May 3, 2023 • 54 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Can you guys have collars all in and talk dirty
to me?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
My name is Sean.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
If you don't put this on here, I'll give you
my phone number.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
No, never mind, that's.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
A message we got on our voice when we played
it last week, and I cannot get Sean out of
my head. I love the check in with Sean. Sean,
if you're listening, call us eight eight eight three four
three one oh six one. It's the Jewbile Show and
it's time for the check in. Let's all not feel
alone right now, because there is a loneliness epidemic in
the world. The Surgeon General actually issued a warning the
other day saying that loneliness is just as bad for
(00:34):
you as smoking fifteen cigarettes a day. So you're not
actually lonely right now. You have us to hang out with,
check in with us, let us know how you're doing
good bad in between doesn't matter, and we'll check in
with all of us right now. It's time for the
check in. So Nina, Yes, what's what's up with you?
Let's check in with you.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
Have you guys heard of candlelight concerts?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
No? No, okay? Is it pretty self explanatory or is
it something you know like, is it one of those
things where it's candilight concerts but it's different than what
it sounds like.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
No, it's actually a candle light concert. Okay, Yeah, I
went to one of those last night, and I'm very
thankful for my one friend. Her name's Bly. So if
I didn't have bl I'd probably spend a lot of
time at home because I'm really comfortable watching shows, but
she gets me out to do fun things like this
candle light concert. It was at one of the wineries
in Woodenville, and it was a string quartet and they
(01:23):
were covering all Beyonce songs. So if you've seen yeah,
so if you've seen Bridgerton, it's kind of like all
those covers and I brought some to share with you
so you can be a part of the candlelight concert too.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Here we go, there's a clip. You know, that's what
it is? What song? Is that? What I mean? I
know what it?
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Oh crazy love?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Oh yeah, it's so cool. You've got me crazy in
love right now.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
It's so crazy and love right now, looking so crazy
and love chrisy crazy love.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Yeah, so good and it's cool. They do all different artists.
They have a Taylor Swift night where they just cover
all Taylor Swift. But the funniest part is when you
look around the room, there were some couples that just
were like staring at it with no emotion on their face.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
What I had no idea? What's going on?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Do you not dance?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
They're like, what are they playing? I was expecting some
mozart or something like that. Exactly was Beyonce? You throw
that around though, check call us up right now, let
us know what's going on. Let's all not feel lonely
for a little while. Hey, Sean was walking with you, man,
what's going on? Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 6 (02:37):
So?
Speaker 7 (02:38):
I got an issue here. I was talking to Shirky
and so my best friend, my roommate of fourteen years
or not fourteen years, since we were fourteen, we've been
best friends, met like the first day of high school.
He's been living with me for two years.
Speaker 8 (02:51):
Right, He's never had any other roommates other than family
and taking care of family and stuff, and like, I've
been kind of alluding to the fact that he needs
to kind of move out, you.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Know what I mean.
Speaker 7 (03:06):
And it's more of a like, you know, it's been
great best friends.
Speaker 9 (03:10):
So I'm not going to talk about, you know.
Speaker 7 (03:13):
The fun things that have been going on. I get
that if you can hear my tone kind of contribute
to you need.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
To, you know, Skate, So how have you been alluding
to it? Just like, hey, you know what's cool living
somewhere else.
Speaker 7 (03:31):
Right almost almost exactly. It's like, you know, you know,
if you kind of looking to get.
Speaker 6 (03:36):
In your own spot.
Speaker 7 (03:36):
Apartments are cheap right now. You know, my buddy just
found one for a grand you know, for a one bedroom,
and I haven't been getting much bet so I'm just like,
you know what, I.
Speaker 9 (03:45):
Don't know how do I just be like, look, bro,
I love you to death, but if you keep living
here with me, my partner and I are probably gonna
stab you.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeah, And you're like, and I don't want my next
play place to that I'm living to be a prison cell,
So please get out. Well, if anybody has a place
for Sean's roommate.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
You know what, Sean, if you want, I'm pretty sure
we could help you. Jubel would probably be happy to
just relay the message to your roommate for you.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Yeah, we can talk to him if you want. Sean.
Thank you for checking in with us, bro. Appreciate you.
Speaker 10 (04:30):
Hey, thank you.
Speaker 6 (04:30):
Hey.
Speaker 7 (04:31):
You guys are freaking awesome. I appreciate everything you do
in the morning. I listen to you every single morning.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Dude, thank you, You're awesome. Man. Have a good one.
Call us anytime. All right, you got luck. Appreciate it. Yeah,
good luck. Calls up eight to eight, three for three,
one o six one. It's time for the check in.
Let's all not feel a little bit alone. Let's not
all feel a little bit alone. Let's all feel alone together.
I like that loneliness is an epidemic in the world
right now, and it's ridiculous. Like I said, just a
(04:56):
minute ago, the Surgeon General actually issued a warning. You know,
they have the Surgeon General's War on Cigarettes. Yeah wait,
what really you didn't know that, Victoria.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
I don't smoke cigarettes.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
I don't. Well, there's a little warning box on it
that says, you know, this could cause cancer. Or when
I used to smoke, I would always choose the ones
that said, you know, don't smoke if you're pregnant, because
I'm like, these ones are obviously fine for me because
I'm not pregnant. But the Surgeon General issue of warning
saying that loneliness is just as bad for you as smoking,
So it has real physical effects. Your mental state has
(05:27):
real physical effects, and people don't often think about that.
So call us up. Eighty eight three four three, one
oh six one is time for the check in. Let's
just check in with each other and see how you're doing. Hey, Najela,
what's up? Power are you good? How are you good?
What's problem with you? What is going on?
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
I was just oh yeah, so our sharky uh one,
our producers, he'll screen the call and then put you
on hold and then send you over to us. So
now you're on the air. Oh yeah, so what's up?
What do you want to talk about? Oh?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
What's that.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
I was trying to answer the one from before the
showering question, but he just.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Said, go ahead and say what you want to say.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I was like, huh oh, okay, we'll do you shower
with your significant other. We talked about that yesterday.
Speaker 11 (06:28):
Oh okay, I'm hearing it today.
Speaker 6 (06:30):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
No, it's all good, Njela. Thank you for your phone
call though, Yeah, of course you have a good day.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
Okay, okay, thank you.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
All right, thank you see call us up. You can
talk about anything. Literally, you can even not talk. And
what was going on there, Victoria, what's going on with you?
To check in? Let's check in with you.
Speaker 12 (06:55):
Well, I told myself I was gonna have a great
day today, and I woke up late and pure panic
in my whole body. And you know that everyone knows
that feeling when you like get up and you just
feel immediate like anxiety, and then the.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
What is it called.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Alarm beer?
Speaker 12 (07:16):
No, I can't think of the word, but it just
like makes you like it puts.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
A brush in your body. So the adrenaline, thank you.
Speaker 12 (07:21):
The adrenaline just like hits your body and you're like
sprinting all around the apartment house whatever, Yeah, to get
out the door.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
That was me this morning.
Speaker 12 (07:28):
And then I found out I didn't do my laundry
last night, so I had no clean socks.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I found some by the.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Way, thanks good, and I did.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
And then I also ran out of espresso.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
But I'm doing great right now.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
I was wondering why you didn't respond to g you
want coffee this morning?
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Victoria? Call us up eight A eight three four three
six one text and four one o six one check in.
With us. Let us know how you're doing. Your phone
break happens every single hour on the twenties. And remember
right after that your chance at one thousand dollars with
the Jubile cash code. And what's trending with Nina that's
coming up right after this. It's the Double Show, the
Jubile Show on demand.
Speaker 13 (08:04):
It's another Jubile phone.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Frank weekday mornings on the twenties.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Hello, yeah, Hi, this is Parker calling from salon. I
was looking for page Oh.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Hi, yeah, this is she.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Hey. Hey, So, yeah, I guess there was a complaint,
so calling you back to ask about that. I know
I'm not the one. I'm not the stylist who worked
on you, but I am one of the co owners
of the salons, so I figured that I would call
you back and find out what the problem was.
Speaker 10 (08:49):
Uh.
Speaker 6 (08:50):
Have I offend you?
Speaker 14 (08:52):
I'm so sorry. Have I offended you? I've not met
and I'm not. I'm not mad at you because you
weren't my stylist. But anyway, so here's the situation, and
I'm happy to send you photos if you'd like. Basically,
I came in with a reference photo and I.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Wanted to do a little bit. No, it's not j Lo.
Speaker 14 (09:13):
It was not j Los a photo I found on
tintris from stock.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Well, first of all, I want to stop you right there.
I want to stop you right there before you go
down the road anymore. I'm going to say, if you
brought in a picture to show the stylist some inspo
and our stylist of the hair that way, that's probably
more of a you problem than us problems. So that's
probably a you problem.
Speaker 14 (09:35):
Well, you don't have to be a condescending to me, Parker.
I called because I'm not satisfied with my service, right,
and now I'm feeling like your entire salon is just
a bunch of right, have any kind of standard or
hold up any kind of responsibility for the quality of
their work?
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Right, okay, Parker, yep mm hmm. Have I have I
offended you?
Speaker 3 (09:58):
No, I'm sorry. I'm just listening, all right.
Speaker 14 (10:01):
But the way that you just keep going right right,
it's like you're.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
All right.
Speaker 14 (10:07):
I don't know how you stay in business if this
is the way that you treat your paying customers. It's
because we have and I swear to God, Parker, if
you if you do not issue me a refund or
some sort of corrective service. Right, I have no qualms
with trashing your business. Else, I will post photos of
my hair, right, your name, specifically, I will post the
(10:27):
name of the society, yeah to my hair, Yeah yeah, Parker.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
How does it feel to go bankrupt?
Speaker 6 (10:34):
Parker?
Speaker 14 (10:35):
I want to have your business taken down, Parker.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
So I don't know what I did in this conversation
to get that kind of reaction from you, but I
do care about customer service and I want to try
to make it right for you. But I don't understand
where that is coming from. So I'm gonna say that's
also a you problem, not enough problem.
Speaker 14 (10:56):
Okay, Okay, Well, I sort of feel like this conversation
is absolutely going nowhere, and my husband's lawyer, I feel
like taking you back to small Clay right, okay, right, right, right? Seriously, seriously,
is this how you would treat somebody if I were
if I were famous? Is this how you would treat
me because I paid full price for an expensive service?
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Right? Okay? I didn't ask, actually, and I should know this.
Who was your stylist when you came in?
Speaker 1 (11:25):
His name was?
Speaker 6 (11:26):
I think it was Sean?
Speaker 15 (11:28):
Oh?
Speaker 16 (11:28):
Right?
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Well he sucks. So yeah, you shouldn't have booked with him,
and that is probably kind of a you problem as well.
Speaker 14 (11:39):
Right right, right, Okay, I'm taking and I have a
teen kay, so I hate my job.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Why are you laughing?
Speaker 3 (11:52):
Because this is actually Jewbil from The Jewels Show doing
a phone break on you and your sister Natalie set
you up. It's a joke. She said that you got
a haircut you didn't like very much the other day
and wanted me to call from the salon and just
be a jerk to you.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
So I'm sweating right right right?
Speaker 17 (12:13):
Oh my god.
Speaker 13 (12:16):
Wake up every morning with double phone Franks weekday mornings
on the twenties.
Speaker 6 (12:25):
Trenday.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
Hello, make a trend.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
There's so many trends today. We'll start out with if
you haven't heard yet, round two. Crack and play the
Dallas Stars. Last night they won the first game five
to four. Next double. This trending thing is for you.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
It's National Meditate in a park Day.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Oh dope.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
I'm meditating in parks for like weeks now. You know,
we even watch you from the windows. You're outside on
a little bench.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
That's cool. I had no idea that was then actual thing.
One day, I was meditating and then the word park
kept coming into my head while I was meditating, So
I was like, guess that means I got to go
meditate in parks. So I'll just walk to a park
and I'll sit there for half an hour and meditate
while you like the last couple of weeks. So apparently
maybe I've been prepping for this. I didn't even know it. Yeah,
so I'm exciting.
Speaker 4 (13:19):
It is exciting. So you can celebrate today, and I
wonder if aliens will come to you in your next meditation.
Brace yourself for this. What's trending? Okay, So according to
studies and science, they're saying that aliens are going to
contact us by twenty twenty nine. Now, the reason why
they're going to be able to contact us and find
us is because of our cell towers. So there's all
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kinds of like four G activity and leakage is what
they're calling it, from all of these towers, and so
they believe that the aliens are going to be able
to find us through the towers and communicate with us
through our own cell towers.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
We already moved on to five G.
Speaker 4 (13:55):
Well, they're on four G they're not there yet.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
Oh so they're only gonna be talking to people that
they have boosmobile.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
That's what's trending.
Speaker 3 (14:08):
Oh yeah, who's excited right now because come into the stage.
It's Nina.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
Is she bendy Yes? Is she trendy? Absolutely? And she's
about to get indy and trendy for you. What's trending
with Nina Tip, Well, because she's working for you, that's great, Nina.
