to.
I'm trying to. I mean,I don't think that's child I don't
think I will respond well, youknow, well, the only reason I
say is patty my son's face isthe only reason I say is petty is

(33:59):
because when I did it, helooked up him like really, and I
was like, yeah, listened afterthat playful, playful than anything done.
Yeah, but it's it's again,it's all about it's not what you're saying.
How you said so, he addressedhow he felt about something, and
I said, and I told him, all right, I understand that.
Just make sure that when I talkto you, paying attention so I don't

(34:21):
have to raise my voice. Andliterally, within like fifteen minutes later,
he goes, he resorts back tothe old behavior. Kid's gonna be kissed.
I was a little petty. Iflicked him with some water and got
his attention. I didn't have to, but I feel like being petty.
It's pettish, all right, it'saudience for it. Well, thank you
for that, thank you for thankyou sharing, thanks for stopping by.

(34:44):
Pettish pettyish. Make sure go subscribe, go go follow like like it post
like me setting Kayla's bathroom on fire. Almost yeah, we're going up on
TikTok. Hell yeah, now I'mon the episode. I got to see
the whole episode subscribing, like areyou absolutely? Thanks for talking by I
just came to look at a balcony, but we cared for her show and

(35:12):
there, okay, who he ishere? I don't know who was coming
in. All right, y'all,it was nice meeting you. We will
not be paying you, but thankyou. We'll tag you in a clip.
I don't know where we were.But yeah, I don't know if
he has a's or not. Butalso, did you see what Charlemagne said
about the recent situation. I heara lot of big back behavior. Does

(35:37):
she have a big back? Shedo? She does? Give Sheila that
was driving up the mountain, Okay, okay, Sheila was beautiful though.
Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no no,
you talked about the big back.I'm just saying because in a situation like
this, some of you big backs, y'all got to stop being so thirsty
for a man. There's a manout there for you. Okay. This
woman believed all of this because shewanted to believe all of this big back

(35:58):
belief. Isn't like everybody else belief. Okay, she said to herself,
he said everything I wanted to hear. She wanted to believe whatever was coming
out in his mouth because she wanteda man so bad. And then I
seen him and he actually looked likeher. But was interesting. No,
no, no, I couldn't seehis back. We only saw her because
she was sitting in the car forthe whole time. She was talking.
Sun up to Sundown. It's afifty two part series on TikTok that two.

(36:23):
So yeah, so that went intoa whole discussion about one. It's
not, in my opinion, Imean, it's not just plus sized women
or big back whatever who give off, you know, desperate energy or get
into a relationship because they feel likethat's what all that they can get.

(36:45):
I think even more than her weight, I think that she really attributed a
lot of it to her upbringing andher Christian values and just knowing in order
to move forward, I need tobe married by or in order to move
in with him, I need tobe married, and during the pandemic were
rushed, she acknowledged all that.So I just think that was I wasn't
very nice. Yeah, I don'tthink size plays a factor in this at

(37:07):
all. I mean I feel likeeven me, I feel like we've all
had a desperate moment. I don'teven call her situation a desperate moment.
I've seen a lot of people onsocial media talking about Reesa Tisa and saying
that she was just so thirsty andso desperate for a man in love that
she settled for whatever that she couldget. And when the first man that
came that said that they would payher bills like she went and got married

(37:28):
to them, And maybe that's thecase slightly for her situation, but I
feel like we all can anybody canrelate to wanting love so bad and ignoring
red flags, being desperate for youknow, some love intention and getting into
situation, yeah, and being caughtup in that honeymoon phase where you and
then and then that's when you starthearing about the stories about the people who

(37:50):
met, you know, after fourmonths, got married and then it lasted,
you know, a lifetime and theyhave seven thousand kids. Now you
hear that story and you get wrappedup because you have these emotions for this
person and you're like, it's toosoon to feel this way, but these
feelings can't be wrong. I'm like, it's we've all been there, right,
stop it d wait. I alsosaw something on social media where a
man was saying that nobody should behaving a wedding earlier than a year into

