April 13, 2023 • 29 mins
When you first start dating someone, what crime(s) are you ok with them having already committed? We are asking that at the start of the episode because of something Nina overheard the other day and are not asking the question ourselves. Jubal Fresh pranks a piano teacher who sent her piano into the shop in this Jubal Phone Prank, one listener thinks her boyfriend is cheating on her because of what she found in his laundry when he returned from Las Vegas in this War of the Roses to Catch a Cheater, one of our listeners has a Dirty Little Secret that she wants to tell us that she has been keeping from her family for the past 15 years, and one young celebrity couple just got engaged and the internet is going crazy, so now we are asking listeners to call in to see if young marriages actually last?!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Jewel Show on demand. Dating a felon can have
its perks? Really, Didjewels Show? Yeah? Call us up right now.
We're asking this question when you first start dating somebody,
what crimes are you cool with? Because Nina overheard something
the other day that she'll tell you in just a second.
But we have to ask you that question because people
are cool with all kinds of things, and I think
that dating a felon can have its perks because it
(00:20):
depends on what kind of crime. Right, kind of crimes
are considered felony? Auto theft, Oh okay, that's definitely a felony.
But if you date someone who's a car thief right
one morning, why are you looking at me? While you
say that? You can just roll over and wake up
and you're like, oh hey, this is pretty nice. This
(00:41):
is greg. We got a Nubugatti there. I feel wonderful.
I love you so much, by the way, I'll see
you in five to ten years, you know, So call
us up right now. Eight to eighty three four three
one six one text in foward to six one. When
you first start dating somebody, what crimes are you cool with?
Nina asked this question because of something that you heard
Doctor Phil. Yeah. Yeah, So my mom records Doctor Phil
(01:04):
and every once in a while she gets in the
mood to watch it. Last night was one of those nights.
So I do live with my parents. In case you're wondering,
I was getting wine. She was watching Doctor Phil. But
there was a woman on the show that was talking
about how she was married to this man who had
kidnapped two women and had them in their basement and
he didn't all of a sudden get a conscious until
(01:25):
she told him that she was pregnant, and so then
he like released the women and didn't end up killing
them as he intended. So you're killed me. You married
a murderer and then got up sip when you had
a kid that he was still murdered. What right? So
that part because then she revealed that he had killed
somebody at eighteen, and so when she married him, she
(01:47):
knew he was a murderer. And so I'm standing in
the kitchen just looking at the TV, like, what is
wrong with this woman? You married somebody that you knew
was a murderer and then you know But then my
mom was like, well, what were the circumstances. She's like,
I'm not saying I'd marry a murderer. But you know,
then we just got into this big discussion and I
wanted to talk to you guys about it because what
(02:07):
crimes aren't you okay with? I guess it depends, right,
it's conditional maybe right, like if um, if it was
self defense, okay, true self defense Okay. Also, you still
probably got a lot of baggage from that. I don't
know if I want to date you, but maybe you know,
but if it was just cold blooded murder, I don't
know how people marry people like that, but they do.
It happens a lot. How about it all the time
(02:28):
because everybody wants to see the best in people. Everybody
wants to give people second chances. I mean, murder is
a hard note for me. But I definitely did data
carthy for a while. Yeah. I never woke up in
a new bugan. No, probably woke up in some old
Hona civics because those are that they steal. You nailed it,
(02:48):
like all the parts of the civics, like where it
was a hat. So did he get arrested? Did he
end up getting arrested time? A few times? So yeah,
a few different times. And then also like would sell
drugs and stuff. But this was a different time of
my life. I was a different person, So I wouldn't
do that again. So you wouldn't date a karthief again. No,
I wouldn't recommend it. Well what about you, It's all
(03:08):
right for you. Um, you know, like I said, it
would depend on we're back to murder. Yeah, I'm back
to murder in my head. And it would be conditional. Also,
you know, of course with everything in life, because humans
are how we are, It would depend how hot they were, right, Like, like,
if you're super hot, you probably can get away with murder.
I might date you, but I would probably anything that
(03:30):
it was heist related. I think would actually be kind
of hot. I like heist movies. You know that also robbery? Yeah,
so date a robber, but so like heist. This is
like an elevated word for a robber. Yeah, classy robber. Yeah,
like a like a heist is like a where you
get a group of people together and it's really planned
out and you got blueprints of something and you're trying
(03:51):
to figure out how to get around all the security cameras.
What is this? You know, maybe there's maybe she's trying
to rob from a museum or something that's kind of hot. Yeah,
let's go to the museum. I like going to museum,
you know, to walk around the museum on a date
and then go, hey, are you thinking about robbing this
place later? That's so hard. He's so serious. Name Tom. Yeah,
what crimes are you cool with when it comes to dating? Well,
(04:14):
I'm cool with anything reasonable. I guess nothing. No, you know,
crazy amount of murders or anything, but cool crazy amount?
So like, what's a crazy amount? Like over two or
we're gonna well over five? Yeah? Like, well, so about
eleven years ago, I met this woman that's like a
nine and I'm like a five or six, and she's
(04:37):
telling me about a involuntary man spotter chart. She was
a prison for a few years, end up getting dropped
and getting out. Here we are eleven years later, happily
married for ten years and four kids and loyal and
that's amazing. You know what, Tom, you just made me.
I always try to look at the positives in everything. Right,
(04:58):
you just gave me some insight on something. So she
did prison time, right? Yeah? How long? Four to five years?
Like that? Four to five years? So that shows me
if I start dating somebody and they had done time
in prison. We'll guess what. There's no fear of commitment there, right,
I mean they're gonna stay married. I'm not gonna go anywhere.
(05:22):
They're not scared of getting locked up for a little
while in a relationship, are getting cuffed up, you know
what I mean. Thank you for your call to the
Jewil Show on demand. It's another Jewbil phone frame. Today
mornings onwentes Hello, hey, hi there, this is Pete Eagan's
(05:47):
calling from Pianos. I was looking for Valerie. This is me, Hey,
val how are you? I'm great? Thank you? How are you?
I am doing pretty good today. I'm I like to say,
because I worked on the piano. Biz I'm grand is
like a piano, Yeah yeah, kind of like your piano,
(06:07):
your grand piano. Yeah, so what's going on? So we
did pick it up because it had to be serviced. Bill,
don't understand why you couldn't come to the house, which
that's okay. Just a quick question about the piano. Is
that piano you need in that anytime soon? Yeah? It
(06:28):
kind of my job. I'm a piano teacher. Yeah yeah,
I'm just gonna come o say yep, there's a little
bit of a little bit of an issue here. Have
you noticed anything about where the store is? Um? Should
I have? It's on a hill? Okay. When they were
(06:49):
unloading the piano, Gus didn't put the brakes on the wheels,
didn't tie it down, didn't make sure that other people
were there when he started rolling it out of the truck,
and it is now down at the bottom of the hill. Well,
are you joking right now? I wish I left. This
(07:12):
is not funny, not funny, not funny, not cool. Wait
a second, that's a thirty five thousand dollars dating grand Yeah,
yes it is. And I would say that's about how
many pieces it's in. Oh my god, Oh my god,
Oh my god. Okay, first of all, who's guts because
Gus is going to be buying me a new piano.
