Ep 7: Psychological Growth in Parenthood with Lisa Marchiano

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In this conversation, Alexindadland and Lisa Marchiano explore the intricate relationship between Jungian psychology and motherhood. They discuss the importance of meaning in life, the process of individuation, and the psychological development that occurs throughout one's life. The conversation delves into the challenges of parenting, the significance of fairy tales and archetypes, and the emotional complexities that arise in the journey of motherhood. They also touch on themes of loss, sacrifice, and the shadow aspects of parenting, emphasizing the need for resilience and the role of transcendence in the parenting experience.

Takeaways

Jung's ideas provide a framework for understanding psychological development. Individuation is a lifelong process of becoming who we are meant to be. Meaning is essential for psychological well-being. Motherhood can bring both fulfillment and loss. Fairy tales reflect universal psychological truths. The shadow represents aspects of ourselves we deny or reject. Parenting can project our own unresolved issues onto our children. Rage and anger are natural emotions that need to be expressed. Dads play a crucial role in teaching resilience to children. Transcendence can be found in the experience of parenting.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating the Transition to Adulthood 02:48 New Chapter 03:52 Understanding Jung and Individuation 08:44 The Role of Meaning in Midlife 12:16 The Importance of Myth and Fairy Tales 19:07 The Descent into the Well: A Feminine Journey 26:23 Sacrifice and Loss in Parenthood 34:49 The Neurobiological Basis of Caregiving 35:38 Understanding the Shadow Self 37:28 Projection of Shadow onto Children 38:14 The Complexity of Anger in Parenting 40:49 The Role of Fathers in Child Development 43:25 Navigating Gender Expectations in Parenting 46:14 The Importance of Balance in Parenting Styles 49:40 Individuation and the Role of Challenges 53:22 Transcendence Through Parenting

Keywords

Jung, individuation, motherhood, parenting, meaning, shadow, fairy tales, emotional expression, archetypes, psychological development

 

Sound Bites

"The unlived life of the parent." "Kids need to learn resilience." "Don't let that become your god."