Meet Sunny and Skye

The very first episode of Aftercare with Sunny and Skye. In this episode, we talk about who we are, how we met, how we started doing OnlyFans, our own personal sexual journeys before meeting each other, why we have decided to do a podcast, what we've been up to recently, what we're planning with this and just hang out.

Episode Transcript

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Welcome kinky friends.
I'm Skye and I'm Sunny and this is the aftercare podcast where we normalize the conversations around kink and sex and all things in between And today's a super exciting episode because it's episode 1 episode 1 so super exciting a little nervous But excited for this journey and yet another platform that we are growing on and learning together as a couple.

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.001On today's episode, we are going to talk about who we are, how we got here, our own personal sexual journey before meeting each other, why a podcast all of a sudden, and obviously just talk about what we've been up to, what we're planning with this and, and just hang out. 4 00:00:38,255.001 --> 00:00:38,535.001 Yeah. 5 00:00:40,305.001 --> 00:00:42,965.001 If you'd like, I will let you explain who we are. 6 00:00:42,975.001 --> 00:00:44,525.001 Who is Sunny and Sky? Sunny. 7 00:00:45,695.001 --> 00:00:51,725.001 So Sunny and Sky, we are an ethically non monogamous couple. 8 00:00:51,725.001 --> 00:00:52,285 We're married. 9 00:00:52,790.001 --> 00:01:02,540 And really we are professional amateur full time content creators in the adult space specifically. 10 00:01:02,880.001 --> 00:01:09,800 We do a lot of like silly comedy stuff on safe work platforms, but yeah, we, we share our sex to the world. 11 00:01:09,855.101 --> 00:01:11,205.001 And that is our job. 12 00:01:11,455.001 --> 00:01:12,705.001 It is our job. 13 00:01:12,715.001 --> 00:01:14,205.001 It started as a hobby. 14 00:01:14,225.001 --> 00:01:17,605 And it slowly grew into a passion project for both of us. 15 00:01:18,185.001 --> 00:01:25,485.001 And we started to see, I think, the normalization that this world needs around kink and removing shame and just being kinky friends. 16 00:01:25,495.001 --> 00:01:28,195 When people ask who we are we're not porn stars.

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We are content creators professionally.
That's what we have to call ourselves because we make content, but we're your kinky friends.
We're your cheerleaders.
We're here to validate you.
We're here to make you feel good.
.999We're here to support you.
We're here to hear about your day if you have nobody like we are.
We're truly in your corner as people, as sex advocates, as sex positive people, and we are learning right alongside you.

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Yeah.
Yeah.
.999And I, and I think it, this rolls right into our next topic of our sexual history and really it's part of how we got here too, but it's, you know, we were not kinky people in our previous relationships or previous lives.
.001We both came from somewhat like sexually repressed histories. 29 00:02:10,45.001 --> 00:02:12,485.001 Like I was always curious. 30 00:02:12,485.001 --> 00:02:16,385.001 I always like felt like I was a little hyper sexualized. 31 00:02:16,425.001 --> 00:02:49,500 I mean, Wasn't sure I thought I was a sex addict for a little bit just because of how interested and curious I was around sex you know from like the first time I found one of my dad's playboys when I when I was a kid you know, I was just always interested in sex and sexual topics and I had partners that were somewhat willing but you know Never was really able to dive into the kink world and never really felt super comfortable You Like exploring some of the things like pegging, which has become a staple of our relationship.

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.999So yeah, my sexual history kind of I wouldn't say it was like super repressed. 33 00:02:54,669.999 --> 00:02:59,590.001 Like, you know, I, I didn't grow up incredibly repressed in my relationships. 34 00:02:59,590.001 --> 00:03:04,750.001 I do think I had some opportunity to explore certain things, but it really, I would say blossomed. 35 00:03:05,250.001 --> 00:03:18,140.0005 Once, once we got together and through sharing, it really has helped us realize that like all of these things that we have done together and how like inspirational and how normalizing it can be for other people. 36 00:03:18,140.0005 --> 00:03:20,400 They're like, I want to do that. 37 00:03:20,400.001 --> 00:03:21,830 And you guys are like, Miele, you're doing it. 38 00:03:21,830.001 --> 00:03:22,310.0015 That's cool. 39 00:03:22,310.0015 --> 00:03:23,520.001 Like maybe I can do it too. 40 00:03:23,520.001 --> 00:03:30,40.001 And so that's been a really cool part of just like going through our, my own personal sexual journey. 41 00:03:30,500.001 --> 00:03:31,670.001 I don't know if you want to talk about yours. 42 00:03:32,110.001 --> 00:03:32,640.001 I do. 43 00:03:32,660.001 --> 00:03:34,910.001 Mine has a lot of trauma in it. 44 00:03:36,195.001 --> 00:03:50,675.001 But I also remember, I also remember reading my grandpa's playboy and coming across it and actually reading it like it was, it's full of great stories if you've ever read a playboy and it's also just a very beautiful interpretation of women. 45 00:03:50,675.001 --> 00:03:52,995 I grew up in a very small town in Wyoming. 46 00:03:53,635.001 --> 00:03:55,565.001 No sex education whatsoever. 47 00:03:55,765.001 --> 00:03:56,815.001 I got my period very young. 48 00:03:56,865.001 --> 00:04:15,615.001 I didn't know what was happening to my body and I Was a very hypersexual person as well without a support system or a group or any education behind it and I remember when I told my mom that I'd lost my virginity at 14 and she started crying and Screaming at me like I had just died did the worst thing in the entire world. 49 00:04:15,835.001 --> 00:04:20,225.001 And that taught me from a really young age that I didn't have a safe space to, to talk to people. 50 00:04:20,225.001 --> 00:04:22,585.001 And I, I know that she didn't mean anything bad by it. 51 00:04:23,175.001 --> 00:04:25,365.001 I also know her history with sex as well.

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.001And, And from there, I just felt a lot of shame, a lot of shame around my body, a lot of shame around my desires, a lot of shame around my curiosity with women. 53 00:04:33,920.001 --> 00:04:41,140.001 I always knew that I thought girls were cute, but I was always told that was a phase and something that we don't do in Wyoming.
But I was, I was very much slut shamed in high school.
I was the girl that would send pictures of my boobs and then the next day the entire high school would have that.

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.999And so I learned to also not be able to trust people and, and that consent was incredibly important.
And so.
There's a lot of power in what I do now with The fact that I now put pictures of myself out on the internet and there's a lot of power behind Being able to own that from a lot of past experiences.
I was not a kinky person I always knew that I liked kinky porn, but I also didn't even know what kink was My understanding of it was from like 50 Shades of Grey and it was just this dark really hard, dom y stuff and that was attractive to me, but I didn't even know how to approach it.

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It seemed incredibly unapproachable and very closed off if you weren't already in the kink community, but there was no secret to get into the kink community kind of thing.
And I, I then almost married somebody who Would shame me for masturbating.
I remember coming home one day and all of my sex toys were on the bed and they were broken because I was cheating on him by watching porn and pleasuring myself So once again taught shame around my body shame around my curiosities.

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.001I would hide in the dark closet to masturbate Which is is heartbreaking and crazy to think about and when I got out of this relationship that was abusive on so many different levels not just sexually You I then advocated for myself and started leaning into those curiosities and those porn and, and dating kinkier guys dating men that were, were polyamorous or pansexual, and just dipping my little toes into that a little bit, and then I met you. 64 00:06:22,555.001 --> 00:06:33,565.001 And we created a foundation around curiosity within the first week of, of Sunny and I became best friends before we ever dated, which I really do think is something that a lot of people are missing. 65 00:06:33,565.001 --> 00:06:36,165.001 It was something I never had in a relationship was a friendship.

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.001And with that friendship, we started talking about what porn we liked very early on. 67 00:06:41,965.001 --> 00:06:46,415.001 I remember the first porn you ever sent me, like you were terrified to send this porn to me. 68 00:06:46,885.001 --> 00:06:47,245.001 Yeah. 69 00:06:47,245.001 --> 00:06:47,515.001 Yeah. 70 00:06:47,545.001 --> 00:06:56,605.001 That was like after this Second time we had sex, I think, but it was like forced orgasm, like tied to the bed. 71 00:06:56,925.001 --> 00:06:58,315.001 The guy stayed closed the whole time. 72 00:06:58,705.001 --> 00:07:00,915.001 Like total total just pleasure Dom. 73 00:07:00,925.001 --> 00:07:17,25.002 I am a pleasure Dom to like that is something that like I've always loved giving pleasure and I was like This is this isn't even I mean, it's for me But like do you like do you like this because it's gonna be for you and for me And then within like two weeks, we did it. 74 00:07:17,135.001 --> 00:07:35,345.001 Yeah recreated this and and I think that was a really incredible thing was showing each other the porn that we would like and And Being really open to the interest that each other had in it without shame just full curiosity and asking the question Okay, what about this turns you on? What do you like? Let's learn it and try it. 75 00:07:35,345.001 --> 00:07:39,655 I've never done anything like this before but We can give it a go. 76 00:07:39,735.001 --> 00:07:50,50.001 Yeah, and it turns out we loved it yeah, so and and my favorite porn was obviously like group stuff and rough stuff and and bisexual stuff, which That'll be a whole different episode. 77 00:07:57,500.001 --> 00:08:05,380.001 Was able to create a safe space with me where we really do learn and we practice new things together and we're excited to try new things together. 78 00:08:05,650.001 --> 00:08:07,170 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 79 00:08:07,170.001 --> 00:08:18,200.001 So I know you, you, you kind of touched on it a little bit, but do you want to jump into like how we got here, roll back the clock all the way to when we met until, and then run our way through back up to. 80 00:08:18,735.001 --> 00:08:19,65.001 today. 81 00:08:19,115.001 --> 00:08:21,265.001 Do we want to give that the full story? Yeah. 82 00:08:21,335.001 --> 00:08:21,435.001 Yeah. 83 00:08:21,605.001 --> 00:08:23,65.001 Let's do it. 84 00:08:23,65.001 --> 00:08:26,465 I met you on July 8th of 2021. 85 00:08:26,835.001 --> 00:08:31,825.001 At dinner, I, I was, I was dating Sunny's best friend at the time.

