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November 17, 2025 9 mins

In this episode of the Mind Over Money Podcast, Jessen breaks down why obsessing over goals may actually be the reason people aren’t achieving them. While most of us have been taught to focus on the outcome, he explains that we have far less control over results than we realise. Instead of living in frustration or disappointment, Jessen shares why shifting attention to behavior and daily actions is the real key to long-term success. 

Listeners will learn how attaching themselves to an outcome creates anxiety, desperation, and emotional pressure that ultimately works against them. Jessen highlights how high-performing individuals detach from results, focus on what they can control, and show up consistently—regardless of how they feel. By prioritising action over outcome-chasing, individuals can stack the odds in their favor, increase their chances of winning, and release the emotional rollercoaster tied to whether goals happen or not. 

Jessen also reveals practical examples from his own life and sales career, including how detaching from the close led to more sales. He unpacks why desperation repels opportunities, how abundance shifts energy, and why success often arrives the moment someone stops “needing” it. This episode teaches listeners how to replace outcome obsession with purposeful action so they can achieve more, learn faster, and finally stop sabotaging their own progress. 

 

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About the host:  

Jessen James  

Jessen has spoken to and trained thousands of entrepreneurs all over the world and has been featured on Channel 5's Rich House Poor House.  

Having built, bought, and sold multiple businesses himself, Jessen has had some amazing wins and some rather spectacular fails too! He now dedicates his time to serving others to better their lives and businesses by sharing his learnings. Get in touch today.  

   

CONTACT DETAILS  

Website: https://www.jessenjames.com/  

LinkedIn-https://uk.linkedin.com/in/jessen-james-%F0%9F%91%88%F0%9F%8F%BD-31380968  

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jessenjames7  

EMAIL: success@jessenjames.com  

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