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April 12, 2024 • 69 mins
Tone Kapone, KeKe, and Zach Boog debate J.Cole's Apology, City Girls Beef, Age Gap Dating, Break-Ups & More!
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Welcome to it, and what morecan I say? Podcast episode? What
rather? What fifty three? Youstill got it? One like you said
it all the last time? Whatfifty three? Everybody? Fifty three from
the quietest six foot one thousand dude, all right, cool, all right
man? When Toldka Paul, let'sgo ahead and get to it. The

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other members of the pod. Sheis the only lady of the pods.
She fluffy and fire. Her name'sKiki. Whoo whoo, whoo whoo.
Somebody back and ready to pod?Yeah, yeah, yeah, Hello,
hey friends, what's what's going on? We're all good? We already good?
Yeah, quity good. Y'all lookblessed. Okay, okay, cool.

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You don't have a pregnancy glow onyou look regularly. I am not
pregnant, okay, okay, Idon't know. Maybe one of y'all got
somebody pregnant in the streets. No, okay, because they never gave pregnant.
I've been being all my life.I ain't pregnant. Okay, we're
on the episode of one fifty three. I just wanted you had a glow.
I got two weeks you were glowing? You did? Was it?

(01:07):
New skin products? Don't worry aboutit, Matt, don't worry about what
I hate y'all. Anyways, fiftyall right, he's a little bro.
As you can see the funny manat the party in Zach Bug. Whoooo,

(01:27):
well, you are right this week. I feel better, a lot
better bro, a lot better man. I was sick last week. Someone
I have the bug going around,and I just I just wasn't feeling good.
But I feel good, And thengave it's about three people that work
here, so I hope they're doingall right. So who I gave it
to. Ryan is out sick,Bree was out sick. And yeah,

(01:49):
well and ryan mama was sick too. You got somebody that's crazy. That's
crazy, that's crazy. How youjust come to work. See what I'm
trying to say is that's time camework super sick. She came up.
And if Ryan's mother was sick,then that's possibly where he got. No,
No, they were sick after you. Yeah, it's Leon's and Leon's

(02:16):
perfectly fine. He sits right nextto me. Leon was in the army,
so he could probably a lot ofthings. Right, was perfectly fine.
He wasn't sick. You took outbring you took out Ryan. That's
crazy. That's crazy. That's crazy, trying to take us out, to
try to take y'all get sick.I mean, I take we come about

(02:37):
of blood. I take a lotof stuff. We come about the blood
of Jesus. No need you knowto drinking. The doctor seb you drinking
and see and you you just hada sprite. Yes, okay, just

(02:58):
don't get nobody else sick. Ifeel gread you was trying to the rhythm
of the pole was off because ofyou. Last Yes, it was.
I didn't even do the woo poo, right, we didn't. Yeah,
me and Kiki were a little madat you last week. We can just
open up and say that you leftit when we talked about it because I
was like a dollar. We definitely, we definitely was upset because I was
sick. I had an off day. No, you didn't tell us you

(03:20):
were sick. You just was actingfunny. I was like, okay,
since we're gonna be there, let'sjust yount one that came in. I'm
elevated. I amated. I amI have hit a different level of elevator.
What do you mean? Yeah,you know what I'm saying. I

(03:42):
was not high person. So that'swhy you did put to put me to
sleep because I had some trouble sleeping, so I ate it edible and what
happened was it just bled over intothe day. You gotta watch the milligrams
on the metals, Okay, Sothat's what threw off the pot too.
Either what you can really talk everyother week, he came here because he
didn ate cheese. Then you comein here sick because y'all don't even know

(04:04):
what's going on with you. Soit's listen, had cheese like lapto.
Y'all pray for them because I'm comingout of blood and I ain't going down
all right, Jake Cole, KendrickLamar. Everybody online is talking about it.
I got called a goofy ass personthe other day, people talking about

(04:24):
me because I said Jake Cole apologized. But I want to hear before I
said anything. I want to hearwhat your thoughts you see j Cole come
out with seven minute drill. Uh, We're gonna ask Kiki because I love
to hear what you gotta say thisbecause you just at hip hop a nounce
yes and you know, I feellike I put the guys up to this
challenge. You remember, I wascalling hip hop boring and the girls was
doing all the beefing with nik Yeah, and I felt like Kendrick heard me,

(04:46):
so he wanted to spice it upso y'all can thank me. And
I really like the disrecord, likeI like when they do that, especially
with Kendrick and Cold, because theycan really rap, you know what I'm
saying, So it's not just youknow, like her Baby Daddy music of
y'alling with his future, which islike they can really spit. So I
was excited to see this beef andfall. However, I am not mad

(05:08):
at j Cole for apologizing. I'mnot mad at that, and I don't
understand why everybody is so no.I don't think that's because I don't think
that's it. I think it's justy'all are like immature, okay, because
why what if so bad about him? He gave y'all the this, so
he put it out there, buthe realized that it was stupid. He

(05:29):
realized that it was stupid after thefact. He came out on his stage
as a man and apologized, Idon't see what's wrong with that. I
don't I don't know we're gonna breakit down. That's why you went.
Please like me say that it wasthat's fun. That was good. Yeah,

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until you realize that we're talking aboutrap. Okay, we're talking about
possibly the safest hip hop battle thatcould have been in the history of a
so called beef between Kendrick Lamar,J Cole and Drake. Okay, First
of all, Kendrick put out therecord. The record was mostly about Drake.

(06:13):
Kendrick versus mostly about Drake. JCole. We didn't ask you nothing,
and J Cole, you decided togo out there with a seven minute
song. Okay. The second thingis you when you you you didn't apologize
when you want to team up withDrake and do a whole song. Y'all
could have rapped about anything. There'scountless topic topics and y'all got countless talent,
so y'all could come up with anytype of song. You've rapped about

(06:36):
your first time, You've rapped aboutbeing the middle child, You've rapped about
a million things. But when yougot with Drake, you decided to rap
about being the goat. Who thegoat? We the goat? Me and
me and Drake. No, hesaid but he said, yeah, it
is the Big three, but Ifeel like Muhammad Ali. And when you
make a line like that, andthen he repeated it, I say,

(06:57):
I feel like Ali basically saying it'sa Big three, but I feel like
I'm the goat. So he shouldokay then, so I'm not mad at
that. That's how you feel becausej CO has been bodying stuff. You
have been rapping, talking about howyou basically been putting that putting out.
I wish one of you rappers wouldmusic the last year and a half and
then Kendrick put out a verse andwould and then you put out yours and

(07:20):
then you apologize, yes, you'llapologize. No, man, it doesn't
work like that now. If you'regoing through your own spiritual journey and it
didn't feel right, cool, that'sfine. But what I want you to
do now, man, is nowjust take a seat back and next time
you rap about something, if yourap about how nice your car is,

(07:41):
I want you to tell us hownice Drake's is too, tell us how
nice Jake old Carry is too.When you rap about how big your house
is, don't forget to mention hownice the other houses that you saw are.
When you rap about how good ofa rapper you are, make sure
every time you talk about you beinga goat, you talk about how there
are two others that you respecting ithere just as much because I don't want
to hear it no more. Whenyou get into a safe battle rap situation

(08:05):
where you know nobody would get hurtand it's only a lyrical sparring and you
bag out in front of everybody andsay, who loves ken drag? That
is weak? So all day longbecause you j Cole talked about this,
you put yourself in this conversation.You the one that called yourself Muhammad Ali.

