October 6, 2025 • 50 mins
Dr Stacy Sims knows more about women's fitness than pretty much anyone we've ever spoken to.
She's the exercise expert who went viral for her breakfast routine, but that's just the beginning. Dr Sims is an exercise physiologist and nutritional scientist who's become the go-to authority for grown-up women navigating fitness in 2025.
In this conversation, Stacey shares why so much mainstream fitness advice is complete bullshit for women. She explains how ice baths, fasting, and soul-crushing cardio weren't designed for female bodies, and why "shrinking and pinking" men's advice doesn't serve us.
You're going to hear about the surprising differences between male and female physiology, why women aren't just "small men" when it comes to health, and what we actually need to feel vibrant and strong. Plus, yes, she'll reveal that famous breakfast that caught the internet's attention.
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Speaker 1 (00:10):
You're listening to Amma Mia podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Mamma Mere acknowledges the traditional owners of land and waters
that this podcast is recorded on. I'm trying to find
my way back to the gym. Don't get me wrong,
I know where it is. I'm not lost wandering the
streets hoping to stumble into a spin class somehow. I'm
just trying to put exercise back in my regular agenda,
(00:35):
the one that includes work and dinner and washing and
kid taxing and work and commuting and couple time in
front of Netflix and work and dogwalks and sports, sideline
cheerleading and work. Exercise has been there before, Unlike almost
everything that's hard but good. Once I've found my sweet spot,
I am always glad I did what seemed impossible to
(00:56):
do comes to be impossible to miss. But right now
I'm trying to find my way back to the gym,
this time for all the right reasons. Not to whittle
and shrink, to be tiny and height, not to berate
and punish and pound, not to look hot and cute
and snatched and cut in some expensive, tasteful oak colored
(01:17):
active wear, which, let's face it, is particularly lucky, But no,
because of what it will give grown up me to
make a different kind of promise, to move you because
I love you, to make you stronger, and because you matter,
to give you some time so you can have more
of it, and to make the time we have more meaningful.
(01:39):
I just have to find my way back to the gym. Hello.
I'm Holly Wainwright and I am Mid Midlife, Midfamily, mid Squat.
I want you to meet someone, but first I want
to welcome you back to Mid, your show for gen
X women who are anything but This season, we are
(02:01):
returning to our roots and giving you six carefully chosen
cup filling, never boring conversations with grown up women who
have particular wisdom to share. I can't wait to tell
you about the incredible lineup we've got few. But first
of all, I'm going to introduce you to our extraordinary
guest on episode You might have already met her, actually,
(02:22):
because the woman I'm talking to today is the definition
of viral, or at least the first thing she eats
every day has gone completely viral, and once the Internet
cottoned onto that, they wanted to know what else she
knows that we don't. Doctor Stacy Simms is the favorite
exercise expert of grown up women. In twenty twenty five,
you might have seen her or heard her on the
(02:44):
Mel Robins podcast, and her appearance on that went viral,
not least for the breakfast I talked to you about earlier.
But the main reason everybody loves doctor Stacy Simms is
because she is actually an expert, not just someone who
understands how algorithms work. She's an exercise psychologist and a
nutritional scientist. She's a PhD. And she's an author and
(03:05):
a speaker, and she really knows her shit. And also
because this is her matra. You deserve to feel healthy,
vibrant and independent now and well into old age. Did
you hear that, my friends? You deserve it. And a
whole lot of the exercise noise that can be so
loud it actually pins you to the couch and confusion,
(03:26):
Stacy Simms says it's bullshit. Her expertise in female focused
exercise and nutrition has made her formidable in her argument
that a lot of what we've been told that we
have to do to be fit, to live long, to
be well was never advice meant for women. Women are
not small men, she says, when it comes to health
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doctrine and just shrinking and picking up advice and equipment
meant for men does.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Not serve us like what you ask.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Well, we're going to get into that, but think ice
Bath's fasting and slamming yourself with the kind of cardio
that leaves you spent. Stacy Simms is exactly who I
needed to hear from as I tried to find my
way back to the gym. So here we go, and
yes she is going to tell us about that viral breakfast.
Be patient, But before we get started, I need to
(04:17):
make this clear. The information discussed in this episode is
not intended to replace professional medical advice. Supplement, availability, safety,
and regulation vary between countries, including Australia. You always need
to seek guidance from your GP or a pharmacist and
ensure that any therapeutic goods are listed on the Australian
(04:38):
Register of Therapeutic Goods before you go near them. Welcome,
Dr Simms? Can I call you Dr Simms? Shall I
call you Stacy? Oh?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Call me Stacy?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Please welcome Stacy. Tell me when did you realize that no,
in fact, women are not small men? Ah?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Probably my second year of university.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Tell me about that.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Yeah, So a seed had been planted by my father
right when I was getting ready to graduate from high school.
I grew up in a military family, and you know,
the question always is you're going to university, what are
you going to do? What are you going to study?
And I told him that I didn't necessarily want to
go to university, that I wanted to be a Navy
seal or an army ranger. And he's like, well, you can't.
And I was like, wellhy can't I? And he said,
(05:22):
because you're a girl. And I was like what. And
this is the very first time that anything in that
nature actually came to appointed conversation, like came out in
the open that there are certain things you couldn't do
because you were a woman. So that seed was planted.
And then when I went to university and I was
on the crew team and I was rowing, and I
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transferred into exercise physiology and metabolism and started realizing that
all the things that we were learning there was no
representation of women. Textbook pictures were of men. It was
either him or they, it was never her. If there
was a conversation about female athletes as always a pathophysiological
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aspects of iron deficiency, the female athlete triad, but there
was nothing that was representative of me or my teammates
or any of the other hard working female athletes that
I knew. So the seed from my dad saying you
can't do that because you're a woman into understanding metabolism
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and exercise physiology with no female representation really started pushing
this idea in my head that wait a second, where's
the state of coming from? If people are saying that
women shouldn't be in sport, if women shouldn't be successful
in these kind of physical parameters to.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Be at university doing what you're doing, and to also
be the kind of young woman who says to their dad,
I want to be in Navy seal. You obviously have
always been very sporty, very disciplined, very competitive. Is that
fair to say? Where does that come from? Did you
grow up that way? And were you competing against boys
and men up until that point?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
And on par I think, well, I grew up in
We are a very close family. Ahead older sister, my
older sister, I love her to death, but we're very
opposite and we used to kind of compete with each
other when I was growing up, But then I was
more of a tomboy. I was out building forts and
jumping out of trees. And a lot of my friends
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as a kid were boys, just because of the nature
of growing up in a military family. And then I
was running cross country in high school and I was
playing co ed soccer, and there wasn't any real determination
that this is the boys and this is the girls.
It was like I trained with boys, I trained with girls.
Some of my good friends were guys. Some of my
best friends were girls, and we all did the same thing.
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And yeah, competitive, competitive in academics, competitive in sport, And
that was kind of like the drive and the question
of why and trying to find answers. So everything has
always been this push to understand and asking the question
why if I don't understand or try to find the answer.
So that kind of fed through to all of the
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things that is asking. When I was going through university.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
You talk a lot, and we're going to get to
this obviously about the not small men and all kinds
of reasons why women haven't been studied and embraced enough
by that community. But do you also think, and I
wonder if you were a bit like this when you
were young. I certainly the age that I am. We
spent a lot of time going we are as good
as the guys, We're just the same. We can work
as hard players hard.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Yep, party is hard like whatever it was right exactly.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
And it feels like now there's a sea change, a
little bit led by research like yours that's saying, no,
we're not the same. We need different things, but it's
certainly not a less than worse than not as strong
as we need to stop looking at it in that
binary way. Is that kind of what you came to
(08:59):
when you began to explore this.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Yeah, And part of it also was if we are
training according to male data, we're not reaching our potential.
So we don't actually know what is the limits for
female physiology because it's never been pushed that way. So
as I was a high performing athlete and then I
started working with Olympic caliber athletes and coaches, it's like,
(09:24):
we actually don't know what the physicality limits are of
female athletes because it's never been studied. Everything that we
apply right now even today through recovery metrics and certain
training metrics and what we're looking at from heart rate
variability and training stress is still based on male data
and male algorithms. So when I look at female athletes,
(09:47):
I'm like, are you sure that we're training women appropriately
to actually reach their potential? And that's the common thread
that's been going through everything, is like, are we treating
women with the correct dosage of pharmaceuticals to actually improve
their outcome from things like cancer or trying to prevent
(10:08):
Alzheimer's and all these things that are coming out in
popular media. Because again, when we're looking at the research
and now we're looking at AI, it's still through a
patriarchal lens, and it's still through that male data. So
we still have a lot to do.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Yes, in the most layman's term, for those of us
who aren't PhD you know, PhD level experts, why is that? Like,
so I've heard you speak and and other people speak
about the fact that women have just not been studied
enough in the right way for various reasons. Can you
explain to us why we're at this point where we're
(10:45):
suddenly going, oh, we don't understand half the population on
a deep physiological level.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Yeah, So I bring it actually to the pandemic to
COVID to really enlighten what's going on, especially in the
biomedical world. We had the global representation of female athletes
coming out and talking about the menstrual cycle before the pandemic,
and then we started seeing things like ambient dosage still
(11:11):
made women really drowsy and narcoleptic when they woke up
the next day because the dosage was too high. But
when the pandemic hit and we started seeing sex differences
and responses to the actual disease and virus, and we
saw sex differences in the recovery and sex differences in
the response to the different vaccines, then the whole medical community,
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because everyone was focused on the same exact thing, the
whole medical community woke up and said, oh my gosh,
you're right, there are sex differences. We really have to
dig in and figure it out. So then as the
pandemic dissipated, the world started getting back into its commonplace.