(38:15):
your marriage. I agree, Wait, then earlier than a year into your
your relationship, your marriage. Wait, you should be married for a year
wedding. Yes, wedding should beone year into a marriage. Weddings should
be one full year, one Gregoriancalendar year into you should get engaged and
then a year later or whatever,you get legally married. Everybody should go

(38:38):
to the courthouse get the document.In one year from then, we should
be going to your wedding. Weshould be celebrating the one year anniversary of
you guys being married, not thebeginning. There's no rules to this.
We make the rules of Joshua.That's not how it's always been. We
make it up. We don't haveto romanticize the very beginning. We can
romanticize a car that's moving steadily.Also, the person your brides, not

(39:00):
brides, but where they're called madeof honor. Your wedding budget should include
the work that they're putting in dayout here. I see them hard hat,
lunch pail, excel sheets, colorcoded. They're going to work all
day, taking a little break,getting some bocha, getting a little boots
in them, coming back to workon your wedding. You're paying everybody else.

(39:22):
You're paying photographer, paying the person'scooking the food. You're paying everybody
but the person that you love.You can free labor out the person.
You gonna be up there crying nutsyou all right, He's talking a lot,
But the main point is that hethinks that you shouldn't spend them,
spend the money to have this bigass ceremony until a year and your marriage,
and I agree. Why do youagree to that? I agree?

(39:42):
Okay, I feel like divorce ratesare so high nowadays. I have seen
so many of my friends get adivorce. I've seen so many relationships not
fail and not even make it toa year. Do not have me come
to your wedding and you not lasting. Do not have me paying all that
money, especially if I'm in thewedding. Absolutely not. And I think
we, like I think all tobegin with, we glorify and romanticize these

(40:05):
big, extravagant weddings when in reality, it's like one day and it's mainly
for other people, not even justyou. I personally I do want a
big wedding, But on another hand, it's like I could spend that money
on a vacation or saving up fora house or don't look at me like
that. Everybody has their preference.And also I just agree where it's like,
make sure your relationship is gonna lastand then have everybody celebrate you.

(40:30):
I think I can respect the perspectiveof if it's not gonna last. I
don't want to spend my money.Sure, but I think that just because
one relationships marriage doesn't last a lifetime, it doesn't mean a failed marriage.
It was probably for that life.It was for that chapter. It worked
out, you were happy, youenjoyed that chapter. It's over now,
congratulations. Like I feel, ifit was a memory and we had a

(40:52):
good time together, I'm not gonnabe like, man, I waste my
money spending those memories with you becauseit didn't last. You need to be
together, Like no, I hada good time celebrating my girl getting married,
maried, or myself getting married.I also think that if we're getting
married, you've been together for along time and this isn't something I'm guessing
is going to last. I'm puttingall this money because I pray it last
a lifetime. So because it didn'twork out, I need to pay for

(41:13):
that, or I need to feelbad for that. I need to make
sure because say we do wait ayear after enter our marriage and then we
get divorced six months later. Theworce can happen at any time. You
know, we can get married anytime. So I just think that the length
of time doesn't really make a differenceif the relationship is going to last or
not. And then I also Ipersonally love the couples that get married every
year. We knew their vows everyyear, and we knew that relationship contracts

(41:34):
every year. And I just alsoI scunched out my face to self limiting
beliefs, because you can have itall if you choose to the big wedding
and the vacation. You don't haveto choose one or the other. I'd
rather spend the money there. No, you'll have the money for both,
and that'll be that you have adestination wedding vacation. Yeah. I scrunched
out my face every time you selflimit, and I'll make that face no,
because you can do it. I'mnot trying to self limit at all,

(41:55):
like I think. I'm just tryingto be realistic. And there are
situations where you know you can't affordthe big, glamorous wedding. And so
I have had friends that instead ofdoing the big shabang, they elope and
they instead do a long honeymoon orthey put it in a house and they
are still very very much happy.There's nothing wrong with it. There is