What's trending weddings? Well, she's working of that. Any bachelor's
(14:39):
in the house celebrating a bachelor party, it's sam for
Nina to get all trendy with it.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
And that's exactly what we're doing. Weddings are trending. I mean,
we're approaching wedding season and there's this list that has
gone viral because it's allegedly the new role, the new
rules for weddings in twenty twenty three. I'm just gonna
give you the top five to give you kind of
a idea of where this is going. The number one
rule is no more engagement parties. Two, no outdoor summer weddings.
(15:08):
Three your closest friends should control the guest list. Four
it's entirely fine to deny anyone a plus one for
any reason. I strongly disagree with this. And five skip
the bridal party. What Yeah, there's even no kids on
the list as number nine, like I get it to
each their own.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Number six don't have don't have a wedding, don't do anything.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
Yeah no, it says never say black tie optional anyway.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
So I don't know what's going on here and why
it's such a bunch of pooh poos, but I think
they're trying to steer away from the traditional wedding type rules.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
And I don't know.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
Changers, do what you want. It's your day, Yeah, do
it however you want. I don't think there should be
rules on it. I don't think there should either.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
I do like this time of year though, This is
the time of year where everybody brags about how many
friends they have? Are you getting married?
Speaker 10 (15:59):
How much?
Speaker 6 (15:59):
Like?
Speaker 10 (15:59):
How?
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Because those people that have a lot of friends and
want you to know they have a lot of friends,
they'll start posting on social media NonStop about h I
have so many weddings to go to this summer, Like
every weekend is basically booked to the wedding. How am
I going to do anything this summer because I'm going
to weddings every single weekend. I love it.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
That's how you see it. Meanwhile, I'm like, oh, it's
so expensive to go to all of these wedding another dress.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
Yeah, that's because Nina is that person who's got so
many weddings to go to.
Speaker 13 (16:27):
First day follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
Jackson is on the phone today for a first date
follow up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Meredith,
and he has no idea why. Jackson, thanks for agreeing
to do the first date follow up. Man, Before we
get into your day and stuff, how long has it
been since you heard from Meredith.
Speaker 10 (16:48):
It's been a couple of weeks now.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
That's definitely ghosted.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
M hmmm.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
Have you tried to reach out to her a bunch
of times.
Speaker 10 (16:55):
I've tried a couple of times. I didn't want to,
you know, overkill it or anything. But wait a couple
of days and then hit her up, did and hear
anything back. Wait a couple more days, upt and hear
anything back. So starting to feel a little bit like
I'm being ghosted.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Now, yeah, I think that's definite at this point, especially
now that you're on there with us doing this. We'll
see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 10 (17:17):
Though.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Tell us a little bit about your date with Meredith.
The day was great.
Speaker 10 (17:21):
I thought, you know, we went out, went to a
burger place, got some burgers. It was you know, we
had good conversation. It seemed very relaxed to me. Nothing
seemed out of the ordinary. You know, only thing I
could think of, like, the only thing that's been eating
at me is the idea that I did. At one point,
she wasn't, like, you know, eating a lot of her fries,
(17:41):
so I like smashed a fry to off her plate,
and I was like, the only thing I could think
of that would warrant I mean with you, I don't know,
it doesn't seem like that would be enough to get ghosted.
But it seemed like a good date to me, which
went out, got burgers at a good time.
Speaker 4 (17:53):
Yeah, the fry thing can be sensitive though, Like I
personally don't care because I eat off of people's plates
all the time, but I do you know people who
like really freak out about that.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
You know what it bugs me, Well, it only bugs
me if you don't ask, like if you just reach
across and grab it, it's like, hey, I might want.
Speaker 10 (18:10):
That, or I might I gotta be like a playful
kind of like I did, like a yoink kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
Yeah, maybe if you yoinked it, it was a yeah, stop.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
What do you think it is about Meredith Jackson that
just makes you want to see her again?
Speaker 10 (18:28):
Well, honestly, we just had a good connection. You know,
we had a really good time. You know, I'm honest.
She was on a boat in her picture on line,
so like I swiped because I saw her on a
boat and I was like, oh.
Speaker 18 (18:40):
She was cool and we can hang out on a boat.
So you know, it's kind of like a She's like
a mute, sweet PicTel kind of not bad, right, And
they did go well, I thought, so is it her boat? Well,
didn't actually ask about the boat?
Speaker 3 (18:51):
Oh, okay, is that your boat friend's boat? Can I
get on the boat?
Speaker 10 (18:56):
Just when I'm asking, do a little John James B
Wade action a little boat invite? That's all.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
That's so funny.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
I know so many friends, like in the summertime that
just post up on docks trying to find dudes with
boats and yeah, Jackson, you're one of those. If it
doesn't work out with Meredith, I know a dock for you. Yeah,
maybe meet some dude with the boat you can hang
out with. Yeah, yeah, I'm looking for a dude with
a boat.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
I would love to. I mean, I would love to
have a friend who had a boat we could hang
out on all the time.
Speaker 10 (19:25):
I do you do? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Sweet introduction. Okay, so other than grabbing a fry off
her plate? Is there any other reason you can think
of why she should be ghosting you?
Speaker 10 (19:37):
No? And I feel I could think of. I mean,
it seemed like it went really well, you know.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
Okay, did you kiss or anything?
Speaker 10 (19:45):
We didn't have a kiss. Now, it's just a very
pleasant you know, had a good time. SA good night,
sagod knight.
Speaker 4 (19:50):
Was it flirty? It sounds I'm glad you guys had
a really good time. But did you feel like it
was flirtatious and kind of like there was an attraction?
Speaker 10 (19:58):
It's a very laid back me like we're fell very relaxed,
you know.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
So Okay, it's so good because it just felt nice
and chill.
Speaker 6 (20:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
See that's good when you can feel comfortable like that
with somebody, although it has, you know, when I was dating, right,
I'm married now, but when I was dating, that has
kind of come back to bite me because I'm pretty chill,
and sometimes that vibe of just that comfortable vibe, I
get too comfortable, and then it seems like I don't
care at all about like hanging out with her or
even I'm like, we can just sit here and be
(20:27):
quiet if you want. I don't care. But where you know,
it's like a first date, you should be talking. You know,
it helps, it helps, you know, Yeah, we were talking. Yeah,
we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
We'll play a song, come back, and then call her
and see if we can find out why you're gettinghosted
and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 13 (20:42):
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Speaker 3 (20:49):
If you're just joining us for today's First Date follow Up.
Jackson is on the phone and he's not getting a
call back from Meredith, So we're going to see if
we can find out why he's getting ghosted. Part of
it could be because he yointed it at the table.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
He joined a French fry from her plate at.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
The table, Jackson, real quick, refresh everybody's memory about your
date before we call her.
Speaker 10 (21:10):
Yeah, So me and Meredith won went out, got some burgers,
had really good conversation. I was very chill, was very
laid back. At one point I noticed she wasn't eating
a lot of her fries, so I did pull the
old yoint move and let's snatch a couple off her plate.
But it didn't seem that, you know, offensive in the moment.
But you know, other than that, seemed like a very
good date.
Speaker 3 (21:30):
All right, So we're about to find out if Jackson's
joint can get at the table is the reason that
he's not getting a call back. Expect me to say
you can get at the table a lot in this
first day follow.
Speaker 4 (21:40):
Up, great communion. You're not going to help his case
at all. All right, Jackson, you're ready to call her?
Speaker 10 (21:46):
Yeah, let's do this.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi me, I speak to Meredith. Please.
Who's this Meredith? This is my name is Jewbel from
a radio show called The Jewel Show.
Speaker 4 (22:07):
Hi Meredith, my name's Nina. I'm on that show too, Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
We okay, I win something or we do a segment
called the First Date follow Up, where if somebody goes
on a date and gets ghosted, they can email us
to get the other person on the phone and ask
why they are ghosting them. We got an email about
you recently.
Speaker 4 (22:28):
Oh god, do you know who could possibly have been
the person that emailed us?
Speaker 19 (22:34):
No, I've been on a few kind of weird dates. Okay,
I've been trying this online dating thing. I hate my
mom for making me.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Do this, all right, this, yeah, Well, do you remember
a date with a dude named Jackson?
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Yeah, the guy that was high?
Speaker 3 (22:54):
What huh?
Speaker 1 (22:56):
He's stormed off, are you? Yeah? I mean I don't
know the guy much, you know, but the way he
was eating.
Speaker 19 (23:08):
It was obvious he had the munchies and and his
eyes and just the way he was acting was so off.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
Okay, so we talked to him about your date. He
didn't mention anything about being high. He just said he
said he took a fry off, a couple fries off
of your plate, and he thought maybe that was the
reason you weren't calling him back.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
Well, that wasn't the only reason.
Speaker 20 (23:29):
I felt like that was disgusting. First of all, he
didn't even wash his hands his hands are all in
my plate. He was definitely high, trust me. So what
point in the date did you notice that he was high? Like,
did you smell him?
Speaker 4 (23:45):
Was it his eyes?
Speaker 1 (23:47):
He definitely had a spin.
Speaker 19 (23:49):
Honestly, it was just horrible, like he I don't even
know if he took a shower before the date. He
was just like complaining a lot. So he's like, oh,
oh my god. It was the dud was in another world.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
He wasn't even president.
Speaker 4 (24:08):
A stinky yoink is a different kind of yoink.
Speaker 17 (24:10):
You know.
Speaker 4 (24:12):
That is not the kind of yoink you're looking for. Yeah,
you mean, oh, sorry, Meredith.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
So wouldn't We talked to Jackson. He told us about
the French try how he took some French fries off
your plate, and he said, I did like a funny
yoink noise, like yoink, and he thought that that, you know,
made it better.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Yeah, No, he was, Yeah, he was making all kinds
of noises.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
We can find out, Yeah, we can find out if
he was high, Meredith.
Speaker 4 (24:43):
Wouldn't make a difference though. If he wasn't high, Meredith.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Oh, I know, if he wasn't high, then he's right
with him.
Speaker 10 (24:51):
Okay, was.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
Even worse Okay, so it's better if he was high.
Speaker 4 (24:58):
This is that thinker for her honesty at this?
Speaker 3 (25:00):
Yeah yeah, yeah, good point, Nina. Thank you for being
honest with us. I appreciate that. Now, Meredith, I need
to be fully honest with you and let you know
that Jackson is on the phone. He's been listening this
whole time and wants to talk to you. Okay, yeah, Hi,
(25:20):
hold on.
Speaker 10 (25:20):
Just because I'm a chill guy does not mean I'm stoned.
First of all, like all this that is, how can
you just tell me that I tell them that I'm
high and I smell bad or whatever and all that,
just because I'm like, cure you were Oh my god,
please please please you were?
Speaker 6 (25:41):
How am I?
Speaker 10 (25:42):
How am I misconstruing what happened so badly?
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Where I was not high.
Speaker 10 (25:47):
I was sober, having a really enjoyable time.
Speaker 3 (25:49):
And now you're telling me that I.
Speaker 10 (25:52):
Was high because of eating food or you know, playfully
taking fries or whatever.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
You didn't wash your hands, you had dirt in your nails.
You were musty. You weren't it was out mustard must
we were talking about.
Speaker 19 (26:07):
I was trying to talk about politists, the Ukrainian War.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
You were just not even focus.
Speaker 10 (26:16):
I changed the subject every now and then because it
was getting a little heavy for a first date conversation,
and so I was lightening the mood a bit, but
I wouldn't say that I was not paying attention. And
dirty fingernails? Were you stared at?
Speaker 17 (26:28):
You?
Speaker 10 (26:28):
Is a dark night. You're staring at my fingernails, like.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
Hey, yeah, your hands were in my plate.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
I'm going there was a fry hanging off the side.
There was a fly off the side, and.
Speaker 10 (26:39):
I gave it up. I just, you know, a little
joint off the plate is all not even quick enough
for you to tell me how dirty my fingernails are
when I'm just doing a quick joint.
Speaker 19 (26:50):
Okay, Well, you were musty, came in with a hoodie
that you've probably been wearing four Day Street.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
I mean, how the truth?
Speaker 17 (26:59):
Okay, what truth?
Speaker 3 (27:00):
Bro?
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Did you?
Speaker 6 (27:02):
Did you?
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Did you? Okay?
Speaker 10 (27:03):
I don't want to do this or be this person.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
You know, I'm not even gonna do it.
Speaker 10 (27:06):
I'm not even gonna talk about the outfit that you
came to this date with and you're gonna talk about
me wearing a hoodie. I will be the bigger man
here and not do that to you.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
So why'd you compliment my outfit?
Speaker 10 (27:18):
Because I'm a polite person.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
No, you're That means you're a liar.
Speaker 19 (27:21):
You didn't have to say that my ouseit was cute,
And now you're saying that something about my outfit.
Speaker 3 (27:27):
I mean, Oh, I.
Speaker 10 (27:29):
Didn't mean to compliment to you.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
My mistake, my mistake.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
Yeah, Jackson, Can I ask you something really clean? Did
you take a shower before the date?
Speaker 10 (27:37):
I took a shower earlier in the day.
Speaker 4 (27:39):
Yes, earlier in the week, he means.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
But anyway, it's just this isn't gonna work.
Speaker 3 (27:48):
Well, are you sure? Because it sounds like you guys,
I'm positive.