People went back to their research. People went back to
their practices and they're like, oh, okay, now we see
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when women are coming in and women stopped being as
gasolt as they were before, and the research really started going, okay, well,
now we really want to understand long COVID and we
have to look the differences between men and women. And
then from that we started seeing differences in like TBI,
which is traumatic brain injury because that's linked to the
(12:19):
brain aspect and inflammation of COVID. So there are a
lot of positive repercussions that were coming out of the
whole pandemic that made people sit up and go, oh, okay,
you're right there are differences from xx XY. We know
that there are physiological differences from birth. We know that
the exposure of sex hormones creates a different environment for
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these bodies. So we have to really start acknowledging that
and seeing what we're doing in the research to be
able to promote better outcomes.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
And is it true that until this massive, as you
say way cup point, women just hadn't been studied enough.
Is that true? I think you've told a story about
basically being almost kicked off as sort of yeah, a
study group because you had a.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Menstrual cyclectly So that was just a teaching lab at
university when you're trying to understand the you know, carbohydrate
metabolism or the way your body uses carbohydrate when you're exercising.
And I was the only woman who volunteered in our
teaching lab, and because my results weren't what was expected
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in a teaching lab, they were going to throw them out.
And I was like, why are you throwing them out?
And then because you're the anomaly, I was like, but
I did everything right. I did exactly what you told
me to do. I did the familiarization, I did the standardization.
I did everything that I was supposed to do. And
I know how to follow directions because my father was
a colonel in the army, So yeah, what gives here?
(13:51):
And then it's the oh, minstrual cycle differences. And that's
another point of contention where I was told that women
aren't often included in research because of minstrual cycle. They
are too complex or complicated, too complicated. Yeah, And I
was like, oh, wait a second. And so then that
was another feed forward to understanding that women were not
(14:12):
represented in research. And as you think about the history
of research, both in medicine and sports science and just
the whole biomedical field, it's who was in the room
when research design started, right, and it was men. And
when we come down to funding and trying to facilitate research,
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it just perpetuated that men specially cis men were the default,
and we're just going to study them and everyone else
can benefit from it. We just generalize it out, even
rat models. Right when you're thinking about rodent models, it
was always the male rat r and that's changing.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
That's how deep that goes.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Yeah, I have.
Speaker 2 (14:55):
To get to some of the myth busting advice that
you are famous for, right, and one of the things
that I think blew a lot of women's minds when
they heard you say this. I mean, I'm sure you've
said it lots of times, but particularly on Mel Robins's show,
that you need to eat before women need to eat
before exercise. So very typical exercise routine. I've certainly done
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this for many years. Is I get up early and
fitted in early because it's the only time in my
day before working, kids and everything start. I would never eat.
You blew everybody's mind by saying fasted exercise, which is
the proper term for going to the gym before you've
had breakfast, is not great for women. And you also
gave a now viral example of what you could eat
before you go. Tell us a bit about that.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Yeah, So I pull in the research really because of
the whole fasted thing right, And when fasting started becoming
in vogue, I was like, this doesn't make sense for
women because we know that there are sex differences in
appetite control, and we see that there are sex differences
in the way that a part of your brain responds
to low nutrition density, meaning that you don't have food
(16:01):
on board before you stress it. One of the specific
things is geralin, which is one of your appetite hormones.
It's the one that makes you hungry, and at rast
men and women are pretty similar. But as soon as
women start exercising without nutrition on board, that hormone goes
up and it stays up post exercise, and as it
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stays up, it is being perceived by that area in
the brain, the hypothalamus, that there's not enough nutrition. So
then what happens is you have what's called kispeptinurons that
get down regulated, so that starts to create a conservation.
So it starts downturning all of your metabolic processes. So
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your thyroid starts to go down, your incidental movement goes down,
and you're craving for simple carbohydrate comes up as the
day goes on because your brain is like, oh wait,
everything's slowing down. I need some food. I'm in a
starvation mode. And it doesn't take long. I mean after
four days we see the implications. So if you've done
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four days of long term fast or fasted training, then
we see this implication. Not only that, we see that
women who do fast training end up hitting their lower
baseline a lot faster, which means their body is like, oh,
I need to conserve. Whereas if you do fed training,
meaning just a small amount of food before your exercise,
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that extends your keeps your metabolism elevated for a lot longer,
and we see that you end up having more incidental
movement throughout the day, so you fidget a bit more
and you don't crave carbs. So when you're talking to
women and they're like, oh at three o'clock, I always
am reaching for the caffeine and the chocolate. I'm so hungry.
(17:48):
Say okay, well when did you have breakfast?
Speaker 2 (17:50):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Yeah, well I held my fast eleven I went to
the gym this morning. He's like, well, let's try eating
before the gym or eating when you get up, and
then let's see what happens at three o'clock and most
women are so surprised to finally make that link that
if I eat before I put my body under exercise stress,
even if it's only ten to twenty minutes, then it
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feeds forward to better appetite control throughout the day and
being able to make wiser choices. For men, it doesn't
work that way.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
This is all feels very linked to this idea that
women have always been, you know, eat less, eat less,
eat less. You know, and I've heard you say often
know you need to be eating more more of the
right things. I mean right things. That's the wrong language too,
but to be eating well for fuel that often women
are under eating and overtraining.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Absolutely yeah, And people don't realize it there because a
lot of women say, I'm not hungry, and I first
get up, And then when we're looking at that learned
behavior of not feeling hungry in the morning, then you're
not eating. You go training and you're still not hungry
because your appetite is a little bit muted from exercise,
especially if it's intensity exercise, and then you're trying not
(19:04):
to eat a lot because you've been conditioned not to
eat a lot. Then by the time you get to
the end of the day, you're like, oh, I'm really hungry,
so you start having snacks before dinner, maybe a glass
of wine to help mute the appetite, and then you
have dinner, and then a couple hours after dinner, you
feel a little bit peckish, so you have something before bed.
So you've bookended your calories at the end of the day,
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but you still haven't eaten enough for when your body
needs it. So your brain thinks that you're in a
starvation mode and it starts at conservation. It also shifts
your circadian rhythm. And when we're talking about circadian rhythm,
all of our hormones are related to different cellular responses
to date and light and food and no food. So
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if you aren't eating first thing when you get up
and you're exercising, and then you're delaying food intake to
eleven or twelve, you've effectively shifted your circadian rhythm. So
now your hormone pulses aren't going to be right. You're
going to see that your melatonin peak for sleep is off.
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You don't get the right latonin peak at the right time,
so your sleep is interrupted. We already have problems when
we're perimenopausal and into menopause because our sleep is interrupted.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
We certainly do.
Speaker 1 (20:18):
And if you aren't getting great sleep, then you're not
going to have anybody composition change. And we see this like,
don't have great sleep, you try to restrict more, you
try to train more, you eat less, and it's just
as bad twenty four hour kind of repetition of the eighties. Yes,
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like trying to fulfill this undercurrent from the eighties that
if you don't eat, you're fantastic.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Right, You've said it so many times and that is
a little recipe for it on your Instagram. But you
went viral with your protein coffee. Yeah, you have to
tell us very quickly, just because one of the reasons
why I think women love this so much is the
idea that it could be something small and easy that
you sought out the night before. Tell us what you
eat before you train in the morning.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Well, I, you know, am a seventies baby, so I
grew up in that whole era of not eating, and
I don't ever really feel hungry to all about ten
or eleven, but I know that I need food before
training for sing in the morning, and I love coffee.
So I was like okay, Well, if I put protein
and almond milk and have it as a late first
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thing in the morning, cold lat first thing in the morning,
then I get my coffee caffeine boost as well as
some nutrition. And people would always ask me what do
you have before training? Am I protein coffee? And then
finally I was like, okay, this is how you make
it double espresso. You stir in protein powder into your
cold almond milk poured in, and then put it in
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the fridge over night, and then when you wake up, boom,
ready to go.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
It's like a little pot of creamy, proteiny goodness.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
It is.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Can I ask you if the women listening to this now,
and as we've discussed, I mean, there are very different stages.
If there's one thing you want to leave them knowing
about their body that would change everything for them, what
would you like to tell them.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
That the body is not an algorithm and it's an
amazing feed of engineering. And if we take care of
it by listening intuitively and then applying different stresses when
we need to, that we can completely reframe how we
think and how we age. What I mean by that
is like, okay, we've been conditioned to do all these things, right,
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So if we take a pause and go, you know what,
I'm going to do some strength training. And it doesn't
have to be heavy lifting, but I want to do
some strength training because I want to reduce my cognitive
decline risk. I don't want to get Alzheimer's when I'm older.
I don't want to have a little bit of dementia
when I get older. And I know that if I
do some strength training, not only is it going to
improve the brain functionality, but it's also going to give
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me lean mass. Okay, so that's one thing that I
can do. And when you start reading about the research
with lean mass and the strength training and feeling better
and better gut microbiome and better gut brain connection and
you know, taking up space, it's a no brainer. It's like,
let's just add that extra twenty minutes, three four times
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a week and own that for myself, because if I
don't show it for myself, then I can't show it
for other people.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
My conversation with doctor Stacy Simms continues after this little break,
I wanted just to sort of bring home the consequences
of this massive sort of women are not small men. Revelation.
You say that it goes to things like the way
we're marketed to so you know, make a wait a
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little bit smaller, make it pink, say it's for girls
make up. But yeah, like tell me a little bit
about that, Like the implications of just treating us all
as if we are small men in terms of we
haven't got the right tools.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
Yeah, I mean simple things like crash test dummies in cars.
They're not representative of female body. So when we're thinking
about the way seatbelts fit and how the actual cars
is fitted around owned the body that's supposed to be
driving it, it is a male body that has just
been shrunk to be a five two or five three body.
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Instead of actually looking at the anatomical differences of our hips,
our shoulders are female length, all the different biomechanical differences
and center of gravity differences, and the way that a
female body will come forward in a crash. That's one
of the major implications is like how is a female
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body going to survive some of these crashes when they're
all tested on male representation of bodies. Then we think
about like in the sports industry, and when I was
developing sports products and saw that really everything out there,
based on male data and then marketed to women is
a shrink in pink. Right, Make a protein bar smaller,
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add some soy, add some color to it, make it
look very feminine, and call it a female bar. Really,
it's just a male bar that's shrunk. None of that
has changed. You look at that. Nothing that says it's
female specific, especially in nutrition, is really female specific. Most
of the research has been done on supplements has been
done on men. There's very very few studies that have
(25:24):
been done on women except for creatine and caffeine and protein.