(08:26):
You are the one that's done allof this. Nobody else asks for
this, and then it happens,and then what people are feeling. What
people are feeling is disappointment, Like, man, you did all this talking
and now you wanna apologize, No, sir, I can't go. Yeah,
well you go ahead and break thisout. It's a light skinned hand
books. Yeah it's white, soyeah yeah, and right here under rule

(08:52):
one A right there, right whenyou open a light skinned hand book up,
it says when you think about doingsomething, yes, well hold on,
let me Yeah, that's what itsays, here, when you think
about doing something, I make itbecause it's a lot. It's a lot
of bat laws in here's a lotof a lot of that. When you

(09:16):
think about doing something, Yeah,right before you say something, ask yourself,
what would a doll skin dude do? That's what you gotta do.
And then hold on, let medouble check. Yep. It says,
once you figure out what a dokskin would do dark skin dude would do,
you gotta do more. Now that'snow that now that you read right

(09:41):
off your hand, because all thelight skinned dudes I know do absolute mode
for no reason, for no readnow that that came out the handbook,
I asked yourself, what would adot skin dude do? Has then do
more? And that's that's the keyright there. I am disappointed with a

(10:05):
light skinned dude point of view,a j Cole sage smelling ass going on
stage and doing that. And thisis the thing where I'm so confused because
Jake Cole is an athlete. WhenI've seen his homies before, I mean,
they all look like they all looklike going ahead and say hey let
me, let's I got next?They all hopous, they all hooping.

(10:26):
That's like it's like Lebron James scoringforty on somebody talking crazy about it,
like they like talking crazy and sayingI'm sorry I did that. What are
you talk crazy to me? I'mgoing to score forty on you and you
take that forty. Kendrick said somethingto both of them. He man said

(10:46):
more to Drake than he said toJa Cob, But he said something.
Jake Cole was supposed to come outthere, give him them bars. It
is what it is, and goback and forth. This was gonna be
the most friendly beef ever again,like little Duvall said, Like Zach said,
this is nothing like. This islike when Bad Wow and Soldier Boy
was beefing and peoples calling me goofyyour today talking about man. This is
how violence happens. You immature.This is what you don't know. What

(11:11):
you don't know how to be areal man. I'm gonna get to that
again. I'm gonna tell you how. Y'all know. That's one of my
pet peeves. Women don't be tellingme how to be no man. No,
I don't want because you because womenget bent out of shape. Y'all
get bent out of shape when wetell y'all what a real woman. We
want what they call you call asassy, insecure all type of stuff,
and we tell you how to bea real woman. So that's a whole

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other story. But yes, backto the rapping part. This this is
bad wow, Soldier boy. Thisis nothing. This is like as far
as the violence is concerned, youdon't think bad Wow Soldier boy is really
going You don't think Big Draco wasdangerous? I don't do it. Yeah,

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he is gonna go, yeah,gonna Yeahill back to tell you if
I'm gonna pick the person is gonnawin the curse out battle, it's one
hundred percent. I got all mymoney off Soldier boy. Soldier boy winning
every I don't know it's that many. It's not people cann out, curse
out soldier. If you won't getcursed out, good, he gonna be

(12:26):
like like what you mess with me? You and he's gonna have a pocket
full of can you want? That'sthat's right. One of my point when

(12:52):
soldier boys spastes, I gotta watchit because I know what he's gonna do.
Rose talking, no, no holdup, no y'all tripping, and
he ain't got no money, heain't got no money him, don't play
with him. But y'all know Iswear like as far as the J Cole

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thing, man, he and Iget it. Some people saying, I
can say taking the high road.But this is rap. It's competition.
This is it is a competitive thing. I rap better than you. We
got we got battle rap. Youdon't see nobody like, oh he said
something about your mama and a battlerap And they say some biol stuff to
each other and they like, andnobody's getting hurt, nobody's getting harmed,

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nobody's done. J Cole and Kendrickare fighting for what with every rapper that
comes out the number one spot?Everybody in They versus say I'm the best,
I got your girl, I gotmore money than you. I sell
out more shows, and then theythrow subliminal shots at each other. You
can't compare this beef to Biggie andPop Pop got robbed and got shot.

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Yeah, that's what started that day. That's what started all of that stuff.
You can't compare that to that.You can't compare Jeezy and Gucci.
That's not that's not the same kindof beef. You can't say a Rick
Ross at fifty, that's a differenttype of time those and you know in
any Chicago rap beef, we knowit's crazy. You know it's gonna get

(14:26):
You can't compare nothing that's going onin Chicago. That's that's why other people
in the comments they comparing Chicago rapbeef in Chicago violence to Jake Cole and
Kendrick Have you lost them? Haveyou go go to? You been on
a Kenchrick concert? It's all suburbanwhite boys in there, like, Yo,
Kendrick, you're the best. It'sthe safest cons that you gonna go

(14:48):
to. Ever. Have you gonnahave all? You? I got all
my jewelry? It's a mue torap genius is. They were breaking down
the verses like this is crazy,he's going crazy. This is that double
entendre. Everybody GPA good like youtelling me you could go. I guarantee

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you ain't. You ain't a bustdown Rolex, the Niggas Diamonds pull up
in the Phantom and Kendrick j Coleconcert. Nobody got robbed at Jake Dreambild
You hear about anybodys in dream Bill? No, this is why I'm not
I'm not understand. So y'all knowthe two rappers were talking about that's why
I don't understand why y'all was expectingsomething different like j Cole and he had

(15:33):
a moment. He clapped back andhe realized it was lame, Like he
was like, I just called Ijust called you a part of the Big
three. Now I'm dissing you becauseyou jumped out of your body. Like
he's smart to know, like,bro, I'm not battling another great I'm
gonna battle these lame, these theseterrible rappers that's out here. I just
don't I think he I think hewas okay and well within his rights to

(15:54):
apologize. And I think that wasa great lesson for everybody watching. And
I know we get excited about beef, but like, no, hip hop
was in a great thing, andyou don't battle the little rappers. To
me, honestly, you jab alittle rapper, you jab a little rapper
in a song pop, you geta line. Jay Z did it all

(16:15):
the time, all the time.Somebody said something to him boot they got
they got a little line, littleline you knew from the stuff that was
going on, that was for you, That was for you. The only
person he's ever really addressed, whichhe was supposed to was Nas. That
people are saying stuff about Nas constantly, nazis drop you same thing, a

(16:37):
little jim to the little little weakrappers. Only person he ever addressed like
that was jay Z. They saidthey and they had it out and not
their friends, and that nobody playsnone of those records, like I know
Nas, if you play and Iknow it's some people that have tried him
a couple of times and play Ether. You want to see somebody get hot,
He'll get hot, Like, hey, bro, don't do that.