Speaker 10 (27:53):
I'm gonna joint your number right on on my phone
is what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
Let me ask you this question, Meredith, would you like
to go on another their date with Jackson? We will
pay for it?
Speaker 6 (28:02):
Hell no?
Speaker 3 (28:03):
No, cool, that's what I think.
Speaker 10 (28:05):
And then you're paying for him?
Speaker 3 (28:07):
Yeah, but she said no.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
Jackson, Oh, it's probably high right now.
Speaker 13 (28:15):
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Speaker 3 (28:22):
Have you ever dealt with a toxic baby? Mama Wig?
Call us up right now eight eight three four three
six one eight three four three one six one ask
the question because one of our listeners needs your advice
because they're dealing with a toxic baby mama. It's the
(28:42):
same thing anyway, Laura, what's up?
Speaker 6 (28:46):
Hey?
Speaker 3 (28:46):
You told our producer that you want to ask our
audience for help. What's going on?
Speaker 17 (28:50):
So I've been dating this guy and everything's been great,
except he has a toxic baby mama.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
Well, how is she toxic?
Speaker 17 (28:59):
She?
Speaker 21 (29:00):
I know, she's checking me out for sure, and like
she's always disrupting things, like we'll be out and she'll
be texting him for nonsense, like nothing important, you know,
and it's just like too much.
Speaker 4 (29:14):
She has feelings for him, so probably.
Speaker 17 (29:17):
You know, but they're broken up, like get over it,
you know, he's moved on.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 21 (29:22):
I just feel like she's making things difficult. I mean,
he's fantastic, but like I just don't know what to do.
I mean, should I end it?
Speaker 17 (29:30):
Because I feel like she's never gonna go away.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
Talking to one of our listeners, Laura, who just called
up and she's wondering if she should break up with
her new boyfriend because he has a toxic baby mama.
Have you dealt with this before or are you a
toxic baby mama? Call us up, give us some advice.
Eight eight eight three four three one O six one
eight eight eight three four three one oh six one. Laura,
how old are is? Kids?
Speaker 4 (29:49):
Five?
Speaker 3 (29:50):
Five? So if you were to continue a relationship with
this dude with the toxic baby mama, you're looking at
potentially thirteen years of dealing with the toxic baby mama.
Speaker 4 (30:00):
I mean, I think she's going to be in the
life forever.
Speaker 3 (30:02):
Well, yeah, I guess you're right.
Speaker 4 (30:03):
But I mean, I know you at eighteen and then
what else? But that's so hard because you want to
hope that like he can separate it. You shouldn't actually
have to have any contact with her unless you know,
things got serious and you were taking care of their kid.
Speaker 3 (30:15):
But leading up to that, that.
Speaker 4 (30:16):
Shouldn't be a thing. But that's a fair question. I
bet you that some of our listeners have been in
similar situations.
Speaker 3 (30:21):
Oh, I guarantee it. Call us eight eight eight three
four three one O six one. Text in four one
O six one. Do you have any advice for Laura?
She's wondering if she's just stop saying a dude she
really likes because he has a toxic baby mama. It's
just fun to say toxic baby mama. That should be
a song. If there's not a song called toxic baby Mama,
there should be. Well, I hear another one is on
its way, Booby Nina. Have you ever dealt with this?
Speaker 4 (30:45):
I mean, I've been through a similar situation. This is
a really long time ago with somebody that I was
dating in New York. He had a baby mom who
clearly couldn't let him go, and ultimately he ended up
going back to her. So that would also be my question,
what is the relationship outside the toxicity, Like did they
spend time together? So I don't know what it is
about some people. I don't want to generalize, but some people,
when they break up with someone they have a child with,
(31:06):
they think it's okay to go back and just like
hook up whenever because you're not adding a new number.
It's just it cancels each other.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Out of something. I mean I look at it like
it's like you go on vacation to certain places, right,
and if you go on vacation to the same spot
a bunch, it's like, no longer really a vacation, So
it's kind of like you're just going back to old
territory for a minute, or you can.
Speaker 4 (31:24):
Put it that way too, and I guess it makes
more sense. And not to freak you out, Laura, you know,
it's just another angle to look at with what this
relationship is.
Speaker 21 (31:33):
Yeah, I mean, you know, I can kind of tell
that she's trying to get back with him because she'll
set up things like for him to help with stuff,
and like it's not necessary for him to help, and
she just is trying to keep in contact with him
and see him any way she can, you know.
Speaker 3 (31:51):
So it's one of those situations like, hey, can you
come help me move a couch because I don't have
anybody to help, and then you show up and it's like, oh, sorry,
all my clothes were in the laundry. So I'm making
exactly So.
Speaker 4 (32:00):
You do feel like your boyfriend's toxic baby mama is
trying to get rid of you.
Speaker 21 (32:05):
I think she is trying to get back in. She
probably realizes she lost a good thing and you know
now she's trying to get it back.
Speaker 3 (32:12):
But all right, call us up eight and eight three
four three one of six one text in four one
of six.
Speaker 10 (32:16):
One.
Speaker 3 (32:16):
Do you have any advice for Laura? She's trying to
figure out if she stop seeing a dude that she
really likes because he has a toxic baby mama. Kevin, So,
you know, I've.
Speaker 22 (32:24):
Had kind of a friend I think that's kind of
been in like a similar situation here, and like ultimately,
like it ended up working out. So I think it's
like something that you know, she should stick with. You know,
eventually the baby mom's can just kind of like she'll
be around still, but she'll just kind of you know,
be eased out of it, or you know, it's almost
just transactional, you know, because of the shared child.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
Did your friend do anything specific to like create boundaries
or did your friend just kind of start like flapping
her what do you call it, just swatting her away,
like applying, you know, minded her own business.
Speaker 21 (32:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 22 (32:56):
I mean, like ultimately, you just you know, aimed focus on,
you know, the girl he was dating at the time,
and just kind of, you know, it kind of fizzled,
you know. The the baby mama kind of just like
fizzled out. You only saw her when the kid was
getting dropped off or whatever. I mean, there was kind
of like a crazy moment with the baby mama where she,
you know, was like following him. You know, they just
(33:21):
called the Cops center that one day, and you know,
I think it was fine after that. So like I
think she should, you know, continue to date this guy
and the baby mama acts up or whatever, just call
the cops on her. You get her scared, and you
know that should take care of the problem.
Speaker 4 (33:35):
That's one way to handle it.
Speaker 3 (33:37):
Thank Kevin. Thanks Kevin. Well, there you go, Laura. That's
your first piece of advice. If you have some advice
for Laura on the situation with the toxic baby mama,
call us eight eight eight three four three one six
one eight eight eight three four three one o six one.
Text in at four one o six one will take
your calls next.
Speaker 4 (33:52):
Yeah, and if you have a story about the cops
getting involved, you can go ahead and share that to.
Speaker 3 (33:55):
Your red Flag call us eight eight three six one.
Phone lines are packed with listeners who have dealt with
a toxic baby mama.
Speaker 4 (34:07):
That's it.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Thank you, Yes, thank you for calling one of our listeners.
Laura needs some advice. If you were listening just a
few minutes ago, she called up and asked us a
question of how you deal with a toxic baby mama.
Speaker 17 (34:21):
So I've been dating this guy and everything's been great,
except he has a toxic baby mama.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
So she asked if our listeners could help her out.
Call us up eight eight eight three four three one
six one eight eight eight three four three one o
six one. Hey Dakota, So are you a toxic baby
mama or have you dealt with toxic baby?
Speaker 15 (34:48):
No?
Speaker 6 (34:48):
Definitely, I would say that it's going to ease out.
Like I my husband has had a toxic baby mom.
Speaker 3 (34:57):
Okay, and how'd that and what happened? How'd that situation go?
Speaker 19 (35:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (35:04):
So I was actually friends with her before I was
married to my husband, and it was just.
Speaker 17 (35:11):
It was it was not good.
Speaker 11 (35:13):
It was very toxic.
Speaker 6 (35:15):
It was just very drama. And then I eventually just.
Speaker 15 (35:18):
Stopped saying anything like I just stopped butting my business
in it's not my place, and then boom, she just
kind of rolled with the punches, and now I wouldn't
consider as friend. Definitely, we're co parents and if something
of alm with the kids, cool, if not, we don't talk.
Speaker 6 (35:37):
You know, it was just that simple. It will ease out.
Speaker 4 (35:40):
So you think that Laura should keep dating this guy
and just deal with the toxicity until it burns out. Yeah,
it will burn out, Okay, definitely, Yeah, maybe.
Speaker 15 (35:51):
I mean it's just years.
Speaker 6 (35:53):
I've been with my husband for seven years. I would
say in the last two and a half it has
died down to where.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
It's that's cool.
Speaker 4 (36:02):
Okay, So five years Laura, and then maybe it'll be better.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
So call up with some advice for our listener Laura,
who is in a spot where she's trying to figure
out if she should keep dating this guy that she
says is awesome. It's just he has a toxic baby.
Speaker 10 (36:17):
Mom.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
We got him text in a lot of a few
texts actually that say fighter.
Speaker 4 (36:22):
That's probably that's definitely an urge. Yeah, there's definitely something
you want to do, But I don't think that would help.
That might have made the situation a little more toxic.
Speaker 3 (36:29):
Hello, Amber, So what advice would you have for our
listener Laura, who is wondering if she should break up
with this dude or keep dating him when he's got
a toxic baby.
Speaker 5 (36:39):
Mom, I would say she should drop him.
Speaker 11 (36:45):
I actually just got out of a relationship.
Speaker 5 (36:47):
With a guy that had an ex wife that was
dressed kind of controlling the life. Like I couldn't even
be around him when their son was there, just because
you wanted to control. And yeah, and we were together
for a year and like he's like, wait till a
year and then he can meet the sun and hang
(37:07):
out with the sun. And then the year came and
nothing changed. Wow, And you know, he wasn't willing to
make any boundaries with her at all. So I would
say that she should have a conversation with him and
just kind of find out if he's willing to, like,
if he's willing to stand up to her, and he's not,
then I think you should just move on because there's
lots of more there's lots of people out there that would,
(37:31):
you know, do better.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
It's interesting how that'll happen. You know, people will break
up and especially if they were in a relationship that
was controlling, the person who was the controlling one will
still try to control them if they if they have contact, right,
if they have a kid, they'll still try to do
things to exert some power and control over them. If
they start dating somebody new, they want to intervene in
their dating life and stuff like that, and that's terrible
(37:54):
to do because you're not together anymore. Let them make
their own decisions.
Speaker 4 (37:58):
Well, especially when they weaponize the children exactly, and that
happens a lot, it does, And it's so sad because
the people that do weaponize the kids.
Speaker 3 (38:07):
I've noticed when i've met those people, those type of people,
and I've met a few of them, they seem like
they're just all about their kids and so interested in
their well being, right, except it does so much damage
to children, like it is horrible to do that to
a kid, horrible, But they have no problem doing it,
and they say they're looking out for their kids well being. Well,
(38:29):
you're causing them years and years and years and years
and years of trauma and it's gonna take a long
time to heal from that, if they even do know
to heal from it. So don't do that, right, keep
it between the adults, keep the kids out of it.
It's hard. It's hard, though, I'm sure in that situation
to do that, but I've seen it happen a lot.
Speaker 4 (38:49):
Oh yeah, are you tearing up? Yeah, it makes me sad.
It is sad, and yeah, it is. It's very deeply emotional.
Speaker 3 (38:55):
Yeah, because people don't realize the type of damage that
it can do, and I don't even know if they
I don't even blame some people necessarily, because you literally,
if you haven't looked into the amount of emotional and
just emotional damage that it can do on a mental level,
if you're not really like, mental health is my passion? Really,
(39:17):
so like, if you haven't looked into it, you're you're ignorant.
I don't mean that as an insult. You just don't
know the kind of damage that it can do. But
even weaponizing your kids a little bit, or talking trash
about the other parent to your kid does so much
deep damage you don't even understand how, So don't do
that if you care about your kids. Calls up Aita
eight three four three one A six to one our
(39:38):
listener Laura was asking should she continue dating this dude
that she really likes because he has a toxic baby.
Speaker 22 (39:45):
Mom.
Speaker 3 (39:45):
Hey Jackie, Hey, good morning, good morning. So what advice
do you have for Laura?
Speaker 11 (39:53):
I'm, you know, I think he should sit with it.
But I also think that there's some sticky layers here
because of the child. And I don't know how old
they are or anything, but I think that it's important
to note. You know, obviously you care about this man,
and that's really important, but he's also a package deal
(40:13):
with his kid, and if you have love for this
kid that you want to grow up with and share
a life with, I think that that's a very important
layer to consider in making this choice, not just considering
the baby mama, because I do believe that this child
is owed the opportunity to have a partnership with his
(40:34):
parents or a co parenting situation that's healthy. And you know,
if you can really see yourself with this man and
his child as a as a really great family, that
will happen in time. And I really think it has
to do with communication with a child's mom and dad
(40:54):
with you in the room, and creating a healthy partnership
for this kid, especially as you see yourself with this person.
