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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, guys, it's Bethany from the Michael J Morning Show.
You're listening to Michael J and Bethany after hours.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Just tell me too, the twos ninety three point one
wp C.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Now, let's talk about what's trending with our bodies. Starting out,
Starting out with the time change over the weekend. How
long does it take you to feel that you've adjusted?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Yesterday I didn't notice anything at all, and then this
morning when I woke up, I was like, eh, and
this does feel earlier really, so you can feel it,
but I'll.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Be over it by tomorrow. See.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
I think for me it's probably I'm not going to
feel it this year because I just started on this
new morning show, and so getting up at four o'clock
in the morning, I'm just adjusting to that, all right,
you know what's another hour? Yeah, and it's dark out anyway.
A lot of it has to do maybe with your
circadian rhythm and they when you see the light.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
I always thought it was tricky when I had little
babies that were on pretty strict schedules, Like if they're
used to eating every day at six and then the
time changes, it's like, well, do I make them?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Wait? Do I know like that, but older kids I
don't think they care all right, So how long does
it take you to adjust the time change? Seventy seven
nine six to two second? Thing trending. I was at
the home show over the weekend at the fair Grounds
and the new thing, well, I guess it's been out
for a while with the cold plunge.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Regina was there with all their hot tubs and they
have the cold plunge tub. Now it's very high end.
You know, it's got a refrigeration unit and you put
a lid on it. You can put it outside right
next to whatever you want to, you know, have it
next to your grill so you can cold plunge. I've
not done this. Have you sat in forty degree water?
(01:50):
Bethany y have done it? I have cold plunged before.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
And first of all, it takes all the pain away
from your whole entire body, which is really nice, okay,
but cautionary, like they're saying, it's really bad for your hormones.
So if you have something like a hormono issue, like
it sends your body into complete like crisis mode, so
that might not be for you.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I know what.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Just I cautioned against it.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
So they said to me, it's like fight or flight,
which is like a panic attack. I don't know if
I like, why are we doing this on purpose? And
you and you were in there for three minutes?
Speaker 4 (02:24):
I think it was three minutes. Yea, it was a
long time.
Speaker 6 (02:25):
Would you do it again?
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Would you really did feel better afterwards?
Speaker 7 (02:30):
Ninety three point one POC traffic And I.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Also want to care for my hormones, you know what
I mean. Well, I don't know why they don't care
for me.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
B tow Bargaway is jammed up northbound between Monroe Street
and Bush Street.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
The outer loop is rough between ninety three one WPOC,
Michael j and Bethany. If you can only hear what's
happening behind the scenes. Just a second ago, well Caine singing.
You asked to me, the butterflies are going away. Yeah,
and I'm not sure if I care. And I said, yes,
(03:05):
you care because they're pollinators, right right. If we don't
have pollination, we don't have food. If we don't have food,
we're all hungry. I keep us in the loop of.
Speaker 7 (03:14):
Entertainment and pop culture and the things we shouldn't care about,
but somehow we.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Really do he's an Abrey Yes ninety three point one WOC.
Speaker 6 (03:23):
Favorite part of the morning. What is going on here?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
John Goodman took a tumble on the set for an
untitled new Tom Cruise flick, but sources say he's already
on the ment. I guess he hurt his hips and
they had to stop shooting. He also just recently lost
his house in the Pacific Palisades wildfire. Said he's not
having a good go of it right now. Megan Markles
Netflix show got renewed for season two. Really excited about that?
(03:49):
I am, And in fact, do we have Megan on
the phone. I think she might have called Wait a minute,
I want.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
To guess who this is.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
You want to guess who that is?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Michael J A little royal birdie flew by my window
and told me that you watched me on suits.
Speaker 7 (04:00):
Let me tell you.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
If Harry screws up, I've got your number. Bethany, you
are a lucky lady.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Did you hear that?
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Really?
Speaker 6 (04:08):
She says you're a lucky lady.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Bethany, you are a lucky lady. See there? Thank you,
Megan Markle. Everybody all right?
Speaker 1 (04:14):
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Thousand parents of school age children, the average American parents
spend sixty seven hours a year negotiating with their kid.
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If he tastes my food, he'd be screaming and throwing things.
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He'd be like, what is this rubbish? Exactly all right?
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Speaker 3 (05:44):
Ninety three point onepoc Hey. I feel that I learned
some things I want to share with you really quick
at the Home and Garden show, okay, and craft show,
and I'm sad that I didn't make it up to
the other building with the crafts because we weren't a
time crunch.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
You almost need too. It was a really cool shot
look at.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
So so first things first, I'm walking through and I've
got my Battleado's Stone hoodie on Battleado is a stone
place up in Cockysville. All right, I get I've bought
stone there before, and I've been in there like you
were a couple of days in a row. And the
guy's like, here, take it. You're here all the time.
Take a sledge shirt. So I'm like, all right, I'll
wear it. I like it, but I look like a
(06:24):
construction guy walking Yeah, you're with the company. And so
everybody thought that people came up to me. They're like, so,
can I ask you a question about Bluestone? And I'm like, what, Oh,
I forgot how the hoodie on? So I was being
low key. I wasn't being Michael jor whatever you know.
And uh, Crystal who works for I want to get
the name of her company, right, She's very sweet from
(06:45):
American Century Solar.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
She's like, you're Michael. She was excited. Oh she's a.
Speaker 6 (06:51):
Huge Crystal, I love you. You're awesome.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
She sells solar and she's a big WPOC country fan,
all right, So I promised her a shout out the
trades And just the other thing I learned really quick
Gavin from Griggs and sun Glass.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
And mirror, he taught me something you knew. I didn't
know this.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You're not supposed to spray wind X on a mirror, right,
I didn't know that. I think, well no, but he
told me the reason it is. Did you know this
that a mirror is really just a sheet of glass.
And then on the back side of that, the first
thing they do is they put on a layer of
silver or aluminum, and then there's a layer of copper
(07:30):
that protects the reflective layer and What happens is if
you spray the uh and this is if it's got
ammonia in it. Okay, Windex with ammonia. The ammonia actually
eats the backing off the mirror and you'll get those
black spots. And if it drips down to the bottom,
you know you'll see in the bottom of your mirror. Sar,
it's turning black. That's because there's no more mirror because
(07:52):
it's eating the reflective part on the back of old side.
So yeah, I didn't so you're easily he goes. People
that clean windows didn't know about this. So you want
to get either Windex without ammonia or you want to
go with a vinegar type solution.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (08:06):
So I learned something new at the home show.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
How about that?
Speaker 3 (08:09):
And we talked about food at the home show because
there's nothing like a good old dog or a burger.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Yeah, so we I wondered, what is the biggest food crime?
