June 12, 2025 • 8 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is the Fits in Whip with Kate Richie podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
We love to walk, we love to clear our minds,
we love to put on a podcast. And you know, Chrissy,
I'm into my kids spot or you know stuff Mum
never told me.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
I love these podcasts.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
The other one that I've been getting into is I've
had it. There's I don't know why this has popped
up on my feed, but it's.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Jennifer Welch and Angie Pump Sullivan.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
They were two best friends, supporting each other through the
ups and downs of life, making each other laugh, from
family struggles to addiction to marital dissolution.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
I then hearing you tuning into this podcast, I've got
to ask, have you had your hormones checked?
Speaker 5 (00:35):
That's a great question.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
You in Perry, Everyone's.
Speaker 5 (00:42):
In Perry Perry, Perry Chicken.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
I haven't been to.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
So this has popped up on my feed and it
scared me a little bit because you know, I've been
with BJ for eighteen years now.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
It's been long term.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
These two ladies have put out two things that I
do that they're saying could be the end of our relationship.
Now this was the last I'll start with the last
one that they did first.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Okay, and this is around Valentine's Day. Have a listen
to this.
Speaker 6 (01:13):
Number Three, the communicating on the internet like a post.
Like if I open up my phone on February fourteenth
and there is a three paragraph of and how wonderful
he is and how much you love them, I immediately
know something's up. I immediately know.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
I agree. I think that is right up there. Split
in hairs with val renewal.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
See people who I like to do this every now
and then, maybe for Bjay's birthday or for an anniversary whip.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
You do it every now and then, tell me really
with it?
Speaker 7 (01:43):
It's never extensive. I'll say things like I'll make a
slight joke, I say, I.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
Love you as much as I love sandwiches or toasted.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
See, I'm a bit something.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
But I won't go into any level of depth because
I don't.
Speaker 7 (01:55):
I don't think there's I don't see social media as
a place for that.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
I mean, people like to do it, and sometimes I
read it going why do you continue to do this?
What are you trying to prove? And who do you
want to tell?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
When I read them, I go, why do I know this?
Do you know what? I mean, like, why do I
know how you feel about your partner? I hope that
you told him or her sort of a supplementary number.
Speaker 5 (02:23):
But you don't it for a surprise for them to see.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I mean, can I give you my reason why? Idea?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
And this is coming from a guy, and we talk
about guys opening.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Up a little bit more as well, I see it.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
I don't know it's because a lot of guys, first
of all, don't like to do it, because the older
generation see it as a sign of weakness to tell
everyone how.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Do you feel about your wife? No, but without a
doubt generation definitely.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
My old man never did anything like this, never said
anything like this to my mother at all.
Speaker 7 (02:59):
What I always think about those old quotes that you
see of older blokes saying, you know, the best decision
you'll make in your life is who you marry, and
that you know, the greatest thing behind any good man
is a great woman.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Yeah, you know, they're very old from old people that have.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Bat That's totally different to actually going out and broadcasting
how much that person means to you and to everybody else.
And this is the funny thing. They don't even do
it to their own partners because they don't show their
own emotion.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
Or they struggle with communication, don't they that generation?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Hey, well, this is the one I want to focus
on because we've actually spoken about this. I mean we're
eighteen years so in a couple of years we're coming
up to twenty.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
Now, are how excited to partners?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
I want to get your thoughts on this and be
totally honest with me. But this is from the podcast
and they're saying this is the end of a relationship
if a couple do this.
Speaker 6 (03:58):
Biggest red flag in a marriage. I mean, the biggest
bonan is a vowel renewal.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
I think that's that's my one.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
I know immediately within five years you're going to be divorced.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Like it's not even close.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
So thirteen twenty fourteen. Vow renewals, like, have you been
to some before? Have you done them yourself? Is it
a sign? Are you trying to salvage your relationship or
is it I see it as an excuse just to
have another party.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
I see a lot of people pull a face at
the idea. It's not for me. I don't think it's
necessary so much so.
Speaker 7 (04:35):
I was at a fortieth not long ago and the
couple got up to make a speech and they said, surprise, we're.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Going to do a vow renewal. And then we're only joking.
We know everybody hates that, And did you just open up?
Speaker 4 (04:46):
You?
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Everybody started why that? Yeah, yeah, let's go. How quickly
can I get on a line bike?
Speaker 7 (04:52):
No, they were joking, Swanny because they knew everybody hated it.
