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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Was popping all.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
This is Nico Blitzan.
Speaker 1 (00:01):
Thank you for listening to the Cruise Show podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:03):
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Speaker 1 (00:08):
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After Hours podcast, Take one. Let's get to a Garcia.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
All right, so we're gonna start with the obvious elephant
in the room. Jackie is is not alluding to the
fact that Nico might like Queen Nyja or find her attractive.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
We all, do you know I find her attractive?
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
So, so talked about the ship you're giving Nico here that.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
I'm just giving him.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Where did that come from? What's the problem.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Well, we were talking about and you guys will see
in the interview Cruise you okay there on something?
Speaker 5 (00:41):
Sorry stop it yo.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Speaking of walking into something, Cruise also walked Nico into,
or Nico walked himself into a question that he asked
Queen Nija during our interview because she was talking about
how oil was sleeping down like from her head into
her eyes your mute video. And he goes like, well,
how long were you oiled up for?
Speaker 4 (01:08):
Ye?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
And he goes right here, in case anybody who's watching
this like things, I don't talk like shit about Nico
in front of him. I'm right here saying if you
had oil on your head for like hours, that'd be
fucking annoying. You didn't say that when you asked the question.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
You said how long were you up?
Speaker 2 (01:25):
So Nico way or there by the mic? Do you
do you find her attractive? Is that?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Of course?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
No, you're such a fucking liar.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I only find Jackie attractive.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
I had a boy, smart boy, that's away Jackie.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
Do you find her attractive?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
I find her attractive?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
How about you?
Speaker 3 (01:41):
I want to look like her with the head.
Speaker 6 (01:43):
Her makeup is on point.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (01:45):
Got a really good personality too.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yeah, she's very normal.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Yes, Yeah, that's why I told her. I'm like, I
feel like you're like a cool person to be friends with.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Yeah, I think that. In the interview, which you guys
will see and here hopefully soon, she's like very she
struggles with the same ship that we all struggle with, right, like,
and it just you know, whether it be parenting or
just trying to live right or just like like, she's
just very regular. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:11):
Structure was the thing. Yeah, where you know she didn't.
She doesn't have much structure as an adult. And I
asked her if there was any structure, you know, growing up,
because usually that's where it stems from. And yeah, she
had They didn't really have structure growing up because her
mom grew up in a strict household. So she made
their youth or their childhood a little looser and then
(02:32):
that just carries on into your adulthood.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Yeah. Great interview, man, a lot of fun. She did
a great Lama lama, so be on the lookout for that.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
She did so good with all right, we.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Have a.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Understands that Spanish.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
But it was nice to.
Speaker 6 (02:53):
Congraduated you guys on your engagement. She said she loves love.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
She was a homie homie.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Yeah, she got really excited when when you guys told
her that you guys were engaged.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Yeah, speaking about loving love, that was something that I
asked Jackie if she loves love yesterday during the Question
of the Day. Yeah, which was an interesting one because
we got an email. Do you remember that? Can you
summarize it?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Do you remember the email?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (03:17):
Was it the woman got pregnant? Yes, okay, the soul
a younger sister was impregnated by her older sister's ex. Yes,
so forgive or by Felicia MESSI Yeah, here's here's.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
The exact email. Hey, Cruc show my younger sister got
pregnant by my ex man. We've been broken up for
a year and a half. Obviously I feel weird and betrayed.
Should I forgive my sister and be happy for or
should I cut her out of my life? Team? Forgive
or team by Felicia.
Speaker 6 (03:45):
Team by Felicia. Because you're my sister, You're supposed to
be on my team.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
Like your new nephew or niece, You're not going to
see them now.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Because you had your sister. That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
You can't be happy. I mean the kids, the kids
didn't choose.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
There's so many people that the sister could have chosen.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Yes, but maybe this is her person. That's what I
was trying to say. Yes, well, you can't help you
love so you know, I mean, you want to deny
her that opportunity? What if they're married for forty years?
Speaker 4 (04:13):
I highly doubt that God wrote, Okay, so your baby
daddy is going to be your sister's ex.
Speaker 6 (04:20):
That is your destiny, God, bro.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I'm not God's saying that she highly doubts God write
that script that dog regarding.
