Let’s be real: you’re the hyper-independent girlie who gets ish DONE. You’ve got the degree, the business, the receipts. But when it comes to relationships? Your anxious attachment is quietly (or not so quietly) throwing hands in the background. 😅
In this episode, I’m diving deep into what I call the "Don’t need anyone but kinda wish they’d text me first" energy — aka the sneaky link between anxious attachment and hyper-independence. Because yes, you can be both!
If you've ever said: ➤ “I can just do it myself”, “I don’t need anyone”... but secretly want someone to show up for you... 👀 bb, this episode is for you.
We’re talking: ✨ The blind spots that keep you stuck in ‘strong girl’ mode:
✨ Self-sabotage in love (and how to spot it)
✨ The trap of over-functioning — in relationships AND at work
✨ Why needing support is not a weakness
✨ And how to stop masking vulnerability with perfectionism
Plus, I’m sharing a few real, raw stories (including the one where I got applauded for leaving my plate out?? Yes. You’ll get it when you hear it.) 👑 Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or single but spiraling, this episode is a mirror. And it’s time to stop choosing patterns that don’t serve the secure, healthy love you actually want.
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