So when we're looking everything that's out there, and that's
one of the things with other longevity information that's coming out,
it's all male centric. So we don't actually know how
this works for women. Yet.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
I've heard you talk about and we know that it's
true that a lot of young women stop fall out
of regular exercise around adolescence and puberty and menstrual cycle
kicking in. I have a fifteen year old daughter. She
is wildly sporty. It's wonderful, love it. She's competitive, she
plays team sport. But when she was before puberty, so
in the late years of what we would call primary school,
elementary school. She loved cricket, for example, and she played
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at quite a high level, and she wanted to play
on the co ed team because she thought the girls
team wasn't that great, which is a whole all other
kettle of fish, so she joined. There wasn't a co
ed team, so she basically joined the boys team. But
when she was on the boys team, a they weren't
very welcoming to her. No b She learned pretty quickly
that at that age where people's bodies were changing quickly,
(26:24):
they had her skills and their skills were quite different
in terms of power, and she felt she basically dropped out.
She dropped out of that. She doesn't play cricket anymore.
She plays other things happily. But it's a common thing,
right that girls when they do begin to realize their
bodies are shifting, and they do have their eyes open
to go, oh, there's a difference here, and the boys
(26:44):
are like this about sport, and we're encouraged to be
that about sport. It means that we can often lose
sight of this very important passion, right.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Yeah, absolutely, And again it's a lot of a lot
of it is how we are looking at puberty for girls.
So my daughter's thirteen and we had to go to
a high school open house last night and we went
to this one class and the teacher was saying that
there were only three girls in this and it was
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information and computer stuff, and he said the only reason
is they battled it out. And I asked this question
with the eye of you know, these are It's part
of the same thing that's happening with sport. I was like,
what are you doing to reduce the barrier of entry
to this for.
Speaker 2 (27:30):
Girls so they don't have to battle it? Right?
Speaker 1 (27:33):
Nothing, They're not doing anything. The girls that are there
were there because they are the only three girls in
the class and they wanted to be representative for young
girls coming in. So I asked them. I was like,
what are you guys doing to reduce the barrier of
entry to this? And they said, we're just showing up
and I was like, okay, but that doesn't necessarily encourage
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other girls to come in. And it's the same thing
with purity and sport. It's like, what are we doing
to reduce the barrier? Nothing? Because everything is still viewed
through the boy is the model and the default out
side of that if you don't match what's happening with
the boy, then you're not good enough. Whereas I'm taking
it from we have to reteach what's happening here in puberty, right.
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We have to look and explain that girls' bodies are
changing because of reproduction, Like the body is changing to
allow for uterusts to be housed properly, so our hips
are widening. The shoulder girdle widens to match the hips.
We see that girls' limbs grow faster than their core
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strength does, so they're ungangly. We're having a change in
our muscle fiber and our muscle fiber activity, so we
lose the power and the strength. But it's all temporary.
So if we bring it back to if we're educating
the coaches and we're educating the parents, and we're also
telling the girls that this is just a temporary decrease
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in power and performance, then we can change it up
and do more functional movement so we can get them
strong through their new by mechanics. If we're looking at
how are we squatting, how are we running? How are
we increasing our posterior or strength into a cutting motion
for things like football, so that we don't get injured.
So we have to be a bit more specific. It
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doesn't mean more complex, It doesn't mean more complicated. It
just means that we have to take away the whole
this is how it's been done through the mail lens,
through the male sport, and say you know what, Okay,
we know that girls respawn differently. We know that we
have to have a positive sporting environment and we're not
going to pick people out. We're not going to make
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them do corner kicks by themselves. We're going to have
a double corner kick so the girls don't feel like
they're being identified and singled out because they don't like that.
The boys respond to that, but the girls don't.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
I want to get onto some of the wisdom that
you have become very famous for. It's amazing the impact
that the conversations that you've had have had on a
lot of women that I know in my world. There
are a lot of women who'll be listening today, Stacy right.
They will be across the board. Some of them will
be they'll be training every day. Love it very invested
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in that some people will be. We go to the
gym twice a week. That's what we can manage. Some
people will be and this is a little bit where
I might at the minute, to be honest, on the
brink of trying to jump back into some kind of
regular exercise that we know is good for us, but
you know how it can fall out of your routine. Yeah. Yeah,
So there'll be a wide range people who love exercise,
people who hate exercise. Taking all that into account, what
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would you love women at a basic level, all of
them to know about the power of exercise.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
So I had this conversation with a couple of friends
this morning where we're getting really frustrated with all the
longevity and health span information that's coming out because they're
looking at the one percent. They're looking at let's use
methylene blue, let's use all these supplements, let's biohack all
of this. But if we look and go, you know what,
exercise does all of that, and it depends on the
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dosage and the mode and resistance training types that you
might be doing. But if we were to focus and
bring the idea of exercise not being something you have
to do, but something that your body responds to really
well to improve your health span, then that is way
more powerful than going after that one percent of all
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these little biohacks that the upper socioeconomic class is being
pushed towards. So exercise the reason why people don't like it.
It's uncomfortable. Ye, exercise in itself is not comfortable, but
that's because we have now become a society and it's
global where everything is comfortable. We sit in a climate
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controlled room, we have access to water and food whenever
we want, and if we don't like plain water, then
you can go buy something else. You know, it's relatively cheap,
and we're never uncomfortable. So our bodies are not designed
to be that way. Our bodies are designed to be
challenged and with challenge we adapt. So, yes, exercise is uncomfortable,
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but after a few sessions you're like, eh, okay, I
got this, and it's because your body's adapted. So you
want to change it up. Because if we embrace the uncomfortable,
or as a lot of my kid and her friends say,
embrace the suck. Embrace the suck, then it doesn't become
so sucky. It actually improves everything around you. We have
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a kind of a reversal of the aging process. When
you're looking at the actual molecular aspects of aging and
what we're trying to reverse. You're adding exercise in does that?
Speaker 2 (32:45):
Do you think that also for a lot of women,
and I'm maybe particularly talking about my generational age of women,
is we've associated some forms of exercise for a very
long time with restriction and punishment, right, Like this is
all about trying to whittle myself down to fit in
a pair of genes, you know.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
To look like Kate Moss from the nineties.
Speaker 2 (33:04):
Right, And we've been told that over and over again
for such a long time. Be smaller, be skinnier. Strength
isn't that important? What's important to hear is taking up
as little space as possible. So it's kind of hard
for all that negative baggage not to come with it
to exercise in gym work where really what you're saying
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is we need to shift our perspective to realizing all
that it can give us.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
Is that fair exactly? To reframe it? Yes, Because yeah,
we grew up in the eighties and nineties, right with
all the eat less calorie restriction. Don't have this, don't
have that fat burning classes. You have to push through
the pain. You know, what's the expression, no pain, no gain,
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sweat sweat, and so it's been this very negative connotation
to get to a point where you're not really happy
because you've had to have all this restriction. So I
really like my friend Gabrielle Lyons She's always it's not
about what we're losing, it's about what can we gain.
So if we want to gain health span, we want
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to gain energy. We want to gain better sleep, we
want to gain better community, we want to gain better relationships.
Then it comes down to building muscle and eating food
and allowing our body to be flourishing with the proper
tissue and mind body connections that we get when we
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do different types of exercise.
Speaker 2 (34:35):
There's a lot there that I want to grab onto.
But can I just ask you about the words you
just use health span? So when you talk about health span,
you mean, you know, as you've already mentioned a couple
of times, it's this big focus at the minute on longevity.
But what most ordinary and inverted commas people seem to
want from where I sit is they want to live
better for longer. Right, So is that what we're talking
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about when you use the term health span, like living
in good health for as long as possible?
Speaker 1 (35:03):
Exactly? Because when we talk about longevity and you're seeing
all the people that are putting stuff out there, they're like, oh,
let's live to be one hundred and twenty. Well, why
would you want to live to be one hundred and
twenty if you're not self sufficient? Yes? Right, And so
when we talk about health spin we're talking about living
out your natural life and your natural longevity, whatever that
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is from a genetic standpoint, but optimally like being independent,
being able to carry your groceries, being able to drive
yourself around, being able to go for a walk and
not worry about potential falls, like being robust as you
get older. So you're getting older, but you're not aging.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
My conversation with doctor Stacy Simms continues after this little break,
So we're in this mindset shift as you're just saying,
think of all the wonderful things that exercise can give
us rather than the restrictions that we've kind of imposed
on ourselves. So I want to get to some of
the things that you have, you know, your research areas
(36:05):
that you have really opened up for women. Now, so
should women who are training at whatever levels? And I
mostly want to talk about relatively or ordinary women, but
should women be training differently at different times in this cycle.
Speaker 1 (36:17):
In their menstrual cycle or the life face.
Speaker 2 (36:19):
Cycle in their menstrual cycle. First, is that true?
Speaker 1 (36:23):
Yeah, From a molecular standpoint, we see that your follicular
face or day one is your first day of bleeding
up to ovulation. You have the opportunity to really push
hard and regenerate muscle tissue and be more stress resilient
because that's how the body is trying to be up
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to ovulation. But the caveat is there are so many
in ovulatory cycles nowaday that we can't really determine what
phases you're in. And we also see there's such variation
individual variation in our ratios of estrogen and progesterone that's
really hard to put a blank statement out.
Speaker 2 (37:04):
So the apps on our phones that might be saying
you are in your luteal phase or whatever they're saying
that very is not really enough to be getting scientific with, no,
not at all, So don't get too hung up about it.
That's that what you're saying exactly.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
They're ret you're looking retrospectively, so they're sort of trying
to predict from your own data, but they don't actually
know so when we're looking at your minstrel cycle, the
best thing to do is if you're using an app,
then yeah, use that and take it with a grain
of salt when they say that you're in your luteal phase,
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but really track how you're feeling, because over the course
of three cycles, you're going to see your own individual
pattern and instead of because we're so used to blaming
ourselves for things, because that's how society has made women,
blame yourself for everything and don't take ownership of your
body changing because of hormones, but it's something you did.
