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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Lucy is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Brandon.
So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe
get her another date. But first, Lucy, how long has
it been since you heard from Brandon?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's one two week?
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Two weeks? Okay, have you reached out? Did you try?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
Yeah? I did.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
I invited him into a game of ski ball, but
he didn't respond.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Oh no, okay, Well, see if we can figure it out.
Want to tell us about the date and how you guys.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Met Yeah, Maul, you know how it goes.
Speaker 6 (00:43):
I met Brendan on the app.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
We talked briefly back and forth, good chemistry.
Speaker 6 (00:49):
Before deciding to meet up at a.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
Local bar by us.
Speaker 6 (00:53):
We both like to play pool or both go at.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
It, so yeah, it was kind of fun. It was
like a hot challenge to build some flirty chemistry and
we definitely did. We turned it into this drinking game
and anytime one of us missed a shot, we.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Would drink you said, you guys are good, So did
you end up drinking a lot? Like you know, first
people are good at it like me, I would get hammer.
Speaker 6 (01:21):
Yeah, you could say that.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
We got a little handsy, not in like a growth way,
you know.
Speaker 6 (01:29):
But we played a few.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Games, We danced around, talked.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
Kissed each other.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
We shared an uber home. It was a good time.
Speaker 6 (01:39):
It was definitely a good time.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
You shared an Uber home. So I went home together,
so he.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Made sure that I got home first. He was definitely
a gentleman. Yeah, he took good care of me. He's
not like the other guys have dated.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Did he try?
Speaker 3 (01:57):
No, he didn't. He was such a gentleman. And I
mean we had a great kiss in.
Speaker 6 (02:01):
The car, but then when it was time to go.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Home, he said good night and didn't even try.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
That's refreshing.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Yeah, So, I mean, as you can imagine, I was
pretty excited to see him again.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
So, yeah, why do you think you're getting ghosted them?
Speaker 6 (02:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
I did have this one moment where I kind of shrieked.
Speaker 6 (02:27):
Out a little bit, not on him.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
But.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
We were like having a little moment in the corner,
and the drunk girl walked by and bumped into me
and she made me still my deer all over my
brand new top. Oh, I kind of freaked out a
little bit on her. I snapped, but I like dialed
(02:52):
it back before I went too far.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
I apologized.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Brandon described snap like start throwing chairs.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Hey girl, do you know you just did that? Or
was it like we're you know, snap in?
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Yeah, I made like a verbal like what the you know,
and just kind of I don't know. I I have
been more becoming in the past, but I don't know.
Speaker 6 (03:20):
I didn't.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I didn't think it was that big of a deal.
And I totally apologized to Brandon for doing it.
Speaker 6 (03:26):
That girl was definitely.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
A mess, like she was not innocent, you know.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
So yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
I'm afraid that he was just like being polite in
the moment and saying it was fine, and maybe I
might have turned him off from it and not normal
for me to do that, but when someone deserves it,
you know, Okay, I'm only human, but I wanted to
know that I'm not going to just freak out on
him randomly like that, you know, right?
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Would that turn you off to you?
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Hole?
Speaker 3 (03:59):
It?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
When's how it was? Yeah, I think it might turn
me off now, but past.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Me would have loved what yeah, especially if you turn
around and freaked out on me, I'd be like, whoa,
oh she's hot. Oh thankfully I've learned my lesson with
that though. But so it might it might be a
little bit much, So we'll see. We'll play a song
come back, and then call him and see if the
tulas why is ghosting you?
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Maybe get you another date?
Speaker 6 (04:21):
Okay, okay, thanks you all all right?
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Plaus song come back, get your first day follow up
next if you're just joining us for today's first Day
follow up. Lucy is on the phone and she's getting
ghosted by a guy named Brandon. So in a second,
we're gonna get him on the phone and see if
the tulas why is ghostinger? But first, Lucy, why don't
you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (04:46):
So basically, I went out with this guy. He was
super hot, super cool. We had a good time, great chemistry.
I may have snapped when a girl dropped her on me,
and I'm just worried that maybe I might have scared
them off from that, But I wanted to know that
that's not who I am.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
Like, I couldn't just randomly him.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Right, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:14):
Let's do it all right.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Brandon please. Yeah,
this is where Brandon. How are you?
Speaker 2 (05:29):
My name is Jubel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Hi, Brandon, this is Nina. I'm also on the show. Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
What's up? How are you show?
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yes, and we're calling you because we do a segment
that's called the first Aid follow Up. That's where if
you go on a day with somebody and you ghost them,
that person can email us to get you on the
phone and ask why you're ghosting. So we got an
email about you from somebody, do you know?
Speaker 5 (05:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:59):
We think. Who do you think would email us and
say that you're ghosting them?
Speaker 5 (06:04):
I don't know, you tell me. It could be a
couple of people.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
But all right, Okay, was about to get really good then, Brandon.
Her name is Lucy.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
Oh yeah, Lucy? I remember her?
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Okay, do you remember liking Lucy? Do you remember going
on a date with her?
