June 24, 2025 • 7 mins
Shelly and Jay from MWC went out, and when he noticed the rock on her right hand he had to ask about it. It's from an ex finace. So she likes it, he didn't, so is this why there has not been another date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Janet and j Rod's second date
update on kJ one three. You got Shelley from Midwest
City on the second date update. Hi Shelley, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm so glad you guys took my call.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
I know you're eager to get another date with Jay.
You guys met online?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Is that right?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
You met on an app?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Or what? Well? We met on a hinge actually, and
we had dinner last weekend. Great time. He's hot, like,
he looks like he actually like drinks water and he
stretches hot.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Doesn't like athletic, no total package.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
What did you guys do?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
So we met up for sushi and I, you know,
I don't know. It was just easy and fun and but.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
You're on the second date update so.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
So so yeah. So since then, just nothing and I
don't know. He I sent him a text. He gives
me a thumbs up, not even like a thumbs up
emoji in a message. He just gives me a tapac ah.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
That's all the contact you've had with him.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Yeah, and it's like, well wait a second, just hey,
j just say you're not into it, because I don't know.
I wouldn't have called if I hadn't felt like we
both had fun. So okay, yeah, I'm just I'm really confused.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
All right, what's going on?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Jay?
Speaker 1 (01:28):
We'll get him on the phone. We'll get inside of
the story, and who knows, maybe there's a reasonable explanation.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Okay, I mean, I hope and I hope he's okay,
he's a really cool guy.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
All right, we'll talk to J. Next Second Date Update
kJ what all three? TJ Janet, Jay Rodd in the morning.
It's TJ, Janet and J Rods Second Date Update IM
kJ one O three Jay, Welcome on the second Date Update.
We appreciate you taking time to talk to us this morning. Yeah,
of course, Shelley said, you guys met on hinge and
you had this great date. She texts you afterwards to
(01:59):
go out again, and all you did was just tap
back of thumbs up on her message. And that's it. Dude,
you went cold after that.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
She can't figure it out.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
So we're going to ask you, why don't you seem
to want to go on a second date with Shelley.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
She was wearing a substantial side diamond ring like this.
This thing was huge and it looked like an engagement ring.
I know she was engaged last year, So I'm over
here thinking like she still hung up on her ex.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
You know, God, hold on a second, hold on Shelley's here, Yes, Shelley,
What that's what this is about.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
I mean, it's a huge diamond ring. It's kind of
hard to ignore it, Shelly.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Right, let's just I mean, let's let's talk about this.
He thinks you're still hung up on your ex because
you're wearing what he perceived.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
To be your engagement ring.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
What were you wearing your engagement ring?
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
The ring is from a past relationship. Yeah, but I
mean it's a it's just a gorgeous piece of jewelry.
I'm not gonna toss out.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
I mean, I just it was. I mean, I'm not.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Gonna just keep it in some drawer. It's because it
didn't work out with some dude.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
So that's I mean. I try to get that. I
kind of get that, Kelly. But you're still wearing the
ring from your ex. Automatically makes me think you're still
emotionally attention like that. That's just what comes out, you know,
by me seeing that, Well.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
That's Jay not there, this is my ring. It's not
Steve's ring.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Oh no, it's like I told you, It just gave
me that I'm not over in the energy.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Okay, well you're the one who needs to get over
it because you're giving a whole energy. That's the energy
you're giving.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Oh okay, wow, we're going there now.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
That's yeah, because this is so silly, we vibed, we
had a really amazing time and you could have just
asked about it, and instead you ghosted me with your
dumb top back. So grow up, Like, really, I'm not
even wearing it on my left hand. I was wearing
it on my right hand.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Oh wait, you're wearing it on your right hand.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
So okay, okay, okay, don't you.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Can tell when that rings an engagement ring. But that's
different though, that's different if it was an engagement ring
and now you're not engaged. So you take this beautiful
diamond and you put some bling on your right hand.
I gotta say, I don't think that has anything to
do with your ex I think it has to do
with the bling.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Exclamation point. Wait, your tap back?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Yeah, yeah, you're tap back.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
And now this is unbelievable. What if you swapped the
ring just for the date.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Oh my gosh, like I said, grow up, grow up.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Okay, so we're not getting we're not getting a second date.