You are terrible?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Well, I admit if I'm hungry, I don't care what
it is and doesn't eat anything. And an example is
if we're out of milk and they're cereal, I've put
I've been known to put juice or iced tea on
the cereal if it's a cold liquid.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
No, no, that's not how that works.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
I would be willing to do that. I'm like, peanut
butter and jelly. We're out of bread because we have
to get front of the store. I was doing peanut
butter and jelly and crackers last night.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
I mean, okay, I'll give you that one good because
they have those peanut butter.
Speaker 6 (08:51):
But what's the weirdest thing you would eat? Do you
do any food crime?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
I don't think I do any food crimes. I know
my family's big on putting ketchup on stuff.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
I don't think I love.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
My wife kills me on that because she'll like, you know,
really work to get a certain sauce on a steak,
and I'm like, just give me the a one, you
know what I mean, And I will always taste it
and make sure I appreciate the flavor of the dish,
and then let.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
Me put ketchup on it.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Then you'll smother it would get well. My dad will
put ketchup on eggs. He'll put it on macarie and
on scrapple, and I'm like, stop stop. But somebody I
saw online puts ketchup on their apples, like dips, apples,
slices and ketchup.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
I was like, well, here's a weird one. My mom,
her whole life, has put salt and pepper on cantalope.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
It's supposed to bring out the No.
Speaker 6 (09:40):
Now, I wouldn't do that food crime.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
I have a friend that puts hot sauce on her pickles.
What yep, swears by it.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
You don't put anything of pickles, although some people like
him fried.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
Yeah, yep. Let's see what else do?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (09:54):
I just saw online yesterday that somebody's putting mayonnaise on
spaghetti noodles.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
That's ridiculous. Let's hear about your food crime. Do you
do you eat anything that's just crazy?
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Sense people out?
Speaker 5 (10:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Now, Bethany's got a gag reflex on mayo. I love mayonnaise.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
I have no problem to eat it on spaghetti. No,
it doesn't on spaghetti. Text or call oh he think
be woos um too, young foodie?
Speaker 7 (10:23):
Gotten my hole up ahead?
Speaker 6 (10:26):
Hello?
Speaker 4 (10:28):
Just a cum.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Well, apparently the tough people live around here when it
comes to food crime. We're getting it on the text
line seven seven nine six two start with hey or high.
You can also call us. We love hearing your voice
eight hundred ninety two.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
I don't call us if you're gonna say something gross
like this, you gotta dip your scrapple in your yoke
from your eggs.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Oh, that's probably pretty good. I would go with that,
I have.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Someone said I have a friend that dips doritos and
catch up. My puts mustard on her pizza, which is
actually not that terrible.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
I don't think so. What about the salt on candle
open watermelon I was talking about?
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Yeah, somebody else does that. Yeah, and that Dan does.
In fact, he puts ketchup on his scramble eggs too.
Someone said, put pickles on my peanut butter and jelly sandwich.
Speaker 6 (11:17):
Mastard apple slices.
Speaker 4 (11:18):
Oh, this is a good one. Mayonnai is on my
grilled cheese sandwiches instead of butter. That actually is a
really good tip.
Speaker 6 (11:24):
That's way better than butter.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
My grandmother used to put like just cake on the
butter on these ham sandwiches. It was just I'm not
but I'm not a butter fan. Grand Yeah, so no,
but you so do you go with mustard on apple slices? No?
Speaker 4 (11:39):
No, absolutely not. My Exe used to use. This is funny.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
You like this?
Speaker 4 (11:43):
What he would take like a piece of cake and
pour milk over it in a bowl. That sounds good.
Speaker 6 (11:49):
I know that you'd like it.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
Yeah, I would do that gross.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
We used to make cinnamon toast like that, like a
little bit of butter cinnamon, you know, the cinnamon, sprinkle
with sugar and then putting bowl and pour milk over it.
Why it just it was good, Ninette poc traffic. Did
you ever make a bread ball? Noice sister and I
used to do that all the time. You just take
a slice of bread and you tear the crust off
(12:14):
and you make it into a ball. And then you're like,
I'm a chef.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
All right. Food crimes, we're hearing about yours this morning.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
BW Parkway northbound between Monroe Street and Bush Street to
stop and go the innerloop between seven ninety five and
JFX still slow disabled vehicle on the outer loop at
Baltimore National Pike.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
Things are backed up to.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Seven ninety five and then eight ninety five before the
Harbor Tunnel. Still back to up about five minutes.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
All right, I tell you what, We're gonna leave the
crime line open and I tell you you know, if
you hit us up with your food crime, We're gonna
just randomly select one of the lucky criminals and we're
gonna give away a pair of concert tickets. Yeah, and
I think I got a good pair today.
Speaker 6 (12:49):
What could we do?
Speaker 4 (12:50):
Let's see what do you have? I'm looking I got
a stack of tickets or Cody Jinks? How about?
Speaker 6 (12:56):
How about Cody Jinks?
Speaker 3 (12:57):
If you're up for a show to see Cody Jinks,
all we want to do is hear your food crime
seven seven nine six two.
Speaker 6 (13:03):
A random criminal wins next.
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March seventeenth on the Fox.
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Celebrating the music and artists Deep.
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Ninety three point one wpo C.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Now, So it's sad this University of Pittsburgh student missing.
Speaker 6 (13:28):
Yeah, it is God.
Speaker 4 (13:29):
She was last seen on vacation with her friends and
then all of a sudden, she's gone. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
So she was down there with five friends I understand,
And'sican Republic and she was on the beach. I don't
know if she was by her She must have been
by herself at the time, because that's what I need
more information on, Like, was she well, she's been missing
since Thursday now, and this story broke over the weekend.
She's from her family's Indian but they're you know, from Ashbourne.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
And so there's a local connection here.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
But just to have a beautiful young you know, I
can't imagine my daughter goes in I mean, you worry.
I even asked Cope last night. I'm like, so, what
about spring break for you now that you're in college.
She's like staying here. I'm like, good, good, good, you
know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
So it says okay.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
So shortly before six am, cameras captured five women and
a man leaving the beach, right, So who's the man?
Speaker 4 (14:24):
What's going on with that? Interesting? Well, we'll keep you
best posted.
Speaker 6 (14:28):
Yeah, it's it's very it's very, very weird.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
And they're looking in the air and I'm sorry, on
the water everywhere divers. Hey. The other big story is
this measles outbreak. Now, a positive case of measles was
confirmed in Howard County. They say it's not related to
the outbreak of hundreds of measle cases in Texas and
(14:51):
New Mexico. So the Maryland Department of Health is on it.
Hopefully we can get you know, stop this stuff. We
all need to be vaccinating. You know, we already got
rid of measles once I thought should not be back.
Speaker 6 (15:03):
And finally, can we talk sports just real quick.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
We are two weeks away from the Orioles Gnats in
the last preseason game. Okay, spring training starts two weeks
from this Thursday, ninety three point one WPOC traffic.
Speaker 4 (15:20):
I'm ready.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Okay, stop and go eight ninety five southbound between Lombard
Street and the Harbor Tunnel, North End. There's an accident
on B to B Parkway southbound between Annapolis Road and
six ninety five. Looks like the right lane is blocked there.
