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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Matt is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by somebody named Bria.
So in a minute, we're gonna call her and see
to tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date first Matt, how long has it been
as your from Bria?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah? Uh, yeah, you know it's been. It's been about
a week now.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Yeah, I gotta be honest, is the first time I've
ever been ghost since I'm not really sure that's a
long time or not ever.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Wow, congratulations, I appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
I try to be selective of the idea.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
A week is a long time if you go off
with somebody, usually if they like you, you know, maybe
a couple of days go by where they don't text you,
but they'll get back to you.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Have you tried reaching out?
Speaker 4 (00:47):
I'm headiting about it, just because I wanted to be
like a single you know, thoughtful thing like not exactly
a grand gesture. I don't want to be like a
door about it, but I do want to make sure
that it is memorable, want to make it, you know,
and that's the thing. That's what I'm calling it is
because I want you guys to help me out with this.
I really don't know what I'm doing. This is totally
new territory for me.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Okay, So you want to get her attention with something
more of a Hey, how you do in text?
Speaker 5 (01:12):
Exactly?
Speaker 4 (01:13):
I want to be much more of a because she
is dating with intention and I want to make sure
that I am someone who's you know, intention is worthwhile.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Oh that's cute picture. Okay, Okay, how did you met
Bria Matt? How did you meet her? And how is
the date? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:34):
We so we met on Hinge and we were talking,
you know, back and forth for a little bit and
making sure that you know, we we really you know,
had a feel for one another. I saw on Hine
her photos where she was hiking, and that showed me
that she's esually active and she appreciates nature, and that's
that's all me.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I love that we went.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
To a rooftop for drinks, you know, right sunset, so
he's going to have very very beautiful views.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
And indeed we.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Got sure that that was great and it was really romantic.
There were plants, it was it seemed kind of an
intimate setting.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
And then so I'm glad we were.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
There because we started just acting like we were on vacation,
you know, so we made up stories for ourselves. We
were looking around us at the different couples of different people,
making up stories for them. You know.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
It was a lot of fun. It was, and she
was a lot of fun.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
One of the things that I really appreciate is just
how she beams with everything, you know, just big smile, laughing,
contagious laughter.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
At that point, we started out.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
You know, what we want and goals and what our
passions are, what drives us, and it seemed it really
really seemed to fit. And this is why I'm concerned
about the ghost thing, because you know, I hope she's
all right. I hope that I didn't come across too strong.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
You know. We ended the day with a hug, like
a nice tight hug.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
It was. It seemed promising, and so I want to
make sure that everything is kind of how I thought
it was in my head. And I don't know, maybe
I messed up. I hope I didn't.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Well, it sounds like it went really great for the
most part. Is there anything that happened that could be why.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
I mean, you know, I'm competitive, I'm maybe really competitive.
And I asked her if she was seeing other people,
you know, just because she said she was dating with intention,
but I want to know kind.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Of how that went.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
And yeah, she did say that she was kind of dating.
It didn't sound like there was anything serious going on.
But maybe I just came across as too intense with
how I.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Asked, how did you ask?
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Did you reached across the table and grab her hand
and stare David Jurryan said, are you seeing anybody else?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yes? I might like it.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I can't quite remember.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
So maybe I was in a bit of an altered
state of mind.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Maybe the dress was going that evening. Okay, so yeah,
that might have contributed to it.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
I don't remember any like that too.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
All right, man, Matt, we'll see if we can figure
it out for you.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and try to get you another date and find out
where you're gettinghosted.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Okay, thank you guys, I appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
All right, we'll play a song come back, get your
first day follow up next. If you're just joining us
for today's first day follow up, Matt is on the
phone and he's getting ghosted by Bria. So we're about
to call her and see yourself, tells why she's ghosting him,
and maybe get him another date. But first, Matt, why
don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah, Brion, I went on a date, and you know,
beforehander met on Pinge, I was very.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Tried to all of her photos. We met up, it
seems like it was going really great.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
We had a lot of fun just making up stories
about ourselves and when it came to this fun little
gamer we're playing. But I feel like I really got
to know her. I was very very attractive to her,
and she was basically like just just sunshine, and so
I want to know.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
What happened with it.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Okay, And you think that the reason she might not
be calling you back is because you asked if she
was dating other people?
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Maybe I honestly don't know, and I'm looking for you
guys to help me.
Speaker 6 (05:06):
Out with this.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Okay, Well here we go. You ready to call her?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Please? Let's do?
Speaker 5 (05:10):
What's UPO? Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Man, I speak Tobria. Please?
Speaker 6 (05:25):
This is she?
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Hey Bria, how are you? My name is Jewbel and
I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbil Show. Hi, Bria,
I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh Hi, there's a lot of
people here there is How are you?
Speaker 6 (05:40):
I'm okay. How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
I'm good? Thank you for asking. Have you ever listened
to the show before?