If that's the case, well, Gus is one of them.
He's you know, he's one of our delivery guys. And
(07:35):
I trust me. I have had a few strong words
with Gus. Is there a manager of that I can
speak with? Perhaps, ye, that would be me. That's why
I'm making the phone. Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna calm down.
I'm gonna come down and we're gonna talk about this rationally.
Understand why you might buy What are we gonna do?
I completely understand how I'm upsetting this would be that, Yeah,
that piano is probably very important to you, very expensive,
(07:57):
Like you said, thirty five thousand dollars piano. It is
that I don't have thirty five thousand dollars. It was
a gift and my parents paid for it, and they're
not gonna buy me a new piano. You're gonna have
to buy me a new piano because you guys broke it,
so you're gonna have to replace it. I figured this
wasn't going to be a good phone call. This wasn't
gonna be good news. Yet that idea, I think we
can get it back to you in a couple of days.
(08:18):
I just youah, like shit, So I'll put back together,
because if you're gonna give it to me like humpy dumpy,
that's not gonna work. I've got Gus down the street.
He's picking up all the pieces and he's gonna go
to the store after that and get some super glue,
and you're gonna glue by piano back together. That's ridiculous
because even need you need to get me a new piano.
You can't pay the piano that's it thirty thousand pieces
(08:40):
and put it back together. That's ridiculous. I do want
to make this better for you. We just don't have
that kind of money here. How about a guitar and
a drum set. You cannot replace a Baby Graham piano
with a drum set. That's ridiculous. What would your name
to get tea? What's your last name? I'm gonna call
corporate and have you reported? Pete Ekids is my name?
(09:00):
Eakins is my last name? Your name? It's Pete Kins.
Are you kidding me right now? Yeah? Yeah, turned out
we're over really well in high school. Pete Kins, Pete Kins.
We need to get my piano replaced. What are we
gonna do right now? How are we fixing that? Yeah?
Because this is actually Jewel from The Jewil Show doing
a phone prank on you and your brother Saul set
you up. I am going to kill you, I mean him,
(09:27):
Oh my god. The Jewel Show on demand. It's time
War of the Roses only on The Jewil Show. Angie
is on the phone today for War of the Roses
to catch a cheater, and she thinks that her boyfriend
of seven years named Will might be messing around. So
we'll see if we can help her out. Angie, thank
you for coming on the show. Tell us what's going on.
(09:48):
I guess, like you said, I think my boyfriend Will
has been cheating. Um, he just got back from a
boy's weekend in Vegas, and ever since you got back,
he's been kind of distant and dismissive. And I was
like doing his laundry and one of his shirts had
like a smudge of like makeup or like lipstick on it. Okay,
and you know for sure it was lipstick. I mean,
(10:08):
there's really no way to tell. I mean, you definitely know, Yeah,
it's not mine. And I was doing his laundry from
his trip, so it's not mine. So in the seven
years that you guys have been together, has there ever
been like another moment where you felt like maybe he
was being sketchy or is this the first time? No,
this was the first time. Do you know the boys
that he was on the boys trip with? Yes, I do,
(10:31):
they're college friends. Do you think you're looking for it
because he went to Vegas with his boys? It was
mainly the shirt. I mean, the same on the shirt
makes sense. I just asked a question because you know
what happens a lot. I could have been on a
lot of dudes trip to Vegas, right, And there's always
a few girlfriends or a few wives that are just
convinced that their husbands or boyfriends are going to cheap right.
(10:51):
And it always it always makes me laugh because I'm
like to think about it, how hard was it for
your boyfriend or husband to sleep with you? You You think
he said go to Vegas for the weekend and able
to you know, it's cool that you think he's he's
all that, but trust me, it's still his heart for him. Probably.
But I will say, Angie, like, if I were you,
I would also be alarmed by lipstick on a shirt
(11:12):
or any kind of face makeup on a shirt. I
would be freaking out immediately. But just maybe was it
a strip club? So before we start to really jump
to conclusions, it could be did you ask him about it? Um? No,
I haven't. I mean I thought of the strip club thing,
but I don't know. It's just also because you've been
(11:34):
so distant and dismissive since he got back, like if
you hadn't been distant and dismissive, I would, you know,
probably think it was maybe like a strip club or something.
But because he's also acting weird and then there's makeup
on the shirt, match is kind of like yeah, already
dis and I get well, how's he been dismissive? What
do you mean by that? She's just kind of dry
(11:56):
and like quick to like, you know, we're on the phone,
you quick to come off the phone or like, um,
just kind of like when he comes home, it's all
like really dry and quick, and then he'll run off
to the gym or something. Do you trust the friends
that he was with? Okay, I mean they're his friends,
(12:16):
so you know they they're gonna have his back. Does
he have the type of friends that would stop him
from doing something if he was going to that's a
great point. Well, so in his group of friends, he's
the only one that's not single. They're all single. That's
another thing to think about too. Okay, so were you
watching like stories and stuff while they were out on
the weekend. Nothing popped up on social either. They didn't
(12:38):
really post anything, which I guess is not a good
sign either that no one was posting not to like
get you all riled up because this I'm having anxiety
for you right now. I don't know I to tell
you in this one because I don't feel like it
feels good. Yeah, which is why I didn't confront him first.
It's just kind of like, you know, all right, cool, Well,
(12:59):
we'll trying. We'll see if we can figure it out
for you. You You already told us about grocery store he
shops at, So we'll play a song come back, and
then call him and pretend to be from that grocery
store and say that every single month week we choose
one rewards card remember at random who gets free flowers
delivered from our beautiful, brand new floral department. And we'll
see if he believes that, and see if he sends
the flowers see you or to somebody else. Okay, okay,
so good, thank you. All right, we'll play a song
(13:21):
come back and get your War of the Roses to
Catch a Cheater next. Just joining us for today's War
of the Roses to Catch a Cheater. Angie is on
the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend of seven
years might be cheating on her. His name is Will.
Before we call him to try to find out if
he is cheating. Why don't you just kind of recap
what's going on. Yeah, so he went on a boys'
weekend to Vegas with a few of his friends, and
(13:45):
ever since he got back, he's been super distant and dismissive.
And then I was helping him with laundry while he
was out for my at work and one of his
shirts had a lipstick and kind of makeup smudge on it.