An accident on Baldwin Mill Road at Folston Road. Got
an accident on Maryland Route two at eighth Avenue in
glen Burnie. Three HO one southbound at fifty an accident
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there causing the right lane to be blocked.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
And then that's that's what I got for you so far.
I'll keep you posted. I'm rewinding in my head what
I just said. Did I just say spring train? There's
so many things going on right now, I might have misspoke.
The season starts two weeks from Thursday.
Speaker 4 (15:56):
I think what you said that.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
Okay, Opening day is in the twenty seventh, real quick.
Grayson Rodriguez, he's one of our our he's got to
perform well.
Speaker 4 (16:07):
Starters.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
Okay, Grayson had to get a cortisone injection and his
elbow he's got inflammation. They've shut him down for ten days,
so he will not be ready for opening day. It
looks like and in football, just real quick, let me
throw this out. A lot of people are excited to
hear about Ronnie Stanley. Huh yeah, three years. Yeah, he's
tried a new deal. There's radio silence on Justin Tucker.
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I don't know what's going on with that story. What
I do know is we've got a winner this morning
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Not talking to you and me, Bethany, we're telling the truth. Yeah,
Sunshine sixty five Today it is going to be glorious
here at ninety three point one WPOC. Now we like
to keep you up to speed with country music, and
here's what happens at a quarter after seven every morning.
Speaker 7 (17:11):
Jay's music sitty minutes, yeah, sixty seconds. If you don't know,
like you own music.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Row Bethany country singer Jason Aldan delivered his verdict on
Donald Trump's first couple of months in the office.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
He says doing I think what a lot of us
hoped he would.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Speaking during an Instagram Q and A in the last
couple of days, he was asked what he thinks about
Trump's performance so far, he says, I'm actually excited, honestly,
he continued, Obviously, you guys know this. We've been a
fan of his for a long time, and he's doing
I think what a lot of us had hoped that
he would do what he said he was.
Speaker 6 (17:48):
Going to do, and he's doing that.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
He goes on to say, I think at the end
of the day, it seems he's going to save taxpayers
a lot of money. He's saving a ton of our
tax dollars that are going to waste. So go Jason Aldan.
All right, bar owners beware Apparently this organization ask GAP.
Speaker 6 (18:06):
Maybe you've heard about them.
Speaker 4 (18:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
ASKCAP stands for it's a big word, a big name
American society of composers, authors and publishers. They represent the
songwriters and they make sure that the songwriters get their cut. Yeah,
so bars and places that play music licensed music, they've
got to pay a fee for that, and bars that
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aren't are subject to being busted like these. Throughout the
entire Midwest, there's fifteen bars. Now ask Gap is suing
because they call up and said, hey, you owe us, like,
you know, one hundred thousand dollars in a lot of
the money, and they're going back and forth.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
So just I want everybody to get paid. But I
think that's a little bit wild. Well, they're going to
shake down some bars in Baltimore before long.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
You watch and finally, a whole lot of country musicians
have served time in the military, but not a single
one of them I've checked has re enlisted after they
hit it big until now he's on tour with Blake
Shelton and Craig Morgan has re enlisted in the United
States military.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
Wow, so let's hear it for him. I think that's awesome.
What isn't he like? Kind of old? He's what he.
Speaker 3 (19:18):
Served before, and he said he'd be proud to serve again.
So he's He's now a Warrant Officer one in the
US Army serves as the assistant bandmaster for the three
hundred and thirteenth Army Band at Redstone Arsenal in Alabama.
Speaker 7 (19:33):
I love it POC traffic.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
Right, you'll be seeing him too on the twentieth with
our buddy Blake Shelton.
Speaker 4 (19:40):
He'll be coming round town all right.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
I'm the utterly between seven ninety five and Baltimore National Pike.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
We're backed up right now. Ey South found the.
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Ninety three point one WPOC throwbacks country music.
Speaker 6 (20:00):
It's never sounded so good. Michael J and Bethany.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
I got a call Bethany about I don't know, three
weeks ago, and they said, hey, we want you to
record an announcement for the Maryland Home and Garden and
Craft Show.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
And I'm like, all right, I'll help you out.
Speaker 3 (20:16):
And so they had me record this thing just saying,
you know, welcome to the Maryland State Fairgrounds the Maryland
Homa Garden Show, brought to you by YadA, YadA, YadA,
four hundred and fifty vendors all this. So they took
that message that I recorded, sure, you know, and I thought,
I thought, well, if I'm going to talk about their show,
it could throw in Michael j and Bethany the Morning
Show at plug right. Well, I show up at the
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at the home show just to go see the show.
You're a customer. Now you're just shopping the show and
I part. First off, the parking lot was slammed. You
couldn't find a space. Really yeah, oh it took like
ten minutes to find. You're driving up and down. Okay,
so I finally park and you're walking across the parking
lot and it's about a you know, four or five
minute walk from the parking lot down into the cow palace,
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you know. And they've got me screaming on the microphone.
Speaker 6 (21:07):
You know.
Speaker 5 (21:07):
No, of course the audio is top tier. No, it
was actually it was okay, it was fine, but it
just I just feel like, I'm like, it's so goofy
to have to hear my life.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Nobody likes to.
Speaker 3 (21:19):
Hear their own voice, I know, nobody, And I just wondered.
I'm like, so I get a text from Steve Ruce,
a friend of mine. He's like, I cannot get away
from you, you know, And but he was, it's a
family event.
Speaker 6 (21:30):
Everybody wants to take their kids.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
And so if I'm sorry, if I maybe if you
shouted at people think I was shouting. I just was like,
you know, I was repetitive because they kept playing it
over and over and maybe we.
Speaker 4 (21:43):
Could have done a couple of different versions of it.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
I didn't know it was going to be looped, but
it was a fun place. A lot of people brought
their families. And speaking of kids and families, there's a
child psychologist, mother of three in Parents magazine and elsewhere.
She's been telling people that there's a particular phrase that
parents are saying to their kids, and she says it
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causes your kids to struggle as adults.
Speaker 6 (22:12):
Oh do you want to guess what that phrase is?
Speaker 3 (22:16):
I don't parents say this all the time, but she says,
as a child psychologist, it's not a good thing to
teach your what is it?
Speaker 6 (22:23):
The line is I just want my kids to be happy.
Speaker 4 (22:26):
Oh God, everybody says that.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I know what she says, that's not what you want
to do. Instead, you want to teach your kids resilience
In childhood. She's like, that's what they need to learn.
Over time, they learn to avoid distress instead of managing it.
So what she's saying is, no, when your kids are
having a bad day, you got to let them wallow
in it a little bit. Don't solve all their problems
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for them immediately.
Speaker 6 (22:51):
Exactly.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
The more they focus on making their kids happy, the
fewer feelings they learn to cope with. And she claims
that that's the reason that we're having so many, you know,
problems with depression.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
She said, it's a recipe for anxiety, fragility, and self doubt.