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Don't do that. Because they hadtheir moment. They both said what they
said and it's over with. Hedon't even want you to play his He
don't know because I've seen it.I've been in it. I've been in
the club with him with somebody totry to play Ether. How stupid can
you be? They tried, youknow, just to try. I mean
it was a really good it's agood song. I understand the song.
But I'm just saying that's really youdon't play back to back anymore because with

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Drake and if in that DJ's defense, if Nas is in the club,
that's still one of his biggest recordsthat everybody no no, you can't.
I wouldn't do it. Guess whatI mean. I'm in there with my
phone and I recordingized and they playingether that hit the blogs. Then what
I don't understand why y'all. Soy'all okay with jay Z and Nas making
up, but y'all not okay withJa Cole and Kendrick. J Cole didn't

(17:49):
be for no, no, no, no, it's a different it's a
different type of time. Listen togo listen to yes, go listener.
I forgot what was neither one ofthem? Of them? J Cole complimented
Kendrick the whole verse, but thewhole verse. He said, your first
album was classic. You second onewas really good. Your third one I

(18:11):
love, he did I heard itthe fourth verse amazing because album is pretty
good. No, no, hedid not. I really like right to
it the second when I leave itwith my top down. My girl loved
your third let me tell you,I love Kendrick loved my and then at

(18:33):
the he said, I'm gonna getyou though. That's basically the whole verse
anyway, So it was more thanthat. I'm exaggerating, But at the
same time, I guess what I'mtrying to say is it was? It
was just starting. Okay, wewent through. I would respect what you
saying, though, Kiki, ifit went maybe two three more rounds,
like for your entertainment though, that'sit. This is yes, for your

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entertainment, not for their mental healthor for what he truly feels, which
he feels. He respects Kendrick,so he know him doing a rap is
a reach. I just called youa part of the Big Three, and
now I put out a disrecord againstyou. It's an oxygen because understand but
just you know how many if ashow like me, I don't have to
put I don't have to put adiss record out on her because she said

(19:18):
something about me. If I trulydon't feel that way about her. Oh
key stop, No, that's true. Because what if Jacob engages in this
beef and continue and he doesn't trulyfeel this way? What is he doing
as a wrap go? He isu dying to impress us? Who the
hell are we? You are lying? I'm not y'all try to make this

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put pressure on You can't. Youcan't peer pressure Jacob. You cannot peer
pressure, so you can't mad y'allcan't be impressure him and to being a
part of And that's why they mad. Men are competitive. I don't know
about women. I can speak formen. We are competitive. This is
just what it is. When assoon as we step out the door,

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we leave from hanging out with ourmom all the time. We are in
a competitive space. I could jumphigh in you. My bike is faster
than yours, my car looks better, my I dress better, my watch
is this. We are in acompetitive space. And just and if somebody,
if a man, if I complimenta man like yo, bro,
you you cool, bro, that'syou my guy, and then he come
back and be like, now you'rea goofy. Now you what you're gonna

(20:22):
do? You're gonna be like,man, you got the I gotta get
him back. And you hear pressure, No, it's not here. Pressure.
If I didn't say nothing bad,you're gonna be you look like what
do you? What are you worringabout your opinions of other people? You
know you the best? Ask whatthe hell anybody else gotta say? I'm

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Ja Cole? Why for future?Why would I give somebody for this to
me on a future track? Futurecan't do nothing? What Ja Cole?
But Why would I give you thesatisfaction and the entertainment of me going back
and forth with somebody on your recordwhen you're not even in my league.
You're not a part of the Bigfive, So why would I even do
that? A podcaster if a podcast, like a top podcaster came for you,

(21:15):
yes, and men, after youcomplimented said top podcast, let's say
you when he was like, yo, I really rock with blah blah blah,
I rock with Kim and you likeyou like Kim podcast is fire.
I love it. It's just this, this, this, I feel like
all of us. As you know, you start naming another another woman,
right and that one and you afteryou then gave her her flowers. Yes,

(21:38):
it's no way. Key key onair, key key. If that
woman gave if you after you gaveher flowers, she disrespected you, you
letting her slide. It's no way. It is no way, Yes it
is, Tom. Let me tellyou why. Let me tell you why

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you cannot You cannot trick nobody.Nobody can trick me out of my position.
I am who I am, soI don't give a damn what nobody
else got to say about me becauseI'm me. But that's already one.
I'm me bro, so nothing elsenobody else can say about me, it's
it matters. I'm me already one. And that's how That's how I'm surprised
surprised at you. You. I'mnot so surprised that, but you.

(22:22):
I am surprised that because to me, nobody can trick tone caupon out of
his position. Nobody can make tonguecaupone react you tongue upon? Why would
you react? Why would you reactto somebody that ain't ain't you? Now,
I'm gonna tell you this. Letme see good. I don't I
don't say nothing to most people,but I don't say stuff to most people.

(22:45):
Yes, but somebody just recently saidsomething to me. Somebody just threw
like a shout out, like yo, that's my and that's my homie.
But it's like, YO, don'tlisten to him. You listen to me.
You know what I mean, y'all. And I know what that was.
And somebody, you know, itgot back to me more than once,
and I was just like, Iwas like, they was like man,
I was like, bo, thatdon't even mean nothing to me.

(23:07):
That don't mean nothing to me.But I definitely, I definitely send something
back his way. I said somethingback his way, I said, I
said, tell him to go pullingratings that I had when I was there.
When I was there, ain't nobodytouching them. Ain't nobody touching them,
And ain't nobody touching what I doover here. I'll let you play
with me in a sense, likeand say little stuff. But once he

(23:27):
gets back to me, I'm gonnaput you in your place because a lot
of times I don't respond them much. But if not, if I'm gonna
tell you if I gave, ifI gave, if I gave, if
I gave anybody flowers and I inour business and they came back with I
was like, you know, becausepeople asked like you know, and I'm
like, yo, well I thinkI'm one of the top in what we

(23:48):
do. And and but I alsobut I listened to this person, this
person, this person, if oneof the people is like nah to,
ain't one of the top. Heit's just me. It ain't him,
and ain't he definitely ain't with us, He ain't with us. I'll be
like, okay, and I'm gonnasay something I'm not I may not go
into no rent because this is media. But I'm gonna do that, and

(24:11):
it's it's just like it's like sports. But then, how do you look?
How do you look to you justgave us? You just gave this
person flowers? Exactly which was yourtrue how you truly feel? Exactly right?
You just gave them flowers? Yes, and because you didn't get the
reaction you were expecting, now youcompletely change and go back on what you
originally said. You you just threein the record. And then because he

(24:37):
cut back, he because he tooka shot at probably most of it is
towards probably Drake, because everybody hateDrake because they hain't Drake. And we
can go on about that because youknow I'm over your kiky. But anyway,
so since you know how stupid doI look? I just gave this
person they flower? But this iswhy you said you're gonna gonna take it.

(24:59):
But I'm gonna be like I wouldsay, why I'm a part of
that. You can't, you don't, don't don't like if you tell me
I wasn't, I'm gonna tell youI'm sorry, Zach. I'm gonna tell
you, hey man, this iswhy I am and if you really want
to check, if you really wantto get to it, let's talk about
what if you want to run this, because I can run my I could
run my radio stats with anybody.There's very few people. That's probably about

(25:21):
four. But you don't have to. That's you don't have to. I'm
like skinned sensitive you are, butme I'm not. I'm back and forth
with no unless I really want toask myself what a dark skinned dude would
do. And you're right, butin my hand, but we're not going
back and forth with nobody. Hestill stuck on what I was like you

(25:51):
I expect. No, that's notwhat I'm stuck on. Yeah, So
what I'm stuck on is this,this is my only thing. I agree
with what you're saying. If JCole wasn't rapping saying that he's the best
you said that in his last songand he was talking about them being the
Big Three. No, he saidlove when they argue the hardest MC,

(26:14):
is it k Dot Aubrey or me? Question? Mark? We the Big
three like we started the league.But right now I feel like Muhammad Ali
huh yeah, yeah, uh huh. Muhammad Ali the one that they call
he's basically calling himself the one.He didn't go on there and this was
not a Kumbaya we everybody record.Then he this is why Whatson ain't went