Mm see, this is the part I don't like. Yeah,
I just I don't know what to do. We're about
to call him from the grocery store that he shops
at and is the rewards card remember at and pretend
(14:06):
to be from there and say, every single month we
chose one rewards card remember at random, who gets free
flowers delivered anywhere in the whole world. Just a hard
way of saying thank you for shopping. We'll see if
if he believes that, and where he sends those flowers,
if he sends them to his girlfriend, Angie or somewhere else.
All right, Angie, Ready, ready, Okay, I'm gonna dollars number
right now here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Terrorible
(14:34):
calling from grocery story. I was looking for our rewards card.
Remember Will, Yeah, this is Will. Congratulations you're this month's
big winner. What did I win? What did I win?
The flowers? Okay, I didn't. I don't remember shinning up
for any three flowers or anything like that you did
(14:54):
when you became a rewards card member with us. Because
it's a new thing we're doing. We just redesigned our
floral department. It's new and improved and we've got so
many more options. Also, we're doing delivery now, so in
honor of that and to say thank you for shopping,
every single month, we choose one rewards card member at
random who gets free flowers delivered anywhere in the entire world,
completely free. Just our way of saying thank you for shopping. So,
(15:17):
thank you, thank you. What you've won is thirty six
long stim red roses, a box of chocolates, and some balloons.
Oh cool, okay, cool, I know so much. To send
it to my girlfriend? Your girlfriend? Yeah, so I'm okay,
you want what's your girlfriend's name? Andree you can send
(15:37):
a card along with this. Would you like to send
a card? Uh? Yeah, sure? What would you like it
to say? Well? All our seventh year anniversary is coming
up in like seeing like a month, seven years. But yeah,
I guess just say like happy anniversary, Andrey, sure, I
can do that. Just between me and you, guy to
(15:59):
guy here, you ever mess around on your girl friend?
I don't think there's any of your business. But I
mean I don't know you. I think it is kind
of my business. Because this is actually Jewel from Jewel Show.
It's a radio show, and we do a segment called
War of the Roses to catch a cheet to wear
if your significant other things that you have cheater might
be cheating. We try to see if you send flowers
to somebody else order them and your girlfriend Angie is
(16:21):
actually on the phone, has been listening this whole time. Oh,
like wow, I can't I mean, I can't believe you're
doing this. Andrew, why do you think I'm like, what's
going on? Why do you think I'm cheating on you?
Because I went to Vegas to like a bunch of
guy friends, Like why don't? I mean, yeah, it's not
because you went to Vegas with the guys. It's because
(16:41):
what I found after you came back from Vegas now
was doing your laundry. What did you find, Like, what
are you talking about? What did you find? That blue shirt?
The button down blue shirt that you always have that
you always wear. It had like a smudge of like
lipstick or makeup foundation or something on it, like on
the car. Okay, yeah, so that so you want to
(17:04):
tell me about that and where the that came from
because it's not my makeup obviously I wasn't there. Where'd
the list that come from? Will? Okay? Babe? Um, So
I'm going to be honest with you, so don't get
upset and I just just hear me out. Okay, okay,
all right, So last weekend at Vegas, we're at this
(17:25):
club and a bunch of beautiful girls came over to
our cable and, um, you know, just hung out with
us all night and then just one cute girl and
I was just like chatting and had a really good
chemistry and I kind of a bunch of beautiful girls Like,
what what the you mean? Will? Why would I mean
specually describe them as beautiful to me? And this more
(17:49):
it's Vegas, Like I don't care if it's Mars. Why
would you tell me that they're beautiful? Beautiful girls go
to Vegas? Like I don't want to tell, well, well
this is stupid. Why would you even just keep going?
But why would you even say? That's to say it
was not a smart thing to say. No I I yeah,
but okay, so let me start over. The ugly girl
(18:11):
came up your cable, I mean annoying. What happened? Will? Um? Okay,
so we were they're hanging out. I was shouting with
one girl, like great chemistry with her, so she shat
in my lap and I had a great time. I
didn't kiss her, but um, I you know the music playing,
start think maybe because you're shaying my lap, she got
(18:32):
some leaps fit on my uh shirt. You know, it
made me second guess, like, Okay, I'm in this relationship
with you for like seven years, and now I'm attracted
to somebody else. I might be attractive to somebody else,
so I don't. I'm just really conflicted, Like you know,
I just don't know. Uh, big d answers. But I
did not cheat. I mean I sent you the flowers
so that you should be happy about that. I didn't
(18:53):
miss send it to some other random girl. I mean, well,
it was nice that you sent flowers to your girlfriend,
but you're also telling her that you had chemistry and
you are attracted to another one while you were in Vegas.
So yeah, yeah, breathe the room. Yeah, I'm more upset
about the fact that you called them beautiful cute and
then she sat on your lap, which is completely inappropriate
after we've been together for seven years and we lived
(19:16):
together and we have a dog together. So what are
you trying to tell me right now? Well, because you're
telling me you had chemistry with another woman, you're telling
me that you're second guessing our relationship after seven years
and do you know, like we're not on the best term.
Number one, we like last time we had sex, because
I think like a month ago, two months ago, it's
been forever. You're busy with work or the dog. I mean,
(19:37):
I love the dog. For like, I mean, it was
just nice that somebody appreciated me. And the girl was
very you know if she's saying how handsome I am
and that she old my hair, and it's just like,
it's just you don't give me any goblement and she does.
Oh she does, Okay, I know I don't mean that
she does. I mean, I mean she did, like I
don't I don't talk to right on that her. I don't.
I mean, it was one. It was a thing. I
(19:58):
don't even know her, like Richie lives. Yeah, I got it,
and you get it made your point? Will thank you whatever? Will?
H huh? Okay, So now okay, so you pissed. No,
I'm more than pissed. I'm done with this conversation. All right,
bye thing? Man, Well she hung out. Man, I'm dead,
(20:19):
you know, well, I will, I will. I'm dead. She's
gonna kill me. He's texting me right now. I'm dead. Yeah,
don't respond to those for a minute, Okay, Like, yeah,
o god, I will say that it is a great
thing that you were able to come completely clean, even
though it was packaged in a little bit of a
sloppy way. So you didn't do anything. You didn't you
(20:41):
didn't do anything physical with the girl on vegance. Oh dad,
I'm lap. I mean that's not cheating. Are you happy
with Angie? I mean I don't know. I mean, yeah,
she's great, but it's like we're not we're not on
the best terms. I mean it is when yeah, I
mean seven years, but it sounds like you really honestly,
(21:01):
we're just honest with yourself, right, there and that hurt
a little bit. But if that's the truth, then you
should definitely not be in it. Oh boy, killing well,
good luck, thanks, I need it. Well, good luck man.
And you know, every tough thing in life is a lesson.