So let your kids have a rough day. It's how
they learned to cope. She says, what do you say?
So I asked on Facebook. Sure, back in Pikesville. Here's
the one comment that came in. One of the biggest
reasons we swoop in is because we feel uncomfortable. It's
almost as if we confuse our kids' feelings with our own. Yeah,
(23:28):
use this mantra, I'm safe, this isn't an emergency. I
can cope with this.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
So that's good advice.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
I wanted to ask you what you thought about all this,
and you know, throw it out there seven seven ninety
sixty two.
Speaker 4 (23:40):
You can text her, you can call eight hundred and
three two one thirty six ninety three.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
It's almost like every generation swings the opposite way of
the way that they were parented. Okay, okay, So I
mean this is just my observation. So like probably when
you were growing up, your parents were just like.
Speaker 6 (24:00):
Buye, let us run around, like come.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
Back before the sun goes down, right, see you later.
But then you I'm not speaking just for you, No,
I do swung the other way, and we're like, oh no,
I've got to keep an eye on them all the time.
I've got to help them all the time, Like because
you were kind of making up for the things that
like you felt what you were lacking.
Speaker 4 (24:20):
But now, now where do we go from here?
Speaker 3 (24:23):
Yeah, but what she's saying is probably right that we're
creating kids that don't know how to deal with life.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
Right maybe, But then also, like that can't be the
only reason that our kids have anxiety and depressions about
like the news and social media, and like, I mean,
there is a lot going on, right, No, absolutely, how
do you not want to save them from all this?
Speaker 6 (24:45):
Right?
Speaker 3 (24:45):
It must be it must be harder to be a
kid right now than ever before. And I think it's
harder to be a parent right now before. I mean,
we both are going through it. You know.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
That's why there's so many people that are in gen
z that are like, I'm not having kids. I'm not
doing it because well it's hard, you.
Speaker 3 (25:01):
Know what, there's enough, there's still nothing like having a child.
I mean, you look at our Baltimore Mayor just had
a little, beautiful little girl. I mean there she is
in the nursery of the hospital. She's all dimples. I mean,
you know what I'm saying. People aren't going to stop
one to have kids. And if you raise them, that's
the whole thing. It's like you gotta worry about it.
But what do you think about, you know, telling your kids,
(25:24):
I just want I just want my kids to be happy. Yeah,
like you're not supposed to say that ever. Again, perhaps
we should teach them to be content and not happy.
Speaker 6 (25:34):
Or teach them coping skills.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
And when you have a problem yourself, try to break
it down on a younger level and explain what you're
going through, and yeah, let them see you through a
little happy dants with sunshine sixties today, seventy tomorrow Orioles
opening day two weeks from thursday. I mean we sprung
(25:58):
ahead over the weekend. Yeah. Sure, maybe it's going to
take a few days to adjust, but we're getting there.
Speaker 4 (26:04):
I think this is an easier one to adjust too,
because you get more sunshine.
Speaker 3 (26:09):
Right. But if you're dragon tired and you're a good
person to speak to this because you went to your
brother's wedding.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
Yeah, we got home so late, got three hours sleep
last night. You're feeling okay, I'm okay so far.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (26:20):
So we were talking about a psychologist, a child psychologist,
and a mother of three who said it's not a
good idea to say that you want to make.
Speaker 6 (26:28):
Your kids happy.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
You just want your kids to be happy, because if
you're a parent, go back to when your child was
in the crib, you know, six months old, you know,
an infant crying?
Speaker 6 (26:39):
What happened?
Speaker 5 (26:41):
You know?
Speaker 3 (26:41):
Are you a parent that's stuck a pacifier in the
child's mouth, You play the music, you do anything possible
to get some sleep, right, Yeah, And that whole way
of dealing with that is something that apparently continues on. Yeah,
you're constantly looking for a way to satisfy, give them
a phone to play with, a computer a video game.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
And they're little con artists, so they immediately learn manipulation. Yes,
if I do this, then I'm going to get this right.
Like as infants, they learn what you know.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
So what we were saying is this child psychologist says,
that's really bad because we're not teaching our kids coping skills.
Speaker 6 (27:16):
So we just wondered what you thought about it.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
Ray says on text, only wanting happiness from my kids
places the responsibility of their happiness solely on me, and
I'm not responsible for theirs or anyone else's happiness.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
That's like one good point.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
Teaching kids how to regulate and live in unhappiness, boredom,
and uncomfortable situation situations allows them to grow and move
outside of the easy and the yeah stay in their
comfort zone. Someone said, Hi, I'm an elementary school teacher,
and we're focusing so hard on social emotional learning in
school because kids aren't learning that at home, right, And.
Speaker 6 (27:52):
Not only are they, you know, not learning it at home.
Speaker 3 (27:54):
I've got a kid who's early twenties twenty one now,
and you know, he his entire high school career was
through the pandemic and so like he didn't have you know,
a lot of the kids didn't. They didn't have prom
they didn't some of them didn't have graduations.
Speaker 4 (28:11):
It was all virtual or.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
Even just the like I know my kids liked missed
out on playdates and missed out on like hanging out
with people, so learning how to go to someone else's
house and like maybe they don't have the soda that
you like, and maybe you don't you know, maybe you
have to eat the broccoli at they're like or whatever,
like yeah, those might eat in the broad Perhaps the
best thing that we can do for our kids and
their emotional happiness is take care of our own.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
There you go, and and you know what, maybe that's
a great image for them to look at night.
Speaker 7 (28:39):
Yeah ninety three point one w POC traffic.
Speaker 4 (28:43):
Easier said than it's not easy.
Speaker 3 (28:45):
No again, do you agree with this statement that being
a parent now it's the toughest job ever. And I mean,
you know, you can't compare apples dapples.
Speaker 6 (28:54):
Who knows what our.
Speaker 4 (28:55):
Parents had to go through and grandparents, But it's not easy.
Being a tricky It is tricky, all right.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
The outer lip between seven ninety five and Baltimore National
Pike is stopping go right now. We're stopping go before
the Harbor Tunnel on eight ninety five southbound. Looks like
you're sitting there for about ten minutes. The accident on
Baldwin's Mill Roache. Someone texted and said that that has
cleared up, so thank you for that. And then looks
like eighty three southbound between Potonia and Timonium.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
Something going on there all right, And like I said,
enjoy the day, you know, make you, make you happy,
Sunshine sixty five, that's working for us.
Speaker 8 (29:25):
Our iHeartRadio Music Awards are coming back live Monday, March
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Hey, guys, it's Bethany from the Michael J Morning Show.
You're listening to Michael J and Bethany after hours.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Just tell me too, the twos ninety three point one
wp C.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Now, let's talk about what's trending with our bodies. Starting out,
Starting out with the time change over the weekend. How
long does it take you to feel that you've adjusted?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Yesterday I didn't notice anything at all, and then this
morning when I woke up, I was like, eh, and
this does feel earlier really, so you can feel it,
but I'll.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Be over it by tomorrow. See.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
I think for me it's probably I'm not going to
feel it this year because I just started on this
new morning show, and so getting up at four o'clock
in the morning, I'm just adjusting to that, all right,
you know what's another hour? Yeah, and it's dark out anyway.