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So if we're looking at our patterns, it opens it
up and say, like day eighteen or nineteen, you always
feel super flat. If you're not tracking, you don't know that.
So then you'll go to a fitness class you normally
go to and go what is wrong with me? What
did I do? When it's not what you did, it's
your hormones are changing and on these particular days of
your minstrual cycle, you always feel a bit flat. So
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if you are able to track that, then you know
that you're not going to try to go to a
high intensity class on a day you don't feel optimal.
That you go the next day when you feel like
you can push the top end of things, because then
you're going to get a better training stress, you're going
to feel better about yourself and your body is going
to respond in kind. But without tracking and understanding your
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own patterns, we always get into this blame factor and
it's not beneficial. So put the apps away with all
the stuff they tell you because the language isn't appropriate either.
You see a lot of things like, oh, you shouldn't
do this, and I get very frustrated with the language
output because again it's through the mail lends.
Speaker 2 (39:04):
Right, listen to yourself, that's what you're saying. Tracking you'll yeah, yeah,
And let's go into life. So, women who are around
my I'm just about menopausal. Now I've been in Perry
for a long time. That's we much discussion of. But
women who are I would say thirty five plus are
being very much told Now the cardio you've been doing forever,
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all of those spin classes, all that just run, run, run,
it's time to switch it up. I feel like that
message has become quite mainstream, which is great, but can
you explain a bit to us why and what that
should look like?
Speaker 1 (39:37):
Yeah? So this The whole cardio thing is the hangover
of how we grew up and on the messaging that
we had of calories and calories out. If you want
to get smaller, you have to burn calories. But when
we're looking at what's actually happening with all of that,
cardio is putting women, especially women who are perimenopausal, into
what we call a moderate intensity zone. So it's actually
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too easy to be hard enough to invoke change, and
it's too hard to be easy to get all that
low intensity recovery type work. Because if you are continuously
going to a boot camp or a spin class, and
we've all been conditioned to not think that it's a
good session unless we leave feeling all sweaty and completely
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demolished from the workout. That's not what we want. We
want women to understand polarizing. So if you know that
you're going to do an interval session, then you go
in there as fresh as you can so that you
hit each interval at the right intensity and recover well
from each of those intervals, so you actually benefit from
those intervals, because if you go in sort of tired,
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then when you're trying to hit those intervals, you're not
going to get the intensity that you need to invoke change.
So trying to reframe it for women to say, you
know what, it's not going every day and trying to
slam yourself. It's being very specific at what days or
when you want to hit it super hard. So you
go and you make that work for you.
Speaker 2 (41:03):
So if I'm a busy woman in this kind of
phase of life that we're talking about, and I have
got probably maybe three available windows a week to move
my body intentionally, so obviously apart from walking and you know,
picking up your grocery, shopping, whatever, what would be a
good example of what you should be doing with that time.
Speaker 1 (41:23):
So if you only have three days, I tell women
you want to put the basis of strength training down,
like you want to use those three days as proper
strength training, and you finish it with a sprint session
or apply of session. Because if you're looking at going
in and having one hour in the gym itself and
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you're like, Okay, what am I going to do with
my one hour? You're going to take ten minutes of mobility,
so you're really getting into the range of motion. It's
not about stretching to get muscle lengthening. It's about getting
in and opening up those joints for the right range
of motion. Then you do about twenty twenty five minutes
(42:04):
of proper lifting. It could just be a squat focused
one day and then and an upper body push pull motion.
Then the second time you're in the gym. Then after
you finish that, you have twenty ish minutes left, so
you can go and do some sprint intervals. You can
get on the assault bike and do thirty seconds as
hard as possible and two minutes full recovery. So then
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you're hitting all the things that you need to for health,
improving health span, which is all your brain health and
metabolic health and cardiovascular health, as well as being muscle
centric where you're putting load on the muscle on the
bone to preserve bone density and lean mass. So that's
an optimal session.
Speaker 2 (42:45):
Why is it so important to be building muscle? This
is something that we're hearing so much at the minute
about lifting.
Speaker 1 (42:51):
Why there's two things. Really, If we are lifting, then
we are putting direct stress on the bone to maintain
and build bone density. Because we see that women around
menopause and the five years after stand to lose up
to ten per center of their bone mass if they
are not doing anything right, and it's really important that
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we maintain our bone mass. The other thing about lifting
and building muscle is muscle is very metabolically active, so
it works as a glucose sink. So we see that
women who are in perimenopause postmenopause are more insulin resistant,
and we see one of the big factors that happens
with menopause and why there's so much research on the
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public burden diseases after menopause, cardiovascular disease, metabolic syndrome, diabetes.
It's because of these inherent shifts. If you are lifting
and doing heavier resistance draining and building muscle, you are
reducing your risk for developing diabetes because now you have
more active muscle tissue that pulls glucose in. You are
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reducing your cardiovascular risk factor because we see that the
resistance training creates a vascular compliance that means your blood
vessels and everything are working better. You are able to
have more heart control, so cardiovascular control. So it's taking
care of those two major risk factors as well as
the bone dencity risk factor. So it's not about I
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hate lifting, I'm gonna get bulky. It's about what am
I doing to reduce all my risk factors and to
make myself really super strong so that I can live independently.
Speaker 2 (44:29):
It must also I don't want to be shallow about
this because as we're saying, we want to very much
be linking this to our health. But it must feel
good to be physically physically strong, absolutely as you are.
I think Stacy, like, it must feel good to have
your arms, Like I'm just gonna say it. You must
feel like you could take care of yourself, you could
lift things you like. It must feel great.
Speaker 1 (44:51):
Well I kind of laugh about that, like everyone talks
about my arms. But that comes from like a long
history of string training because I've been doing it since
I was sixteen. I was on the versy crew teams,
a rower and swimming and all that kind of stuff.
I tried to lose it when I was bike racy
and didn't really work very well. But there is a
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genetic component and a long training history. But when I
can now rock into the gym, and it used to
be i'd rock and no other women would be on
the lifting platforms Now I might go, oh, I have
to wait for squats what? But it's so great fault.
It's your fault. I know that's okay, But I love
seeing how empowered women feel and how strong and confidence
(45:34):
they feel. Because if you have muscle, especially working on
your posteral muscles, you're upright right, so you stand better,
your shoulders are back, and you can breathe better, and
you're taking up space whether or not you know it.
And so that confidence comes from better posture, and confidence
comes from the ability to be strong. And not only that,
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we're improving neuroplasticity, which improves all the components in the brain,
which feeds forward to better confidence and better mental acuity.
Speaker 2 (46:06):
Is it ever too late? I wanted to ask you.
I've put you say that you wish that young women
understood the importance of weight training and let go of
these ideas about bulk and you know, whittle yourself down
with cardio earlier. But if you are and obviously I'm
definitely not asking this for me, but if you're like
fifty ish and you're listening all these messages for the
first time, and I really have never lifted weights apart
(46:29):
from the little pink ones in the pump class that
you know I used to do. Yeah, and the little
pink ones, the little ones that are on the back
of my exercise bike. Is it ever too late? And
it also sounds quite intimidating when people say lift heavy.
You've got to do this carefully, right. You can't just
order yourself some kettlebells on the internet and start throwing
them around your garage, can you? No?
Speaker 1 (46:50):
Not really one. It's never never too late, never too late.
I've just been digging into a lot of the older
postmenopausal research about high in density resistance training. I'm bone
health and lean mass, and they're taking seventy year old
women who don't have a history of lifting and building
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them and phasing them into heavy resistance training with no
ill effect. So, like I said earlier, your body is
wanting a challenge and is very adaptable regardless of what
age you are. It's just we have to be a
bit more cognate and careful as we get older. So
I was helping a woman who's been out of it
for a very long time, hasn't been lifting. I think
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she might have used some of those same pink dumbbells
along her life, but to give her the confidence to
do lunges and pull ups and stuff, it's using resistance bands.
So you can tie a resistance band around a poll
and put it around your waist and do lunges. It
gives you the confidence to do the lunge because it's
taking a little bit of load off the knee, but
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you also have some resistance to push against, so your
body is like, oh, okay, so there's a resistance. So
we can phase women into understanding what it means to
lift and get strong, and you can get strong as
you're phasing in. We like to say it's your right
and an earned right to lift heavy, and it's a
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journey to get there, and it might take a year,
and that's fine because along the way you're developing robustness
and your tendons, your ligaments, your muscles, your bones. And
then you start adding heavier load as you get stronger,
and then all of a sudden you're like, oh my gosh,
I can deadlift a one hundred kilos.
Speaker 2 (48:30):
I love that. Now that you spend a lot of
your time having to talk to people like me, because
you've become very famous for your research, when do you
fit in your exercise? You clearly have loved exercise and
sport your whole life. How do you make sure it's
something you do every day?
Speaker 1 (48:47):
I schedule wellness meeting for myself.
Speaker 2 (48:50):
Do you right? And do you usually do it first
thing in the morning.
Speaker 1 (48:54):
Yeah, I do because the days get super busy and
I often have meetings that go up till ten o'clock
at night. So if I don't get it done first
thing in the morning, then I don't have the energy
I need to get through the day. And so it's
just become one of those things like I get up,
I have what I need from my protein, coffee or whatever.
I go do anything from a thirty minute intensity session
(49:17):
in my home gym because I only have time for that,
or I'll go to a swim squad if it's summertime
to get fit enough to swim in the ocean. I
do something, and so it's for my body, but mainly
for my mental status.
Speaker 2 (49:31):
A wellness meeting with yourself. I love it. Thank you
so much, Stacey. I really appreciate the time you've given
us this morning. It's been amazing.
Speaker 1 (49:39):
You're a welcome Thanks for having me.
Speaker 2 (49:42):
Friends. Was that inspiring? I found her very inspiring, And
since we've had that conversation, I have started lifting weights
to be proud of me. My favorite parts well scheduling
a wellness meeting with myself. Love that idea not hacking.