So on the other side, you'll be able to go
(21:21):
to Vegas, you'll be able to go to those clubs
with those beautiful girls, and you won't even have to
worry about a girlfriend, it sounds like, and you won't
have to worry about somebody coming home with lipstick on
there sir. You know it's a win win for all
of you. Yeah, I guess I don't know, right. Good
luck to you, will good luck well alright kid, The
Jewels show on demand Jebils Dirty Little Secret. Hello, Hi, Hi,
(21:54):
what's up? How are you good? How are you good?
So you have a dirty little secret? I do hie.
By the way, I thank you for being so ready
and willing. Yeah, that's it's a fifteen year old secret,
so it's about time it comes out. Okay. So there's
(22:14):
a little backstory. So my mom and dad had my
brother and I. My mom wanted like the Brady Bunch kids,
and I guess my dad didn't. After my brother was born,
he went and got an affect to me. Okay, Um,
turns out my dad and mom it didn't work out.
My dad's not a great person, and no, it's fine.
It's so they divorced and my mom got soul custody
(22:37):
of us, and years later my dad remarried and they
were trying to adopt. And I was about nineteen years
old when I got the first call So this is
like fifteen years ago from an adoption agency and they
wanted to adopt. And I was like, why would you
give someone a kid who didn't have custody of their
(22:59):
own kids? Which shocked the adoption agency. Um, and so
then I had They asked if I had proof of this? Yeah,
So I snucked my mom's house, got the divorce decree
to send to them, and they were never able to
adopt because of me. Oh, do you feel bad about
(23:20):
it or do you feel like you did the right thing? Oh? No,
I did the right thing. Yeah, it sounds like you did. Well.
Oh that's that's my dirty little secrets, great dirty little
secret there is. Thank you, Thank you so much for
sharing You're Anna. I have to say you are such
a great addition to the show. I absolutely love you.
Oh my gosh, thank you so much. It's been tough adjecting,
(23:42):
so I really appreciate that. Thank you for telling us
your dirty little secret. Absolutely have a good one day
show on demand Police right now eight to eight three
four three one six one text in four one o
six one. Did you or someone you know get married
young and did it work out? That's the question we're asking.
We're asking it because Nina told us a story about
(24:03):
Millie Bobby Brown. Yeah, Millie Bobby Brown got engaged to
John bon Jovi's son, Jake bon Jovi. She's nineteen and
he's twenty. And so the biggest thing with this, aside
from being like, hey, congratulations, it's more like you're nineteen,
why are you getting married? You know? And I understand that,
but before you pooh pooh on somebody, you know, there's
(24:24):
got to be some good stuff about getting engaged young too, right. Also,
she is the star of Stranger Things. By the way,
if you don't know who Millie Bobby Brown is, yeah,
I was gonna say I didn't really know who she was,
but I've heard the name a ton Okay, so that's
who she is. And then bon Jovie's son. What do
you think bon Jovi is saying about that? Do you
think he's upset like their parents? Like you if your kid, Nina,
(24:45):
if you had kids, Yeah, and if they were nineteen
and twenty and they just gotten engaged, how would you
react to that? I would say, what are you doing?
Have your whole life to live, Let's stop this right now.
So I am that judge person at the same time.
That's why I'm like, let's just open my eye a
little bit. Yeah, because it does work out. Can you imagine, like,
think about who you were at nineteen though, like who
(25:06):
I was at nineteen, There's no way I could have
been married and million Bobby Brown, she's lived a million lives,
you know. But yeah, I was actually engaged young on accident.
I got engaged on accident when I was younger. I
was like eighteen years old. And how is it an accident?
It's always weird when I say that, people don't understand.
But what happened was I was with a girl in
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high school and we're still together a little while out
of high school. And one day we were laying in
bed together and it was in the morning. I was
like exhausted, right, and this is exactly what I said.
I said, you know, if we're together for like a
few more years, maybe we should think about getting married. Okay,
that was what I said. And when I said that,
(25:48):
she turned over to me and started crying and said yes,
and I was like, huh. And then before I could
even say anything, she was out of bed on the
phone called her mom and said he just asked me
to marry him, and then pass the phone to me
to talk to her mom. And I was like, hey, yeah,
(26:09):
no ring yet, No ring yet, because it didn't mean
to do that. Oh man. He took about a year
and I have to buy a ring. And I only
got a ring because it was Christmas time and I
was still talking to my family then, and my dad
was like, if you're engaged, you should probably buy her
a ring, and I was like, good points, Christmas. I
guess I'll go to his ails. Yeah. Yeah, I've made
(26:31):
a lot of mistakes relationships of my time, so don't
trust my judgment on things. Call us up right now
eight eight eight three four three one six one texten
four one oh six one. Did you get married young
and how did that work out for you? Hello Curtis
where you come from? Calling from Victoria. Oh hey, a
Canadian listener booting the Boot listen to the show. That's great.
What's up dude? How many people know that I speak Canadian?
(26:55):
That's cool? Yeah, well I looked at you guys every
day and they get you like Crystal Clear over here.
I was just calling about the getting engaged, you know
topic you guys were chatting about there. Yeah, Hi, Curtis,
this is Nina. Did you get engaged? Yeah? We got
engaged young, like seventeen and Mary at eighteen and seventeen
years later, I got two kids. I would definitely got
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lots of hate. Like, for sure, I feel like people
always want to think the worst, and I guess you
know what you think. When it's physically they're probably right.
But you know, everyone's different and everyone's journey is different,
and whatever works for you, it works for you, and
it doesn't really matter with anybody else. That's true, Curtis.
Just because some people can't do it doesn't mean that
it doesn't work sometimes, Curtis, what do you think it
(27:38):
was about your love that made you want to do
that so early? I'm not hating, I'm just genuinely curious
you know, it's a good question. I just knew I
didn't want to do with anybody else, and she was
the same thing, and there was just something I can't
really fully describe it, but yeah, I just thought I
would share that because of course people are going to
say bad thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. People love to young people,
(28:01):
they do. And I wonder how many couples that got
engaged young and married young would have actually made it
if they would have had more positive people in their life.
That's a great point. What's the secret to success for
you guys, because that's a lot of challenge. It's hard.
Like we've done counseling. You've done you know, individual counseling,
couple of counseling. You know, you're constantly working on your
relationship because especially when you start young, you know, you
(28:23):
change and you're not always going to be the exact
same person that you were. Um so, if you know,
but if that love is there, you have to kind
of find ways to you know, to say connected. Not
for me, I think a big thing is having your
own interests, in having your own hobbies and and you like,
you know, you live your life that way, and I
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think it's if it works out to be works out
pretty good, Curtis, thank you for your phone call. I'm
looking forward to the video that goes viral when you're
like seventy and you and your wife were talking about
how you've been together since you were seventeen, because I
cry every single time that I see one of those.