(42:15):
nothing anybody can do whatever they wantto each his own. But again,
when it comes to a ceremony,I mean, in reality, I'm going
to have a wedding like right offthe bat. Yeah, but like it
makes sense, wait a year becauseI've you don't know how many relationships that
I've seen that have not made itto a year by coming to your wedding

(42:38):
until I and so I see thatyou can last at least three hundred and
sixty five days. Okay, hottake, Hot take, Hot topic,
Wendy Williams ouch ouch. I feelbad for saying it was karma. I
feel like we we we we formedit in question in form is it karama?
And do you say it's fact?I don't audio back. If we

(43:00):
asked a question, is it ourkarma? We acknowledged, But honestly watching
it like that's awful. Nobody deserve. Hey Jay, is he coming in?
Birthday? Boy? Is it today? Yeah? We have a lot
of guests today, Come on in. Huh Why didn't you tell me you
were coming because I was gonna getyou Chick fil a headphones? You didn't

(43:21):
even yes, they are happy birthday? Why do you text me back?
Right here? I was, Iwas, I was like well, I
guess he's not I was like,I guess he's not coming. I'm gonna
get Chick fil A for myself.Happy birthday to y. Yeah, what's
your petty thing? Brother? Butyour petty thing? Would you do this

(43:42):
week Patty? What have I donethis weekend? Something? Come on?
This is all time to shine peoplethat wish me a happy birthday late.
I'm waiting until the next day tosay, did you say thank you to
me? Because I messaged you onInstagram Happy birthday? Well, you know,
I got to show you the dms that I got me, Drake.

(44:04):
I apologize. I apologize, Obama, but you're taking to when you're
taking mental note of the people whodidn't say anything, like who cares about
that? But people that didn't sayit like early, like in the day,
like me. I wanted to bethat, but I wanted I wanted
to be the last one because Iwant to be the last person to see
you. So I wanted to getthe last happy birthday post on your story.

(44:27):
Who was the first? There wasa couple of people that did it
on Monday, and I was like, oh, that's so nice, thank
you so much for remembering so youearly early as hell. I know,
I know, but you know,people that take time and say happy birthday,
I think that's that's really But thepeople that don't say happy birthday,
we block absolutely is that the wigthat caught on fire? Get the fun

(44:49):
out? All right? What bye? He can smell the way he can
smell the smoke a little bit anyway. Yeah, I feel bad for saying
it because after watching, like Iliterally cried the entire time watching the Wendy

(45:12):
Williams documented transition. But I criedthe entire time, like it was so
sad to see her like that.Somebody was so sharp, so smart,
so strong, so just my idol, and then like she can't even remember
what she said five minutes ago.She's skin and bones, she's delusional,
she's being taken advantage of everything thatshe earned and worked so hard for.
She can't even access. She's cryingall the time. She's so sad,

(45:36):
she's so lonely, and it's justlike, h it breaks my hard too.
I haven't got to see it becauseI don't have Lifetime and it's not
on Hulu, like everybody says itis ohe died. I haven't yet because
it was not on Hulu or whatever. But I've been seeing like a lot
of the clips and you know whatreally stuck out to me. Back when
she was like, you know,have more of a sound mind, when

(45:57):
anytime that anybody would say uh somethingabout her husband, like she would correct
them and be like, no,my name is Wenny Wendy Williams. Now
like I'm Wendy Williams again, She'sstill Wendy Williams. No, back when
she was like, you know,it's not she ripped off the wigs the
camera anymore. But in this documentaryshe was asked something and at a left

(46:17):
field she was just like, Iwent to Hunter, Yeah, we got
a divorce. He has no money, right, And even in her dementia
and confusion, in a state ofconfusion, that is still prevalent in her
mind. And that just shows youhow hurt she is about the situation that
even though she's sick, like thatbroke her down to her core, that

(46:38):
that is like one of the onlythings that she can really talk about.
Well yeah, well what what whatwe learned is definitely that was her full
That conversation actually was really sad becauseshe didn't, you know, know what
she was talking about. Like causethat was a scene of Black China when
Black China like I love you,be here for you. And then Wendy's