I love that she thinks all the biohackers and the
forever guys and nonsense. And I love that she says
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it's never too late. This was the first episode in
this season seven of MID. Over the next week, you're
going to hear from extraordinary women on some topics we've
touched on before in different ways, like grief and change,
and some that we haven't, like travel and success. And
it's going to be excellent, So please like, follow, share,
(50:24):
tell your friends, join in. It's never going to be
boring on MID. The senior producer of Mid is Charlie Blackman,
the group executive producer is Nama Brown, and we've had
audio design and production from Tina Matterlove and I'll see
you next week.
You're listening to Amma Mia podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Mamma Mere acknowledges the traditional owners of land and waters
that this podcast is recorded on. I'm trying to find
my way back to the gym. Don't get me wrong,
I know where it is. I'm not lost wandering the
streets hoping to stumble into a spin class somehow. I'm
just trying to put exercise back in my regular agenda,
(00:35):
the one that includes work and dinner and washing and
kid taxing and work and commuting and couple time in
front of Netflix and work and dogwalks and sports, sideline
cheerleading and work. Exercise has been there before, Unlike almost
everything that's hard but good. Once I've found my sweet spot,
I am always glad I did what seemed impossible to
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do comes to be impossible to miss. But right now
I'm trying to find my way back to the gym,
this time for all the right reasons. Not to whittle
and shrink, to be tiny and height, not to berate
and punish and pound, not to look hot and cute
and snatched and cut in some expensive, tasteful oak colored
(01:17):
active wear, which, let's face it, is particularly lucky, But no,
because of what it will give grown up me to
make a different kind of promise, to move you because
I love you, to make you stronger, and because you matter,
to give you some time so you can have more
of it, and to make the time we have more meaningful.
(01:39):
I just have to find my way back to the gym. Hello.
I'm Holly Wainwright and I am Mid Midlife, Midfamily, mid Squat.
I want you to meet someone, but first I want
to welcome you back to Mid, your show for gen
X women who are anything but This season, we are
(02:01):
returning to our roots and giving you six carefully chosen
cup filling, never boring conversations with grown up women who
have particular wisdom to share. I can't wait to tell
you about the incredible lineup we've got few. But first
of all, I'm going to introduce you to our extraordinary
guest on episode You might have already met her, actually,
(02:22):
because the woman I'm talking to today is the definition
of viral, or at least the first thing she eats
every day has gone completely viral, and once the Internet
cottoned onto that, they wanted to know what else she
knows that we don't. Doctor Stacy Simms is the favorite
exercise expert of grown up women. In twenty twenty five,
you might have seen her or heard her on the
(02:44):
Mel Robins podcast, and her appearance on that went viral,
not least for the breakfast I talked to you about earlier.
But the main reason everybody loves doctor Stacy Simms is
because she is actually an expert, not just someone who
understands how algorithms work. She's an exercise psychologist and a
nutritional scientist. She's a PhD. And she's an author and
(03:05):
a speaker, and she really knows her shit. And also
because this is her matra. You deserve to feel healthy,
vibrant and independent now and well into old age. Did
you hear that, my friends? You deserve it. And a
whole lot of the exercise noise that can be so
loud it actually pins you to the couch and confusion,
(03:26):
Stacy Simms says it's bullshit. Her expertise in female focused
exercise and nutrition has made her formidable in her argument
that a lot of what we've been told that we
have to do to be fit, to live long, to
be well was never advice meant for women. Women are
not small men, she says, when it comes to health
(03:47):
doctrine and just shrinking and picking up advice and equipment
meant for men does.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Not serve us like what you ask.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Well, we're going to get into that, but think ice
Bath's fasting and slamming yourself with the kind of cardio
that leaves you spent. Stacy Simms is exactly who I
needed to hear from as I tried to find my
way back to the gym. So here we go, and
yes she is going to tell us about that viral breakfast.
Be patient, But before we get started, I need to
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make this clear. The information discussed in this episode is
not intended to replace professional medical advice. Supplement, availability, safety,
and regulation vary between countries, including Australia. You always need
to seek guidance from your GP or a pharmacist and
ensure that any therapeutic goods are listed on the Australian
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Register of Therapeutic Goods before you go near them. Welcome,
Dr Simms? Can I call you Dr Simms? Shall I
call you Stacy? Oh?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Call me Stacy?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Please welcome Stacy. Tell me when did you realize that no,
in fact, women are not small men? Ah?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Probably my second year of university.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Tell me about that.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Yeah, So a seed had been planted by my father
right when I was getting ready to graduate from high school.
I grew up in a military family, and you know,
the question always is you're going to university, what are
you going to do? What are you going to study?
And I told him that I didn't necessarily want to
go to university, that I wanted to be a Navy
seal or an army ranger. And he's like, well, you can't.
And I was like, wellhy can't I? And he said,
(05:22):
because you're a girl. And I was like what. And
this is the very first time that anything in that
nature actually came to appointed conversation, like came out in
the open that there are certain things you couldn't do
because you were a woman. So that seed was planted.
And then when I went to university and I was
on the crew team and I was rowing, and I
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transferred into exercise physiology and metabolism and started realizing that
all the things that we were learning there was no
representation of women. Textbook pictures were of men. It was
either him or they, it was never her. If there
was a conversation about female athletes as always a pathophysiological
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aspects of iron deficiency, the female athlete triad, but there
was nothing that was representative of me or my teammates
or any of the other hard working female athletes that
I knew. So the seed from my dad saying you
can't do that because you're a woman into understanding metabolism
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and exercise physiology with no female representation really started pushing
this idea in my head that wait a second, where's
the state of coming from? If people are saying that
women shouldn't be in sport, if women shouldn't be successful
in these kind of physical parameters to.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Be at university doing what you're doing, and to also
be the kind of young woman who says to their dad,
I want to be in Navy seal. You obviously have
always been very sporty, very disciplined, very competitive. Is that
fair to say? Where does that come from? Did you
grow up that way? And were you competing against boys
and men up until that point?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
And on par I think, well, I grew up in
We are a very close family. Ahead older sister, my
older sister, I love her to death, but we're very
opposite and we used to kind of compete with each
other when I was growing up, But then I was
more of a tomboy. I was out building forts and
jumping out of trees. And a lot of my friends
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as a kid were boys, just because of the nature
of growing up in a military family. And then I
was running cross country in high school and I was
playing co ed soccer, and there wasn't any real determination
that this is the boys and this is the girls.
It was like I trained with boys, I trained with girls.
Some of my good friends were guys. Some of my
best friends were girls, and we all did the same thing.
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And yeah, competitive, competitive in academics, competitive in sport, And
that was kind of like the drive and the question
of why and trying to find answers. So everything has
always been this push to understand and asking the question
why if I don't understand or try to find the answer.
So that kind of fed through to all of the
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things that is asking. When I was going through university.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
You talk a lot, and we're going to get to
this obviously about the not small men and all kinds
of reasons why women haven't been studied and embraced enough
by that community. But do you also think, and I
wonder if you were a bit like this when you
were young. I certainly the age that I am. We
spent a lot of time going we are as good
as the guys, We're just the same. We can work
as hard players hard.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Yep, party is hard like whatever it was right exactly.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
And it feels like now there's a sea change, a
little bit led by research like yours that's saying, no,
we're not the same. We need different things, but it's
certainly not a less than worse than not as strong
as we need to stop looking at it in that
binary way. Is that kind of what you came to
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when you began to explore this.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Yeah, And part of it also was if we are
training according to male data, we're not reaching our potential.
So we don't actually know what is the limits for
female physiology because it's never been pushed that way. So
as I was a high performing athlete and then I
started working with Olympic caliber athletes and coaches, it's like,
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we actually don't know what the physicality limits are of
female athletes because it's never been studied. Everything that we
apply right now even today through recovery metrics and certain
training metrics and what we're looking at from heart rate
variability and training stress is still based on male data
and male algorithms. So when I look at female athletes,
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I'm like, are you sure that we're training women appropriately
to actually reach their potential? And that's the common thread
that's been going through everything, is like, are we treating
women with the correct dosage of pharmaceuticals to actually improve
their outcome from things like cancer or trying to prevent
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Alzheimer's and all these things that are coming out in
popular media. Because again, when we're looking at the research
and now we're looking at AI, it's still through a
patriarchal lens, and it's still through that male data. So
we still have a lot to do.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Yes, in the most layman's term, for those of us
who aren't PhD you know, PhD level experts, why is that? Like,
so I've heard you speak and and other people speak
about the fact that women have just not been studied
enough in the right way for various reasons. Can you
explain to us why we're at this point where we're
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suddenly going, oh, we don't understand half the population on
a deep physiological level.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Yeah, So I bring it actually to the pandemic to
COVID to really enlighten what's going on, especially in the
biomedical world. We had the global representation of female athletes
coming out and talking about the menstrual cycle before the pandemic,
and then we started seeing things like ambient dosage still
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made women really drowsy and narcoleptic when they woke up
the next day because the dosage was too high. But
when the pandemic hit and we started seeing sex differences
and responses to the actual disease and virus, and we
saw sex differences in the recovery and sex differences in
the response to the different vaccines, then the whole medical community,
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because everyone was focused on the same exact thing, the
whole medical community woke up and said, oh my gosh,
you're right, there are sex differences. We really have to
dig in and figure it out. So then as the
pandemic dissipated, the world started getting back into its commonplace.
People went back to their research. People went back to
their practices and they're like, oh, okay, now we see
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when women are coming in and women stopped being as
gasolt as they were before, and the research really started going, okay, well,
now we really want to understand long COVID and we
have to look the differences between men and women. And
then from that we started seeing differences in like TBI,
which is traumatic brain injury because that's linked to the
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brain aspect and inflammation of COVID. So there are a
lot of positive repercussions that were coming out of the
whole pandemic that made people sit up and go, oh, okay,
you're right there are differences from xx XY. We know
that there are physiological differences from birth. We know that
the exposure of sex hormones creates a different environment for
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these bodies. So we have to really start acknowledging that
and seeing what we're doing in the research to be
able to promote better outcomes.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
And is it true that until this massive, as you
say way cup point, women just hadn't been studied enough.
Is that true? I think you've told a story about
basically being almost kicked off as sort of yeah, a
study group because you had a.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Menstrual cyclectly So that was just a teaching lab at
university when you're trying to understand the you know, carbohydrate
metabolism or the way your body uses carbohydrate when you're exercising.