Speaker 6 (04:30):
To it, but that's messy.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
And one woman's trash is another treasure, you know, I
mean it is. It may not worked out for the
older sister, but that could be the treasure for the
younger one.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
You know, I doubt it.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
There's a movieon men in the in the world.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
When there's starts off like no, when there's a relationship
that starts off like Hella sketchy, there's I don't think
there's a way that it can work out.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Because I'm sure they were on the download. I'm sure
with the secret at first that well.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
We don't know that. I mean, maybe they didn't get
together after they broke up. What do you mean, so
you guys all and the dude didn't get together until
after they doesn't.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Even as friends, you shouldn't be with somebody that you're friends.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:15):
So like if my own sister got somebody.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
That I was with and had a whole baby with him,
I just wouldn't understand where she comes from. I'm sure
i'd forgive her, but I feel like i'd probably always
kind of question like where she like.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Where her morals live.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Eventually, you got to get over it, right and realize
that's your sister, and that's your nephew or niece.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
What such is.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
You're gonna have to see the dude if they If they.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Here's the I don't care if you're my family or not.
That's right, that's that's my thing. Yeah, Like I'm cool
with cutting people off. That's one last present I have
to buy, to be honest, like, that's one least thing
I have to worry about.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Financial, that's one.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Like just let's worry I have in my head. That's
really what it is. And I feel like I don't know.
It's just that sister knew what she was doing.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
So I don't think she knew what she was doing.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
And yeah, I think she knew what she was doing
to a point. But do you think she wanted to
hurt her sister? No, you never really want to hurt
your sibling. Some people do, I know some people do,
but you never really want to hurt your sibling. And
sometimes luck fate whatever may.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
You know, So let's put some of this blame on
the man.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Yes, And let's have you guys heard of something called
self control self discipline?
Speaker 6 (06:34):
Like man like the home? What if that was her person. No,
I don't buy that.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
I don't buy that.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
What she should have done is had some self discipline,
said yeah, maybe he's cute, maybe he'd be a good catch,
but my sister was already there.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
I'm going to have some self discipline and some.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Respect myself and my sister, and I'm going to move
on and find somebody else.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (06:55):
Right, Well, yeah, you guys are right, But I don't
know if too many people think that way.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Or and that's the world have the time to think
that way.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
You know, Love sometimes happens very fast, and things happen quickly,
and one thing leads to another and.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Boom, so do one night's stand there comes the baby.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Well that's the thing is I mean, I think there's
two ways to look at it. Because if they end
up being married for twenty five years and they're happy
and everything, I think it's easier to forgive that, right Like,
But I think that if if it was a hit
it and quit it and she just got a baby,
daddy that's your ex, then that's a little bit harder
because then it was probably just you know, for the smashing,
not for not love. Right.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
I just think that the world will be a much
better place if everyone thought the way that les and
I think, I don't know if it'll.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Be better don't better place?
Speaker 4 (07:40):
And I feel like we're very level headed emotion Jack,
she has a good head on her shoulders. She's she's
very passionate, and so am I. We're emotional, but we
know how to control our emotions.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
Not all the time.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
But Nico would say she's got a good kebza on
her shoulders.
Speaker 6 (08:00):
He's got a good base on her shoulders.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
It would be toxic tuesdays, seven days a week.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
Man, get good morals. Okay, she has morals, Yes, she
does had a boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
If I dated boys and I had a boyfriend, I
would trust her with my boyfriend on a like work group.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Oh yeah, it would be all good.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Right, yeah, okay, since we're talking about that, we did
talk about what Cardi B said. She said that there's
another question the day you weren't here for she said
that that it's okay for men to have female best
friends because female best friends will actually keep it real
with the dude and give them good advice about the relationship.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Agree or disagree, I disagreed, Loz, so that way in
just in case because she might give the advice.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
Of you need to leave her, or hey, maybe you
need to step it up.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
That's what Carti was saying.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
Yeah, that's what.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
Cardi was So he's getting the male in the relationship,
is getting like female advice from the best friend that
could help his relationship.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
I mean, listen, my mom is my female best friend.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
You should have said your wife did Nah?
Speaker 3 (09:03):
No, he calls his wife his mom.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
That's my mom. My mom was my friend.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
Why do you think Diana would react if you had
a female best friend. Huh? I didn't think Dianah would
react if you had a female.
Speaker 5 (09:16):
No, I don't think she would be with that at all.
But I you know, like, on the contrary, I wouldn't
be that. I wouldn't be okay if she had a
male best friend. She did have a male best friend
when I met her.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
No, he wasn't gay. That was a That was another friend,
a work friend that became really tight.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
That was all good. That was her gay Bessie. They'd
go shopping. I think he might have seen her naked.
I don't know, you know what I mean, it's all good.
You know, I met the guy who was clearly gay.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
All good. But when I met her, she had a
male best friend.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
Oh interesting, yeah best friend.
Speaker 6 (09:45):
Okay, does he still have the girlsfriend?
Speaker 1 (09:48):
No, that happens, bro, your level headed friend took her.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
She met Jackie. It was that was it.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
I will Nico and.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Podcast get on to my dog stop playing so they
could see you on camera. She just dated a friend
of ours and did him wrong.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Oh boy, oh.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Wait, no, that's not what I also that's what happened either.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Then what are you talking about?
