August 21, 2025 • 28 mins
Episode 66 of She Said It First feels like the ultimate group chat you didn’t know you needed. Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae kick things off by blaming all of life’s chaos on “Mercury in Gatorade”—because what else explains bad moods, tangled microbraids, and that one cousin who’s always “just not okay”? The ladies break down what Mercury retrograde actually is and drag it for all the inconveniences of the past three weeks. They even debate if folks are just manifesting messiness once they hear Mercury’s acting up—though Lynee’ insists her life was already headed straight for the toilet bowl, no astrology required.
But the laughs don’t stop there. The duo dives into the “male loneliness epidemic,” clowning the way men avoid deep conversations with their friends—like how you could lose your job and still tell the boys you’re “just chilling.” They challenge men to actually check in with each other (and maybe read past the first line of a text) because “do a little more” applies to everything—convos, hygiene, and yes, even wiping.
The show caps off with pure comedy gold: from people online thinking they can fight gorillas, to Trick Daddy claiming women over 35 are “damaged goods.” The verdict? Sir, you are the damage.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We just stop watching. I wash it had so much.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
No, never never been mad at You can always watch
watch the one, watched my two. Let's watch together. All right,
let's do it. Let's make it a team effort. That's
wrong with you? What's up? Everybody?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
It's your girl in distroubble aka Jerlyn Lake hanging out
with my bestie for the rest of the the name
money and you are listening to this, she said the
first partcas and every one podcast on the one podcast. Now,
there's been a lot, there's been a lot done, and
said these last few hours, girl, Jesus lord.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Have mercy.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
So I have to start the episode by asking you
what irritated you this week.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Frind, I don't even know it was. So I'm overwhelmed
with irritation. I don't even know where. I don't even
know what it is. I don't even know what it is.
Oh my gosh, I understand. I totally understand. For me,
it was Mercury and the micro brads. Girl, they tight
(01:16):
because tight as hell? Why give it us hell?
Speaker 1 (01:19):
What is going on to where the moon and the
tides and the planets with the sun is affecting the
way people shift?
Speaker 2 (01:26):
And I'm tired. I'm tired.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
I'm tired of myself. I'm tired of people. I'm tired
of doing things. I recently decided I wasn't going to
do anything else, and that's what I did this last week.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I was on vacation.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I didn't do a single thing. Now, was I on
a beach somewhere. No, That's the worst part was I
not responding to emails. I didn't answer nobody, but I
didn't do anything. I felt every fiber of my being
was like, hey, I love that for you, and sit
out idea, I love that for you.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Friend. This week, I just wish I could get into
rocketing somewhere. I have never wanted to see how that
man got on that moon so bad.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
One small nobody did it for woman yet one small
leaf for woman.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Yeah, because yes, okay, yes it's time to go dumping me.
I will go somewhere tomorrow. You know she really would,
she's just not playing.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Yeah, if it's if I can swing it in my miles,
if if Delsea would let me do it. Yeah. But
I think that this week was a tough affair. That
was a tough one for everybody. And it's like everybody
that I was talking to everybody. I want you something,
so marcery girl, micro brain and rain. I'm telling you,
it's all a micro brain, all of it. I'm telling
(02:44):
you it's doing her things the worst way.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
And I don't even know what that means. I never
felt this same. Is that even mean? That's a good question.
I don't even know what that means. Let me, why
don't even know what that means?
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Let they ask my good friends, Let's see what does
it mean for mercury to be in retrograde? Because we're
going to get to the bigger, the biggery bottom of this. Yeah,
the bikini bottom of it, you would, Okay, Mercury isn't
actually moving backward. It's an optical illusion caused by the
Earth passing mercury in its orbit around the Sun. Because
(03:22):
mercury orbits the Sun faster than Earth, it periodically appears
to reverse direction for a few weeks, kind of like
when a faster car passes a slower one and the
slower car appears to be moving backward for a moment.
In astrology, mercury rules communication, technology, travel, and thought processes.
So during mercury retrograde, astrologers believe that these areas may
(03:43):
be disrupted. You might hear things like don't sign contracts
right now, expect old friends or excess to resurface, double
check emails and travel plans.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
How often does it happen?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
About three or four times a year and it lasts
three weeks every time.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Oh, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
And apparently it's not a scientifically proven phenomenon. It's just
a metaphor or mindset shift for a lot of people.
And I just want you to know that I'm gonna
go back to the conspiracy theory because I feel like
stuff was wrong this week.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Yes, for the last three weeks.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
If I'm really putting it together, yeah, it feels like
it definitely has.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yes, mm hmm. What are you about this? I'm calculating
my head. Girl.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Yes, but think about it, friend, it's been crazy, That's
what I'm saying. No, that's a real thing. They need
to stop saying it's a myth. And micro braces were
Lord have mercy now got you? The Africans did them.
One thing Africans gonna do African because they will braid
(04:49):
your thoughts. They can braid your eyebrows, They will braid
anything you grew up in that you can bring orang
pit hair in there, and then people are going.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
To braid it series.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
I'm telling you, that's oh my god. I'm glad we
got to the bottom of what that actually was because
the fact that we were both sitting here saying it
had no clue. I feel like I had heard like
something in the past, but I didn't know exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
What mercury retro grade. Well we know what that was, Steven.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Now that I know that it doesn't really exist, I'm
even more pissed because what the hell has been going
on for the last month and it only happened when
this has happened.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Doesn't think about it. This has only happened and when
this has happened, so it has to be something.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Or do you think we put our Do you think
that we hear that mercury and retro retel grade and
we started subconsciously like shifting our mindsets like in negative way?