A lot of it has to do maybe with your
circadian rhythm and they when you see the light.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
I always thought it was tricky when I had little
babies that were on pretty strict schedules, Like if they're
used to eating every day at six and then the
time changes, it's like, well, do I make them?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Wait? Do I know like that, but older kids I
don't think they care all right, So how long does
it take you to adjust the time change? Seventy seven
nine six to two second? Thing trending. I was at
the home show over the weekend at the fair Grounds
and the new thing, well, I guess it's been out
for a while with the cold plunge.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Regina was there with all their hot tubs and they
have the cold plunge tub. Now it's very high end.
You know, it's got a refrigeration unit and you put
a lid on it. You can put it outside right
next to whatever you want to, you know, have it
next to your grill so you can cold plunge. I've
not done this. Have you sat in forty degree water?
(01:50):
Bethany y have done it? I have cold plunged before.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
And first of all, it takes all the pain away
from your whole entire body, which is really nice, okay,
but cautionary, like they're saying, it's really bad for your hormones.
So if you have something like a hormono issue, like
it sends your body into complete like crisis mode, so
that might not be for you.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I know what.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Just I cautioned against it.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
So they said to me, it's like fight or flight,
which is like a panic attack. I don't know if
I like, why are we doing this on purpose? And
you and you were in there for three minutes?
Speaker 4 (02:24):
I think it was three minutes. Yea, it was a
long time.
Speaker 6 (02:25):
Would you do it again?
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Would you really did feel better afterwards?
Speaker 7 (02:30):
Ninety three point one POC traffic And I.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Also want to care for my hormones, you know what
I mean. Well, I don't know why they don't care
for me.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
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and Bush Street.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
The outer loop is rough between ninety three one WPOC,
Michael j and Bethany. If you can only hear what's
happening behind the scenes. Just a second ago, well Caine singing.
You asked to me, the butterflies are going away. Yeah,
and I'm not sure if I care. And I said, yes,
(03:05):
you care because they're pollinators, right right. If we don't
have pollination, we don't have food. If we don't have food,
we're all hungry. I keep us in the loop of.
Speaker 7 (03:14):
Entertainment and pop culture and the things we shouldn't care about,
but somehow we.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Really do he's an Abrey Yes ninety three point one WOC.
Speaker 6 (03:23):
Favorite part of the morning. What is going on here?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
John Goodman took a tumble on the set for an
untitled new Tom Cruise flick, but sources say he's already
on the ment. I guess he hurt his hips and
they had to stop shooting. He also just recently lost
his house in the Pacific Palisades wildfire. Said he's not
having a good go of it right now. Megan Markles
Netflix show got renewed for season two. Really excited about that?
(03:49):
I am, And in fact, do we have Megan on
the phone. I think she might have called Wait a minute,
I want.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
To guess who this is.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
You want to guess who that is?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Michael J A little royal birdie flew by my window
and told me that you watched me on suits.
Speaker 7 (04:00):
Let me tell you.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
If Harry screws up, I've got your number. Bethany, you
are a lucky lady.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Did you hear that?
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Really?
Speaker 6 (04:08):
She says you're a lucky lady.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Bethany, you are a lucky lady. See there? Thank you,
Megan Markle. Everybody all right?
Speaker 1 (04:14):
American Idol season twenty three debut yesterday. If you watched it,
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Miller is the most popular beer brand in the country.
According to a new report. It was number one in
thirty states.
Speaker 6 (04:50):
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Millers brandt Yes Cores came in second with eight states,
and then Guinness was the most popular for estates.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
According to a new poll two.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Thousand parents of school age children, the average American parents
spend sixty seven hours a year negotiating with their kid.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
That's all.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I thought it was even more. That's a love I
know it is. And Leslie Love is Blind and is
casting a new season in Denver. Queer Eye is casting
in the DMV, and Gordon Ramsay was seen in Frederick
filming a kitchen nightmare.
Speaker 7 (05:24):
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one WPOC traffic.
Speaker 6 (05:29):
If he tastes my food, he'd be screaming and throwing things.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
He'd be like, what is this rubbish? Exactly all right?
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Road construction is the right lane, clothes on forty westbound
and hated Memorial Bridge.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Ninety three point onepoc Hey. I feel that I learned
some things I want to share with you really quick
at the Home and Garden show, okay, and craft show,
and I'm sad that I didn't make it up to
the other building with the crafts because we weren't a
time crunch.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
You almost need too. It was a really cool shot
look at.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
So so first things first, I'm walking through and I've
got my Battleado's Stone hoodie on Battleado is a stone
place up in Cockysville. All right, I get I've bought
stone there before, and I've been in there like you
were a couple of days in a row. And the
guy's like, here, take it. You're here all the time.
Take a sledge shirt. So I'm like, all right, I'll
wear it. I like it, but I look like a
(06:24):
construction guy walking Yeah, you're with the company. And so
everybody thought that people came up to me. They're like, so,
can I ask you a question about Bluestone? And I'm like, what, Oh,
I forgot how the hoodie on? So I was being
low key. I wasn't being Michael jor whatever you know.
And uh, Crystal who works for I want to get
the name of her company, right, She's very sweet from
(06:45):
American Century Solar.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
She's like, you're Michael. She was excited. Oh she's a.
Speaker 6 (06:51):
Huge Crystal, I love you. You're awesome.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
She sells solar and she's a big WPOC country fan,
all right, So I promised her a shout out the
trades And just the other thing I learned really quick
Gavin from Griggs and sun Glass.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
And mirror, he taught me something you knew. I didn't
know this.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You're not supposed to spray wind X on a mirror, right,
I didn't know that. I think, well no, but he
told me the reason it is. Did you know this
that a mirror is really just a sheet of glass.
And then on the back side of that, the first
thing they do is they put on a layer of
silver or aluminum, and then there's a layer of copper
(07:30):
that protects the reflective layer and What happens is if
you spray the uh and this is if it's got
ammonia in it. Okay, Windex with ammonia. The ammonia actually
eats the backing off the mirror and you'll get those
black spots. And if it drips down to the bottom,
you know you'll see in the bottom of your mirror. Sar,
it's turning black. That's because there's no more mirror because
(07:52):
it's eating the reflective part on the back of old side.
So yeah, I didn't so you're easily he goes. People
that clean windows didn't know about this. So you want
to get either Windex without ammonia or you want to
go with a vinegar type solution.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (08:06):
So I learned something new at the home show.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
How about that?
Speaker 3 (08:09):
And we talked about food at the home show because
there's nothing like a good old dog or a burger.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Yeah, so we I wondered, what is the biggest food crime?