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Yeah, she did date one of our friends and did
him wrong. But at the same time, like it is
partly my fault because I when Nico and I initially
started dating, I had told him like, hey, I don't
really want to know about your past. I don't really
want you to know about my I just want to
keep it like pushing. Then come to find out that
like they had dated very briefly when they were younger,
(10:46):
and I was just like, oh, this is weird and yeah,
and then I like felt like there wasn't enough effort
to get to know me, and I was like maybe
that's why, and then just the friendship fizzled out. I
never told him like, hey.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Well, it's partly because of you. It fizzled out.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
She probably the girl probably okay, the energy, she probably
felt like.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Maybe I felt afraid, naked, an afraid.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
I am a very nice person at first. When you
meet me, I come in with the open arm.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
She gives people the benefit of the doubt.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Yes, from the get Nico. Was there a choice?
Speaker 2 (11:23):
She's signing you.
Speaker 6 (11:24):
Just because I know her personally.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Yes, I'm not gonna just be a bitch to you
up front.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
I feel like every guy, like with the person they're with,
at one point in the beginning, there was a choice
between a person or or the person they're dating.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yeah, now that's common. Isn't that common? Right?
Speaker 5 (11:42):
Okay, yeah I know that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm sorry
you go, but yeah, it's very common.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
So you guys had that.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
I had that. Yeah, I made a choice. I don't
think Diana doesn't. Diana doesn't know that. But whatever, Wait,
did you have a did you?
Speaker 4 (11:58):
No?
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I don't think I've ever been in that.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
No, No, I have had choices.
Speaker 4 (12:01):
No, I've never been asked about my man's Jeff Okay, no,
just no.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
Jeff, you never had you didn't have a choice. I
didn't have a choice.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Choosing between a friend or a girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (12:12):
I mean, you know, like a girl a girl that
because you were a boy, I feel like you also
would be like if I have to do that, then
I'm not going to be with you.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Yeah. Yeah, I don't think I just ever crossed that ever.
Just happened.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
But like some dudes will have like a choice as
far as like should I date this one or this one?
Oh yeah, and I had that choice. Yeah, that's what
I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
I thought you were. I thought no, no, no, yeah,
like I'm a friend.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Yeah, no, I'm sorry, that's what.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
I was a lot of guys, you know, they right
before they start dating the person they're dating, they had
a choice to pick between one girl to date.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
Really that usually that happens a lot. Interesting Yeah, don't
ask him. You're the one that brought your business.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Yeah, they both, they both then figure out which one
is right for you.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Yeah that works.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Yeah, I mean that's what dating is, right, You see,
who is the better party? Who's the betters the better party?
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Who's the better party?
Speaker 4 (13:11):
I never want to listen, it's very right.
Speaker 6 (13:17):
Goddamn, I need to get off the pot. It's been
a lot, man, I think that that's what dating is.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Yeah, you got to figure out.
Speaker 4 (13:29):
You're seeing and you figure out which one you would
probably want to spend more time.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
Yeah, actually, yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Dating is a lot of trial and air, man, you know.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
It really is.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Me and Jackie were having this conversation the other day
and we were joking about it, like that's what the
twenty your twenties are all about, is just fucking up
and figuring it all out because and not you know,
not being maybe the best person. I know, I was
not the best person in my twenties. I was not
the dude you see. Now, whatever you think about me was,
that's fine, but I was not that dude in my twenties.
I was not more reckless, and I know I heard
(14:02):
people's feelings and it sucks to think that, but you
just you figure it out and you go, man, I'm
not going to do that anymore. I feel horrible, you know, I.
Speaker 3 (14:08):
Feel like I'm a stint. But that was not in
my twenties.
Speaker 6 (14:12):
No, that was in your teens and.
Speaker 3 (14:15):
My late teens, like beginning twenties, because then I was
twenty one when I met Nico.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Yeah, no, that's good that you had a good relationship early.
I mean, you know a lot of people aren't that lucky.
You make a lot of mistakes, you know, and it's
just kind of it is what it is. That's life.
That's why it's it's horrible to like, my kids are
going to make those mistakes, and I can hope that
they I can guide them and say, hey, you shouldn't
treat somebody like that, or hey it's not working, go
on to something else. But when you're just living it,
you don't have a lot of advice like I had.
(14:39):
I didn't you know i'd have a dad really like that,
So I just fucking went for it to walk you
through it, right, all the stupid mistakes, you know, Then
it sucks, but that's life, and you got to forgive
yourself and hopefully other people forgive you, right.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Like, yeah, yeah, that's right, and if they.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Don't, you can't worry about that. You just got to
get here.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
I mean.