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Girl? No, what do you say? My life been going
straight to hell before I even mentioned Mike. It's literally
been flushed down the toilet.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
No freek girl? Why you so after this we're gonna
go grab some wine. I'm taking a shot.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
I ain't no sho No, why no? On wine, I
mean shot, and we can also do that as well,
because what are friends for?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
If we can't go get drunk down to the good
and eat good, then what the hell can we do?
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Okay said? If you can't go to Bella Chase, where
the hell can we go? You should have loved that
that way? Why would be? Okay? I'm glad.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
I'm so glad that we have the opportunity to do
these in person because the way that we live up
in here, clown is up now that we know what
has pissed us off?
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Girl, what happened?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
But I was so flabbergas and I'm glad you said something.
The male loneliness epidemic have you heard? No, it's my life.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
I about to kick you off? Where is it? I
love it? Apparently, but it's a real thing.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Sixteen percent of men say that they're lonely, and it's
not just about romantic relationships. It's platonic relationships as well.
A lot of them express the desire to not be lonely,
but there are contributing factors that can cause them to
be lonely. It's basically attributed to a combination of societal expectations,
changing community structures and individual choices.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Traditional masculinity.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Masculinity ideals, which often discourage emotional expression and vulnerability, contribute
to men's difficulty in forming and maintaining close friendships. Now,
do you think that their inability to create friendships has
contributed has contributed to how they behave in relationships?
Speaker 2 (07:40):
What was the question? Do you think.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Do you think men's failure to form non romantic relationships
do you think that that contributes to how they show
up in romantic relation.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
That's a good question.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
I would say yes, But you mean with women? Non
romantic relationships with women? Well, because they seem all the
guys that I know seem to have like a lot
of male friends, Like they always want to hang with
their boys. It's always somebody they can go kick it
with whatever. But do you mean not having that connection
with a woman. I think that friendships in general, I
(08:18):
just think non romantic is what it's is, what it's means, just.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Because it must be romantic when it comes to a man, right, No, I.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Think I personally, I feel like we like we just
had this conversation with Kiki, So I think that it's
important to point out that women seek community absolutely and
even if it's not just oh, I had a baby,
I need help. I'm going to create a village, you know,
Like it's not just that all the time. Sometimes it's like,
oh my gosh, I just want to get out the
(08:48):
house to grab a drink with yeah. Yeah, And so
we we intentionally schedule those things and we foster those things.
I don't know if men are doing the same thing,
And I think that's why they're lonely, because now women
are seeing if my friend could treat me better than you,
Like what girl, you take me out and we have
fun and I can talk to her and she.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Listens, and she don't make me feel small, and like at.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
This point, I wish that they would figure out how
to have those communities though, because it's well needed, and
because they don't address a lot of things.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
You see it show up in your relationships.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
If they are in romantic relationships, you will see all
of the tell tale signs, Like we were just talking
about somebody who we can tell has some past trauma
who really haven't dealt with it, and so it shows
up because it looks like attention seeking behavior, it looks
like entitlement, it looks like you are supposed to be
showing up for me in ways that I can't even
show up for myself. So I do believe that they're but.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I just don't understand.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Well, we do know, because they make fun of you
about everything men do.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
They can't do nothing. We was just saying that.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
But at the same time, if it is someone in
the group who actually and I wish y'all he was
it is he sweat.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
He swear up and down.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Okay, he swear up and down that he is having
counseling with each and every brok.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
You've got them on the right stuff, okay, schedule. So
I just wish.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Y'all he would come on here and teach y'all some
things about checking in with your male friends, making sure
that they're okay, asking those hard critical questions even if
they say yeah, I'm good, being sensible to know, like, no,
you not like what's really going on, because a lot
even when dudes tell you things, girl, you be ready
for the tea that man said you wasn't okay?
Speaker 2 (10:23):
He like me and my wife just broke up, and
they're like, okay, I'm like what happened? But he asks
what happened? Great? No deeds, Yeah, I'm like, no deeds.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
They don't care. I don't think they care, and I
don't think that they're taught to when it comes to
emotional like vulnerability. I don't think men are taught to
dig deeper for anybody themselves, their friends.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
They're like nothing, like, oh that's his business. Yeah, like
if somebody tone I could, if you ever told, I
can't help but ask more questions. But part of it
is there, like the name we knows. I'm so notisy,
Like you can't.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Tell me having a story. I'm gonna stop you after everything. Yes, okay,
so Dean, all right, and I'm gonna try to guess
some of it before you tell me, Like so them
this happens.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
That's part of being engaged in conversation.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
Yeah for us, Yeah, our conversation looks like that man's conversation.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
It'd be like, and what you do today? That's some groceries.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
And then you know, came into her just chilling get
ready for work tomorrow. I got fired whole time, never mentioned,
never mentioned you got fired, be saying I'm getting ready.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
For work tomorrow and got fighting.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Seeah, that is so crazy to me. I just think
you guys could do better with that. And you know what,
let's pose a question. Prove us wrong, prove us wrong
in the comments. If you are that guy who checks
in with your friends regularly, you ask them even if
they tell you they okay, if they tell you they
got divorced, they tell you they lost their job, you
dig deeper and you really ask those critical questions and
(11:52):
you show up for them in a way that looks
like real support. It's not just all man, you'll be
all right. Oh you know, another job wonna come. I'm
not talking about that.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
I'm talking about you really you in it and okay,
a matter of.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Fact screenshot message, send us.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
The receipts, let us see you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
And if you are not that person, then tell us why,
because I also want to know why your friend telling
you they going through something, or you can tell they
going through something, what.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Is stopping you from asking more questions?
Speaker 1 (12:21):
I think that's a really good question to ask them,
and I sincerely want to see the answer me to them,
because I want to know what a conversation with a man.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Looks like that it doesn't need details.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Yeah, exactly myself getting information and not asking follow up question.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
I want to know every single thing. You can ask
me the time of day, what year it was, where
you were located in the house, Chris fall morning on Thursday.