You are terrible?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Well, I admit if I'm hungry, I don't care what
it is and doesn't eat anything. And an example is
if we're out of milk and they're cereal, I've put
I've been known to put juice or iced tea on
the cereal if it's a cold liquid.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
No, no, that's not how that works.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
I would be willing to do that. I'm like, peanut
butter and jelly. We're out of bread because we have
to get front of the store. I was doing peanut
butter and jelly and crackers last night.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
I mean, okay, I'll give you that one good because
they have those peanut butter.
Speaker 6 (08:51):
But what's the weirdest thing you would eat? Do you
do any food crime?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
I don't think I do any food crimes. I know
my family's big on putting ketchup on stuff.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
I don't think I love.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
My wife kills me on that because she'll like, you know,
really work to get a certain sauce on a steak,
and I'm like, just give me the a one, you
know what I mean, And I will always taste it
and make sure I appreciate the flavor of the dish,
and then let.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
Me put ketchup on it.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Then you'll smother it would get well. My dad will
put ketchup on eggs. He'll put it on macarie and
on scrapple, and I'm like, stop stop. But somebody I
saw online puts ketchup on their apples, like dips, apples,
slices and ketchup.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
I was like, well, here's a weird one. My mom,
her whole life, has put salt and pepper on cantalope.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
It's supposed to bring out the No.
Speaker 6 (09:40):
Now, I wouldn't do that food crime.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
I have a friend that puts hot sauce on her pickles.
What yep, swears by it.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
You don't put anything of pickles, although some people like
him fried.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
Yeah, yep. Let's see what else do?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (09:54):
I just saw online yesterday that somebody's putting mayonnaise on
spaghetti noodles.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
That's ridiculous. Let's hear about your food crime. Do you
do you eat anything that's just crazy?
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Sense people out?
Speaker 5 (10:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Now, Bethany's got a gag reflex on mayo. I love mayonnaise.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
I have no problem to eat it on spaghetti. No,
it doesn't on spaghetti. Text or call oh he think
be woos um too, young foodie?
Speaker 7 (10:23):
Gotten my hole up ahead?
Speaker 6 (10:26):
Hello?
Speaker 4 (10:28):
Just a cum.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Well, apparently the tough people live around here when it
comes to food crime. We're getting it on the text
line seven seven nine six two start with hey or high.
You can also call us. We love hearing your voice
eight hundred ninety two.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
I don't call us if you're gonna say something gross
like this, you gotta dip your scrapple in your yoke
from your eggs.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Oh, that's probably pretty good. I would go with that,
I have.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Someone said I have a friend that dips doritos and
catch up. My puts mustard on her pizza, which is
actually not that terrible.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
I don't think so. What about the salt on candle
open watermelon I was talking about?
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Yeah, somebody else does that. Yeah, and that Dan does.
In fact, he puts ketchup on his scramble eggs too.
Someone said, put pickles on my peanut butter and jelly sandwich.
Speaker 6 (11:17):
Mastard apple slices.
Speaker 4 (11:18):
Oh, this is a good one. Mayonnai is on my
grilled cheese sandwiches instead of butter. That actually is a
really good tip.
Speaker 6 (11:24):
That's way better than butter.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
My grandmother used to put like just cake on the
butter on these ham sandwiches. It was just I'm not
but I'm not a butter fan. Grand Yeah, so no,
but you so do you go with mustard on apple slices? No?
Speaker 4 (11:39):
No, absolutely not. My Exe used to use. This is funny.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
You like this?
Speaker 4 (11:43):
What he would take like a piece of cake and
pour milk over it in a bowl. That sounds good.
Speaker 6 (11:49):
I know that you'd like it.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
Yeah, I would do that gross.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
We used to make cinnamon toast like that, like a
little bit of butter cinnamon, you know, the cinnamon, sprinkle
with sugar and then putting bowl and pour milk over it.
Why it just it was good, Ninette poc traffic. Did
you ever make a bread ball? Noice sister and I
used to do that all the time. You just take
a slice of bread and you tear the crust off
(12:14):
and you make it into a ball. And then you're like,
I'm a chef.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
All right. Food crimes, we're hearing about yours this morning.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
BW Parkway northbound between Monroe Street and Bush Street to
stop and go the innerloop between seven ninety five and
JFX still slow disabled vehicle on the outer loop at
Baltimore National Pike.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
Things are backed up to.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Seven ninety five and then eight ninety five before the
Harbor Tunnel. Still back to up about five minutes.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
All right, I tell you what, We're gonna leave the
crime line open and I tell you you know, if
you hit us up with your food crime, We're gonna
just randomly select one of the lucky criminals and we're
gonna give away a pair of concert tickets. Yeah, and
I think I got a good pair today.
Speaker 6 (12:49):
What could we do?
Speaker 4 (12:50):
Let's see what do you have? I'm looking I got
a stack of tickets or Cody Jinks? How about?
Speaker 6 (12:56):
How about Cody Jinks?
Speaker 3 (12:57):
If you're up for a show to see Cody Jinks,
all we want to do is hear your food crime
seven seven nine six two.
Speaker 6 (13:03):
A random criminal wins next.
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Speaker 4 (13:11):
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Ninety three point one wpo C.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Now, So it's sad this University of Pittsburgh student missing.
Speaker 6 (13:28):
Yeah, it is God.
Speaker 4 (13:29):
She was last seen on vacation with her friends and
then all of a sudden, she's gone. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
So she was down there with five friends I understand,
And'sican Republic and she was on the beach. I don't
know if she was by her She must have been
by herself at the time, because that's what I need
more information on, Like, was she well, she's been missing
since Thursday now, and this story broke over the weekend.
She's from her family's Indian but they're you know, from Ashbourne.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
And so there's a local connection here.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
But just to have a beautiful young you know, I
can't imagine my daughter goes in I mean, you worry.
I even asked Cope last night. I'm like, so, what
about spring break for you now that you're in college.
She's like staying here. I'm like, good, good, good, you
know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
So it says okay.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
So shortly before six am, cameras captured five women and
a man leaving the beach, right, So who's the man?
Speaker 4 (14:24):
What's going on with that? Interesting? Well, we'll keep you
best posted.
Speaker 6 (14:28):
Yeah, it's it's very it's very, very weird.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
And they're looking in the air and I'm sorry, on
the water everywhere divers. Hey. The other big story is
this measles outbreak. Now, a positive case of measles was
confirmed in Howard County. They say it's not related to
the outbreak of hundreds of measle cases in Texas and
(14:51):
New Mexico. So the Maryland Department of Health is on it.
Hopefully we can get you know, stop this stuff. We
all need to be vaccinating. You know, we already got
rid of measles once I thought should not be back.
Speaker 6 (15:03):
And finally, can we talk sports just real quick.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
We are two weeks away from the Orioles Gnats in
the last preseason game. Okay, spring training starts two weeks
from this Thursday, ninety three point one WPOC traffic.