So I can't wait to look at your Instagram one
day and just bawl my eyes out. What a thing
to say it is. Can't wait for you to make
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thanks Manna, have a good days here bye. Um see
it as possible. Yeah, people do make it so Millie,
Bobby Brown and John bon Joey's kid. I keep calling
to call them Ron bon Jovi, Jake. I think that
they're gonna be together forever. Some Goods Crossed The Jewels
Show on demand
The Jewel Show on demand. Dating a felon can have
its perks? Really, Didjewels Show? Yeah? Call us up right now.
We're asking this question when you first start dating somebody,
what crimes are you cool with? Because Nina overheard something
the other day that she'll tell you in just a second.
But we have to ask you that question because people
are cool with all kinds of things, and I think
that dating a felon can have its perks because it
(00:20):
depends on what kind of crime. Right, kind of crimes
are considered felony? Auto theft, Oh okay, that's definitely a felony.
But if you date someone who's a car thief right
one morning, why are you looking at me? While you
say that? You can just roll over and wake up
and you're like, oh hey, this is pretty nice. This
(00:41):
is greg. We got a Nubugatti there. I feel wonderful.
I love you so much, by the way, I'll see
you in five to ten years, you know, So call
us up right now. Eight to eighty three four three
one six one text in foward to six one. When
you first start dating somebody, what crimes are you cool with?
Nina asked this question because of something that you heard
Doctor Phil. Yeah. Yeah, So my mom records Doctor Phil
(01:04):
and every once in a while she gets in the
mood to watch it. Last night was one of those nights.
So I do live with my parents. In case you're wondering,
I was getting wine. She was watching Doctor Phil. But
there was a woman on the show that was talking
about how she was married to this man who had
kidnapped two women and had them in their basement and
he didn't all of a sudden get a conscious until
(01:25):
she told him that she was pregnant, and so then
he like released the women and didn't end up killing
them as he intended. So you're killed me. You married
a murderer and then got up sip when you had
a kid that he was still murdered. What right? So
that part because then she revealed that he had killed
somebody at eighteen, and so when she married him, she
(01:47):
knew he was a murderer. And so I'm standing in
the kitchen just looking at the TV, like, what is
wrong with this woman? You married somebody that you knew
was a murderer and then you know But then my
mom was like, well, what were the circumstances. She's like,
I'm not saying I'd marry a murderer. But you know,
then we just got into this big discussion and I
wanted to talk to you guys about it because what
(02:07):
crimes aren't you okay with? I guess it depends, right,
it's conditional maybe right, like if um, if it was
self defense, okay, true self defense Okay. Also, you still
probably got a lot of baggage from that. I don't
know if I want to date you, but maybe you know,
but if it was just cold blooded murder, I don't
know how people marry people like that, but they do.
It happens a lot. How about it all the time
(02:28):
because everybody wants to see the best in people. Everybody
wants to give people second chances. I mean, murder is
a hard note for me. But I definitely did data
carthy for a while. Yeah. I never woke up in
a new bugan. No, probably woke up in some old
Hona civics because those are that they steal. You nailed it,
(02:48):
like all the parts of the civics, like where it
was a hat. So did he get arrested? Did he
end up getting arrested time? A few times? So yeah,
a few different times. And then also like would sell
drugs and stuff. But this was a different time of
my life. I was a different person, So I wouldn't
do that again. So you wouldn't date a karthief again. No,
I wouldn't recommend it. Well what about you, It's all
(03:08):
right for you. Um, you know, like I said, it
would depend on we're back to murder. Yeah, I'm back
to murder in my head. And it would be conditional. Also,
you know, of course with everything in life, because humans
are how we are, It would depend how hot they were, right, Like, like,
if you're super hot, you probably can get away with murder.
I might date you, but I would probably anything that
(03:30):
it was heist related. I think would actually be kind
of hot. I like heist movies. You know that also robbery? Yeah,
so date a robber, but so like heist. This is
like an elevated word for a robber. Yeah, classy robber. Yeah,
like a like a heist is like a where you
get a group of people together and it's really planned
out and you got blueprints of something and you're trying
(03:51):
to figure out how to get around all the security cameras.
What is this? You know, maybe there's maybe she's trying
to rob from a museum or something that's kind of hot. Yeah,
let's go to the museum. I like going to museum,
you know, to walk around the museum on a date
and then go, hey, are you thinking about robbing this
place later? That's so hard. He's so serious. Name Tom. Yeah,
what crimes are you cool with when it comes to dating? Well,
(04:14):
I'm cool with anything reasonable. I guess nothing. No, you know,
crazy amount of murders or anything, but cool crazy amount?
So like, what's a crazy amount? Like over two or
we're gonna well over five? Yeah? Like, well, so about
eleven years ago, I met this woman that's like a
nine and I'm like a five or six, and she's
(04:37):
telling me about a involuntary man spotter chart. She was
a prison for a few years, end up getting dropped
and getting out. Here we are eleven years later, happily
married for ten years and four kids and loyal and
that's amazing. You know what, Tom, you just made me.
I always try to look at the positives in everything. Right,
(04:58):
you just gave me some insight on something. So she
did prison time, right? Yeah? How long? Four to five years?
Like that? Four to five years? So that shows me
if I start dating somebody and they had done time
in prison. We'll guess what. There's no fear of commitment there, right,
I mean they're gonna stay married. I'm not gonna go anywhere.
(05:22):
They're not scared of getting locked up for a little
while in a relationship, are getting cuffed up, you know
what I mean. Thank you for your call to the
Jewil Show on demand. It's another Jewbil phone frame. Today
mornings onwentes Hello, hey, hi there, this is Pete Eagan's
(05:47):
calling from Pianos. I was looking for Valerie. This is me, Hey,
val how are you? I'm great? Thank you? How are you?
I am doing pretty good today. I'm I like to say,
because I worked on the piano. Biz I'm grand is
like a piano, Yeah yeah, kind of like your piano,
(06:07):
your grand piano. Yeah, so what's going on? So we
did pick it up because it had to be serviced. Bill,
don't understand why you couldn't come to the house, which
that's okay. Just a quick question about the piano. Is
that piano you need in that anytime soon? Yeah? It
(06:28):
kind of my job. I'm a piano teacher. Yeah yeah,
I'm just gonna come o say yep, there's a little
bit of a little bit of an issue here. Have
you noticed anything about where the store is? Um? Should
I have? It's on a hill? Okay. When they were
(06:49):
unloading the piano, Gus didn't put the brakes on the wheels,
didn't tie it down, didn't make sure that other people
were there when he started rolling it out of the truck,
and it is now down at the bottom of the hill. Well,
are you joking right now? I wish I left. This
(07:12):
is not funny, not funny, not funny, not cool. Wait
a second, that's a thirty five thousand dollars dating grand Yeah,
yes it is. And I would say that's about how
many pieces it's in. Oh my god, Oh my god,
Oh my god. Okay, first of all, who's guts because
Gus is going to be buying me a new piano.