It's a very important dynamic. And I don't know, just
something to consider because you clearly really care about this guy,
but he also has you know, a kinder consider and
that's just a you know.
Speaker 6 (41:13):
A.
Speaker 11 (41:15):
Layer that's scary sometimes because I don't know.
Speaker 6 (41:19):
If you're a mom or it's hard.
Speaker 11 (41:22):
That's good advice with it if you really care about him.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
Thank you for the phone call. Jackie. That's great advice.
Appreciate it.
Speaker 4 (41:27):
I mean it's a great point, Jackie Layers, because I
mean all these kind of situations are complicated. It's just
what are you willing to deal with?
Speaker 3 (41:33):
Exactly? Call us up eight of eight, three, four, three
or six one? Oh yeah, who's excited right now? Because
come into the stage. It's Nina.
Speaker 17 (41:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (41:46):
Is she yes?
Speaker 2 (41:48):
Is she trendy?
Speaker 3 (41:50):
Absolutely? And she's about to get indy and trendy for
you with what's trending with Nina Tipple? Well, because she's
working for you, that's a great you know what's trending? Weddings?
Speaker 15 (42:03):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (42:05):
Speaking of that, I mean, bachelor is in the house,
celebrating a bachelor party. It's zam Bernina to get all
trend doing it, and that's exactly what we're doing. Weddings
are trending. I mean, we're approaching wedding season and there
is this list that has gone viral because it's allegedly
the new role, the new rules for weddings in twenty
twenty three.
Speaker 4 (42:25):
I'm just gonna give you the top five to give
you kind of an idea of where this is going.
The number one rule is no more engagement parties. Two,
no outdoor summer weddings. Three your closest friends should control
the guest list for it's entirely fine to deny anyone
a plus one for any reason. I strongly disagree with this.
(42:47):
And five skip the bridle party. What Yeah, there's even
no kids on the list as number nine, like I
get it to each their ows.
Speaker 3 (42:55):
Number six don't have don't have a wedding, just don't
do anything.
Speaker 4 (43:01):
Yeah no, it says never say black tie optional anyway.
Speaker 5 (43:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (43:05):
So I don't know what's going on here and why
it's such a bunch of pooh poos, But I think
they're trying to steer away from the traditional wedding type rules.
Speaker 3 (43:14):
And I don't know. Just do what you want.
Speaker 4 (43:16):
It's your day, Yeah, do it however you want. I
don't think there should be rules on it. I don't
think there should either.
Speaker 3 (43:20):
I do like this time of year, though, This is
the time of year where everybody brags about how many
friends they have are getting married? How much like how
because those people that have a lot of friends and
want you to know they have a lot of friends,
they'll start posting on social media NonStop about ugh, I
have so many weddings to go to this summer, Like
every weekend is basically booked to the wedding. How am
I going to do anything this summer Because I'm going
(43:41):
to weddings every single weekend. I love that.
Speaker 4 (43:45):
That's how you see it. Meanwhile, I'm like, oh, it's
so expensive to go to all of these wedding another dress.
Speaker 3 (43:51):
Yeah, that's because Nino's that person who's got so many
weddings to go to. The Jubil show on demand Jeubils
dirty little Secret. Hey, what's up? Let's go pretty good?
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How are you?
Speaker 10 (44:12):
Oh not bad?
Speaker 3 (44:13):
You have a dirty little secret?
Speaker 10 (44:14):
Huh?
Speaker 21 (44:15):
I do?
Speaker 3 (44:18):
Uh?
Speaker 11 (44:19):
Let me see.
Speaker 21 (44:19):
I'll explain this.
Speaker 16 (44:21):
So I guess throughout high school I had uh, I
had these two friends.
Speaker 3 (44:25):
Most emails and stuff, and one of them, like one
of them.
Speaker 22 (44:30):
Like always complimented how their mom looked really.
Speaker 3 (44:32):
Attractive and stuff like that.
Speaker 16 (44:34):
Okay, Well, after high school, like later on I got
into college and stuff, we kind of like sell apart
a little bit. I mean like we still kept in touch,
but got busy with stuff, you know, short time coming
actually ended up hooking up with that mom you did?
Speaker 3 (44:56):
No way? Yeah, does your friend know, how'd that happen?
Speaker 1 (45:06):
I mean, like we every once.
Speaker 6 (45:08):
In a while, we all just hang out and stuff and.
Speaker 16 (45:12):
Just just hang out do random things, and then just
one night it kind of happened.
Speaker 21 (45:19):
Man.
Speaker 4 (45:19):
I've always wanted to do that with your friend's mom, ye,
like a certain mom or just any mom.
Speaker 3 (45:24):
Just anyone. I just think it'd be cool to do it.
It would be such a weird thing to be like,
this is my friend's mom. This is so weird.
Speaker 1 (45:29):
It's so weird.
Speaker 6 (45:30):
Yeah, it was a little weird.
Speaker 1 (45:32):
How was it?
Speaker 19 (45:33):
We know?
Speaker 4 (45:36):
I mean I was thinking the same thing.
Speaker 3 (45:37):
But I'm glad to ask.
Speaker 10 (45:40):
Pretty damn good.
Speaker 3 (45:43):
Well, thank you for telling you what your journ little secret?
Speaker 9 (45:45):
Man?
Speaker 3 (45:46):
Yeah, I have a good one, dude. Thank you. It
was funny, right bye bye? What's your dirty little secret?
It's always fun when you have to have a meeting
with your bosses and then they tell you something that
they don't approve of that you've been doing. It's the
Jubile Show. It's hits one of six point one, and
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there was something that we had a meeting about the
other day that we've been instructed to not do on
the air anymore. So I figure let's do it a
whole lot right now, see how it goes, and see
what happens, right nin oh, yeah, sure, whatever you want.
We had a meeting the other day and we were
instructed to not call each other nicknames. I already messed
(46:31):
that up right yesterday. Nina calls Nina calls everybody nicknames.
You have nicknames for pretty much every single person in
your life.
Speaker 4 (46:37):
I feel like I do, like, if I like you,
you get a nickname, and then if you don't have one,
then you just know where you stand.
Speaker 3 (46:43):
Now, if you know Nina, you know exactly where you stand.
With their Brad's looking at her sideways right now, produce
a bread.
Speaker 4 (46:48):
I call you, Bradley.
Speaker 3 (46:50):
It's still the It's not really much of a nick name.
But yeah, they did. They were talking to us and
they were talking about the show things that they liked
and didn't like. And one of the notes that we
got back was so, yeah, uh, the nickname thing, don't
get it and don't like it, and don't do the
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nickname thing on the air anymore.
Speaker 10 (47:14):
Right.
Speaker 4 (47:15):
So I'm looking at the screen like I'll try.
Speaker 9 (47:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (47:21):
I was like, I don't know how Nina's gonna do it.
Speaker 4 (47:23):
I know it's really hard for me, especially with Juwbol,
just because I've just been calling him everything but Jubil
his entire life. So I'm working on it.
Speaker 3 (47:32):
Yeah, it's tough too. You know, if you call somebody
something and you know them as that, it is hard
to break out of that, right, And it's weird to
even hear you say Jewbol, I know, right with the
l on it, because we've known each other for what
almost like twenty years. Yeah, right, And I don't think
I remember you ever calling me Jubel.
Speaker 4 (47:52):
I don't think I ever related it either. Ye wait,
really no, never, It's like Jubes boobs, Jubi booby, I
mean all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1 (47:59):
It just that's kind of cute.
Speaker 3 (48:01):
Well, I've got one of those names that most people
use some sort of abbreviation of. I've noticed that most
people in my life do. At some point after I
meet someone, I think they get tired of the old
part and so that Jubes Jube, things like that. Yeah,
you know that, that's just I have one of those names.
I think that people just are, like, I don't want
to say the whole bull. This kind of sounds like
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you're about to pute you know, does anybody ever just
call you bawl no ball? Yeah, I've had some I've
had people call me ball I had. Yeah, I've had
people call me that too, So I think it's just
one of those names.
Speaker 4 (48:37):
Yeah, I mean, do you have one of those names?
And some people just have one like Victoria. Everybody comes
at you with a different name too.
Speaker 6 (48:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (48:43):
I usually get called v by like my family and
like family friends, and then Tory Vic.
Speaker 2 (48:49):
My grandusbend, just calls me Veronica. We let that slide.
Speaker 1 (48:54):
I don't want to get mad at that.
Speaker 3 (48:59):
Yeah, that's forgetting.
Speaker 2 (49:04):
I feel bad, but I just don't say anything.
Speaker 10 (49:06):
I know it.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
Yeah it's close enough.
Speaker 3 (49:10):
Hey Victor, that's hilarious. But are you even friends with
someone if you don't call them a nickname? That was
the question that Nina had, I know, because that's what
I was.
Speaker 4 (49:23):
Just thinking, like, there isn't anybody that I'm really good
friends with that I don't have a nickname for. And
aside from that, like what names do you respond to?
Many fames are the best.
Speaker 12 (49:35):
I feel like, if you're close to someone, you just
start calling them like a shorter version of their name,
and it just becomes like a thing.
Speaker 3 (49:41):
And that's why.
Speaker 4 (49:43):
Well, it's funny when your nickname's crazy. Like if I'm
screaming Booby across the hallway and Jubs responds to it,
and then my friends would call me.
Speaker 3 (49:51):
Can I say?
Speaker 4 (49:52):
They would call me Nina Penis for whatever reason, that's
your nickname with your friends.
Speaker 3 (49:57):
Wow, they call me I don't know. Actually, nicknames are
usually to make things shorter. I made her name longer Penis.
Speaker 4 (50:08):
Because it was Nina Penis, and then it turned into
Meina Penis, and then people would call me Pene, so
like they'd scream the hall.
Speaker 3 (50:15):
Pen what's up? That's the funny part.
Speaker 4 (50:21):
I like when you if you scream booby, it's weird
to say word for me to say it since you
call me that. Down the hallway at work, there's a
sports station here, So every time you do that, I
know the sports guys are probably poking their head out,
like we're.
Speaker 3 (50:38):
We're talking about how the team one last night. I've
never felt so much astrong. I know that's going on.
We're pretty lucky. I'm gonna start calling you by your
nickname now down the hallway and wash their doors close
like no way, dude, not interested in looking at that.
Speaker 10 (50:59):
I liked warts and booth.
Speaker 4 (51:04):
We got everybody part covered here, Veronica.
Speaker 6 (51:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (51:08):
Another note that we got from we're talking about how
we had a meeting the other day and our bosses
told us some things that they did not want us
to do on the air. One of those was called
each other their nicknames, although I think they might be
excited about Nina Penis get flat real quick. Another another
note that we got was they want Victoria to talk
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earlier and more often.
Speaker 2 (51:33):
I was talking about this with Sydney last night.
Speaker 12 (51:36):
My roommate, Wow, my roommate, and she says, she's like, well, Victoria,
you're someone who likes to observe things and like a
people watcher, and so I think that's what happens in
the room. I just start observing and watching, and I
like the conversation and I like watching it play out
that I forget I have to also be a part
of said conversation.
Speaker 2 (51:57):
Yeah, until y'all look at me like not.
Speaker 3 (52:00):
An accounting job.
Speaker 15 (52:03):
Radio.
Speaker 4 (52:04):
Yeah, my bad. But I'm glad you had that like
introspective moment where you're like, I just like to watch people.
Speaker 2 (52:11):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (52:12):
I do too, But you need to describe what you see, this.
Speaker 3 (52:16):
Is a job where you're supposed to use your voice.
Speaker 2 (52:20):
Yeah, we also had that conversation.
Speaker 3 (52:22):
Yeah, there is a microphone right in front of you.
Speaker 1 (52:25):
Wild You never know you're doing good though.
Speaker 2 (52:29):
That's a lot of words so far that the adrenaline
for my morning is still kicking.
Speaker 3 (52:35):
I'm trying to remember what other notes we had from
the meeting of things that we are not supposed to do.
Speaker 4 (52:39):
Well, there was one that we're supposed to do or
you specifically, you're supposed to have more of a commanding voice.
Speaker 3 (52:44):
Oh, that's that's right. Yeah, yeah, I forgot about that.
I'm supposed to have more of a commanding voice, and
I don't even know how to do that necessarily. I
don't know what. Try it out right now. See I
wasn't commanding at all. I'm gonna try it out right now,
so I'm not actually for once in my life. Yeah,
(53:12):
so I'm trying to I'll figure out work on the
commanding voice thing. Will you do it good?
Speaker 4 (53:15):
When the airhorns hit?
Speaker 3 (53:17):
Yeah, that is true. Every time we talk. I'll just
do that every single time.
Speaker 4 (53:27):
Are you ready for it?
Speaker 3 (53:30):
Joomy booby? Yeah, I'll just have to do this every
single time, Yo. That was the segments that when we're
just doing right there about our meeting with our bosses,
and it is done. You know what, if your Pune
Brank happens every single hour on the twenties, the next
one is coming up in just a few minutes. It's
(53:51):
the Jewel Show. Yeah, heard that much better? Yeah?
Speaker 10 (53:54):
I love that?
Speaker 3 (53:54):
All right, sweet, your phone break is coming up in
just a few minutes every single hour on the twenties.