Speaker 4 (15:20):
I'm ready.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Okay, stop and go eight ninety five southbound between Lombard
Street and the Harbor Tunnel, North End. There's an accident
on B to B Parkway southbound between Annapolis Road and
six ninety five. Looks like the right lane is blocked there.
An accident on Baldwin Mill Road at Folston Road. Got
an accident on Maryland Route two at eighth Avenue in
glen Burnie. Three HO one southbound at fifty an accident
(15:41):
there causing the right lane to be blocked.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
And then that's that's what I got for you so far.
I'll keep you posted. I'm rewinding in my head what
I just said. Did I just say spring train? There's
so many things going on right now, I might have misspoke.
The season starts two weeks from Thursday.
Speaker 4 (15:56):
I think what you said that.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
Okay, Opening day is in the twenty seventh, real quick.
Grayson Rodriguez, he's one of our our he's got to
perform well.
Speaker 4 (16:07):
Starters.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
Okay, Grayson had to get a cortisone injection and his
elbow he's got inflammation. They've shut him down for ten days,
so he will not be ready for opening day. It
looks like and in football, just real quick, let me
throw this out. A lot of people are excited to
hear about Ronnie Stanley. Huh yeah, three years. Yeah, he's
tried a new deal. There's radio silence on Justin Tucker.
(16:30):
I don't know what's going on with that story. What
I do know is we've got a winner this morning
because we've got old Dominion tickets. If you are the
ninth caller now eight hundred three to two, one thirty
six ninety three, you're going to start your week with
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Not talking to you and me, Bethany, we're telling the truth. Yeah,
Sunshine sixty five Today it is going to be glorious
here at ninety three point one WPOC. Now we like
to keep you up to speed with country music, and
here's what happens at a quarter after seven every morning.
Speaker 7 (17:11):
Jay's music sitty minutes, yeah, sixty seconds. If you don't know,
like you own music.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Row Bethany country singer Jason Aldan delivered his verdict on
Donald Trump's first couple of months in the office.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
He says doing I think what a lot of us
hoped he would.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Speaking during an Instagram Q and A in the last
couple of days, he was asked what he thinks about
Trump's performance so far, he says, I'm actually excited, honestly,
he continued, Obviously, you guys know this. We've been a
fan of his for a long time, and he's doing
I think what a lot of us had hoped that
he would do what he said he was.
Speaker 6 (17:48):
Going to do, and he's doing that.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
He goes on to say, I think at the end
of the day, it seems he's going to save taxpayers
a lot of money. He's saving a ton of our
tax dollars that are going to waste. So go Jason Aldan.
All right, bar owners beware Apparently this organization ask GAP.
Speaker 6 (18:06):
Maybe you've heard about them.
Speaker 4 (18:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
ASKCAP stands for it's a big word, a big name
American society of composers, authors and publishers. They represent the
songwriters and they make sure that the songwriters get their cut. Yeah,
so bars and places that play music licensed music, they've
got to pay a fee for that, and bars that
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aren't are subject to being busted like these. Throughout the
entire Midwest, there's fifteen bars. Now ask Gap is suing
because they call up and said, hey, you owe us, like,
you know, one hundred thousand dollars in a lot of
the money, and they're going back and forth.
Speaker 4 (18:44):
So just I want everybody to get paid. But I
think that's a little bit wild. Well, they're going to
shake down some bars in Baltimore before long.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
You watch and finally, a whole lot of country musicians
have served time in the military, but not a single
one of them I've checked has re enlisted after they
hit it big until now he's on tour with Blake
Shelton and Craig Morgan has re enlisted in the United
States military.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
Wow, so let's hear it for him. I think that's awesome.
What isn't he like? Kind of old? He's what he.
Speaker 3 (19:18):
Served before, and he said he'd be proud to serve again.
So he's He's now a Warrant Officer one in the
US Army serves as the assistant bandmaster for the three
hundred and thirteenth Army Band at Redstone Arsenal in Alabama.
Speaker 7 (19:33):
I love it POC traffic.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
Right, you'll be seeing him too on the twentieth with
our buddy Blake Shelton.
Speaker 4 (19:40):
He'll be coming round town all right.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
I'm the utterly between seven ninety five and Baltimore National Pike.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
We're backed up right now. Ey South found the.
Speaker 3 (19:56):
Ninety three point one WPOC throwbacks country music.
Speaker 6 (20:00):
It's never sounded so good. Michael J and Bethany.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
I got a call Bethany about I don't know, three
weeks ago, and they said, hey, we want you to
record an announcement for the Maryland Home and Garden and
Craft Show.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
And I'm like, all right, I'll help you out.
Speaker 3 (20:16):
And so they had me record this thing just saying,
you know, welcome to the Maryland State Fairgrounds the Maryland
Homa Garden Show, brought to you by YadA, YadA, YadA,
four hundred and fifty vendors all this. So they took
that message that I recorded, sure, you know, and I thought,
I thought, well, if I'm going to talk about their show,
it could throw in Michael j and Bethany the Morning
Show at plug right. Well, I show up at the
(20:40):
at the home show just to go see the show.
You're a customer. Now you're just shopping the show and
I part. First off, the parking lot was slammed. You
couldn't find a space. Really yeah, oh it took like
ten minutes to find. You're driving up and down. Okay,
so I finally park and you're walking across the parking
lot and it's about a you know, four or five
minute walk from the parking lot down into the cow palace,
(21:02):
you know. And they've got me screaming on the microphone.
Speaker 6 (21:07):
You know.
Speaker 5 (21:07):
No, of course the audio is top tier. No, it
was actually it was okay, it was fine, but it
just I just feel like, I'm like, it's so goofy
to have to hear my life.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Nobody likes to.
Speaker 3 (21:19):
Hear their own voice, I know, nobody, And I just wondered.
I'm like, so I get a text from Steve Ruce,
a friend of mine. He's like, I cannot get away
from you, you know, And but he was, it's a
family event.
Speaker 6 (21:30):
Everybody wants to take their kids.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
And so if I'm sorry, if I maybe if you
shouted at people think I was shouting. I just was like,
you know, I was repetitive because they kept playing it
over and over and maybe we.
Speaker 4 (21:43):
Could have done a couple of different versions of it.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
I didn't know it was going to be looped, but
it was a fun place. A lot of people brought
their families. And speaking of kids and families, there's a
child psychologist, mother of three in Parents magazine and elsewhere.
She's been telling people that there's a particular phrase that
parents are saying to their kids, and she says it
(22:08):
causes your kids to struggle as adults.
Speaker 6 (22:12):
Oh do you want to guess what that phrase is?
Speaker 3 (22:16):
I don't parents say this all the time, but she says,
as a child psychologist, it's not a good thing to
teach your what is it?
Speaker 6 (22:23):
The line is I just want my kids to be happy.
Speaker 4 (22:26):
Oh God, everybody says that.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I know what she says, that's not what you want
to do. Instead, you want to teach your kids resilience
In childhood. She's like, that's what they need to learn.