(26:37):
on. He said, the SpiderMan meme is me looking at Drake.
He said that in that song again, once again saying he's the best,
basically saying it's just him and DrakeJ Cole, I mean Drake went up
there and said, who's the goat? Who's the goat? Right now?
It's just me and Cole. Theywere leaving Kendrick out and saying, and
J Cole said he was the best. That's why Ken, That's why Kendrick

(26:59):
got that burst. So it's noty'all are painting this picture like J.
Cole is somewhere peacefully, never talkingabout he has talked his big on record
after record he has talked. Kendrickresponds to it, talking big ship,
then then the dude. Then JCole responds and then quits and says,

(27:22):
no, I like everybody, wedidn't. You never said you didn't,
but you claim to be the best. And that's why you're not gonna paint
him as some innocent puppy dog that'sin the corner his bike on his bike,
just riding around like, Oh,you're gonna let somebody get you out
your score. No, you talk, you fight all the time. You
talk like you it's like a dudeat It's like, it's just like the

(27:45):
dude who walks in the room andbe like, I whoop everybody in him,
everybody he hit him back and belike, you know what, we
shouldn't have been fighting. And wecan all fight. No, we know
we can all fight. But youare the one that talks stuff. J

(28:06):
Cole. I'm not gonna let Kekypaint you as some innocent man who just
sits in the corner piecefully everybody,every athlete is upset with him, I
guarantee, because what do athletes do. Hey, I'm better than you.
I'm better than you. It goesdown at the park, it goes down
as professional. Look at look atwhat happened to Houston. Rockets was talking

(28:29):
about the Warriors making fun of them. Warriors come out and play and they
got their ass clean up out ofthe playoffs. They're not even gonna be
in the play playing game. AndSteph Curry got a little he did a
little warrior thing to play with himback like I got you. Don't talk
crazy to me, I'll put youin your place. That's what this is.
This is all this is is justcompetitive that it's nothing. And this

(28:51):
is the thing where every this isthe problem why a lot of people don't
make it. Everybody want to bethe winner. Every everybody can't win.
You have to get out here improvelike when you gotta get out here and
prove every time we get on thepodcast, every time you get on your
radio show, every time Zach studto comedy stage, he got to prove
that he is he's good. Imagineyou know what I mean. People probably

(29:15):
say, Zach competitive, I'm gonnaget it. I'm about to say because
he knows this. He knows thishappens. He knows this happened. Watch
what happened? You tell me ifI'm lying, I didn't been in enough
comedy rooms to know. Zach gonstage. It's probably three comments in the
back. He ain't even that funny. And he know that. He know
that. What is he going todo? What you gonna do? He

(29:37):
going up there to let everybody knowevery single time, Hey, bro,
whenever I hit this boy, yougonna respect me. Put me up with
Now I don't care I go,because that's the thing going behind somebody like.
So he's like, yo, helike Zach could never go. That's
what they'll cite something for whiles upZach could never go behind me, And
what he thinks he gonna say totheir face, put me up, put

(30:00):
me up next. That's competitiveness.Ain't nothing wrong with that, they tell
me you sent down in Texas.Just said, I like everybody. I
got a matter of fact. Igot on stage then I said, I
thought everybody in here was funny,everybody was good. Everybody's funny, everybody's
good. And I really liked allhis jokes, and I liked all of

(30:23):
his joke and I just came,ya just can't black me, young black
man. It is okay to apologizeto your homie when you realize that both
of y'all is doing some sucker stufffor the wrong reasons. It is okay
y'all mad because Jay Cole talked tothe lady and came back with an apology.
And I don't see nothing wrong withso okay, we can move on.
We move on. City Girl beef, City Girl beef. Now this

(30:45):
is a beef worth talking about.This is real beef. This is kumba
y'all moment. At the end,you curse each other out in public,
online, online, and then welove each other. What y'all hate each
other? No? No, no, what what Kiki? So feel everybody

(31:07):
and it's not in on the citygirl beat. And I want to answer
this question. Yes, is itbecause I may be misquote, but didn't
J T t yeh Miami had arap. I can't confirm, but that
I went in the booth. Iwon't shooting with him in the gym.
J T. Young Miami helped out, like, like this is how you

(31:30):
and I mean a lot of groupsthat happens though, a lot of groups
that happened. And I think,if I got rest is so prodigy having
it prodigy mob deep I forgot Ithink having having by tall proty But anyway,
that's so, but it happens though. Yeah, I mean they're gonna
talk baby how to rap, gonnatall little baby rap? Yes, yes,

(31:51):
what yeh document it's documented Gna littlebaby. Well what he said is
he used to have him hed saynlittle Baby said he had gonna write some
raps for him and then just andthey would go to the studio so he
could practice, like getting the feelof like how to rap, being on
the mic and all of that.Gunna did that for him. That happens.
That happens. That's that that sounda little different than he taught him

(32:15):
how to rap. That's like somebodyteach you how to run the board and
tell you in the world. Itaught her how to do radio. No,
you taught me how to run theboard and push the buttons. Don't
do that. No, but it'sa little baby. No, no,
wait, mane, that's diff Nowwe're about to get into this. No,
no, gonna help little baby out. Taught him how to put something.
That happens like I mean, youmight have a talent and he might

(32:37):
know. You know, a littlebaby can put together some stuff. But
he's gonna teach him the right wayto make a song. And sometimes that
person turns out to better. Thathappens all the time in rap. It's
a lot of people that learn radiofor me. Yeah, No, for
sure. It's a lot of peoplethat I would say, like yo,
I talked No, no, no, don't say this like this. This

(32:58):
this is the way you do this. This is the way you want to
talk about this. This is whyyou want to get in and out of
this. I have taught a lotof people how to do radio. I'm
teaching. That's teaching somebody had todo radio. But I'm talking about the
people that show you how to runa board going out in the world telling
you that they telling people they taughtyou how to do right now. You
taught me how to turn this workthis board. No, So that's why
I'm like, let's make it clear. They gotta really teach a little baby.

(33:21):
I gotta watch the bee, Igotta watch the interview. I'm not
gonna let y'all do a little babylike that. Y'all try a little baby,
y'all to try a soldier boys sofar JCB little baby soldier boy,
they are gonna be on y'all.Ass Yes, I'm not saying a little
baby ain't talented. I'm just saying, ain't that somebody help you do what
you do. That was a littlebaby story though, I remember seeing that.
Yeah, okay, I watched.I thought I was it. The

(33:42):
star Leedo got something to do alittle baby too, don't forget about whoo
yeah yeah, yeah, all right, So let's get back to the Miami
kik So the beef. It's beenit's been a beef okay, and I
feel like it's been animosity. I'ma City Girl fan, so it's been
a lot of animosity for the lastcouple of years. We've seen it play
out, and that happens sometimes whenyou start out together in a group,
you both have different life issues thatbreak y'all up and bring y'all back together.

