All Episodes

October 12, 2025 32 mins

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of A Wise and Happy Life Podcast, host Bob Martin welcomes back Asher Lester, breathwork and meditation teacher, for a deep dive into the soundtrack of the mind and how our inner voice shapes our outer reality. Asher shares how 90 days of loving-kindness meditation completely rewired his negative self-talk—from 90% critical to 90% compassionate—and what that transformation taught him about success, inner peace, and real human connection.

 

They explore why so many high achievers resist heart-centered practices, how to integrate mindfulness into the speed of life, and why cultivating present-moment awareness may be the most important skill of all.

 

🔑 Highlights – What You’ll Learn:

 

🧠 Why negative self-talk is not motivation—it’s verbal self-assault (and how to shift it)

 

💗 How loving-kindness practice can make you more effective—not “soft”

 

🧘 How to weave rest and mindfulness into daily moments like walking through doors or washing dishes

 

💬 Podcast Quote:

 

“The way I interface with myself had a direct impact on the way I interface with the people I love.” – Asher Lester

If you’ve ever felt stuck in negative self-talk or doubted that “soft” practices like breathwork could lead to real results—this episode is your turning point. Tune in now to A Wise and Happy Life, and start shifting your inner soundtrack today.

 

Connect with Asher Lester:

 

Connect with Bob Martin

 

This episode is brought to you by A Wise and Happy Life, a show where Bob Martin shares thoughtful, heartfelt conversations about what really makes life worth living.

Developed by TMX Creative – making podcasting easy and professional. Learn more about our video editing services and how we can help you grow! 

 

#AWiseAndHappyLife #BobMartin #Happiness #Meditation #AnxietyRelieve #StressManagement #TMXCreative #AsherLester #KravMaga #MentalToughness #MindfulnessInAction #BehaviorAnalysis #AutismSupport #BataanDeathMarch #FearAndCourage #SelfDiscipline #Breathwork #LiveWithPurpose #GritAndGrace #PodcastForGrowth #TitanMediaWorx

Mark as Played

Advertise With Us

Popular Podcasts

Stuff You Should Know
My Favorite Murder with Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark

My Favorite Murder with Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark

My Favorite Murder is a true crime comedy podcast hosted by Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark. Each week, Karen and Georgia share compelling true crimes and hometown stories from friends and listeners. Since MFM launched in January of 2016, Karen and Georgia have shared their lifelong interest in true crime and have covered stories of infamous serial killers like the Night Stalker, mysterious cold cases, captivating cults, incredible survivor stories and important events from history like the Tulsa race massacre of 1921. My Favorite Murder is part of the Exactly Right podcast network that provides a platform for bold, creative voices to bring to life provocative, entertaining and relatable stories for audiences everywhere. The Exactly Right roster of podcasts covers a variety of topics including historic true crime, comedic interviews and news, science, pop culture and more. Podcasts on the network include Buried Bones with Kate Winkler Dawson and Paul Holes, That's Messed Up: An SVU Podcast, This Podcast Will Kill You, Bananas and more.

Dateline NBC

Dateline NBC

Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com

Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2025 iHeartMedia, Inc.