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Yep.
.001I had, I had just come from my final therapy session with my ex that I was with for seven years.
.001And then we, off and on for a year and then did like six months of therapy and I met Sky the day of the last session, like literally an hour after we finally closed that book. 89 00:08:56,40.001 --> 00:08:59,250.001 And I didn't know, I didn't know who, I had heard who Sunny was. 90 00:08:59,530.001 --> 00:09:00,830 I didn't know who he was. 91 00:09:00,860.001 --> 00:09:05,150.001 He, when I met him, he was kind of sad boy, obviously going through a lot of stuff. 92 00:09:05,450.001 --> 00:09:07,340.001 I was just his friend's girlfriend. 93 00:09:07,890.001 --> 00:09:09,370.001 There was not much conversation to be had. 94 00:09:09,380.001 --> 00:09:11,510.001 We had just met each other at this point. 95 00:09:12,0.001 --> 00:09:20,360.001 And then we had started, he started hanging out with obviously his best friend more, I was around more, and Sunny and I had a lot of similar interests. 96 00:09:20,460.001 --> 00:09:20,740.001 Yeah. 97 00:09:20,750.001 --> 00:09:24,960 We had a lot of similar conversations, the way we thought about the world was the same.

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It was really easy to hang out with you.
Yeah.
.001I remember talking on the phone with you for hours and there was, there was nothing romantic, like it was, Truly a platonic friendship. 101 00:09:35,25.001 --> 00:09:36,515.001 We would go climbing together. 102 00:09:36,845.001 --> 00:09:37,565.001 That was a big thing. 103 00:09:37,575.001 --> 00:09:40,325.001 It was a huge thing I i'm pretty scared of falling. 104 00:09:40,335.001 --> 00:10:07,220.001 And we were sport climbing and he's the first person I ever actually took a whip with But he didn't know that either like I would I didn't want to indulge that he's just yapping the whole time in this video Just talking and i'm just shaking and terrified and I finally fall and he's still just talking like he doesn't know how big of a deal this was for me until You I don't know, probably a month later when I finally told him that that was a really, really big moment of of our friendship of me being able to trust him with What I thought was my life. 105 00:10:07,360.001 --> 00:10:07,890.001 Mm hmm. 106 00:10:07,900.001 --> 00:10:34,215.001 Yeah, and that was the fall was probably the that specific moment I think was in like late august Something like that We would go climbing and after climbing we would like we had a like a routine or a ritual almost like we would go climbing And then we would go hang out in boulder creek and barefoot and just cool down And then we would go to the dark horse and and get some food Do you want to fix that? Lighting. 107 00:10:35,615.001 --> 00:10:36,505.001 Thank you, Aspen. 108 00:10:41,5.001 --> 00:10:41,675.001 Yeah, it's good. 109 00:10:42,875.001 --> 00:10:43,135.001 Oh, yeah. 110 00:10:43,135.001 --> 00:10:47,275.001 By the way, this thing on the ottoman here, this is, this is Maya. 111 00:10:47,305.001 --> 00:10:50,755.001 She's going to maybe become a fixture. 112 00:10:50,795.001 --> 00:10:56,625.001 She might run off and bark at something, but yeah, I guess acknowledging the animal that's on the ottoman right there. 113 00:10:56,635.001 --> 00:10:57,395 She's alive.

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Yeah. 115 00:10:57,725.001 --> 00:10:58,55.001 Yeah.
Yeah. 117 00:10:58,475.001 --> 00:11:02,285.001 She's, she's in cat mode apparently, but this is Maya, but yeah. 118 00:11:02,285.001 --> 00:11:05,995.001 So that, that, that day was probably in August, September. 119 00:11:06,475.001 --> 00:11:08,355.001 We also hung out as a group.
Yeah. 121 00:11:08,635.001 --> 00:11:08,725.001 Just. 122 00:11:09,305.001 --> 00:11:10,735.001 Totally platonic friends. 123 00:11:10,815.001 --> 00:11:12,95.001 Like I was dating. 124 00:11:12,95.001 --> 00:11:13,715.001 I was going on bumble dates. 125 00:11:14,165.001 --> 00:11:14,875.001 It was helping him. 126 00:11:14,965.001 --> 00:11:29,745.001 Yeah I had set him up with my roommate like I would ask him how his dates went I would wish him luck on his dates like we truly were best friends Yeah, like I genuinely had an interest in his happiness and his relationships and was just happy to hang out with him when I could Yeah, yeah. 127 00:11:29,745.001 --> 00:11:29,975.001 Yeah. 128 00:11:30,15.001 --> 00:11:33,895.001 No, you were you were off limits in my mind And you were the same. 129 00:11:33,935.001 --> 00:11:34,285.001 Yeah. 130 00:11:34,335.001 --> 00:11:36,735.001 Yeah And then that changed. 131 00:11:36,795.001 --> 00:11:41,995.001 Yeah, and then Yeah, and then we went to a concert at Red Rocks and everything changed. 132 00:11:43,490.001 --> 00:11:46,830.001 Yeah, I became safe, safe space daddy. 133 00:11:49,80.001 --> 00:11:50,180.001 So I'll be fully transparent. 134 00:11:50,180.001 --> 00:11:51,640.001 We were at a Deadmau5 show. 135 00:11:51,880.001 --> 00:11:55,710.001 And we had been hanging out in the parking lot and he looked absolutely ridiculous. 136 00:11:55,710.001 --> 00:11:58,130 I don't know if you can imagine Sunny with long hair. 137 00:11:58,200.001 --> 00:11:59,100 I can put up a picture. 138 00:11:59,100.001 --> 00:11:59,799.9 I can do a picture and picture.

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.001Only a mustache. 140 00:12:01,120.001 --> 00:12:01,350.001 Yeah. 141 00:12:01,410.001 --> 00:12:08,785.001 This dude's wearing like, sneakers with like, velvet leggings and a fur coat and this hat, like he's just dripping in sex. 142 00:12:08,785.001 --> 00:12:09,395.001 It was hot. 143 00:12:10,755.001 --> 00:12:23,325.001 He looked absolutely ridiculous, but I also just loved how he would just hang out and be himself and I don't know, he was easy to be with, which was really new for me in my life with all my history of, of abuse and trauma. 144 00:12:23,465.001 --> 00:12:24,655.001 I felt safe with this person. 145 00:12:24,945.001 --> 00:12:30,505.001 And the guy that I was dating, his best friend ended up giving me two points of Molly, which. 146 00:12:30,925.001 --> 00:12:32,505.001 way too much in my books. 147 00:12:32,505.001 --> 00:12:35,75.001 Like I am very, very sensitive to stimulants. 148 00:12:35,385.001 --> 00:12:39,25.001 And I started feeling it and we were very close to the soundcheck. 149 00:12:39,25.001 --> 00:12:41,25.001 Like we were right up front, we were packed in. 150 00:12:41,295.001 --> 00:12:42,405.001 I'm, I'm an introvert. 151 00:12:42,405.001 --> 00:12:43,845.001 I have space issues. 152 00:12:43,855.001 --> 00:12:48,45.001 Sometimes I don't love people like strangers right up pushing against me.

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And his friend was having the time of his life and I was some of the most scared I'd ever been.
Like I was, I was on the verge of a panic attack.
And so we just were not on the same page and looking back, like, I'm sorry.
That's all I can say, but we were not on the same page, and I was feeling really unsafe.
I was not having fun.