(34:07):
You know, Young Miami got herTV deal, she starts messing with
Diddy, JT messing with a littleUzzi. It's just a lot. It's
yeah, that's him, So it'sjust a lot that was going on between
them. So basically, JT putout two songs called Sad Ways and No
Bars, And when you look atthe lyrics, I think she definitely talking

(34:27):
about Young Miami definitely, and JTcan really really rap. Young Miami is
more of a personality, you knowwhat I'm saying that we follow. So
that's where it kind of and togetherthey are amazing together, but separate,
I think they'll both be successful.However, it all started going down on
Twitter. Young Miami responded to somebodywho just said L O L. You

(34:50):
know how when you and your friendalready beefing, and they get on Twitter
and just put up and it couldbe she could have put good Morning World
and it would have picked JT off. So then JT Young Miami's friends Saucy
Santana, who's an instigator in thegroup. You know what I'm saying.
He's an outside friend that just keepsstarting pot. He said something and he
was talking about Diddy. He wasn'teven talking about JT. But that was

(35:14):
all JT needed and she unloaded theclips. She was like, I'm done,
you done. I'm done playing withyou, little girl. You keep
playing with me, I'm gonna letit all out about Diddy and everybody else.
Don't talk about me on your realityshow. I'm not playing with you.
And then here come Young Miami too, my son. What he happened?
Like? She? Oh? Sheyou know how your friends just keep
poking you, poking you, pokingyou in there? When I snap on
you, now, it's like whatI do? I didn't even do nothing.

(35:37):
And so then they ended up exchangingwords and it was just a sad
day in City girl history. Butthey ended up getting on the phone with
each other and coming back together,so apparently it's okay. But I still
think it's gonna be beef for aminute. Yeah, it'suf. It's tough.
That's gotta be tough. They bothmoving and different, so it's nasty
to see that. Yeah, nasty. It's a nasty situation. They won

(35:59):
somebody you started out this thing with. You know what I'm saying, y'all,
y'all both came out the same hoodtogether, and then you start dating
Diddy, and I know that thatlifestyle is not good for you. I
know some of the friends around youdon't mean you no good. But I'm
your ride of that friend, andyou're showing, you know what I'm saying,
you ain't really fooling with me,So of course I'm gonna feel away.
And that's how I kind of readit between the two of them,
Like JT kind of fell back.She was just chilling, let the young

(36:22):
Miami do her thing. She wastrying to support her. But it's like
you you, I can't even soit's foolery. I can't. I can't
support this, and so now hereI am. Now I gotta go.
What's the name of the two songs? JT Got No Bars and Sideways so
good. It's so it's so good. Yeah, looking at them sadeways,

(36:42):
it'll never be the same mother theold days. Like she's she talking to
me, she was like she's justsaying like this is so phony, Like
she just going, so I amhere for j T rap career. I
am really here for that. No, she's tough. Yeah, JT is
tough. She's actually on that tourwe're doing something. Yeah, yeah,
so yeah j is tough. Exactlywhat you think? Man? I mean,

(37:04):
I don't know. I saw itand now I got more perspective.
But you know, I think thatyou can't tell Saucy Santana that he is
not a city girl. Okay,I don't care what you just you can't
tell them that he is he is, he is one. Okay, you
need a prad Like Saucy said,what if you got the best lawyer?

(37:30):
Can't tell him me? I waslike, bro, like game, you
just don't care. Yeah. Also, I think I was talking to somebody
about this and they said that theyfeel like this is their thoughts. You
know, they feel like j Tis always there for Young Miami when they

(37:54):
talk when she goes viral, whenthey start talking about Young Miami, j
T seems to be the person thattake up for her publicly. But then
when JT go through something publicly withother girls, they say Young Miami always
act like she don't know what's goingon. What happened. You saw Cardy
be talking about her, and youknow what I'm saying, And she doesn't
stand up for her for j Tthe way that she does. You know

(38:16):
what I'm saying. That said thatJT may feel a way about that,
but I mean, it's groups.But all this shows is that the QC
groups. QC was one of themost popping record labels and it just went
crazy. They still friends QC becausethat might be where its stemming from.

(38:37):
I don't know, man, QCis QC, And I mean, let's
first of all, let's you gottathink about just rap period. I mean,
you know, when you see thesegroups and these labels come together,
it's got it's got a time stampon it. They usually last. No.

(38:59):
No, I get he's saying likemurder inc. He talking about Young
Money. He's talking about Rockefeller yearsago. But he's saying. What he's
saying is the record label breaking upin their prime. It's a different it's
a different prime right now. Theywere in their prime. The City Girls
was in their prime. Okay,I'm talking about like, yeah, after

(39:21):
ten fifteen years. Of course they'renot making the same music. They're not
doing the same things no more.I can see that. But that don't
necessarily mean it's Rockefeller broke up atthe height. They broke up at a
height, and it was broke upat a height. Maya, oh,
may Back, May Back Music neverhad a height, That's cool. They

(39:43):
never had They never had a heightas a group. They never read a
height as they didn't. They didn'tknow, they didn't they Now you disrespect
my da my skirt. I'm rollingover the city. I'm talking about this

(40:05):
one. I'm talking about groups thatmake music together. There has never been
a Height May Back Music album.It's been City Girls albums, it's been
Migos albums. The groups that wewere comparing them to from QC, those
are actually groups. Yes, MeekMiil had a hot song, while Rick
Ross had a hot song. Whilewhile they had a song together as a
group, they were never an officialgroup. You're talking about label separating and

(40:29):
I'm talking about groups. It's adifference. Q though, you did,
and that's a label and within underthat I talked about the groups within QC
breaking up. Migos are not thesame. I mean, of course,
you know the untimely passing a takeoff, and then you add, then you
add, we didn't even know ifQuabo and what's his name was even talking
to you, said City Girl,q arguing, City Girls arguing, Okay,

(40:53):
it's outcast. Still cool, yep, they still support each other and
show love. And you talk aboutyet groups that always break up talk about
murdering that. This is just howwe're gonna take you that goal playing all
over. You're gonna have to seeRick Ross about turned out Mayback Music didn't

(41:15):
have a prime. You're gonna haveto see it about. He's gonna have
to see you about that. Whenthey signed may Back Oh when while they
got signed, when that was ahighlight, it's not that much to nobody
else. That was their height whenthey had When I was on stage of

(41:37):
Rick Grounds and he was hitting baby, don't ever play with Mayback Music,
mom, Malima, may Back Music, don't do what was it? No?
No, no, you didn't Andthen that's not even the height.
You know. We gotta stop,We gotta stop, folks. We got

(41:59):
looky, look we you really andyour music and about to get on you
bro, because the last the lasttime you said some wild stuff. What
you bro, You said you listenedto a Killer Mike album. They listened
to a jay Z. You said, Kendrick Lamar don't have a classical album.
Last part and he said a boutwhat he said. You said,

(42:21):
Kendrick Lamar doesn't have a classic rapalbum and this and they got and they
got. I couldn't he offend becauseI like that I don't listen to but
damn is a good album. No, no, no, the first to
Pimp a Butterfly? Is that theone? That's the one that was the
classical album? No Section eighty Nogood kid mad that you know because he

(42:42):
started googling. My boy called me. No for real, my boy.
My boy called me. He waslike, I know you don't listen to
Kendrick. He was like, Iknow you don't like listen to Kendrick,
so you couldn't really offend it likeyou should. But he was like he
he literally was like, hey,good kid. Mad City was one of
the best hip hop albums of alltime on the best Storytelling the album of

(43:02):
all time, And he said hesaid Drake has nothing. He said,
Drake has nothing close to that.You got better things to do with your
time. Please snap and knack itout. Knock it off. We're not
listen. This is podcast. Isall our opinions, so please don't try
to take none of this to thebank. It's our opinions. No,