And I look, I understand if you if you capture
the moment and you're in love and you're there, I
don't have an issue with it. If you want to
celebrate it, by all means, go for it. It's not
for me.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Love the idea, I really love the idea. I mean,
I've never had the initial wedding, but I would say
that fits for you. After twenty years, I get the
feeling that you two, it's very rare, you still really
like each other, and you would marry each other again
if you met each other.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
When you do it, you met each other.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Now, do you know what I mean? The closest I've
got is sometimes I look around my house and I
you know which cost me a fortune? And I go,
would I buy you again if I inspected you today?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Yes, I would I.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Do like that.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
It's a bit of our renewal to my house every
time the mortgage comes out. But you're the same, you're
the I support your vow renewal.
Speaker 7 (05:52):
Fitz Okay, yeah, if you want to do it. Michelle
in Parramatta, what do you think is this true? Is
a relationship doomed with a five years if somebody does this.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
I don't believe that at all. I no, I've not
even been married two years yet, but I would quite
happily do it in twenty years time. And I know
a lot of people that have and they're still together today.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
Oh yeah, there's no heart and fast rule.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
The only negative too, The only coin I see in
it is that you don't want to push your love
onto everybody else. But I've always said with a group
of friends, if there's any reason, especially when you get
to our age.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Like we're always we're.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Always trying to come up with an excuse to get
everybody together. I mean, we're not celebrating twenty first anymore.
It's every decade we have our you know, a fortieth
or a fiftieth or you get to see each other
of our renewal. Like even BJ and I said as
a joke. Do you do do you do wedding dresses
from op shops? Do you you know what I mean?
(06:52):
Does everyone dress up in old suits and in our old
wedding dress?
Speaker 7 (06:55):
You could do that or you could just privately do
it if you wanted to tell each other how much
you love for each other, but.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
Then have a party for your twenty year.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Yeah you could.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
You know, Tommy, you you were married in the South
of France, right, very exclusive.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Congratulations on all your success. But it was just the
two of you, just the two of them. So would
you go back there to renew your vows?
Speaker 3 (07:15):
That's a good idea. You do a lope again, tom
We're probably a lope again. And then we had I
would ask the two women in the hot tub that
were watching at the time, does Chrissy know about this?
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Chrissy when they when the ceremony was on, but Destrom
little did they know that there was two ladies hooking
up with each other in a jacuzzi line.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
So I was saying I do, but I don't know
who I was saying.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Tom, Then you may now kiss which topped it on
the knee.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Really weirdly got married at Moolong Rouge Sits.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
In Whippa with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast walk
great shows like this.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Download the Nova Player, find the app store or Google
playing the
This is the Fits in Whip with Kate Richie podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
We love to walk, we love to clear our minds,
we love to put on a podcast. And you know, Chrissy,
I'm into my kids spot or you know stuff Mum
never told me.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
I love these podcasts.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
The other one that I've been getting into is I've
had it. There's I don't know why this has popped
up on my feed, but it's.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Jennifer Welch and Angie Pump Sullivan.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
They were two best friends, supporting each other through the
ups and downs of life, making each other laugh, from
family struggles to addiction to marital dissolution.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
I then hearing you tuning into this podcast, I've got
to ask, have you had your hormones checked?
Speaker 5 (00:35):
That's a great question.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
You in Perry, Everyone's.
Speaker 5 (00:42):
In Perry Perry, Perry Chicken.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
I haven't been to.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
So this has popped up on my feed and it
scared me a little bit because you know, I've been
with BJ for eighteen years now.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
It's been long term.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
These two ladies have put out two things that I
do that they're saying could be the end of our relationship.
Now this was the last I'll start with the last
one that they did first.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Okay, and this is around Valentine's Day. Have a listen
to this.
Speaker 6 (01:13):
Number Three, the communicating on the internet like a post.
Like if I open up my phone on February fourteenth
and there is a three paragraph of and how wonderful
he is and how much you love them, I immediately
know something's up. I immediately know.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
I agree. I think that is right up there. Split
in hairs with val renewal.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
See people who I like to do this every now
and then, maybe for Bjay's birthday or for an anniversary whip.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
You do it every now and then, tell me really
with it?
Speaker 7 (01:43):
It's never extensive. I'll say things like I'll make a
slight joke, I say, I.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
Love you as much as I love sandwiches or toasted.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
See, I'm a bit something.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
But I won't go into any level of depth because
I don't.
Speaker 7 (01:55):
I don't think there's I don't see social media as
a place for that.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
I mean, people like to do it, and sometimes I
read it going why do you continue to do this?
What are you trying to prove? And who do you
want to tell?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
When I read them, I go, why do I know this?
Do you know what? I mean, like, why do I
know how you feel about your partner? I hope that
you told him or her sort of a supplementary number.