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.999I wanted to get out of there and I also felt really unseen by this person who, who just kept giving me drugs and not acknowledging what it was doing to me and not at a good time.
.099And I turned around and I looked at this This dude in this fur coat and this hat and this long hair. 160 00:13:22,865.099 --> 00:13:32,735.099 He just looked at him and he just like waved at me and then he motioned for me to come back and at that point I just I told his friend I was gonna go back and just hang out we were in a big group So I wasn't leaving him. 161 00:13:32,965.099 --> 00:13:39,230.1 But I went and sat next to you and I remember just holding Onto your leg for like dear life at Red Rocks. 162 00:13:39,230.1 --> 00:13:39,880.1 You're standing. 163 00:13:39,880.1 --> 00:13:43,530.1 I'm holding on to your leg And I immediately felt safe. 164 00:13:43,560.1 --> 00:13:49,870.1 Like I I was seen I was protected you were like whispering Meditations in my ears. 165 00:13:49,870.1 --> 00:13:59,845.1 Yeah Yeah, I was I was still on the the the self help self love Train pretty hard. 166 00:13:59,845.1 --> 00:14:05,345.1 So yeah, I had a lot of stuff I still do have a lot of stuff memorized, but this was like a big mantra. 167 00:14:05,345.1 --> 00:14:08,845.1 And yeah, I was just I Don't know. 168 00:14:08,855.1 --> 00:14:21,750.1 I just saw you when I was doing everything I could to make sure that you Yeah, you felt safe and you weren't just alone While everybody it was like oblivious It was, it was really nice. 169 00:14:21,750.1 --> 00:14:22,850.1 I did feel safe. 170 00:14:23,140.1 --> 00:14:25,70.1 And it was the nicest thing anyone had ever said to me. 171 00:14:25,90.1 --> 00:14:38,440.099 Like, coming out of my relationships and being in a relationship with somebody that didn't really see me for who I was and was trying to fix everything about me, like, I felt like it's okay if I was broken because you, you didn't need to fix the broken parts. 172 00:14:39,735.1 --> 00:14:39,995.1 No. 173 00:14:40,95.1 --> 00:14:42,485.1 So, yeah, it was, it was nice. 174 00:14:42,515.1 --> 00:14:45,365.1 And then that moment changed a lot for me. 175 00:14:45,365.1 --> 00:14:52,805.1 I didn't know what was going to happen, but I knew like immediately, like I had loved you more than I had ever loved anybody in my entire life. 176 00:14:52,805.1 --> 00:14:54,665.1 And it was a different kind of, it was immediate. 177 00:14:54,665.1 --> 00:14:56,565.1 Like it was, it was overwhelming. 178 00:14:58,95.1 --> 00:15:02,535.1 And also I think like the drugs obviously made me feel super extra fluffy and toughy. 179 00:15:02,535.1 --> 00:15:09,445.1 Yeah, but they, I feel like, I don't know, especially like, especially with something like Molly, like it can be. 180 00:15:11,230.1 --> 00:15:29,535.1 It can be misinterpreted, you know, like I don't think that that created love I just think it like opened like it kind of like broke those barriers down We both might have had around like we can't do this or we can't feel this way about each other and it just like I don't know just kind of like Open that door. 181 00:15:29,775.1 --> 00:15:30,35.1 Yeah. 182 00:15:30,125.1 --> 00:15:31,485.1 No, I don't think it created the love. 183 00:15:31,485.1 --> 00:15:33,55.1 If it did, I don't think we would be here. 184 00:15:33,185.1 --> 00:15:35,455.1 No, I think that would have worn off by now, yeah. 185 00:15:35,465.1 --> 00:15:35,645.1 Yeah. 186 00:15:37,545.1 --> 00:15:40,935.1 But I, I know that that was a very, very hard thing, like. 187 00:15:41,685.1 --> 00:16:02,285.1 You had been a part of this friend group for like eight years And you were at a crossroads and I wasn't gonna obviously make you do anything I was I was already stepping out of this relationship This person had already cheated on me like this was not a good relationship for me to be in and I was already leaving this and I remember you came over to my house like two days afterwards. 188 00:16:02,375.1 --> 00:16:02,645.1 Mm-Hmm. 189 00:16:03,75.1 --> 00:16:05,205.1 You went on a date the day before? I did, yeah. 190 00:16:05,205.1 --> 00:16:06,765.1 On a date the day before. 191 00:16:07,95.1 --> 00:16:09,255.1 Because you were still like, I don't know, I can't do this, man. 192 00:16:09,255.1 --> 00:16:10,155.1 Like this is a lot. 193 00:16:10,155.1 --> 00:16:11,475.1 Like, it was, it was a big thing. 194 00:16:11,805.1 --> 00:16:15,225.1 You came over to my house two days bef after I was taking a bubble bath. 195 00:16:15,230.1 --> 00:16:17,325.1 I ordered modern market and you showed up at the house. 196 00:16:17,505.1 --> 00:16:18,375.1 I gave you my food. 197 00:16:18,685.1 --> 00:16:18,985.1 Yeah. 198 00:16:19,15.1 --> 00:16:19,975.1 I ate some of your food. 199 00:16:20,165.1 --> 00:16:20,485.1 Yeah. 200 00:16:20,545.1 --> 00:16:21,445.1 No, I remember. 201 00:16:21,715.1 --> 00:16:25,855.1 I remember when you were texting me and I was driving over and you were like, I'm really. 202 00:16:26,190.1 --> 00:16:27,910.1 nervous or anxious. 203 00:16:27,970.1 --> 00:16:34,630.099 And I just remember like anxiety is something that I am very familiar with. 204 00:16:35,110.1 --> 00:16:44,390.099 And I, I always try to remind myself and I did, I shared this with you because it's something I had learned through my own personal work is that anxiety is a form of excitement. 205 00:16:44,955.1 --> 00:17:05,265.1 It is, it is a fear based excitement, but it still is an excitement, and that's one thing I wanted to like bring into that is that there was some excitement around this, but it doesn't have to be bad, you know, it doesn't have to be scary, like we, and you know, we, we should talk about what, what happened and what had been happening without us, you know, acknowledging it before. 206 00:17:05,265.1 --> 00:17:13,470.1 So yeah, I went over to your house and we talked, and we hung out for Way way longer than I thought than I thought. 207 00:17:13,470.1 --> 00:17:13,730.1 Yeah. 208 00:17:13,730.1 --> 00:17:20,0.1 No, we we you like had some errands to do I was like i'll come with like there was so much electricity in that car. 209 00:17:20,10.1 --> 00:17:25,10.1 Like yeah Palpable little sparks because we weren't also I wasn't gonna do anything yet. 210 00:17:25,20.099 --> 00:17:27,780.1 Like we We were going really slow with it. 211 00:17:28,170.099 --> 00:17:36,800.099 And I remember asking you I was like, what do you what do you want to do? Do you remember what you said? Yeah I said, I don't know but i'll follow you anywhere. 212 00:17:37,120.099 --> 00:17:49,660.099 Yeah Yeah, and now we're here Yeah And then yeah, we kind of stuck around a little bit for a little bit We had to. 213 00:17:49,660.199 --> 00:17:52,450.099 It was, yeah, it wasn't great. 214 00:17:52,510.099 --> 00:17:54,340.099 I would never have met you any other way. 215 00:17:54,580.099 --> 00:17:59,100.099 No, but, but we, we did come clean shortly after. 216 00:17:59,330.099 --> 00:17:59,720.099 Yeah. 217 00:17:59,760.099 --> 00:18:00,910.099 Big explosion. 218 00:18:00,980.099 --> 00:18:03,580.098 Big, big fallout, which was okay. 219 00:18:03,590.099 --> 00:18:06,190.099 I mean, you, I didn't want anything else. 220 00:18:06,670.099 --> 00:18:07,900.099 I was willing to give up everything. 221 00:18:08,180.099 --> 00:18:09,10.099 Felt awful. 222 00:18:09,40.099 --> 00:18:14,840.099 Like this was his community for, for eight years and it's taken us two years to rebuild a community. 223 00:18:14,860.098 --> 00:18:20,650.098 It has been a, it's a hard thing to do if anybody knows like community building and friendship is, is hard when you're an adult. 224 00:18:21,440.098 --> 00:18:21,790.098 Yeah. 225 00:18:22,630.099 --> 00:18:23,40.099 Yeah. 226 00:18:23,180.099 --> 00:18:29,680.099 But we yeah, once we, once we were together and I mean, we started spending every day with each other. 227 00:18:30,200.099 --> 00:18:45,810.099 We One of my favorite questions you ever asked me was what do you think about marriage? And I was like, I don't know like I don't really care for it all that much Like I just want to be with somebody and I don't need you know paper ceremony all of that Well, we were both engaged. 