That's see, that wasn't commanding at all. Every single hour
on the twenties, that's soon minutes
Can you guys have collars all in and talk dirty
to me?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
My name is Sean.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
If you don't put this on here, I'll give you
my phone number.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
No, never mind, that's.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
A message we got on our voice when we played
it last week, and I cannot get Sean out of
my head. I love the check in with Sean. Sean,
if you're listening, call us eight eight eight three four
three one oh six one. It's the Jewbile Show and
it's time for the check in. Let's all not feel
alone right now, because there is a loneliness epidemic in
the world. The Surgeon General actually issued a warning the
other day saying that loneliness is just as bad for
(00:34):
you as smoking fifteen cigarettes a day. So you're not
actually lonely right now. You have us to hang out with,
check in with us, let us know how you're doing
good bad in between doesn't matter, and we'll check in
with all of us right now. It's time for the
check in. So Nina, Yes, what's what's up with you?
Let's check in with you.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
Have you guys heard of candlelight concerts?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
No? No, okay? Is it pretty self explanatory or is
it something you know like, is it one of those
things where it's candilight concerts but it's different than what
it sounds like.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
No, it's actually a candle light concert. Okay, Yeah, I
went to one of those last night, and I'm very
thankful for my one friend. Her name's Bly. So if
I didn't have bl I'd probably spend a lot of
time at home because I'm really comfortable watching shows, but
she gets me out to do fun things like this
candle light concert. It was at one of the wineries
in Woodenville, and it was a string quartet and they
(01:23):
were covering all Beyonce songs. So if you've seen yeah,
so if you've seen Bridgerton, it's kind of like all
those covers and I brought some to share with you
so you can be a part of the candlelight concert too.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Here we go, there's a clip. You know, that's what
it is? What song? Is that? What I mean? I
know what it?
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Oh crazy love?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Oh yeah, it's so cool. You've got me crazy in
love right now.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
It's so crazy and love right now, looking so crazy
and love chrisy crazy love.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Yeah, so good and it's cool. They do all different artists.
They have a Taylor Swift night where they just cover
all Taylor Swift. But the funniest part is when you
look around the room, there were some couples that just
were like staring at it with no emotion on their face.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
What I had no idea? What's going on?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Do you not dance?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
They're like, what are they playing? I was expecting some
mozart or something like that. Exactly was Beyonce? You throw
that around though, check call us up right now, let
us know what's going on. Let's all not feel lonely
for a little while. Hey, Sean was walking with you, man,
what's going on? Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 6 (02:37):
So?
Speaker 7 (02:38):
I got an issue here. I was talking to Shirky
and so my best friend, my roommate of fourteen years
or not fourteen years, since we were fourteen, we've been
best friends, met like the first day of high school.
He's been living with me for two years.
Speaker 8 (02:51):
Right, He's never had any other roommates other than family
and taking care of family and stuff, and like, I've
been kind of alluding to the fact that he needs
to kind of move out, you.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Know what I mean.
Speaker 7 (03:06):
And it's more of a like, you know, it's been
great best friends.
Speaker 9 (03:10):
So I'm not going to talk about, you know.
Speaker 7 (03:13):
The fun things that have been going on. I get
that if you can hear my tone kind of contribute
to you need.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
To, you know, Skate, So how have you been alluding
to it? Just like, hey, you know what's cool living
somewhere else.
Speaker 7 (03:31):
Right almost almost exactly. It's like, you know, you know,
if you kind of looking to get.
Speaker 6 (03:36):
In your own spot.
Speaker 7 (03:36):
Apartments are cheap right now. You know, my buddy just
found one for a grand you know, for a one bedroom,
and I haven't been getting much bet so I'm just like,
you know what, I.
Speaker 9 (03:45):
Don't know how do I just be like, look, bro,
I love you to death, but if you keep living
here with me, my partner and I are probably gonna
stab you.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeah, And you're like, and I don't want my next
play place to that I'm living to be a prison cell,
So please get out. Well, if anybody has a place
for Sean's roommate.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
You know what, Sean, if you want, I'm pretty sure
we could help you. Jubel would probably be happy to
just relay the message to your roommate for you.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Yeah, we can talk to him if you want. Sean.
Thank you for checking in with us, bro. Appreciate you.
Speaker 10 (04:30):
Hey, thank you.
Speaker 6 (04:30):
Hey.
Speaker 7 (04:31):
You guys are freaking awesome. I appreciate everything you do
in the morning. I listen to you every single morning.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Dude, thank you, You're awesome. Man. Have a good one.
Call us anytime. All right, you got luck. Appreciate it. Yeah,
good luck. Calls up eight to eight, three for three,
one o six one. It's time for the check in.
Let's all not feel a little bit alone. Let's not
all feel a little bit alone. Let's all feel alone together.
I like that loneliness is an epidemic in the world
right now, and it's ridiculous. Like I said, just a
(04:56):
minute ago, the Surgeon General actually issued a warning. You know,
they have the Surgeon General's War on Cigarettes. Yeah wait,
what really you didn't know that, Victoria.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
I don't smoke cigarettes.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
I don't. Well, there's a little warning box on it
that says, you know, this could cause cancer. Or when
I used to smoke, I would always choose the ones
that said, you know, don't smoke if you're pregnant, because
I'm like, these ones are obviously fine for me because
I'm not pregnant. But the Surgeon General issue of warning
saying that loneliness is just as bad for you as smoking,
So it has real physical effects. Your mental state has
(05:27):
real physical effects, and people don't often think about that.
So call us up. Eighty eight three four three, one
oh six one is time for the check in. Let's
just check in with each other and see how you're doing. Hey, Najela,
what's up? Power are you good? How are you good?
What's problem with you? What is going on?
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
I was just oh yeah, so our sharky uh one,
our producers, he'll screen the call and then put you
on hold and then send you over to us. So
now you're on the air. Oh yeah, so what's up?
What do you want to talk about? Oh?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
What's that.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
I was trying to answer the one from before the
showering question, but he just.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Said, go ahead and say what you want to say.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I was like, huh oh, okay, we'll do you shower
with your significant other. We talked about that yesterday.
Speaker 11 (06:28):
Oh okay, I'm hearing it today.
Speaker 6 (06:30):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
No, it's all good, Njela. Thank you for your phone
call though, Yeah, of course you have a good day.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
Okay, okay, thank you.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
All right, thank you see call us up. You can
talk about anything. Literally, you can even not talk. And
what was going on there, Victoria, what's going on with you?
To check in? Let's check in with you.
Speaker 12 (06:55):
Well, I told myself I was gonna have a great
day today, and I woke up late and pure panic
in my whole body. And you know that everyone knows
that feeling when you like get up and you just
feel immediate like anxiety, and then the.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
What is it called.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Alarm beer?
Speaker 12 (07:16):
No, I can't think of the word, but it just
like makes you like it puts.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
A brush in your body. So the adrenaline, thank you.
Speaker 12 (07:21):
The adrenaline just like hits your body and you're like
sprinting all around the apartment house whatever, Yeah, to get
out the door.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
That was me this morning.
Speaker 12 (07:28):
And then I found out I didn't do my laundry
last night, so I had no clean socks.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I found some by the.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Way, thanks good, and I did.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
And then I also ran out of espresso.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
But I'm doing great right now.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
I was wondering why you didn't respond to g you
want coffee this morning?
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Victoria? Call us up eight A eight three four three
six one text and four one o six one check in.
With us. Let us know how you're doing. Your phone
break happens every single hour on the twenties. And remember
right after that your chance at one thousand dollars with
the Jubile cash code. And what's trending with Nina that's
coming up right after this. It's the Double Show, the
Jubile Show on demand.
Speaker 13 (08:04):
It's another Jubile phone.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Frank weekday mornings on the twenties.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Hello, yeah, Hi, this is Parker calling from salon. I
was looking for page Oh.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Hi, yeah, this is she.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Hey. Hey, So, yeah, I guess there was a complaint,
so calling you back to ask about that. I know
I'm not the one. I'm not the stylist who worked
on you, but I am one of the co owners
of the salons, so I figured that I would call
you back and find out what the problem was.
Speaker 10 (08:49):
Uh.
Speaker 6 (08:50):
Have I offend you?
Speaker 14 (08:52):
I'm so sorry. Have I offended you? I've not met
and I'm not. I'm not mad at you because you
weren't my stylist. But anyway, so here's the situation, and
I'm happy to send you photos if you'd like. Basically,
I came in with a reference photo and I.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Wanted to do a little bit. No, it's not j Lo.
Speaker 14 (09:13):
It was not j Los a photo I found on
tintris from stock.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Well, first of all, I want to stop you right there.
I want to stop you right there before you go
down the road anymore. I'm going to say, if you
brought in a picture to show the stylist some inspo
and our stylist of the hair that way, that's probably
more of a you problem than us problems. So that's
probably a you problem.
Speaker 14 (09:35):
Well, you don't have to be a condescending to me, Parker.
I called because I'm not satisfied with my service, right,
and now I'm feeling like your entire salon is just
a bunch of right, have any kind of standard or
hold up any kind of responsibility for the quality of
their work?
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Right, okay, Parker, yep mm hmm. Have I have I
offended you?
Speaker 3 (09:58):
No, I'm sorry. I'm just listening, all right.
Speaker 14 (10:01):
But the way that you just keep going right right,
it's like you're.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
All right.
Speaker 14 (10:07):
I don't know how you stay in business if this
is the way that you treat your paying customers. It's
because we have and I swear to God, Parker, if
you if you do not issue me a refund or
some sort of corrective service. Right, I have no qualms
with trashing your business. Else, I will post photos of
my hair, right, your name, specifically, I will post the
(10:27):
name of the society, yeah to my hair, Yeah yeah, Parker.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
How does it feel to go bankrupt?
Speaker 6 (10:34):
Parker?
Speaker 14 (10:35):
I want to have your business taken down, Parker.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
So I don't know what I did in this conversation
to get that kind of reaction from you, but I
do care about customer service and I want to try
to make it right for you. But I don't understand
where that is coming from. So I'm gonna say that's
also a you problem, not enough problem.
Speaker 14 (10:56):
Okay, Okay, Well, I sort of feel like this conversation
is absolutely going nowhere, and my husband's lawyer, I feel
like taking you back to small Clay right, okay, right, right, right? Seriously, seriously,
is this how you would treat somebody if I were
if I were famous? Is this how you would treat
me because I paid full price for an expensive service?
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Right? Okay? I didn't ask, actually, and I should know this.
Who was your stylist when you came in?
Speaker 1 (11:25):
His name was?
Speaker 6 (11:26):
I think it was Sean?
Speaker 15 (11:28):
Oh?
Speaker 16 (11:28):
Right?
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Well he sucks. So yeah, you shouldn't have booked with him,
and that is probably kind of a you problem as well.
Speaker 14 (11:39):
Right right, right, Okay, I'm taking and I have a
teen kay, so I hate my job.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Why are you laughing?
Speaker 3 (11:52):
Because this is actually Jewbil from The Jewels Show doing
a phone break on you and your sister Natalie set
you up. It's a joke. She said that you got
a haircut you didn't like very much the other day
and wanted me to call from the salon and just
be a jerk to you.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
So I'm sweating right right right?
Speaker 17 (12:13):
Oh my god.
Speaker 13 (12:16):
Wake up every morning with double phone Franks weekday mornings
on the twenties.
Speaker 6 (12:25):
Trenday.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
Hello, make a trend.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
There's so many trends today. We'll start out with if
you haven't heard yet, round two. Crack and play the
Dallas Stars. Last night they won the first game five
to four. Next double. This trending thing is for you.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
It's National Meditate in a park Day.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Oh dope.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
I'm meditating in parks for like weeks now. You know,
we even watch you from the windows. You're outside on
a little bench.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
That's cool. I had no idea that was then actual thing.
One day, I was meditating and then the word park
kept coming into my head while I was meditating, So
I was like, guess that means I got to go
meditate in parks. So I'll just walk to a park
and I'll sit there for half an hour and meditate
while you like the last couple of weeks. So apparently
maybe I've been prepping for this. I didn't even know it. Yeah,
so I'm exciting.
Speaker 4 (13:19):
It is exciting. So you can celebrate today, and I
wonder if aliens will come to you in your next meditation.
Brace yourself for this. What's trending? Okay, So according to
studies and science, they're saying that aliens are going to
contact us by twenty twenty nine. Now, the reason why
they're going to be able to contact us and find
us is because of our cell towers. So there's all
(13:41):
kinds of like four G activity and leakage is what
they're calling it, from all of these towers, and so
they believe that the aliens are going to be able
to find us through the towers and communicate with us
through our own cell towers.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
We already moved on to five G.
Speaker 4 (13:55):
Well, they're on four G they're not there yet.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
Oh so they're only gonna be talking to people that
they have boosmobile.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
That's what's trending.
Speaker 3 (14:08):
Oh yeah, who's excited right now because come into the stage.
It's Nina.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
Is she bendy Yes? Is she trendy? Absolutely? And she's
about to get indy and trendy for you. What's trending
with Nina Tip, Well, because she's working for you, that's great, Nina.