Speaker 5 (06:23):
Yeah? Man, we had a great time and that girl
was hot, smoking, I mean.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
Okay, So then what's the deal. She's so bomb. Where
are you gone? She's sneaky, man, snaky, She's sneaky.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
No, she's sneaky. She pulled some stuff on a date
man that was just not cool.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
Like what, Well, we.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
Went on, we had a great time, and you know,
it ended up where we were in a ball having
a good time. We staked out our little corner and
uh we were actually relating to each other pretty well. Touchy,
steely kid. I was into her. She was into me,
I thought. And then some random dude walks up to
her out of nowhere and it's like a whistle of lucy.
(07:09):
I'm like, who is this clown? And she's like having
small talk with him. She turns her back to me
and like almost starts arguing with this guy, doesn't introduce me,
doesn't tell me what's going on, And I'm like, what
is what is the deal here? What is she hiding something?
She's smiling and flirting and all this stuff with this guy,
and I'm like, wait a minute, whether she just kissing me?
(07:32):
Then it gets worse. We start playing pool. All of
a sudden, she sees a group of people I guess
over the other side of room with this guy. She
walks over to him and just starts hanging out with him,
like she came to the bar with them. I'm like,
we just got done kissing patting in the corner, and
now you're over here with a whole nother group. What
the hell is going on?
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Did you ask her?
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Yeah? And she apologized and she's like, oh, it's just
somebody I used to hang out with. It. You know,
it's no big deal. But it just sounded weird, you know,
and the whole thing just it just didn't feel right.
She was way too mysterious, and you know, I was
waiting for it to even take me over there and
introduce me to these people, but it didn't happen. I
(08:15):
wasn't even upset about that. I mean, you know, things happened,
but she was gone like fifteen twenty minutes.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Oh that's a game. Oh that's a long time.
Speaker 5 (08:23):
Yeah, she's hugging and laughing with these people with a
back turn like she's trying to block me out. I'm like,
sounds sneaky. Reminded me of an X. I was checked out.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Well, okay, thank you for telling us, and now I'll
let you know that Lucy is actually on the phone
listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
Oh oh thanks, guys, appreciate it.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Yeah, okay, clear some stuff up from both of you guys,
you know Lucy.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
Hey, Yeah, hi Brandon, what wrong.
Speaker 5 (08:55):
Again? Oh my god? Yeah I left, I'll tell you. Okay.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
One, I don't think I was gone for that long.
And Two, that was so unbelievably awkward for me. I
did not think that these people are going to show
up there. These are people that I like, know and
I'm trying to kind of like fizzle out, and so
it was super awkward for me. And I did not
want to introduce you to these people, like I didn't
(09:27):
want to mix that.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
You know, I understand what you're saying. It's just the
only true part about what you just said is you
didn't think because you didn't take me into consideration at all.
You left me hanging. And I mean I just watched
you have a beer pour it all over. Obviously I'm
kind of into you if I'm still sticking around.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Okay, I mean, I definitely did not think it was
a big deal.
Speaker 6 (09:49):
We were just talking.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
I mean, if you hadn't seen some people that you
knew and you were talking to them, I wouldn't be
so sensitive about it.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
Well, let's loop the script. Let's say that I take
you out, I leave you somewhere, and I go to
talk to a bunch of girls that I know, and
then I come back and say, Hey, it's no big deal.
These are just some girls that I know. How would
you feel about that?
Speaker 3 (10:10):
If I'm being like completely transparent and honest with you.
That guy was my egg, and I really don't think
that there was any world where you two needed to
be like talking and meeting each other and whatever, and
so like with all of our old friends there it
(10:30):
was like weird for me and awkward, and so I
wanted to just kind of like be like what's up,
but also not mix y'all together. You know, I'm trying
to fizzle that out. I'm trying to get away for
each I think that you're a great guy. I really
like you, and I did not at all want you
involved in that.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
It just sounds sneaky, And you want to talk about
being uncomfortable.
Speaker 4 (10:54):
Radio's telling you the truth.
Speaker 5 (11:00):
I'm on the radio. What if your guys listen to this,
you have, Well.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
I guess he knows that I'm not interested anymore.
Speaker 5 (11:07):
Then I'm just saying the whole things sounded shady to me.
That was why, that was why I ghosted you. I
don't even know what to say at this point. I'm
just kind of confused. Where do we go from here?
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Well, let's flip it again, Brandon. What if your ex
girlfriend showed up and you were with Lucy?
Speaker 4 (11:25):
What do you do?
Speaker 5 (11:27):
Introduce them?
Speaker 4 (11:28):
Do you you would introduce them?
Speaker 5 (11:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (11:30):
I don't know if I would.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Yeah, it's my ex girlfriend. The way Lucy looks. If
you met my ex girlfriend, oh, I would definitely introduce them.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
You don't know, man, I genuinely hope to be a
different person. I did not want that those stories like
coming to you. I'd much rather just like ease into
this thing with you.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
Brandon. Would you like to go on another day with Lucy?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (11:59):
I mean, it's just funny that you think I couldn't
handle that, so in a public situation, you just decided
that now I couldn't handle it. I'm gonna ease into it.
I don't know, you know what, anybody can make a mistakes.
Let's do it.
Speaker 4 (12:17):
Okay, right, Okay, you got another date Lucy?
Speaker 5 (12:21):
All right, let's go let's do it. I'll probably go
somewhere and not bump into your ex.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
You know that sounds like a plan to meet police you.
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