228 00:18:45,880.098 --> 00:18:53,170.099 Yeah, we had both really toxic engagements like neither of us wanted to do that again Yeah, yeah, and you were like, yeah, I feel the same way. 229 00:18:53,470.099 --> 00:18:54,40.099 I was like cool. 230 00:18:54,40.099 --> 00:19:15,450.099 Let's get married then so like yeah, I would say within I don't even know like it was weeks of actually being together like when we were like, okay, we are together now like four weeks Yeah together like we started planning a wedding It was like I don't know if any of you have a breeding kink But like the idea of breeding somebody turns somebody on so much. 231 00:19:15,450.099 --> 00:19:22,540.099 That's how marriage was for us It was just like yeah, we couldn't get enough of the idea of spending the rest of our lives together. 232 00:19:22,640.099 --> 00:19:23,40.099 Yeah. 233 00:19:23,150.099 --> 00:19:23,400.099 Yeah. 234 00:19:23,400.099 --> 00:19:32,850.099 Yeah, and then Of course, all while that, like, we, you know, were deciding to get married extremely quickly, we started having just incredible sex. 235 00:19:33,300.099 --> 00:19:48,620.099 Like the best sex we had both had in our entire lives like like explored things So quickly talked about things so quickly like I think the second time we had sex you were like, how do you feel about anal? I was like, I misinterpreted it as you were asking me. 236 00:19:48,620.099 --> 00:19:50,480.098 I was like finally somebody's gonna play with my butt. 237 00:19:50,960.098 --> 00:19:57,685.099 Oh, man I've wanted to do pegging for so long and and then you're like, oh I was like, Oh, Oh, you, you want me to, Oh yeah, it's cool. 238 00:19:57,975.099 --> 00:19:59,5.099 Like I'll do that too. 239 00:19:59,5.099 --> 00:20:12,765.099 And just like, we opened that door so quickly and just like started really like diving into our fantasies and, and just that, I don't know, that was something that I, I know I never had. 240 00:20:12,765.099 --> 00:20:21,955.098 And you never had either was just that unashamed nonjudgmental, like just, you know, tell me, yeah, let's do it. 241 00:20:21,955.099 --> 00:20:22,565.099 Let's try it. 242 00:20:22,565.099 --> 00:20:29,335.099 I mean, If it's not me that'll try it, we'll get someone to try it with you or whatever it is. 243 00:20:29,335.099 --> 00:20:38,365.099 But like, we are completely invested in each other's, like, curiosity, pleasure, whatever that looks like. 244 00:20:38,365.099 --> 00:20:48,945.099 And that, that was like, immediate, like, once we were decided to be together and we were intimate Yeah, we just like our sex life was Unmatched. 245 00:20:49,175.099 --> 00:20:51,95.099 Yeah, we we asked each other what toys we had. 246 00:20:51,95.099 --> 00:20:56,95.099 We brought them into play like he taught me how to use them on him I showed him how to use them on me. 247 00:20:56,355.099 --> 00:21:01,365.099 Yeah, we had a threesome The same day we got engaged. 248 00:21:01,395.098 --> 00:21:07,535.099 Yep We we started exploring group play pretty early on like we knew we wanted with it. 249 00:21:07,585.099 --> 00:21:08,770.099 We started Talked about boundaries. 250 00:21:08,770.099 --> 00:21:11,560.099 We talked and our boundaries changed pretty quickly. 251 00:21:11,990.099 --> 00:21:17,240.099 I think our only boundary that we have with group play is that we don't sleep in the same bed because it's impossible. 252 00:21:17,400.099 --> 00:21:17,810.099 Oh yeah. 253 00:21:17,870.099 --> 00:21:20,490.098 Like we've tried man and we just tried last week. 254 00:21:20,550.099 --> 00:21:20,990.099 Keep trying. 255 00:21:20,990.199 --> 00:21:24,80.099 Because you want to say no to these cute girls. 256 00:21:24,80.099 --> 00:21:25,620.098 They want to cuddle and I'm like, I can't. 257 00:21:25,640.099 --> 00:21:27,640.099 But I also don't mind like sleeping alone on the couch. 258 00:21:27,640.099 --> 00:21:28,640.099 Like I'm happy with you. 259 00:21:28,640.099 --> 00:21:30,360.099 And that's the thing is I'm happy if he wants to sleep there. 260 00:21:30,360.099 --> 00:21:30,649.999 We just don't. 261 00:21:31,180.099 --> 00:21:32,350.099 Cannot sleep three in a bed. 262 00:21:32,570.099 --> 00:21:33,100.099 No. 263 00:21:33,370.099 --> 00:21:43,330.099 And yeah, that, I guess that is something too, with that, like opening, blowing those doors off, like, you know, when we talked about being together and, you know, getting married or whatever. 264 00:21:43,730.098 --> 00:21:49,120.098 We also talked about not wanting to like limit each other's experiences with other people. 265 00:21:49,530.098 --> 00:21:51,120.098 And that was a huge thing. 266 00:21:51,120.098 --> 00:21:54,190.098 Like we knew we were non monogamous immediately. 267 00:21:54,390.098 --> 00:21:58,180.098 Like that is something that, that was also day one. 268 00:21:59,50.098 --> 00:22:04,980.098 I used to think something was wrong with me because I always had thoughts of like being with other people when I was in these relationships. 269 00:22:04,980.098 --> 00:22:09,140.098 And like, I was always broken, but it's just human nature. 270 00:22:09,150.098 --> 00:22:13,240.097 Like we have attraction, we have these desires, like it's fun to flirt. 271 00:22:13,240.098 --> 00:22:15,20.097 It's fun to be attracted to people. 272 00:22:15,220.097 --> 00:22:34,615.097 And it's really cool to have a partner to be like, She's super cute and he's like, yeah, or he's super cute and he's like, yeah, like you don't even need to act on it But sometimes the idea Of just the fantasy behind it is really nice rather than just being attacked and shamed for having these thoughts Yeah, and then you don't have a safe space to have any thoughts Yeah. 273 00:22:34,665.097 --> 00:22:34,895.097 Yeah. 274 00:22:34,895.098 --> 00:22:42,955.098 No, it's it's it's really cool it's really cool and then so I think like I don't know. 275 00:22:42,955.098 --> 00:22:48,0.098 That was probably like December to like, let's say March, something like that. 276 00:22:48,0.098 --> 00:22:54,860.098 And then I don't know exactly, like people ask us all the time, like, when did you decide to start OnlyFans? And I have no clue. 277 00:22:55,40.098 --> 00:22:57,170.098 Like, I don't remember. 278 00:22:57,200.097 --> 00:22:59,790.098 Our relationship is just like this muddled mess of love. 279 00:23:00,240.098 --> 00:23:00,810.098 Yeah. 280 00:23:00,840.097 --> 00:23:11,310.098 I mean, we got married in the summer of 2022 and we got approved on a Fansly a few weeks before that. 281 00:23:11,340.098 --> 00:23:13,790.098 So we had started, we had obviously talked about it. 282 00:23:13,790.098 --> 00:23:16,630.098 So I always, I think like April or May. 283 00:23:17,80.098 --> 00:23:26,420.099 Yeah, I think we got started on Fansly in May and then finally got approved for OnlyFans cause it took forever to get verified the day before our wedding or day before our elopement. 284 00:23:26,620.099 --> 00:23:27,100.099 Yeah. 285 00:23:27,130.098 --> 00:23:38,170.098 And, but like when we decided to do it, I think we were just like, talking, you know about sex, you know, when we were doing, we were still exploring all these things. 286 00:23:38,170.098 --> 00:23:47,170.097 And one of the things that came up was like, have you ever recorded your sex? And I had never had the opportunity to do that or very limited opportunity. 287 00:23:47,470.098 --> 00:23:49,170.097 I didn't trust anybody enough to do something. 288 00:23:49,300.098 --> 00:23:50,30.097 Yeah, of course. 289 00:23:50,30.097 --> 00:23:50,300.097 Yeah. 290 00:23:50,610.097 --> 00:23:50,890.097 Yeah. 291 00:23:50,920.097 --> 00:23:54,860.097 And there's no emotional blackmail is a scary thing. 292 00:23:55,90.097 --> 00:23:55,470.097 Yeah. 293 00:23:55,470.197 --> 00:23:56,570.098 It's a very common thing. 294 00:23:56,570.098 --> 00:23:56,810.098 Yeah. 295 00:23:56,810.098 --> 00:23:57,270.098 There are. 296 00:23:57,310.098 --> 00:23:57,900.098 There are. 297 00:23:58,555.098 --> 00:24:11,715.098 Revenge porn loss for a reason, unfortunately, but that was something we talked about and then I had also seen someone that had done OnlyFans and she had mentioned that like, she, you know, made a couple thousand dollars. 298 00:24:11,715.098 --> 00:24:12,885.098 And I was like, that sounds cool. 299 00:24:12,895.097 --> 00:24:14,325.098 Like we have great sex. 300 00:24:14,715.098 --> 00:24:16,295.098 You're all about passive income. 