11 17 2023 You didn't tell your mom and dad you won a BILLION dollars?

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Episode Transcript

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Hello, kill it ash. Heythere, it's tomorrow show Today, Monday
is coming, brother, and thenwe'll have Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.
That's it. Like a half dayfor Wednesday for a lot of people if
they're not already leaving town. Yep, a lot of people on the road.
Unbelievable number of people booking airline flights. Yeah, we were talking about
that this morning, that the busiesttravel day of this year was sometime in

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June and it was two point ninemillion people flying in airlines. And they're
saying that over starting today, forthe next ten days, they plan on
moving twenty nine million people. Sothat means pretty much they're going to be
tying or breaking the record almost everyday for the next ten days. When
it comes to air travel. Wow, yeah, busy, and gas prices
are coming out, so there'll bemore people on the road. Fifty five

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million people are driving more than fiftymiles for Thanksgiving at some point over the
next few days. So yeah,the roads will be jammed, the air
will be jammed. It's all jammed. I'm thankful I don't have to go
too far, all right, Solet's get ready for a short week and
talk about the sums. Sometimes youmight say, am I ole my hell

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one of the things in that town. So I thought I'd speaking a little
Chinese for you. I think we'regoing to talk about a lot of people
will be upset about this. We'vegot a school down in Georgia. Tattnall
County High School has fired Isaac Farrellas the head football coach after a video
was posted on the Facebook page forthe school showing him and a local pastor

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baptizing twenty players after a practice.The attorney from the Freedom From Religion Foundation
sent a letter saying the district mustrefrain from infusing into its football program any
religion, and coach Ferrell cannot beallowed to preach to the student athletes or

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allow a local pastor to preach toor baptize students while they are working or
doing anything as an official representative ofthe school. With that, they fired
the coach. A lot of theparents down there, including Latifa Johnson,
whose son was one of the twentybaptized, said I was so proud of
my son because he made this decisionon his own. He did it because

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he wanted to do it. Ithought it was sweet when you see him
and the boys and they look howexcited they were to get baptized. Yeah,
and I can't believe that the coachhas been fired for this. What
do you think Jonathan should do?Should we not mingle the faith? I
mean, how would you feel ifit was like a I don't know if
they baptized people in the Muslim faith, but if it was a Muslim doing

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something to welcome them into the Muslimfaith, would you be upset? Well,
I know we're gonna have a lotof people want to chime in on
this on Monday. That'd be good. I'm going to contemplate a couple of
things between now and then. Okay, so this is a thinking This is
a thinking podcast. We'll give yousome things to think about. All well,

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think about this. Science says thebest time to take a nap on
Thanksgiving Day is two point fifty sevenin the afternoon late. For me,
that is the perfect time for thedigestion and everything that what do they call
it, the trip to fan Itall hits perfectly at two fifty seven,
and your perfect nap would last fortytwo minutes. And again the uh It

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says that the younger people, surprisinglyare the ones who enjoy naps. The
most top trending group is the genZers. Sixty percent say they enjoy a
nap on Thanksgiving. It works itsway down to only twenty percent of baby
boomers favorite day of the year.I don't know whether the baby boomers are

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thinking, you're missing out on thebest. This is the it's my favorite
day of the year. Typically atour house would get up. I get
up early because I'm used to gettingup early, so I'll have a cup
of coffee, go on my phoneor my tablet, read some of the
news. Then I doze back offthe sleep. Oh excuse me, I
got to put the turkey in theoven at six, So then I doze

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back off the sleep, and Iset an alarm for seven when I go
base the turkey. And then ifnobody's upstill, I go back for a
little more another nap. As itwere, I set the alarm again and
get ready to base the turkey.Sally's going to be up to get that
sausage egg casse role going for breakfast. They love that on Thanksgiving morning.

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So a turkey and a pig havealready died. To make sure we're having
a good Thanksgiving. So far,so then we do all the stuff in
the kitchen. I always help outin the kitchen because they get the snack
the entire time. And then wehave lunch. Now I do realize why
the time is a little later thantypical, because usually Thanksgiving lunch is a
little later than usual, probably aboutone fifteen on average. So then you

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eat it all up for about anhour and then a snap time. Now,
oh, I forgot to say,I've already turned on the Detroit Lions
game. The only time of theyear I ever watched the Detroit Lions Thanksgiving
Day. So I turn on theDetroit Lions game and then I take my
nap, and then I wake up, and then I have some more of

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dessert whatever that was. I thinkthis year is going to be a pea
CAMPI shipped in from Texas. Now, why do we have to pay extra
money to ship in two peak campisfrom Texas? I have no idea,
but they arrived yesterday, and thenyou get up a need again and then
you watch the football. Now,some people might want to go outside and

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be active. That would be thetime to do that, but there's no
presence to clean up, no wrappingall over the place. I mean,
it's just the perfect day. Now. Why the baby boomers don't get in
on the nap I don't know,but I'm all about only twenty percent of
the baby boomers say they like tonap on Thanksgiving. The question I have

