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June 11, 2025 • 6 mins
Trevor and Maria went out....Because he liked her. Like all her instagram posts, and he likes everyone's post. So is she getting lost in the crowd of his people he flirts with, or what happened to their next date. We find out what happened with the 2nd Date Update
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is TJ Janadan j Rod's second date update on.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
kJ one three.

Speaker 1 (00:05):
We got Maria from Mustang on Hi Maria, Hi, you're
completely lost on why you're not getting another date with Trevor. Here,
let's figure it out. What the second date update?

Speaker 3 (00:15):
Okay, yeah, I am just so confused right now. We
went on our first day a month ago, super casual,
like very last minute burgers and beers, jeans and T shirts,
nothing fancy nice, and we didn't set up a second
date or anything. But I felt like we could go
out again. And I texted him a few days after

(00:38):
the date, telling him I had a lot of fun.
We should do it again. And he just never texts back.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
Okay, it's not like a big.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
Deal, like he's just not interested. But then he literally
comments every time I post on Instagram, every single post,
even if it's just a sealfie. What does he say
when he comments, Like he'll comment like looking great on
like my chelseies.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Okay, so you text him, he doesn't reply, but he
still comments on your pure sounds social.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
Exactly, And so I text him again and I say
great to hear from you. We should hang sometime, and
then he's still.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
Going to reply, weird.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, so I figure he's like playing some kind of game, right,
I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
Know either that or he's just the person that doesn't
return texts ever, He's just that person.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
That maybe you have the wrong numbers.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
Yeah well well yeah, but you had the right number
the first time you went out with him. Okay, uh, interesting,
All right, let's let's get Trevor on the phone and
ask what he's doing there, because I'm a little perplexed
as well. Okay, yeah, it's TJ Janitan Jay Rides Second
Date Update on kJ one O three called us for

(01:56):
the Second Date Update. Completely confused because she went on
a date with Trevor. She text him after the date,
he didn't text back. I mean that happens all the
time now. But she's confused because he comments on all
of her social media but yet won't return any of
her texts. Yeah. Yeah, and it's even a little flirting.
Like jayro said, Look, so we got Trevor on the
phone to just flat out and ask him, Trevor, welcome

(02:18):
to the Second Date Update. Maria just thinks that this
is some sort of game you're playing or what's going
on here.

Speaker 4 (02:26):
It's not a game, just because I comment on her
Instagram or anyone's Instagram, that doesn't mean I want to
It doesn't mean I want to go out with.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
Everyone that comments on Okay.

Speaker 4 (02:35):
She's cool at all, but I didn't really think we'd
be going out again.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
Okay, but why okay, but why do you comment on
her stuff? But yet you won't return a text? You
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
I don't want to.

Speaker 4 (02:47):
Get into any kind of drama. You know, she sends
me texts, I don't reply.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
To the text.

Speaker 4 (02:52):
I just don't want to lead.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
Her on in any way.

Speaker 4 (02:53):
But you know, Instagram's not Instagram's not texting. Texting is
a lot different.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
Yeah, exactly on all my posts? Is it leading me on?

Speaker 1 (03:03):
Maria's in, Like she's listening to this right now with Trevor.
She's here obviously. Yeah No.

Speaker 4 (03:09):
But like I said, I comment on a lot.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
Of Instagram posts.

Speaker 4 (03:12):
Does that mean that everyone that I comment on thinks
that I want to go out on a date with them?

Speaker 3 (03:16):
Two? Yeah, but we did go on a date? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (03:21):
Well yeah, no, I know that we did. Yes, But
are you, yeah, Trevor, are you interested in Maria? Well?

Speaker 2 (03:30):
I'm not not interested.

Speaker 4 (03:33):
Okay, So this is like you feed me trom.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
On Instagram and then goes me when I've done you
a message.

Speaker 4 (03:41):
No, I'm just I'm just commenting on the answer. Why
do you put your instagrams up if you're just not
for comments?

Speaker 3 (03:47):
I just don't need. I don't need. That's not interested? Yes, yeah, no, yes,
I'm not.

Speaker 4 (03:58):
I'm just I'm just doing thing. And what is your
thing exactly?

Speaker 3 (04:03):
I'm a little confused.

Speaker 1 (04:06):
You said that you're not not interested, but you don't
text her back, but you.

Speaker 3 (04:11):
Comment hey girl on all.

Speaker 1 (04:14):
Her things, like I don't okay, instead of trying to
figure out what your game is, Trevor, let's do this.
Would you like to go on another date with Maria?
We'll pay for it. We'll send you guys on a
second date.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
Uh, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (04:29):
Maybe maybe not right at this time, but yeah.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
We can buck again sometimes.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Oh I don't know.

Speaker 3 (04:37):
I like I said, I don't want to I don't
want to force anything.

Speaker 4 (04:41):
When it when it feels right, it's just it'll just
happen the un.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
Trevor, I just got to be honest that my head
hurts a little bit from all time.

Speaker 4 (04:54):
Yes, Instagram and texts are two totally totally different world there.

Speaker 3 (04:59):
Totally separate world, like.

Speaker 4 (05:00):
You know, the texting thing that the drama world, the
real world, the dating.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
World, that's one thing.

Speaker 4 (05:06):
But just innocent commenting on post is totally sure, totally.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
Different and you're not interested. But you're not not interested. Okay,
we got all that. Okay, Trevor, I guess you'll be
in touch. Okay you guys, yeah, because you want to
go on another date.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
Someday but not now.

Speaker 1 (05:21):
But you don't don't want to go on another day? Okay, Trevor,
I'm talking for my head hurts. I'm gonna let you
go now, Okay, Trevor, thank you, Okay, bye.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
Yeah, I honestly have no idea. I'm just like completely lost.
Does any of you have any kind of idea?

Speaker 1 (05:37):
But he's planting seeds? He is he planning? I think
he's gotta be Okay, but Maria, thanks for coming to
second date up date and uh good luck with with.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
Thank Hello?

Speaker 1 (05:50):
What do you think planning seeds? Four or five?

Speaker 3 (05:53):
Four?

Speaker 1 (05:53):
Six? One or two seven?

Speaker 2 (05:54):
I have no idea.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
I'm so confused. I know, dude, he's a game play
he's a gameplayer pro is he something I don't know? Okay,
let us know what you think because we can't figure
it out.

Speaker 2 (06:06):
He definitely had a girlfriend or is dating somebody else.

Speaker 1 (06:09):
Okay, which Jay Roun, You just got a message on
our Instagram right It said the same thing. He's trying
to make him or her his side check. So you're like, oh, real,
have a strange air like drama.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
So they're drama and like Instagram innocent. Then he's got
like he can comment because it's innocent on the new Instagram,
but text his girlfriend or sidecheck or whoever could see it,
and that's the problem.

Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yeah, And that's exactly what John says too.

Speaker 3 (06:34):
He says, texting and Instagram.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
Is the same thing.

Speaker 1 (06:40):
Okay, so you don't trust this guy. He's not just
a game player, he's a player player play.

Speaker 2 (06:45):
Yes, exactly. She's got to be done with him on all.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
Right, thanks for calling.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
Yeah, bye,
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