2nd Date Update Sarah And John From Shawnee "Her Cousin Set Them Up"

Sarah and John from Shawnee went out after her cousin set them up. The date was easy, they had a great time. But now he won't text back for the next date.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t j Amanda and j Rod's second date
update On kJ one O three, we got Sarah from
Shawnee on the second date update. Hey Sarah there, Hey hi, Okay, yeah,
you really want another date with John? I can tell
you nervous, but don't be. You decide, tell us how
you met, tell us about the first date, and then
we'll see if we can't, you know, get you another

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date with John.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Okay, Okay, I really appreciate it. He was a friend
of my cousin and so like, I mean, I just
felt like, okay, he's a friend of him, so we're like, okay,
he's cool. And he went up to dinner, like, got dessert.
It was just like easy. It was so easy, you know,
like I just I felt chemistry.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
Yeah it kicks.

Speaker 1 (00:46):
You're like, yeah, we're both feeling this. Okay, So why
why are you on the second date update? Then?

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Well, I texted him after I told him I had
a great time. He said he did too, But then nothing,
he just kind of disappeared, okay, And anytime I try
to make plans he dodges it or doesn't reply at all.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
It's not good.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
I don't know if he's over it. Then fine, I
just want to know what happened and he won't.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
Go out again. You know, I had a great time too,
but bye, okay.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
That's good.

Speaker 2 (01:18):
This one just didn't feel like it was going to
go that way.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
Okay, all right, so you know how it works. We'll
get John on the phone and we'll say, dude, what's
going on. Happen you guys clicked, Let's go on another
date or at least find out why he's being flaky?

Speaker 3 (01:30):
Okay, thank you? Yeah, all right, we'll talk to him.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
Next Second date update kJ went three tj Amanda and
j Rod in the morning. This is DJ.

Speaker 4 (01:37):
Amanda and j Rod's second date update on kJ one
O three.

Speaker 3 (01:41):
Let's get John into the second date update.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
Sarah said, you guys went on a date and it
was just easy. It clicked, like everything felt good and
you even said after the date I had a great time,
and then nothing. She can't get you to even text
her back for a second date, So what's going on here?

Speaker 3 (01:59):
Honest?

Speaker 4 (02:00):
For me, the making plans with her just kind of
drove me crazy. Why because she couldn't make a single
decision ever. For example, well, like I asked her.

Speaker 5 (02:16):
Where she wanted to go eat right, and she just
kept saying, you decide. It was like over and over,
you decide. And I gave her three options. I said,
you know, we could get Mexican Italian, I know the
best sushi spot, right, and she just said, I'm good
with whatever you want.

Speaker 3 (02:36):
Okay, So you can't pick one. You can't just pick one.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
You just decide, like I picked a place for the day,
no problem.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
But it just kept continuing this indecisions. Right. So then
we're at the restaurant, same thing.

Speaker 5 (02:52):
She couldn't pick a drink, she couldn't pick food off
the menu, she had to ask the server what they thought.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
She should get.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
Right. I can't believe this, Like, I can't believe you're being.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
Serious, Like that's that's why you ghosted me. Okay, just
make a damn decision.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
I wasn't trying to be easy going, like I'm sorry, honestly,
I didn't care where we had dinner. I just like
to go with the flow.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
Yeah, So John, John, Okay, I get this because sometimes
I'm like in the mode where I want to make
decisions and other times I like, really I don't care.
So whatever's good for you, let's go there. What do
you want, and that's your deal breaker. She let you
pick the places to go have dinner, and you're like, no,
can't be with this person?

Speaker 5 (03:31):
Yeah, I mean I mean someone who who can speak
up and brings some energy to the conversation, not just
not just sort of nod and smile pleasantly.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
Okay, that really frustrating.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
I mean, I didn't think that was such a deal breaker.
And it sounds like you're bringing other relationship baggage into
this because we didn't even know each other that long for.

Speaker 5 (03:56):
Me to to that point to bring You're not my therapist.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
You don't need to bring in where are they?

Speaker 5 (04:04):
That's old relationships stuff. I thought you're cool and all.
I just don't see this happening. And the fact that
you can't, the fact that you needed to call the
radio to talk about.

Speaker 3 (04:16):
This, is actually astonishing.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
Oh wow, Okay, all right, listen, John, we don't want
to discourage that, so where to let you go? Yeah,
but made a decision. But thanks for deciding to come
on with us, John, And uh, good luck with everything. Okay,
all right, Okay, my gosh, he was saying like you
need therapy, and I mean he was kind of good

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after you Sarah, just because you let him pick the restaurant.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
I don't know. I guess it's just a turn off
to be easy going.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
I just like to be surprised. I like other people's suggestions.
I just don't know what's wrong with that. I just
wanted to hang out. I didn't care.

Speaker 1 (04:53):
Where we went.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
Maybe you need a man that just wants to take
charge that exists. He's going. I asked you where you
wanted to go. You didn't know. I gave you five.
Well how about you just a side?

Speaker 2 (05:05):
Yeah, Sometimes as I's have a man go hey, we're
going here, meet me at this time.

Speaker 3 (05:09):
I mean, I get his side too.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
Sometimes you want someone else to just kind of play
with the conversation, and other times you like, just pick
a spot.

Speaker 3 (05:16):
I'll be there.

Speaker 1 (05:17):
Well, Sarah, sorry we couldn't get you another date, but
thanks for coming on the second date update Yeah thanks sir.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
Okay, all right, thank you guys. It was worth a shot.

Speaker 1 (05:26):
Now I will say, yeah, maybe he does that, like
what kind of food do you want?

Speaker 3 (05:32):
Deal?

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Because like for me, I do that to people, like, hey,
let's meet for lunch. I'm like cool, I go to
like two restaurants, so please pick one that you think
is good. Yeah, otherwise we're going to be going to
help pack her fuzzies.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
Yeah, because it's near my house. Okay, I don't know.
I tell you to call on talk about it, but.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
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