If that's the case, well, Gus is one of them.
He's you know, he's one of our delivery guys. And
(07:35):
I trust me. I have had a few strong words
with Gus. Is there a manager of that I can
speak with? Perhaps, ye, that would be me. That's why
I'm making the phone. Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna calm down.
I'm gonna come down and we're gonna talk about this rationally.
Understand why you might buy What are we gonna do?
I completely understand how I'm upsetting this would be that, Yeah,
that piano is probably very important to you, very expensive,
(07:57):
Like you said, thirty five thousand dollars piano. It is
that I don't have thirty five thousand dollars. It was
a gift and my parents paid for it, and they're
not gonna buy me a new piano. You're gonna have
to buy me a new piano because you guys broke it,
so you're gonna have to replace it. I figured this
wasn't going to be a good phone call. This wasn't
gonna be good news. Yet that idea, I think we
can get it back to you in a couple of days.
(08:18):
I just youah, like shit, So I'll put back together,
because if you're gonna give it to me like humpy dumpy,
that's not gonna work. I've got Gus down the street.
He's picking up all the pieces and he's gonna go
to the store after that and get some super glue,
and you're gonna glue by piano back together. That's ridiculous
because even need you need to get me a new piano.
You can't pay the piano that's it thirty thousand pieces
(08:40):
and put it back together. That's ridiculous. I do want
to make this better for you. We just don't have
that kind of money here. How about a guitar and
a drum set. You cannot replace a Baby Graham piano
with a drum set. That's ridiculous. What would your name
to get tea? What's your last name? I'm gonna call
corporate and have you reported? Pete Ekids is my name?
(09:00):
Eakins is my last name? Your name? It's Pete Kins.
Are you kidding me right now? Yeah? Yeah, turned out
we're over really well in high school. Pete Kins, Pete Kins.
We need to get my piano replaced. What are we
gonna do right now? How are we fixing that? Yeah?
Because this is actually Jewel from The Jewil Show doing
a phone prank on you and your brother Saul set
you up. I am going to kill you, I mean him,
(09:27):
Oh my god. The Jewel Show on demand. It's time
War of the Roses only on The Jewil Show. Angie
is on the phone today for War of the Roses
to catch a cheater, and she thinks that her boyfriend
of seven years named Will might be messing around. So
we'll see if we can help her out. Angie, thank
you for coming on the show. Tell us what's going on.
(09:48):
I guess, like you said, I think my boyfriend Will
has been cheating. Um, he just got back from a
boy's weekend in Vegas, and ever since you got back,
he's been kind of distant and dismissive. And I was
like doing his laundry and one of his shirts had
like a smudge of like makeup or like lipstick on it. Okay,
and you know for sure it was lipstick. I mean,
(10:08):
there's really no way to tell. I mean, you definitely know, Yeah,
it's not mine. And I was doing his laundry from
his trip, so it's not mine. So in the seven
years that you guys have been together, has there ever
been like another moment where you felt like maybe he
was being sketchy or is this the first time? No,
this was the first time. Do you know the boys
that he was on the boys trip with? Yes, I do,
(10:31):
they're college friends. Do you think you're looking for it
because he went to Vegas with his boys? It was
mainly the shirt. I mean, the same on the shirt
makes sense. I just asked a question because you know
what happens a lot. I could have been on a
lot of dudes trip to Vegas, right, And there's always
a few girlfriends or a few wives that are just
convinced that their husbands or boyfriends are going to cheap right.
(10:51):
And it always it always makes me laugh because I'm
like to think about it, how hard was it for
your boyfriend or husband to sleep with you? You You think
he said go to Vegas for the weekend and able
to you know, it's cool that you think he's he's
all that, but trust me, it's still his heart for him. Probably.
But I will say, Angie, like, if I were you,
I would also be alarmed by lipstick on a shirt
(11:12):
or any kind of face makeup on a shirt. I
would be freaking out immediately. But just maybe was it
a strip club? So before we start to really jump
to conclusions, it could be did you ask him about it? Um? No,
I haven't. I mean I thought of the strip club thing,
but I don't know. It's just also because you've been
(11:34):
so distant and dismissive since he got back, like if
you hadn't been distant and dismissive, I would, you know,
probably think it was maybe like a strip club or something.
But because he's also acting weird and then there's makeup
on the shirt, match is kind of like yeah, already
dis and I get well, how's he been dismissive? What
do you mean by that? She's just kind of dry
(11:56):
and like quick to like, you know, we're on the phone,
you quick to come off the phone or like, um,
just kind of like when he comes home, it's all
like really dry and quick, and then he'll run off
to the gym or something. Do you trust the friends
that he was with? Okay, I mean they're his friends,
(12:16):
so you know they they're gonna have his back. Does
he have the type of friends that would stop him
from doing something if he was going to that's a
great point. Well, so in his group of friends, he's
the only one that's not single. They're all single. That's
another thing to think about too. Okay, so were you
watching like stories and stuff while they were out on
the weekend. Nothing popped up on social either. They didn't
(12:38):
really post anything, which I guess is not a good
sign either that no one was posting not to like
get you all riled up because this I'm having anxiety
for you right now. I don't know I to tell
you in this one because I don't feel like it
feels good. Yeah, which is why I didn't confront him first.
It's just kind of like, you know, all right, cool, Well,
(12:59):
we'll trying. We'll see if we can figure it out
for you. You You already told us about grocery store he
shops at, So we'll play a song come back, and
then call him and pretend to be from that grocery
store and say that every single month week we choose
one rewards card remember at random who gets free flowers
delivered from our beautiful, brand new floral department. And we'll
see if he believes that, and see if he sends
the flowers see you or to somebody else. Okay, okay,
so good, thank you. All right, we'll play a song
(13:21):
come back and get your War of the Roses to
Catch a Cheater next. Just joining us for today's War
of the Roses to Catch a Cheater. Angie is on
the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend of seven
years might be cheating on her. His name is Will.
Before we call him to try to find out if
he is cheating. Why don't you just kind of recap
what's going on. Yeah, so he went on a boys'
weekend to Vegas with a few of his friends, and
(13:45):
ever since he got back, he's been super distant and dismissive.
And then I was helping him with laundry while he
was out for my at work and one of his
shirts had a lipstick and kind of makeup smudge on it.
Mm see, this is the part I don't like. Yeah,
I just I don't know what to do. We're about
to call him from the grocery store that he shops
at and is the rewards card remember at and pretend
(14:06):
to be from there and say, every single month we
chose one rewards card remember at random, who gets free
flowers delivered anywhere in the whole world. Just a hard
way of saying thank you for shopping. We'll see if
if he believes that, and where he sends those flowers,
if he sends them to his girlfriend, Angie or somewhere else.