Speaker 5 (05:46):
I have?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Well, we're calling because we do a segment on the
show called the First Date follow Up where if you
go out on a date with somebody and then you
ghost them, they can email us to call you and
ask why you're ghosting them. A huh, So we got
an email about you from somebody?
Speaker 6 (06:03):
Yeah, okay, who. Well, I'm guessing is this Matt.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Yes, So Matt emailed us and we talked to him
a little bit about your date.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
He really liked you, and he is wondering why you're
not calling him back.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
I mean, it feels kind of weird to say, but
I just think he's too pretty.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
You think he's too pretty?
Speaker 6 (06:30):
I think yeah, I think I think he's too pretty.
And I think he knows he's he's a he's a
handsome lad, and that is that was a little bit
of a turn off for me.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Was it confidence or arrogance?
Speaker 6 (06:43):
Well, so like it started off. He just kind of
seemed to talk a lot about himself, and he seemed
to just always be catching his reflection in a mirror
or a window, just like seemed very taken with it.
And he also was kind of talking about his Internet
presence and how many followers he has and just like
(07:04):
repeated that a few times, and I just kind of
felt like I wasn't really being paid attention. You know,
it's a first date, so I expected some questions about me,
and he just kind of seemed to be talking about
how fit he is and like how he's going to
start off fitness page. You know, like I know that
he we talked about hiking and like being outdoors and
(07:26):
being fit, and like I'm definitely about that, but like
I'm also a person, and I felt that, yeah, we
we got to talk about things bigger than internet presence.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
It sounds like he was trying to impress you. Oh,
isn't it. Like he showed up with all of his
toys and was like, look at this is what I have.
Do you like him?
Speaker 6 (07:44):
I could see that. I could see that, and you know,
I was trying to ask him about things that he
was interested in, but I kind of expected him to
ask me about some stuff. That's you got to make
a connection on your date, and I feel like you
actually have to, you know, like ask questions and sort
of be interested.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Okay, can I ask you a question?
Speaker 4 (08:05):
So?
Speaker 5 (08:06):
Wait?
Speaker 6 (08:06):
Wait, what was that?
Speaker 1 (08:07):
That's Matt. Matt is actually on the other line listening
and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
Yeah. I thought it was just you guys.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Matt's here too, Yeah, and I guess he has a question.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
Now.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
I wanted to ask, did you have a fun time
on our date?
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Otherwise?
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Okay, valid, what's a question about you?
Speaker 6 (08:30):
But it was a question about us, So I'm gonna
say fifty to fifty. I mean, we did have fun.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
It's like it was.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
Fun pretending like we were on vacation and coming up
with all kinds of stories for the people around us.
But you know, it was a date where I was
trying to get to know you, and I thought you
would be trying to get to know me. So anytime
I felt like I brought up, you know, bigger topics,
you know, I thought that you just kind of always
steered it back to you. So I'm looking, Yeah, they're there.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
Are a couple of I hope they don't come across
as just excuses here. First off, I kind of had
maybe a couple shots before the date to call my
nerves because I was definitely really getting looking forward to
getting to know you.
Speaker 6 (09:21):
Yeah, yeah, of course it did.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
And I feel like I honestly, I do genuinely, I
feel like I I you know, I feel like I
did actually get to know you. You know, like you're
You're a great listener, and I mean the work you
do with animals is brilliant.
Speaker 6 (09:37):
What I don't work with animals. I'm sure.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
I might have had way too much. I had two
shots that might have quadruplets. I genuinely though, I I mean,
I really appreciated her energy, and I think that she
was She's just sunshine.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
She's just sunshine and human form. And I understand.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
That I have totally totally overly concerned about my looks
and everything, and that shouldn't be something that I'm worrying
about on a first date. With my business, I kind
of have to be on all times and I should
have unblinded. That was one of the reasons I had
those shots as well. But humbly I would love a
second date.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
Can you could you just tell me what color my
eyes are.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
You're beautiful green eyes, Well they're blue.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Would you like to go on a first date to
give another shot?
Speaker 6 (10:51):
I know were we were? We was this? Did this happen?
Speaker 4 (10:56):
It sounds like we need another first date for sure.
I need to remember it this time.
Speaker 6 (11:01):
Well, if you can promise that, you know, maybe we
do an afternoon thing, maybe we have some coffee and
we if we talk about some things a little bit
bigger than internet presence. I think maybe I can.
Speaker 4 (11:15):
I can agree to that. But you said a drive
a hard bargain, but those are agreeable terms.
Speaker 6 (11:20):
You're gonna go, Bria.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
I am so sorry that.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
Clearly I was in a different place in my mind
and I was not listening to a single where you said,
and I really appreciate. Yeah, you know what this this
next one, I'm going to listen to everything.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
I'm gonna let you do the talking. Let's let's go
with that.
Speaker 6 (11:41):
Well, I do. I do like a person who can
own their mistakes. And you know we're not always going
to be perfect every time.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
So yeah, cool, Well, congratulations, Matt, you got a date
with Bria.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
Juble's first day follow up