301 00:24:16,705.098 --> 00:24:17,255.098 Yeah. 302 00:24:17,745.098 --> 00:24:18,65.098 Yeah. 303 00:24:18,815.097 --> 00:24:20,835.098 A little here and there, here and there, here and there. 304 00:24:20,835.098 --> 00:24:21,755.098 So I was like, that'd be cool. 305 00:24:21,755.098 --> 00:24:22,905.098 Like travel money, whatever. 306 00:24:22,905.098 --> 00:24:24,15.098 Like we have kinky sex. 307 00:24:24,295.098 --> 00:24:25,525.098 I've never recorded it. 308 00:24:25,525.098 --> 00:24:31,105.098 It'd be fun to, you know, have our little porn stash when we're, Asexual 90 year olds. 309 00:24:31,115.098 --> 00:24:47,775.097 Yeah, like ours now we have like YouTube's worth but and I think so that's how we decided to do it And then we just put up a camera neither of us had any experience actually doing this our first our first two Sex tapes are awful. 310 00:24:47,815.098 --> 00:25:00,945.098 Like they are there's something we look back on but I had like this cheetah bedding with this green velvet comforter and this orange like it was a Transcription by CastingWords Cleopatra got his bed, but it was so ugly on camera. 311 00:25:00,945.098 --> 00:25:08,35.0975 It looked awful, but we started and you gotta start somewhere and we learned how to market. 312 00:25:08,35.0975 --> 00:25:09,965.097 He has a little bit of background in marketing. 313 00:25:09,965.097 --> 00:25:11,415.097 That's what he did before this. 314 00:25:12,355.096 --> 00:25:17,255.097 And I had no experience in even taking a picture of myself, but we learned. 315 00:25:17,525.097 --> 00:25:17,895.097 Yeah. 316 00:25:17,935.097 --> 00:25:18,155.097 Yeah. 317 00:25:18,155.097 --> 00:25:30,880.097 And we just, it was actually crazy timing too, because I think the week after we got back from our elopement and we had, you know, actually started doing OnlyFans, I was laid off. 318 00:25:31,590.097 --> 00:25:39,990.097 So I, like, immediately this was now something that, you know, would help supplement our income. 319 00:25:40,0.097 --> 00:25:43,870.097 I think it ended up taking me like 11 weeks to get another job. 320 00:25:43,880.097 --> 00:25:49,620.097 And luckily for us, like we did We did make enough to like bridge that gap. 321 00:25:50,20.097 --> 00:25:51,450.097 But you were still working full time. 322 00:25:51,450.097 --> 00:25:51,670.097 Yeah. 323 00:25:51,670.097 --> 00:25:52,630.097 You were still working full time. 324 00:25:52,630.197 --> 00:25:53,849.997 Yeah. 325 00:25:53,850.097 --> 00:25:54,160.096 I, yeah. 326 00:25:54,160.097 --> 00:26:08,540.097 I didn't end up getting unemployment until like right after I like got a new job, which was, was weird, but, but but yeah, we started, you know, we started marketing on Reddit and you know, our income grew and it was able to fill that gap until I got another job. 327 00:26:08,850.097 --> 00:26:12,145.097 I think that was like, what, September? 22. 328 00:26:12,455.097 --> 00:26:17,675.097 And then we just kind of kept doing it on the side and it just kind of kept growing. 329 00:26:17,675.097 --> 00:26:21,505.096 We had our first collab in October with another couple. 330 00:26:22,75.096 --> 00:26:23,775.095 And also our first foursome ever. 331 00:26:23,785.096 --> 00:26:24,75.096 Yeah. 332 00:26:24,75.096 --> 00:26:24,975.095 First foursome. 333 00:26:24,985.096 --> 00:26:27,255.0955 Like that was a super wild experience. 334 00:26:27,255.0955 --> 00:26:28,445.095 We learned a lot from that experience. 335 00:26:29,425.096 --> 00:26:29,555.096 Yeah. 336 00:26:29,555.096 --> 00:26:31,725.096 We'll talk about it sometime in depth. 337 00:26:31,975.096 --> 00:26:34,95.096 Yeah, we learned a lot about that, but that's the really cool thing. 338 00:26:34,215.096 --> 00:26:37,555.096 A lot of our firsts are also recorded and on camera. 339 00:26:37,555.096 --> 00:26:43,65.095 So not only do we have that, but we can share that with other people who are also trying to explore these things for the first time. 340 00:26:43,315.096 --> 00:26:45,5.096 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 341 00:26:45,35.096 --> 00:26:46,155.096 But we started on Reddit. 342 00:26:46,195.096 --> 00:26:47,755.096 I had no experience with Reddit at all. 343 00:26:47,755.096 --> 00:26:48,915.096 I never used Reddit. 344 00:26:48,955.096 --> 00:26:52,565.096 He used Reddit for porn in the past, but never as a creator. 345 00:26:52,775.096 --> 00:26:55,495.096 Reddit was my, my porn, my private porn stash. 346 00:26:55,495.096 --> 00:27:01,565.096 And Well, I finally got on the other side of it and I was like, Oh, this is how you like actually gain traction on Reddit. 347 00:27:01,615.096 --> 00:27:10,435.096 So yeah, yeah, that was our primary promotion channel pretty much up until I would say March of the following year. 348 00:27:10,455.096 --> 00:27:11,555.096 March of 23. 349 00:27:11,565.096 --> 00:27:11,955.096 So yeah. 350 00:27:12,215.095 --> 00:27:13,265.096 After I quit my job. 351 00:27:13,335.096 --> 00:27:13,715.0955 Yeah. 352 00:27:13,715.0955 --> 00:27:17,235.096 But that whole time we were both working full time. 353 00:27:17,235.096 --> 00:27:22,365.096 We were filming when we could mostly doing just Reddit and OnlyFans just kept going. 354 00:27:22,365.096 --> 00:27:22,425.096 So yeah. 355 00:27:22,425.096 --> 00:27:22,434.996 Yeah. 356 00:27:23,185.096 --> 00:27:32,125.096 It, it just kept growing and growing and I, I would say, when was it, it was about February of 23, 23. 357 00:27:32,315.096 --> 00:27:43,745.096 We were both unhappy in our industries and our, in our specific companies for a while, and it, we, we hit that point in February where we were like, I'm gonna jump, I'm gonna do it. 358 00:27:43,745.096 --> 00:27:46,205.096 Well, it didn't make sense for me to stay at my job anymore. 359 00:27:46,235.096 --> 00:27:46,295.096 Yeah. 360 00:27:46,295.096 --> 00:27:47,165.096 Like, it's terrifying. 361 00:27:47,165.096 --> 00:27:50,795.096 It was absolutely the, the scariest thing professionally that I've ever done. 362 00:27:51,440.096 --> 00:27:55,380.096 Was to make this leap but I mean working full time. 363 00:27:55,440.096 --> 00:28:12,695.096 I was I was barely making any money each month And I was exhausted and I was still also trying to full time content create And we finally had a month that I made more In a what is a day a week I think it was more, we made more in one day than your two week paycheck was. 364 00:28:12,715.096 --> 00:28:15,515.096 And that's when I was like, we have to figure out what this is. 365 00:28:15,585.096 --> 00:28:19,85.095 It may not last forever, but I need to focus on this. 366 00:28:19,145.095 --> 00:28:20,555.096 Well, and you were also capped out. 367 00:28:20,555.196 --> 00:28:21,165.096 It was capped. 368 00:28:21,165.096 --> 00:28:23,315.0955 And I also was not getting the bonuses I was supposed to be getting. 369 00:28:23,315.0955 --> 00:28:25,325.097 Like just corporate hoops, man. 370 00:28:25,765.096 --> 00:28:26,65.096 Yep. 371 00:28:26,475.095 --> 00:28:27,695.096 So you jumped. 372 00:28:28,570.096 --> 00:28:30,340.096 In February of 23. 373 00:28:30,380.096 --> 00:28:33,170.096 And then I was just like, I had it too good. 374 00:28:33,170.096 --> 00:28:37,940.0955 Like, I think I'm safe saying it now, but I was working a full time job and I had a contract, a full time contract. 375 00:28:37,940.0955 --> 00:28:42,140.095 So I was like double dipping and just making an obscene amount of money a month. 376 00:28:42,410.096 --> 00:28:43,230.095 Plus healthcare. 377 00:28:43,770.096 --> 00:28:48,10.096 Was sitting around fucking off for a little bit, sitting around fucking off, like, holy shit. 378 00:28:48,220.096 --> 00:28:48,890.096 It was great. 379 00:28:48,980.096 --> 00:28:50,700.096 But it was also boring. 380 00:28:50,940.096 --> 00:28:51,710.096 Like that's the thing. 381 00:28:51,710.096 --> 00:28:56,380.095 And I'm sure a lot of people that have worked from home, I worked from home for seven years. 382 00:28:56,380.095 --> 00:29:00,30.094 Like I had been in, in the shit way before COVID happened. 383 00:29:00,280.094 --> 00:29:07,245.1555 And when you're in a certain organizations that you can just kind of hide in, there's Sure, it's great. 