I think I had just walked up to take that
morning move. Check my text message it was a little stringy. Yeah, okay,
(13:00):
I can tell my bowels wasn't right, you know what
I mean, Like, I want to know the thing. Yeah,
I need to know. I need to know because I care.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Absolutely. It's not we are nosy, but we also really
want to care. And a lot of times when women
gather information like this, it's because we really trying to
give you out like authentic advices, Like we can't give
you our right because this is why men.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Make such bad decisions in general. But they don't have
all the information that is true.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Y'all staring at the first line, read the true.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Oh my god, you're right though, that's it, and read
and then ask follow up questions.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Here's the thing, when you think you've done enough, to
do a little more, Just when you thought you've done
all you can, I.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Want you to do, you know, And that's your whole life.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
If you're reading something and you thought you read enough,
READO a little more. Yeah, if you wipe that booty
and you think you wiped enough if you washed hell
out because she knew I was coming.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Brush your teeth and you threak brushing. You know what
I'm saying. Just take it a step further every time over,
every time.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Over, and then when you've done a little more, do
a little bit more.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
You're never done. O lord.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
I would like to know how you consume media these days,
because I feel like when we were kids, like we
had to wait a long time to see our face. Yes,
now you can just get on the internet and they
right there. You could see them in four k with
no weed and nobody just talking. If we never knew
(14:57):
the names of the songs until we bought the album
that part.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
No. I missed that girl, I missed that little fold
out Oh my god, land that used to be my faith,
like being able to.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
Like sing the song and everything, even like on your
answer machine you have except y'all.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Unfortunately I'm away from my phone. Say you know what
to do?
Speaker 1 (15:20):
Was cool? Yes?
Speaker 2 (15:21):
What to do? Girl? Hello? Yeah, hello hello.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
I missed those days. We had a good time. I
feel like now it was oversaturated. We see everybody everywhere, Yeah,
and it's no thrill in it anymore. Like it just
seems very normal to see celebrities or you know what
I mean, Like it feels tangible, like, which is so
crazy because.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
You know, Rashida is going on tour and friend, I
got a ticket to pray to God. I pray you
wouldn't waste your money like prayer to God. There's so
many other things you could get you didn't need to buy. No,
pass was nothing.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
If she want to sing up there and say I
ain't leaving kirt, that's what I'm throwing my phone right
over she did.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
I want her to not saying that line.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
But I think that's the problem. I think the problem
is we've seen so much of their marriage. Girl, don't
caribout your music anymore. No, it's I'm embarrassed to be
because it makes me feel like I support that, and
I can't support.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
I can't support that. That man embarrassed you gravel time
and then look at them. I'll be feeling bad because
she's so pretty. She's beautiful. Okay, hey, welcome mad oh hey,
by what what is it? I love that you?
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I love it. That's the material. That's good material, blanket things.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Right, what do I just want to come speak.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
Don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
To see what he's doing.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Look here everyone everybody really is family, and I do
I love love it, random segu I love that when
we come in people just be wanting to come in.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Yes, they do. They want to chime, man, they want
to be in the room. They want to talk. It's
like such a good vibe here it is now.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Yeah, God, I feeling bad because I think she's so
beautiful and could do just a lot, Like we will
never know what Rashida was capable of because her life
has been turned into a three ring circus.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
But a man with three ear rings welcome to the
soul circus.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
Because now and being overexposed to celebrities like that girl,
it's a lot easier to run into stupid people and
just hear stupid things. Yeah, which which kind of leads
me to my next question, Like, girl, what what's probably
the dumbest thing you ever heard a man saying? And
you don't have to be a man, but just what's
(18:04):
the dumbest thing you ever heard somebody say? When I
when I got online and I logged in to see
all those men saying that they could take that gorilla.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
When I those.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
One hundred shot up to and debate it for weeks.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
And drew up diagream.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
Even hey, y'all get involved to see how video else.
That's when I knew we are at a disservice here.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
We had a complete deer war. We're losing it because
girl them silver.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Back one the baby.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
I don't want no smoke to think that y'all really
could beat one. That's when I knew.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
Girl, It's ridiculous the amount of things people just just
say yes.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
The Internet makes people really brave.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
And speaking of gorillas, I watched Trick Daddy yesterday.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
How I'm supposed to say?
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Sure, I miss I miss my c That was because
I watched him on podcast episode with Nini Leaks and Nini,
oh you deserves jail time as well, because track Daddy
was telling Nini that he's not even attracted to women
over thirty five. And Nini did the little hair too
because she said, we ch, I know, I know you're
(19:24):
attracted to me. What, Nini, that's not even your nose.
It's not even your nose. Who would he be attracted Si?
And they're sitting here sniggling and giggling, trying to get
no because you know what it has to stop. Yeah,
I think people get on the internet and they engage
with these people for click bait, and they're sitting up
here again trying to get attention. And that's what it is,
(19:45):
because there's no way, there's no I'm.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
So glad I aged out of it because I never
wanted to be in it. You're trying to make.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Myself attractive to someone. I don't even think it's attractive.
It's crazy.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
That's attention. He looks like a corp.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
I never I ain't never seen somebody be so alive
and so dead not not you know how when you forget,
you know how when you set the timer for the
cookies but you don't hear.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
It, and you go back and you go back and
them and they be laid out. They all the let.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
They be bound there saying that women over thirty five
are damaged.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
Good. I said, sir, you look like the damage.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Yes, you on the damage when they said fragile and
they just tossed you in the back of that USPS truck.