All right, Angie, Ready, ready, Okay, I'm gonna dollars number
right now here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Terrorible
(14:34):
calling from grocery story. I was looking for our rewards card.
Remember Will, Yeah, this is Will. Congratulations you're this month's
big winner. What did I win? What did I win?
The flowers? Okay, I didn't. I don't remember shinning up
for any three flowers or anything like that you did
(14:54):
when you became a rewards card member with us. Because
it's a new thing we're doing. We just redesigned our
floral department. It's new and improved and we've got so
many more options. Also, we're doing delivery now, so in
honor of that and to say thank you for shopping,
every single month, we choose one rewards card member at
random who gets free flowers delivered anywhere in the entire world,
completely free. Just our way of saying thank you for shopping. So,
(15:17):
thank you, thank you. What you've won is thirty six
long stim red roses, a box of chocolates, and some balloons.
Oh cool, okay, cool, I know so much. To send
it to my girlfriend? Your girlfriend? Yeah, so I'm okay,
you want what's your girlfriend's name? Andree you can send
(15:37):
a card along with this. Would you like to send
a card? Uh? Yeah, sure? What would you like it
to say? Well? All our seventh year anniversary is coming
up in like seeing like a month, seven years. But yeah,
I guess just say like happy anniversary, Andrey, sure, I
can do that. Just between me and you, guy to
(15:59):
guy here, you ever mess around on your girl friend?
I don't think there's any of your business. But I
mean I don't know you. I think it is kind
of my business. Because this is actually Jewel from Jewel Show.
It's a radio show, and we do a segment called
War of the Roses to catch a cheet to wear
if your significant other things that you have cheater might
be cheating. We try to see if you send flowers
to somebody else order them and your girlfriend Angie is
(16:21):
actually on the phone, has been listening this whole time. Oh,
like wow, I can't I mean, I can't believe you're
doing this. Andrew, why do you think I'm like, what's
going on? Why do you think I'm cheating on you?
Because I went to Vegas to like a bunch of
guy friends, Like why don't? I mean, yeah, it's not
because you went to Vegas with the guys. It's because
(16:41):
what I found after you came back from Vegas now
was doing your laundry. What did you find, Like, what
are you talking about? What did you find? That blue shirt?
The button down blue shirt that you always have that
you always wear. It had like a smudge of like
lipstick or makeup foundation or something on it, like on
the car. Okay, yeah, so that so you want to
(17:04):
tell me about that and where the that came from
because it's not my makeup obviously I wasn't there. Where'd
the list that come from? Will? Okay? Babe? Um, So
I'm going to be honest with you, so don't get
upset and I just just hear me out. Okay, okay,
all right, So last weekend at Vegas, we're at this
(17:25):
club and a bunch of beautiful girls came over to
our cable and, um, you know, just hung out with
us all night and then just one cute girl and
I was just like chatting and had a really good
chemistry and I kind of a bunch of beautiful girls Like,
what what the you mean? Will? Why would I mean
specually describe them as beautiful to me? And this more
(17:49):
it's Vegas, Like I don't care if it's Mars. Why
would you tell me that they're beautiful? Beautiful girls go
to Vegas? Like I don't want to tell, well, well
this is stupid. Why would you even just keep going?
But why would you even say? That's to say it
was not a smart thing to say. No I I yeah,
but okay, so let me start over. The ugly girl
(18:11):
came up your cable, I mean annoying. What happened? Will? Um? Okay,
so we were they're hanging out. I was shouting with
one girl, like great chemistry with her, so she shat
in my lap and I had a great time. I
didn't kiss her, but um, I you know the music playing,
start think maybe because you're shaying my lap, she got
(18:32):
some leaps fit on my uh shirt. You know, it
made me second guess, like, Okay, I'm in this relationship
with you for like seven years, and now I'm attracted
to somebody else. I might be attractive to somebody else,
so I don't. I'm just really conflicted, Like you know,
I just don't know. Uh, big d answers. But I
did not cheat. I mean I sent you the flowers
so that you should be happy about that. I didn't
(18:53):
miss send it to some other random girl. I mean, well,
it was nice that you sent flowers to your girlfriend,
but you're also telling her that you had chemistry and
you are attracted to another one while you were in Vegas.
So yeah, yeah, breathe the room. Yeah, I'm more upset
about the fact that you called them beautiful cute and
then she sat on your lap, which is completely inappropriate
after we've been together for seven years and we lived
(19:16):
together and we have a dog together. So what are
you trying to tell me right now? Well, because you're
telling me you had chemistry with another woman, you're telling
me that you're second guessing our relationship after seven years
and do you know, like we're not on the best term.
Number one, we like last time we had sex, because
I think like a month ago, two months ago, it's
been forever. You're busy with work or the dog. I mean,
(19:37):
I love the dog. For like, I mean, it was
just nice that somebody appreciated me. And the girl was
very you know if she's saying how handsome I am
and that she old my hair, and it's just like,
it's just you don't give me any goblement and she does.
Oh she does, Okay, I know I don't mean that
she does. I mean, I mean she did, like I
don't I don't talk to right on that her. I don't.
I mean, it was one. It was a thing. I
(19:58):
don't even know her, like Richie lives. Yeah, I got it,
and you get it made your point? Will thank you whatever? Will?
H huh? Okay, So now okay, so you pissed. No,
I'm more than pissed. I'm done with this conversation. All right,
bye thing? Man, Well she hung out. Man, I'm dead,
(20:19):
you know, well, I will, I will. I'm dead. She's
gonna kill me. He's texting me right now. I'm dead. Yeah,
don't respond to those for a minute, Okay, Like, yeah,
o god, I will say that it is a great
thing that you were able to come completely clean, even
though it was packaged in a little bit of a
sloppy way. So you didn't do anything. You didn't you
(20:41):
didn't do anything physical with the girl on vegance. Oh dad,
I'm lap. I mean that's not cheating. Are you happy
with Angie? I mean I don't know. I mean, yeah,
she's great, but it's like we're not we're not on
the best terms. I mean it is when yeah, I
mean seven years, but it sounds like you really honestly,
(21:01):
we're just honest with yourself, right, there and that hurt
a little bit. But if that's the truth, then you
should definitely not be in it. Oh boy, killing well,
good luck, thanks, I need it. Well, good luck man.
And you know, every tough thing in life is a lesson.
So on the other side, you'll be able to go
(21:21):
to Vegas, you'll be able to go to those clubs
with those beautiful girls, and you won't even have to
worry about a girlfriend, it sounds like, and you won't
have to worry about somebody coming home with lipstick on
there sir. You know it's a win win for all
of you. Yeah, I guess I don't know, right. Good
luck to you, will good luck well alright kid, The
Jewels show on demand Jebils Dirty Little Secret. Hello, Hi, Hi,
(21:54):
what's up? How are you good? How are you good?