384 00:29:07,255.1555 --> 00:29:11,745.1555 You're, you're making money for doing little, but you're, you're also, one, waiting to get fired. 385 00:29:11,745.1555 --> 00:29:12,765.1555 You're like, somebody's got to know. 386 00:29:13,165.1555 --> 00:29:16,285.1555 And two, you're just like, I'm not really doing anything. 387 00:29:16,305.1555 --> 00:29:17,735.1555 And it doesn't matter how much you pay me. 388 00:29:17,735.1555 --> 00:29:19,955.1555 Like I, I have to be near this computer all day. 389 00:29:19,955.1555 --> 00:29:21,485.1555 Like I am still stuck with you. 390 00:29:21,935.1545 --> 00:29:35,885.154 So yeah, I continued to do that until Mid April because our, again, our income just continued to grow, especially as you were able to focus on Oh man, I was like making TikToks in the kitchen of this super small apartment. 391 00:29:35,885.154 --> 00:29:36,115.1535 Yeah. 392 00:29:36,460.1545 --> 00:29:38,280.1545 Trying to figure out how to TikTok. 393 00:29:38,300.1545 --> 00:29:40,520.1545 I avoided this app my entire life. 394 00:29:40,910.1545 --> 00:29:42,850.1545 And now here I am dancing in the kitchen. 395 00:29:43,130.1545 --> 00:29:44,320.1545 And the neighbors can see. 396 00:29:44,420.1545 --> 00:29:45,80.1545 And it worked. 397 00:29:45,130.1545 --> 00:29:45,990.1545 Oh, and it worked. 398 00:29:45,990.1545 --> 00:29:46,740.1535 It worked. 399 00:29:46,740.1545 --> 00:29:47,610.1535 It was ridiculous. 400 00:29:47,620.1545 --> 00:29:50,790.1545 I remember wearing like a superhero cape with your wrestling singlet. 401 00:29:50,820.1545 --> 00:29:51,230.1545 Oh, yeah. 402 00:29:51,240.1545 --> 00:29:52,680.1535 Whipping around a dildo. 403 00:29:52,970.1545 --> 00:29:53,510.1545 Yeah. 404 00:29:53,570.1535 --> 00:29:54,680.1535 Captain Peggy, like. 405 00:29:54,690.1545 --> 00:29:55,360.1545 Yeah. 406 00:29:55,500.1545 --> 00:29:55,880.1545 Yeah. 407 00:29:55,950.1545 --> 00:29:56,920.1545 But, but. 408 00:29:57,135.1545 --> 00:30:01,115.1545 Yeah, once you were able to focus on it, it made a difference. 409 00:30:01,465.1545 --> 00:30:03,815.1545 And I was, yeah, I was still not available. 410 00:30:03,835.1545 --> 00:30:05,575.1545 Also, you had a lot more free time too. 411 00:30:05,575.1545 --> 00:30:06,775.1545 You were like, Hey, let's go have fun. 412 00:30:06,775.1545 --> 00:30:12,310.1545 And I'm like, computer people, I'm going to go, I guess, but, Yeah, it hit the point. 413 00:30:12,310.1545 --> 00:30:18,100.1545 It did, it did hit that point in early April where I was like, it's not even worth it. 414 00:30:18,100.1545 --> 00:30:26,910.1545 And if I can help too, we can just keep this going and it can, and it, we can live a way more fun and free life and yeah, it's scary as hell. 415 00:30:26,915.1545 --> 00:30:31,590.1545 But I remember sitting on the couch with you and you say you were never gonna do it. 416 00:30:31,710.1545 --> 00:30:32,70.1545 Couldn't. 417 00:30:32,130.1545 --> 00:30:32,310.1545 Yeah. 418 00:30:32,310.1545 --> 00:30:32,970.1545 You're like, couldn't do it. 419 00:30:32,970.1545 --> 00:30:34,230.1545 I will never make the move to. 420 00:30:35,480.1545 --> 00:30:36,480.1545 Create content full time. 421 00:30:36,850.1545 --> 00:30:38,760.1545 No, it's too scary, too unpredictable. 422 00:30:38,760.2545 --> 00:30:43,40.1545 Yeah, I remember you saying never and then within months you were like, alright. 423 00:30:43,410.1545 --> 00:30:44,680.1545 Yeah, I think give it a go. 424 00:30:44,750.1545 --> 00:31:10,930.1555 I think it was literally like I like it's been over a year now So two weeks ago, I think was like a year of me quitting my my full time job and I was in And I was in corporate america for 10 years, yeah, so yeah, it was a big big shift but Yeah, and then after that it was just off to the races like sunny and sky figuring out how to make a business out of this. 425 00:31:11,380.1555 --> 00:31:19,260.1555 Make a business like neither of us knew how to start everything like we didn't know what an LLC was or an S Corp or a C Corp or how to do our taxes like this. 426 00:31:19,440.1555 --> 00:31:19,850.1555 Yeah. 427 00:31:20,260.1555 --> 00:31:21,990.0555 Like we knew none of this stuff. 428 00:31:21,990.1555 --> 00:31:22,470.1555 Yeah. 429 00:31:22,610.1565 --> 00:31:22,940.1565 Yeah. 430 00:31:23,260.1555 --> 00:31:25,30.1555 I worked in health care for 12 years. 431 00:31:25,110.1555 --> 00:31:25,490.1555 Yeah. 432 00:31:25,720.1555 --> 00:31:25,980.1555 Yeah. 433 00:31:26,270.1555 --> 00:31:29,140.1555 And we, we started to like really build this community. 434 00:31:29,160.1555 --> 00:31:48,380.1555 Like we were able to focus on not just doing the things that like one brought us revenue and enabled, you know, a certain lifestyle, but like, we really were able to hone in on like what this was to us, like we always had the foundation of it, but we were able to really like, you know, we got like logos, we, we worked on messaging. 435 00:31:48,390.1555 --> 00:31:54,160.1555 Like we, we really were able to, to own this and to let people be a part of that. 436 00:31:54,200.1545 --> 00:31:54,920.1555 You know, like. 437 00:31:55,775.1555 --> 00:31:59,695.1555 Our fans and our friends online guide a lot of what we do. 438 00:31:59,705.1555 --> 00:32:01,945.1555 Like, you know, we're very collaborative. 439 00:32:01,995.1555 --> 00:32:02,385.1555 Yeah. 440 00:32:02,405.1555 --> 00:32:09,825.1555 We don't like, that is a thing like you'll hear fans and subscribers and stuff when it like refers to only fans, but we call everybody friends. 441 00:32:09,835.1545 --> 00:32:11,655.155 Like we're your kinky friends. 442 00:32:11,655.155 --> 00:32:12,905.155 You're our kinky friends. 443 00:32:12,905.155 --> 00:32:15,465.1555 Like we wouldn't be here without you guys. 444 00:32:15,935.1555 --> 00:32:18,55.1555 We also wouldn't have a podcast without you guys. 445 00:32:18,55.1555 --> 00:32:23,765.1555 Like this was so requested from our friends online that we finally made this step. 446 00:32:23,975.1555 --> 00:32:24,335.1555 Yeah. 447 00:32:25,545.1555 --> 00:32:25,865.1555 I don't know. 448 00:32:25,865.1555 --> 00:32:33,245.1555 It turned into obviously a hobby, but I'm the type of person that I needed it to be something that I was passionate about. 449 00:32:33,245.1555 --> 00:32:34,595.155 It was something that I needed to learn. 450 00:32:34,595.155 --> 00:32:35,835.1555 It's something I needed to grow in. 451 00:32:36,235.1555 --> 00:32:41,305.1555 And as somebody who worked as an ICU animal nurse for 12 years. 452 00:32:41,970.1555 --> 00:32:44,130.1555 It's literally bringing animals back from the dead. 453 00:32:44,130.1555 --> 00:32:47,480.1555 Like I needed to take care of, of people in a different way. 454 00:32:47,770.1555 --> 00:32:50,880.1545 It's, it's selfishly something that I, I need. 455 00:32:50,880.1555 --> 00:32:58,330.1555 The little helper in me needs to feel like she has a purpose at times and, and can also help people in any way she can, whether that's healthy or not. 456 00:32:58,330.1555 --> 00:33:00,640.1545 We're working on that with therapy, but. 457 00:33:01,0.1555 --> 00:33:13,0.1555 I, I always, I just saw this whole of, of this need of this conversation of bringing these topics up into the public eye, not to normalize kinks, kinksters. 458 00:33:13,20.1555 --> 00:33:17,610.1555 We don't want things normalized, but we want the conversation around it to be de stigmatized. 459 00:33:17,970.1545 --> 00:33:27,680.1555 We want little less shame when it comes to things maybe not even labeling things at times when they don't feel appropriate, but just starting the conversation and. 460 00:33:28,370.1555 --> 00:33:33,970.1555 having self awareness around it and just being a safe space for, for anybody and everybody. 461 00:33:34,270.1555 --> 00:33:38,190.1555 We've had friends on our, our OnlyFans now that we talk to every single day. 462 00:33:38,530.1555 --> 00:33:40,420.1555 I could tell you so much about these people. 463 00:33:40,600.1555 --> 00:33:42,120.1545 They send me pictures of their meals. 464 00:33:42,370.1555 --> 00:33:44,50.155 They tell me about their lives. 465 00:33:44,50.155 --> 00:33:45,810.1545 Like I get to hear about their traumas. 