You know when people sue for damages, that's what they
talked about.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
The about just showed up with him right there on
the side of the car. That's right, he was like,
he just looks.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
So crazy for somebody, for somebody who was suffering from
an autoimmune disease. You had all the time in the
world to go and build a platform to help people
also struggling with the same disease.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
But you on the internet telling black women and cooking all.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
The wrong stuff, and cooking all the wrong stuff is
the healthy stuff that you I know, you got a
strict dig.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Lat makeup from silent.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
You just some people could just be quiet and that
is or not you know, trick. We don't need to
do anything else. Just stop what you have been doing. Yeah,
like stop it, I'm over it. Platforms and people like this,
like I get it that it's click back and it's
entertaining and stuff. But we are we're facilitating just sexism, texturism, colorism,
(21:48):
all the Ism're perpetuating it by holding it up to
a spotlight and saying, hey, guys, look what else dumb
this mean had to say? Yeah, so one hundred men
definitely couldn't be tricked ad because you got the audacity
of you got they of He's not going out there
(22:08):
all right, it's gonna be cut.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
That books might will not work today.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
I promise you, just girl, like you thought I was there.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
I heard you just was looking for me. There, I go,
Lord that.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Everything it cannot look like that. It's unfair, it's unfitting.
You cannot be mean and also hard, hard on the eyes.
I won't accept it.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I won't. And I know we know, I know we
gotta go. I know we gotta wrap up. But he said,
I need I need to get that out.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
I needed to get it out saying it up moms,
girl boy, I wanted to say something, you know, I know,
you know they get so mad.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
They get so mad.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
Anytime we talk about trick Daddy and we're not saying
he's a bad person, but the thing is he says
stuff and then expect people don don't don't say nothing,
Like why do we get to say so much and
we can't comment, y'all be in a comment. I think
that's what the issue is with dating, Like people who
have certain standards that they don't even meet.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
Thank you, thank you? What type of woman you're saying?
Speaker 1 (23:26):
Because I say he's well over, you're well over thirty five,
well well over.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Thirty okay twice times over okay? So like the nervous
you know the nerve.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
What bir They ain't got the nerve to be pregnant,
well over thirty five and pregnant, and.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
That's a high risk pregnant. God, he need feet up.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
In that circulation to get losing circulation brain from somebody.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Who I know.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Arties got a precious So I just know for a
fact the doctor saw him.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
His everything was high. You on the internet.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Telling us anything. I have not a single number on
that form. There wasn't happen, you know what. I rest
my case.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
I'm not I'm off of it. I just need to
get that out now.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Today y'all know, we got to get into something probably
my favorite.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
Segment of this absolutely.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
It's where we basically give you guys professional advice. Now
when I say professional, I mean completely unlicensed, uncertified, un
just just on.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Just so we basically we listen to your your thoughts,
your opinions, your feelings, and we give you our advice,
you know, based on what we would do.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
So here's the scenario. My friend got dunk yesterday.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Last night, we had a FaceTime call where everyone shared
how much we hated him, and now they're back together.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
What should we do what do you.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
I feel like that's a longer part of friendship and
being mind your business. Continue on with a regular schedule program.
At this point, the next time we have another face
time call, you need to be on it. Yeah, exactly,
he's coming. If we've just done that, if we've already
gone the face off PAP and we all hate that, right,
we're gonna hate him again.
Speaker 2 (25:31):
That's why.
Speaker 1 (25:32):
But that's your friend, you know, like it just happened.
Like I tell, I will tell all my friends, I
don't care. You can take them back as any times
you want to. I try to line and abuse that part.
I can't support that.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
That. Hey, if y'all toxic and y'all gonna do that,
then I spend that. I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
There, done that, and I'm gonna support you right on them. Yeah,
that's how I'm mind my business and keep it pushing.
You know what I'm saying. You love them?
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Cool? I like you know what I'm saying. It's fine
with me. That's fine. Yeahn'na be on the face for sure.
Every time you call me, I'm gonna tell you how much.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
And I'm oh, my god, a living I'm such an
ad libbing. I don't care what you say, bro, I
don't like him. I don't like him either.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
When you praying he shouldn't have did that, it shouldn't
have and didn't and when it couldn't be me, shouldn't
have been who exactly say, Yeah, I'm gonna make it worse.
Speaker 1 (26:21):
I'm gonna make it worse because I want you to
leave it. Yeah, I want you to. And I think
it matters how long and what you've been doing and
how cool y'all are. My very best friend. I'm gonna
tell him, Hey, you need to leave them. I know
you're not going to, but you need to.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Yeah. We're just gonna say and we can talk about
it two a few times a week.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
They don't don't what you want to do because I
know my time is coming, yeah, like eventually.
Speaker 2 (26:46):
And the thing about it, y'all is, I don't want
y'all to look at this as like everybody hates him
d D.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
But you need friends around you that's gonna support you
in moments like this. So when you do come to
the point where you want to leave, you know you
have a good support system, right, Like you need to
hear the truth. You don't want people to like coach
you and just be like no, don't say that, like
that's not right. Like you need to have people in
your corner that's gonna keep it.
Speaker 2 (27:08):
The honey with you.
Speaker 1 (27:09):
So when the time comes, girl, you know we're gonna
be there with you. Hollow a truck and a glass
of wine. Baby, We're gonna pack this up and get
you up out of there when you're ready. Absolutely, that's
friendship to me. Yeah, friendship to me is being there
through all faiths and whatever it looks like, no matter
how crazy it is. I know a lot of people
get tied and like, don't keep talking to me, like,
don't keep bothering me with it. But the thing is
is y'all a like y'all can't go through stuff, Okay,
(27:31):
like everybody, well, couldn't be me.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Maybe not this situation. I definitely can call me. If
you're my friend and you're going through something, just call me.
Please just call keep talking about it.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
We figured it out, yes, Hey, if we didn't figure
it out on this call, maybe next drug.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
In the bar?