What's trending weddings? Well, she's working of that. Any bachelor's
(14:39):
in the house celebrating a bachelor party, it's sam for
Nina to get all trendy with it.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
And that's exactly what we're doing. Weddings are trending. I mean,
we're approaching wedding season and there's this list that has
gone viral because it's allegedly the new role, the new
rules for weddings in twenty twenty three. I'm just gonna
give you the top five to give you kind of
a idea of where this is going. The number one
rule is no more engagement parties. Two, no outdoor summer weddings.
(15:08):
Three your closest friends should control the guest list. Four
it's entirely fine to deny anyone a plus one for
any reason. I strongly disagree with this. And five skip
the bridal party. What Yeah, there's even no kids on
the list as number nine, like I get it to
each their own.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Number six don't have don't have a wedding, don't do anything.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
Yeah no, it says never say black tie optional anyway.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
So I don't know what's going on here and why
it's such a bunch of pooh poos, but I think
they're trying to steer away from the traditional wedding type rules.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
And I don't know.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
Changers, do what you want. It's your day, Yeah, do
it however you want. I don't think there should be
rules on it. I don't think there should either.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
I do like this time of year though, This is
the time of year where everybody brags about how many
friends they have? Are you getting married?
Speaker 10 (15:59):
How much?
Speaker 6 (15:59):
Like?
Speaker 10 (15:59):
How?
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Because those people that have a lot of friends and
want you to know they have a lot of friends,
they'll start posting on social media NonStop about h I
have so many weddings to go to this summer, Like
every weekend is basically booked to the wedding. How am
I going to do anything this summer because I'm going
to weddings every single weekend. I love it.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
That's how you see it. Meanwhile, I'm like, oh, it's
so expensive to go to all of these wedding another dress.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
Yeah, that's because Nina is that person who's got so
many weddings to go to.
Speaker 13 (16:27):
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Speaker 3 (16:34):
Jackson is on the phone today for a first date
follow up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Meredith,
and he has no idea why. Jackson, thanks for agreeing
to do the first date follow up. Man, Before we
get into your day and stuff, how long has it
been since you heard from Meredith.
Speaker 10 (16:48):
It's been a couple of weeks now.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
That's definitely ghosted.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
M hmmm.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
Have you tried to reach out to her a bunch
of times.
Speaker 10 (16:55):
I've tried a couple of times. I didn't want to,
you know, overkill it or anything. But wait a couple
of days and then hit her up, did and hear
anything back. Wait a couple more days, upt and hear
anything back. So starting to feel a little bit like
I'm being ghosted.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Now, yeah, I think that's definite at this point, especially
now that you're on there with us doing this. We'll
see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 10 (17:17):
Though.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Tell us a little bit about your date with Meredith.
The day was great.
Speaker 10 (17:21):
I thought, you know, we went out, went to a
burger place, got some burgers. It was you know, we
had good conversation. It seemed very relaxed to me. Nothing
seemed out of the ordinary. You know, only thing I
could think of, like, the only thing that's been eating
at me is the idea that I did. At one point,
she wasn't, like, you know, eating a lot of her fries,
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so I like smashed a fry to off her plate,
and I was like, the only thing I could think
of that would warrant I mean with you, I don't know,
it doesn't seem like that would be enough to get ghosted.
But it seemed like a good date to me, which
went out, got burgers at a good time.
Speaker 4 (17:53):
Yeah, the fry thing can be sensitive though, Like I
personally don't care because I eat off of people's plates
all the time, but I do you know people who
like really freak out about that.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
You know what it bugs me, Well, it only bugs
me if you don't ask, like if you just reach
across and grab it, it's like, hey, I might want.
Speaker 10 (18:10):
That, or I might I gotta be like a playful
kind of like I did, like a yoink kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
Yeah, maybe if you yoinked it, it was a yeah, stop.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
What do you think it is about Meredith Jackson that
just makes you want to see her again?
Speaker 10 (18:28):
Well, honestly, we just had a good connection. You know,
we had a really good time. You know, I'm honest.
She was on a boat in her picture on line,
so like I swiped because I saw her on a
boat and I was like, oh.
Speaker 18 (18:40):
She was cool and we can hang out on a boat.
So you know, it's kind of like a She's like
a mute, sweet PicTel kind of not bad, right, And
they did go well, I thought, so is it her boat? Well,
didn't actually ask about the boat?
Speaker 3 (18:51):
Oh, okay, is that your boat friend's boat? Can I
get on the boat?
Speaker 10 (18:56):
Just when I'm asking, do a little John James B
Wade action a little boat invite? That's all.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
That's so funny.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
I know so many friends, like in the summertime that
just post up on docks trying to find dudes with
boats and yeah, Jackson, you're one of those. If it
doesn't work out with Meredith, I know a dock for you. Yeah,
maybe meet some dude with the boat you can hang
out with. Yeah, yeah, I'm looking for a dude with
a boat.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
I would love to. I mean, I would love to
have a friend who had a boat we could hang
out on all the time.
Speaker 10 (19:25):
I do you do? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Sweet introduction. Okay, so other than grabbing a fry off
her plate? Is there any other reason you can think
of why she should be ghosting you?
Speaker 10 (19:37):
No? And I feel I could think of. I mean,
it seemed like it went really well, you know.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
Okay, did you kiss or anything?
Speaker 10 (19:45):
We didn't have a kiss. Now, it's just a very
pleasant you know, had a good time. SA good night,
sagod knight.
Speaker 4 (19:50):
Was it flirty? It sounds I'm glad you guys had
a really good time. But did you feel like it
was flirtatious and kind of like there was an attraction?
Speaker 10 (19:58):
It's a very laid back me like we're fell very relaxed,
you know.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
So Okay, it's so good because it just felt nice
and chill.
Speaker 6 (20:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
See that's good when you can feel comfortable like that
with somebody, although it has, you know, when I was dating, right,
I'm married now, but when I was dating, that has
kind of come back to bite me because I'm pretty chill,
and sometimes that vibe of just that comfortable vibe, I
get too comfortable, and then it seems like I don't
care at all about like hanging out with her or
even I'm like, we can just sit here and be
(20:27):
quiet if you want. I don't care. But where you know,
it's like a first date, you should be talking. You know,
it helps, it helps, you know, Yeah, we were talking. Yeah,
we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
We'll play a song, come back, and then call her
and see if we can find out why you're gettinghosted
and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 13 (20:42):
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Speaker 3 (20:49):
If you're just joining us for today's First Date follow Up.
Jackson is on the phone and he's not getting a
call back from Meredith, So we're going to see if
we can find out why he's getting ghosted. Part of
it could be because he yointed it at the table.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
He joined a French fry from her plate at.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
The table, Jackson, real quick, refresh everybody's memory about your
date before we call her.
Speaker 10 (21:10):
Yeah, So me and Meredith won went out, got some burgers,
had really good conversation. I was very chill, was very
laid back. At one point I noticed she wasn't eating
a lot of her fries, so I did pull the
old yoint move and let's snatch a couple off her plate.
But it didn't seem that, you know, offensive in the moment.
But you know, other than that, seemed like a very
good date.
Speaker 3 (21:30):
All right, So we're about to find out if Jackson's
joint can get at the table is the reason that
he's not getting a call back. Expect me to say
you can get at the table a lot in this
first day follow.
Speaker 4 (21:40):
Up, great communion. You're not going to help his case
at all. All right, Jackson, you're ready to call her?
Speaker 10 (21:46):
Yeah, let's do this.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi me, I speak to Meredith. Please.
Who's this Meredith? This is my name is Jewbel from
a radio show called The Jewel Show.
Speaker 4 (22:07):
Hi Meredith, my name's Nina. I'm on that show too, Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
We okay, I win something or we do a segment
called the First Date follow Up, where if somebody goes
on a date and gets ghosted, they can email us
to get the other person on the phone and ask
why they are ghosting them. We got an email about
you recently.
Speaker 4 (22:28):
Oh god, do you know who could possibly have been
the person that emailed us?
Speaker 19 (22:34):
No, I've been on a few kind of weird dates. Okay,
I've been trying this online dating thing. I hate my
mom for making me.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Do this, all right, this, yeah, Well, do you remember
a date with a dude named Jackson?
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Yeah, the guy that was high?
Speaker 3 (22:54):
What huh?
Speaker 1 (22:56):
He's stormed off, are you? Yeah? I mean I don't
know the guy much, you know, but the way he
was eating.
Speaker 19 (23:08):
It was obvious he had the munchies and and his
eyes and just the way he was acting was so off.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
Okay, so we talked to him about your date. He
didn't mention anything about being high. He just said he
said he took a fry off, a couple fries off
of your plate, and he thought maybe that was the
reason you weren't calling him back.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
Well, that wasn't the only reason.
Speaker 20 (23:29):
I felt like that was disgusting. First of all, he
didn't even wash his hands his hands are all in
my plate. He was definitely high, trust me. So what
point in the date did you notice that he was high? Like,
did you smell him?
Speaker 4 (23:45):
Was it his eyes?
Speaker 1 (23:47):
He definitely had a spin.
Speaker 19 (23:49):
Honestly, it was just horrible, like he I don't even
know if he took a shower before the date. He
was just like complaining a lot. So he's like, oh,
oh my god. It was the dud was in another world.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
He wasn't even president.
Speaker 4 (24:08):
A stinky yoink is a different kind of yoink.
Speaker 17 (24:10):
You know.
Speaker 4 (24:12):
That is not the kind of yoink you're looking for. Yeah,
you mean, oh, sorry, Meredith.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
So wouldn't We talked to Jackson. He told us about
the French try how he took some French fries off
your plate, and he said, I did like a funny
yoink noise, like yoink, and he thought that that, you know,
made it better.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Yeah, No, he was, Yeah, he was making all kinds
of noises.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
We can find out, Yeah, we can find out if
he was high, Meredith.
Speaker 4 (24:43):
Wouldn't make a difference though. If he wasn't high, Meredith.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Oh, I know, if he wasn't high, then he's right
with him.
Speaker 10 (24:51):
Okay, was.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
Even worse Okay, so it's better if he was high.
Speaker 4 (24:58):
This is that thinker for her honesty at this?
Speaker 3 (25:00):
Yeah yeah, yeah, good point, Nina. Thank you for being
honest with us. I appreciate that. Now, Meredith, I need
to be fully honest with you and let you know
that Jackson is on the phone. He's been listening this
whole time and wants to talk to you. Okay, yeah, Hi,
(25:20):
hold on.
Speaker 10 (25:20):
Just because I'm a chill guy does not mean I'm stoned.
First of all, like all this that is, how can
you just tell me that I tell them that I'm
high and I smell bad or whatever and all that,
just because I'm like, cure you were Oh my god,
please please please you were?
Speaker 6 (25:41):
How am I?
Speaker 10 (25:42):
How am I misconstruing what happened so badly?
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Where I was not high.
Speaker 10 (25:47):
I was sober, having a really enjoyable time.
Speaker 3 (25:49):
And now you're telling me that I.
Speaker 10 (25:52):
Was high because of eating food or you know, playfully
taking fries or whatever.
Speaker 1 (25:58):
You didn't wash your hands, you had dirt in your nails.
You were musty. You weren't it was out mustard must
we were talking about.
Speaker 19 (26:07):
I was trying to talk about politists, the Ukrainian War.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
You were just not even focus.
Speaker 10 (26:16):
I changed the subject every now and then because it
was getting a little heavy for a first date conversation,
and so I was lightening the mood a bit, but
I wouldn't say that I was not paying attention. And
dirty fingernails? Were you stared at?
Speaker 17 (26:28):
You?
Speaker 10 (26:28):
Is a dark night. You're staring at my fingernails, like.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
Hey, yeah, your hands were in my plate.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
I'm going there was a fry hanging off the side.
There was a fly off the side, and.
Speaker 10 (26:39):
I gave it up. I just, you know, a little
joint off the plate is all not even quick enough
for you to tell me how dirty my fingernails are
when I'm just doing a quick joint.
Speaker 19 (26:50):
Okay, Well, you were musty, came in with a hoodie
that you've probably been wearing four Day Street.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
I mean, how the truth?
Speaker 17 (26:59):
Okay, what truth?
Speaker 3 (27:00):
Bro?
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Did you?
Speaker 6 (27:02):
Did you?
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Did you? Okay?
Speaker 10 (27:03):
I don't want to do this or be this person.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
You know, I'm not even gonna do it.
Speaker 10 (27:06):
I'm not even gonna talk about the outfit that you
came to this date with and you're gonna talk about
me wearing a hoodie. I will be the bigger man
here and not do that to you.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
So why'd you compliment my outfit?
Speaker 10 (27:18):
Because I'm a polite person.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
No, you're That means you're a liar.
Speaker 19 (27:21):
You didn't have to say that my ouseit was cute,
And now you're saying that something about my outfit.
Speaker 3 (27:27):
I mean, Oh, I.
Speaker 10 (27:29):
Didn't mean to compliment to you.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
My mistake, my mistake.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
Yeah, Jackson, Can I ask you something really clean? Did
you take a shower before the date?
Speaker 10 (27:37):
I took a shower earlier in the day.