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is where is your place to nap? Where do you like to nap if
you're because it's it gets weird,right if you've got twenty people at the
house, do you just say andI all walked up? That's true.
I got in my bedroom because wegot little Sarah in the house. She's
on a schedule and she's going toget up I think soon. I can't

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remember her schedule now, but she'sgoing to get up right around the middle
of my naptime, so I'll bein the bedroom. Well, what about
the other guests? Who, Yeah, there's a boy. There's at least
one of the three boys sprawled downon the sofa, so they're seating for
three gone in the den? Yeah. Yeah. If I'm just some out
of town guest visiting for the holidays, where do I sleep? Do I

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just try to make do with afolding chair? You get no, Yeah,
it's interesting because I told you thatone of our newest sponsors chaping furniture.
We got the new furniture for theden, and but we didn't we
didn't get a recliner. I didn'twant to recline her, so I don't
have a recliner in the den.I got comfortable chairs and seating, but
no recliner, so I won't besleeping. I never like to sleep in

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the recliner anyway. Okay, allright, so anyway, I don't know
where you're sleeping. Yeah, where'sthe perfect map? Take place for Thanksgiving?
If it's nice out by chances ofwarm Thanksgiving, the hammocks open,
that's good. You know what isthe weather? Have we looked ahead?
Four things have not. Let's takea look and see if I can see

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right now. Thursday is calling alittle chili, no clouds perfect, but
they say Carolina gorgeous sunshine. Yeah, but only a high of fifty seven
on Thanksgiving. We'll be warming upfor the Carolina Clemson game sixty five on
that day. Hey, by theway, pregame for the Carolina Clemson kickoff
on that Saturday. Yeah, Idon't know exactly where I'm going to be

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yet, but I'm hosting. It'skind of a big deal. I'm told
it's something for LG Electronics, okay, and they have a challenge for you.
It's like a video game challenge,all right. So I'll be in
a tent with about ten LG bigscreens and you walk in and play the
game to win prizes. Nice havemore details on that coming up. That's

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going to start three hours before kickoff. Kickoff is at seven thirty, right,
I can't remember this week seven thirty. I can't remember if next week
seven thirty or seven o'clock. Iknow it's another game though. Speaking of
prizes, we still have to identifyhim as Jane or John Doe. We
don't know his name. He livesin Maine, and John Doe won one

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point three five billion dollars this yearin the Mega Millions. It's the second
largest prize ever awarded. And Ithink this weekend between the two o were
like a half billion. I meanit's like three hundred and twenty something million
for Saturday Nights power Ball. Sohe has been apparently either living with a

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woman or dating her or something.There's a relationship because she's also the mother
of a child. Okay, sothere's that thing going on there. Well,
according to the paper. He isnow suing her, so I guess
we're going to be cutting off thatrelationship. And the reason is because when

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he won the billion dollars, hemade everybody close to him, and I
don't know who else there was inthis little inner circle, because I can
tell you who's on the out ofthe inner circle sign a non disclosure agreement.
So obviously he's in one of thosestates where they don't have to tell
you who the winner is. Sohe's known as John Doe. His photo

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is never taken. He picked upthe billion dollars, went home, and
then made some people we don't knowwho sign a non disclosure agreement that they
would never tell anybody that he wonthe billion dollars. Well, apparently that
girl told his parents. So hisparents did not know that last or a

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year ago go in January, hewon a billion dollars. Their son was
a billionaire. That was a secret. And then now we do know the
woman who's being sued, Sarah Smith. I don't know if she let it
slip up or what, but shetold mom and dad, and now he
is suing her. I don't wantyou, hope to get out of her

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whatever money he gave her out ofthe billion dollars. Yeah, it's not
like he wants the money. Idon't need the money. I just want
you to feel some pain. ButI how imagine if you if you found
out Jane had become a billionaire ayear ago and she just didn't tell you.

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That is so bizarre to me.I would think that they would be
some of the people who had designedthe non disclosures, but he was.
He was just trying to keep thata secret. How do you keep that
A relationship problem is going on herewith this dude? How do you keep
that a secret? How could youpossibly hope to keep I'm a billionaire a

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secret? Well, I got totell you something. I think if I
want a billion dollars, my lifewould not change. Let me ask you
a question. Did your parents,even in your fifties or sixties, offer
you cash for gas or cash forsomething? How could you accept it if

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you were a billionaire? Right?Good question? And wouldn't you want to
up the gifts to mom and dad? True? You'd be like, I
got a billion dollars this year.Guess what mom, car, your dreams,
whatever it is, you want ahouse, you got the house.
Whatever, you've only got a coupleof more years on the planet. Let
me make him the best ever.Not this guy. This guy said,

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shush, he's got a lot ofrelationship problem. Nobody's to know. I
got the billion. I understand whyyou don't want most people to know.
Yeah, but your family, yourmom and dad, mom and dad.
I mean, I would be temptedif I won, let's say, three
hundred and twenty million dollars, Iwill be tempted not to tell Sally that
I want to. Matter of fact, I can tell you no, discourser

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don't tell. I can just tellher I wouldn't. I wouldn't. That's
great. Now, I would finda way to say, hey, we
just got a great phone call fromour financial advisor. I don't know how
these guys do it on Wall Street, but this guy just turned one hundred
percent on our investment on our onour investment accounts. So you can go

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pick out that house now, Okay, but here's your limit, whatever the
limit is, all right, Soyou can't go over eight hundred thousand dollars
on that all in house, furniture, everything all in one eight hundred thousand
dollars. You've got thirty million dollars. That's right when you died. If
she if she ever saw the account, she would be so angry at you.