So you have a dirty little secret? I do hie.
By the way, I thank you for being so ready
and willing. Yeah, that's it's a fifteen year old secret,
so it's about time it comes out. Okay. So there's
(22:14):
a little backstory. So my mom and dad had my
brother and I. My mom wanted like the Brady Bunch kids,
and I guess my dad didn't. After my brother was born,
he went and got an affect to me. Okay, Um,
turns out my dad and mom it didn't work out.
My dad's not a great person, and no, it's fine.
It's so they divorced and my mom got soul custody
(22:37):
of us, and years later my dad remarried and they
were trying to adopt. And I was about nineteen years
old when I got the first call So this is
like fifteen years ago from an adoption agency and they
wanted to adopt. And I was like, why would you
give someone a kid who didn't have custody of their
(22:59):
own kids? Which shocked the adoption agency. Um, and so
then I had They asked if I had proof of this? Yeah,
So I snucked my mom's house, got the divorce decree
to send to them, and they were never able to
adopt because of me. Oh, do you feel bad about
(23:20):
it or do you feel like you did the right thing? Oh? No,
I did the right thing. Yeah, it sounds like you did. Well.
Oh that's that's my dirty little secrets, great dirty little
secret there is. Thank you, Thank you so much for
sharing You're Anna. I have to say you are such
a great addition to the show. I absolutely love you.
Oh my gosh, thank you so much. It's been tough adjecting,
(23:42):
so I really appreciate that. Thank you for telling us
your dirty little secret. Absolutely have a good one day
show on demand Police right now eight to eight three
four three one six one text in four one o
six one. Did you or someone you know get married
young and did it work out? That's the question we're asking.
We're asking it because Nina told us a story about
(24:03):
Millie Bobby Brown. Yeah, Millie Bobby Brown got engaged to
John bon Jovi's son, Jake bon Jovi. She's nineteen and
he's twenty. And so the biggest thing with this, aside
from being like, hey, congratulations, it's more like you're nineteen,
why are you getting married? You know? And I understand that,
but before you pooh pooh on somebody, you know, there's
(24:24):
got to be some good stuff about getting engaged young too, right. Also,
she is the star of Stranger Things. By the way,
if you don't know who Millie Bobby Brown is, yeah,
I was gonna say I didn't really know who she was,
but I've heard the name a ton Okay, so that's
who she is. And then bon Jovie's son. What do
you think bon Jovi is saying about that? Do you
think he's upset like their parents? Like you if your kid, Nina,
(24:45):
if you had kids, Yeah, and if they were nineteen
and twenty and they just gotten engaged, how would you
react to that? I would say, what are you doing?
Have your whole life to live, Let's stop this right now.
So I am that judge person at the same time.
That's why I'm like, let's just open my eye a
little bit. Yeah, because it does work out. Can you imagine, like,
think about who you were at nineteen though, like who
(25:06):
I was at nineteen, There's no way I could have
been married and million Bobby Brown, she's lived a million lives,
you know. But yeah, I was actually engaged young on accident.
I got engaged on accident when I was younger. I
was like eighteen years old. And how is it an accident?
It's always weird when I say that, people don't understand.
But what happened was I was with a girl in
(25:27):
high school and we're still together a little while out
of high school. And one day we were laying in
bed together and it was in the morning. I was
like exhausted, right, and this is exactly what I said.
I said, you know, if we're together for like a
few more years, maybe we should think about getting married. Okay,
that was what I said. And when I said that,
(25:48):
she turned over to me and started crying and said yes,
and I was like, huh. And then before I could
even say anything, she was out of bed on the
phone called her mom and said he just asked me
to marry him, and then pass the phone to me
to talk to her mom. And I was like, hey, yeah,
(26:09):
no ring yet, No ring yet, because it didn't mean
to do that. Oh man. He took about a year
and I have to buy a ring. And I only
got a ring because it was Christmas time and I
was still talking to my family then, and my dad
was like, if you're engaged, you should probably buy her
a ring, and I was like, good points, Christmas. I
guess I'll go to his ails. Yeah. Yeah, I've made
(26:31):
a lot of mistakes relationships of my time, so don't
trust my judgment on things. Call us up right now
eight eight eight three four three one six one texten
four one oh six one. Did you get married young
and how did that work out for you? Hello Curtis
where you come from? Calling from Victoria. Oh hey, a
Canadian listener booting the Boot listen to the show. That's great.
What's up dude? How many people know that I speak Canadian?
(26:55):
That's cool? Yeah, well I looked at you guys every
day and they get you like Crystal Clear over here.
I was just calling about the getting engaged, you know
topic you guys were chatting about there. Yeah, Hi, Curtis,
this is Nina. Did you get engaged? Yeah? We got
engaged young, like seventeen and Mary at eighteen and seventeen
years later, I got two kids. I would definitely got
(27:18):
lots of hate. Like, for sure, I feel like people
always want to think the worst, and I guess you
know what you think. When it's physically they're probably right.
But you know, everyone's different and everyone's journey is different,
and whatever works for you, it works for you, and
it doesn't really matter with anybody else. That's true, Curtis.
Just because some people can't do it doesn't mean that
it doesn't work sometimes, Curtis, what do you think it
(27:38):
was about your love that made you want to do
that so early? I'm not hating, I'm just genuinely curious
you know, it's a good question. I just knew I
didn't want to do with anybody else, and she was
the same thing, and there was just something I can't
really fully describe it, but yeah, I just thought I
would share that because of course people are going to
say bad thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. People love to young people,
(28:01):
they do. And I wonder how many couples that got
engaged young and married young would have actually made it
if they would have had more positive people in their life.
That's a great point. What's the secret to success for
you guys, because that's a lot of challenge. It's hard.
Like we've done counseling. You've done you know, individual counseling,
couple of counseling. You know, you're constantly working on your
relationship because especially when you start young, you know, you
(28:23):
change and you're not always going to be the exact
same person that you were. Um so, if you know,
but if that love is there, you have to kind
of find ways to you know, to say connected. Not
for me, I think a big thing is having your
own interests, in having your own hobbies and and you like,
you know, you live your life that way, and I
(28:44):
think it's if it works out to be works out
pretty good, Curtis, thank you for your phone call. I'm
looking forward to the video that goes viral when you're
like seventy and you and your wife were talking about
how you've been together since you were seventeen, because I
cry every single time that I see one of those.
So I can't wait to look at your Instagram one
day and just bawl my eyes out. What a thing
to say it is. Can't wait for you to make
(29:06):
thanks Manna, have a good days here bye. Um see
it as possible. Yeah, people do make it so Millie,
Bobby Brown and John bon Joey's kid. I keep calling
to call them Ron bon Jovi, Jake. I think that
they're gonna be together forever. Some Goods Crossed The Jewels
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