(43:25):
I can't think of an album.I was like Kendrick, you got a
classic. I just couldn't think ofit. You don't think it's classic.
You don't think it's classic. Youhard boid thinkings. You listen to it,
so you don't think that hip hopbelieves his classic. I was speaking
for hip hop. Oh, youcan't speak for hip hop because you part
of hip hop. And if youdidn't listen to it, and I didn't
listen to it, and he didn'tlisten to it, I think we are
part of hip hop. The samesimilar style of the albums we all have

(43:49):
listened to. No, we likea similar style. You thought you think
back Owen's classic. He is thebest thing on Mayback music. They lost
it, They dropped the ball andthey lay. Now that's crazy, that's
crazy. But yeah, you're saymany bad music. I mean, I
just in my opinion, anyway,just no record label, slash group.
They don't last. It's just likeyou said either. You even brought it

(44:13):
up. You said that music changes, people move in different ways. It
just don't last. You as aYou could not have told me Rockefeller was
gonna be around. You could youcould. Well, it was two labels,
and you could have never told methey was going anywhere. And that
was that was Rockefeller Records and deathro. I was like, it's no

(44:34):
way, it's no unfortunate passing ofa pop But it's like those two back
then were like I was like,this israzy. Especially I'm like, y'all,
y'all, I ain't never heard nothinglike jay Z. And then you
had. Then you had Benny Singwho come out crazy. You had you
had, I mean they had something. You had free way. That is
forty years. I forget about Murderinc Murder ooh come on man. And

(44:57):
then look you unit that was strong, That union actually had a run as
a group. You know what I'msaying was I mean, that's your boy.
But I still don't think. Istill don't think Mayback music was just
doing that much as when they wereRoss Meek Mill and Wyle Well the moments.

(45:20):
It was a why when was what? What was? What? What?
What? What? What? What? What? Label was on when
his verse when his best album cameout of music by Far, you know
why because we only associate with madeback Music, so it really don't matter
whe else he was at Jam,I believe. But that's when he was
on Death Jam. But maybe hewas jail when his album his best album,

(45:44):
what's his best album? Let MeGo Through? It's the one with
Jerry Seinfield. Yeah, when hewas the roller Coaster was before that guy
album album. I remember that albumthat was like the we we forgot about
Meek Mill and Wyla this week theyhad to be y'all see that. Yeah,

(46:10):
yeah, I saw that. Isaw that I forgot so. Yeah.
That's the thing about groups. It'salways some secret animosity that is gonna
come out and explode at some point. And that's what happened with The City
Girls, Ambition, The Gifted,the mixtape about Nothing was Crazy, the

(46:31):
mixed the that was his best pieceof work, the mixtape about Nothing,
Ambition Gifted, And he was noton Mayback Music when that was out.
What the Mixtape About Nothing? Idon't think so, No, I think
he was on there, I thinkbecause after Ambition was the first one.
What I guess what I'm trying tosay is Wilee to me, didn't get

(46:51):
a good footing on Mayback Music.He had a couple of songs, but
the height of lay was before MaybackMusic. Oh no, I'm not going
with that. You know why hejoined may Bad Music because he was not
getting the type of the type ofpromotion that he needed. He wasn't getting
the type of our like that thealbum sales that that type of talent will

(47:12):
garner. And what he did wasRoss was like, Hey, I'm gonna
pull in a good rapper that Iknow. If I put him under my
umbrella and we do some songs together, it's gonna everybody gonna make money.
That was the same thing with MeetMeal. A guy with that type of
talent should have been making way moremoney. Let me get with something.
Because Ross Ross is still popular,but is he poppably as he was?

(47:32):
No? But when Ross Ross hada moment in hip hop, he is
a pillar. You can't take thataway from. He's something you can't take
that, you can't taken who ishe? He's something? Okayta run,
you gotta mention him in this eraof hip hope. His music, Yeah,

(47:55):
his and everybody was what's your favoritemeat Meal album? The best album?
It would definitely have to be theone when Yeah, the one you
don't know, I know he collaboratedwith Meek Mill. You can't tell me
a classic metal nightmares? Okay,you had to look at the Championships.

(48:20):
That was the one. Championships.Dreams worth more than money, Dreams work
and dreams work, those those arethose. He has some mixtapes that was
crazy Whens. His losses had somejoints on. So wait, am I
are you trying to say Meek Mealisn't relevant, or like his music isn't.
I just think that they was allwithin a period. I guess what

(48:42):
I'm trying to say is that Ifeel like they all had their moment individually
bigger than they did as a group. When it comes to Mayback music,
I feel like what I feel likeRoss's port of Miami's run. Ross was
Untouchable meets uh dreams and nightmares.Dreams you know that dreams worth more money
type with its own thing. Ifeel like Lee before he got on was
like its own thing, and Ithink they came together to become a super

(49:06):
thing, that it didn't reach theheight of where we thought it would be.
I think it was. I feellike it was underwhelmed. Now them
individually, I'm not saying that.I'm saying as a group, it was
like we were we were comparing himto qc Rockefeller. He was bringing up
those things, and then then wejust go mayback music and I'm like,
Ah, that wasn't that much ofit. That they were bigger individually.

(49:30):
Almost these artists were bigger than thethan the record label, you know what
I'm saying. And it wasn't likethat with the with the others, the
others. The record label was huge, but you heard music at the beginning
of a record, and that's whyyou remember it because the drop was so
good. All right, y'all,let's go ahead and get to this man
before we get out of here realquick. Because my answer to this,
well, actually, you had aquestion for me. You had you had

(49:52):
a you had a you had aquestion, Zach. We'll wait, we'll
get to that in a minute.We'll go through Russell Simmons daughter because this
is real simple to me. RussellSimmon, his daughter on vacation with some
old ass dude. Yep, whatdo you think about that? K was
he sixty five? Sixty five?She's twenty one? No, I can't
do nothing. She's twenty one,twenty one, Okay, yeah, I

(50:14):
can't do nothing at Oh it wasit were really like seeing the photos of
the really grossed me out, Likeit was like, oh my god,
it just looked nasty. It lookednasty. But again, I'm not so
much looking at her, looking ather daddy, looking at her parents and
what she grew up around and howshe was raised, because to somebody like

(50:37):
me, that's absolutely not normal,but to her, it seems very normal.
And when we look at Russell Simmonsdating history, Russell dated plenty of
young girls, started when she wasYeah. Yeah, so it's like she's
her daddy's daughter. You know whatI'm saying, it's very I don't like

(51:00):
the way I look and I knowRed run in that bathtub somewhere, like
you know, this is not Angelaand Vanessa, y'all better not, you
know what I'm saying, Like heruncle will never go for this, but
it just seems like that's what we'veknown her dad to do. So can't
get mad at her. That's whythey asked, you know, Russell,

(51:21):
what do you think about it?And he's like, well, I'm not
gonna judge her for her decisions.I know because if we start googling what
she was dating and how you wasmoving, we see what she get it
from DNA. Exactly. Yeah,you do what I gotta do? That
was your daughter? Huh? Whatwas your answer to be it? That
was your daughter? First of all, it was my daughter. I'd say,
excuse me, sir, excuse me, excuse me, sir, mister

(51:45):
aarp benefit man. You can't dothis. You can't go out with my
daughter, not my twenty one yearold daughter, and you sixty five.
That's nasty. You know what I'msaying. I'm gonna do my best to
make sure that doesn't happen, youknow, but there's only so much you
can do. Because she grown.What you're gonna do lock her up in
the basement or something. You can'tyou know what I'm saying. You can't
stop her she's gonna do. Buthopefully I have it equipped my daughter with

(52:07):
enough sense and that she doesn't wantto do that. And I gotta understand,
like is she are you literally reallyattracted to this sixty five year old
man, or you attracted to themoney. If you attracted to the money,
you want a bag. You knowI'm rich. I'm rich too.
I can get you a bag.So I don't. I don't get it,
you know what I'm saying. ButI've never been sixty five either.