466 00:33:46,110.1545 --> 00:33:47,320.1545 People will come in. 467 00:33:47,850.1555 --> 00:34:26,610.1555 and send me book long message basically that they've never been able to tell anybody else and I can't tell you how grateful I am to be that space for people and how honored I am and how truly cherished I feel with that gift and like the responsibility I put on myself to also Give care to those people and to make sure that I'm being the best resource I can or find them the best resource Yeah, no, it's it's really cool because we we do share so much about ourselves and even more so with this like I Again, this is something that people have asked for like anytime we've gone live, you know They're like we just like hearing you hang out and talk and it was cool. 468 00:34:26,610.1555 --> 00:34:27,30.1555 Thank you. 469 00:34:27,60.1555 --> 00:34:27,420.1555 Yeah. 470 00:34:27,420.1555 --> 00:34:27,940.1555 Thanks. 471 00:34:28,40.1555 --> 00:34:35,210.1555 So yeah Yeah, but We do share so much that people come in and they're, they, they know us and they want us to know them. 472 00:34:35,590.1555 --> 00:34:40,230.1555 You know, they, they, they see us literally, you know, naked. 473 00:34:40,295.1555 --> 00:34:44,280.1555 They see my holes all over you Like, if that's not an icebreaker, I don't know what is. 474 00:34:44,280.1555 --> 00:34:44,730.1555 Yeah. 475 00:34:44,760.1555 --> 00:34:54,60.1555 So, so they, they, they feel so comfortable coming in and just saying, you know, I've, I've seen you be as vulnerable as you possibly could be in every single way. 476 00:34:54,60.1555 --> 00:35:00,0.1555 Whether it's silly tiktoks or serious educational talks or, you know. 477 00:35:00,210.1555 --> 00:35:05,200.1555 Intimate porn, they, they, they see it all and they're in there. 478 00:35:05,330.1555 --> 00:35:07,10.1555 It kind of opens them up as well. 479 00:35:07,20.1555 --> 00:35:08,720.1555 And that's, that's really, really cool. 480 00:35:08,720.1555 --> 00:35:15,30.1555 So, yeah, we are just hoping that this podcast does that even more, you know, does just show more of us. 481 00:35:15,40.1545 --> 00:35:28,140.1555 Like, yeah, we, we, we do different content types and this is just another type to, to help you see Sunny and Sky and who we are and what we're about. 482 00:35:29,520.1555 --> 00:35:32,300.1555 So, yeah, I think. 483 00:35:32,820.1555 --> 00:35:42,235.1555 And the reason we're calling it aftercare is that is like Part of our foundation, like aftercare is something I honestly didn't even really know. 484 00:35:42,325.1555 --> 00:35:43,945.1555 I was doing it all. 485 00:35:43,945.1555 --> 00:35:44,240.1555 Do you, okay. 486 00:35:44,245.1555 --> 00:35:46,435.1555 Do you wanna explain what aftercare is? Most people don't even know what aftercare is. 487 00:35:46,435.1555 --> 00:35:46,975.1555 Yeah. 488 00:35:47,215.1555 --> 00:35:47,455.1555 Yeah. 489 00:35:47,455.1555 --> 00:35:51,935.1555 So aftercare is the time after intimacy. 490 00:35:52,95.1555 --> 00:35:59,275.1555 Usually it is the time after, you're kind of all done, whether that's an orgasm or not, you know, sex doesn't have to be girl oriented. 491 00:35:59,275.1555 --> 00:36:02,865.1555 It's more just like, okay, we're, we're, we're, we're done doing the things. 492 00:36:03,385.1555 --> 00:36:10,905.155 And but, but you don't want to get up like after care is, is the time where you still be with each other in that space. 493 00:36:10,905.155 --> 00:36:27,715.1555 You share that intimate space and you, you take care of each other in whatever way You need, whether that's cuddling, whether that's words of affirmation, whether that's food, water, whether that's a blanket, whether that's touch or, or whether that is. 494 00:36:28,115.1555 --> 00:36:50,575.1565 Some separate time as well, you know that that is a form of aftercare, but it's all around giving each other What that person needs after you've had your form of intimacy, especially after times of intense intimacy especially when you have more intense scenes like impact or Power play or just different dynamics that you you can't leave a vacuum after something like that. 495 00:36:50,585.1565 --> 00:36:53,745.2565 So that At least I think is my understanding of aftercare. 496 00:36:53,745.2565 --> 00:36:54,675.2565 I don't know if you want to add anything. 497 00:36:54,675.2565 --> 00:36:55,685.2565 I think that's perfect. 498 00:36:55,685.2565 --> 00:37:08,780.2565 Yeah Yeah, and everybody defines aftercare differently and I think that can be broken down in your negotiation But it is important to ask your partner What do you need right now? What can I give you? And just not break that energy yet. 499 00:37:08,780.2565 --> 00:37:12,740.2565 We're so used to getting up and throwing somebody a towel or getting up and going pee. 500 00:37:12,740.2565 --> 00:37:13,750.256 So we don't get a UTI. 501 00:37:13,750.256 --> 00:37:14,870.2565 And I'm not saying lay there. 502 00:37:14,870.2565 --> 00:37:16,400.2565 So you get a urinary tract infection. 503 00:37:16,680.2565 --> 00:37:21,890.2555 I'm just saying maybe sit for five minutes and just think each other and hold each other and kiss each other. 504 00:37:21,890.2565 --> 00:37:25,190.1565 And we even debrief, we talk about what we liked, what we didn't like. 505 00:37:25,460.2565 --> 00:37:38,460.2565 Not sometimes what we didn't like if it was like a weird new position that we tried We high five each other like there's a lot of encouragement and love that goes into it That I think is missed and I've never had aftercare before Sunny. 506 00:37:38,670.2565 --> 00:37:46,830.2565 Yeah, and we check in That's one thing is like obviously if things happen in the moment, you know, we stop and we're like, okay, is everything okay? Okay, go back. 507 00:37:46,950.2565 --> 00:37:53,820.2565 But then that is also another time especially for me to recheck in and say hey Like I, I, I still do remember this. 508 00:37:53,820.2565 --> 00:37:56,300.2565 I didn't breeze past it just to continue. 509 00:37:56,600.2565 --> 00:38:05,750.2565 Like I want to talk about that thing specifically and, and make sure that it's addressed fully and, and we can know what to do with it, not to do with it, things like that. 510 00:38:05,760.2565 --> 00:38:13,150.2565 So I think it's a good time to like, you know, kind of recount, you know, we like to Yeah, our debriefing, you know, almost watching the play tapes. 511 00:38:13,150.2565 --> 00:38:22,530.2555 Obviously we have play tapes now, but if you're not recording, you know, there are still things that if you bring up while you remember it it can be really helpful for your next times. 512 00:38:22,540.2565 --> 00:38:27,420.2575 So yeah, like you said, and like I mentioned to you, I didn't realize I was doing aftercare for so long. 513 00:38:27,610.2575 --> 00:38:28,850.2575 It's not something I looked at. 514 00:38:28,850.2575 --> 00:38:31,20.2575 It's not something I paid attention to. 515 00:38:31,20.2575 --> 00:38:32,170.2575 It was just something I did. 516 00:38:32,505.2575 --> 00:38:42,615.2575 It was just, it was, you know, I, I was always like getting someone like a warm towel or honestly, my thing is to like, not move. 517 00:38:42,795.2575 --> 00:38:45,95.2575 Like when we're done, I, I stay inside. 518 00:38:45,95.2575 --> 00:38:45,345.2575 Yeah. 519 00:38:45,345.2575 --> 00:38:46,45.2575 I stay inside. 520 00:38:46,45.2575 --> 00:38:49,845.2565 I've had, I've had two women actually be like, what is this? This is wonderful. 521 00:38:50,265.2565 --> 00:38:52,45.1575 What are you doing right now? Do you see what he's doing? I like it. 522 00:38:52,45.2575 --> 00:38:52,795.2575 Like last week. 523 00:38:53,465.2575 --> 00:38:55,865.2575 And it's just something, I'm like, I'm not ready to, I'm not done. 524 00:38:55,905.2575 --> 00:38:59,495.2565 Like, like I'm done, but like, I'm not, we're, we're not fully done yet. 525 00:38:59,845.2575 --> 00:39:01,955.2575 Like we are still, you know, in a heightened state. 526 00:39:01,965.2575 --> 00:39:03,465.2575 Yeah, like I'm together. 