2nd Date Update Emily And Ryan From OKC "They Roll In The Same Circle"

Emily and Ryan from OKC run in the same circles, but did a soft launch kill their 2nd Date?

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and j Ron's.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Second date update on kJ one three Ryan, Okay, see
on the second date update. Hi Ryan, Hey, now I'm
confused and your thing with Emily. You met on an app,
but you also knew each other or what's the story.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
We did know each other, but we met on hinge.
We have met in person. We have some mutual friends.
We kind of hung out in similar circles and stuff
like we you know, I recognized her and I was like,
oh yeah, she friends when I'm not great at dating apps.

Speaker 4 (00:35):
So this felt like this was like a huge.

Speaker 3 (00:37):
Wind, you know, uh so you go on a date? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (00:41):
So oh sorry, we went.

Speaker 3 (00:43):
We we went to the Jones Assembly downtown for dinner.

Speaker 5 (00:46):
Nice.

Speaker 4 (00:48):
I was happy she didn't order a salad, you know, she.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Got a burger and a beard.

Speaker 4 (00:53):
Just like that's always a green flag to me.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
We talked for a.

Speaker 4 (00:58):
Dude for like two hours we sat there or she said,
this is the most fun.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
I've had on a date in a while. Okay, so
I thought, all right, cool, maybe this is going somewhere.
Then the next morning I thought it'd be funny. I
posted a reel just the beer from our dates that
said date night went pretty well and.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
She was all kinds of upset.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
Oh I didn't even tag her.

Speaker 5 (01:19):
Oh I know. Wait wait wait, so did she say
something or.

Speaker 4 (01:23):
She stopped responding completely.

Speaker 3 (01:25):
That's what happened. I like totally ghosted by her. I
tried to text her like, hey, I had a great time,
We'd love to see you again.

Speaker 5 (01:33):
Nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:34):
I feel like she she might have been taking.

Speaker 4 (01:36):
My posts out of contact, something like that.

Speaker 5 (01:39):
We'll find out. Okay, we'll get Emily on the photo.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
Just try to figure out if that's the problem or
why she doesn't seem.

Speaker 5 (01:45):
To want to go out again. Okay, all right, Okay,
we'll take a break, we play a couple of songs.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
We'll see what's up with this second date update kJ
went out three e TG Amanda and j ro out
in the morning. This is j Amanda and j Rob's
second date update on kJ one three.

Speaker 5 (01:59):
Emily's on the second taate updated.

Speaker 2 (02:01):
I got to say that he thinks he knows why
you've been ghosting him after he posted something about his
beer or something on Instagram.

Speaker 5 (02:11):
I had a great date. Here's a picture of my
beer or something.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
It was a cold beer and you having a cold
shoulder wait, am I am.

Speaker 1 (02:18):
I warm hair right something like that.

Speaker 4 (02:21):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:21):
I didn't even follow him on Instagram. My friend sent
it to me and was like, hey, did you like
already saw launch this guy? Like date and night went
pretty well.

Speaker 4 (02:35):
I mean his friends.

Speaker 6 (02:36):
Were commenting like, I don't know, finally locking someone.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
Down or when's the wedding? And he went through and
liked them all, like every single one. And I mean
we met one time once once, you know what I mean. Okay,
it felt like he.

Speaker 6 (02:53):
Was just like trying to publicly claim me.

Speaker 5 (02:58):
I guess I don't know.

Speaker 4 (02:59):
I just got to weird it out, Okay.

Speaker 5 (03:01):
Okay, mark in his territory or something with the picture
of my beer. Well, Ryan, come on in here.

Speaker 3 (03:07):
I was not claiming you. It was a picture of
a beer. I didn't even write your name in it.

Speaker 6 (03:12):
But everybody knew it was about me.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
They knew we were going out.

Speaker 4 (03:15):
We have mutuals.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
And one of your comments was even like, yeah, she's great.

Speaker 6 (03:19):
I might even have to retire from the act.

Speaker 4 (03:23):
What are you supposed to do when you like somebody?

