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April 3, 2025 56 mins

Ever feel like you’re doing all the right things in dating but still not getting the results you want? You meet people, go on dates, maybe even start a relationship—but something is always off. 

In this episode, I sit down with relationship coach Angus Scott, who went through two divorces before he finally figured out what was keeping him stuck. Spoiler: it wasn’t just bad luck. He shares how he uncovered the deep, hidden beliefs that were messing up his love life and how he transformed into someone who could attract—and keep—a healthy, thriving relationship. Now, he and his partner Mayan help others do the same. We talk about why people-pleasing is NOT a love language, how unconscious beliefs run the show (whether we realize it or not), and why showing up as your real self is the most attractive thing you can do.

If you’re ready to stop repeating old patterns and start attracting the relationship you actually want, this is the episode for you.

TOPICS DISCUSSED:

  • Why many people struggle with relationships despite doing “everything right”
  • How past experiences shape the kind of partners we attract
  • The dangers of people-pleasing and why setting boundaries matter
  • The role of unconscious beliefs in dating and how to change them
  • The difference between being childlike vs. childish in relationships
  • How to stop treating dating like an online shopping experience
  • The power of presence and energy in attracting the right partner
  • Why the best relationships start with deep friendship

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BEST MOMENTS


"I know I could make a good impression. But I would rather be rejected right away than pretend to be someone I’m not."


"You never know who you're going to meet when you're just being yourself."


"If you’re trying to hide the weirdest, truest version of you, then the right person won’t find you."


"Dating today feels like online shopping—people want reviews before they invest."


"Want a better partner? Be a better partner. Upgrade your energy, your mindset, your life."


"The best relationships start with a solid foundation. You don’t build a house on sand."


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