Wyatt's Breakthrough and Killing the Monster

Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy. Today’s episode of Spectrum in Camouflage is deeply personal—and honestly, it's one of the most encouraging updates I’ve shared in a while. I open up about the real progress we’re seeing with our son Wyatt after a year of chiropractic therapy through Maximum Potential. I also talk about those subtle signs—what I call “soft signs”—that are often overlooked but mean the world when you’re raising a nonverbal autistic child. From Wyatt calmly watching me work on heavy equipment, to no longer needing locks on doors, to riding a tricycle—these moments are stacking up, and hope is growing.

I also dive into something that’s helped me mentally as a dad, a business owner, and just a guy trying to keep it together: “killing the monsters.” If anxiety, procrastination, or mental clutter is stealing your peace, I share how I’ve been taking simple steps to reclaim space in my life so I can focus on what really matters.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, alone, or unsure if the small wins even count, this episode is for you. You’re not alone. And yes—those small wins matter more than we realize.

Key Takeaways

• Wyatt is showing incredible progress after a year at Maximum Potential, from no longer eloping to starting to sign basic words like “more,” “mom,” and “please.”
• A story about his sister Jessie’s honesty shows how our typical kids are growing too—and how sweet those moments can be.
• We’ve seen real shifts in Wyatt’s nervous system regulation through chiropractic work and a parasite cleanse.
• "Killing the monster" is my way of defeating procrastination and anxiety by clearing mental clutter and knocking out to-dos that drain my energy.
• You don’t have to give up the things that make you feel whole. Instead, take care of what you can control.
• Simple joys like bubble guns, campfires, and backyard play can create the peaceful summer you and your family deserve.

Resources

• Maximum Potential Chiropractic – Where we’ve been taking Wyatt for his therapy journey.
• Real AF Podcast by Andy Frisella – Inspiration for the “Kill the Monster” concept.
• Experience Miracles Podcast – The spark that helped my wife Kaylee find new hope.

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