Speaker 4 (27:39):
Yes, earlier in the week, he means.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
But anyway, it's just this isn't gonna work.
Speaker 3 (27:48):
Well, are you sure? Because it sounds like you guys,
I'm positive.
Speaker 10 (27:53):
I'm gonna joint your number right on on my phone
is what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
Let me ask you this question, Meredith, would you like
to go on another their date with Jackson? We will
pay for it?
Speaker 6 (28:02):
Hell no?
Speaker 3 (28:03):
No, cool, that's what I think.
Speaker 10 (28:05):
And then you're paying for him?
Speaker 3 (28:07):
Yeah, but she said no.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
Jackson, Oh, it's probably high right now.
Speaker 13 (28:15):
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Speaker 3 (28:22):
Have you ever dealt with a toxic baby? Mama Wig?
Call us up right now eight eight three four three
six one eight three four three one six one ask
the question because one of our listeners needs your advice
because they're dealing with a toxic baby mama. It's the
(28:42):
same thing anyway, Laura, what's up?
Speaker 6 (28:46):
Hey?
Speaker 3 (28:46):
You told our producer that you want to ask our
audience for help. What's going on?
Speaker 17 (28:50):
So I've been dating this guy and everything's been great,
except he has a toxic baby mama.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
Well, how is she toxic?
Speaker 17 (28:59):
She?
Speaker 21 (29:00):
I know, she's checking me out for sure, and like
she's always disrupting things, like we'll be out and she'll
be texting him for nonsense, like nothing important, you know,
and it's just like too much.
Speaker 4 (29:14):
She has feelings for him, so probably.
Speaker 17 (29:17):
You know, but they're broken up, like get over it,
you know, he's moved on.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 21 (29:22):
I just feel like she's making things difficult. I mean,
he's fantastic, but like I just don't know what to do.
I mean, should I end it?
Speaker 17 (29:30):
Because I feel like she's never gonna go away.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
Talking to one of our listeners, Laura, who just called
up and she's wondering if she should break up with
her new boyfriend because he has a toxic baby mama.
Have you dealt with this before or are you a
toxic baby mama? Call us up, give us some advice.
Eight eight eight three four three one O six one
eight eight eight three four three one oh six one. Laura,
how old are is? Kids?
Speaker 4 (29:49):
Five?
Speaker 3 (29:50):
Five? So if you were to continue a relationship with
this dude with the toxic baby mama, you're looking at
potentially thirteen years of dealing with the toxic baby mama.
Speaker 4 (30:00):
I mean, I think she's going to be in the
life forever.
Speaker 3 (30:02):
Well, yeah, I guess you're right.
Speaker 4 (30:03):
But I mean, I know you at eighteen and then
what else? But that's so hard because you want to
hope that like he can separate it. You shouldn't actually
have to have any contact with her unless you know,
things got serious and you were taking care of their kid.
Speaker 3 (30:15):
But leading up to that, that.
Speaker 4 (30:16):
Shouldn't be a thing. But that's a fair question. I
bet you that some of our listeners have been in
similar situations.
Speaker 3 (30:21):
Oh, I guarantee it. Call us eight eight eight three
four three one O six one. Text in four one
O six one. Do you have any advice for Laura?
She's wondering if she's just stop saying a dude she
really likes because he has a toxic baby mama. It's
just fun to say toxic baby mama. That should be
a song. If there's not a song called toxic baby Mama,
there should be. Well, I hear another one is on
its way, Booby Nina. Have you ever dealt with this?
Speaker 4 (30:45):
I mean, I've been through a similar situation. This is
a really long time ago with somebody that I was
dating in New York. He had a baby mom who
clearly couldn't let him go, and ultimately he ended up
going back to her. So that would also be my question,
what is the relationship outside the toxicity, Like did they
spend time together? So I don't know what it is
about some people. I don't want to generalize, but some people,
when they break up with someone they have a child with,
(31:06):
they think it's okay to go back and just like
hook up whenever because you're not adding a new number.
It's just it cancels each other.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Out of something. I mean I look at it like
it's like you go on vacation to certain places, right,
and if you go on vacation to the same spot
a bunch, it's like, no longer really a vacation, So
it's kind of like you're just going back to old
territory for a minute, or you can.
Speaker 4 (31:24):
Put it that way too, and I guess it makes
more sense. And not to freak you out, Laura, you know,
it's just another angle to look at with what this
relationship is.
Speaker 21 (31:33):
Yeah, I mean, you know, I can kind of tell
that she's trying to get back with him because she'll
set up things like for him to help with stuff,
and like it's not necessary for him to help, and
she just is trying to keep in contact with him
and see him any way she can, you know.
Speaker 3 (31:51):
So it's one of those situations like, hey, can you
come help me move a couch because I don't have
anybody to help, and then you show up and it's like, oh, sorry,
all my clothes were in the laundry. So I'm making
exactly So.
Speaker 4 (32:00):
You do feel like your boyfriend's toxic baby mama is
trying to get rid of you.
Speaker 21 (32:05):
I think she is trying to get back in. She
probably realizes she lost a good thing and you know
now she's trying to get it back.
Speaker 3 (32:12):
But all right, call us up eight and eight three
four three one of six one text in four one
of six.
Speaker 10 (32:16):
One.
Speaker 3 (32:16):
Do you have any advice for Laura? She's trying to
figure out if she stop seeing a dude that she
really likes because he has a toxic baby mama. Kevin, So,
you know, I've.
Speaker 22 (32:24):
Had kind of a friend I think that's kind of
been in like a similar situation here, and like ultimately,
like it ended up working out. So I think it's
like something that you know, she should stick with. You know,
eventually the baby mom's can just kind of like she'll
be around still, but she'll just kind of you know,
be eased out of it, or you know, it's almost
just transactional, you know, because of the shared child.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
Did your friend do anything specific to like create boundaries
or did your friend just kind of start like flapping
her what do you call it, just swatting her away,
like applying, you know, minded her own business.
Speaker 21 (32:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 22 (32:56):
I mean, like ultimately, you just you know, aimed focus on,
you know, the girl he was dating at the time,
and just kind of, you know, it kind of fizzled,
you know. The the baby mama kind of just like
fizzled out. You only saw her when the kid was
getting dropped off or whatever. I mean, there was kind
of like a crazy moment with the baby mama where she,
you know, was like following him. You know, they just
(33:21):
called the Cops center that one day, and you know,
I think it was fine after that. So like I
think she should, you know, continue to date this guy
and the baby mama acts up or whatever, just call
the cops on her. You get her scared, and you
know that should take care of the problem.
Speaker 4 (33:35):
That's one way to handle it.
Speaker 3 (33:37):
Thank Kevin. Thanks Kevin. Well, there you go, Laura. That's
your first piece of advice. If you have some advice
for Laura on the situation with the toxic baby mama,
call us eight eight eight three four three one six
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Speaker 4 (33:52):
Yeah, and if you have a story about the cops
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Speaker 4 (34:07):
That's it.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Thank you, Yes, thank you for calling one of our listeners.
Laura needs some advice. If you were listening just a
few minutes ago, she called up and asked us a
question of how you deal with a toxic baby mama.
Speaker 17 (34:21):
So I've been dating this guy and everything's been great,
except he has a toxic baby mama.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
So she asked if our listeners could help her out.
Call us up eight eight eight three four three one
six one eight eight eight three four three one o
six one. Hey Dakota, So are you a toxic baby
mama or have you dealt with toxic baby?
Speaker 15 (34:48):
No?
Speaker 6 (34:48):
Definitely, I would say that it's going to ease out.
Like I my husband has had a toxic baby mom.
Speaker 3 (34:57):
Okay, and how'd that and what happened? How'd that situation go?
Speaker 19 (35:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (35:04):
So I was actually friends with her before I was
married to my husband, and it was just.
Speaker 17 (35:11):
It was it was not good.
Speaker 11 (35:13):
It was very toxic.
Speaker 6 (35:15):
It was just very drama. And then I eventually just.
Speaker 15 (35:18):
Stopped saying anything like I just stopped butting my business
in it's not my place, and then boom, she just
kind of rolled with the punches, and now I wouldn't
consider as friend. Definitely, we're co parents and if something
of alm with the kids, cool, if not, we don't talk.
Speaker 6 (35:37):
You know, it was just that simple. It will ease out.
Speaker 4 (35:40):
So you think that Laura should keep dating this guy
and just deal with the toxicity until it burns out. Yeah,
it will burn out, Okay, definitely, Yeah, maybe.
Speaker 15 (35:51):
I mean it's just years.
Speaker 6 (35:53):
I've been with my husband for seven years. I would
say in the last two and a half it has
died down to where.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
It's that's cool.
Speaker 4 (36:02):
Okay, So five years Laura, and then maybe it'll be better.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
So call up with some advice for our listener Laura,
who is in a spot where she's trying to figure
out if she should keep dating this guy that she
says is awesome. It's just he has a toxic baby.
Speaker 10 (36:17):
Mom.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
We got him text in a lot of a few
texts actually that say fighter.
Speaker 4 (36:22):
That's probably that's definitely an urge. Yeah, there's definitely something
you want to do, But I don't think that would help.
That might have made the situation a little more toxic.
Speaker 3 (36:29):
Hello, Amber, So what advice would you have for our
listener Laura, who is wondering if she should break up
with this dude or keep dating him when he's got
a toxic baby.
Speaker 5 (36:39):
Mom, I would say she should drop him.
Speaker 11 (36:45):
I actually just got out of a relationship.
Speaker 5 (36:47):
With a guy that had an ex wife that was
dressed kind of controlling the life. Like I couldn't even
be around him when their son was there, just because
you wanted to control. And yeah, and we were together
for a year and like he's like, wait till a
year and then he can meet the sun and hang
(37:07):
out with the sun. And then the year came and
nothing changed. Wow, And you know, he wasn't willing to
make any boundaries with her at all. So I would
say that she should have a conversation with him and
just kind of find out if he's willing to, like,
if he's willing to stand up to her, and he's not,
then I think you should just move on because there's
lots of more there's lots of people out there that would,
(37:31):
you know, do better.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
It's interesting how that'll happen. You know, people will break
up and especially if they were in a relationship that
was controlling, the person who was the controlling one will
still try to control them if they if they have contact, right,
if they have a kid, they'll still try to do
things to exert some power and control over them. If
they start dating somebody new, they want to intervene in
their dating life and stuff like that, and that's terrible
(37:54):
to do because you're not together anymore. Let them make
their own decisions.
Speaker 4 (37:58):
Well, especially when they weaponize the children exactly, and that
happens a lot, it does, And it's so sad because
the people that do weaponize the kids.
Speaker 3 (38:07):
I've noticed when i've met those people, those type of people,
and I've met a few of them, they seem like
they're just all about their kids and so interested in
their well being, right, except it does so much damage
to children, like it is horrible to do that to
a kid, horrible, But they have no problem doing it,
and they say they're looking out for their kids well being. Well,
(38:29):
you're causing them years and years and years and years
and years of trauma and it's gonna take a long
time to heal from that, if they even do know
to heal from it. So don't do that, right, keep
it between the adults, keep the kids out of it.
It's hard. It's hard, though, I'm sure in that situation
to do that, but I've seen it happen a lot.
Speaker 4 (38:49):
Oh yeah, are you tearing up? Yeah, it makes me sad.
It is sad, and yeah, it is. It's very deeply emotional.
Speaker 3 (38:55):
Yeah, because people don't realize the type of damage that
it can do, and I don't even know if they
I don't even blame some people necessarily, because you literally,
if you haven't looked into the amount of emotional and
just emotional damage that it can do on a mental level,
if you're not really like, mental health is my passion? Really,
(39:17):
so like, if you haven't looked into it, you're you're ignorant.
I don't mean that as an insult. You just don't
know the kind of damage that it can do. But
even weaponizing your kids a little bit, or talking trash
about the other parent to your kid does so much
deep damage you don't even understand how, So don't do
that if you care about your kids. Calls up Aita
eight three four three one A six to one our
(39:38):
listener Laura was asking should she continue dating this dude
that she really likes because he has a toxic baby.
Speaker 22 (39:45):
Mom.
Speaker 3 (39:45):
Hey Jackie, Hey, good morning, good morning. So what advice
do you have for Laura?
Speaker 11 (39:53):
I'm, you know, I think he should sit with it.
But I also think that there's some sticky layers here
because of the child. And I don't know how old
they are or anything, but I think that it's important
to note. You know, obviously you care about this man,
and that's really important, but he's also a package deal
(40:13):
with his kid, and if you have love for this
kid that you want to grow up with and share
a life with, I think that that's a very important
layer to consider in making this choice, not just considering
the baby mama, because I do believe that this child
is owed the opportunity to have a partnership with his
(40:34):
parents or a co parenting situation that's healthy. And you know,
if you can really see yourself with this man and
his child as a as a really great family, that
will happen in time. And I really think it has
to do with communication with a child's mom and dad
(40:54):
with you in the room, and creating a healthy partnership
for this kid, especially as you see yourself with this person.
It's a very important dynamic. And I don't know, just
something to consider because you clearly really care about this guy,
but he also has you know, a kinder consider and
that's just a you know.
Speaker 6 (41:13):
A.