(47:00):
response was like I'm Wendy, Likeshe's just out out of it. She
repeats a lot, I'm going Iwant to be back on TV. I'm
going to be back on TV TV. I want to be famous all I
want to be as famous. I'mgoing to be back on TV. That's
a lot of what she She's like, I need a podcast, working on
podcasts. I'm getting my podcast onWednesday and people are like, yeah,

(47:21):
podcasts, Like yeah, I'm gettinga podcast not Wednesday, Saturday like and
then she's like huh what, Likeshe's like completely gone. She's like not
there. It's alcohol induced dementia.And then you see how much of an
alcoholic she is, and we've learnedthat apparently she's always been an alcoholic.
It's something her son struggled with asshe was growing up, as he was
growing up. When she would dothe show, she would go home and

(47:43):
just get hammered. You also learnedhow much Big Kevin did for her.
They said the show was the work, but getting her to the show was
the hard part. We can rubmaking sure that she ate, making sure
that she's sober enough to do theshow and go out there and perform.
But essentially, Kevin had a lotto do and eventually just like, I
can't do this anymore. And that'skind of why he got fed up.
So it kind of shed him ina light where it's like, oh,

(48:06):
I mean, obviously cheating is alwaysone thousand percent not the right answer,
but it kind of gives her reasonand yeah, I mean, yeah,
you're taking care of her and puther together, but she's the reason you
have the lifestyle because at the endthe day, she is Wendy Williams period.
So it was just it was andit left a lot of questions,
like it made me feel as thoughthe guardianship or the courtship is taking advantage

(48:28):
of her and they're not allowing thefamily to get the access to the money
because they're having the access to themoney. I also saw this movie on
Netflix called I Care a Lot aboutguardianship and how that can work and how
a guardian can take advantage of aritual person and then just take care of
themselves with that money and block thefamily from getting anything. And it is
something that happens within the court system. It is a flawed thing that people
don't talk about as often. AndI think the documentary being released, instead

(48:52):
of it being looked at as whywe have Wendy out here looking crazy?
If you loved her, you wouldn'thave her out there looking like that,
I think it's more of a callattention and the way everybody rally behind free
Brittany. I think they're trying toget the public to outcry free Wendy so
we can get her out of thisguardianship and she could be with her family,
because I think that's what she needs. I don't really know much about
it. I'm just hearing snippets andI definitely need to watch the documentary,

(49:15):
but I don't know how a bankcan How could a bank assign you a
guardian? So absolutely what the outsideof her family? So the story is
that when she she was she wentto Miami to stay with her family for
a while, and when she wentto Miami, Wells Fargo noticed some activity
on her account and the banks domonitor account where she's spending an alarming amount

(49:36):
of money and it's like, WHOA, that's not her normal spending habits.
Block the spending right quick. Andthen after that they did an investigation and
it did look like according to whatthey drew the conclusions and they wells Fargo
got they did no wrongdoings. Accordingto the courts, the family was overspending
her money. It was her familyaccording to her son in particular, is

(49:57):
what they're saying was taking advantage ofher money and spending way too much.
But if you're a mom and you'veworked, and when even in Wendy's deliria
or whatever dementia, she's saying,I want Kevin like I want Kevin to
be good. I want to takecare of Kevin. I can support Kevin.
She worked all that for her son. She wants any mom wants to
wants their kids to have everything they'veworked for when they go, you know,
and our son has no access toit. It just it's just not

(50:20):
right, man, it's not right. No access at all. He's blocked.
Man and the family and the sisterwho's elite a lawyer, was taking
tests to become her legal guardian becauseyou have to do classes and everything,
and then the court blocked her.So it is some questions as to and
they don't have they don't get permissionto see her. They haven't seen her
in the year. She's in afacility and they can't see her. It's