(52:30):
Whoa? You know what I'm saying. WHOA. So let's just say,
let's say I'm sixty five. Idon't think I would ever go twenty one.
Twenty one is that's strong. Butif I'm sixty five and I want
me a nice thirty five year oldtender and I can still pull her,
that's sixty five. Are you madat me? If I went thirty years,
that's different. Thirty is different.Twenty one twenty one is child.

(52:52):
That's a child. Yeah, shejust got I just told somebody this stuff
today. I was like, Yo, I got a twenty about to be
twenty four year old and she's stilla kid. She I've grown, I've
grown and you. And back thenI would say, like my mama and
my daddy, they was grown attwenty four and they had mortgages, they

(53:15):
had they weren't calling they mamas.They had real they had real like they
were jobs, they would starting it. It was different. And twenty four
years old you not you not readyfor nothing yet. I don't think you're
really ready for life because anybody maleor female to you hit late while you
about about twenty eight is twenty nine, is going into your thirties. So

(53:36):
twenty one, you got to thinkabout that. Bro. Ten years ago,
I was holding your hand across thestreet. That's how I judge.
That's really how I judge it.When my daughter get on that grown stuff,
or anybody started talking like what wereyou doing ten years ago? Yep,
if you if you say ten yearsago and you was you needed your

(53:59):
mama or your daddy'll do anything foryou. You're not grown yet. You're
not grown yet. You're not grownyet. That's that's that's how I judge
it. Like ten years ago,you couldn't drive. Ten years ago,
you couldn't. You couldn't go toa restaurant and go order a drink.
That ain't that ain't that ain't that'sthat's nasty work. What he doing sixty

(54:21):
five? Like you posted sixty five? Or you could go get you a
forty year old because forty forty lookdifferent. Now you're gonna get your a
forty year old and all your sixtyfive year old homies. You are boss.
You're a boss you like and sheabout to not be able to have
no kids or what. I'm gonnagive me something that's going through minopaul.

(54:44):
Yeah, early shooting everything. Iain't worry about nothing, nothing like way
were having some kids. I go, I go drop something on the frozen
eggs. Got the frozen eggs.Oh god, come to the freezer.

(55:07):
Y'all are sick, m ros andeggs are nuts. Oh my god,
only want kids coming out here,that freezing, that deep freezing to the

(55:29):
Oh who said the d freezer?We're gon We're going We're going to the
deep freezing real wow, ladies,See how they talk about us that zip
like manka breathe, Hell yeah,I got be a forty year old.

(56:05):
Were gonna give us some kids?Yeah, we're gonna hit that freezer.
Baby, she a cat, right, This man said the freezer? All
right, all right? Oh ohmy god. Sorry, no, no,

(56:27):
no, Harry, good to know, how y'all good sixty to get
you supposed to get you a womanthat's going to minipause. No, no,
goddamn teenager one twenty one. Man, that's nasty, bro, that
is that's nasty. It is.You're gonna get you a woman in don'tky?
She might want some kids? Isaid, you know you're gonna have

(56:50):
to hit the d freezing poor hesaid, are we going to get some
ribs? Are the kids? Thekids? That is? Kids out here?
Oh? God, like you know, better go throw these boy eggs
out? Oh man? All right, man, okay, So before we
get out of here, Zach hadZach, what did you what you had?

(57:14):
You had? Oh? I justhad a question, man, like,
how do y'all get over a breakup? Hmm? I don't know.
How would you get over a breakup? I don't know, man. I
just time. I think time healsall. And you know, I feel
like when you're hurting sometimes you justneed somebody next to you. You know

(57:38):
what I'm saying, You need something, You need somebody, hold on to,
somebody to talk to, right,you know what I'm saying, get
you somebody. I don't believe inthat isolation healing stuff like healing alone.
Why why don't you believe in that? Because people always say, like,
oh, you just need to beby yourself, and then that if you

(57:58):
ever been in the house by yourself, it's not fun, it's lonely,
and you start thinking. You Ifeel like you overthink when you're by yourself
too fact, you know what I'msaying. You you overthink and you and
it takes you. It doesn't takeyou to a good place. You take
you. You're taken to a badplace, I think. And that's why
I think when people go through stuff, they say you need to talk to

(58:20):
who somebody. They don't say youneed to talk to yourself because yourself ain't
got good ideas. You know whatI'm saying, yourself is just gonna be
negative and you'll go into a spiral. So I would say, get you,
get around people. People be hurting. Yeah, you go out.
It may not be fun yet,you know what I'm saying, but get
out there, go outside. That'show I think you you get over a
breakup. I don't think what Zachsaid is wrong, but I think you

(58:44):
do need to heal yourself before youstart putting because a lot of times you
be hurt, so you go outsideand then you start hurting other people because
you're still hurt. So get overyour hurt. First and then go outside
and then do all the things youtalking about. But y'all do y'all like
to just jump from you know,one relationship, y'all run out and go,

(59:04):
you know, sleep with everybody andtake everybody home, and y'all sweat.
That's gonna help, y'all, Butreally, when you wake up in
the morning, your your stomach isstill gonna hurt. When I'm on your
Instagram, tyler, like, everytime you see me, your stomach gonna
hurt, hurt anyway. But thatdidn't help you. It didn't know.
It didn't because now you didn't hurtthis girl or the next girl. You
didn't hurt three other girls trying toget over me when you should have just

(59:25):
set your ass in the house anddealt with your feelings until you got over
it. Well, I think ifyou were honest with those other people,
y'all, never when y'allnest, ifyou let them know what I don't know,
what's going on with your day andthis cap and ass pod, because
you already know, you already knowwhen women break up, they already got

(59:49):
the cushion waiting, They already gotdude, y'all, y'all in next me
what I what women do? Weasked anybody you already don't wear no woman
breaks up. She already got thesoft landing. We already got the soft
landing. So it's already like.That's why I like when dudes we child
like, man, I mean,you know, I'm I'm gonna take her.
I like, you know, what'sa dude already smashing your treat?

(01:00:12):
Yeah? She they already. Theymay have been on the back end and
stop smashing and started already in that. But I've told y'all this before.
Women in the relationship. In therelationship, we are healing before we leave,
y'all because we decided, we've decidedmonths ago that we're living. So
please know that bellis if you're ina relationship and your woman you're not treating

(01:00:32):
all right, and she keep naggingyou and telling you and asking you to
fix it and giving you a chanceafter chance, and you keep you ain't
making no adjustments. Just know everysingle day that we stay with you,
we are slowly putting our stuff inour bags every day. Mentally, every
day, we checking out every day, so by the time we actually get
up and leave, the whole othersituation is together. Oh that whole other

(01:00:53):
situation. Situation. Yeah, that'sgood, and that's I mean, I
mean, so y'all treat us onthe back. No, no, no,
no, no, no no no. We just we just check out
the relationship once we talk like,we give y'all opportunity to fix it,
but you don't fix it. We'vechecked out. Once we check out,
we hear while we're still with you, we're going through a whole process.