Speaker 11 (41:15):
Layer that's scary sometimes because I don't know.
Speaker 6 (41:19):
If you're a mom or it's hard.
Speaker 11 (41:22):
That's good advice with it if you really care about him.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
Thank you for the phone call. Jackie. That's great advice.
Appreciate it.
Speaker 4 (41:27):
I mean it's a great point, Jackie Layers, because I
mean all these kind of situations are complicated. It's just
what are you willing to deal with?
Speaker 3 (41:33):
Exactly? Call us up eight of eight, three, four, three
or six one? Oh yeah, who's excited right now? Because
come into the stage. It's Nina.
Speaker 17 (41:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (41:46):
Is she yes?
Speaker 2 (41:48):
Is she trendy?
Speaker 3 (41:50):
Absolutely? And she's about to get indy and trendy for
you with what's trending with Nina Tipple? Well, because she's
working for you, that's a great you know what's trending? Weddings?
Speaker 15 (42:03):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (42:05):
Speaking of that, I mean, bachelor is in the house,
celebrating a bachelor party. It's zam Bernina to get all
trend doing it, and that's exactly what we're doing. Weddings
are trending. I mean, we're approaching wedding season and there
is this list that has gone viral because it's allegedly
the new role, the new rules for weddings in twenty
twenty three.
Speaker 4 (42:25):
I'm just gonna give you the top five to give
you kind of an idea of where this is going.
The number one rule is no more engagement parties. Two,
no outdoor summer weddings. Three your closest friends should control
the guest list for it's entirely fine to deny anyone
a plus one for any reason. I strongly disagree with this.
(42:47):
And five skip the bridle party. What Yeah, there's even
no kids on the list as number nine, like I
get it to each their ows.
Speaker 3 (42:55):
Number six don't have don't have a wedding, just don't
do anything.
Speaker 4 (43:01):
Yeah no, it says never say black tie optional anyway.
Speaker 5 (43:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (43:05):
So I don't know what's going on here and why
it's such a bunch of pooh poos, But I think
they're trying to steer away from the traditional wedding type rules.
Speaker 3 (43:14):
And I don't know. Just do what you want.
Speaker 4 (43:16):
It's your day, Yeah, do it however you want. I
don't think there should be rules on it. I don't
think there should either.
Speaker 3 (43:20):
I do like this time of year, though, This is
the time of year where everybody brags about how many
friends they have are getting married? How much like how
because those people that have a lot of friends and
want you to know they have a lot of friends,
they'll start posting on social media NonStop about ugh, I
have so many weddings to go to this summer, Like
every weekend is basically booked to the wedding. How am
I going to do anything this summer Because I'm going
(43:41):
to weddings every single weekend. I love that.
Speaker 4 (43:45):
That's how you see it. Meanwhile, I'm like, oh, it's
so expensive to go to all of these wedding another dress.
Speaker 3 (43:51):
Yeah, that's because Nino's that person who's got so many
weddings to go to. The Jubil show on demand Jeubils
dirty little Secret. Hey, what's up? Let's go pretty good?
(44:11):
How are you?
Speaker 10 (44:12):
Oh not bad?
Speaker 3 (44:13):
You have a dirty little secret?
Speaker 10 (44:14):
Huh?
Speaker 21 (44:15):
I do?
Speaker 3 (44:18):
Uh?
Speaker 11 (44:19):
Let me see.
Speaker 21 (44:19):
I'll explain this.
Speaker 16 (44:21):
So I guess throughout high school I had uh, I
had these two friends.
Speaker 3 (44:25):
Most emails and stuff, and one of them, like one
of them.
Speaker 22 (44:30):
Like always complimented how their mom looked really.
Speaker 3 (44:32):
Attractive and stuff like that.
Speaker 16 (44:34):
Okay, Well, after high school, like later on I got
into college and stuff, we kind of like sell apart
a little bit. I mean like we still kept in touch,
but got busy with stuff, you know, short time coming
actually ended up hooking up with that mom you did?
Speaker 3 (44:56):
No way? Yeah, does your friend know, how'd that happen?
Speaker 1 (45:06):
I mean, like we every once.
Speaker 6 (45:08):
In a while, we all just hang out and stuff and.
Speaker 16 (45:12):
Just just hang out do random things, and then just
one night it kind of happened.
Speaker 21 (45:19):
Man.
Speaker 4 (45:19):
I've always wanted to do that with your friend's mom, ye,
like a certain mom or just any mom.
Speaker 3 (45:24):
Just anyone. I just think it'd be cool to do it.
It would be such a weird thing to be like,
this is my friend's mom. This is so weird.
Speaker 1 (45:29):
It's so weird.
Speaker 6 (45:30):
Yeah, it was a little weird.
Speaker 1 (45:32):
How was it?
Speaker 19 (45:33):
We know?
Speaker 4 (45:36):
I mean I was thinking the same thing.
Speaker 3 (45:37):
But I'm glad to ask.
Speaker 10 (45:40):
Pretty damn good.
Speaker 3 (45:43):
Well, thank you for telling you what your journ little secret?
Speaker 9 (45:45):
Man?
Speaker 3 (45:46):
Yeah, I have a good one, dude. Thank you. It
was funny, right bye bye? What's your dirty little secret?
It's always fun when you have to have a meeting
with your bosses and then they tell you something that
they don't approve of that you've been doing. It's the
Jubile Show. It's hits one of six point one, and
(46:07):
there was something that we had a meeting about the
other day that we've been instructed to not do on
the air anymore. So I figure let's do it a
whole lot right now, see how it goes, and see
what happens, right nin oh, yeah, sure, whatever you want.
We had a meeting the other day and we were
instructed to not call each other nicknames. I already messed
(46:31):
that up right yesterday. Nina calls Nina calls everybody nicknames.
You have nicknames for pretty much every single person in
your life.
Speaker 4 (46:37):
I feel like I do, like, if I like you,
you get a nickname, and then if you don't have one,
then you just know where you stand.
Speaker 3 (46:43):
Now, if you know Nina, you know exactly where you stand.
With their Brad's looking at her sideways right now, produce
a bread.
Speaker 4 (46:48):
I call you, Bradley.
Speaker 3 (46:50):
It's still the It's not really much of a nick name.
But yeah, they did. They were talking to us and
they were talking about the show things that they liked
and didn't like. And one of the notes that we
got back was so, yeah, uh, the nickname thing, don't
get it and don't like it, and don't do the
(47:12):
nickname thing on the air anymore.
Speaker 10 (47:14):
Right.
Speaker 4 (47:15):
So I'm looking at the screen like I'll try.
Speaker 9 (47:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (47:21):
I was like, I don't know how Nina's gonna do it.
Speaker 4 (47:23):
I know it's really hard for me, especially with Juwbol,
just because I've just been calling him everything but Jubil
his entire life. So I'm working on it.
Speaker 3 (47:32):
Yeah, it's tough too. You know, if you call somebody
something and you know them as that, it is hard
to break out of that, right, And it's weird to
even hear you say Jewbol, I know, right with the
l on it, because we've known each other for what
almost like twenty years. Yeah, right, And I don't think
I remember you ever calling me Jubel.
Speaker 4 (47:52):
I don't think I ever related it either. Ye wait,
really no, never, It's like Jubes boobs, Jubi booby, I
mean all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1 (47:59):
It just that's kind of cute.
Speaker 3 (48:01):
Well, I've got one of those names that most people
use some sort of abbreviation of. I've noticed that most
people in my life do. At some point after I
meet someone, I think they get tired of the old
part and so that Jubes Jube, things like that. Yeah,
you know that, that's just I have one of those names.
I think that people just are, like, I don't want
to say the whole bull. This kind of sounds like
(48:23):
you're about to pute you know, does anybody ever just
call you bawl no ball? Yeah, I've had some I've
had people call me ball I had. Yeah, I've had
people call me that too, So I think it's just
one of those names.
Speaker 4 (48:37):
Yeah, I mean, do you have one of those names?
And some people just have one like Victoria. Everybody comes
at you with a different name too.
Speaker 6 (48:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (48:43):
I usually get called v by like my family and
like family friends, and then Tory Vic.
Speaker 2 (48:49):
My grandusbend, just calls me Veronica. We let that slide.
Speaker 1 (48:54):
I don't want to get mad at that.
Speaker 3 (48:59):
Yeah, that's forgetting.
Speaker 2 (49:04):
I feel bad, but I just don't say anything.
Speaker 10 (49:06):
I know it.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
Yeah it's close enough.
Speaker 3 (49:10):
Hey Victor, that's hilarious. But are you even friends with
someone if you don't call them a nickname? That was
the question that Nina had, I know, because that's what
I was.
Speaker 4 (49:23):
Just thinking, like, there isn't anybody that I'm really good
friends with that I don't have a nickname for. And
aside from that, like what names do you respond to?
Many fames are the best.
Speaker 12 (49:35):
I feel like, if you're close to someone, you just
start calling them like a shorter version of their name,
and it just becomes like a thing.
Speaker 3 (49:41):
And that's why.
Speaker 4 (49:43):
Well, it's funny when your nickname's crazy. Like if I'm
screaming Booby across the hallway and Jubs responds to it,
and then my friends would call me.
Speaker 3 (49:51):
Can I say?
Speaker 4 (49:52):
They would call me Nina Penis for whatever reason, that's
your nickname with your friends.
Speaker 3 (49:57):
Wow, they call me I don't know. Actually, nicknames are
usually to make things shorter. I made her name longer Penis.
Speaker 4 (50:08):
Because it was Nina Penis, and then it turned into
Meina Penis, and then people would call me Pene, so
like they'd scream the hall.
Speaker 3 (50:15):
Pen what's up? That's the funny part.
Speaker 4 (50:21):
I like when you if you scream booby, it's weird
to say word for me to say it since you
call me that. Down the hallway at work, there's a
sports station here, So every time you do that, I
know the sports guys are probably poking their head out,
like we're.
Speaker 3 (50:38):
We're talking about how the team one last night. I've
never felt so much astrong. I know that's going on.
We're pretty lucky. I'm gonna start calling you by your
nickname now down the hallway and wash their doors close
like no way, dude, not interested in looking at that.
Speaker 10 (50:59):
I liked warts and booth.
Speaker 4 (51:04):
We got everybody part covered here, Veronica.
Speaker 6 (51:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (51:08):
Another note that we got from we're talking about how
we had a meeting the other day and our bosses
told us some things that they did not want us
to do on the air. One of those was called
each other their nicknames, although I think they might be
excited about Nina Penis get flat real quick. Another another
note that we got was they want Victoria to talk
(51:29):
earlier and more often.
Speaker 2 (51:33):
I was talking about this with Sydney last night.
Speaker 12 (51:36):
My roommate, Wow, my roommate, and she says, she's like, well, Victoria,
you're someone who likes to observe things and like a
people watcher, and so I think that's what happens in
the room. I just start observing and watching, and I
like the conversation and I like watching it play out
that I forget I have to also be a part
of said conversation.
Speaker 2 (51:57):
Yeah, until y'all look at me like not.
Speaker 3 (52:00):
An accounting job.
Speaker 15 (52:03):
Radio.
Speaker 4 (52:04):
Yeah, my bad. But I'm glad you had that like
introspective moment where you're like, I just like to watch people.
Speaker 2 (52:11):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (52:12):
I do too, But you need to describe what you see, this.
Speaker 3 (52:16):
Is a job where you're supposed to use your voice.
Speaker 2 (52:20):
Yeah, we also had that conversation.
Speaker 3 (52:22):
Yeah, there is a microphone right in front of you.
Speaker 1 (52:25):
Wild You never know you're doing good though.
Speaker 2 (52:29):
That's a lot of words so far that the adrenaline
for my morning is still kicking.
Speaker 3 (52:35):
I'm trying to remember what other notes we had from
the meeting of things that we are not supposed to do.
Speaker 4 (52:39):
Well, there was one that we're supposed to do or
you specifically, you're supposed to have more of a commanding voice.
Speaker 3 (52:44):
Oh, that's that's right. Yeah, yeah, I forgot about that.
I'm supposed to have more of a commanding voice, and
I don't even know how to do that necessarily. I
don't know what. Try it out right now. See I
wasn't commanding at all. I'm gonna try it out right now,
so I'm not actually for once in my life. Yeah,
(53:12):
so I'm trying to I'll figure out work on the
commanding voice thing. Will you do it good?
Speaker 4 (53:15):
When the airhorns hit?
Speaker 3 (53:17):
Yeah, that is true. Every time we talk. I'll just
do that every single time.
Speaker 4 (53:27):
Are you ready for it?
Speaker 3 (53:30):
Joomy booby? Yeah, I'll just have to do this every
single time, Yo. That was the segments that when we're
just doing right there about our meeting with our bosses,
and it is done. You know what, if your Pune
Brank happens every single hour on the twenties, the next
one is coming up in just a few minutes. It's
(53:51):
the Jewel Show. Yeah, heard that much better? Yeah?
Speaker 10 (53:54):
I love that?
Speaker 3 (53:54):
All right, sweet, your phone break is coming up in
just a few minutes every single hour on the twenties.
That's see, that wasn't commanding at all. Every single hour
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