Speaker 5 (02:23):
But you don't it for a surprise for them to see.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I mean, can I give you my reason why? Idea?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
And this is coming from a guy, and we talk
about guys opening.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Up a little bit more as well, I see it.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
I don't know it's because a lot of guys, first
of all, don't like to do it, because the older
generation see it as a sign of weakness to tell
everyone how.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Do you feel about your wife? No, but without a
doubt generation definitely.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
My old man never did anything like this, never said
anything like this to my mother at all.
Speaker 7 (02:59):
What I always think about those old quotes that you
see of older blokes saying, you know, the best decision
you'll make in your life is who you marry, and
that you know, the greatest thing behind any good man
is a great woman.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Yeah, you know, they're very old from old people that have.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Bat That's totally different to actually going out and broadcasting
how much that person means to you and to everybody else.
And this is the funny thing. They don't even do
it to their own partners because they don't show their
own emotion.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
Or they struggle with communication, don't they that generation?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Hey, well, this is the one I want to focus
on because we've actually spoken about this. I mean we're
eighteen years so in a couple of years we're coming
up to twenty.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
Now, are how excited to partners?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
I want to get your thoughts on this and be
totally honest with me. But this is from the podcast
and they're saying this is the end of a relationship
if a couple do this.
Speaker 6 (03:58):
Biggest red flag in a marriage. I mean, the biggest
bonan is a vowel renewal.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
I think that's that's my one.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
I know immediately within five years you're going to be divorced.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Like it's not even close.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
So thirteen twenty fourteen. Vow renewals, like, have you been
to some before? Have you done them yourself? Is it
a sign? Are you trying to salvage your relationship or
is it I see it as an excuse just to
have another party.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
I see a lot of people pull a face at
the idea. It's not for me. I don't think it's
necessary so much so.
Speaker 7 (04:35):
I was at a fortieth not long ago and the
couple got up to make a speech and they said, surprise, we're.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Going to do a vow renewal. And then we're only joking.
We know everybody hates that, And did you just open up?
Speaker 4 (04:46):
You?
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Everybody started why that? Yeah, yeah, let's go. How quickly
can I get on a line bike?
Speaker 7 (04:52):
No, they were joking, Swanny because they knew everybody hated it.
And I look, I understand if you if you capture
the moment and you're in love and you're there, I
don't have an issue with it. If you want to
celebrate it, by all means, go for it. It's not
for me.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Love the idea, I really love the idea. I mean,
I've never had the initial wedding, but I would say
that fits for you. After twenty years, I get the
feeling that you two, it's very rare, you still really
like each other, and you would marry each other again
if you met each other.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
When you do it, you met each other.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Now, do you know what I mean? The closest I've
got is sometimes I look around my house and I
you know which cost me a fortune? And I go,
would I buy you again if I inspected you today?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Yes, I would I.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Do like that.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
It's a bit of our renewal to my house every
time the mortgage comes out. But you're the same, you're
the I support your vow renewal.
Speaker 7 (05:52):
Fitz Okay, yeah, if you want to do it. Michelle
in Parramatta, what do you think is this true? Is
a relationship doomed with a five years if somebody does this.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
I don't believe that at all. I no, I've not
even been married two years yet, but I would quite
happily do it in twenty years time. And I know
a lot of people that have and they're still together today.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
Oh yeah, there's no heart and fast rule.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
The only negative too, The only coin I see in
it is that you don't want to push your love
onto everybody else. But I've always said with a group
of friends, if there's any reason, especially when you get
to our age.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Like we're always we're.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Always trying to come up with an excuse to get
everybody together. I mean, we're not celebrating twenty first anymore.
It's every decade we have our you know, a fortieth
or a fiftieth or you get to see each other
of our renewal. Like even BJ and I said as
a joke. Do you do do you do wedding dresses
from op shops? Do you you know what I mean?
(06:52):
Does everyone dress up in old suits and in our old
wedding dress?
Speaker 7 (06:55):
You could do that or you could just privately do
it if you wanted to tell each other how much
you love for each other, but.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
Then have a party for your twenty year.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Yeah you could.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
You know, Tommy, you you were married in the South
of France, right, very exclusive.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Congratulations on all your success. But it was just the
two of you, just the two of them. So would
you go back there to renew your vows?
Speaker 3 (07:15):
That's a good idea. You do a lope again, tom
We're probably a lope again. And then we had I
would ask the two women in the hot tub that
were watching at the time, does Chrissy know about this?
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Chrissy when they when the ceremony was on, but Destrom
little did they know that there was two ladies hooking
up with each other in a jacuzzi line.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
So I was saying I do, but I don't know
who I was saying.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Tom, Then you may now kiss which topped it on
the knee.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Really weirdly got married at Moolong Rouge Sits.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
In Whippa with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast walk
great shows like this.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Download the Nova Player, find the app store or Google
playing the
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