(01:01:15):
Yeah, and then it's always adude in the line. If you got
a good woman, a fan woman, a woman with something to offer,
nine times out of ten there aremen lined up ready to be in a
relationship with her or to date her. Right. So, and I'm thinking,
every single day I dine told himseventeen times, I'm saying it again.
I'm saying it again every other day, this man is getting closer and

(01:01:36):
closer and closer to his opportunity becauseI'm telling you what the issue is.
So we're checking out, and wejust check out and go on and guess
what they think. I don't know. They think it's just a line full
of just a stupid gentleman waiting outside, waiting on them. And guess what,
when you have to talk to thatnext dude eighteen times. She only
had talked to me seventeen after that, you got to talk to twenty time,

(01:02:00):
rather talk to three more than letyou keep playing in my face.
I respect that. I do respectit. I respect that, and I
like, I'm an expert. Igot three baby bomas. I'm an expert.
I'm an expert, an expert,I'm an expert. I know I
know all of the pro people.Zach, did I not tell you that

(01:02:22):
the phases of when you break upand you got a kid involved? I
told him, I things ain't gonnabe right today about eight said eight is
the age where but I will tellyou for me. I mean, it's
just I mean it's a little bitdifferent. I'm just gonna go back to
being top. That's I had nobreakups. I'm gonna go back doing what

(01:02:46):
to Caupon does. And that's nota bunch of women. It's just,
hey, I'm gonna just go beme. Success is my thing like that.
What it does is it really letslets me dig in deep to success,
like just all type of stuff likewhether it's all right, let me
go, let me go redo thecrib completely, let me redo the crib

(01:03:07):
because now I'm gonna have more visitorsin the crib. It's different. I
gotta I'm gonna have I'm gonna havecompany over. I gotta redo that.
And that's just for that's not justthat's just that's just company over. And
then you know, then you godo stuff like just all types of stuff.
I just go back to being togalpong. That's it. I'm not
gonna bother nobody. I'm not gonnahate on nobody. I'm gonna see if

(01:03:30):
I see, I'm gonna be like, what's up? Keep it. I'm
gonna keep it pushing. I'm notgonna At what point you got a question?
Is it? Do do women doy'all decide y'all gonna cut all y'all
hair off in the breakup process,because it seems like right in the breakoff
breakup women go through a breakup,they gonna cut all their hair. They're
gonna cut their hair, They're gonnado something drastic to their look. Yeah,

(01:03:52):
like I ain't need a new luckand they're gonna try to just change
their whole look. Is that partof y'all healing process? That's part of
some women's healing process. I ain'tever been down there bath. You ain't
never, but that's good healing.So I'm getting in shape and I'm getting
my body right for the next manthat I'm gonna be with. That's the
thought with you, because he wantedyou to get into jail. Well,

(01:04:15):
I mean, I would have gottenthe gym for a dude who was treating
me right. So let's not actlike I mean, I know, being
have once in these and y'all y'alltell y'all tell women stuff too, and
we don't listen, and then y'allgo and cheat. That's what y'all do.
Y'all ain't never gonna break up nobody. Y'all just keep on cheating until
you get caught. But for awoman, when I keep telling you and
telling you and telling you, I'mmoving inching closer and closer to leaving you

(01:04:38):
all together, I'm not gonna go. But I'm not gonna cheat on you.
That take too much stress. Iain't got time for that. I'm
gonna tell you a couple of times, and then if you not understand it,
I'm gonna leave. Like real outsidedudes, that when women, I
think. But that's the part whereit gets to be toxic on both sides,
right, Because then you hear those, you hear that, oh yeah,
we're getting closer to we have time. But I'll say this, I
think that's what it gets toxic onboth sides, right, You checking out,

(01:05:00):
you checking out, and then likelet's say you check it out and
you and me. I know,all I gotta do is go outside it
no matter wellness planet, I gooutside, it's gonna I'm something gonna shake,
and I'm gonna that's gonna shake.I go to Houston, something else
gonna shake. I mean, Idon't know how many, how many people,
how many dudes? You wanna jumpit up and down on you,

(01:05:21):
But I'm gonna I'm gonna fill upwith roster. That's wild. That's crazy.
That's that's wild because I don't.That's that's so I don't. That's
where it gets wild. So forme, that's why I said I'll go
because I've done the Hey man,you broke up with me, got girl,
I'm mad. I'm about to go. Ah, I'm about to go
crazy. Nah, I don't gocrazy. I'm just gonna chill. I'm

(01:05:44):
gonna relax. I'm a relax causeI mean, like, we know what
my superpower is. We know whatmy superpower is. So I'm gonna just
I'm gonna just relax and be successful. So you know, you never know,
you know, breaks, the breakup the part of life. They
are and they're very hard and bssucessful is the best revenge you could ever
get on anybody who has hurt you. Oh yeah, you make a couple
of extra hundred thousand dollars, Yeah, you'd be great. How do you

(01:06:08):
tell who wins the break up?That's what I'm saying. It's really not.
It's not a winner, you knowwhat I'm saying. It's just because
y'all, y'all just didn't work out. And when you both get to a
level of maturity, you're realizing thatnobody wins in this. It's just we
didn't work out together. It's awinner. No, it's not. But
I'm gonna tell you this, goingout and smashing a million women is not

(01:06:28):
gonna take away the way your stomachhurts for that one woman that you want
to be with. So and weknow and we know that. So while
y'all think y'all out smashing this oneand that one and y'all showing us we
pop out with one dude, y'allgonna be crying, sladding down the wild,
sloping different. I want to tellyou, I'm gonna tell you a
lot of dudes. I think that'sthe small percentage of dude. I think

(01:06:50):
when we I think when we seeyou with a new man, that could
please the breakupute you. I don'tthink you. I don't think you feel
nasty. You'll be like like,oh, you like because you know this
dude smashing it and you like,I'm straight. At least every woman for
me, that that I think,not seeing them, not seeing them,

(01:07:12):
not the every day the calls,the the you know, just all of
the little stuff that Texas, thoseare the those are the moments that you
be like ah, you be likeah, but when I see you with
another dude, I'm like, Aright, I'm like all of that go
away instantly. I don't care nomore. I've seen women trying to make

(01:07:35):
me jealous in the club constantly,and I admit and I'm like on social
media officit, I like, man, that's that helped me get over you.
That helped me get over it upfor me, I guess and I'm
not trying to show you all ofthe I think a lot of dudes want
to go when you say the breakup, Zach, you want to You want

(01:07:56):
to show the girl. I gotthis girl. She's better than you.
I got this girl, she betteryou. Look at this girl, I
got her, she bashy bashy bad. And you want to show your girl
that you got all of these holes. And now look at you, you
missing out, Like I think thewinner, I don't know what I don't
want to do. I don't haveto show that. You know, you
know what time it is. Youknow if I'm not with you, you

(01:08:18):
you know who you you know whattime it is. At least with me,
you know what time it is.The winner of the breakup is the
one who has the better situation.Whoever gets to the best situation first.
I think that's the winner. Noit's not. I don't think it's a
winner. I don't think it's awinner. I think we got to wrap

(01:08:40):
it up. We run it outof time, all right, fatal thoughts,
everybody, share the poe, lovethe pid. You already know what
more can we say?
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