Here is what we're saying.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
No, no thank you, no thanks, this is just yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
We're good here. I mean, I mean you can stare
at your ring and think by your ex.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Okay, j I'll scare I'll care at my ring and
think about my ex.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Okay, wow, okay, wow here, okay, Jay, we're gonna let
you go. Thanks for coming on the second eight up, Davin. Okay,
see what he's saying right now? Yeah, but I do
I get now what you're saying. I took the ring
off my engagement ring finger, which is the left hand.
I wear it on my right hand, just like any
(05:20):
ring I would buy at you know, Zaos and wear
around town. Do you shop an.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Engaming section for your jewelry.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Let's say dives direct. We'll go with dis going is directed. Okay, yes, I.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Know the ladies will agree with me, but I'm not
tossing out a diamond ring. So yeah, if I got bling,
I wanted to shine.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Okay, Well we'll see if people agree. But thanks for
coming on the second date updates. Sorry we didn't get
you another day shilling God.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I'm so grateful for you guys.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
I think I dodged a bull. I just tapped you
a smiley face.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Yeah, I tapped you a heart.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Ah.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Okay, what are you thinking? Four oh five, four six
oh one oh two seven. I have a beautiful ring.
It no longer represents my engagement. I put it on
my right hand. Uh are you hung up on that person?
And you just hung up on fancy rings?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
At first, I was thinking just the ring, but then
I just don't like her attitude.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
She was very.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Defensive about it.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
He just dodged a bullet.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
She just seems kind of I don't know. I just
want the backstory, like the break up card, but I
just want to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I mean, she's an X for a reason, so well,
maybe maybe he's an ex for a reason. You know,
he might maybe he was an awful boyfriend. Yeah, but
she's like it. But I'm not. And I'm not even
gonna give him this ring back because I don't want
him to have it. I'm just gonna wear it because
it's awesome. We got a message, and Brandon kind of
agrees with you.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
He's like, run, dude, she went straight to the ahole
comment because of the disagreement.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Yeah, I think the ex to Gov runners and forget
the ring, you can keep it.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Oh god, I'm out all of this, all this assumption. Okay,
all right, thank you now unless we assume. Bye.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Yeah, you guys, have a good day.
This is t J Janet and j Rod's second date
update on kJ one three. You got Shelley from Midwest
City on the second date update. Hi Shelley, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm so glad you guys took my call.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
I know you're eager to get another date with Jay.
You guys met online?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Is that right?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
You met on an app?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Or what? Well? We met on a hinge actually, and
we had dinner last weekend. Great time. He's hot, like,
he looks like he actually like drinks water and he
stretches hot.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Doesn't like athletic, no total package.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
What did you guys do?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
So we met up for sushi and I, you know,
I don't know. It was just easy and fun and but.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
You're on the second date update so.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
So so yeah. So since then, just nothing and I
don't know. He I sent him a text. He gives
me a thumbs up, not even like a thumbs up
emoji in a message. He just gives me a tapac ah.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
That's all the contact you've had with him.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Yeah, and it's like, well wait a second, just hey,
j just say you're not into it, because I don't know.
I wouldn't have called if I hadn't felt like we
both had fun. So okay, yeah, I'm just I'm really confused.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
All right, what's going on?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Jay?
Speaker 1 (01:28):
We'll get him on the phone. We'll get inside of
the story, and who knows, maybe there's a reasonable explanation.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Okay, I mean, I hope and I hope he's okay,
he's a really cool guy.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
All right, we'll talk to J. Next Second Date Update
kJ what all three? TJ Janet, Jay Rodd in the morning.
It's TJ, Janet and J Rods Second Date Update IM
kJ one O three Jay, Welcome on the second Date Update.
We appreciate you taking time to talk to us this morning. Yeah,
of course, Shelley said, you guys met on hinge and
you had this great date. She texts you afterwards to
(01:59):
go out again, and all you did was just tap
back of thumbs up on her message. And that's it. Dude,
you went cold after that.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
She can't figure it out.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
So we're going to ask you, why don't you seem
to want to go on a second date with Shelley.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
She was wearing a substantial side diamond ring like this.
This thing was huge and it looked like an engagement ring.