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Okay, I don't right right right? I just yeah, don't
try act like y'all holier than dow because yeah, we
see right through that, and you would want to support
system if you was going to do something to so period.
Absolutely that what my friends said. Well, guys, you know,
(28:10):
I don't really know how this is gonna go over.
It could be you might see us next Thursday then
to see you know what I mean. You just gotta
tune in to see if we're gonna be there all right.
You can catch us on YouTube if you want to
see the visuals or for all audio, you can listen
to us wherever you listen to your podcast.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
Just make sure you like, comment and subscribe and hit
that notification Bill say you'll know every time. Be fine,
We just stop watching. I wash it had so much.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
No, never never been mad at You can always watch
watch the one, watched my two. Let's watch together. All right,
let's do it. Let's make it a team effort. That's
wrong with you? What's up? Everybody?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
It's your girl in distroubble aka Jerlyn Lake hanging out
with my bestie for the rest of the the name
money and you are listening to this, she said the
first partcas and every one podcast on the one podcast. Now,
there's been a lot, there's been a lot done, and
said these last few hours, girl, Jesus lord.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Have mercy.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
So I have to start the episode by asking you
what irritated you this week.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Frind, I don't even know it was. So I'm overwhelmed
with irritation. I don't even know where. I don't even
know what it is. I don't even know what it is.
Oh my gosh, I understand. I totally understand. For me,
it was Mercury and the micro brads. Girl, they tight
(01:16):
because tight as hell? Why give it us hell?
Speaker 1 (01:19):
What is going on to where the moon and the
tides and the planets with the sun is affecting the
way people shift?
Speaker 2 (01:26):
And I'm tired. I'm tired.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
I'm tired of myself. I'm tired of people. I'm tired
of doing things. I recently decided I wasn't going to
do anything else, and that's what I did this last week.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I was on vacation.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I didn't do a single thing. Now, was I on
a beach somewhere. No, That's the worst part was I
not responding to emails. I didn't answer nobody, but I
didn't do anything. I felt every fiber of my being
was like, hey, I love that for you, and sit
out idea, I love that for you.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Friend. This week, I just wish I could get into
rocketing somewhere. I have never wanted to see how that
man got on that moon so bad.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
One small nobody did it for woman yet one small
leaf for woman.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Yeah, because yes, okay, yes it's time to go dumping me.
I will go somewhere tomorrow. You know she really would,
she's just not playing.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Yeah, if it's if I can swing it in my miles,
if if Delsea would let me do it. Yeah. But
I think that this week was a tough affair. That
was a tough one for everybody. And it's like everybody
that I was talking to everybody. I want you something,
so marcery girl, micro brain and rain. I'm telling you,
it's all a micro brain, all of it. I'm telling
(02:44):
you it's doing her things the worst way.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
And I don't even know what that means. I never
felt this same. Is that even mean? That's a good question.
I don't even know what that means. Let me, why
don't even know what that means?
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Let they ask my good friends, Let's see what does
it mean for mercury to be in retrograde? Because we're
going to get to the bigger, the biggery bottom of this. Yeah,
the bikini bottom of it, you would, Okay, Mercury isn't
actually moving backward. It's an optical illusion caused by the
Earth passing mercury in its orbit around the Sun. Because
(03:22):
mercury orbits the Sun faster than Earth, it periodically appears
to reverse direction for a few weeks, kind of like
when a faster car passes a slower one and the
slower car appears to be moving backward for a moment.
In astrology, mercury rules communication, technology, travel, and thought processes.
So during mercury retrograde, astrologers believe that these areas may
(03:43):
be disrupted. You might hear things like don't sign contracts
right now, expect old friends or excess to resurface, double
check emails and travel plans.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
How often does it happen?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
About three or four times a year and it lasts
three weeks every time.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Oh, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
And apparently it's not a scientifically proven phenomenon. It's just
a metaphor or mindset shift for a lot of people.
And I just want you to know that I'm gonna
go back to the conspiracy theory because I feel like
stuff was wrong this week.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Yes, for the last three weeks.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
If I'm really putting it together, yeah, it feels like
it definitely has.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yes, mm hmm. What are you about this? I'm calculating
my head. Girl.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Yes, but think about it, friend, it's been crazy, That's
what I'm saying. No, that's a real thing. They need
to stop saying it's a myth. And micro braces were
Lord have mercy now got you? The Africans did them.
One thing Africans gonna do African because they will braid
(04:49):
your thoughts. They can braid your eyebrows, They will braid
anything you grew up in that you can bring orang
pit hair in there, and then people are going.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
To braid it series.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
I'm telling you, that's oh my god. I'm glad we
got to the bottom of what that actually was because
the fact that we were both sitting here saying it
had no clue. I feel like I had heard like
something in the past, but I didn't know exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
What mercury retro grade. Well we know what that was, Steven.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Now that I know that it doesn't really exist, I'm
even more pissed because what the hell has been going
on for the last month and it only happened when
this has happened.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Doesn't think about it. This has only happened and when
this has happened, so it has to be something.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Or do you think we put our Do you think
that we hear that mercury and retro retel grade and
we started subconsciously like shifting our mindsets like in negative way?
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Girl? No, what do you say? My life been going
straight to hell before I even mentioned Mike. It's literally
been flushed down the toilet.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
No freek girl? Why you so after this we're gonna
go grab some wine. I'm taking a shot.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
I ain't no sho No, why no? On wine, I
mean shot, and we can also do that as well,
because what are friends for?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
If we can't go get drunk down to the good
and eat good, then what the hell can we do?
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Okay said? If you can't go to Bella Chase, where
the hell can we go? You should have loved that
that way? Why would be? Okay? I'm glad.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
I'm so glad that we have the opportunity to do
these in person because the way that we live up
in here, clown is up now that we know what
has pissed us off?