Speaker 5 (14:56):
Also, your feelings were hurt too throughout that period from
people that you were Yeah right, I mean for sure,
you know, I I've always been a relationship person, right.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
I met Diana when I was twenty two. We've been
together since.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Damn. I didn't know I knew you guys.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Met like it was twenty one. I was twenty two.
Speaker 6 (15:14):
And then before that you had relationships too.
Speaker 5 (15:16):
I was in a long term relationship with somebody for
six years before that.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Yeah, and then before that in total one three wow?
Speaker 6 (15:30):
Three long like seriously?
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Yeah, and Diana's a third huh.
Speaker 6 (15:33):
Pretty much your whole life.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Oh yeah, I've been pregnant my whole life.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
How about you? Less? How many long term relationships.
Speaker 5 (15:41):
I've had one?
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Two, I've had three three three one of them? Yeah,
three three long term relationships.
Speaker 6 (15:46):
The longest is seven years.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
We know that hurt when y'all broke up.
Speaker 4 (15:52):
Yeah, I did, it did, But I think because of
like when we met our age, when we met our age,
when we broke up, I feel like it was like
in that transitional period. So I feel like we both
kind of changed a lot, and we just kind of knew.
Speaker 6 (16:03):
That it wasn't going to work.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (16:04):
Yeah, like we were going in different directions.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
That's what happened with Yeah, the girl I was dating
with before?
Speaker 3 (16:09):
Ye interesting? What about you?
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Just how many long term maybe four or so? Yeah?
Four or so?
Speaker 4 (16:17):
Did you stop being wild boy right before Sarah your wife.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
Or there are periods of wild board behavior. I was
married before it as well. So yeah, so like there
was wild behavior, then settled down, then more wild behavior
and then settled down. So it happens. You know. I
don't mean like, I don't want to sound like that
was that horrible, but you know, ship, you know there
was some herd feelings there.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
You said that horrible. I thought you said that horror.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Like, no, no, no, that horrible. I wasn't that horrible.
But still I recognize the mistakes, you know what I mean? Like,
and you know, hey, like I was talking good forgiven
with Nate, you know, because Nate's out there doing Nate
stuff stuff nasty. They obviously took the course, you.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
Know, yeah he took seriously.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Yeah so but but as I was telling him, it's okay, man,
make make mistakes, trying not to hurt people too much.
But that's what their twenties are for, you know, you
got to live and learn or else you don't learn,
you know, and then it's worse when.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
You make then when you it's.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
Worse when you make them later in life because there's
usually more ship to lose, right, Like, you don't have
that much stuff to lose and you're younger, then it's okay.
You know.
Speaker 1 (17:29):
Yeah, I'm glad I wasn't single for long.
Speaker 6 (17:32):
I can tell you, guys, I've been singles sometimes.
Speaker 4 (17:35):
But it kind of blows. Yeah, but also dating blows too.
It's just not it's a lot of energy.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
I stayed trying to hook Leslie up with somebody.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
No.
Speaker 6 (17:44):
I know you guys have been trying to hug me up.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Since nineteen wemad homie know. I got one right show
cruise especially, I got one right now.
Speaker 5 (17:52):
Man, I got them following each other really yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
After Yeah, we did a dating show because on the
on the air we brought.
Speaker 6 (17:59):
In three girls. He did a whole intro song. I
think I have it saved. But that's fun.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
Did you actually go out with the person that one?
Speaker 6 (18:09):
Yeah, we went out. I even posted a picture on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
What did she do? She was? She did something?
Speaker 4 (18:16):
Yeah, now she married her girl recently.
Speaker 6 (18:21):
We're still homies Les.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
When it's time, it's time, man.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
Yeah, exactly, Les is gonna find someone like super fucking cool.
I just know that because you're like a.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
Super cool, and you know what, all these things before
you know, that's all just you know, so you, so
you know more so what you want when it's right,
you know, and then that way, when it's right, you're
gonna know right away.
Speaker 6 (18:42):
You know.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
It's so funny. I just I just wanted to say
that's out loud. I feel like you're just gonna find
a taller version of you.
Speaker 6 (18:48):
I wouldn't be mad at that.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Perfect. I like, that's right, Les, that's right, let's get your.
Speaker 4 (19:02):
But I learned that you got to come here first.
Y'all got to do the vibe check.
Speaker 6 (19:06):
Yeah yeah, period, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Yeah, I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
And you know what, Les, what if we're wrong, we're
all rooting for you because you deserve it.
Speaker 4 (19:14):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
I deserve to be happy, and that's I think I'll deserve.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
Alern Yes, deserve Let's go ahead.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Let's go ahead and wrap it up. Thank you guys
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