I know she was engaged last year, So I'm over
here thinking like she still hung up on her ex.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
You know, God, hold on a second, hold on Shelley's here, Yes, Shelley,
What that's what this is about.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
I mean, it's a huge diamond ring. It's kind of
hard to ignore it, Shelly.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Right, let's just I mean, let's let's talk about this.
He thinks you're still hung up on your ex because
you're wearing what he perceived.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
To be your engagement ring.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
What were you wearing your engagement ring?
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
The ring is from a past relationship. Yeah, but I
mean it's a it's just a gorgeous piece of jewelry.
I'm not gonna toss out.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
I mean, I just it was. I mean, I'm not.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Gonna just keep it in some drawer. It's because it
didn't work out with some dude.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
So that's I mean. I try to get that. I
kind of get that, Kelly. But you're still wearing the
ring from your ex. Automatically makes me think you're still
emotionally attention like that. That's just what comes out, you know,
by me seeing that, Well.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
That's Jay not there, this is my ring. It's not
Steve's ring.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Oh no, it's like I told you, It just gave
me that I'm not over in the energy.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Okay, well you're the one who needs to get over
it because you're giving a whole energy. That's the energy
you're giving.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Oh okay, wow, we're going there now.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
That's yeah, because this is so silly, we vibed, we
had a really amazing time and you could have just
asked about it, and instead you ghosted me with your
dumb top back. So grow up, Like, really, I'm not
even wearing it on my left hand. I was wearing
it on my right hand.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Oh wait, you're wearing it on your right hand.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
So okay, okay, okay, don't you.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Can tell when that rings an engagement ring. But that's
different though, that's different if it was an engagement ring
and now you're not engaged. So you take this beautiful
diamond and you put some bling on your right hand.
I gotta say, I don't think that has anything to
do with your ex I think it has to do
with the bling.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Exclamation point. Wait, your tap back?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Yeah, yeah, you're tap back.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
And now this is unbelievable. What if you swapped the
ring just for the date.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Oh my gosh, like I said, grow up, grow up.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Okay, so we're not getting we're not getting a second date.
Here is what we're saying.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
No, no thank you, no thanks, this is just yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
We're good here. I mean, I mean you can stare
at your ring and think by your ex.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Okay, j I'll scare I'll care at my ring and
think about my ex.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Okay, wow, okay, wow here, okay, Jay, we're gonna let
you go. Thanks for coming on the second eight up, Davin. Okay,
see what he's saying right now? Yeah, but I do
I get now what you're saying. I took the ring
off my engagement ring finger, which is the left hand.
I wear it on my right hand, just like any
(05:20):
ring I would buy at you know, Zaos and wear
around town. Do you shop an.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Engaming section for your jewelry.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Let's say dives direct. We'll go with dis going is directed. Okay, yes, I.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Know the ladies will agree with me, but I'm not
tossing out a diamond ring. So yeah, if I got bling,
I wanted to shine.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Okay, Well we'll see if people agree. But thanks for
coming on the second date updates. Sorry we didn't get
you another day shilling God.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I'm so grateful for you guys.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
I think I dodged a bull. I just tapped you
a smiley face.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Yeah, I tapped you a heart.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Ah.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Okay, what are you thinking? Four oh five, four six
oh one oh two seven. I have a beautiful ring.
It no longer represents my engagement. I put it on
my right hand. Uh are you hung up on that person?
And you just hung up on fancy rings?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
At first, I was thinking just the ring, but then
I just don't like her attitude.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
She was very.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Defensive about it.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
He just dodged a bullet.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
She just seems kind of I don't know. I just
want the backstory, like the break up card, but I
just want to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I mean, she's an X for a reason, so well,
maybe maybe he's an ex for a reason. You know,
he might maybe he was an awful boyfriend. Yeah, but
she's like it. But I'm not. And I'm not even
gonna give him this ring back because I don't want
him to have it. I'm just gonna wear it because
it's awesome. We got a message, and Brandon kind of
agrees with you.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
He's like, run, dude, she went straight to the ahole
comment because of the disagreement.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Yeah, I think the ex to Gov runners and forget
the ring, you can keep it.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Oh god, I'm out all of this, all this assumption. Okay,
all right, thank you now unless we assume. Bye.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Yeah, you guys, have a good day.
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