And I was the only woman who volunteered in our
teaching lab, and because my results weren't what was expected
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in a teaching lab, they were going to throw them out.
And I was like, why are you throwing them out?
And then because you're the anomaly, I was like, but
I did everything right. I did exactly what you told
me to do. I did the familiarization, I did the standardization.
I did everything that I was supposed to do. And
I know how to follow directions because my father was
a colonel in the army, So yeah, what gives here?
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And then it's the oh, minstrual cycle differences. And that's
another point of contention where I was told that women
aren't often included in research because of minstrual cycle. They
are too complex or complicated, too complicated. Yeah, And I
was like, oh, wait a second. And so then that
was another feed forward to understanding that women were not
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represented in research. And as you think about the history
of research, both in medicine and sports science and just
the whole biomedical field, it's who was in the room
when research design started, right, and it was men. And
when we come down to funding and trying to facilitate research,
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it just perpetuated that men specially cis men were the default,
and we're just going to study them and everyone else
can benefit from it. We just generalize it out, even
rat models. Right when you're thinking about rodent models, it
was always the male rat r and that's changing.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
That's how deep that goes.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Yeah, I have.
Speaker 2 (14:55):
To get to some of the myth busting advice that
you are famous for, right, and one of the things
that I think blew a lot of women's minds when
they heard you say this. I mean, I'm sure you've
said it lots of times, but particularly on Mel Robins's show,
that you need to eat before women need to eat
before exercise. So very typical exercise routine. I've certainly done
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this for many years. Is I get up early and
fitted in early because it's the only time in my
day before working, kids and everything start. I would never eat.
You blew everybody's mind by saying fasted exercise, which is
the proper term for going to the gym before you've
had breakfast, is not great for women. And you also
gave a now viral example of what you could eat
before you go. Tell us a bit about that.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Yeah, So I pull in the research really because of
the whole fasted thing right, And when fasting started becoming
in vogue, I was like, this doesn't make sense for
women because we know that there are sex differences in
appetite control, and we see that there are sex differences
in the way that a part of your brain responds
to low nutrition density, meaning that you don't have food
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on board before you stress it. One of the specific
things is geralin, which is one of your appetite hormones.
It's the one that makes you hungry, and at rast
men and women are pretty similar. But as soon as
women start exercising without nutrition on board, that hormone goes
up and it stays up post exercise, and as it
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stays up, it is being perceived by that area in
the brain, the hypothalamus, that there's not enough nutrition. So
then what happens is you have what's called kispeptinurons that
get down regulated, so that starts to create a conservation.
So it starts downturning all of your metabolic processes. So
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your thyroid starts to go down, your incidental movement goes down,
and you're craving for simple carbohydrate comes up as the
day goes on because your brain is like, oh wait,
everything's slowing down. I need some food. I'm in a
starvation mode. And it doesn't take long. I mean after
four days we see the implications. So if you've done
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four days of long term fast or fasted training, then
we see this implication. Not only that, we see that
women who do fast training end up hitting their lower
baseline a lot faster, which means their body is like, oh,
I need to conserve. Whereas if you do fed training,
meaning just a small amount of food before your exercise,
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that extends your keeps your metabolism elevated for a lot longer,
and we see that you end up having more incidental
movement throughout the day, so you fidget a bit more
and you don't crave carbs. So when you're talking to
women and they're like, oh at three o'clock, I always
am reaching for the caffeine and the chocolate. I'm so hungry.
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Say okay, well when did you have breakfast?
Speaker 2 (17:50):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Yeah, well I held my fast eleven I went to
the gym this morning. He's like, well, let's try eating
before the gym or eating when you get up, and
then let's see what happens at three o'clock and most
women are so surprised to finally make that link that
if I eat before I put my body under exercise stress,
even if it's only ten to twenty minutes, then it
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feeds forward to better appetite control throughout the day and
being able to make wiser choices. For men, it doesn't
work that way.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
This is all feels very linked to this idea that
women have always been, you know, eat less, eat less,
eat less. You know, and I've heard you say often
know you need to be eating more more of the
right things. I mean right things. That's the wrong language too,
but to be eating well for fuel that often women
are under eating and overtraining.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Absolutely yeah, And people don't realize it there because a
lot of women say, I'm not hungry, and I first
get up, And then when we're looking at that learned
behavior of not feeling hungry in the morning, then you're
not eating. You go training and you're still not hungry
because your appetite is a little bit muted from exercise,
especially if it's intensity exercise, and then you're trying not
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to eat a lot because you've been conditioned not to
eat a lot. Then by the time you get to
the end of the day, you're like, oh, I'm really hungry,
so you start having snacks before dinner, maybe a glass
of wine to help mute the appetite, and then you
have dinner, and then a couple hours after dinner, you
feel a little bit peckish, so you have something before bed.
So you've bookended your calories at the end of the day,
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but you still haven't eaten enough for when your body
needs it. So your brain thinks that you're in a
starvation mode and it starts at conservation. It also shifts
your circadian rhythm. And when we're talking about circadian rhythm,
all of our hormones are related to different cellular responses
to date and light and food and no food. So
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if you aren't eating first thing when you get up
and you're exercising, and then you're delaying food intake to
eleven or twelve, you've effectively shifted your circadian rhythm. So
now your hormone pulses aren't going to be right. You're
going to see that your melatonin peak for sleep is off.
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You don't get the right latonin peak at the right time,
so your sleep is interrupted. We already have problems when
we're perimenopausal and into menopause because our sleep is interrupted.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
We certainly do.
Speaker 1 (20:18):
And if you aren't getting great sleep, then you're not
going to have anybody composition change. And we see this like,
don't have great sleep, you try to restrict more, you
try to train more, you eat less, and it's just
as bad twenty four hour kind of repetition of the eighties. Yes,
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like trying to fulfill this undercurrent from the eighties that
if you don't eat, you're fantastic.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Right, You've said it so many times and that is
a little recipe for it on your Instagram. But you
went viral with your protein coffee. Yeah, you have to
tell us very quickly, just because one of the reasons
why I think women love this so much is the
idea that it could be something small and easy that
you sought out the night before. Tell us what you
eat before you train in the morning.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Well, I, you know, am a seventies baby, so I
grew up in that whole era of not eating, and
I don't ever really feel hungry to all about ten
or eleven, but I know that I need food before
training for sing in the morning, and I love coffee.
So I was like okay, Well, if I put protein
and almond milk and have it as a late first
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thing in the morning, cold lat first thing in the morning,
then I get my coffee caffeine boost as well as
some nutrition. And people would always ask me what do
you have before training? Am I protein coffee? And then
finally I was like, okay, this is how you make
it double espresso. You stir in protein powder into your
cold almond milk poured in, and then put it in
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the fridge over night, and then when you wake up, boom,
ready to go.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
It's like a little pot of creamy, proteiny goodness.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
It is.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Can I ask you if the women listening to this now,
and as we've discussed, I mean, there are very different stages.
If there's one thing you want to leave them knowing
about their body that would change everything for them, what
would you like to tell them.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
That the body is not an algorithm and it's an
amazing feed of engineering. And if we take care of
it by listening intuitively and then applying different stresses when
we need to, that we can completely reframe how we
think and how we age. What I mean by that
is like, okay, we've been conditioned to do all these things, right,
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So if we take a pause and go, you know what,
I'm going to do some strength training. And it doesn't
have to be heavy lifting, but I want to do
some strength training because I want to reduce my cognitive
decline risk. I don't want to get Alzheimer's when I'm older.
I don't want to have a little bit of dementia
when I get older. And I know that if I
do some strength training, not only is it going to
improve the brain functionality, but it's also going to give
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me lean mass. Okay, so that's one thing that I
can do. And when you start reading about the research
with lean mass and the strength training and feeling better
and better gut microbiome and better gut brain connection and
you know, taking up space, it's a no brainer. It's like,
let's just add that extra twenty minutes, three four times
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a week and own that for myself, because if I
don't show it for myself, then I can't show it
for other people.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
My conversation with doctor Stacy Simms continues after this little break,
I wanted just to sort of bring home the consequences
of this massive sort of women are not small men. Revelation.
You say that it goes to things like the way
we're marketed to so you know, make a wait a
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little bit smaller, make it pink, say it's for girls
make up. But yeah, like tell me a little bit
about that, Like the implications of just treating us all
as if we are small men in terms of we
haven't got the right tools.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
Yeah, I mean simple things like crash test dummies in cars.
They're not representative of female body. So when we're thinking
about the way seatbelts fit and how the actual cars
is fitted around owned the body that's supposed to be
driving it, it is a male body that has just
been shrunk to be a five two or five three body.
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Instead of actually looking at the anatomical differences of our hips,
our shoulders are female length, all the different biomechanical differences
and center of gravity differences, and the way that a
female body will come forward in a crash. That's one
of the major implications is like how is a female
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body going to survive some of these crashes when they're
all tested on male representation of bodies. Then we think
about like in the sports industry, and when I was
developing sports products and saw that really everything out there,
based on male data and then marketed to women is
a shrink in pink. Right, Make a protein bar smaller,
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add some soy, add some color to it, make it
look very feminine, and call it a female bar. Really,
it's just a male bar that's shrunk. None of that
has changed. You look at that. Nothing that says it's
female specific, especially in nutrition, is really female specific. Most
of the research has been done on supplements has been
done on men. There's very very few studies that have
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been done on women except for creatine and caffeine and protein.
So when we're looking everything that's out there, and that's
one of the things with other longevity information that's coming out,
it's all male centric. So we don't actually know how
this works for women. Yet.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
I've heard you talk about and we know that it's
true that a lot of young women stop fall out
of regular exercise around adolescence and puberty and menstrual cycle
kicking in. I have a fifteen year old daughter. She
is wildly sporty. It's wonderful, love it. She's competitive, she
plays team sport. But when she was before puberty, so
in the late years of what we would call primary school,
elementary school. She loved cricket, for example, and she played
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at quite a high level, and she wanted to play
on the co ed team because she thought the girls
team wasn't that great, which is a whole all other
kettle of fish, so she joined. There wasn't a co
ed team, so she basically joined the boys team. But
when she was on the boys team, a they weren't
very welcoming to her. No b She learned pretty quickly
that at that age where people's bodies were changing quickly,
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they had her skills and their skills were quite different
in terms of power, and she felt she basically dropped out.