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I would tell John, don't evertell her. Was she never going
to have access to the bank accountsor to the financial records? No,
No, my financial guy knows.Just put her on an allowance. Wow,
and if it runs out, sendher a can of tuna. Because

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I could see Sally saying, well, you know, I was talking to
so and so at the grocery store, and she was telling me that her
daughter, you know, and this, that and the other. So I
just gave him one hundred thousand dollars. What Oh. I could hear Sally
saying that, Oh my gosh.And finally, moral dilemma. Monday's coming
and we're going to be talking abouta young lady here. And we've kind

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of broached this subject in the past, not as a moral dilemma, but
we've talked about ex's who still livetogether because they can't neither one of them
can afford to move out. Sharinga couples right now that does not live
in the midlands of South Carolina.But Sally told me that they wanted to
get a divorce, but neither onethat can't afford it. Well, so

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they don't live together. I mightthey can afford separate places to live,
but they can't afford a divorce.How expensive is a divorce? Thankfully,
I don't know these things. Well, this one, I don't know if
they have a divorce. But accordingto her email, I never really thought
we would get this serious. ButI find myself six months into our relationship
with this guy, and so Iguess we're kind of getting serious. And
I still haven't told them that Ilive with my ex. I don't even

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know how to bring it up atthis point. What should I do?
I mean, she's living with herex boyfriend. I think ex husband,
ex husband? Wow? And thenthey share there. They say about fifteen
percent of the people who get divorcescan't move out. They just don't have
the money. Interesting, Yeah,and possibly kids are involved and it's just

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easier. Ye. Look, wegot five bed here, there's only two
of us. I'll sleep on oneend of the hall, you sleep on
the other. There I'll have tosee you that much. And you know,
we got to be good friends anywayfor the kids, So it works
out great. Well, now,she thought she was just gonna have funsies
with this guy, kind of date, go out something to do every now
and again, and now here sheis like six months, you never brought
it up. Now, how doyou bring it up? How do you

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bring up the same date for sixmonths? It seems like we're getting serious,
and I think I should tell yousomething serious about my relationship with my
ex husband. I mean she stillhasn't invited me to her house. Yeah,
that's not going to happen either.That's like one of those other like
when when I first when Jordan wasborn and I moved shortly thereafter when he

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was three, I moved to LongIsland, and I remember the first girl
I dated on Long Island and wewent on two dates and they were great
dates, and I felt like Ishould bring up the fact that I have
a son, and so I didn'tknow I was. It was like the
end of the day that I'm sittingthere in the car and I'm like,

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this has been awesome, and Ijust feel like I got to tell you
something. And I was kind oflike nervous about it, and she got
like scared looking, and so Idon't even know why I said this,
but I said I was born afemale. She said what And I'm like,
I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. I have a son. And
she was like, Oh, that'snot a big deal. Oh I do

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that all the time. I playthat. I play that card. What
I looked at Sally like two daysago, I forgot what I was gonna
tell her. I said, look, I got some bads and just hang
it out there. Oh my wifehates that. Just let that float right
across the kitchen and Sally stops whatshe's doing. She turns around and looks

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at me. She kept that lookingawrye and she goes, well, and
whatever it was, I forgot whatit was. You know, I missed
the sale on Eddy. I'm notgoing to be here to borrow. I'm
not going to be here tomorrow whenthe appliance guy comes because I got to
go to the saluta and do somethingwith Dad. Oh okay, but I

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do that all the time. Somy wife, there is no way to
tell her bad news because if Isay I have bad news, so said,
don't preface it. Let me decidewhat kind of news it is.
Oh my gosh, you just sayit. So then like one time I
had a bad medical report once.Yeah, and I just came in and
just doctor so and so says,I have this. How do you just

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come in and tell somebody that,well, you said, don't say bad
news. I have no way ofdelivering anything that's not positive. There's no
way to do it. Oh okay, all right, listen, let's talk
about some of that. Hey,what do you what's your angle on how

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to handle that? By the way, just as a side note, how
do you handle that with your spot? Have you ever dated anybody who's still
married to their still living I betyou there's a bunch of people who've been
doing it right now. It seemslike that is kind of really caught on
in the last tent. Not caughton, but financial situations have forced people
into that kind of situation over thelast decade. Okay, you know how

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