527 00:39:03,485.2575 --> 00:39:18,395.2565 Yeah, I need to catch my breath, too No, but in their group plate, it's something that we also really do try to incorporate all the time every time We've had a couple of of group experiences when they're done They're just like walk away and they're done and it's like no no, no come back here. 528 00:39:18,425.2575 --> 00:39:41,500.2575 Like This isn't how we play and and it's okay if that's how you play But let's just talk about it for a second before you just walk away and after here's a really great way to like talk about things before they ever become triggers or trauma Like if you have a really intense Bondage scene or impact scene and you don't know if that was okay Like that's a time like sunny said to check in and be like Was that okay? How hard I hit you where I hit you. 529 00:39:41,510.2575 --> 00:39:43,650.2575 Like that is where you can learn as a Dom. 530 00:39:43,650.2575 --> 00:39:48,480.2575 That is where you can learn as a sub and understand the power that you both have in that dynamic. 531 00:39:48,760.2575 --> 00:39:49,110.2575 Yeah. 532 00:39:49,250.2565 --> 00:39:49,560.2565 Yeah. 533 00:39:49,590.2575 --> 00:39:59,50.2575 So because it is such a foundational part of us, we decided to name our podcast after care and we're not always going to. 534 00:39:59,420.2575 --> 00:40:02,910.2575 Do our podcasts like after we have sex or anything. 535 00:40:02,910.2575 --> 00:40:04,80.2575 Didn't have, yeah, we didn't have sex. 536 00:40:04,950.2575 --> 00:40:05,640.2575 It would be fun. 537 00:40:05,670.2575 --> 00:40:10,800.2575 It'd be fun to like start a podcast and then cut it and then come back all disheveled and finish it up. 538 00:40:11,100.2575 --> 00:40:12,810.2575 So maybe, maybe, but, but yeah. 539 00:40:12,870.2575 --> 00:40:22,800.2575 No, we, we just thought that aftercare was a really fitting name, not only with who we are, but just what we, what we preach around communication, around sex. 540 00:40:23,130.2575 --> 00:40:23,190.2575 Yeah. 541 00:40:23,190.2575 --> 00:40:24,720.2575 And for these intimate conversations. 542 00:40:24,735.3575 --> 00:40:26,525.1575 Yeah. 543 00:40:26,785.2575 --> 00:40:26,885.2575 Great. 544 00:40:26,885.2575 --> 00:40:28,115.2575 We have about 12 minutes. 545 00:40:28,115.2575 --> 00:40:36,15.2565 You want to talk about what we've been, where, where did we just go? So yeah, a part of this podcast and it'll probably, I think at the beginning, the format's going to change. 546 00:40:36,15.2575 --> 00:40:36,695.2575 We don't know what we're doing. 547 00:40:37,25.2575 --> 00:40:44,945.1575 But I think a great way to start the podcast, we're going to wrap it up this way because you need to know all of what we just told you, apparently you're still there. 548 00:40:45,165.1575 --> 00:40:45,329.9575 Yeah. 549 00:40:46,270.0575 --> 00:40:48,770.0575 We don't know how often we're going to record this. 550 00:40:48,770.0575 --> 00:40:50,830.0575 We would like to do every two weeks, but we have no idea. 551 00:40:51,90.0575 --> 00:40:55,480.0565 But we always just want to catch you up with what we've been up to. 552 00:40:55,660.0565 --> 00:40:57,310.0575 You know, what we've got going on. 553 00:40:57,640.0575 --> 00:41:00,680.0575 And, and just kind of, yeah, get, get you up to speed. 554 00:41:00,750.0575 --> 00:41:04,480.0575 And what we've done, where we're going since we last chatted. 555 00:41:04,660.0575 --> 00:41:06,480.0565 So we're going to do that now. 556 00:41:06,780.0575 --> 00:41:11,980.0585 And we just got back from Costa Rica last Saturday. 557 00:41:12,180.0575 --> 00:41:19,720.0585 So like five days ago, six days ago, what is time? And we went on our first like creator house tour. 558 00:41:20,925.0585 --> 00:41:35,365.0575 It was the, the first experience we've had where we got graciously invited by the Naked Bakers to go to Costa Rica and join a bunch of people from their community and just explore a really rad place. 559 00:41:35,365.0575 --> 00:41:40,465.0585 Like Costa Rica is, is someplace I've always heard about and we love the tropics. 560 00:41:40,575.0585 --> 00:41:41,165.0585 We do. 561 00:41:41,195.0585 --> 00:41:41,705.0585 Yeah. 562 00:41:41,715.0585 --> 00:41:43,135.0585 We really do want to live on a beach. 563 00:41:43,155.0585 --> 00:41:43,875.0585 We like beach. 564 00:41:43,925.0585 --> 00:41:44,695.0585 But not Florida. 565 00:41:46,155.0585 --> 00:41:46,645.0585 Or Texas. 566 00:41:48,755.0585 --> 00:41:51,755.0585 But we yeah, so we were just in Costa Rica for five days. 567 00:41:51,945.0585 --> 00:41:53,942.5585 It was just Amazing people. 568 00:41:53,972.5585 --> 00:42:03,812.5585 What a, like just a wonderful group of people, very chill, like just riding four wheelers around the jungle and seeing the most amazing sunsets I've ever seen. 569 00:42:03,812.5585 --> 00:42:04,952.5575 And I grew up in Florida. 570 00:42:05,302.5575 --> 00:42:09,302.5575 Like it was just such a, such an incredible place with wonderful people. 571 00:42:09,302.5575 --> 00:42:10,962.5585 So we were there for five days. 572 00:42:11,492.5585 --> 00:42:12,872.5585 I got to ride four wheelers naked. 573 00:42:12,952.5585 --> 00:42:13,532.5585 Yeah. 574 00:42:13,542.5585 --> 00:42:14,922.5585 Like Wyoming redneck girl. 575 00:42:14,922.5585 --> 00:42:16,232.5585 I mean, it was so psyched on the beach. 576 00:42:16,782.5585 --> 00:42:19,732.5585 Like just cookies on the beach. 577 00:42:19,762.5585 --> 00:42:25,952.5585 Yeah, just play in the waves and, and yeah, we took some, some super beautiful pictures. 578 00:42:25,982.5575 --> 00:42:31,632.5575 That is, that is something that I'm, I'm really enjoying with the cameras that we have now. 579 00:42:31,632.5575 --> 00:42:33,732.4585 And yeah, we just spent a lot of time just. 580 00:42:34,482.5585 --> 00:42:36,642.5585 I don't know just doing whatever we wanted hanging out. 581 00:42:36,702.5585 --> 00:42:38,622.5585 Yeah, we like to hang out together. 582 00:42:38,702.5585 --> 00:42:41,312.5585 Yeah, we do She's snoring. 583 00:42:41,402.5585 --> 00:42:48,102.5575 She is Yeah, so we went to costa rica five days there and then Wednesday of next week. 584 00:42:48,132.5565 --> 00:42:51,532.5575 We are actually going to joshua tree for a birthday party. 585 00:42:51,592.5575 --> 00:42:52,362.5575 Yeah, it is. 586 00:42:52,402.5575 --> 00:42:56,402.5575 Ben's birthday from piper and ben piper quinn Wonderful human. 587 00:42:56,402.5575 --> 00:42:57,292.5575 I love her so much. 588 00:42:57,292.6575 --> 00:42:59,377.0241667 I have a little crush on her. 589 00:42:59,377.0241667 --> 00:42:59,674.7908333 Piper. 590 00:42:59,674.7908333 --> 00:42:59,972.5575 Piper. 591 00:42:59,972.5575 --> 00:43:02,834.7908333 And Tabby No Name is also going to be there. 592 00:43:03,74.7908333 --> 00:43:03,294.7908333 Yep. 593 00:43:03,364.7908333 --> 00:43:07,524.7908333 So excited to connect with them and build a stronger, stronger friendship. 594 00:43:07,624.7908333 --> 00:43:09,754.7898333 I don't think we're going to collab, which I think is really cool. 595 00:43:09,754.7908333 --> 00:43:11,244.7898333 We're just going to hang out as friends. 596 00:43:11,274.7908333 --> 00:43:11,704.7908333 Yeah. 597 00:43:11,784.7898333 --> 00:43:12,4.7898333 Yeah. 598 00:43:12,4.7908333 --> 00:43:14,544.7898333 We're just going to go get weird in the desert. 599 00:43:14,724.7898333 --> 00:43:18,874.7898333 Maybe take some pictures and fly around my new drone that's like coming. 600 00:43:19,54.7898333 --> 00:43:19,924.7908333 Is it at the door? I don't know. 601 00:43:20,854.7908333 --> 00:43:22,434.7898333 But yeah, again, just to. 602 00:43:22,924.7898333 --> 00:43:23,224.7898333 I don't know. 603 00:43:23,224.7898333 --> 00:43:48,114.7898333 It's really cool to like, we, we started this on our own and we have like built a community of, of like minded people that, you know, do this in some capacities, sometimes not even full time, but still, you know, Share our values and are just just want to do fun stuff with so yeah community is cool. 604 00:43:48,284.7898333 --> 00:43:51,814.7898333 Yeah community is cool So yeah, we're doing that next week. 605 00:43:51,814.7898333 --> 00:43:55,24.7898333 And I think that's really it. 606 00:43:55,24.7898333 --> 00:43:55,964.7898333 I think I hope that's it. 607 00:43:56,74.7898333 --> 00:44:04,994.7898333 We're tired Yeah, I'm not gonna complain that we just went to Costa Rica That's our tree, but we're ready to be home with these little chicken nuggets and yeah and hang out with you guys. 608 00:44:05,104.7898333 --> 00:44:09,994.7898333 So Yeah, is there anything else you want to talk about? 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