She dropped out of that. She doesn't play cricket anymore.
She plays other things happily. But it's a common thing,
right that girls when they do begin to realize their
bodies are shifting, and they do have their eyes open
to go, oh, there's a difference here, and the boys
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are like this about sport, and we're encouraged to be
that about sport. It means that we can often lose
sight of this very important passion, right.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Yeah, absolutely, And again it's a lot of a lot
of it is how we are looking at puberty for girls.
So my daughter's thirteen and we had to go to
a high school open house last night and we went
to this one class and the teacher was saying that
there were only three girls in this and it was
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information and computer stuff, and he said the only reason
is they battled it out. And I asked this question
with the eye of you know, these are It's part
of the same thing that's happening with sport. I was like,
what are you doing to reduce the barrier of entry
to this for.
Speaker 2 (27:30):
Girls so they don't have to battle it? Right?
Speaker 1 (27:33):
Nothing, They're not doing anything. The girls that are there
were there because they are the only three girls in
the class and they wanted to be representative for young
girls coming in. So I asked them. I was like,
what are you guys doing to reduce the barrier of
entry to this? And they said, we're just showing up
and I was like, okay, but that doesn't necessarily encourage
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other girls to come in. And it's the same thing
with purity and sport. It's like, what are we doing
to reduce the barrier? Nothing? Because everything is still viewed
through the boy is the model and the default out
side of that if you don't match what's happening with
the boy, then you're not good enough. Whereas I'm taking
it from we have to reteach what's happening here in puberty, right.
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We have to look and explain that girls' bodies are
changing because of reproduction, Like the body is changing to
allow for uterusts to be housed properly, so our hips
are widening. The shoulder girdle widens to match the hips.
We see that girls' limbs grow faster than their core
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strength does, so they're ungangly. We're having a change in
our muscle fiber and our muscle fiber activity, so we
lose the power and the strength. But it's all temporary.
So if we bring it back to if we're educating
the coaches and we're educating the parents, and we're also
telling the girls that this is just a temporary decrease
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in power and performance, then we can change it up
and do more functional movement so we can get them
strong through their new by mechanics. If we're looking at
how are we squatting, how are we running? How are
we increasing our posterior or strength into a cutting motion
for things like football, so that we don't get injured.
So we have to be a bit more specific. It
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doesn't mean more complex, It doesn't mean more complicated. It
just means that we have to take away the whole
this is how it's been done through the mail lens,
through the male sport, and say you know what, Okay,
we know that girls respawn differently. We know that we
have to have a positive sporting environment and we're not
going to pick people out. We're not going to make
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them do corner kicks by themselves. We're going to have
a double corner kick so the girls don't feel like
they're being identified and singled out because they don't like that.
The boys respond to that, but the girls don't.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
I want to get onto some of the wisdom that
you have become very famous for. It's amazing the impact
that the conversations that you've had have had on a
lot of women that I know in my world. There
are a lot of women who'll be listening today, Stacy right.
They will be across the board. Some of them will
be they'll be training every day. Love it very invested
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in that some people will be. We go to the
gym twice a week. That's what we can manage. Some
people will be and this is a little bit where
I might at the minute, to be honest, on the
brink of trying to jump back into some kind of
regular exercise that we know is good for us, but
you know how it can fall out of your routine. Yeah. Yeah,
So there'll be a wide range people who love exercise,
people who hate exercise. Taking all that into account, what
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would you love women at a basic level, all of
them to know about the power of exercise.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
So I had this conversation with a couple of friends
this morning where we're getting really frustrated with all the
longevity and health span information that's coming out because they're
looking at the one percent. They're looking at let's use
methylene blue, let's use all these supplements, let's biohack all
of this. But if we look and go, you know what,
exercise does all of that, and it depends on the
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dosage and the mode and resistance training types that you
might be doing. But if we were to focus and
bring the idea of exercise not being something you have
to do, but something that your body responds to really
well to improve your health span, then that is way
more powerful than going after that one percent of all
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these little biohacks that the upper socioeconomic class is being
pushed towards. So exercise the reason why people don't like it.
It's uncomfortable. Ye, exercise in itself is not comfortable, but
that's because we have now become a society and it's
global where everything is comfortable. We sit in a climate
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controlled room, we have access to water and food whenever
we want, and if we don't like plain water, then
you can go buy something else. You know, it's relatively cheap,
and we're never uncomfortable. So our bodies are not designed
to be that way. Our bodies are designed to be
challenged and with challenge we adapt. So, yes, exercise is uncomfortable,
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but after a few sessions you're like, eh, okay, I
got this, and it's because your body's adapted. So you
want to change it up. Because if we embrace the uncomfortable,
or as a lot of my kid and her friends say,
embrace the suck. Embrace the suck, then it doesn't become
so sucky. It actually improves everything around you. We have
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a kind of a reversal of the aging process. When
you're looking at the actual molecular aspects of aging and
what we're trying to reverse. You're adding exercise in does that?
Speaker 2 (32:45):
Do you think that also for a lot of women,
and I'm maybe particularly talking about my generational age of women,
is we've associated some forms of exercise for a very
long time with restriction and punishment, right, Like this is
all about trying to whittle myself down to fit in
a pair of genes, you know.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
To look like Kate Moss from the nineties.
Speaker 2 (33:04):
Right, And we've been told that over and over again
for such a long time. Be smaller, be skinnier. Strength
isn't that important? What's important to hear is taking up
as little space as possible. So it's kind of hard
for all that negative baggage not to come with it
to exercise in gym work where really what you're saying
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is we need to shift our perspective to realizing all
that it can give us.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
Is that fair exactly? To reframe it? Yes, Because yeah,
we grew up in the eighties and nineties, right with
all the eat less calorie restriction. Don't have this, don't
have that fat burning classes. You have to push through
the pain. You know, what's the expression, no pain, no gain,
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sweat sweat, and so it's been this very negative connotation
to get to a point where you're not really happy
because you've had to have all this restriction. So I
really like my friend Gabrielle Lyons She's always it's not
about what we're losing, it's about what can we gain.
So if we want to gain health span, we want
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to gain energy. We want to gain better sleep, we
want to gain better community, we want to gain better relationships.
Then it comes down to building muscle and eating food
and allowing our body to be flourishing with the proper
tissue and mind body connections that we get when we
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do different types of exercise.
Speaker 2 (34:35):
There's a lot there that I want to grab onto.
But can I just ask you about the words you
just use health span? So when you talk about health span,
you mean, you know, as you've already mentioned a couple
of times, it's this big focus at the minute on longevity.
But what most ordinary and inverted commas people seem to
want from where I sit is they want to live
better for longer. Right, So is that what we're talking
(34:58):
about when you use the term health span, like living
in good health for as long as possible?
Speaker 1 (35:03):
Exactly? Because when we talk about longevity and you're seeing
all the people that are putting stuff out there, they're like, oh,
let's live to be one hundred and twenty. Well, why
would you want to live to be one hundred and
twenty if you're not self sufficient? Yes? Right, And so
when we talk about health spin we're talking about living
out your natural life and your natural longevity, whatever that
(35:23):
is from a genetic standpoint, but optimally like being independent,
being able to carry your groceries, being able to drive
yourself around, being able to go for a walk and
not worry about potential falls, like being robust as you
get older. So you're getting older, but you're not aging.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
My conversation with doctor Stacy Simms continues after this little break,
So we're in this mindset shift as you're just saying,
think of all the wonderful things that exercise can give
us rather than the restrictions that we've kind of imposed
on ourselves. So I want to get to some of
the things that you have, you know, your research areas
(36:05):
that you have really opened up for women. Now, so
should women who are training at whatever levels? And I
mostly want to talk about relatively or ordinary women, but
should women be training differently at different times in this cycle.
Speaker 1 (36:17):
In their menstrual cycle or the life face.
Speaker 2 (36:19):
Cycle in their menstrual cycle. First, is that true?
Speaker 1 (36:23):
Yeah, From a molecular standpoint, we see that your follicular
face or day one is your first day of bleeding
up to ovulation. You have the opportunity to really push
hard and regenerate muscle tissue and be more stress resilient
because that's how the body is trying to be up
(36:43):
to ovulation. But the caveat is there are so many
in ovulatory cycles nowaday that we can't really determine what
phases you're in. And we also see there's such variation
individual variation in our ratios of estrogen and progesterone that's
really hard to put a blank statement out.
Speaker 2 (37:04):
So the apps on our phones that might be saying
you are in your luteal phase or whatever they're saying
that very is not really enough to be getting scientific with, no,
not at all, So don't get too hung up about it.
That's that what you're saying exactly.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
They're ret you're looking retrospectively, so they're sort of trying
to predict from your own data, but they don't actually
know so when we're looking at your minstrel cycle, the
best thing to do is if you're using an app,
then yeah, use that and take it with a grain
of salt when they say that you're in your luteal phase,
(37:37):
but really track how you're feeling, because over the course
of three cycles, you're going to see your own individual
pattern and instead of because we're so used to blaming
ourselves for things, because that's how society has made women,
blame yourself for everything and don't take ownership of your
body changing because of hormones, but it's something you did.
(38:00):
So if we're looking at our patterns, it opens it
up and say, like day eighteen or nineteen, you always
feel super flat. If you're not tracking, you don't know that.
So then you'll go to a fitness class you normally
go to and go what is wrong with me? What
did I do? When it's not what you did, it's
your hormones are changing and on these particular days of
your minstrual cycle, you always feel a bit flat. So
(38:23):
if you are able to track that, then you know
that you're not going to try to go to a
high intensity class on a day you don't feel optimal.