Over time, they learn to avoid distress instead of managing it.
So what she's saying is, no, when your kids are
having a bad day, you got to let them wallow
in it a little bit. Don't solve all their problems
(22:49):
for them immediately.
Speaker 6 (22:51):
Exactly.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
The more they focus on making their kids happy, the
fewer feelings they learn to cope with. And she claims
that that's the reason that we're having so many, you know,
problems with depression.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
She said, it's a recipe for anxiety, fragility, and self doubt.
So let your kids have a rough day. It's how
they learned to cope. She says, what do you say?
So I asked on Facebook. Sure, back in Pikesville. Here's
the one comment that came in. One of the biggest
reasons we swoop in is because we feel uncomfortable. It's
almost as if we confuse our kids' feelings with our own. Yeah,
(23:28):
use this mantra, I'm safe, this isn't an emergency. I
can cope with this.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
So that's good advice.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
I wanted to ask you what you thought about all this,
and you know, throw it out there seven seven ninety
sixty two.
Speaker 4 (23:40):
You can text her, you can call eight hundred and
three two one thirty six ninety three.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
It's almost like every generation swings the opposite way of
the way that they were parented. Okay, okay, So I
mean this is just my observation. So like probably when
you were growing up, your parents were just like.
Speaker 6 (24:00):
Buye, let us run around, like come.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
Back before the sun goes down, right, see you later.
But then you I'm not speaking just for you, No,
I do swung the other way, and we're like, oh no,
I've got to keep an eye on them all the time.
I've got to help them all the time, Like because
you were kind of making up for the things that
like you felt what you were lacking.
Speaker 4 (24:20):
But now, now where do we go from here?
Speaker 3 (24:23):
Yeah, but what she's saying is probably right that we're
creating kids that don't know how to deal with life.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
Right maybe, But then also, like that can't be the
only reason that our kids have anxiety and depressions about
like the news and social media, and like, I mean,
there is a lot going on, right, No, absolutely, how
do you not want to save them from all this?
Speaker 6 (24:45):
Right?
Speaker 3 (24:45):
It must be it must be harder to be a
kid right now than ever before. And I think it's
harder to be a parent right now before. I mean,
we both are going through it. You know.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
That's why there's so many people that are in gen
z that are like, I'm not having kids. I'm not
doing it because well it's hard, you.
Speaker 3 (25:01):
Know what, there's enough, there's still nothing like having a child.
I mean, you look at our Baltimore Mayor just had
a little, beautiful little girl. I mean there she is
in the nursery of the hospital. She's all dimples. I mean,
you know what I'm saying. People aren't going to stop
one to have kids. And if you raise them, that's
the whole thing. It's like you gotta worry about it.
But what do you think about, you know, telling your kids,
(25:24):
I just want I just want my kids to be happy. Yeah,
like you're not supposed to say that ever. Again, perhaps
we should teach them to be content and not happy.
Speaker 6 (25:34):
Or teach them coping skills.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
And when you have a problem yourself, try to break
it down on a younger level and explain what you're
going through, and yeah, let them see you through a
little happy dants with sunshine sixties today, seventy tomorrow Orioles
opening day two weeks from thursday. I mean we sprung
(25:58):
ahead over the weekend. Yeah. Sure, maybe it's going to
take a few days to adjust, but we're getting there.
Speaker 4 (26:04):
I think this is an easier one to adjust too,
because you get more sunshine.
Speaker 3 (26:09):
Right. But if you're dragon tired and you're a good
person to speak to this because you went to your
brother's wedding.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
Yeah, we got home so late, got three hours sleep
last night. You're feeling okay, I'm okay so far.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (26:20):
So we were talking about a psychologist, a child psychologist,
and a mother of three who said it's not a
good idea to say that you want to make.
Speaker 6 (26:28):
Your kids happy.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
You just want your kids to be happy, because if
you're a parent, go back to when your child was
in the crib, you know, six months old, you know,
an infant crying?
Speaker 6 (26:39):
What happened?
Speaker 5 (26:41):
You know?
Speaker 3 (26:41):
Are you a parent that's stuck a pacifier in the
child's mouth, You play the music, you do anything possible
to get some sleep, right, Yeah, And that whole way
of dealing with that is something that apparently continues on. Yeah,
you're constantly looking for a way to satisfy, give them
a phone to play with, a computer a video game.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
And they're little con artists, so they immediately learn manipulation. Yes,
if I do this, then I'm going to get this right.
Like as infants, they learn what you know.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
So what we were saying is this child psychologist says,
that's really bad because we're not teaching our kids coping skills.
Speaker 6 (27:16):
So we just wondered what you thought about it.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
Ray says on text, only wanting happiness from my kids
places the responsibility of their happiness solely on me, and
I'm not responsible for theirs or anyone else's happiness.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
That's like one good point.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
Teaching kids how to regulate and live in unhappiness, boredom,
and uncomfortable situation situations allows them to grow and move
outside of the easy and the yeah stay in their
comfort zone. Someone said, Hi, I'm an elementary school teacher,
and we're focusing so hard on social emotional learning in
school because kids aren't learning that at home, right, And.
Speaker 6 (27:52):
Not only are they, you know, not learning it at home.
Speaker 3 (27:54):
I've got a kid who's early twenties twenty one now,
and you know, he his entire high school career was
through the pandemic and so like he didn't have you know,
a lot of the kids didn't. They didn't have prom
they didn't some of them didn't have graduations.
Speaker 4 (28:11):
It was all virtual or.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
Even just the like I know my kids liked missed
out on playdates and missed out on like hanging out
with people, so learning how to go to someone else's
house and like maybe they don't have the soda that
you like, and maybe you don't you know, maybe you
have to eat the broccoli at they're like or whatever,
like yeah, those might eat in the broad Perhaps the
best thing that we can do for our kids and
their emotional happiness is take care of our own.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
There you go, and and you know what, maybe that's
a great image for them to look at night.
Speaker 7 (28:39):
Yeah ninety three point one w POC traffic.
Speaker 4 (28:43):
Easier said than it's not easy.
Speaker 3 (28:45):
No again, do you agree with this statement that being
a parent now it's the toughest job ever. And I mean,
you know, you can't compare apples dapples.
Speaker 6 (28:54):
Who knows what our.
Speaker 4 (28:55):
Parents had to go through and grandparents, But it's not easy.
Being a tricky It is tricky, all right.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
The outer lip between seven ninety five and Baltimore National
Pike is stopping go right now. We're stopping go before
the Harbor Tunnel on eight ninety five southbound. Looks like
you're sitting there for about ten minutes. The accident on
Baldwin's Mill Roache. Someone texted and said that that has
cleared up, so thank you for that. And then looks
like eighty three southbound between Potonia and Timonium.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
Something going on there all right, And like I said,
enjoy the day, you know, make you, make you happy,
Sunshine sixty five, that's working for us.
Speaker 8 (29:25):
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