(50:40):
really sad. This is all indocumentary, all in documentary, five four
and a half hours, two parts, four parts, and then I've watched
all of it and I will watchit again. How do I want?
Can I get your account? Well, I'm walking into my brother's Expinity.
I watched it on my phone.I have an Exfinity appy. I mean
I can talk, We'll talk.I mean yeah, I mean all I
can say is that it's really reallysad. I mean, she's always been

(51:00):
my idol when it comes to radio. She is the pioneer, like the
example of when it comes to multimedia personality, women in radio, women
in media. And just to watchher, you know, rain in this
space and then just to see that, like just to see just even seeing

(51:21):
her feet from the limpho limphothemia orwhatever it's called, seeing her, seeing
her eyes the way it is fromthe grays disease. It's just it's just
it's just like I kind of feltlike we shouldn't have seen that. I
felt I felt very like I wasintruding on something that I should not have
seen and Wendy would never if shewas in her sound mind, she would
never want any of us to seeher like and that's why it's so emotional,

(51:44):
Like that's why you get so emotionalbecause like you know, like you
and if you would have said wherewere Wendy be ten years ago, like
if you would have asked me that, like, this would not have been
on my Bengo card. She wouldhave never wanted to be wanted to be
portrayed that way and taken off herwig like in that way. She she
never would have we never would havesaw her own like. It's just it's
so sad, and I thought she'smy family, like you know, we

(52:05):
all feel like Wendy's ourn't, especiallyif you're like from the East Coast like
you, like Wendy is a staplerow And it's just awful, awful.
Pray for Wendy, Pray for Wendy. What do you what do you?
Uh? Petty Ward of the week. Let's get into it, Okay,
so I am going to give itto Okay, did you see this?
I did see it? Okay,backstory, I know you've probably seen it

(52:28):
too. On TikTok So Amlay isthe artist's name, Amilay. He had
a concert and I guess every singleshow he picks out a girl from the
crowd to come up with him andthey do the whole lap dance, to
do a whole serenade thing, likeyou know what artists do. One girl
was front row with her man.He spotted her. She did a whole

(52:50):
freak out, fell out, lefther man and went up on the stage.
Now she didn't keep it cute likeshe had a man. She was
all over him, hug getting him, dancing on him, backing it up
like totally inappropriate for if you havea man. And it was even ten
times worse because everybody was looking ather man who was left there, putting

(53:10):
the camera in his face, andhe was just sitting sitting there, dumbfounded,
even couldn't do anything. He waslike shaking his head, he like
looked down, ye embarrassed. Andthen I also saw that at the end
of the concert he ended up goinghome alone. He left her. So
my petty award before I get intothe question that I have is I guess
they broke up as they should.I mean, they weren't even dating that

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long, but years, no thatwas a lie because he went on Kay
Snat's live stream and Kai was like, I don't like how they did you
brow, Let's find you a girl. So he had like a whole you
know that podcast twenty twenty Girls versusOne Rapper type of thing. It's like
an audition to be somebody's girlfriend orboyfriend. So he had a bunch of

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girls come up and try to auditionto be this man's new girlfriend. And
it was cute, and he confirmedthat the whole thing was real and that
they only been dating for less thana year. Okay, because I saw
that, uh that Kai gave hima new girlfriend. I saw the headlines
and I was like, I'm noteven clicking that because like, how do
you just give somebody you girl property? Now they're auditioning, that makes sense,

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that's that. I like that.Did you think that she was in
the wrong if you know, Ididn't. I didn't see the video off
her. I just saw the videoof his reaction looking up and shaking his
head and looking down and yeah,no, like, my man, my
man, and my man. Idon't care. If it's like I'm at
a Will Smith concert. I like, I'm like, if it's Will Smith,
I'm acting fool. But if it'ssomebody like some funny studdy like Idris

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Elbow or something, I'm gonna belike, are you kidding? Will Smith
over Elbow Girl was a joke?But no, Will Smith definitely over just
All but in my opinion, butI would definitely with but no. If
I'm with my man, I justI can't see myself doing that to him.
That's just so embarrassing. I couldn'tembarrass my man like that. Also,
my man, I would want myman to snatch me back to like