That you go the next day when you feel like
you can push the top end of things, because then
you're going to get a better training stress, you're going
to feel better about yourself and your body is going
to respond in kind. But without tracking and understanding your
(38:44):
own patterns, we always get into this blame factor and
it's not beneficial. So put the apps away with all
the stuff they tell you because the language isn't appropriate either.
You see a lot of things like, oh, you shouldn't
do this, and I get very frustrated with the language
output because again it's through the mail lends.
Speaker 2 (39:04):
Right, listen to yourself, that's what you're saying. Tracking you'll yeah, yeah,
And let's go into life. So, women who are around
my I'm just about menopausal. Now I've been in Perry
for a long time. That's we much discussion of. But
women who are I would say thirty five plus are
being very much told Now the cardio you've been doing forever,
(39:25):
all of those spin classes, all that just run, run, run,
it's time to switch it up. I feel like that
message has become quite mainstream, which is great, but can
you explain a bit to us why and what that
should look like?
Speaker 1 (39:37):
Yeah? So this The whole cardio thing is the hangover
of how we grew up and on the messaging that
we had of calories and calories out. If you want
to get smaller, you have to burn calories. But when
we're looking at what's actually happening with all of that,
cardio is putting women, especially women who are perimenopausal, into
what we call a moderate intensity zone. So it's actually
(39:59):
too easy to be hard enough to invoke change, and
it's too hard to be easy to get all that
low intensity recovery type work. Because if you are continuously
going to a boot camp or a spin class, and
we've all been conditioned to not think that it's a
good session unless we leave feeling all sweaty and completely
(40:21):
demolished from the workout. That's not what we want. We
want women to understand polarizing. So if you know that
you're going to do an interval session, then you go
in there as fresh as you can so that you
hit each interval at the right intensity and recover well
from each of those intervals, so you actually benefit from
those intervals, because if you go in sort of tired,
(40:43):
then when you're trying to hit those intervals, you're not
going to get the intensity that you need to invoke change.
So trying to reframe it for women to say, you
know what, it's not going every day and trying to
slam yourself. It's being very specific at what days or
when you want to hit it super hard. So you
go and you make that work for you.
Speaker 2 (41:03):
So if I'm a busy woman in this kind of
phase of life that we're talking about, and I have
got probably maybe three available windows a week to move
my body intentionally, so obviously apart from walking and you know,
picking up your grocery, shopping, whatever, what would be a
good example of what you should be doing with that time.
Speaker 1 (41:23):
So if you only have three days, I tell women
you want to put the basis of strength training down,
like you want to use those three days as proper
strength training, and you finish it with a sprint session
or apply of session. Because if you're looking at going
in and having one hour in the gym itself and
(41:43):
you're like, Okay, what am I going to do with
my one hour? You're going to take ten minutes of mobility,
so you're really getting into the range of motion. It's
not about stretching to get muscle lengthening. It's about getting
in and opening up those joints for the right range
of motion. Then you do about twenty twenty five minutes
(42:04):
of proper lifting. It could just be a squat focused
one day and then and an upper body push pull motion.
Then the second time you're in the gym. Then after
you finish that, you have twenty ish minutes left, so
you can go and do some sprint intervals. You can
get on the assault bike and do thirty seconds as
hard as possible and two minutes full recovery. So then
(42:26):
you're hitting all the things that you need to for health,
improving health span, which is all your brain health and
metabolic health and cardiovascular health, as well as being muscle
centric where you're putting load on the muscle on the
bone to preserve bone density and lean mass. So that's
an optimal session.
Speaker 2 (42:45):
Why is it so important to be building muscle? This
is something that we're hearing so much at the minute
about lifting.
Speaker 1 (42:51):
Why there's two things. Really, If we are lifting, then
we are putting direct stress on the bone to maintain
and build bone density. Because we see that women around
menopause and the five years after stand to lose up
to ten per center of their bone mass if they
are not doing anything right, and it's really important that
(43:14):
we maintain our bone mass. The other thing about lifting
and building muscle is muscle is very metabolically active, so
it works as a glucose sink. So we see that
women who are in perimenopause postmenopause are more insulin resistant,
and we see one of the big factors that happens
with menopause and why there's so much research on the
(43:34):
public burden diseases after menopause, cardiovascular disease, metabolic syndrome, diabetes.
It's because of these inherent shifts. If you are lifting
and doing heavier resistance draining and building muscle, you are
reducing your risk for developing diabetes because now you have
more active muscle tissue that pulls glucose in. You are
(43:56):
reducing your cardiovascular risk factor because we see that the
resistance training creates a vascular compliance that means your blood
vessels and everything are working better. You are able to
have more heart control, so cardiovascular control. So it's taking
care of those two major risk factors as well as
the bone dencity risk factor. So it's not about I
(44:18):
hate lifting, I'm gonna get bulky. It's about what am
I doing to reduce all my risk factors and to
make myself really super strong so that I can live independently.
Speaker 2 (44:29):
It must also I don't want to be shallow about
this because as we're saying, we want to very much
be linking this to our health. But it must feel
good to be physically physically strong, absolutely as you are.
I think Stacy, like, it must feel good to have
your arms, Like I'm just gonna say it. You must
feel like you could take care of yourself, you could
lift things you like. It must feel great.
Speaker 1 (44:51):
Well I kind of laugh about that, like everyone talks
about my arms. But that comes from like a long
history of string training because I've been doing it since
I was sixteen. I was on the versy crew teams,
a rower and swimming and all that kind of stuff.
I tried to lose it when I was bike racy
and didn't really work very well. But there is a
(45:12):
genetic component and a long training history. But when I
can now rock into the gym, and it used to
be i'd rock and no other women would be on
the lifting platforms Now I might go, oh, I have
to wait for squats what? But it's so great fault.
It's your fault. I know that's okay, But I love
seeing how empowered women feel and how strong and confidence
(45:34):
they feel. Because if you have muscle, especially working on
your posteral muscles, you're upright right, so you stand better,
your shoulders are back, and you can breathe better, and
you're taking up space whether or not you know it.
And so that confidence comes from better posture, and confidence
comes from the ability to be strong. And not only that,
(45:56):
we're improving neuroplasticity, which improves all the components in the brain,
which feeds forward to better confidence and better mental acuity.
Speaker 2 (46:06):
Is it ever too late? I wanted to ask you.
I've put you say that you wish that young women
understood the importance of weight training and let go of
these ideas about bulk and you know, whittle yourself down
with cardio earlier. But if you are and obviously I'm
definitely not asking this for me, but if you're like
fifty ish and you're listening all these messages for the
first time, and I really have never lifted weights apart
(46:29):
from the little pink ones in the pump class that
you know I used to do. Yeah, and the little
pink ones, the little ones that are on the back
of my exercise bike. Is it ever too late? And
it also sounds quite intimidating when people say lift heavy.
You've got to do this carefully, right. You can't just
order yourself some kettlebells on the internet and start throwing
them around your garage, can you? No?
Speaker 1 (46:50):
Not really one. It's never never too late, never too late.
I've just been digging into a lot of the older
postmenopausal research about high in density resistance training. I'm bone
health and lean mass, and they're taking seventy year old
women who don't have a history of lifting and building
(47:12):
them and phasing them into heavy resistance training with no
ill effect. So, like I said earlier, your body is
wanting a challenge and is very adaptable regardless of what
age you are. It's just we have to be a
bit more cognate and careful as we get older. So
I was helping a woman who's been out of it
for a very long time, hasn't been lifting. I think
(47:33):
she might have used some of those same pink dumbbells
along her life, but to give her the confidence to
do lunges and pull ups and stuff, it's using resistance bands.
So you can tie a resistance band around a poll
and put it around your waist and do lunges. It
gives you the confidence to do the lunge because it's
taking a little bit of load off the knee, but
(47:54):
you also have some resistance to push against, so your
body is like, oh, okay, so there's a resistance. So
we can phase women into understanding what it means to
lift and get strong, and you can get strong as
you're phasing in. We like to say it's your right
and an earned right to lift heavy, and it's a
(48:15):
journey to get there, and it might take a year,
and that's fine because along the way you're developing robustness
and your tendons, your ligaments, your muscles, your bones. And
then you start adding heavier load as you get stronger,
and then all of a sudden you're like, oh my gosh,
I can deadlift a one hundred kilos.
Speaker 2 (48:30):
I love that. Now that you spend a lot of
your time having to talk to people like me, because
you've become very famous for your research, when do you
fit in your exercise? You clearly have loved exercise and
sport your whole life. How do you make sure it's
something you do every day?
Speaker 1 (48:47):
I schedule wellness meeting for myself.
Speaker 2 (48:50):
Do you right? And do you usually do it first
thing in the morning.
Speaker 1 (48:54):
Yeah, I do because the days get super busy and
I often have meetings that go up till ten o'clock
at night. So if I don't get it done first
thing in the morning, then I don't have the energy
I need to get through the day. And so it's
just become one of those things like I get up,
I have what I need from my protein, coffee or whatever.
I go do anything from a thirty minute intensity session
(49:17):
in my home gym because I only have time for that,
or I'll go to a swim squad if it's summertime
to get fit enough to swim in the ocean. I
do something, and so it's for my body, but mainly
for my mental status.
Speaker 2 (49:31):
A wellness meeting with yourself. I love it. Thank you
so much, Stacey. I really appreciate the time you've given
us this morning. It's been amazing.
Speaker 1 (49:39):
You're a welcome Thanks for having me.
Speaker 2 (49:42):
Friends. Was that inspiring? I found her very inspiring, And
since we've had that conversation, I have started lifting weights
to be proud of me. My favorite parts well scheduling
a wellness meeting with myself. Love that idea not hacking.
I love that she thinks all the biohackers and the
forever guys and nonsense. And I love that she says
(50:02):
it's never too late. This was the first episode in
this season seven of MID. Over the next week, you're
going to hear from extraordinary women on some topics we've
touched on before in different ways, like grief and change,
and some that we haven't, like travel and success. And
it's going to be excellent, So please like, follow, share,
(50:24):
tell your friends, join in. It's never going to be
boring on MID. The senior producer of Mid is Charlie Blackman,
the group executive producer is Nama Brown, and we've had
audio design and production from Tina Matterlove and I'll see
you next week.
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