Speaker 3 (03:25):
I guess that's terrible. Huh.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
It's just I don't know, it's just moving way too fast.
We hadn't even texted again, Like, we didn't even text.

Speaker 6 (03:32):
Each other, and you're announcing it like we're exclusive.

Speaker 7 (03:38):
Because I feel like it's not really necessarily what he
posted or said. It's the comments that everybody else made
and his reaction to them, And I don't think he
should be held accountable for all these other reactions.

Speaker 5 (03:50):
What was your intent when you put this post up?

Speaker 3 (03:53):
But I'm having a night out that I'm having a
good time, you.

Speaker 4 (03:59):
Know, low expectations, and then people were just kind of
being funny on the picture, that's all.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
I mean, what are you supposed to say.

Speaker 5 (04:06):
To something like that?

Speaker 6 (04:07):
Hey, can you take.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
Down your soft launch post of us?

Speaker 7 (04:10):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (04:11):
It wasn't supposed to It wasn't supposed to be a
soft launch.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
I'm happy to take it down.

Speaker 6 (04:15):
I'm so sorry it's already public.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
Why take it down now?

Speaker 3 (04:19):
I get you, but why are you assuming the worst?

Speaker 6 (04:23):
Maybe next time, just.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
Don't show it to four hundred people before you.

Speaker 6 (04:28):
Show something like that to me, Like, I just appreciate communication.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
Talk to me.

Speaker 5 (04:32):
First, you know, Okay, so you're done, You're done.

Speaker 1 (04:37):
I kind of just I don't know, I just I
feel like it's a lot.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
I yeah, okay, thank you for coming on Emily by
Emily Hello, bye, okay bye hello bye.

Speaker 3 (04:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (04:52):
Okay, Ryan, that was an overreaction.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
I didn't tager, I.

Speaker 4 (04:55):
Didn't say her name. It was a picture of my beer.

Speaker 5 (04:58):
It was a beer let's beer. Yeah right, right right, yeah,
all right. That is not a soft launch.

Speaker 7 (05:06):
I've been involved in a soft launch recently, and that
is not what it looks like.

Speaker 2 (05:10):
Just for the record, Okay, well Ryan, uh sorry we
couldn't getch you another day with Emily, but thanks for
coming on the second date update.

Speaker 3 (05:17):
Thank you.

Speaker 5 (05:17):
We cried yanks, all right. I don't know how I
feel about this.

Speaker 2 (05:21):
He was just kind of vague, you know, he didn't
tag her. I'm gonna throw in also that how would
her friend know that that date was about her if
she hadn't already talked to it said I was going
out with this guy, right right, Well, she's soft launch,
you know what I'm saying? Four or five four six,
one two seven. If you want to chime in on

(05:42):
the second date, Okay, there's a lot going on here.
kJ Oald three TJ Amanda and Jay out of the morning.

Speaker 6 (05:46):
That was not a soft launch.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
That guy was optimistic and that guy was shooting his shot,
and that.

Speaker 4 (05:53):
Lady saying she should.

Speaker 6 (05:55):
Have asked him first.

Speaker 1 (05:56):
They're not together, right, why does he need him supposed
to approve?

Speaker 7 (06:00):
It was one day one I had this off launch
with my boyfriend after like months, and it was like
very thought out and like very intricate, Like this was
not that come.

Speaker 6 (06:09):
On, not that does so the people these days are
so strange.

Speaker 7 (06:13):
I know, right, I know, Okay, it's a tough world
out there.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
It's wild.

Speaker 4 (06:17):
Yeah, guys, good luck that guy. Tell that guy he
did a good job.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
And that girl's wild Jesse and okase.

Speaker 4 (06:25):
To Ryan to run.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
You can why that girl is way too much.

Speaker 4 (06:33):
It was not about her at all, that tell just run, yeah,
go away and get out of there.

Speaker 5 (06:40):
Well, it's just sensitive.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
I think if she is that into herself that she's
assuming such nonsense.

Speaker 5 (06:47):
Run Thanks Jesse, kJ went three T j Amanda and
Jay Rod in the morning,