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Girl, what happened?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
But I was so flabbergas and I'm glad you said something.
The male loneliness epidemic have you heard? No, it's my life.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
I about to kick you off? Where is it? I
love it? Apparently, but it's a real thing.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Sixteen percent of men say that they're lonely, and it's
not just about romantic relationships. It's platonic relationships as well.
A lot of them express the desire to not be lonely,
but there are contributing factors that can cause them to
be lonely. It's basically attributed to a combination of societal expectations,
changing community structures and individual choices.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Traditional masculinity.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Masculinity ideals, which often discourage emotional expression and vulnerability, contribute
to men's difficulty in forming and maintaining close friendships. Now,
do you think that their inability to create friendships has
contributed has contributed to how they behave in relationships?
Speaker 2 (07:40):
What was the question? Do you think.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Do you think men's failure to form non romantic relationships
do you think that that contributes to how they show
up in romantic relation.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
That's a good question.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
I would say yes, But you mean with women? Non
romantic relationships with women? Well, because they seem all the
guys that I know seem to have like a lot
of male friends, Like they always want to hang with
their boys. It's always somebody they can go kick it
with whatever. But do you mean not having that connection
with a woman. I think that friendships in general, I
(08:18):
just think non romantic is what it's is, what it's means, just.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Because it must be romantic when it comes to a man, right, No, I.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Think I personally, I feel like we like we just
had this conversation with Kiki, So I think that it's
important to point out that women seek community absolutely and
even if it's not just oh, I had a baby,
I need help. I'm going to create a village, you know,
Like it's not just that all the time. Sometimes it's like,
oh my gosh, I just want to get out the
(08:48):
house to grab a drink with yeah. Yeah, And so
we we intentionally schedule those things and we foster those things.
I don't know if men are doing the same thing,
And I think that's why they're lonely, because now women
are seeing if my friend could treat me better than you,
Like what girl, you take me out and we have
fun and I can talk to her and she.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Listens, and she don't make me feel small, and like at.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
This point, I wish that they would figure out how
to have those communities though, because it's well needed, and
because they don't address a lot of things.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
You see it show up in your relationships.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
If they are in romantic relationships, you will see all
of the tell tale signs, Like we were just talking
about somebody who we can tell has some past trauma
who really haven't dealt with it, and so it shows
up because it looks like attention seeking behavior, it looks
like entitlement, it looks like you are supposed to be
showing up for me in ways that I can't even
show up for myself. So I do believe that they're but.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I just don't understand.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Well, we do know, because they make fun of you
about everything men do.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
They can't do nothing. We was just saying that.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
But at the same time, if it is someone in
the group who actually and I wish y'all he was
it is he sweat.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
He swear up and down.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Okay, he swear up and down that he is having
counseling with each and every brok.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
You've got them on the right stuff, okay, schedule. So
I just wish.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Y'all he would come on here and teach y'all some
things about checking in with your male friends, making sure
that they're okay, asking those hard critical questions even if
they say yeah, I'm good, being sensible to know, like, no,
you not like what's really going on, because a lot
even when dudes tell you things, girl, you be ready
for the tea that man said you wasn't okay?
Speaker 2 (10:23):
He like me and my wife just broke up, and
they're like, okay, I'm like what happened? But he asks
what happened? Great? No deeds, Yeah, I'm like, no deeds.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
They don't care. I don't think they care, and I
don't think that they're taught to when it comes to
emotional like vulnerability. I don't think men are taught to
dig deeper for anybody themselves, their friends.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
They're like nothing, like, oh that's his business. Yeah, like
if somebody tone I could, if you ever told, I
can't help but ask more questions. But part of it
is there, like the name we knows. I'm so notisy,
Like you can't.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Tell me having a story. I'm gonna stop you after everything. Yes, okay,
so Dean, all right, and I'm gonna try to guess
some of it before you tell me, Like so them
this happens.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
That's part of being engaged in conversation.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
Yeah for us, Yeah, our conversation looks like that man's conversation.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
It'd be like, and what you do today? That's some groceries.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
And then you know, came into her just chilling get
ready for work tomorrow. I got fired whole time, never mentioned,
never mentioned you got fired, be saying I'm getting ready.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
For work tomorrow and got fighting.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Seeah, that is so crazy to me. I just think
you guys could do better with that. And you know what,
let's pose a question. Prove us wrong, prove us wrong
in the comments. If you are that guy who checks
in with your friends regularly, you ask them even if
they tell you they okay, if they tell you they
got divorced, they tell you they lost their job, you
dig deeper and you really ask those critical questions and
(11:52):
you show up for them in a way that looks
like real support. It's not just all man, you'll be
all right. Oh you know, another job wonna come. I'm
not talking about that.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
I'm talking about you really you in it and okay,
a matter of.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Fact screenshot message, send us.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
The receipts, let us see you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
And if you are not that person, then tell us why,
because I also want to know why your friend telling
you they going through something, or you can tell they
going through something, what.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Is stopping you from asking more questions?
Speaker 1 (12:21):
I think that's a really good question to ask them,
and I sincerely want to see the answer me to them,
because I want to know what a conversation with a man.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Looks like that it doesn't need details.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Yeah, exactly myself getting information and not asking follow up question.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
I want to know every single thing. You can ask
me the time of day, what year it was, where
you were located in the house, Chris fall morning on Thursday.
