STOP DOING ALL THE WORK IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP 😤 (Why You’re Exhausted & How to Fix It) Ever feel like you’re carrying the whole damn relationship on your back? Planning the dates, making space in your schedule, keeping the energy going—while he just... coasts? Yeah, I see you, and this episode is for you.
Today, we’re breaking down why high-achieving, type-A women (hi, that’s you👋) often fall into the pattern of over-functioning in relationships—and what to do about it. Because relationships aren’t meant to feel like a group project where you’re doing all the work while your partner barely puts in effort. We’re talking about:
✨ Why doing less in your relationship actually makes it stronger
✨ How your anxious attachment + overachiever mindset keep you stuck
✨ The sneaky ways you might be self-sabotaging your relationship
✨ How to lean back, stop overextending, and let THEM step up 👀
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