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April 30, 2025 56 mins
In this week’s episode, I sit down with the legendary Cree Summer to talk about her journey through love, loss, and rediscovery in her 50s. Cree opens up about losing her sex drive during her marriage due to a lack of emotional shelter and the importance of finding a partner who provides safety and calm during life’s storms. We also dive into how her sex drive has improved post-menopause and what she’s looking forward to as she explores love again in her senior years. Whether you’re navigating relationships, rethinking intimacy, or seeking inspiration for your own journey, this conversation is a must-listen.


Episode Highlights:
  • Cree’s reflections on her marriage and why emotional shelter is non-negotiable in a relationship
  • How menopause transformed her sex drive and perspective on intimacy
  • The importance of finding a partner who provides safety and positivity
  • Cree’s hopes and expectations for love in her golden years
  • Lessons on emotional security, provision, and rediscovering self-worth
  • The importance of women making the first move and asking men out


Thank You Cree Summer
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