I think I had just walked up to take that
morning move. Check my text message it was a little stringy. Yeah, okay,
(13:00):
I can tell my bowels wasn't right, you know what
I mean, Like, I want to know the thing. Yeah,
I need to know. I need to know because I care.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Absolutely. It's not we are nosy, but we also really
want to care. And a lot of times when women
gather information like this, it's because we really trying to
give you out like authentic advices, Like we can't give
you our right because this is why men.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Make such bad decisions in general. But they don't have
all the information that is true.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Y'all staring at the first line, read the true.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Oh my god, you're right though, that's it, and read
and then ask follow up questions.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Here's the thing, when you think you've done enough, to
do a little more, Just when you thought you've done
all you can, I.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Want you to do, you know, And that's your whole life.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
If you're reading something and you thought you read enough,
READO a little more. Yeah, if you wipe that booty
and you think you wiped enough if you washed hell
out because she knew I was coming.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Brush your teeth and you threak brushing. You know what
I'm saying. Just take it a step further every time over,
every time.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Over, and then when you've done a little more, do
a little bit more.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
You're never done. O lord.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
I would like to know how you consume media these days,
because I feel like when we were kids, like we
had to wait a long time to see our face. Yes,
now you can just get on the internet and they
right there. You could see them in four k with
no weed and nobody just talking. If we never knew
(14:57):
the names of the songs until we bought the album
that part.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
No. I missed that girl, I missed that little fold
out Oh my god, land that used to be my faith,
like being able to.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
Like sing the song and everything, even like on your
answer machine you have except y'all.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Unfortunately I'm away from my phone. Say you know what
to do?
Speaker 1 (15:20):
Was cool? Yes?
Speaker 2 (15:21):
What to do? Girl? Hello? Yeah, hello hello.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
I missed those days. We had a good time. I
feel like now it was oversaturated. We see everybody everywhere, Yeah,
and it's no thrill in it anymore. Like it just
seems very normal to see celebrities or you know what
I mean, Like it feels tangible, like, which is so
crazy because.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
You know, Rashida is going on tour and friend, I
got a ticket to pray to God. I pray you
wouldn't waste your money like prayer to God. There's so
many other things you could get you didn't need to buy. No,
pass was nothing.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
If she want to sing up there and say I
ain't leaving kirt, that's what I'm throwing my phone right
over she did.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
I want her to not saying that line.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
But I think that's the problem. I think the problem
is we've seen so much of their marriage. Girl, don't
caribout your music anymore. No, it's I'm embarrassed to be
because it makes me feel like I support that, and
I can't support.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
I can't support that. That man embarrassed you gravel time
and then look at them. I'll be feeling bad because
she's so pretty. She's beautiful. Okay, hey, welcome mad oh hey,
by what what is it? I love that you?
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I love it. That's the material. That's good material, blanket things.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Right, what do I just want to come speak.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
Don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
To see what he's doing.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Look here everyone everybody really is family, and I do
I love love it, random segu I love that when
we come in people just be wanting to come in.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Yes, they do. They want to chime, man, they want
to be in the room. They want to talk. It's
like such a good vibe here it is now.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Yeah, God, I feeling bad because I think she's so
beautiful and could do just a lot, Like we will
never know what Rashida was capable of because her life
has been turned into a three ring circus.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
But a man with three ear rings welcome to the
soul circus.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
Because now and being overexposed to celebrities like that girl,
it's a lot easier to run into stupid people and
just hear stupid things. Yeah, which which kind of leads
me to my next question, Like, girl, what what's probably
the dumbest thing you ever heard a man saying? And
you don't have to be a man, but just what's
(18:04):
the dumbest thing you ever heard somebody say? When I
when I got online and I logged in to see
all those men saying that they could take that gorilla.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
When I those.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
One hundred shot up to and debate it for weeks.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
And drew up diagream.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
Even hey, y'all get involved to see how video else.
That's when I knew we are at a disservice here.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
We had a complete deer war. We're losing it because
girl them silver.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Back one the baby.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
I don't want no smoke to think that y'all really
could beat one. That's when I knew.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
Girl, It's ridiculous the amount of things people just just
say yes.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
The Internet makes people really brave.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
And speaking of gorillas, I watched Trick Daddy yesterday.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
How I'm supposed to say?
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Sure, I miss I miss my c That was because
I watched him on podcast episode with Nini Leaks and Nini,
oh you deserves jail time as well, because track Daddy
was telling Nini that he's not even attracted to women
over thirty five. And Nini did the little hair too
because she said, we ch, I know, I know you're
(19:24):
attracted to me. What, Nini, that's not even your nose.
It's not even your nose. Who would he be attracted Si?
And they're sitting here sniggling and giggling, trying to get
no because you know what it has to stop. Yeah,
I think people get on the internet and they engage
with these people for click bait, and they're sitting up
here again trying to get attention. And that's what it is,
(19:45):
because there's no way, there's no I'm.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
So glad I aged out of it because I never
wanted to be in it. You're trying to make.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Myself attractive to someone. I don't even think it's attractive.
It's crazy.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
That's attention. He looks like a corp.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
I never I ain't never seen somebody be so alive
and so dead not not you know how when you forget,
you know how when you set the timer for the
cookies but you don't hear.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
It, and you go back and you go back and
them and they be laid out. They all the let.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
They be bound there saying that women over thirty five
are damaged.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
Good. I said, sir, you look like the damage.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Yes, you on the damage when they said fragile and
they just tossed you in the back of that USPS truck.
You know when people sue for damages, that's what they
talked about.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
The about just showed up with him right there on
the side of the car. That's right, he was like,
he just looks.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
So crazy for somebody, for somebody who was suffering from
an autoimmune disease. You had all the time in the
world to go and build a platform to help people
also struggling with the same disease.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
But you on the internet telling black women and cooking all.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
The wrong stuff, and cooking all the wrong stuff is
the healthy stuff that you I know, you got a
strict dig.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Lat makeup from silent.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
You just some people could just be quiet and that
is or not you know, trick. We don't need to
do anything else. Just stop what you have been doing. Yeah,
like stop it, I'm over it. Platforms and people like this,
like I get it that it's click back and it's
entertaining and stuff. But we are we're facilitating just sexism, texturism, colorism,
(21:48):
all the Ism're perpetuating it by holding it up to
a spotlight and saying, hey, guys, look what else dumb
this mean had to say? Yeah, so one hundred men
definitely couldn't be tricked ad because you got the audacity
of you got they of He's not going out there
(22:08):
all right, it's gonna be cut.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
That books might will not work today.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
I promise you, just girl, like you thought I was there.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
I heard you just was looking for me. There, I go,
Lord that.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Everything it cannot look like that. It's unfair, it's unfitting.