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where are you going? Girl?What do you think this time? And
I don't think my ex would haveone hundred percent like you wouldn't know where
you going? But I would neverput my somebody like that that I love
in that situation. I don't thinkmy my my my recent most interest interests
would pull me back in and Ithink he let me and I think we'd
have a conversation later later with really, I don't think that you treated me

(55:21):
with I don't think. I don'tthink he would pull me back and aggressive.
It would just be like what areyou doing? And I'd be like
it will snap me out of mychrance If it was Chris Brown, but
I don't know like I thought it. I just would never put somebody in
that situation. I would never wantto embarrass my man like that. I
don't care if it's you know,Chris Brown, you know the Will Smith

(55:42):
right, you know? Okay,yeah, all right, but yeah,
I don't. I thought she wasone hundred percent in the wrong. But
I know a lot of people aresaying she didn't do nothing wrong. But
we're all about the United Front,and I'm not about to do that to
my man. I'm sorry, sorry, I'm not. Now who's this guy
the artist? He's famous, abig deal. I think it's like an
upcoming afrobeats artist. I'm well,anyway, what's your petty word? I

(56:04):
don't even know if there's really counts. I think you already won. But
I'm gonna give it to Legion threateninglegal action against RUSS tests of recent by
right because boy bye, what lawyersdo you know? But I was going
to give him the petty ward foralso deleting his TikTok and saying that he's
not dealing with this hate. Hewants like to be the good guy and
he's still on top of his lines. But you have not been the good

(56:25):
guy since you were a child.We know your story, we know your
family history, we know what yourfamily said about you. Goodbye bye,
all right, So we're gonna giveit to U Kai Kai Sannat and the
man, the boy petty petty mailall right, Porsche from Long Beach Rites,
Dear Kayla and Kayla. I'm travelingto Italy with my boyfriend of one

(56:47):
month. I've known him for overa year, and I'm getting stressed with
the bathroom situation. And he tipssome tricks on how I could take a
poop while I'm on vacation with myman and that's it some Pooperrie. Wait,
what is she upset about? Shedoesn't want a poop in front of
him? Sa, She's saying thatshe's traveling with her boyfriend of a month

(57:07):
and they haven't she known him fora little over year, but this is
the first time traveling together. AndCarol, if you don't close the door
and carry some sprits, you're fine, as I said, pooper Rie.
And then if you want to belike super sneaky, do before you shower,
Yeah, spray it. You knowit'll be fine. And then also
you can also just break that bubble, because if you're gonna get comfortable with
them, you can't hide you boopstraveler. So I know a close friend

(57:30):
of mine has a very funny story. Herd and her husband laugh about it
to this day where she was goingon vacation with him and she kept like
trying to run back and forth tolobby bathroom and he's like, yoa,
are you good. She's like,no, hamch issues, and it was
like they have a whole laugh aboutit. But I get it though.
If it's like bad dad and youdating for a month, I think I
would probably go downstairs too after amonth, sure for sure, but yeah

(57:52):
no, just get some POOPERI anddo it in the shower. And then
again also you could break that bubble. It's like, oh man, I
gottao you leave the room. Ohmy that try to make it cute.
I got a poo poooooo like girlbye. All right, Well, thank
you so much for hanging out withus again. Six days until the election.
I know it's boring and but it'slike helpful for our country. So

(58:15):
go vote in the primaries. Followme at Kayla Thomas forty. Hello,
what you got coming up this week? We got here nothing. I'm speaking
out of university, so I'm reallyexcited about that. Speaking of some radio
students again, this is my thirdtime they've had me back. They really
liked me. I guys, Idon't really know what I could say this
year that I didn't say last year. But I'll be there. I'll put

(58:37):
together on notes and I'm really excitedto the so oh, guys can catch
me out at the university speaking tothe students, Follow me at the Kayla
Austin. Bye, follow everybody's podcast. Bye. They know