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November 30, 2025 67 mins

Adam Lane Smith

  • The two sides of having too many kids. (2:00)

  • Building legacy. (4:05)

  • The Business Model of Marriage. (5:27)

  • The Equation of a Balance of Hormones and Neurotransmitters. (8:09)

  • Why most women are not afraid to give you the final say, they are afraid they will have NO say. (16:40)

  • The 4 Levels of Safety. (17:47)

  • Asking for help. (23:35)

  • The confusion around men needing to be more emotional. (26:17)

  • Teaching attachment science. (29:24)

  • The 4 Components of Peace. (31:45)

  • Taking the side of the marriage, instead of taking their own side. (35:35)

  • The 4 Levels of Communication. (37:12)

  • Exercises or strategies for better communication with your partner. (39:19)

  • Matching your needs. (43:33)

  • Persuasion. (46:50)

  • Constructive ways to handle conflict. (47:42)

  • Modern challenges with marriages today. (54:08)

  • The importance of having a same sex group of friends. (57:47)

  • It's VITAL to have high-quality/good moral friends who are rooting for your relationships. (1:00:19)

  • Can you have opposite sex friends? (1:02:39)

  • Building systems and teaching people to become independent & thrive in their relationships. (1:04:45)

  • Subscription level friends. (1:05:55)

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