You cannot be mean and also hard, hard on the eyes.
I won't accept it.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I won't. And I know we know, I know we
gotta go. I know we gotta wrap up. But he said,
I need I need to get that out.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
I needed to get it out saying it up moms,
girl boy, I wanted to say something, you know, I know,
you know they get so mad.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
They get so mad.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
Anytime we talk about trick Daddy and we're not saying
he's a bad person, but the thing is he says
stuff and then expect people don don't don't say nothing,
Like why do we get to say so much and
we can't comment, y'all be in a comment. I think
that's what the issue is with dating, Like people who
have certain standards that they don't even meet.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
Thank you, thank you? What type of woman you're saying?
Speaker 1 (23:26):
Because I say he's well over, you're well over thirty five,
well well over.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Thirty okay twice times over okay? So like the nervous
you know the nerve.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
What bir They ain't got the nerve to be pregnant,
well over thirty five and pregnant, and.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
That's a high risk pregnant. God, he need feet up.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
In that circulation to get losing circulation brain from somebody.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Who I know.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Arties got a precious So I just know for a
fact the doctor saw him.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
His everything was high. You on the internet.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Telling us anything. I have not a single number on
that form. There wasn't happen, you know what. I rest
my case.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
I'm not I'm off of it. I just need to
get that out now.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Today y'all know, we got to get into something probably
my favorite.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
Segment of this absolutely.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
It's where we basically give you guys professional advice. Now
when I say professional, I mean completely unlicensed, uncertified, un
just just on.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Just so we basically we listen to your your thoughts,
your opinions, your feelings, and we give you our advice,
you know, based on what we would do.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
So here's the scenario. My friend got dunk yesterday.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Last night, we had a FaceTime call where everyone shared
how much we hated him, and now they're back together.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
What should we do what do you.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
I feel like that's a longer part of friendship and
being mind your business. Continue on with a regular schedule program.
At this point, the next time we have another face
time call, you need to be on it. Yeah, exactly,
he's coming. If we've just done that, if we've already
gone the face off PAP and we all hate that, right,
we're gonna hate him again.
Speaker 2 (25:31):
That's why.
Speaker 1 (25:32):
But that's your friend, you know, like it just happened.
Like I tell, I will tell all my friends, I
don't care. You can take them back as any times
you want to. I try to line and abuse that part.
I can't support that.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
That. Hey, if y'all toxic and y'all gonna do that,
then I spend that. I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
There, done that, and I'm gonna support you right on them. Yeah,
that's how I'm mind my business and keep it pushing.
You know what I'm saying. You love them?
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Cool? I like you know what I'm saying. It's fine
with me. That's fine. Yeahn'na be on the face for sure.
Every time you call me, I'm gonna tell you how much.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
And I'm oh, my god, a living I'm such an
ad libbing. I don't care what you say, bro, I
don't like him. I don't like him either.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
When you praying he shouldn't have did that, it shouldn't
have and didn't and when it couldn't be me, shouldn't
have been who exactly say, Yeah, I'm gonna make it worse.
Speaker 1 (26:21):
I'm gonna make it worse because I want you to
leave it. Yeah, I want you to. And I think
it matters how long and what you've been doing and
how cool y'all are. My very best friend. I'm gonna
tell him, Hey, you need to leave them. I know
you're not going to, but you need to.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Yeah. We're just gonna say and we can talk about
it two a few times a week.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
They don't don't what you want to do because I
know my time is coming, yeah, like eventually.
Speaker 2 (26:46):
And the thing about it, y'all is, I don't want
y'all to look at this as like everybody hates him
d D.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
But you need friends around you that's gonna support you
in moments like this. So when you do come to
the point where you want to leave, you know you
have a good support system, right, Like you need to
hear the truth. You don't want people to like coach
you and just be like no, don't say that, like
that's not right. Like you need to have people in
your corner that's gonna keep it.
Speaker 2 (27:08):
The honey with you.
Speaker 1 (27:09):
So when the time comes, girl, you know we're gonna
be there with you. Hollow a truck and a glass
of wine. Baby, We're gonna pack this up and get
you up out of there when you're ready. Absolutely, that's
friendship to me. Yeah, friendship to me is being there
through all faiths and whatever it looks like, no matter
how crazy it is. I know a lot of people
get tied and like, don't keep talking to me, like,
don't keep bothering me with it. But the thing is
is y'all a like y'all can't go through stuff, Okay,
(27:31):
like everybody, well, couldn't be me.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Maybe not this situation. I definitely can call me. If
you're my friend and you're going through something, just call me.
Please just call keep talking about it.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
We figured it out, yes, Hey, if we didn't figure
it out on this call, maybe next drug.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
In the bar?
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Okay, I don't right right right? I just yeah, don't
try act like y'all holier than dow because yeah, we
see right through that, and you would want to support
system if you was going to do something to so period.
Absolutely that what my friends said. Well, guys, you know,
(28:10):
I don't really know how this is gonna go over.
It could be you might see us next Thursday then
to see you know what I mean. You just gotta
tune in to see if we're gonna be there all right.
You can catch us on YouTube if you want to
see the visuals or for all audio, you can listen
to us wherever you listen to your podcast.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
Just make sure you like, comment and subscribe and hit
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